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The cuck fantasy

I just don't understand it. Why is this such a big thing in straight porn? It's made it's way too into gay porn.

Do the people who get turned on by it identify with the cuck watching, or with the "real man" fucking the wife (or gay husband), or with the wife (or gay husband) being fucked?

by Anonymousreply 161October 31, 2021 10:24 AM

I think it is a fetish that will just grow, especially among men. Many younger men are so into porn that they don't want the real thing. and being a cuck means you basically have real live porn to enjoy without doing anything.

by Anonymousreply 1October 6, 2021 7:54 PM

There are people identifying with everyone in the "scene" but I have to agree with R1 - oddly enough, it is the Cuck driving this train.

I had a boyfriend once who was always bringing home guys or calling guys to come over and fuck me while he watched.

It was never my thing but it was "ok" so I did it for a while but it got weird when the guys started approaching me when I was out and about around town. Some couldn't separate fantasy from reality. After this happened a few times I broke up with the cuck and never did it again .

I have spoken to other guys too and the consensus is that the cuck is the one that really enjoys jacking off while someone else fucks their lover.

I think it is a power thing. At least that was what my ex told me. I woulda thought the cuck was powerless... but what they seek is power over their lover through the other guy. It is weird.

by Anonymousreply 2October 6, 2021 8:15 PM

R2 I think there is some psychological impotence involved rather than power.

by Anonymousreply 3October 6, 2021 8:30 PM

Hm, real man fucking the gay husband. I don`t know if "Real man " supporters would agree with you.

by Anonymousreply 4October 6, 2021 8:32 PM

Real man say: grab them by the pussy, and not: grab them by the dick!

by Anonymousreply 5October 6, 2021 8:35 PM

On the str8 side it's overwhelmed by interracial stuff. I always wondered if a lot of them felt guilt over being white

by Anonymousreply 6October 6, 2021 8:40 PM

R6 Is it white liberal guilt so they let some black muscle daddy fuck their wife?

by Anonymousreply 7October 6, 2021 8:43 PM

I do enjoy porn where wifey brings a man home to fuck her and then he and the husband go at it making the wife the cuck.

by Anonymousreply 8October 6, 2021 8:45 PM

[quote] I always wondered if a lot of them felt guilt over being white

Unlikely.

by Anonymousreply 9October 6, 2021 8:45 PM

R9 You Americans are strange with race issues, so who knows.

by Anonymousreply 10October 6, 2021 8:47 PM

R6 I don't think it is guilt. I think it is more likely feelings of inadequacy.

Give the wife the Mandingo fantasy and he can live through the Black man!

by Anonymousreply 11October 6, 2021 9:21 PM

Oh come on, inadequacy? Straight white men if they are not poor are still the only people who can really feel the world is cut to their measure, in fact they practically created it, so this story of inadequacy is stupid.

by Anonymousreply 12October 6, 2021 9:26 PM

R12 Men are always comparing cocks. Average White man vs. Average White man. Couple that with the fact with a lot of the cuck movies involve White men fantasizing about Black men fucking White wives. Why do YOU think that is? Sounds like some feelings of inadequacy to me. LOL

by Anonymousreply 13October 6, 2021 9:30 PM

If you guys really want to know why don't you ask a cuck? I'm sure there must be an..... "I'm a cuck, AMA" on Reddit or something.

by Anonymousreply 14October 6, 2021 9:36 PM

I remember back in the 1990s the Village Voice used to have weird personal ads and I used to constantly see ads for "white couple searching for a black buck". And you would read the ad and most of the time the husband wanted to watch.

I actually work with a woman (mail order bride from the Philippines) and her husband wants to watch a big black guy screw his 90 pound wife. He used to try to pressure her into having this type threesome. She rejected it, but he physically abused her because she wouldn't agree to it. I don't know what happened because our office shut down because of Covid. She's still married to him. He's really, really fucked up and super controlling.

by Anonymousreply 15October 6, 2021 9:38 PM

R13 I don`t know, the guys who want their wives to be fucked by other men in front of them are specific pervs. Maybe they do feel inadequate. Because your average Joe would not let you fuck his wife and if he feels inadequate he would want to hide competitor from his wife. I can`t tell you cause I`m not the sharing type, so I am guessing.

by Anonymousreply 16October 6, 2021 9:41 PM

R13 It is interesting that it is not men with biggest dicks that are running the world. Now whites, and tomorrow probably Chinese.

by Anonymousreply 17October 6, 2021 9:48 PM

The cuck fantasies I've seen in gay porn have actually not involved any black guys whatsoever.

Once again, it seems Dataloungers are trying to make something all about race when it isn't.

by Anonymousreply 18October 6, 2021 9:53 PM

Straight men like to see the proof that their wife is a dirty slut.

by Anonymousreply 19October 6, 2021 10:04 PM

R19 Certainly a way of humiliating the wife.

by Anonymousreply 20October 6, 2021 10:08 PM

R17 Who runs the world? GIRLS! šŸ˜‚

by Anonymousreply 21October 6, 2021 10:12 PM

Always seems to involve a black guy and white woman and husband. So whose fantasy is this? The white husband? The black guy? The wife? Any insight into which one of the trio is most into this and, thus, why so popular in porn?

by Anonymousreply 22October 6, 2021 10:14 PM

Of those whose politics are easily discerned (e.g. on Twitter or Reddit), white cucks looking for black bulls invariably lean HEAVILY conservative. A preponderance of MAGAt types. The "white guilt" angle really and truly does not apply.

