The Connie Ford thread made me wonder if we've ever had a celebration of the elder lez. Let's have one now!
There are so many from Hollywood, media and politics alone!
We'll start with Miss Hathaway......
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The Connie Ford thread made me wonder if we've ever had a celebration of the elder lez. Let's have one now!
There are so many from Hollywood, media and politics alone!
We'll start with Miss Hathaway......
|by Anonymous||reply 275||October 21, 2021 7:32 PM|
Miss Hathaway was Christopher Walken in lez drag.
|by Anonymous||reply 1||September 22, 2021 5:11 PM|
“Actress Nancy Kulp Came Out Of The Closet”
When it came to fancying vagina, I was very Kulpable.
|by Anonymous||reply 2||September 22, 2021 5:12 PM|
This thread will take a lot of licking.
|by Anonymous||reply 3||September 22, 2021 5:15 PM|
I thought it was a thread in praise of OUR Elder Lez and came running in.
|by Anonymous||reply 4||September 22, 2021 5:22 PM|
Rescue Chick, we always offer our praise and honor to our Elder Lez!
|by Anonymous||reply 5||September 22, 2021 5:26 PM|
The glorious Lois Kibbee.
(If you're not a soap fan you'll remember her from many movies - she was the one in Caddyshack that, well....that whole business with the candy bar.....)
|by Anonymous||reply 6||September 22, 2021 5:27 PM|
R4, me too. The voice of reason in most of those hysterical covid threads.
|by Anonymous||reply 7||September 22, 2021 5:31 PM|
All hail ElderLez! But can she throw a slap like Connie Ford?
|by Anonymous||reply 8||September 22, 2021 5:42 PM|
r8 Or a kick, Sylvia.
|by Anonymous||reply 9||September 22, 2021 5:45 PM|
I love older stone cold butches. They're awesome.
The bar I used to go to in Pittsburgh would have young dykes get into parking lot fights every damn weekend. And it was always a few of those older butches that would shut that shit DOWN.
|by Anonymous||reply 10||September 22, 2021 5:48 PM|
I miss the days when the lesbians looked like men
|by Anonymous||reply 11||September 22, 2021 5:50 PM|
My favorite EL is Miriam Ben Shalom. First openly gay service member, TERF, beat up the dude who tried to carjack her
|by Anonymous||reply 12||September 22, 2021 5:53 PM|
I used to be frightened of lesbians
|by Anonymous||reply 13||September 22, 2021 5:57 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 14||September 22, 2021 5:58 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 15||September 22, 2021 6:09 PM|
Nancy is a role that Chalamet was born to play…
|by Anonymous||reply 16||September 22, 2021 6:41 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 17||September 22, 2021 6:42 PM|
[italic]”I am more than half-persuaded that I am a man’s soul put by some freak of nature into a woman’s body…because I have fallen in love with so many pretty girls and never once the least bit with any man.”
|by Anonymous||reply 18||September 22, 2021 6:53 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 19||September 22, 2021 8:12 PM|
Eleanor allegedly disliked having sex with Franklin.
|by Anonymous||reply 20||September 22, 2021 8:14 PM|
Evelyn Harper owns this thread.
|by Anonymous||reply 21||September 22, 2021 8:17 PM|
[quote] This thread will take a lot of licking.
That’s a good one, that’s funny
|by Anonymous||reply 22||September 22, 2021 8:22 PM|
When she ran for congress, Uncle Jed stuck a shiv in her political back.
To her dismay, her Hillbillies co-star Buddy Ebsen contacted the Bud Shuster campaign and volunteered to make a radio campaign ad in which he called Kulp "too liberal". Kulp said of Ebsen, "He's not the kindly old Jed Clampett that you saw on the show ... It's none of his business and he should have stayed out of it." She said Ebsen and she "didn't get along because I found him difficult to work with. But I never would have done something like this to him." Garnering 59,449 votes—just 33.6% of the ballots cast in the election—to Shuster's 117,203 votes and 66.4%, she lost. After this, according to her close friends and family, Ebsen was regarded as "persona non grata" to Kulp and she made it clear to people not to bring him up in conversation around her with the exception of interviews related to her time on Hillbillies. In his later years, especially after Kulp's death, Ebsen privately expressed remorse for doing the ad and they only reconciled shortly before Kulp's death.
