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Possible to be Pregnant and Not Know?

I’m being hit up for $$$ contributions for a former colleague, stretching it, as we didn’t even work in same department. Apparently, this dumbfuck frau, who has a Ph.D. in education, recently gave birth in her bathroom. She didn’t know she was pregnant and she shat out a baby boy estimated to be premature at 34 weeks. I’m part of this chain email about the “miracle birth”, details trickling in from colleagues who know her better than I do. She apparently still doesn’t believe what she and her BF did was “actual sex” and she didn’t experience anything except “stomach bulge” and nausea during her pregnancy. My question is, can it be possible that a fairly intelligent woman not know she was pregnant? She’s from a Middle Eastern background and engaged to her BF of similar background. The BF whom I saw once, pinged to me as a bossy bottom. but that’s beside the point. I tend to think surprise births are not total shock but deep denial instead. And fuck no I’m not contributing a dime, she and her gay BF live in a luxury condo in SF and both drive Teslas. I’m just curious how a woman not know she’s pregnant.

by Anonymousreply 115October 8, 2021 12:27 AM

Yes.

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by Anonymousreply 1October 4, 2021 8:38 PM

[quote]She laughed when she told TODAY Parents that looking back now there were clear signs but at the time her son was born, she'd had no idea she was pregnant. She thought she was trying to pass a kidney stone.

[quote]"The only relief I would get was sitting on the toilet," she said. "So I was in the bathroom, and I ... couldn't sit still. I was screaming, I was trying not to be loud like I didn't know what this was."

[quote]She said finally at one point she felt something rush out of her.

[quote]"I look in the toilet and I still didn't know what it was," she said. "And I thought I basically lost an organ because I didn't know!"

[quote]Surgecoff said she stood up and didn't realize what was in the toilet bowl until her fiancé went to look.

[quote]"I'm screaming, I'm freaking out, I'm in shock," she recalled. "I don't know what's going on, and Donnie went to the toilet, and he rescued the baby."

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by Anonymousreply 2October 4, 2021 8:41 PM

Correction R1: "I didn't know I was having a baby until I SEEN its head."

by Anonymousreply 3October 4, 2021 8:43 PM

"Honey, you just had a baby in your pants."

by Anonymousreply 4October 4, 2021 8:43 PM

This one farted out a baby after thinking she was having digestive issues.

[quote]Brittany Darilek told KTRK she was feeling excruciating stomach pain and assumed she was experiencing digestive issues on the night she went into labor.

[quote]Darilek said her mother told her to get into the bathtub to relieve the pain.

[quote]“I gave one basically big push and instant relief. It flushes immediately over me. I pick her up and it is Madi, born in a bathtub, 7 pounds, 2 ounces, 20.5 inches. She’s just there, eyes open and all of that, just looking at me, (with) bright blue eyes,” Darilek recalled.

[quote]So, why didn’t Darilek know she was expecting? It’s a question she gets a lot.

[quote]“I got my menstrual cycle every month,” she said. “I gained about 15 pounds.”

[quote]She said she didn’t show, but looking back at her pregnancy, there were symptoms. She dismissed them, however, because of her menstrual cycle.

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by Anonymousreply 5October 4, 2021 8:47 PM

barf-o-rama

by Anonymousreply 6October 4, 2021 8:49 PM

Terlet babies

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by Anonymousreply 7October 4, 2021 8:50 PM

There used to be a TV shows called: I Didn't Know I was Pregnant.

Some even had twins and claimed they didn't know.

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by Anonymousreply 8October 4, 2021 8:52 PM

[quote]One study estimates that 1 in about 2,500 women do not realize they are carrying a child until they go into labor, while 1 in 475 don’t catch on until 20 weeks into gestation. But research on the subject is limited, and there’s much that medical practitioners continue to puzzle over.

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by Anonymousreply 9October 4, 2021 8:54 PM
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by Anonymousreply 10October 4, 2021 8:55 PM
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by Anonymousreply 11October 4, 2021 8:58 PM
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by Anonymousreply 12October 4, 2021 8:59 PM

[quote]Possible to be Pregnant and Not Know?