R22 The husband is most into it.

by Anonymousreply 23October 6, 2021 10:18 PM

Some cuck fantasies are about degrading the wife as entertainment perfomer. Just like when guys get off on watching girl on girl action.

It's all about women putting on a show for the guy. Making him feel like an alpha or king.

by Anonymousreply 24October 6, 2021 10:19 PM

R23 Right, could even be a racist thing cause they see the black guy as big cocks and sexual object, more animalistic than other white guy.

by Anonymousreply 25October 6, 2021 10:23 PM

R21 Maybe girls would do a better job cause they wouldn`t think with the dick.

by Anonymousreply 26October 6, 2021 10:27 PM

[quote] It's made it's way too into gay porn.

"Oh, dear?" No, dear. OP is a fucking dumbass, a dumb cuck fucktard dumbass.

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by Anonymousreply 27October 6, 2021 10:34 PM

Funny how no husband want to bring a Chinese or Korean guy and they come as most intelligent people in all the IQ testing.

by Anonymousreply 28October 6, 2021 10:43 PM

Yes because the first thing you think of when you want to see a dick plowing your wife's cunt is how smart he is.

by Anonymousreply 29October 6, 2021 10:48 PM

Haha, here are the IQ ranking

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by Anonymousreply 30October 6, 2021 10:48 PM

R12 To an extent. White men are afraid of black men because they think black men are physically more powerful than them. That’s why the most stereotypical fear for white men is being raped by a black man in prison. It’s because black men are seen as more physically dominant than white men, they’re stereotyped as more hyper masculine. They’re also stereotyped as having bigger penises.

So yes in porn black men are fetishized for white straight men.

by Anonymousreply 31October 6, 2021 10:58 PM

And studies show men love penis regardless of sexual orientation. I believe Freud said this as well. Men can’t get penis out of their head. If you give a man a pen and a paper and tell him to draw something the first thing he’ll doodle is a penis.

How could straight men watch porn if they don’t like penis.

Not saying every man in the world is gay but all men love cock to some degree in some form

by Anonymousreply 32October 6, 2021 11:07 PM

R31 Do you really believe that an average Jew or Italian guy, and they are small in size is envious of physical dominance of a Masai guy, or do you believe they feel a bit superior to others?

by Anonymousreply 33October 6, 2021 11:09 PM

Three of my previous fuck buddies enjoyed fucking straight couples in a cuck fantasies. None of them ever saw themselves as bi—just that they liked doing that scenario.

Just strange

by Anonymousreply 34October 6, 2021 11:10 PM

I think that this pride with big dick and hyper masculinity that is similar to African Americans and our men in Balkans is a sign of complex of inferiority, and I can say it as a guy from Balkans. It is similar here, our guys take pride in being rough trade of Europe, but it is stupid to be happy to accept this stereotype imposed by others as a male beast that has nothing but cock and muscles.

And one guy from Balkans that is known for brains, Nikola Tesla, thanks to who we are typing now here, is worth more than all these Balkanic macho beasts.

by Anonymousreply 35October 6, 2021 11:19 PM

Geez: anger problems much, r27? Holy shit.

by Anonymousreply 36October 6, 2021 11:36 PM

There’s a David & Goliath mentality white men have with black men. Like when cops murder unarmed black men, it’s not always this racist Klan mindset, it’s this fear of being overpowered by a more dominant man. Cause white cops will fight white guys with their fists and wrestle them and shit but they’ll pull their gun out on black men quick. It’s total fear based on these hyper masculine stereotypes of black men.

With African slavery in the US, the one thing that lacks data is black male rape. There’s tons of history in the Caribbean about black men being held at castles where they were raped and castrated. There’s not much evidence black male slaves were forced to perform sexual acts with white slaveowners and something tells me nobody has dug into it enough. There’s no way it was just the women.

by Anonymousreply 37October 6, 2021 11:43 PM

R33 I don’t know, I feel like it’s different in Europe but we all know Africans have big dicks. I know there’s a world chart that show where’s the biggest dicks and where’s the smallest dicks in the world.

by Anonymousreply 38October 6, 2021 11:46 PM

"Oh, dear?" No, dear

R27 This is not school and you are not the teacher, you are a bitter old fucking queer. This is just the reason for the unpartnered gay men thread, no one likes you, you should go eat some broken glass and die.

by Anonymousreply 39October 6, 2021 11:46 PM

I think this is about basically giving a living dildo to the wife, to please her. So the more easily the husband can objectify the other man as a sex tool and not a human, the more appealing it is to him. That’s why the MAGAs have the fantasy of the black man doing it, because they view men of other races, especially Black men as less human. I don’t think a typical MAGA cuck would want to see a guy who looks like Christian Bale in American Psycho getting it on with his wife.

by Anonymousreply 40October 6, 2021 11:48 PM

R40 But it’s not just MAGA men.

by Anonymousreply 41October 6, 2021 11:50 PM

R41, you’re right, it’s not, but I’m guessing a lot of non-MAGA cucks would want a man who they could objectify and look down on in some way. Maybe a guy who looks like an idiot meathead, etc.

by Anonymousreply 42October 6, 2021 11:52 PM

R38 Believe me, and I know Italians very well, they are nice and friendly, but they feel superior due to their great contribution to mankind. They would tell that an elephsnt has big dixk too, but not Leonardo and Michelangelo.

