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Is a 7-inch dick considered big?

Just curious where the Big category begins.

by Anonymousreply 88October 21, 2021 6:24 PM

8 is where the party 🎉 starts

by Anonymousreply 1October 19, 2021 3:31 PM

Not on Datalounge.

by Anonymousreply 2October 19, 2021 3:32 PM

11 inches or bigger is the only cock I will take

by Anonymousreply 3October 19, 2021 3:32 PM

5” is the standard size according to medical community so over that is considered above average.

by Anonymousreply 4October 19, 2021 3:33 PM

I think a 7 inch beer can would be let past the velvet ropes

by Anonymousreply 5October 19, 2021 3:34 PM

I think 7" is considered...abundant. 8" is the gateway to big.

by Anonymousreply 6October 19, 2021 10:38 PM

7 is very nice and definitely well above average, but calling it big might be a stretch. Unless it's very thick.

by Anonymousreply 7October 20, 2021 12:06 AM

7" is perfectly adequate, dear. People aren't judging you by the size of your dick. It's just fine, if not exactly "big".

by Anonymousreply 8October 20, 2021 12:12 AM

8 is when big starts. 7 is more than adequate however, particularly if thick

by Anonymousreply 9October 20, 2021 12:33 AM

Are we talking bone-pressed measurements?

by Anonymousreply 10October 20, 2021 2:06 AM

More importantly, are we talking about REAL inches - or DL inches???

by Anonymousreply 11October 20, 2021 4:40 AM

The average erect American penis is 5.1 inches.

Yeah, I know you think it's bigger...or should be bigger. It's not.

by Anonymousreply 12October 20, 2021 6:13 AM

5 is a DL 7.

by Anonymousreply 13October 20, 2021 6:50 AM

Do we have a picture of r3's anus? Why yes, here it is:

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by Anonymousreply 14October 20, 2021 7:51 AM

Flaccid is all that matters. Can you create a bulge, VPL and floppage in your pants? Walk with pride in the showers? That's where the power lies.

by Anonymousreply 15October 20, 2021 7:58 AM

7 is acceptable. 8 is where satisfaction begins.

by Anonymousreply 16October 20, 2021 8:34 AM

Well, when you've got two of 'em in you at once, OP, they certainly ain't SMALL! (Also - no poppers, lol!)

by Anonymousreply 17October 20, 2021 9:46 AM

Surprise DP'd? Are you Jack Mackenroth R17?

by Anonymousreply 18October 20, 2021 3:56 PM

Yes, OP.

But porn has fucked up perceptions of what 7 inches actually looks like.

Most gay men look at 7 inches and say, OMG! That's a 9 inch cock!

by Anonymousreply 19October 20, 2021 3:59 PM

Not on Grindr.

by Anonymousreply 20October 20, 2021 4:02 PM

I see the 5.1 inch lobby is weighing in. Go back to your small dick support groups.

by Anonymousreply 21October 20, 2021 4:04 PM

[quote] Not on Grindr.

True. I'm 7.5 and been told by prospects that I'm not big enough for them.

by Anonymousreply 22October 20, 2021 4:05 PM

I think 7 is fine, but as I've gotten older I realize that I like fat dicks. The thicker the better. If I can barely get my hand around it, then you're in.

by Anonymousreply 23October 20, 2021 4:09 PM

Some of you must have a colostomy bag or a very thick diaper.

by Anonymousreply 24October 20, 2021 4:10 PM

Thick is extremely important. I wouldn’t waste my time on a pencil prick.

Even something like 6x6” is impressive. In that case the thickness is everything, and lots of fun.

I’m 7 7/8” long (no, I will not lie and say 8”), and 5.75” around, and in person it’s never been rejected. Even just trading pictures online, guys are always impressed.

But for me personally, 9x6 is the magic measurement.

by Anonymousreply 25October 20, 2021 4:21 PM

By the way, I don’t know where all these 5.1” (and SMALLER!) erect penises are hiding. I’m a total slut, and it’s rare to even come across someone who’s less than 6”.

