A gay man heads to the gym and never comes back. Was it a hook up gone wrong?
Seriously doubt a hook up that early. More likely he attracted bad attention by his expensive car.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | November 5, 2021 9:34 PM |
Poor Alan. A whole year has gone by, and we’re no closer now to figuring out what happened. Did Randy keep the $2M from the sale of the house?
by Anonymous | reply 2 | November 5, 2021 9:37 PM |
"Seriously doubt a hook up that early."
Not necessarily. His daily life was scheduled down to the second. It seemed like the early mornings were the only time he would've had to himself to do something like that.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | November 5, 2021 9:40 PM |
Alan.Allen Ludden. Betty White. Alan White. Coincidence? I don't think so.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | November 5, 2021 9:51 PM |
He was the only surviving cast member of The Boys In The Band.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | November 5, 2021 10:10 PM |
How many random threads on this are there going to be?
by Anonymous | reply 6 | November 5, 2021 10:21 PM |
[quote]Seriously doubt a hook up that early.
Written by someone who has never used a sex app, I'm guessing. It's a busy time for stop-&-go fucks and blowjobs en route to or from gym or work.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | November 5, 2021 11:12 PM |
He looks the age that gay men start taking sordid risks to get laid.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | November 5, 2021 11:18 PM |
Sweetie, Alan Ludden didn't take Betty White's name. I should know!
by Anonymous | reply 9 | November 6, 2021 2:52 AM |
When you are that age ( I am a generational partner) you take these opportunities when they present themselves! However, safety is definitely a concern and there are certain protocols you should follow
Never travel ( unless it is to a hotel, not a motel in a sketchy area) and not never late at night
It's better to host, and to have some sort of obvious video surveillance equipment like a Ring doorbell
If you are asked if you live alone say no you have a family member that is at work right now
Good Idea to have a firearm, accessible and in a concealed place and know how to use it and take classes ( sorry gun control queens )
Try to get a cell number, use a background check website to verify.
Find a non-judgmental friend whom you can inform of the pending tryst and pre-arrange a time to do a welfare call once you complete the encounter
by Anonymous | reply 10 | November 6, 2021 3:11 AM |
This guy’s life was so basic and boring I stopped reading the Reddit post after two paragraphs. The gym! The husband! The job with KPMG! The breeder niece’s wedding! Maybe he ran off with a Mexican but I doubt he’s that interesting. More likely the allure of strange wang in his hands got him offed.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | November 6, 2021 4:24 AM |
This is why gyms should allow men to hook up in steam rooms. It’s the safest place.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | November 6, 2021 1:54 PM |
Thats a rough 55
by Anonymous | reply 13 | November 6, 2021 5:40 PM |
R10 has good advice for anyone hooking up, at any age.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | November 6, 2021 6:42 PM |
LE doesn't seem to give a shit about even investigating this. Is it because he was gay?
by Anonymous | reply 15 | November 6, 2021 8:38 PM |
I wonder if the family hired a private investigator?
by Anonymous | reply 16 | November 6, 2021 10:05 PM |
This is gas station and church's chicken
"Gas prices are displayed at a RaceTrac gas station at the intersection of Maple Avenue and Inwood Road, on Tuesday, March 8, 2022, in Dallas, Texas. The average cost of regular gasoline in the state is pushing closer to $4 a gallon. The national average on Tuesday hit a record high of $4.17 a gallon."
by Anonymous | reply 17 | March 10, 2022 1:04 PM |
That is why it's ALWAYS best to go to a bathhouse. No one knows where you live nor anything else about you plus if the sex becomes awkward ( he gives lousy blowjobs) you just tell said person- I want to take a break. It's AWKWARD if said person is at your place.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | March 10, 2022 1:10 PM |
Well, Alan's body was found last May, so he didn't just run off with a twink, but the case seems to have gone cold. I don't get the impression Dallas PD cares much about this.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | March 10, 2022 1:12 PM |
Suicide
by Anonymous | reply 20 | March 10, 2022 1:20 PM |
I'm taking notes on this for a possible limited series.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | March 10, 2022 1:25 PM |
Any updates ? The Chicago hotel mystery is fizzling out, the Atlanta park lesbo murder is going nowhere. You DL sleuths are mighty disappointing. Stop resting on your Soft Butch Sous-Chef laurels.