Jews even more so. And rightfully so. In the end they gave Christ and Marx to the world.

by Anonymousreply 43October 6, 2021 11:53 PM

r34 They are aroused by masculinity - wether its in others (men) or by engaging in masculine activities like pounding pussy with another man. I also know other gay men who have no interest in women one on one, but love mfm threesomes more than mmm threesomes. They dont say thats what is ultimately getting them off, but it is. Its also why there are a lot of 'gay' men who are into the kink/leather scene who dabble in pussy in that context. On the one hand so strange and I dont get it, on the other hand it kind of makes sense. Its all a bit weird to me though tbh.

by Anonymousreply 44October 6, 2021 11:55 PM

R38 Do you think powerful peopke care so much about dick size. Africans have big dicks but they are bought by and in financial slavery to Chinese with their small dicks.

by Anonymousreply 45October 6, 2021 11:57 PM

Gay cuckoldry, the top cucks the bottom

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by Anonymousreply 46October 6, 2021 11:59 PM

Well, just like you Americans are in great debts to Chinese.

by Anonymousreply 47October 7, 2021 12:00 AM

I'd say it has to do with fantasizing that they are actually the ones being f***** instead of their wives.

by Anonymousreply 48October 7, 2021 12:05 AM

R37 It' s not something black people should take as a compliment. It means they see them as more animalistic and less civilized. A man is physically afraid of something wild. Being afraid of been raped by someone means that you think very law of the person, almost as an animal.

Guys from Netherlands are the tallest in Europe and I believe in world, yet smaller and physically weaker southern populations like Italians, Spanish, Greeks are not physically threathened by them.

by Anonymousreply 49October 7, 2021 12:08 AM

I don't say these things as a racist. You black people are talented in msny fields, you had great leaders like MLK, and I think it' s stupid of some of you to accept this hypermasculine dangerous beast sterotype.

by Anonymousreply 50October 7, 2021 12:11 AM

And tell me, would some white guy feel physically threathened by Obama. No, because they see him as an educated and civilized person, an equal.

by Anonymousreply 51October 7, 2021 12:21 AM

R31 R37 But would you personally really want to hurt and rape a white guy or is it just in their fantasy?

by Anonymousreply 52October 7, 2021 12:32 AM

I often played with a couple where the older guy loved to watch other men fuck his younger partner

by Anonymousreply 53October 7, 2021 12:48 AM
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by Anonymousreply 54October 7, 2021 12:50 AM

[quote] Geez: anger problems much, [R27]? Holy shit.

You're confusing smug dismissal for anger, illiterate shart.

[quote] This is not school and you are not the teacher,

When you've learned basic high school-level punctuation, you can judge, flatulent dinglewad. Until then, STFU, you inane low-rent whore.

by Anonymousreply 55October 7, 2021 1:38 AM

It has more to do with the cuckold getting off on his girlfriend/wife getting ultimate pleasure....its not just about the guy with expert sex skills and a huge dick. If that was the case the cuck would just be homosexual and seek men like this for his own pleasure. The woman is an essential part of the equation.

I think that's why some people just don't get it. And society has been conditioned for eons to treat women as objects used for her husband's pleasure only, cuckolding is a radical departure with the woman being satisfied as well.

Younger people have fewer hang-ups about inviting third parties in as well, which is why this genre of porn is proliferating.

by Anonymousreply 56October 7, 2021 1:48 AM

If it's just watching it's voyeurism, if it's another man taking over some "straight man's possession" i.e. what an incel thinks a wife is, makong the straight man seem powerless, then it's a cuck thing. No such thing as a "cuck" outside of straight relationships. It's an outdated sexist thing.

by Anonymousreply 57October 7, 2021 8:14 AM

I did a 3 way with a couple where I fucked the wife, the guy watched and jerked off and then 'cleaned up' his wife, eating my cum out of her, then he cleaned up me, and kept going til I shot a second load in his mouth. Kinda hot.

by Anonymousreply 58October 7, 2021 8:52 AM

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by Anonymousreply 59October 7, 2021 9:00 AM

It's all fun 'n games until it isn't. STDs, unwanted pregnancy, stalkers, robbery, blackmail, rape... You invite a strange man into your home and anything can happen.

by Anonymousreply 60October 7, 2021 9:06 AM

[Quote] Do the people who get turned on by it identify with the cuck watching

Yes. This.

by Anonymousreply 61October 7, 2021 9:24 AM

As with any fetish, if you don't yourself have it, it's hard to understand why it's a thing for other people - and they may even have a hard time explaining why they enjoy it too!

