Poor Little Gayling: He took my virginity and then ghosted me

The brutal cad! He took the gayling's flower, and then split!

The eyebrows literally are the root cause of the ghosting.

OP = sociopath

This is actually kind of sweet and touching… if you haven’t been there (minus the deflowering part), you don’t get it.

Men don’t come back to brassy, overprocessed hair.

Is this Joel??

More importantly, I don't think he knows how to apply lip gloss correctly. I was completely distracted by the fact it was smeared past the lip line.

He might want to have that prominent mole on his throat taken care of. It's probably a man repellent.

That was so fucking boring.

I couldn't sit through the whole thing.

And his mannerisms are so fucking annoying.

And he rambles on and on and on.

No thank you!

He's beautiful, but yeah, he does need to get to the point

Pretty to watch while he rambles though, such gorgeous eyes, he's very attractive.

He has the dreaded painted nails.

Poor guy. He opened up and got hurt. It's part of growing up, but it still sucks.

A young guy like him shouldn't hang out with someone in their 30s or older, who is more jaded, cynical and experienced.

Stay innocent with a guy closer to your age.

He didn't take your virginity. You gave it to him.

And good riddance to it.

He's not a twink he's a femme and Grinder is no place for damaged virgins with low sex drives who dream of being a housewife.

This kid is beautiful but needs professional help so he can come out as Trans, get a big rack and find the sugar daddy of his dreams.

Attention deficit disorder illustrated.

[quote] If he ends up slitting his writs,

Like Habeas Corpus? Or Certiorari?

Oh, that won’t be good.

"Seduced and Abandoned: The Poor Little Gayling Story."

Is that Bruce Davison’s daughter? Chloe?

Like, who would be so, like, hateful to liderally fuck and then kick this adorbs little femme to the, like, curb?

You guys are so mean, lol. Poor kid. He's young and heartbroken.

Can you die from too much cringe?

OMG.

Poor thing. He thought his ship had come in. He thought he was never going to have to “work” again and had all his video equipment set to sell on Let Go. He had already measured the drapes.

Do not hook up with influencers. The would-be hubby is probably mortified right now. Hiding under is desk.

These influencers have zero discretion and will blast you the next day on all their socials if you get out of line.

They hubby probably saw what he looks like up close without make-up and filters. There is a lot of smoke and mirrors with this set. I don’t go near them. They are all trouble. Like they were raised by wolves.

I'm not the biggest Dan Savage fan, but one of the ideas he put out in the world that I really like is the campsite rule where, if one person in a sexual relationship is more experienced, they should leave the other person in better shape than they found them.

At the very least, people should just be decent to each other. If only.

He should definitely show up drunk at his ghoster's parents house at holiday time to demand answers. That's a video I'd watch!

When he got his first douche did he call his mother and have a little cry about it? I can't bear to watch it nor the Tik Tok "Yo I got dick y'all" that he refers to.

Sweet kid, I hope he gets help/medication/a real career goal.

Why does he have to sleep and tell? He is cutting himself off from the premium d by being so public and messy. Especially since he likes closeted rich guys.

Good luck finding that when you can’t have basic decency and discretion.

[quote]He's young and heartbroken.

Meh, it's a rite of passage. And "influencers" deserve heartbreak more than most.

Join the club

The fuck is with that hair?

"He took my virginity"

Do little Gay boys have hymens in their butts now?

He reminds me of someone.

Ah, yes. Lillian Gish.

^ Yep...

What’s with these influencers that make the crying gestures but never actually cry.

He didn’t even need the tissues.

What a scam.

The kid is trying to ruin this guys life with his “innocent confessional”

This is not how gold digging works. Someone needs to break it down for the kid. He is going about this all wrong.

Omg r22 .... LOL

Hey you little 'ho, stop using my Camry for your sad little oversharing confessionals. And bring it back, I need it to go to work!

What a bunch of jaded and bitter eldergays you all are!

^ Yes, Joel, walk toward the light. We're all waiting for you

OMG!! She never shuts up, I would have to KILL HER!! 1-She LOVES her painted Nails. 2-Her Eyebrows. 3-WTF is with the HAIR(and the hair color). What is SHE...19 yrs old. Six minutes in the video, I wanted to strangled the Dyed-haired Jezebel Harlot. "Get TO THE FUCKIN' POINT BITCH"

Very cute guy. He posted this one pic without makeup or filter.

Ironic is he hates being seen as this sex object yet his IG and TikTok is very sexual with shirtless and borderline nude pics and him twerking his ass. I've noticed a lot of TikTok/IG influencers will post softcore pornographic content but weirdly be conservative and prudish. They want attention for their looks but don't want to be objectified. I don't know how that works.

[quote]The fuck is with that hair?

He decided to go for the single process approach and asked his colorist for a full Jean Harlow. You can see the results.

Jealousy is an ugly thing, R43. And so are you in anything backless.

He will be a handsome guy when he gets older. Likewise, I hope he erases these videos later because they are mortifying.

I couldn't watch the whole thing? Was he barebacked?

He's cute but a bit much

He's cute. He'll find another boyfriend. He would probably do better around his own age.

I'm sorry you're so hurt, r44, but I'm just not attracted to you.

[quote] He's cute. He'll find another boyfriend. He would probably do better around his own age.

“Another?” He didn’t find the first one.

Virginity is an outdated concept and it is heteronormative and patriarchal at that. It's historically centered around vaginal penetration, the ownership of women and their purity.

So fake

Poor baby. He’s a sweet little gayling and beautiful minus the hair color.

I hope he finds love.