5.1” erections, supposedly the *average*, mean that there are plenty of American erection that are even smaller. Which is ridiculous. How many 4-5” erections do people really encounter? Are they all hiding in shame? Who ARE these sad creatures?

I’m sorry, but I just don’t believe it, no matter how often DL repeats it.

by Anonymousreply 26October 20, 2021 4:24 PM

I had a 7x7 once and it was glorious.

by Anonymousreply 27October 20, 2021 4:25 PM

R26, I think you need to get an actual ruler and realize that porn has taught you that 8” dicks are really an accurate 5.5-6”.

by Anonymousreply 28October 20, 2021 4:27 PM

I have a very thick cock.

I had a guy I'd fucked around tell a room full of guys at a party that instead of an 8 by 6, I had a 6 by 8. I don't know if he was right but it's also been referred to as a fireplug dick, fire hydrant dick, and bull cock.

I have no idea what most of that's about, but it still works and I think it looks pretty decent. I am proud of the thick knob, which guys seem to love.

by Anonymousreply 29October 20, 2021 4:29 PM

You must have missed the part where I said I’m actual slut, R28.

I know what 8” looks like. My first sexual partner, in high school, had a 9-incher. Since then, I’ve lived in NYC and have sampled hundreds of cocks and compared them to mine. I know what my measurement is, and I have crossed swords with enough 8- and 9-inchers to know what their measurements are. Porn has nothing to do with this.

And I almost never hook up with guys who have less than a 6” boner. It’s rare I even encounter them, but when I do, I pass.

by Anonymousreply 30October 20, 2021 4:31 PM

everyone loves a 2 hander

by Anonymousreply 31October 20, 2021 4:33 PM

Yes, OP. 7"is big.

Average is like 5"-5.5"

by Anonymousreply 32October 20, 2021 4:34 PM

6 inches used to be the standard measurement for what people considered “average” erection size.

Maybe they started polling more Asians and Mexicans at some point, bringing it down to 5.1”— I don’t know. But I’m telling you, if you’re actually promiscuous and come into contact with lots of boners, 5.1” will be well below average.

by Anonymousreply 33October 20, 2021 4:46 PM

Hi R29. Location? Age? Relationship status?

by Anonymousreply 34October 20, 2021 4:47 PM

If I'm topping, I don't give a rat's ass about the size of your dick -- it's all about the beauty of your ass. I'm not going to touch your dick; I'm not going to suck your dick; I'm just going to fuck your ass.

But if I'm bottoming, which is the majority of my sexual activity, you must have at least 7 actual inches to ride this ride. At a bare minimum. Full stop. I really lean toward a floor of 7.5, but sometimes 7 + girth makes up for it. And yes, I require a photo. Petty? Probably. Unfair? Sure. But so is life. I've been turned down by guys because they want a bigger dick than mine. Did I want to fuck them? You bet. Did I get mad about it? Nope. I mean, I get it. When the roles are reversed I'm the same way. (Plus, in addition to size, the cock needs to be aesthetically pleasing. Ugly dicks are a turn-off. But that factor is totally subjective, whereas size is not.)

This of course means that I frequently go without. Fine. I can deal. I've made my bed and I can lie in it. My sexual behavior is less compulsive than most of the guys on the apps; they just seem desperate to fuck, and they'll spend so much time on the apps. I'm in and out. I zero in on my demographic, play the field, seal the deal (or not), and log off. If I'm going without, I just masturbate and go to bed. Better luck next time.

r25, I'm attaching a map to my house. You're welcome to drop by anytime.

by Anonymousreply 35October 20, 2021 4:54 PM

R35's map includes the spaces she's renting in her cavernous asshole for off street parking.