I knew an older/younger gay bodybuilder couple once where the older guy loved 'whoring' out his younger boyfriend, loved seeing him play with/fucked by other men - definitely didn't seem to me to be about him feeling inferior as he was hot, built and hung himself, I think he just got off on seeing his bf getting fucked. There's even a word for getting enjoyment from someone else's pleasure - compersion.

by Anonymousreply 62October 7, 2021 9:24 AM

R38 Do you really think the size of dick matters so much to anyone but size queens

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by Anonymousreply 63October 7, 2021 9:48 AM

R49 I certainly didn’t say it was a compliment. It’s about racism.

R50 Agreed but hyper masculinity is strong in the black community. Because there’s a wealth gap, there’s always been more need for muscle and less brain.

R51 Well first off all, plenty of white men hate Obama. Second, Obama is biracial and scrawny and more white than black because he was raised by his white family.

Idris Elba is not ā€œthuggishā€ but a great example. Black bodies are hot.

People want black physique too.

Just look at plastic surgery. People pay money for black features. Big lips, big asses, etc. The cosmetic industry right now is based on an exaggeration of black features.

by Anonymousreply 64October 7, 2021 11:24 AM

And to elaborate on the other side, white men are submissive.

I didn’t start seeing black men bottom for white men until the last 10 years. There were a couple before but interracial porn was always white bottom / black top.

In the US, white husbands are seen as cucks / simps. ā€œYes Dearā€, ā€œAnything you say dearā€ / ā€œHappy wife happy lifeā€.

When it comes to sex, white men are not seen as dominant.

Yes sexually there’s a stereotype of black men looked at as savages but when you think of stereotypes of perverted deviant creepy people, it’s white men. For example when you think of someone like a pedophile, a white man is the first to come to mind.

You guys bring up European stuff, it’s a different culture.

by Anonymousreply 65October 7, 2021 11:32 AM

It’s like when you look at women. White women fuck black men for dick, white women fuck white guys for money.

by Anonymousreply 66October 7, 2021 11:37 AM

Christ almighty. R15, you need to help this woman

by Anonymousreply 67October 7, 2021 11:47 AM

OP, pornography delves in areas of forbidden desires. ALL people of all persuasions seem to like infidelity fantasies and domination fantasies, but possibly because of the differences in culture, conservatives (more family and status quo oriented) seem a bit more drawn to infidelity porn, and liberals (equity and humanism oriented ) seem a bit more drawn to domination pron. . .

by Anonymousreply 68October 7, 2021 12:14 PM

R65 You are stereotyping and generalizing much. It is what racist do, to them all the members of a certain race are the same. And clearly you are rabid anti white.

Saying that all white men are submissive is ignorant and childish. What, all of them. Your statement lacks logic, because if they were submissive how the fuck are they running the world for centuries now. How come they colonized and enslaved the dominant men? And are still making decisions that have major influence on your life. How come they created at least 90% of world cultural heritage, philosophy, arts, literature, science, technology, etc. Cause the world as it is today is mostly the creation of white men. Seems dominant enough to me. Maybe too dominant and not giving enough space to the others.

Your is a stereotype frequently used by subordinate communities towards elite, among white people too. The men from elite are fagots, effeminate, prissy, dominated by their ladies, while working class are real macho men that are beasts in bed. And they claim to have natural wisdom while elites are degenerated.

Maybe as a hypermasculine man you attracted submissive white guys. If you were sweater and softer maybe you would have met different guys.

As for pedophiles and perverted, please. Let`s not start the discussion about Michael Jackson, RKelly, rumours about Puff daddy and Birdman. And who molested Oprah, white men?

It`s not racist, these are just facts.

by Anonymousreply 69October 7, 2021 2:41 PM

There used to a slew of videos titled ā€œYoga Hotwifeā€¦ā€ that involved her getting impaled by the large cock of the sexiest black man I’ve ever seen naked. I tried finding one to post here as an example but I’m afraid they’ve all been purged.

Anyhow, as a gay man I still found it equally incredibly hot to watch a white guy in the corner listening to his wife scream with pleasure as she was getting tailed and pounded in ecstasy as much as watching the ā€œbullā€ do the pounding.

While I don’t fetishize men based on race, I found myself doing so while watching this video, based wholly upon the scene they were making. Second-hand fetishization if you will. I’m unsure what yo make of it, but I do miss those videos.

by Anonymousreply 70October 7, 2021 5:20 PM

R69 No you totally missed the point.

My post about any of this isn’t based on personal views.

It’s based on stereotypes and generalizations. Funny you didn’t take issue with the several posts about black men being looked at as savages but took offense to my point on the perception / stereotypes of white men lol.

by Anonymousreply 71October 7, 2021 5:38 PM

I had a fuckbuddy who liked to have me fuck another bottom in the same bed.

by Anonymousreply 72October 7, 2021 6:34 PM

R71 You know when it`s closer to home. Not that I don`t care for black guys, I like them when they are not hypermasculine and total tops.

by Anonymousreply 73October 7, 2021 7:07 PM

R73 I'm pretty sure that most people on this board would disagree with the last part. That is the reason so many White men want Black men. I would imagine Black tops are a lot more popular than Black bottoms with gay White men.