So this twinky little blonde guy befriends me. I fuck him because clearly that's what he wants. Then he becomes all clingy and needy blah blah blah, so I block him and now he's talking shit about me all over his socials.

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA R50

R42 This is a performance from a well established Tik Tok celebrity with over 1.5 million followers on Youtube alone. it is not reality.

This is a new form of entertainment. He is an entertainer.

Kinda concerning that faking emotions and fabricating scenarios for likes and follows is validated and rewarded. Social media really enables narcissism and sociopathic behavior. The line between reality and fiction is less blurred here than in some movie or TV show.

Everything is fake now r57. Everything.

Did he leave too much mud on the top’s helmet?

Virginity? Puleeeze....that ship sailed long ago.

[quote]Very cute guy. He posted this one pic without makeup or filter.

[quote]Ironic is he hates being seen as this sex object yet his IG and TikTok is very sexual with shirtless and borderline nude pics and him twerking his ass. I've noticed a lot of TikTok/IG influencers will post softcore pornographic content but weirdly be conservative and prudish. They want attention for their looks but don't want to be objectified. I don't know how that works.

I dont know how that works either.... but all I know is I'm damn glad it does! Cos that twerking clip is hot as fuck!

R53 I hope he finds love too, and he will I reckon, no trouble. He is exquisitely beautiful in most of his pics, hair colour notwithstanding (and I reckon it suits him anyhow)

He’s just an object of desire. That’s all. Fuck him and move on.

All twins are nothing more than sex objects.

^^ twinks*

He’s cute but these videos are lame.

he's a trashy lower class slut, don't believe a word he says, he deserves all he gets

WTF is this guy? He has over a million subscribers and nearly 5000 people made fucking comments? Now I understand why God is busy destroying the Earth. I mean, why the fuck not? Give me one good eason...as Tracy Chapman said...People are becoming famous for no reason at all. Banal....Vapid....Jeeez.

tried to watch but coldn't get through. can someone summarize? oldertop? bi? big dick?

Some nasty DLer promised the kid that sex would be meaningful then ghosted him, R68.

Anyone who watched this whole video doesn’t deserve to live on this planet anymore

Jamie Lee should star in Student Bodies II.

Oh, Jamie Lee Curtis is too old for that.

Unless she played a teacher.

R51 is very tiresome

And outraged, I’m sure.

I agree R72. I was thinking teacher, like H20. How did my Halloween post end up on this thread. DL is glitchy.

Since virginity is a concept that was created for hetero sex. How does it even apply to gay men? Men don't have vaginas and historically anal and oral sex were not considered legitimate sex to people. Sodomy yes but not considered "proper sex" as it's not vaginal penetration. I feel it's just heteronormativity is so entrenched socially that we all internalize it. I can understand teenage girls making a fuss but it's odd seeing gay men act this way. I think if the scenario is real, he's more frustrated about the person leading him to think it was a romantic relationship rather than casual sex. But it's still ridiculous to make virginity a big part of this.

OK. So the first time I have sex with another guy, penetrative anal sex, for the very first time, I feel like it's a milestone for me. And while that first time being defined as losing one's virginity can definitely be interpreted as heteronormative, WTF else is acceptable? Because in popular usage the term virgin/virginity can apply to everything not just sex, regardless of where it originated 1000's of years ago.

[quote] where it originated 1000's of years ago.

Oh, dear!

It's a milestone and important for the individual to get sexually intimate with someone else for the first time. But all the romantic and sentimental aspect like "purity" and "saving yourself" and the conflicted feelings like shame and guilt for a consensual pleasurable experience is bullshit. Plus so many people experimented sexually with others or pleasure themselves but claimed to be virgins because they didn't get penetrated anally (by same sex) or vaginally (opposite sex) by someone. It would make more sense to say "I had (insert type of) sex for the first time" than say "I lost my virginity".

R57 It's not narcissism. These tik tok and youtubers use their own names and are supposedly sharing their own experiences. But it's a format. Im sure there is a lot of reality in the stories many of them tell. Just like standup comedians, the story might have happened to them as is, might have been exaggerated, or might have been totally made up. we have no way of knowing. It's entertainment and unless you have a personal relationship with the talent, you've got no way of discerning which ones are totally full of shit and which ones are authentic--because it doesn't matter. If you're entertained, smash that subscribe button, if not, never click on them again. Just recognize they're entertainers, they do not have any real relationship with their audience either.

Aw, poor Elio. Oliver fucked off.

HE. ATE. MY. HEART. 🦽 🥩

She need to quit

He’s not even that hot. Take off that caked on face gurl.

Hasn’t he got father or brothers to beat the shit out of virginity taker and force him to marry The Gayling.

Like, his speech is , like, literal violence to my ears.

The editing and quick zooms in the video are making me nauseous.

As if one wasn't already sickened by our age of narcissistic oversharing.

Now that he’s felt cock up his ass, he’ll become a sloppy bottom

I don't know.

r87 Read what I wrote at R80. This is a standard format now. Teens want quick cuts, jerky movements, loud speaking/yelling, and storytelling masquerading as autobiographical sharing. This is not narcissism. It is content. He is well on his way to having a great career making money off those who subscribe to his channel. If he loses interest and wants a different career, great. Many end up using this celebrity to enhance their own ability to find clients.

He will only be successful until the point in which he gets too old and no longer relatable for the teen audience. Hopefully he will be smart to take what money he makes and save or invest it in something.

He had it coming, he took a flower in its prime!

And then he used it; and he abused it, It was a murder, but not a crime!

It’s probably because he looks like Nancy Oleson