|by Anonymous||reply 23||September 22, 2021 8:23 PM|
Ann B Davis
|by Anonymous||reply 24||September 22, 2021 8:31 PM|
Don't forget to mention me, my pretties.
|by Anonymous||reply 25||September 22, 2021 8:34 PM|
I will fuckin’ cut you, OP.
|by Anonymous||reply 26||September 22, 2021 8:41 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 27||September 22, 2021 8:43 PM|
R26 Hi, bitch!
|by Anonymous||reply 28||September 22, 2021 8:46 PM|
Don't forget me!
|by Anonymous||reply 29||September 22, 2021 8:50 PM|
Good timez - getting tongue fucked by my maid in The Campanile.
|by Anonymous||reply 30||September 22, 2021 8:51 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 31||September 22, 2021 8:53 PM|
I can't be certain of this one, but I always assumed.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||September 22, 2021 8:56 PM|
Caitlyn Jenner looks Nancy Kulp ...
|by Anonymous||reply 33||September 22, 2021 8:57 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 34||September 22, 2021 9:26 PM|
R31 Patricia Routledge? Really?
|by Anonymous||reply 35||September 22, 2021 9:34 PM|
(Laura) Jane Addams
|by Anonymous||reply 36||September 22, 2021 9:42 PM|
Mikulski has textbook caneface. I can almost hear it clacking.
|by Anonymous||reply 37||September 22, 2021 9:45 PM|
Another late-in-life lesbian.
|by Anonymous||reply 38||September 22, 2021 10:14 PM|
[quote]Buddy Ebsen contacted the Bud Shuster campaign and volunteered to make a radio campaign ad in which he called Kulp "too liberal"
Code, under these circumstances, for too "queer."
|by Anonymous||reply 39||September 22, 2021 10:14 PM|
Daytime's favorite closeted lesbian, Deidre Hall:
|by Anonymous||reply 40||September 22, 2021 10:16 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 41||September 22, 2021 10:20 PM|
If you're going to go that far, R41, I'll go further - Lena Horne
|by Anonymous||reply 42||September 22, 2021 10:27 PM|
R35 Pat has been with Phyllis, a painter, for decades. They're retired to West Sussex. Always claimed she never married, her career wouldn't allow her to care for a husband and children.
|by Anonymous||reply 43||September 22, 2021 10:31 PM|
What do we know about Kathleen Freeman and Peggy McCay?
|by Anonymous||reply 44||September 22, 2021 10:32 PM|
R43 I guess I just believed in the Hyacinth Bucket character SO MUCH!
|by Anonymous||reply 45||September 22, 2021 10:34 PM|
R38 say hello to R26
|by Anonymous||reply 46||September 22, 2021 10:35 PM|
Don't forget me!
|by Anonymous||reply 47||September 22, 2021 10:38 PM|
One only looked like an elder lez.
The other was the real deal!
|by Anonymous||reply 48||September 22, 2021 10:40 PM|
In the Elderlez Pantheon.
|by Anonymous||reply 49||September 22, 2021 10:52 PM|
Do you want me to write a song about it? Suggest some words for the song and I'll put it together on the spot.
|by Anonymous||reply 50||September 22, 2021 10:56 PM|
Oh, I forgot THIS ole cunt.
|by Anonymous||reply 51||September 22, 2021 10:56 PM|
I better make the list...or I'll hurt you!
|by Anonymous||reply 52||September 22, 2021 11:02 PM|
I'm part of this community!