And this is not because they "like" Black men, but because it feeds their fantasy of Black men - as has been deciphered exhaustively in this thread!

by Anonymousreply 74October 7, 2021 7:21 PM

[quote]with a lot of the cuck movies involve White men fantasizing about Black men fucking White wives. Why do YOU think that is? Sounds like some feelings of inadequacy to me. LOL

It’s not about inadequacy, R13. R19 and R20 are correct, the woman in this scenario is referred to as a ā€œslut wifeā€ because it’s about the wife being degraded and used.

[quote]Straight men like to see the proof that their wife is a dirty slut.

[quote][R19] Certainly a way of humiliating the wife.

by Anonymousreply 75October 7, 2021 7:35 PM

There are other types of cucking. Hot wives go out and fuck other guys because they want to. They may or may not share the proof with their husbands. In that form of cuckoldry, the man is not is humiliating his wife, she's humiliating him.

by Anonymousreply 76October 7, 2021 7:41 PM

I don’t believe it’s a humiliation because again there’s a stereotype that women prefer big black cocks as well. ā€œOnce you go black you never go backā€. Even the Golden Girls talked about big black cock.

And it goes back to what I was saying - men like BIG penis. They want to see big penis in porn. Black men are stereotyped as having huge cocks. When you watch this cuck porn we’re discussing it’s usually BIG black penis.

Again I don’t see how it’s humiliation for the woman in these videos when usually the scenario is the white woman wants to do it and makes the white husband watch.

If anything it plays into the role of white submissive husbands. They have to sit there and watch their wife get fucked by a big black guy who’s stronger than him with a bigger dick. I don’t see where the female being humiliated comes in.

Even in the bisexual ones, the white guy eats the cum up or sucks a little dick.

by Anonymousreply 77October 7, 2021 7:44 PM

And now that I think about it I’ve never seen a ā€œhumiliationā€ one where the white guy is forcing or telling the wife to get fucked by the black guy. It’s always the other way around and throughout the video she’ll humiliate him while he’s watching.

by Anonymousreply 78October 7, 2021 7:46 PM

I don’t know if humiliation is the right word, but there’s some degradation involved, in the sense that the husband is watching as the wife betrays him. Like ā€œI have the power to make you hurt me.ā€ It’s a complicated dynamic.

by Anonymousreply 79October 7, 2021 7:52 PM

hey guys, i'm an actual gay cuck. (for real) ask me anything

by Anonymousreply 80October 7, 2021 7:52 PM

^are you a top or a bottom?

by Anonymousreply 81October 7, 2021 7:53 PM

R80, so how do you demonstrate your cuckness?

by Anonymousreply 82October 7, 2021 7:53 PM

R81 i'm a top

by Anonymousreply 83October 7, 2021 7:54 PM

R69 and R73 are the same person (you can tell by their apostophes being the same odd character) but only one of those accounts is blocked by me (I can't see R69, which must be 1 of 2 people total I have blocked). Wow my first spotting of a second account/same person! Did i just become a real Datalounger?

by Anonymousreply 84October 7, 2021 7:55 PM

R82 letting my husband get fucked by other guys, getting off on it, occasionally wearing cock cages, being verbally humiliated, getting off on sph

by Anonymousreply 85October 7, 2021 7:56 PM

R75 It is about White male feelings of inadequacy.

The definition of a cuckold is: a man whose wife has sex with someone else : a man's whose wife commits adultery.

The active party her is the wife. The woman is doing this because SHE WANTS TO otherwise it would be rape. It is NOT rape.

The husband is powerless.

It is done to humiliate the husband and shine light on his inadequacy. BUT! That said, humiliation is a turn on for some men.

I know that White men here don't wanna hear that. But it is the truth. Some White men get off being emasculated by a big Black man taking his wife right in front of him and giving her what he cannot provide to her.

by Anonymousreply 86October 7, 2021 7:56 PM

here^^^

by Anonymousreply 87October 7, 2021 7:59 PM

Lots of cuckoldry is intraracial and I've seen black cucks who like to watch white men fuck their wives. What's the dynamic there?

by Anonymousreply 88October 7, 2021 7:59 PM

R88 It is the same dynamic. Do you think Black men cannot also feel inadequate? Any man can feel inadequate, regardless of penis size. So much goes into sexual prowess - dick size, body type, body size, intelligence, wealth, confidence, feeling sexy.

by Anonymousreply 89October 7, 2021 8:01 PM

I thought the cuck scenario involved a woman watching her husband getting fucked by another guy?

by Anonymousreply 90October 7, 2021 8:02 PM

It is a stereotype to believe that only white men are cuckolds. It is popular because so many White men feed into it, and let's be honest, White men run most of the porn studios so it is gonna feed their fantasies.

by Anonymousreply 91October 7, 2021 8:03 PM

R88 Yeah, it's the same erotic trigger just applied differently. People of all races get into submissive raceplay. And this is probably a less direct version of that.

by Anonymousreply 92October 7, 2021 8:03 PM

R90 no. or very very rarely

by Anonymousreply 93October 7, 2021 8:03 PM

As someone who is really into it, I think it's super super cool that gay porn studios are starting to do videos in this genre. Just a few years ago it was completely unheard of.

by Anonymousreply 94October 7, 2021 8:10 PM

R77 I dont know if you have ever seen a naked white man, but some of them have big cock too.