I'm in my 23rd month.

by Anonymousreply 13October 4, 2021 9:01 PM

Bitch has a PHD and a gofundme? Fuck off. Tell her to put the toilet turd up for adoption.

by Anonymousreply 14October 4, 2021 9:05 PM

I don't believe this shit. I do believe these women are in denial abt being preggo, however, and are probably certifiable.

As for the email chain and donation request, fuck it and fuck her.

by Anonymousreply 15October 4, 2021 9:20 PM

Apparently a woman can become pregnant without "actual sex," i.e., full penetration. There was a famous divorce case in Britain in the 1920s about this. The wife, Christabel Hart, claimed that she and her husband, John Russell, had never had sex--at least not a completed sex act--even though she had given birth to a son. Russell had, she said, entered her bedroom one night and engaged in what she cryptically described as "Hunnish practices." Russell, in turn, claimed that the child was not his and that Christabel had been unfaithful. However, doctors affirmed that she was, in fact, a virgin, at least until she gave birth.

by Anonymousreply 16October 4, 2021 9:24 PM

Omg!! Def trying Hunnish practices tonight!🤩

by Anonymousreply 17October 4, 2021 9:30 PM

Groooooossssssss

by Anonymousreply 18October 4, 2021 9:33 PM

So presumably none of these women had any kind of pre-natal care, nor did they avoid smoking, drinking, or other activities that are known to be harmful to a fetus. Has anyone done a study to see if these types of births gave involved babies with more-than-usual health issues?

by Anonymousreply 19October 4, 2021 9:41 PM

Why aren’t we discussing the BF who pinged as a bossy bottom?

by Anonymousreply 20October 4, 2021 9:43 PM

[quote]Possible to be Pregnant and Not Know?

Not for too many months.

by Anonymousreply 21October 4, 2021 9:55 PM

R15, I knew someone who had this happen. She was the sister of a woman I babysat for and her daughter was in my high school class. She was very overweight and had previously had multiple children. She had no clue she was pregnant. The sister I knew well was appalled, but she believed it. This was in the 1960s and it seemed pretty shocking to me as someone in high school.

by Anonymousreply 22October 4, 2021 10:29 PM

Thank the gods I'm gay.

by Anonymousreply 23October 4, 2021 10:31 PM

r23 And such a waste of those child-bearing hips!

by Anonymousreply 24October 4, 2021 10:41 PM

I’m not a woman and have never been pregnant so I can’t say from experience. But it does seem wild and hard to believe.

Some of these women might have been in strange states of denial.

Still, I think it is rare but possible for a women to be pregnant and not know until they are giving birth. Freaky to think about!

by Anonymousreply 25October 4, 2021 10:43 PM

Ask meeeeeee!

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by Anonymousreply 26October 4, 2021 10:44 PM

I don’t know how they ignored the fact they missed their period for 9 months, but…

by Anonymousreply 27October 4, 2021 10:45 PM

I have a couple friends who work in OB. In their experience, these "I didn't know I was pregnant" cases almost always have a history of mental illness.

by Anonymousreply 28October 4, 2021 10:49 PM

My friends daughter always denies she is pregnant and pops another one out just before Christmas every year.

Eighteen of the nineteen babies have survived (one died at 6 weeks). She's 49 now so I'd imagine soon it will come to a natural end, especially as she looks like one of 'The Fat Slags' from Viz.

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by Anonymousreply 29October 4, 2021 11:01 PM

i knew someone who had a surprise birth 11 months after having her first child. She hadnt taken off any of the pregnancy weight from the previous baby.

by Anonymousreply 30October 4, 2021 11:07 PM

Years ago, maybe 65 or 70 (wayyy before my time) my parents were friends with a married couple. The husband got a call at work to come to the hospital, his wife just had a baby. He thought at first someone was pulling his leg. Neither of them knew she was pregnant. She didn’t get very big and they thought she’d gained a little weight. Not trash, educated people.

by Anonymousreply 31October 4, 2021 11:07 PM

It's possible, but only if you're fat and clueless.

by Anonymousreply 32October 4, 2021 11:13 PM

Haha! Thanks, R24. If I had those hips, at least it would give my form some kind of dimension. Unfortunately, the only curve I've ever had was above my waist, and below my tits. But that's largely gone now, and shrinking all the time.

by Anonymousreply 33October 4, 2021 11:14 PM

I find it hard to believe; a woman's body changes during menstruation and certainly during pregnancy. These women that "didn't know" are clueless, drunk morans.

by Anonymousreply 34October 4, 2021 11:28 PM

This sounds pretty crazy. It sounds as if they did it and she got pregnant, and she's lying and saying they didn't do it. She had to have known.

