Straight men like anal sex

Of course, it's a whole, and tighter and with more friction than a vagina.

Just another example of suppressed straight guys desiring homosex. Just because sex with women is more ‘socially acceptable’ to them!

Thank you R1 for your eloquence.

Come on now. Men will fuck ripe fruit if necessary. We’re pigs and you all know it.

Some males enjoy anal sex, some don’t. This goes for both straight and gay men.

Some males like anal sex. Some don’t. This goes for both straight and gay.

I’ve seen straight men brag about this. Paulie from Big Brother bragged that Zakiyah let him fuck her anally.

My straight barber who hooks up with women on Tinder loves anal. I’ve had to explain to him the importance of using sufficent lube is he ever wants a repeat session with the same woman.

Are you kidding? For straight men it's like The Holy Grail. They don't view it as gay or anything. Now if we're talking about being the bottom, with the woman as the top with toys or fingers, that's another thing.

You sound like a retard talking to yourself as you figure out the world.

Most top/vers men, gay, straight or bi love anal.

It’s painful for women and rips your anus up

That's fine as long as they take it up the ass too. Straight men are totally pornified. I feel sorry for straight women.

Its the same for women and men. It could be painful or not, don't be stupid. If you use a lube and you're not a promiscuous whore, you'll reach seniority with your butthole intact.

Neither of those things is true, R1. The vagina is tighter overall: it's snug throughout its entire depth because it's more closely surrounded by bands of muscle from the pelvic floor. The anus is much tighter at the sphincter than the vaginal opening but is looser than a vagina inside. The vagina also has more friction because it contains light ridges throughout compared to the soft texture of a rectum.

Part of the appeal for anal for straight men is that it's still taboo. It also gives them more of a power trip from dominating a woman because women usually aren't that into it because it doesn't feel that great for them. It's painful compared to vaginal and doesn't provide any indirect stimulation of the clitoris the way vaginal does.

Oh great. Another thread about straight people habits. Why would anyone here care about this?

R11 Some women love it. I personally have no real interest in it. Might try it's some I am really into and knows what he's doing, but doubtful.

Also, I don't think it hurts women any more than men.

R2 Anal sex isn't gay sex, genius. Both men and women have asses. There's nothing gay about men wanting to fuck women in their butts. You guys are ridiculous.

R14 really? Is that why it was significantly more likely to catch HV from anal than vaginal intercourse?

R17, seriously, it's hilarious that people thnk it's some big secret that guys love anal. As tops anyway./

Straight men have prostate glads too!

Anal is for people with repressed toilet fetishes *flush*

Yes sir, my prostate is very glad sometimes.

No wonder male bi-sexuality is more accepted now. They must think, 'Hey, an ass is an ass'.

R1: [quote]Of course, it's a whole, and tighter and with more friction than a vagina.

Oh, dear. And obviously YOU'RE never been near a post-pregnancy asshole.

An a mouth is a mouth. Ultimately it all really boils down to vagina, "yay or nay", really.

R18, The anus tears more easily than the vagina, creating a direct path to the bloodstream for disease transmission. Vaginas can tear too but are more resilient overall, partially because they self-lubricate (and the longer you fuck one, the wetter it gets).

Tajk it up with the docs, sweethearts

TLDR "The anus is tighter than the vaginal canal, and butt play can be incredibly pleasurable for both parties."=

You're welcome

Another thread about delusional white f@ggots wishing to fuck real man.

One surprising thing in the Kinsey studies - he says 30-40% of men are bisexual. And I noted no mention of pegging a prostate.

R30 He made those researches in male prisons.

And it's only Monday!

R30, reanalysis of Kinsey's data, and later studies by other researchers, failed to replicate Kinsey's original numbers. Kinsey may have been like Freud: revolutionary but capable of many mistakes.

I hate anal sex, and I'm gay.

R34: I used to think i didn't like it either. Until such time as I met someone and my 30 years as a top was demolished in one session. Of course inadvertently got interested in toys which lead to it.