by Anonymousreply 95October 7, 2021 8:17 PM

R60, or they get cucked by their (sigh) next door neighbor and their 20 year marriage ends in divorce shortly thereafter when the fucker and fuckee start spending too much time together. Hot wife's cuck husband filed for divorce, she lost the $500,000 house along with her 20 year marriage and now either lives in a dumpy apartment or rents a room in someone's house, I'm not sure.

by Anonymousreply 96October 7, 2021 8:19 PM

R89 Of course they can. So many black man want to have white partners, much more than white men search partner pf other race. It is also for some feeling of inadequacy.

by Anonymousreply 97October 7, 2021 8:20 PM

Most gay cucks don't put as much emphasis on race play as straight ones do. But I really am turned on by it. But it's about much more than dick size. Most of cuckolding is about going against cultural norms and expectations. Expectations of monogamy and marriage. And it's about the cockiness and swagger of the bulls. And Black bulls usually have that in abundance.

by Anonymousreply 98October 7, 2021 8:20 PM

I have a female friend whose marriage is on the verge of falling apart because her husband's cuck fetish is getting out of control. She indulged him early in the relationship (pre-marriage) when it was a once or twice a year "treat" for him, but after they got married her husband got a lot pushier about it to the extent that it was happening more than 2 or 3 times a month. It's an odd dynamic because the fetish is definitely about humiliation. The husband is specifically getting off on being the small-dicked loser humiliated by the the big-dicked, masculine bull giving his wife the kind of pleasure he (in the fantasy fetish scenario) never could. But irl he's 100% the one driving this behaviour, demanding it of his wife etc. and she was never into it, only did it early on because he said it was a rare, once every now and then thing for him.

So that's a weird dynamic, the dude supposedly getting off on what a powerless loser he is but in reality he's the one in charge of the whole thing and his wife is starting to really hate it whereas at one point she tolerated it. They're in therapy but it has become clear that the husband was probably hiding the extent of the fetish early on and doesn't even really enjoy any kind of other sex (i.e. the kind his wife enjoys).

Also, his dick is reportedly average sized.

Fwiw you'd never guess a cuck fetish was this guy's thing. I find him pretentious and intellectually superior (he has a PhD and doesn't let anyone forget it) and didn't like him much even before I knew about is predilections. He doesn't treat my friend well, in my opinion, but like many straight women she makes a lot of excuses for him.

by Anonymousreply 99October 7, 2021 8:23 PM

R91 As other posters mentioned black men are very much sexualized so it is no wonder.

by Anonymousreply 100October 7, 2021 8:23 PM

R86 It can be that white men have this fetish. It is probably a bit remnant of racist view on a black men as over sexualized, more then the feeling of inadequacy. Of course that such a husband has humiliation issues, I dont think its something common IRL.

But I have noticed that it is more common for black man, when they have a certain status and wealth to find a white partner. I think this comes from feeling of inadequacy, in fact. Now it has become critisized by society and people are more aware of it.

by Anonymousreply 101October 7, 2021 8:32 PM

R77 You don`t know many white women, do you. Some of them have BBC fetish, for sure, but most of them are not that much obsessed with penis as gay men are. And women I know prefer to keep inside their own tribe, they are not very adventurous.

by Anonymousreply 102October 7, 2021 8:38 PM

Like, a decade ago Dan Savage wrote in an article that gay men cannot be cuckolds because that kind of scene would just turn into a regular threeway and gay men are not wired that way. . But I think he and most people have come around to understanding that many gay men are into this.

by Anonymousreply 103October 7, 2021 8:40 PM

LOL. This website is far more obsessed with race and race play then any interracial cuckolding forum I've visited.

by Anonymousreply 104October 7, 2021 8:41 PM

Sex researchers love this topic because Cuckolding among gay men was virtually nonexistent until the popularity of gay marriage. That shifted everything. And that's when you started seeing it on Tumblr and Twitter and in amateur porn at first and then studio porn.

by Anonymousreply 105October 7, 2021 8:43 PM

R104 It is one poster that wants to prove that white men have small penis problem and want to get their wives fucked by a Big Black Bear. The others are just replying.

by Anonymousreply 106October 7, 2021 8:43 PM

R104 Obviously the poster have bigger inadequacy issues than said white husbands as he has to prove on this thread that Blacks have big dicks.

by Anonymousreply 107October 7, 2021 8:44 PM

I read somewhere that any time sex involves two men, it is a homosexual act, even if there is a woman between them and the men never touch. I think R48 is right, the man wants to be the 'slut' and have sex with big-dicked men, the wife is his proxy. I knew a straight couple that were swingers and eventually it became the husband watching while his wife had sex with men. But what she didn't know is that when he went on business trips he would visit ABS.

by Anonymousreply 108October 7, 2021 8:45 PM

R108 I have heard of such a theory long ago, that it is guys who can not accept their homosexuality, latent types who enjoy it. I thought it was more in the past, but it obviously still exists.

by Anonymousreply 109October 7, 2021 8:49 PM

R108 that seems like a silly thing to have read

by Anonymousreply 110October 7, 2021 8:49 PM

R 108 It is like Charmies, those women fantasize about sex between Timothee and Armie as Timmy as their proxy, because they feel too old and fat for Randy Armie.