On Tuesdays and Thursdays on the 1st and 3rd week of every month, that is!
|by Anonymous||reply 53||September 22, 2021 11:10 PM|
The ever agreeable character actress, Mildred Natwick!
|by Anonymous||reply 54||September 22, 2021 11:37 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 55||September 22, 2021 11:50 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 56||September 22, 2021 11:52 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 57||September 22, 2021 11:53 PM|
57 posts and no Miriam Margolyes is pretty terrible, she's still alive, working and outrageous.
|by Anonymous||reply 58||September 23, 2021 12:01 AM|
R56 see R15
|by Anonymous||reply 59||September 23, 2021 12:03 AM|
Miss Hathaway was almost Miss Commerce Bank.
|by Anonymous||reply 60||September 23, 2021 12:05 AM|
Listen, you cheap whores, don't just list our names, give us a photo too!
|by Anonymous||reply 61||September 23, 2021 12:21 AM|
Ann B Davis is still Schultzy to me!
|by Anonymous||reply 62||September 23, 2021 12:24 AM|
That's a nice photo of Ann, R62!
|by Anonymous||reply 63||September 23, 2021 12:45 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 64||September 23, 2021 12:56 AM|
NBC’s favorite thespian
|by Anonymous||reply 65||September 23, 2021 1:01 AM|
When asked about her love life, Ms. Kulp said "some believe opposites attract, I believe birds of a feather flock together."
|by Anonymous||reply 66||September 23, 2021 1:02 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 67||September 23, 2021 1:02 AM|
Billie Jean King
|by Anonymous||reply 68||September 23, 2021 1:03 AM|
New York TV's Sue Simmons, 79.
|by Anonymous||reply 69||September 23, 2021 1:06 AM|
Martina Navratilova will be 65 NEXT MONTH!
|by Anonymous||reply 70||September 23, 2021 1:11 AM|
Martina and Billie in bed
|by Anonymous||reply 71||September 23, 2021 1:18 AM|
Someone likes that pretentious asshole Camille Paglia, I guess. I DON'T.
|by Anonymous||reply 72||September 23, 2021 1:59 AM|
Do lesbians not like Lesley Gore or Sheila Kuehl?
|by Anonymous||reply 73||September 23, 2021 2:01 AM|
R73, these responses are not from lesbians.
|by Anonymous||reply 74||September 23, 2021 2:03 AM|
Do gay men not like Richard Simmons and Elton John ?
|by Anonymous||reply 75||September 23, 2021 2:03 AM|
I knew Kristy McNick was lez before I knew what lez was.
|by Anonymous||reply 76||September 23, 2021 2:05 AM|
The former governor of New Jersey - Christine Todd Whitman
|by Anonymous||reply 77||September 23, 2021 2:07 AM|
R75 - NO
|by Anonymous||reply 78||September 23, 2021 2:13 AM|
Everyone's favorite financial advisor - Suze the Virgin!
|by Anonymous||reply 79||September 23, 2021 2:19 AM|
Not Alice but her Lez cousin
|by Anonymous||reply 80||September 23, 2021 2:24 AM|
Alice, who, R80? Her name is SCHULTZY.
|by Anonymous||reply 81||September 23, 2021 2:26 AM|
Patsy Kelly, who called herself a "dyke," as the sublime Laura-Louise.
|by Anonymous||reply 82||September 23, 2021 2:31 AM|
LEZ be friends!
|by Anonymous||reply 83||September 23, 2021 3:14 AM|
I am mentioning her NOW so I do not have to mention her LATER.
|by Anonymous||reply 84||September 23, 2021 3:15 AM|
The sublime Ms Taylor.
|by Anonymous||reply 85||September 23, 2021 4:27 AM|
Gertrude Stein and Alice B. Toklas
|by Anonymous||reply 86||September 23, 2021 4:52 AM|
Well, I don't know who these responses are from, but as a gay man DLer, I love them, but I love OUR Elderlez even more.
|by Anonymous||reply 87||September 23, 2021 4:56 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 88||September 23, 2021 4:58 AM|
[quote] Patricia Routledge? Really?
There are still humans who didn't know this? wow!
|by Anonymous||reply 89||September 23, 2021 5:01 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 90||September 23, 2021 5:03 AM|
The young Fran Lebowitz.
|by Anonymous||reply 91||September 23, 2021 5:29 AM|
Dorothy, a lesbian. Blanche another lesbian. Pat and Cathy possibly too but they were primarily image consultants.
|by Anonymous||reply 92||September 23, 2021 7:00 AM|
I would've posted my photo earlier but I was neck deep snackin' on janet Gaynor's ever girlish snatcheroonie
|by Anonymous||reply 93||September 23, 2021 6:34 PM|
R85 Holland Taylor is terrific in The Chair.