Oh R29 ,if I had a nickle for every "straight" man that fucked me Id buy my own island. Keep telling yourself a real man wont fuck a pretty boy .They just didnt want to fuck YOU.

R36 Those were not straight, but closet cases.

I think straight men like to fuck women in the ass because it is humiliating to the women.

Well, what do you know. On the Croatian forum where I used to hang (it's a liberal site but a lot of right wingers come to troll) straight men hissed repeatdly: you gays (or fags) fuck each other in butt, how gross etc. It was their major objection to gay sex. I thought they were appalled by anal sex, and look at them, they are secretly having it with their poor women.

[quote]It’s painful for women and rips your anus up

Hot!

It's called SHITHOLE for a reason.

EWWWWW

R30 my first assumption was that OP was talking about pegging🤣

That’s what I’d rather do. A pretty straight or bi boy looks so cute gasping in amazement while getting hit in the prostrate for the first time with a strap😏

Personally I’ve never had a dick back there myself, and while I’m not totally averse or grossed out like a princess, I’m not eager to try it either (only two girls I know who’ve tried it ended up bleeding..not hot) What’s the point anyway, when we have a pussy made for purpose?

It's whores' birth control...

The clitoris is the Devil's doorbell...

R42 Exactly, your boyfriend wound enjoy it more than you.

R38 Why would it be humiliating to women? Is it also humiliating to gay/bi men that take it up the butt?

R46 See R11. BTW, women have TWO holes down there. Choosing the other hole obviously has a thrill for straight guys. Anyway, penetration is often considered humiliating in general that’s why they say ‘He got fucked’ etc.

R11 If it's painful for women and rips their anuses up (it doesn't), how is it not painful to men and rip their anuses up? There's no difference between a male and a female anus. And don't women have a higher pain threshold than men?

R38 Tell me you are a radfem without telling me you're a rad fem.

R49 Look it up.

I find no appeal in pegging. I am weirdly oldfashioned and parochial when it comes to straight sex. I like to be taken. End off. Being the receptive partner holds no real appeal either BUT with the right partner with whom I might have great intimacy with I might at least try it. My sister who is much more straight laced than I am, told me she loved it.

R50 ‘Anal is like having sex with a virgin’???

when I say I choked🤣🤣

R46, straight people have very weird attitudes towards anal sex, and do, in fact, think it’s degrading. It’s the basis of a lot of homophobia.

R42

[quote] A pretty straight or bi boy looks so cute gasping in amazement while getting hit in the prostrate for the first time with a strap

Oh Dear Lord in Heaven Make Them Go Away.

R53 As a straight female I do not see why it would be more or less degrading for a woman than a man.

i love testing men by saying weird shit to see if they’re about it.

amazing how so many see nothing wrong with torture rape trafficking and murder (even indirectly via porn) but when you bring up certain sexual acts in person they get scandalised

Who was scandalized on this thread?

It can be degrading for a woman because in some instances it's about the man pushing the woman's boundaries, he wants to see what he can get her to do. It's not about her pleasure, or even his. I've had a guy ask for anal and when I declined he started asking if he could piss on me.

They don't want the woman to get pregnant.

R58 that is on the guy though, its not the act itself.

“The difficult brown” is what we call it back home.

Your credentials, OP?

OP: Thanks for letting us know, Official Spokesman for All Straight Men!

It’s not inherently degrading (as 90% of this site knows). But there are idiot straight men out there who think it’s hot because it’s something the woman doesn’t really want to do, so it makes them feel powerful to get it. (These types of guys have a similar attitude about BJs.) There are plenty of straight women out there who don’t care about that attitude and will do what they want, when they want. But I admit I get neurotic about the whole power struggle side of sex between straight men and women…anxious about whether in his head, the guy enjoys disrespecting me in some way…

Menz love my lady poosie.

I luv it! I charge double!

[quote] If it's painful for women and rips their anuses up (it doesn't), how is it not painful to men and rip their anuses up?

The difference is that the prostate makes anal a source of direct sexual stimulation. No prostate, no orgasm.