Yes, I believe it is **possible** to get preggo if the guy ejaculates right by your woo-woo and you are young and very fertile. I guess I can buy that.

As for me, I was in my mid 30's and trying to get pregnant. It was super typical. Took about four months to get pregnant each time. I knew within a few days because I had strange little cramps that didn't feel like anything I'd felt before. But I was very aware and looking for pregnancy. I've never known anyone who didn't know.

by Anonymousreply 35October 4, 2021 11:30 PM

Nothing I hate more than the term “preggo.” ⬆️

by Anonymousreply 36October 4, 2021 11:35 PM

It's not as bad as "preggers" and "sporting a baby bump".

by Anonymousreply 37October 4, 2021 11:46 PM

when this happens, it's inevitably to a morbidly obese woman who is dumb as a post

by Anonymousreply 38October 4, 2021 11:52 PM

I need to pursue some hunnish practices with a horse hung Hun soon or I'll go crazy. I haven't been fucked in 2 years.

by Anonymousreply 39October 4, 2021 11:52 PM

I was going to add "Preggers" too.

Bun in the Oven

In a Family Way

In Trouble

by Anonymousreply 40October 4, 2021 11:55 PM

Knocked up

by Anonymousreply 41October 4, 2021 11:55 PM

I could see this happening to a young teen girl because a pubescent body goes through so many changes it might be hard to know what is baseline.

by Anonymousreply 42October 5, 2021 12:13 AM

F_ around and find out

by Anonymousreply 43October 5, 2021 12:19 AM

What about those eye drops they give the little babies? What about the eye drops!?!?

by Anonymousreply 44October 5, 2021 12:42 AM

LIARS above. For example the woman who claims to have had her period through 9 months of unknown pregnancy. NOPE.

by Anonymousreply 45October 5, 2021 1:12 AM

Babies move. If you see your abdomen moving and feel something kicking inside, and you can't figure out what might be going on... there's something seriously wrong with you.

by Anonymousreply 46October 5, 2021 10:23 PM

Well, that’s true.

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by Anonymousreply 47October 6, 2021 5:39 AM

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by Anonymousreply 48October 6, 2021 6:13 AM

it's definitely possible, if for (one or more of) the reasons of being overweight/obese, under-educated, in denial (which can be a real, mental thing), and women can DEFINITELY spot/bleed throughout their entire pregnancy (which usually indicates a problem, but some women still deliver healthy babies).

So yes, it happens.

by Anonymousreply 49October 6, 2021 6:23 AM

yES, MY HUGE ms ART TEACHER WAS OUT BECAUSE SHE HAD A SUPRISE BABY. opps. She was big. I believe it. Spotty to no periods anyway. How would you know?

by Anonymousreply 50October 6, 2021 6:30 AM

A pregnant MAN OR WOMAN OP! Please be CLEAR and INCLUSIVE to all possible pregnant PEOPLE.

Thank you.

by Anonymousreply 51October 6, 2021 6:47 AM

It happened to me.

by Anonymousreply 52October 6, 2021 7:02 AM

Why not? Apparently it's perfectly possible to run for vice-president and be in front of the media day in and day out yet not let anyone catch on that you're pregnant.

by Anonymousreply 53October 6, 2021 7:08 AM

R53, can we discuss that more? It was her daughter's baby, right?

by Anonymousreply 54October 6, 2021 5:04 PM

No, her daughter has several bastards of her own. The Down’s baby belonged to ancient Sarah.

by Anonymousreply 55October 6, 2021 5:08 PM

she could always ask google

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by Anonymousreply 56October 6, 2021 5:26 PM

