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What happened to Alan White?

A gay man heads to the gym and never comes back. Was it a hook up gone wrong?

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by Anonymousreply 44May 15, 2023 12:32 AM

Seriously doubt a hook up that early. More likely he attracted bad attention by his expensive car.

by Anonymousreply 1November 5, 2021 9:34 PM

Poor Alan. A whole year has gone by, and we’re no closer now to figuring out what happened. Did Randy keep the $2M from the sale of the house?

by Anonymousreply 2November 5, 2021 9:37 PM

"Seriously doubt a hook up that early."

Not necessarily. His daily life was scheduled down to the second. It seemed like the early mornings were the only time he would've had to himself to do something like that.

by Anonymousreply 3November 5, 2021 9:40 PM

Alan.Allen Ludden. Betty White. Alan White. Coincidence? I don't think so.

by Anonymousreply 4November 5, 2021 9:51 PM

He was the only surviving cast member of The Boys In The Band.

by Anonymousreply 5November 5, 2021 10:10 PM

How many random threads on this are there going to be?

by Anonymousreply 6November 5, 2021 10:21 PM

[quote]Seriously doubt a hook up that early.

Written by someone who has never used a sex app, I'm guessing. It's a busy time for stop-&-go fucks and blowjobs en route to or from gym or work.

by Anonymousreply 7November 5, 2021 11:12 PM

He looks the age that gay men start taking sordid risks to get laid.

by Anonymousreply 8November 5, 2021 11:18 PM

Sweetie, Alan Ludden didn't take Betty White's name. I should know!

by Anonymousreply 9November 6, 2021 2:52 AM

When you are that age ( I am a generational partner) you take these opportunities when they present themselves! However, safety is definitely a concern and there are certain protocols you should follow

Never travel ( unless it is to a hotel, not a motel in a sketchy area) and not never late at night

It's better to host, and to have some sort of obvious video surveillance equipment like a Ring doorbell

If you are asked if you live alone say no you have a family member that is at work right now

Good Idea to have a firearm, accessible and in a concealed place and know how to use it and take classes ( sorry gun control queens )

Try to get a cell number, use a background check website to verify.

Find a non-judgmental friend whom you can inform of the pending tryst and pre-arrange a time to do a welfare call once you complete the encounter

by Anonymousreply 10November 6, 2021 3:11 AM

This guy’s life was so basic and boring I stopped reading the Reddit post after two paragraphs. The gym! The husband! The job with KPMG! The breeder niece’s wedding! Maybe he ran off with a Mexican but I doubt he’s that interesting. More likely the allure of strange wang in his hands got him offed.

by Anonymousreply 11November 6, 2021 4:24 AM

This is why gyms should allow men to hook up in steam rooms. It’s the safest place.

by Anonymousreply 12November 6, 2021 1:54 PM

Thats a rough 55

by Anonymousreply 13November 6, 2021 5:40 PM

R10 has good advice for anyone hooking up, at any age.

by Anonymousreply 14November 6, 2021 6:42 PM

LE doesn't seem to give a shit about even investigating this. Is it because he was gay?

by Anonymousreply 15November 6, 2021 8:38 PM

I wonder if the family hired a private investigator?

by Anonymousreply 16November 6, 2021 10:05 PM

This is gas station and church's chicken

"Gas prices are displayed at a RaceTrac gas station at the intersection of Maple Avenue and Inwood Road, on Tuesday, March 8, 2022, in Dallas, Texas. The average cost of regular gasoline in the state is pushing closer to $4 a gallon. The national average on Tuesday hit a record high of $4.17 a gallon."