$200 a month for climate controlled parking! Can fit 2 SUV's!

by Anonymousreply 36October 20, 2021 4:56 PM

R35 it’s the house with the wide open 2 car garage

by Anonymousreply 37October 20, 2021 4:58 PM

There was a study done of college students on vacation in Cancun years ago. Most of them were white, some were Latino and black. A nurse measured their erections. The average length of their fully erect penises was 5.8 inches. ANYTHING above that is bigger than average. So OP - A 7 inch penis is WELL above average in size.

by Anonymousreply 38October 20, 2021 5:01 PM

R30 throws her legs behind her head and pulls out her measuring tape.




by Anonymousreply 39October 20, 2021 5:05 PM

That was no study, that was R35 on the hunt for big college cock.

by Anonymousreply 40October 20, 2021 5:05 PM

R39, I’m not a bottom, or a “her”.

by Anonymousreply 41October 20, 2021 5:05 PM

You're all whores, darlin'

by Anonymousreply 42October 20, 2021 5:08 PM

She doth protest too much

by Anonymousreply 43October 20, 2021 5:09 PM

Are these numbers bone-pressed measurements or non? My understanding is that the former is correctly used..

by Anonymousreply 44October 20, 2021 5:14 PM

Am I the only guy here who prefers average thick cocks? Maybe I have a small mouth but I can't handle thick cocks for long for oral. I don't have a lot of experience bottoming but the best time I had was with a guy with 9 inch average thick cock. He hit places no one else had. I need to experience that again.

7 is above average and perfect for me as long as it's not too thick.

by Anonymousreply 45October 20, 2021 5:19 PM

Some of you sound like you would be so boring in bed. So freaking vanilla.

by Anonymousreply 46October 20, 2021 5:21 PM


by Anonymousreply 47October 20, 2021 5:22 PM

Name names, R46, or don’t bother.

by Anonymousreply 48October 20, 2021 5:55 PM

I have found that a standard issue SOFTBALL BAT is best in these matters.

Width is as large as I need and length can be any length I desire.

by Anonymousreply 49October 20, 2021 6:04 PM

I see the sloppy bottom brigade has weighed in. Good luck with the surgery for your prolapsed anus.

by Anonymousreply 50October 20, 2021 7:18 PM

When I bottom, I get more pleasure from girth than length.

by Anonymousreply 51October 20, 2021 7:53 PM

That is a lie R33.

Look at old magazines. 6 was big. I remember Harry Reems posing next to a rule to show he had a 6 inch cock.

As time went on, men began to lie more and more and more. I have 6 and men have told me that 'it must be at least 8'. There is no honesty or perspective.

by Anonymousreply 52October 20, 2021 7:57 PM

You're supposed to measure along the top from pubic bone to the tip of the head.

by Anonymousreply 53October 20, 2021 8:36 PM

Girth is mirth

by Anonymousreply 54October 20, 2021 8:53 PM

I had a 12 incher one occasion, and several 11 inchers, and they were heavenly. Seven inches is fine. Anything less is kind of sad. The short stubby ones less than five inches I consider a waste of time.

by Anonymousreply 55October 20, 2021 9:26 PM

Btw: I am 9 1/2 myself, so I’m not a hypocrite.

by Anonymousreply 56October 20, 2021 9:26 PM

R55- You're not a size queen , you're a size FIEND.

by Anonymousreply 57October 20, 2021 9:33 PM

[quote] You're supposed to measure along the top from pubic bone to the tip of the head.

Measured pressed into the pubic bone is correct.

by Anonymousreply 58October 20, 2021 9:35 PM

5.1 inches is the average erect American dick. Believe it or not.

Years ago, the average penis size was wrongly published as 6 inches, and this figure has persisted, but it is incorrect. When the error was discovered by the researchers, the newer, more accurate average was published, but the original story persisted, and then American men didn't want to accept this newer but lower figure for fear of inadequacy. And this has nothing to do with including more Asian or Mexican men in a new study. The 5.1 average remains as correct.

The discrepancy between the correct figure of 5.1 and the previously reported 6-inch average is almost like when an incorrect news report is released. If the original report is wrong, a correction often appears in some obscure part of the newspaper or online report. Many people don't read or accept it and end up believing the first incorrect report.

by Anonymousreply 59October 20, 2021 9:58 PM

Like the model I am, I'm a perfect zero.