But did she know she was pregnant? If so, why were the pregnancy and birth shrouded in secrecy? She flew back to Alaska from Texas recall AFTER she went into labor. She was 44, not a particularly safe age to be flying around while in labor.

by Anonymousreply 57October 6, 2021 5:32 PM

It is. Sounds like a nightmare. Didn't you guys see Precious?

by Anonymousreply 58October 6, 2021 5:35 PM

I think it was the daughter's baby. The daughter was around 15 at the time. This was before the daughter had other kids.

by Anonymousreply 59October 6, 2021 6:25 PM

Down’s Syndrome babies don’t usually happen to 15 year old mothers. They typically happen to mid-40s women like Sarah.

by Anonymousreply 60October 6, 2021 6:27 PM

Have you forgotten today’s the day of my abortion?

by Anonymousreply 61October 6, 2021 6:40 PM

R28, Now, I could definitely buy that and it makes sense.

by Anonymousreply 62October 6, 2021 6:53 PM

Oops R28.

I have only known of one person that claimed this. I was in junior high. The chick played volleyball and basketball right up until the birth. I presume she knew and didn't want it be real.

by Anonymousreply 63October 6, 2021 6:55 PM

Going to re-read up on Down Syndrome right now. I thought I had read it could also happen in very young mothers.

by Anonymousreply 64October 6, 2021 7:29 PM

Okay, I can't find anything on teens and DS, but I thought I read about this years ago.

by Anonymousreply 65October 6, 2021 7:50 PM

Down Syndrome babies are exceedingly rare in teen mothers, and much more of a risk in geriatric pregnancies. That baby was Sarah Palin’s own.

by Anonymousreply 66October 6, 2021 8:13 PM

Maybe THATS why I have been gaining so much?

by Anonymousreply 67October 6, 2021 8:20 PM

Sorry, I'm pretty sure it was her daughter's baby. Too weird a situation.

by Anonymousreply 68October 6, 2021 8:21 PM

[quote]Maybe THATS why I have been gaining so much—Jazz Jennings

Yes, that it’s honey. Your imaginary uterus is growing an imaginary baby that’s going to come out of your fake front-hole. Better keep on eating for two, fat pig.

by Anonymousreply 69October 6, 2021 9:56 PM

[quote]Sorry, I'm pretty sure it was her daughter's baby. Too weird a situation.

No, it’s not unusual that an obviously fertile mid-40s woman who already has 4 kids could get pregnant again and deliver a Down’s Syndrome baby.

by Anonymousreply 70October 6, 2021 9:58 PM

What are"Hunnish"practices?

by Anonymousreply 71October 6, 2021 10:03 PM

Good Gracious Momma dey was shows about it. Have you never heard of a toilet baby?

by Anonymousreply 72October 6, 2021 10:06 PM

ooops

link here

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by Anonymousreply 73October 6, 2021 10:07 PM

I was skimming the literature and trying to find something on teen pregnancy and DS. I did find that DS is much more common in older women who have not previously had children. First pregnancies.

I think she supposedly went back to Alaska and had the baby in some little podunk place, with few witnesses. Hence the theory that it was her daughter's baby. I believe that.

Another theory was that she knew the baby had DS and was TRYING to kill the baby by not getting good medical care. Can someone start a proper thread on this?

by Anonymousreply 74October 6, 2021 10:09 PM

I would think it is if you're really fat and/or have irregular periods.

by Anonymousreply 75October 6, 2021 10:10 PM

yeah, it's a thing. I think it used to be more common back in the days when girls knew so little about sex. I recently read something about it. It's called a cryptic pregnancy.

by Anonymousreply 76October 6, 2021 10:24 PM

Am I pregonate?

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by Anonymousreply 77October 6, 2021 10:29 PM

I’m shocked at the number of women who are 6 mos pregnant and don’t even know it. I know two myself, both had already had kids. I can’t imagine giving birth in three months and not even knowing it.

by Anonymousreply 78October 6, 2021 10:34 PM

What does one name a toilet baby?

