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"Caught in Bed With Another....." Does This Really Happen in Real Life?

It's a common thing in movies, tv, and of course, porn. A wife is having an affair in her home and her husband comes home early and finds them in bed. Maybe it's me but if I was having an affair in my home I would be hypervigilant to the sounds of cars approaching the house, etc.

by Anonymousreply 57October 21, 2021 12:40 AM

It’s very unlikely in this day and age, with doorbell cameras and apps and find my iPhone & gps trackers. Keep tabs on where hubby or wifey is! Watch that door! Or better yet don’t shit where you eat & don’t be an animal and screw your side piece in the marital bed or house.

by Anonymousreply 1October 15, 2021 4:34 AM


Cal Ripken, Jr.

by Anonymousreply 2October 15, 2021 4:39 AM

I was once told that a big reason for domestic violence was finding strange pubic hair in the shower.

by Anonymousreply 3October 15, 2021 4:41 AM

Yes. My Uncle caught my Aunt in bed with her boyfriend. He came home early and there she was.

by Anonymousreply 4October 15, 2021 4:42 AM

I came home once from school early and found my dad fucking this lady who lived down the street - seriously. I already hated my dad, and this just made him seem gross.

by Anonymousreply 5October 15, 2021 4:44 AM

We have a story on the news right now here in NYC of a female police officer who shot both her ex-girlfriend and the gf's new lover. The ex-gf is still alive I think but her lover did not survive.

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by Anonymousreply 6October 15, 2021 4:52 AM

My cousin has two teens from his first marriage. His second wife was caught by the younger son in bed with one of the older son's friends.

by Anonymousreply 7October 15, 2021 4:57 AM


by Anonymousreply 8October 15, 2021 5:00 AM

Well, there's always this little made for after school ditty...

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by Anonymousreply 9October 15, 2021 6:10 AM

My nephew caught my sister in bed with some guy. He immediately called his dad who then filed for divorce.

by Anonymousreply 10October 15, 2021 6:13 AM

I had a lesbian friend who caught her gf in bed with a male neighbor, That would be tough to deal with.

by Anonymousreply 11October 15, 2021 6:27 AM

My dad caught his second wife in bed with her boss. I really liked her. His 3rd wife was the classic evil stepmonster. He always let the wives call the shots, so I didn't have a relationship with him for 20 years, until she dumped him for her boss. She drew a line in the sand with her own kids when they split up, they could have a relationship with him or her, not both. They adored him, so she made good on it and has shunned her own kids since the 90's.

by Anonymousreply 12October 15, 2021 7:45 AM

I once slept with a guy at a sauna. I then bumped into him out with his boyfriend. I didn't say anything and we had a good night. I then bumped into the boyfriend again out and the boyfriend said they had split up as he followed his boyfriend and he caught him sucking dicks in a public toilet. His boyfriend was so angry. I obviously said nothing. The cheater was really cute

by Anonymousreply 13October 15, 2021 10:16 PM

Oh yes. In fact catching your spouse in bed with somebody else can be legally used to defend killing them.

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by Anonymousreply 14October 15, 2021 10:56 PM

Yes, an uncle came home and caught his wife in bed with the house painter.

by Anonymousreply 15October 15, 2021 11:13 PM

Like when your grandma walks in on your boyfriend fucking you in the ass and you tell her you are just playing leap frog?

by Anonymousreply 16October 15, 2021 11:14 PM

If I was cheating in my own place I would just track my partner from his phone.

by Anonymousreply 17October 19, 2021 1:03 AM

Yes, lust is blinding, and it's also deafening.

by Anonymousreply 18October 19, 2021 1:06 AM

R6 that is not the same kind of story at all. Are you retarded? EX GIRLFRIEND!!!! So not caught in their bed. SHEESH

by Anonymousreply 19October 19, 2021 1:15 AM

I thought this never really happened until I was the side-piece in the bed and didn't know it, until the wife walked in.

by Anonymousreply 20October 19, 2021 1:19 AM

I bet it happens quite a bit actually. People in affairs get sloppy. The first time you keep something from your s.o., it's hard, but then it becomes normal and you stop trying to be careful.

by Anonymousreply 21October 19, 2021 1:20 AM

Sadly, I've had bfs do this on purpose out of anger and frustration in the relationship.

One of my exes just did this to me, years ago, and he just did it again to his current boyfriend, of many years, and the bf through him out immediately. Clothes out the window drama.

by Anonymousreply 22October 19, 2021 1:23 AM

oops he did it to me years ago, and just did it again.

oh - just desserts, the guy he was fucking when we were together, years ago, is the guy who just threw him out for fucking someone else.