by Anonymousreply 111October 7, 2021 8:54 PM

R111 not a fan of the cannibalism but Armie could cuck me any day! plus, my husband thinks he's really hot

by Anonymousreply 112October 7, 2021 8:58 PM

R112 You don“t mind his wooden acting?

by Anonymousreply 113October 7, 2021 9:02 PM

R86 And what are your personal preferences, would you bottom for a nice white guy?

by Anonymousreply 114October 7, 2021 9:04 PM

That reminds of young Eminem.

by Anonymousreply 115October 7, 2021 9:05 PM

And is warm, attentive, caring.

by Anonymousreply 116October 7, 2021 9:06 PM

[quote] letting my husband get fucked by other guys, getting off on it

that doesn't make you a cuck R85, it just makes your relationship open. A cuck isn't in a position of power to "let" their partner do anything.

That's what pisses me off about gay cuckolds, they really just selfish tops whoring our their partners at their whim. They're closer to pimps than cucks.

by Anonymousreply 117October 7, 2021 9:25 PM

LondonCuckold is a bottom.

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by Anonymousreply 118October 7, 2021 9:28 PM

What do you call cucking where the cuck is sexually involved with the buck?

by Anonymousreply 119October 7, 2021 9:29 PM

R117 ok, thanks for your opinion but that's not the case for us. i'm not even close to a pimp. he is quite capable of finding guys on his own and he is into cucking me.

by Anonymousreply 120October 7, 2021 9:29 PM

I am referring to bisexual cucking, not gay

by Anonymousreply 121October 7, 2021 9:29 PM

R119 it certainly isn't Cuckolding in a traditional sense. more like a triad or poly relationship with some interesting power dynamics.

by Anonymousreply 122October 7, 2021 9:32 PM

R122 oh, you mean sexually involved, not emotionally? yeah it's bi(ish) cuckolding

by Anonymousreply 123October 7, 2021 9:33 PM

Michael Lucas has made some good humiliating cuckold porn

by Anonymousreply 124October 7, 2021 9:34 PM

Oh God, all you talk about is porn, is not there anyone romantic?

by Anonymousreply 125October 7, 2021 9:37 PM

Someone who cries on CMBYN

by Anonymousreply 126October 7, 2021 9:37 PM

When Armie leaves in train going to rehab?

by Anonymousreply 127October 7, 2021 9:38 PM

R125 I love being cucked in real life. And in the moment it can be very intense and passionate. But we keep our extracurricular activities purely physical and don't get emotionally involved with the bulls

by Anonymousreply 128October 7, 2021 9:40 PM

R128 You can call me frau, but I dont like the cuck.

by Anonymousreply 129October 7, 2021 9:42 PM

I want to be cucked by Rhyheim Shabazz! Handcuffed to a chair in the corner while he gives my husband a night of passion and physical satisfaction like I never can. I want to see my husband cum without touching his dick, just by getting pounded by Rhyheim. I want them to forget I'm there then when they realize it I want them to verbally humiliate me.

by Anonymousreply 130October 7, 2021 9:44 PM

[quote]But I have noticed that it is more common for black man, when they have a certain status and wealth to find a white partner. I think this comes from feeling of inadequacy, in fact. Now it has become critisized by society and people are more aware of it.

But the fact remains that the vast majority of married black men, even the wealthy ones, are married to black partners. No matter the wealth, education, career... intraracial partnering is the norm. I'm not sure how small you'd have to slice a black male demo to find one where the majority are in interracial relationships. And anyway, all of the angst over this subject is so overblown and purely driven by false perceptions about who black male celebrities are allegedly dating and marrying and what that must mean for the 99.9% of people who aren't celebrities.

by Anonymousreply 131October 7, 2021 9:45 PM

R131 But it is not a sin to marry someone of different race

by Anonymousreply 132October 7, 2021 9:48 PM

Luckily, beautiful Steve is open minded about it.

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by Anonymousreply 133October 7, 2021 9:51 PM

R133 Is there some context I am missing here?

by Anonymousreply 134October 7, 2021 9:54 PM

R134 That beautiful Steve is not closed minded about dating someone of different race like R131

by Anonymousreply 135October 7, 2021 9:55 PM

R132

[quote]But it is not a sin to marry someone of different race.

Who said it was? You're to be commended for speaking more than one language, but do continue to work on your English comprehension.

by Anonymousreply 136October 7, 2021 10:00 PM

That new out NFL player could cuck me too! a 6'7" bull? My husband would be in heaven

by Anonymousreply 137October 7, 2021 10:12 PM

Guys, I am a fraulein and if my boyfriend wanted to cuck I would kick him in the cock.

by Anonymousreply 138October 7, 2021 10:32 PM

Please don't forget the steel-tipped boots, Fraulein @ R138!

Vielen Dank!

by Anonymousreply 139October 7, 2021 10:42 PM

R138 Which is exactly why that porn genre is exploding. Most guys are afraid to tell their wives they're into it and just watch it online.

by Anonymousreply 140October 7, 2021 10:45 PM

R102 I know plenty of white women. I’m biracial. White Mom, Black Dad which is the most common black / white interracial relationship.