At times.

by Anonymousreply 60October 20, 2021 10:01 PM

The bigger are more satisfying, usually. However, a small, stubby orange one with a mushroom head can be most exilerating.

by Anonymousreply 61October 20, 2021 10:04 PM

^exhilarating (oppsie)

by Anonymousreply 62October 20, 2021 10:06 PM

R59, how big is your dick?

by Anonymousreply 63October 21, 2021 1:35 AM


by Anonymousreply 64October 21, 2021 1:48 AM

8 inches puts you past the inner ring and into the sigmoid.

by Anonymousreply 65October 21, 2021 1:56 AM

If you saw 75 men naked you'd be damn lucky to find 10 at the most with members of at least 7" or more.

by Anonymousreply 66October 21, 2021 2:03 AM

Laughs in 9 inches…

by Anonymousreply 67October 21, 2021 2:04 AM

If you think women don’t notice these sort of things, think again, Jokingly, I was telling a longtime female friend that my shoulders were too big for me to consider transitioning, when she said, “That’s not the only thing that’s too big.”

by Anonymousreply 68October 21, 2021 2:19 AM

7 is definitely above average.

by Anonymousreply 69October 21, 2021 2:33 AM

Very nice humble-brag there, r68.

by Anonymousreply 70October 21, 2021 7:05 AM

I would think the average is closer to 6. Anyway, as long it has some girth and stays hard. Some big guys have floppy dicks that don’t stay hard, so size isn’t everything.

by Anonymousreply 71October 21, 2021 7:19 AM

"Oh Berry: it's too BIG!"

by Anonymousreply 72October 21, 2021 7:27 AM

IMO, yes, a true 7" is big.

by Anonymousreply 73October 21, 2021 7:36 AM

That's the reason why some men's privates are small?

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by Anonymousreply 74October 21, 2021 7:41 AM

I feel like the Asian penises threw off the average.

by Anonymousreply 75October 21, 2021 7:50 AM

[quote]If you think women don’t notice these sort of things

Why the fuck would I care what women notice??

by Anonymousreply 76October 21, 2021 1:08 PM

For every 7 there are two 4 inch dicks to make the average 5.

by Anonymousreply 77October 21, 2021 1:30 PM

I’m 7x6 and I’ve always been told I have a perfect dick. Usually most guys claim to be bigger than me but then when we whip them out, mine is always bigger. I think it’s the thickness that makes mine seem bigger than it is. Anyway, at that point, guys insist I’m the one who measured it wrong and that I’m bigger. Even though I’m vers guys always assume I’m top only cause of my dick.

by Anonymousreply 78October 21, 2021 1:40 PM

In my country, 5” is huge and I’m 5” long, 3” around with a long anteater foreskin that gives me an additional inch. I call it my “Shanghai Surprise”. I like to whip it out and sing this song. Needless to say I am very popular.

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by Anonymousreply 79October 21, 2021 1:51 PM

Photo or it didn't happen R78

by Anonymousreply 80October 21, 2021 2:06 PM

[quote] Why the fuck would I care what women notice??

They can be useful in recommending big-dicked guys to their other gay friends!

by Anonymousreply 81October 21, 2021 2:07 PM

Real 7-inch or Internet 7-inch?

by Anonymousreply 82October 21, 2021 2:21 PM

[quote]Laughs in 9 inches…

Laughs in measuring tape.

by Anonymousreply 83October 21, 2021 3:19 PM

[quote] Laughs in measuring tape.

It’s possible for those of us with actual large penises to post pictures of our measured dicks on Imgur or a similar site, you know. If you really doubt us.

I’m not the 9-incher, but I am 7 7/8” and can prove it easily.

by Anonymousreply 84October 21, 2021 3:37 PM

No, but depends if is erect or flaccid.

by Anonymousreply 85October 21, 2021 4:01 PM

I don't care about size. I take all comers

by Anonymousreply 86October 21, 2021 4:08 PM

It’s LITERALLY all that women talk about

by Anonymousreply 87October 21, 2021 5:33 PM

Depends on how you’re built. For me if you’re 7-8 you’re about to start playing in my guts, and I’m about to start climbing the walls.

Shorter guys usually can only take less, unless they have a big ass, then there’s more tolerance for larger sizes.

by Anonymousreply 88October 21, 2021 6:24 PM
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