Wow, there are a lot of clueless people in here. I’m pretty sure your gender and sexuality have no bearing on your potential interest in buttholes, including your own. Of course straight guys like anal - giving AND receiving. So do straight girls. So do lesbians. Our brains are designed to like it. Anyone who doesn’t like it is repressed.

R67, anal does feel good for women. Google it.

R37, most people are bi to some degree. It is absolutely possible to get a guy who is more or less straight to do gay stuff with you.

LOL at R7 whose only knowledge of straight guys was apparently gleaned from Big Brother

R68, anal does feel good for plenty of women but that doesn't negate the claims R67 made.

Anal is not a direct source of sexual stimulation because it does not stimulate the internal or external clitoral structure. Some women still enjoy the indirect stimulation of anal.

And it is also true that it isn't likely to result in an orgasm for a woman. Vaginal sex doesn't result in orgasm for at least 80% of women despite direct stimulation of the internal legs of the clitoris. The vast majority of orgasms require direct stimulation of the external glans of the clit instead. The likelihood of orgasm drops even further with anal because stimulation of the internal clitoris is somewhat deadened by two other layers of tissue (the posterior vaginal wall and the rectum).

[quote] despite direct stimulation of the internal legs of the clitoris

Clitorises have legs?!?!

R69 how many guys are cumming without touching their cock at all?

R67 Anus has nothing to do with a prostate. If it's painful for women, it is painful for men as well. We all have same anuses

R68 Most people aren't bi.

This wife of a straight guy I know “rewards” him with anal for special occasions, like his birthday. She tells people this all the time.

R6, 9, 10, and 17 are right. Anal sex is a major form of gay sexual activity but it is not “gay sex.” There are a lot of historical records of heterosexual anal sex. Important to separate sexual activity from a sexual identity.

R73 I agree with you. Kinsey's conclusions were not backed by new studies. People tend to be bi curious when they are very young and exploring, but when they grow up they are mostly mono sexual, except some hypersexuals that would fuck anything with the pulse.

[quote]We all have same anuses

Men's are somewhat larger than women's, just like men are larger than women in general. So, no.

Anal feels good for SOME women. You can't generalize. For a lot of women it's painful and humiliating. Keep in mind most straight men get their ideas about anal from porn, where the performers appear to just shove it in with no prep and no lube and the woman is 'ecstatic'. They don't know any of the practicalities involved like gay men do.

[quote] But there are idiot straight men out there who think it’s hot because it’s something the woman doesn’t really want to do, so it makes them feel powerful to get it.

And there are a lot of those idiot straight men, too. Two decades of exposure to increasingly extreme porn has trained too many straight dudes to get off on women's pain. Just look into how many of them seem to have developed a crying fetish, because so many women in porn tear up as they get choked, etc.

I don’t know. Questions like this always make me question myself because I feel like I’m in sufficiently motivated in any one direction.

I think for straight men it’s like, gay men do it all the time, and even if there is a prostate involved, if the act itself was so displeasurable, why do it? And for women, I think they think look at porn where women also engage in the act quite often, and they figure women in real life are opposed to it not because it may not be pleasurable but because of the stigma attached. Like once you get past the false idea that you’re a slut and a whore for letting a man fuck you anally, you may relax, and actually enjoy it.

Anal sex is even better for gay men when it’s with a man you care about. Being inside of someone you love is deeply intimate and it gives a different context to the act itself. Yes sometimes it’s just about scratching an itch, but that’s not the only reason people have sex.

I remember seeing an amateur video of a couple having anal sex. It was hot because the wife seemed to be a little overwhelmed by the husband fucking her. He wasn’t especially huge or anything, but just him being inside of her seemed to be arousing. He was respectfully dominant in a way that I like for tops to be. At one point she was trying to clutch a pillow and he moved it out of the way and said “you’re gonna take it…if you need to scream then scream”.

R77 is a breath's hair away from shooting Andy Warhol. Or whatever his equivalent would be nowadays.

It's really not that complicated. Some men, gay or straight are into it, some are not. Some women like it, others don't. For whatever the reasons. Some like the way it feels, some the domination aspect, and some hate it for the same reasons. The only real taboo is straight guys as receptive partners but since pegging really super popular with straight woman, I guess they're safe.