Commode? Loo? WC? Privy?

by Anonymousreply 79October 6, 2021 10:41 PM

This happened to my cousin. She was a big strapping gal who had done a triathlon and was in grad school. There’s a photo of her at about seven months and she didn’t look pregnant. She found out three weeks before she actually gave birth.

I don’t know, man. Babies kick around in there; you can actually see their little feet and hands protruding maybe it’s different for fat women and the fat disguises that. But you can still feel the movement.

by Anonymousreply 80October 6, 2021 10:44 PM

The baby was the daughter's, in spite of the one insistent troll who wants it to be Sarah's.

by Anonymousreply 81October 6, 2021 10:52 PM

My aunt had four children. The second of her four children has Down's syndrome. My aunt was in her early 20s when she had the child, probably 23 or 24.

by Anonymousreply 82October 6, 2021 11:53 PM

r79 Tye D Bowl

by Anonymousreply 83October 7, 2021 12:46 AM

If the toilet baby is a girl and resulted from the pull-out method you should name her Jennifer, middle name Convertibles. Otherwise, name it Splash.

I thought I was bloated, I didn't realize it was a gestational gunt!

by Anonymousreply 84October 7, 2021 1:39 AM

LaTrina

by Anonymousreply 85October 7, 2021 1:39 AM

Lava-Tori

by Anonymousreply 86October 7, 2021 1:41 AM

I can't imagine being told by my parents that I was born in a toilet bowl and had to be rescued from it. How could I have pretended my whole life that I'm Charles Ryder if I was born in a toilet?

by Anonymousreply 87October 7, 2021 1:44 AM

Bebe de Toilette

by Anonymousreply 88October 7, 2021 1:50 AM

[quote]So, why didn’t Darilek know she was expecting? It’s a question she gets a lot. “I got my menstrual cycle every month,” she said. “I gained about 15 pounds.” She said she didn’t show, but looking back at her pregnancy, there were symptoms. She dismissed them, however, because of her menstrual cycle.

Okay, honest question: Is it physically possible for a pregnant woman to continue to menstruate? Or is this woman (and others like) outright lying?

by Anonymousreply 89October 7, 2021 1:51 AM

^ I want to know too, and I'm a she.

by Anonymousreply 90October 7, 2021 3:42 AM

Yes, a woman can menstate during pregnancy although it's usually lighter

by Anonymousreply 91October 7, 2021 3:56 AM

I hit the button before finishing. It's not actually menstruation though because there's no egg. But, bleeding through pregnancy without an egg is not unusual.

by Anonymousreply 92October 7, 2021 3:58 AM

Happened to my cousin. She also had 5 kids by 3 different guys, so maybe she got used to it? This all unfolded in Florida. I can’t tell the difference. The men drove truck, and the women were women. All in the shadow of Walt Dizzy. You ever been in an Orlando suburb past midnight?

by Anonymousreply 93October 7, 2021 4:02 AM

Well, you learn something new every day. I honestly thought that all menstruation ceased when a woman is pregnant, and that this is how many women first realize they're pregnant -- when they miss a period. And I guess ALL these women who claim to have given birth without realizing they were pregnant thought the same.

If it's true that SOMETIMES menstruation ceases during pregnancy, but not always, I don't understand why.

by Anonymousreply 94October 7, 2021 2:26 PM

Women do NOT menstruate during pregnancy. Some women experience spotting or bleeding during pregnancy, which is not normal and usually indicates a problem… although sometimes it’s not anything serious.

by Anonymousreply 95October 7, 2021 3:25 PM

R87 On the bright side, " Born on The Toilet: A Memoir of Love, Laughter, and Triumph of the Human Spirit" would be an inspiring memoir.

by Anonymousreply 96October 7, 2021 3:38 PM

Well, what happened to me was the opposite. I thought I was pregnant and was so excited. I had a baby shower. The names I picked out were "Tiffany" for a girl and "Kingslee" if it was a boy. I just wanted a healthy baby. When I went to the hospital with labor pains they told me there was no baby, it were gas pains so they sent me home. It hurt so bad though. That night I pooped and felt better. Now my friends are mad because I'm keeping the presents but I'm pregnant again so what's the problem? Bitches.

by Anonymousreply 97October 7, 2021 4:14 PM

[quote]Women do NOT menstruate during pregnancy. Some women experience spotting or bleeding during pregnancy, which is not normal and usually indicates a problem… although sometimes it’s not anything serious.