You’re right about the latter, white women are less likely to date outside of their race. On dating sites, while women go after white men but white women are actually #2 for white men on dating apps. I believe it’s Middle Eastern women white men prefer. The ones that look like Jasmine from Aladdin.

R106 R107 right I’m totally making up this idea of big black dick being a stereotype. Right out of thin air. No such idea exists lol.

by Anonymousreply 141October 7, 2021 10:49 PM

R140 This porn films are disgusting too. But I do not really know what he does behind my back.

by Anonymousreply 142October 7, 2021 10:49 PM

They want to see their spouse humiliated by being fucked by an "animal". There is a racist element as well as a humiliation aspect to this fetish. Cuckolds are a few porn rabbit-holes away from watching Tijuana donkey shows.

by Anonymousreply 143October 7, 2021 10:50 PM

Twitter is the best place for cuckold porn and a sense of a cuckold fetish community. There are some seriously hot accounts on there.

by Anonymousreply 144October 7, 2021 11:02 PM

R143 These men, they really can be twisted.

by Anonymousreply 145October 7, 2021 11:02 PM

R102 To me size is not that important neither, but honestly. I prefer pretty face, good style, cool attitude, some education and knowledge and intelligence. And sweet nature.

by Anonymousreply 146October 7, 2021 11:07 PM

I prefer him.

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by Anonymousreply 147October 7, 2021 11:10 PM

Seems like everybody left, was it because of me?Too bad, I could have given them an opinion from female side abot this cuku.

I mean those guys were discussing about women's experiences for hours and when an actual woman joined they fleed.

by Anonymousreply 148October 7, 2021 11:57 PM

R148 I know you're talking about a different perspective but there are a few women in the scene who are pretty amazing people. They have done quite a few media appearances about the subject.

by Anonymousreply 149October 8, 2021 12:15 AM

I wonder if there are any gay celebrities that are cucks?

by Anonymousreply 150October 8, 2021 12:27 AM

In the gay community it's known as having an open relationship

by Anonymousreply 151October 8, 2021 1:22 AM

R151 nah, it's a completely different dynamic

by Anonymousreply 152October 8, 2021 1:31 AM

[Quote]So many black man want to have white partners, much more than white men search partner pf other race.

I was with you until you went here. That is just simply a lie.

White people fuck every race under the sun (just go on any military base). White men are always looking for something "exotic" or unusual.

That said, most people (White and Black included) seek to date people of their own race (for various reasons).

If Black people were disproportionately seeking White partners they'd have them. That aint some kinda prize or a privilege to date someone White. What is this, the US Deep South in the 1850s? LOL For a Black man there are MANY opportunities for it. It's nothing special. LOL

Given that Black people only make up 13% of the US population (and people usually date within their race) there would necessarily be MANY more opportunities for a Black man to find a "compatible" White person to date (if they wanted to) than it would be for a White person to find a "compatible" Black person to date.

The truth is that based on the numbers alone, White people don't have the same opportunities to get Black dick. If anything there would necessarily be more thirsty White people chasing Black men. LOL Numbers don't lie.

BTW, scroll up. Apparently you missed the whole conversation about White people's objectification of the Black man's penis. LOL Go on any dating app. Lots of White people are just begging for BBC (BIG BLACK COCK)! You know it's true! LOL

Sounds like you have a "fear of a Black Planet." LOL Calm your racist jets, because in the US it is about to get a lot Browner before it gets Blacker. Latinos are the largest growing minority.

Stop being a dumbass!

Bottomline, I would never yuck anyone's yum. People can date whomever they want, but trust me, if a Black man (any Black man) wants a White lover, he can have one. It's not the rare and special, elusive "treat" you think it is that all Black men are just dying to have! HAHAHAHA

by Anonymousreply 153October 8, 2021 4:16 PM

R147 Me too, Giulietta.

by Anonymousreply 154October 8, 2021 8:41 PM

I feel like most gay cuckold porn or erotica or community started on tumblr as states were starting to approve gay marriage.

by Anonymousreply 155October 8, 2021 9:58 PM

R141 Biracial guys can be cute, are you?

by Anonymousreply 156October 8, 2021 10:06 PM

this is a pretty good video

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by Anonymousreply 157October 8, 2021 10:17 PM

What would be worse for dude on left? Impending death or the final humiliation of being compared to dude on right?

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by Anonymousreply 158October 9, 2021 9:43 PM

I can not speak in the name of all women, maybe there are ones who love extra large cocks, but I think it is more of a male obsession. To me, it is more important that a guy is well educated, nice and reliable.

by Anonymousreply 159October 31, 2021 10:04 AM

R158 Death, death is worse.

Small cocks rock.

by Anonymousreply 160October 31, 2021 10:19 AM

YES R159.

Based on the fact that most marriages are virtually sexless (and/or end in divorce) after the kids are on their way to adulthood, most women don't give two shits about the size of a man's penis.

Most women would settle for small cock if the guy was nice and stuck around post-breeding so she had someone to talk to.

Men are obsessed with dicks because most men have small ones (penis envy).

Gay men want to suck them.

by Anonymousreply 161October 31, 2021 10:24 AM
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