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by Anonymousreply 17March 10, 2022 1:04 PM

That is why it's ALWAYS best to go to a bathhouse. No one knows where you live nor anything else about you plus if the sex becomes awkward ( he gives lousy blowjobs) you just tell said person- I want to take a break. It's AWKWARD if said person is at your place.

by Anonymousreply 18March 10, 2022 1:10 PM

Well, Alan's body was found last May, so he didn't just run off with a twink, but the case seems to have gone cold. I don't get the impression Dallas PD cares much about this.

by Anonymousreply 19March 10, 2022 1:12 PM

Suicide

by Anonymousreply 20March 10, 2022 1:20 PM

I'm taking notes on this for a possible limited series.

by Anonymousreply 21March 10, 2022 1:25 PM

Any updates ? The Chicago hotel mystery is fizzling out, the Atlanta park lesbo murder is going nowhere. You DL sleuths are mighty disappointing. Stop resting on your Soft Butch Sous-Chef laurels.

by Anonymousreply 22April 6, 2022 3:24 AM

Jesus R10 to go through all that for a 20 second orgasm. Sounds like a colossal waste of time.

by Anonymousreply 23April 6, 2022 3:35 AM

Did they ever release the autopsy results? Any updates from the Dallas PD?

by Anonymousreply 24April 14, 2022 1:43 AM

[quote] This is why gyms should allow men to hook up in steam rooms. It’s the safest place.

No, the floors get too slippery

by Anonymousreply 25April 20, 2022 2:55 AM

KPMG holds the answer

by Anonymousreply 26April 20, 2022 3:12 AM

Oh, I remember this thread, I bailed when some dipshit who didn't know even one thing about the case wrote "Suicide" as a complete sentence and WWed himself.

That's pretty much all DL is these days.

by Anonymousreply 27April 20, 2022 3:24 AM

Did they ever solve this true life crime mystery, or give any updates? What did Randy do with all that money?

by Anonymousreply 28August 20, 2022 2:46 AM

Poor guy. He has a friendly face.

by Anonymousreply 29August 20, 2022 2:48 AM

Was this a robbery gone very wrong? I can't remember if anything such as money was taken from him. Honestly, I have always believed that the poor guy was just in the wrong place at the wrong time. He seemed like such a good, kind person. This is such a sad and frustrating case because it wasn't investigated as it should have been. The police allowed his murder to go unsolved because the victim was a gay man, imho. I find that both infuriating and depressing. He deserves justice.

by Anonymousreply 30August 20, 2022 3:06 AM

They will never solve this. Randy has moved on.

by Anonymousreply 31August 20, 2022 3:43 AM

This is probably a dumb question but were the investigators able to get any DNA from the car or had it been cleaned?

by Anonymousreply 32August 20, 2022 4:07 AM

R32- I will have to Google this case again because I have forgotten or they never released any information, who I do remember very little information being released because imo the police did not pursue leads because they really didn't seem to gaf about finding out what happened to him. Jmo.

by Anonymousreply 33August 20, 2022 6:20 AM

R33 This is so sad! Alan sounded like a great guy and very family-oriented.

by Anonymousreply 34August 20, 2022 4:42 PM

There was a young woman who disappeared from the same area as Alan within a week or two of his disappearance. It was linked to a Texas newspaper article someone posted in a previous Alan White thread. Wonder if she was ever found?

by Anonymousreply 35August 20, 2022 4:46 PM

Texas seems like the place where they check your political affiliation first. If a Republican, white, straight, they’ll investigate. If Democrat, they’ll let it be a cold case.

by Anonymousreply 36August 20, 2022 11:48 PM

R28 $$$ Twinks?

by Anonymousreply 37September 4, 2022 4:43 AM

Bump. It’s almost two years now.

by Anonymousreply 38September 4, 2022 11:42 AM

r31 It’s Rusty and he has moved on.

by Anonymousreply 39September 4, 2022 11:09 PM

This was the last photo of him (after LA Fitness and at the gas station).

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by Anonymousreply 40September 4, 2022 11:12 PM

R39 Rusty goes as Randy now, didntyaknow?

by Anonymousreply 41September 5, 2022 1:24 AM

R41 From bad to worse.

by Anonymousreply 42September 6, 2022 1:06 AM

This is the latest update. Alan's brother is in the video story, but not Rusty. I guess that Rusty is not interested in finding his husband's killer anymore.

Seems strange that Rusty did not participate in this story. I can't imagine any other spouse not doing everything they could to find closure and justice.

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by Anonymousreply 43May 13, 2023 7:20 PM

Sad. Hope the killer is found, and the family can find peace.

by Anonymousreply 44May 15, 2023 12:32 AM
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