Sometimes people don't have the courage or means to just split so they do something destructive to force the split.

by Anonymousreply 23October 19, 2021 1:25 AM

Yes, I suppose that does happen. I've heard a lot of stories of celebrities who caught their significant other with someone else. Judy Garland supposedly walking in on a husband or lover of hers who was in bed with a man. Arthur Miller left for work, came home unexpectedly because he forgot something, and found his wife Marilyn Monroe in bed with Yves Montand. Angie Bowie came upon David Bowie in bed with Mick Jagger. Yeah, it happens alright.

by Anonymousreply 24October 19, 2021 1:25 AM

It's not that people in affairs get sloppy. Its that they often have poor impulse control. People having affairs are less likely to use protection than people in relationships. And for straight people, the thrill of an affair leads to an adrenaline rush that supercharges sperm and has an increased likelihood of pregnancy than with people who aren't as excited about boning.

by Anonymousreply 25October 19, 2021 1:25 AM

Matt Lauer had the right idea.

by Anonymousreply 26October 19, 2021 2:07 AM

Lockdown must've really sucked for those having affairs.

by Anonymousreply 27October 19, 2021 12:49 PM

My female friend and her husband had a my friend’s female co-worker over for dinner.

The co-worker came over early to hangout. My friend was making dinner and told her coworker to go watch TV with the husband.

After about an hour, my friend walked to the TV room to find her husband and friend and they were in mid-fuck on the couch—doggy style!

This led to divorce and years of therapy

by Anonymousreply 28October 19, 2021 1:36 PM

Don’t ask me.

by Anonymousreply 29October 19, 2021 1:42 PM

Fuck 'em in the garage.

by Anonymousreply 30October 19, 2021 1:44 PM

Isn't there an option to turn off your location on your phone?

by Anonymousreply 31October 19, 2021 1:57 PM

r28, when your friend's worst moment in life is turned into a MEN.COM porn clip.

by Anonymousreply 32October 19, 2021 2:07 PM

Stories like this are why I'll probably never trust another guy enough to get into a relationship.

by Anonymousreply 33October 19, 2021 2:23 PM

[quote] Isn't there an option to turn off your location on your phone?

Yes, but if I was cheating and my partner's phone wasn't revealing his location I would be suspicious of him! How dare he!

by Anonymousreply 34October 19, 2021 2:38 PM

A neighbor of mine was cheating on her husband with a man who was also married and cheating. The wife came home and found them together. I always got the impression my neighbor engineered that somehow. Doubly awkward that my neighbor, her affair partner and his wife all work in a pretty small industry together.

Both couples divorced, the cheating couple married each other and went on a big public campaign of how great their new life together was. True love overcomes, etc., all over Facebook and Instagram, wedding photos in the newspaper, giant spread on their house in the real estate section. Until he found out she was cheating on him, too.

by Anonymousreply 35October 19, 2021 2:47 PM

Happened to me about 15 years ago. It was horrible. We eventually made up but it was awful.

Ours is definitely not a monogamous relationship, but in our bed, in the middle of the day, and getting caught was just horrible.

Still see the other guy though.

by Anonymousreply 36October 19, 2021 2:49 PM

Is there a part 6 on the lawyer that was murdered in his hotel room?

by Anonymousreply 37October 19, 2021 3:15 PM

Yes, a former boss’ husband was a teacher and coach at a Catholic high school. She went home to pick something up and the hubs was banging a female student. He must have subliminally wanted her to discover the affair as their home was quite close to the office and the wife often went home for lunch, etc.

by Anonymousreply 38October 19, 2021 3:15 PM

It’s quite disrespectful. Have an affair, but not in the marital bed. Have the decency to go to a hotel or some other venue.

by Anonymousreply 39October 19, 2021 3:18 PM

It’s perfectly ok!

by Anonymousreply 40October 19, 2021 3:21 PM


by Anonymousreply 41October 19, 2021 3:21 PM

A friend and her husband had successful IT careers. She went home for lunch one day and found the husband boning the au pair. The au pair was overweight, had alopecia and lied about being from a European country. Divorce ensued and the husband eventually ended up getting a restraining order against the au pair.

by Anonymousreply 42October 19, 2021 3:33 PM

That's why open concept floor plans are good R28.

by Anonymousreply 43October 19, 2021 4:03 PM

R43 it sounds as if the husband had his own ideas about open concept…

by Anonymousreply 44October 19, 2021 4:10 PM

It never happened to me, but I would lay up in your bed with your husband in a heartbeat. If I don't then someone else will, get over it. If he does that to you then perhaps you don't need him.

by Anonymousreply 45October 19, 2021 4:14 PM

All these stories sound like they're from the musical Chicago.

by Anonymousreply 46October 19, 2021 4:21 PM

R28 They sound like unfixed dogs.

by Anonymousreply 47October 19, 2021 5:33 PM

I knew a guy who had a steady girlfriend. He considered her the "steady."" But he cheated on her with anything that moved. She lived right down the hall from him. If you're going to bring girls over to your apartment to fuck it's probably not a good idea to have a girlfriend living a few feet away, but I guess he thought he could get away with it. One day she walked in on him and a girl right in the middle of sex; already mentally disturbed, she had a complete mental breakdown and had to be committed to a hospital. The cheater and the girl he got caught with went to the same college and what happened really got around, maybe because the girl flapped her mouth off about what happened. She told some guy about it and he told me what happened: "Ha ha ha! There they were! In the 69 position! And he was coming! Ha !ha ha! He came and went!" Yech. Anyway, the girl who got committed recovered and she went back to the cheater. But she had to be committed again, and after that he dumped her. He was awful.

by Anonymousreply 48October 20, 2021 4:40 AM

A colleague at work caught her fiancé having sex with his ex-girlfriend in the stairwell of their apartment building.