by Anonymous | reply 22 | April 6, 2022 3:24 AM |
Jesus R10 to go through all that for a 20 second orgasm. Sounds like a colossal waste of time.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | April 6, 2022 3:35 AM |
Did they ever release the autopsy results? Any updates from the Dallas PD?
by Anonymous | reply 24 | April 14, 2022 1:43 AM |
[quote] This is why gyms should allow men to hook up in steam rooms. It’s the safest place.
No, the floors get too slippery
by Anonymous | reply 25 | April 20, 2022 2:55 AM |
KPMG holds the answer
by Anonymous | reply 26 | April 20, 2022 3:12 AM |
Oh, I remember this thread, I bailed when some dipshit who didn't know even one thing about the case wrote "Suicide" as a complete sentence and WWed himself.
That's pretty much all DL is these days.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | April 20, 2022 3:24 AM |
Did they ever solve this true life crime mystery, or give any updates? What did Randy do with all that money?
by Anonymous | reply 28 | August 20, 2022 2:46 AM |
Poor guy. He has a friendly face.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | August 20, 2022 2:48 AM |
Was this a robbery gone very wrong? I can't remember if anything such as money was taken from him. Honestly, I have always believed that the poor guy was just in the wrong place at the wrong time. He seemed like such a good, kind person. This is such a sad and frustrating case because it wasn't investigated as it should have been. The police allowed his murder to go unsolved because the victim was a gay man, imho. I find that both infuriating and depressing. He deserves justice.
by Anonymous | reply 30 | August 20, 2022 3:06 AM |
They will never solve this. Randy has moved on.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | August 20, 2022 3:43 AM |
This is probably a dumb question but were the investigators able to get any DNA from the car or had it been cleaned?
by Anonymous | reply 32 | August 20, 2022 4:07 AM |
R32- I will have to Google this case again because I have forgotten or they never released any information, who I do remember very little information being released because imo the police did not pursue leads because they really didn't seem to gaf about finding out what happened to him. Jmo.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | August 20, 2022 6:20 AM |
R33 This is so sad! Alan sounded like a great guy and very family-oriented.
by Anonymous | reply 34 | August 20, 2022 4:42 PM |
There was a young woman who disappeared from the same area as Alan within a week or two of his disappearance. It was linked to a Texas newspaper article someone posted in a previous Alan White thread. Wonder if she was ever found?
by Anonymous | reply 35 | August 20, 2022 4:46 PM |
Texas seems like the place where they check your political affiliation first. If a Republican, white, straight, they’ll investigate. If Democrat, they’ll let it be a cold case.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | August 20, 2022 11:48 PM |
R28 $$$ Twinks?
by Anonymous | reply 37 | September 4, 2022 4:43 AM |
Bump. It’s almost two years now.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | September 4, 2022 11:42 AM |
r31 It’s Rusty and he has moved on.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | September 4, 2022 11:09 PM |
This was the last photo of him (after LA Fitness and at the gas station).
by Anonymous | reply 40 | September 4, 2022 11:12 PM |
R39 Rusty goes as Randy now, didntyaknow?
by Anonymous | reply 41 | September 5, 2022 1:24 AM |
R41 From bad to worse.
by Anonymous | reply 42 | September 6, 2022 1:06 AM |
This is the latest update. Alan's brother is in the video story, but not Rusty. I guess that Rusty is not interested in finding his husband's killer anymore.
Seems strange that Rusty did not participate in this story. I can't imagine any other spouse not doing everything they could to find closure and justice.
by Anonymous | reply 43 | May 13, 2023 7:20 PM |
Sad. Hope the killer is found, and the family can find peace.
by Anonymous | reply 44 | May 15, 2023 12:32 AM |