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What are some films with good depictions of narcissists?

That phrase gets thrown around so much lately for anyone anybody dislikes. I'm trying to understand the actual meaning better and thought a movie would help. (new, old, classic whatever.)

by Anonymousreply 64October 10, 2021 12:53 PM

Off the top of my head...

Jeff Bridges in Squid and the Whale

by Anonymousreply 1October 9, 2021 9:43 PM

Just now watching "Maid" on Netflix. Andi McDowell. Textbook narcissist.

by Anonymousreply 2October 9, 2021 9:45 PM

Home Alone 2.

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by Anonymousreply 3October 9, 2021 9:46 PM

Excuse me???

by Anonymousreply 4October 9, 2021 9:46 PM

r4 is an imposter!!! Miss Dunaway would never use her first name even in a momentary mental lapse!!!

by Anonymousreply 5October 9, 2021 9:48 PM

Most of us intuitively understand what a narcissist is. I suspect OP is one if he has trouble with the concept.

by Anonymousreply 6October 9, 2021 9:51 PM

Shut up little homosexual boy! r5

by Anonymousreply 7October 9, 2021 9:52 PM

Um that's what I said in the post r6. You have a firm grasp of the obvious.

by Anonymousreply 8October 9, 2021 9:53 PM

I would agree with Mommie Dearest.

by Anonymousreply 9October 9, 2021 9:53 PM

Caesar or ranch dressing r7?

by Anonymousreply 10October 9, 2021 9:54 PM

You do not say you are a narcissist, OP.

You’re not very bright, are ya? That’s usually something I like in an OP, but in your case, it’s a toxic mess.

by Anonymousreply 11October 9, 2021 9:56 PM

Blanche DuBois; Scarlett O'Hara; Stanley Kowalski; Mommie Dearest.

by Anonymousreply 12October 9, 2021 10:03 PM

heal your anger r11, you'll live longer

by Anonymousreply 13October 9, 2021 10:04 PM

[quote] Blanche DuBois; Scarlett O'Hara; Stanley Kowalski; Mommie Dearest.

Good call on Blanche DuBois. It's been a while since I saw "Streetcar," so, I'd have to pay more attention to Stanley. He wasn't likeable, but not sure I'd say he was a narcissist.

I never liked GWTW, so, no comment.

by Anonymousreply 14October 9, 2021 10:07 PM

Respect, starring Jennifer Hudson

by Anonymousreply 15October 9, 2021 10:11 PM

Citizen Kane

Five Easy Pieces (Nicholson's character struck me as narcissistic as opposed to misunderstood)

Shampoo (Warren Beatty is the ultimate narcissist)

by Anonymousreply 16October 9, 2021 10:13 PM

The Donald Trump Story

by Anonymousreply 17October 9, 2021 10:15 PM

My Best Friend’s Wedding. Julia.

by Anonymousreply 18October 9, 2021 10:20 PM

Truth or Dare (1991)

by Anonymousreply 19October 9, 2021 10:22 PM

Vida

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by Anonymousreply 20October 9, 2021 10:28 PM

Glenn Close in Fatal Attraction - Pure Cluster B - also Borderline traits

by Anonymousreply 21October 9, 2021 10:29 PM

The Last Seduction.

by Anonymousreply 22October 9, 2021 10:35 PM

Sleeping With The Enemy

by Anonymousreply 23October 9, 2021 10:40 PM

Star!

by Anonymousreply 24October 9, 2021 10:42 PM

Fiction generally isn't a very good way to learn about reality.

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by Anonymousreply 25October 9, 2021 10:47 PM

Add recognizing anger to your study list, OP

by Anonymousreply 26October 9, 2021 10:57 PM

There Will Be Blood

Network (almost all the major characters except Beatrice Straight's)

The Silence of the Lambs (both Dr. Lecter and Jame Gumb)

Top Gun

by Anonymousreply 27October 10, 2021 1:09 AM

Beyond the Forest

Leave Her to Heaven

Craig's Wife, and its remake Harriet Craig

by Anonymousreply 28October 10, 2021 1:16 AM

Many films about royalty, including:

Mrs. Brown

W. E.

The Favourite

The Last Emperor

the upcoming film Spencer

by Anonymousreply 29October 10, 2021 1:18 AM

“But enough about me, let's talk about you... what do you think of me?”

by Anonymousreply 30October 10, 2021 1:42 AM

[quote] There Will Be Blood

Which character(s)? The Daniel Day Lewis and the Paul Dano characters, both of them? Loved that movie.

by Anonymousreply 31October 10, 2021 1:54 AM

I mean, nearly any movie with a villain in it.

by Anonymousreply 32October 10, 2021 1:59 AM

Sex and the City 2. Carrie Bradshaw was insufferable enough in the series and the first movie but the second one really took her narcissism to a whole new level.

by Anonymousreply 33October 10, 2021 2:51 AM

That whole area of mental illness (narcissism, sociopath, psychopath, etc.) is so damaging- and dangerous- to our planet, they should be killed in the crib.

by Anonymousreply 34October 10, 2021 3:05 AM

Ray Liotta in Good Fellas. Henry Hill was a narc and a sociopath.

by Anonymousreply 35October 10, 2021 3:31 AM

Barbara Stanwyck in Double Indemnity

by Anonymousreply 36October 10, 2021 3:39 AM

Most of Barbra's oeuvre

by Anonymousreply 37October 10, 2021 3:44 AM

I'm not sure about Glenn Close in Fatal Attraction. Alex never displays any of these symptoms:

Grandiose sense of self-importance. ... Lives in a fantasy world that supports their delusions of grandeur. ... Needs constant praise and admiration. ... Sense of entitlement. ... Exploits others without guilt or shame. ... Frequently demeans, intimidates, bullies, or belittles others.