Okay, but I assume that kind of bleeding would not happen with any regularity, like a once-a-month period. So these idiots should have realized it was NOT menstruation and should have paid attention to the other signs and think, "Hmmmm, you know, I MIGHT be pregnant!"

by Anonymousreply 98October 7, 2021 4:55 PM

R98, women can have very irregular cycles. I worked with a woman who once mentioned she got her period only every two or three months. No, I do not remember what promoted her to tell me that, but I have no reason to think that she was making it up.

by Anonymousreply 99October 7, 2021 5:23 PM

This whole thing is disgusting. My tasteful friends, this is why we are gay.

by Anonymousreply 100October 7, 2021 5:36 PM

R100, it is disgusting. Menstruation is gross, and having a human growing inside you is absolutely crazy. Having a baby COME OUT of your twat is fucking insane. But that is also the way it is. I kind of get why some girls want to become men so they won't have to deal with this, but natal men cannot understand what it is truly like for your body to be that gross. Yes, I am making this an anti-trans thread.

by Anonymousreply 101October 7, 2021 5:51 PM

It only seems possible for the people who don't take care of their health or are uninsured. Even for the rare cases where the women still had periods, I'd think they would notice other changes to their body. Weight gain, nausea, expanding stomach even if it's small. I'd think think those symptoms over more than 4 months would be enough to make someone head to the doctor for at least a checkup even if they didn't think pregnancy.

by Anonymousreply 102October 7, 2021 5:52 PM

I shat out an orange turd but that is as close as I came.

by Anonymousreply 103October 7, 2021 5:57 PM

If a person is a natal female who has had "sex" sex with a natal male, one should consider pregnancy. I have also seen pregnancy tests at Dollar Tree, although that is not where I would choose to buy them.

by Anonymousreply 104October 7, 2021 5:58 PM

We have very much the same philosophy, R101. As Chris Crocker used to say: “I came out of my mothers twat holding my nose and with my eyes closed.

by Anonymousreply 105October 7, 2021 6:46 PM

R105 No, that's what your mom was doing, you were stinking up the joint.

by Anonymousreply 106October 7, 2021 7:09 PM

R102 nails it.

by Anonymousreply 107October 7, 2021 7:14 PM

Wait, OP, if she doesn't think what she and her boyfriend were doing was "actual sex," what does she consider "actual sex?"

by Anonymousreply 108October 7, 2021 7:30 PM

As you must know from experience, Hunnish practices are very ambiguous, even for sophisticated and experienced gay men. Imagine when the incels take to the Hunnish.

by Anonymousreply 109October 7, 2021 7:36 PM

when the man goes Hunnish up the woman.

by Anonymousreply 110October 7, 2021 7:37 PM

I understand what R102 is saying, but in this country having insurance doesn't make prenatal care, or abortion services, truly accessible and affordable. I imagine that may be a factor in some of the denialism.

by Anonymousreply 111October 7, 2021 10:00 PM

They all know but don’t acknowledge it because of mental illness or fear of being judged.

by Anonymousreply 112October 7, 2021 10:29 PM

[quote]They all know but don’t acknowledge it because of mental illness or fear of being judged.

Sorry to say, I think that's true in at least some of these cases. Mental illness is, of course, a sound explanation, but fear of being judged? Ummm, did these women not realize the baby was going to come eventually anyway? Or did they hope they would miscarry, or have the baby when they were alone or with one or two other people who would collude with them in killing it, disposing of the body, and pretending it never happened?

by Anonymousreply 113October 7, 2021 10:35 PM

Pregnancy is pretty fucking easy to diagnose. There's no excuse for this.

by Anonymousreply 114October 8, 2021 12:24 AM

A lot of the women I saw on “I Didn’t Know I Was Pregnant” were fat and probably thought their symptoms were from being fat.

by Anonymousreply 115October 8, 2021 12:27 AM
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