It totally traumatized her mentally. She became a full blown alcoholic, got fired from her job, went to rehab, got pumped full of drugs for depression, and still, 5 years out, sounds totally off. She’s just no longer the same fun, smart person she was.

by Anonymousreply 49October 20, 2021 1:56 PM

I caught my boyfriend in bed with my dad.

They got tired of waiting for me.

by Anonymousreply 50October 20, 2021 1:59 PM

True story. When I got out of college a friend asked if I'd help her by working in a nursing home with her. She was in nursing school and conditions were terrible. They had state patients who had been sent out of the "mental hospital" mixed with elderly patients, and the staff (covering six floors) were poorly trained and awful things were happening, including dead patients.

So Lily was a woman in her 80s. She was bright and cheerful and had a loving family. But Lily had caught her husband in bed with a woman, and she'd get riled up when people brought up the infidelity. Quote, with respect:

[quote]"I came in and there they was, flippy-flopping on da bed. So I went and got me my little hatchet, and I flew in there and started choppin.' She went flyin' and screamin,"

What about him, Lily?

[quote]Oh, that bastard never got a chance to get up.

Followed by a description of the work she did on him.

The family wouldn't talk about it but she had been found innocent because of insanity and put in the State Hospital, was released to her family after some years, and finally was a resident. No one messed with her.

by Anonymousreply 51October 20, 2021 2:33 PM

Not completely on topic, but also not completely off...I began semi-dating an ex back in the Spring. Neither of us were looking for anything serious, but the sex was good and so it was a fun little romp down memory lane. Anyway, I had a flight back to my hometown at like 8am one morning; he insisted on taking me to the airport, and made a big deal that I could just park at his house for the duration of my trip and then he'd picked me up as well. Great, I thought; I'll save like $100 on parking. I get to his house at like 6:30am and text him. No answer. I ring the doorbell and his roommate answers, recognizes me, and lets me in. I proceed into my ex's bedroom and his other ex (whom he dated right after me) is in bed with them. The other ex was awake, but was pretending to be asleep. Of course--like Joan Collins in her fur coat when she caught Dex in bed with her daughter Amanda--I fled the house. Five minutes later, my ex called and was begging for forgiveness, and said that, "It wasn't what it looked like," etc. I told him I wasn't even upset (though I was), and that he and the other ex deserved one another. The silver lining is that he felt bad enough about what happened to Venmo me for the airport parking.

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by Anonymousreply 52October 20, 2021 8:31 PM

I can’t imagine the emotional agony of walking in on someone you love fucking someone else. What a profoundly shitty thing to do to someone else.

by Anonymousreply 53October 20, 2021 8:39 PM

R53 but it’s supposed to be okay or we’re not “woke”! Something something toxic monogamy. 🙄

by Anonymousreply 54October 20, 2021 8:42 PM

I had a fling with a couple. Started out with threesomes but the younger guy in the relationship started getting weird about them and it turned into just coming over and drinking wine instead. I was very attracted to the older guy in the relationship and, one night, they'd invited me and one of the younger guy's female friends over. The younger guy and his female friend went out on the porch for a bit and I was left alone with the older guy. He pulled down his shorts and stuck his cock in my face. I couldn't resist and started sucking on it. About 30 seconds later, the female friend barges in and this guy yanks his cock out of my mouth so quickly that I thought I'd chip a tooth. I'm still not sure if she saw anything.

He'd send me texts after that about how he wanted to get together without his boyfriend and I kept turning him down unless he had permission from him. A few months later, they broke up. No big shocker there. The younger guy never seemed very into the threesomes.

by Anonymousreply 55October 20, 2021 8:51 PM

My older sister and her boyfriend once came home to her boyfriend’s house to catch the boyfriend’s teenage daughter having a threesome with two guys.

by Anonymousreply 56October 20, 2021 10:22 PM

R56 Something very similar happened when I was in high school, except the adults were both teachers at my school and the teens all went to our school. I was a student, who had all the teen gossip and because I acted mature teachers gossiped with me, too. I got all the details from all the angles. Honestly, if twitter was a thing back then, I would've been my high school's gossip girl.

by Anonymousreply 57October 21, 2021 12:40 AM
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