She's pretty broken a few minutes into the film. I always thought the beginning where she's super glammed up and in control was just a cover for the deep longing that emerges.

Is that narcissism?

by Anonymousreply 38October 10, 2021 3:45 AM

Miranda Priestly: The Devil Wears Prada

by Anonymousreply 39October 10, 2021 3:53 AM

Cabaret - Sally Bowles (of course)

by Anonymousreply 40October 10, 2021 3:55 AM

Plenty

by Anonymousreply 41October 10, 2021 3:57 AM

I've read the facts r25. I thought it would be fun to bring it to film for DL but scolds like you and r5 always seem to want to ruin the fun.

(and in my class they did show Mildred Pierce as an example of it so bravo to the person who posted that clip.)

by Anonymousreply 42October 10, 2021 3:57 AM

R38 she likely has borderline personality. They usually are attracted to narcissists. A lot of DLers seem to wrongly think they are the same disorder. They aren’t. A good example is Betty Broderick and her husband, Dan. She was BPD and he was a Narc.

by Anonymousreply 43October 10, 2021 3:58 AM

Just about any film in which Clifton Webb appeared.

Thread closed? Show of hands, please.

Closed.

by Anonymousreply 44October 10, 2021 4:33 AM

Young Adult

by Anonymousreply 45October 10, 2021 4:36 AM

Nicole Kidman in Margot At The Wedding

by Anonymousreply 46October 10, 2021 4:36 AM

Eight and a Half

All that Jazz

by Anonymousreply 47October 10, 2021 4:41 AM

The Orange Turd & Meghan Markle - real life figures!!!

by Anonymousreply 48October 10, 2021 4:49 AM

“Born to be bad” with Joan Fontaine

by Anonymousreply 49October 10, 2021 5:15 AM

I’m not sure if it’s narcissism or just sociopathy but Aaron eckhardts character in “in the company of men” and again his character in “towelhead”. Also Jason Patric in “you’re friends and neighbors” but maybe they are all just assholes rather than suffering personality disorders.

by Anonymousreply 50October 10, 2021 5:22 AM

That should read “your friends and neighbors” also Bradley cooper in “the hangover” seems rather deluded and narcissistic.

by Anonymousreply 51October 10, 2021 5:25 AM

Leave Her to Heaven with Gene Tierney.

by Anonymousreply 52October 10, 2021 5:27 AM

I'd say Vivienne Leigh as Scarlet O'Hara probably checked most of the boxes fir narcissism.

by Anonymousreply 53October 10, 2021 5:34 AM

Not a film, but the characters of Phyllis Lindstrom and Sue Ann Nivens from The Mary Tyler Moore Show both exemplify narcissism to a T.

Here is the episode wherein those two narcissistic personalities clash.

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by Anonymousreply 54October 10, 2021 5:48 AM

Fir trees in Georgia.

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by Anonymousreply 55October 10, 2021 5:48 AM

Mark Zuckerberg, The Social Network

by Anonymousreply 56October 10, 2021 5:53 AM

Gilderoy Lockhart, Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets

by Anonymousreply 57October 10, 2021 5:55 AM

Also, this cartoon by Roz Chast totally nails the spirit of the narcissist:

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by Anonymousreply 58October 10, 2021 5:59 AM

Sweet Bird of Youth-- "I see... Alexandra del Lago, artist and star!"

Death Becomes Her (a riff on the above)

Blue Jasmine

Being Julia

Cabaret--the Sally Bowles character

by Anonymousreply 59October 10, 2021 6:00 AM

Ferris Bueller's Day Off

by Anonymousreply 60October 10, 2021 7:43 AM

The scene in GWTW where Scarlett, having just been disappointed (for the first time) by Ashley, is walking up the stairs lost in her own misery, while everyone is running downstairs past her going, "War! They've declared war!" is a crystalline portrayal of narcissism in action.

She falls short in some other ways, though. Throughout the book it is made clear that she has a conviction that her mother and Melanie are Great Ladies and that Scarlett...isn't. A true narcissist wouldn't have taken responsibility for Tara and everyone in it when she comes home towards the end of the war. Nor would she have stayed in Atlanta for the birth of Beau. She promised Ashley she would look after Melanie and that's why she did it. Sure, she wanted something from Ashley, but looking after Melanie in a life-or-death situation was not the way to get it.

by Anonymousreply 61October 10, 2021 10:20 AM

R61 Looking after Melanie for her beloved Ashley was a self-less task, I agree. But, just like the former orange president, Scarlett came back and took responsibility for Tara because she is a WINNER..she said she would never go hungry again. I think this theme runs through the whole story; Scarlett had to be the best at everything. She was a an awesome narcissistic force to watch. The interesting thing is narcissists won't ever feel defeated for long.

Trying to think of other good narcissistic movie characters.

by Anonymousreply 62October 10, 2021 10:35 AM

Nero in "Quo Vadis"

Arlena, the actress who is murdered in "Evil Under the Sun"

by Anonymousreply 63October 10, 2021 10:58 AM

Home movies of my parents

by Anonymousreply 64October 10, 2021 12:53 PM
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