Knew a girl in HS who was an extreme anabulimic. It was a girls’ school, so of course Ana/Mia/EDNOS was not an uncommon condition at all, practically commonplace—however, what made this girl different is that she would orally purge AND rectally purge (afaik not at the same time, though). She was a very sad and traumatised case, and clearly very lonely and friendless as she felt it appropriate to reveal this information to me after a short acquaintance (FYI I didn’t ask/didn’t want to know, but she was having a sobbing fit in an empty top-floor corridor at the time, long story).

According to a quick search I ran on PubMed, this phenomenon has been very rarely reported on, and doesn’t seem to be a well-understood purgation method, which is unsurprising as not only is it painful and messy but also somewhat pointless from a physical point of view given that once in the colon fat & calories have already been digested from food matter. My best guess is that the rectal element of this girls’ purging was entirely psychological—she hated herself, wanted to cause herself extra pain and humiliation, inner-voice psychosomatic affirmations like “you’re shit/full of shit” and “eat shit and die”.

So call me a kinkshamer or sex-neg, but as far as women go it doesn’t seem like something generally sexy or desirable or pleasurable to me (and yes, I know, there will be exceptions to that).

Did that girl not know about laxatives? And I still have no clue what that that story of a very disturbed individual has to do with female anal.

The utter troll in this thread bandying about terms like ‘radfem’ as if they’re insults is such a Pick Me.

Get over yourself, hon. You’ll never be ‘one of the boys’—men still deride and hate you as a second-class citizen, as they do all of us for that matter.

I really see no point in man penetrating women anally. Women have perfectly good hole in the front. It would make more sense if a woman fingered her male partner in anus, because he might enjoy it having a prostate.

R64 men have the same concerns....at least I do.

More than once a guy I was into would get horned up and suddenly have this "yeah, you want it don't you fag? Let's see what I can get you to do!" energy or look in his eye. Its a total turnoff. The relationship would end there.

I enjoy sex but I don't enjoy how some people get off on shaming you or using you. As soon as I get that vibe, no matter how "hot" they are, I'm out.

Respectful pleasure giving is hot. Turning me into some story you laugh about with your buddies? No. Fuck off.

R84 I agree with you. Those are all sick and twisted freaks that think sex is about domination and humiliation, instead pleasure. I avoid that type in miles.

And that type of men have big psychological issues and are very insecure in fact.

R84 I get what you mean but I also think it’s a dominant/submissive thing. Sometimes sex is about lovemaking, sometimes it’s about knowing who Daddy is. Maybe not the first time you fall into bed but you know…

I know several girls who were brought up super churchy, and they would do anal only so they could keep their “virginity.” That’s fucked up.

^^Abrahamic monotheism harms, derided and subjugates women. More at 11.

I'm female. I love anal. I orgasm from it.

It's not painful when done correctly, meaning plenty of lube, the guy takes his time and the woman lets herself relax enough to enjoy it. If she tenses up, of course penetration will hurt.

And no, you don't need a prostate to enjoy anal sex. Nor do you need direct clitoral stimulation. There's a hell of a lot of nerve endings in that area.

Like any other sexual activity, it's a matter of what feels good for the individual.

I remember Pamela Anderson saying years ago that she loves anal.

Olivia Munn is into anal too.

@91 link?

R80: Yeah people don't realize how our digestive system works. See food goes into stomach were hydrocloric acid breaks it all down. the next section of the small intestine neutralizes the acid and the remainder of the small intestine is where the main absorption happens. The colon pretty much eliminates the liquid through absorption and compacts the solids so they can be pushed out. That's my paraphrase of how it happens.

R93 Whore

Do ladies know how to properly douche out back of the house?

As a straight lady, I keep it clean & proper.

And?

Given the anus is a sex organ I don't see why people other than gay men wouldn't engage in it.

R100 Women have a pussy that is designed for sex.

R100 Nobody is denying that.

These straight men are so dirty!