|by Anonymous||reply 94||September 23, 2021 7:51 PM|
R93- Even in 1982 they were BOTH old broads.
|by Anonymous||reply 95||September 23, 2021 7:55 PM|
who is Kathleen Chalfont's GF?
|by Anonymous||reply 96||September 23, 2021 8:23 PM|
All hail the quee....er, king who made stone cold butch look glam on daytime!
|by Anonymous||reply 97||September 23, 2021 8:38 PM|
R97- She was SO pretty ,beautiful even when she appeared on Dallas in 1981/82.
|by Anonymous||reply 98||September 23, 2021 8:45 PM|
Representative Barbara Jordan (D)Texas
|by Anonymous||reply 99||September 23, 2021 9:04 PM|
I'm concerned, what a great photo of me! Late life marriage agrees with us old maids.
|by Anonymous||reply 100||September 23, 2021 9:14 PM|
R100 Who wants her?
|by Anonymous||reply 101||September 23, 2021 9:52 PM|
what about me?
|by Anonymous||reply 102||September 23, 2021 10:22 PM|
Speaking of old couples like Mary Martin and Janet Gaynor, here's a lesser known one - DL fave, singer Lena Horne and her1960s girlfriend Jeanne Noble PhD (right).
|by Anonymous||reply 103||September 23, 2021 10:23 PM|
[quote]r98 She was SO pretty ,beautiful even when she appeared on Dallas in 1981/82.
Oh my yes. She looks like Marete Van Kamp from “Princess Daisy”
|by Anonymous||reply 104||September 23, 2021 10:27 PM|
Elena Kagan and Sonia Sotomayor
|by Anonymous||reply 105||September 23, 2021 10:38 PM|
ALL of my female gym teachers in Junior High and High school.
|by Anonymous||reply 106||September 23, 2021 10:48 PM|
Has anyone mentioned Ms. Cherry Jones?
|by Anonymous||reply 107||September 23, 2021 10:58 PM|
R106, we had an over-bleached, false eyelashes and white lipstick wearing (in the 70s), 35 year old cheerleader type straight chick in high school.
|by Anonymous||reply 108||September 23, 2021 11:00 PM|
Supervisor Sheila Kuehl
|by Anonymous||reply 109||September 23, 2021 11:58 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 110||September 24, 2021 1:24 AM|
A DL iconic moment, of course.
|by Anonymous||reply 111||September 24, 2021 1:29 AM|
Joe Carstairs, Fastest Woman on the Water
[quote]Throughout her life, Marion “Joe” Carstairs challenged assumptions and expectations of her proper place in society. An out-and-proud lesbian in a time when British women were still seen as extensions of their husbands’ property, the Standard Oil heir took advantage of her immense wealth and privilege and traveled the world, dated some of the world’s most beautiful and famous women, and, for a brief time in her illustrious life, became the world’s top female speedboat racer. Throwing herself wholeheartedly into the sport, Carstairs spent significant resources on attempting to build a motorboat capable of winning her the Harmsworth Trophy, the highest prize in motorboat racing at the time, and bringing her the respect of her competitors and detractors alike. Fastest Woman on the Water would explore Carstairs’s larger-than-life persona and the symbol of athletic validation that thrice eluded her.
|by Anonymous||reply 112||September 24, 2021 1:32 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 113||September 24, 2021 1:35 AM|
Interesting that Nancy Culp and Sheila Kuehl were cast as unattractive women who kept slobbering over men who were creeped out by them.
What were the other roles in which lesbians hid in plain sight?
|by Anonymous||reply 114||September 24, 2021 1:49 AM|
Match Game favorite, Fried Green Tomatoes writer and one time partner of Rita Mae Brown, I give you Fannie Flagg!
|by Anonymous||reply 115||September 24, 2021 1:58 AM|
And here’s to the lezzies who lunch
Eating their nut loaf
|by Anonymous||reply 116||September 24, 2021 2:00 AM|
R114- Jo on The Facts Of Life- her very first appearance on the show she rides a motorcycle to the school and walks into the building and Blair and Natalie thinks SHE is a HE- I know she was young then but I had to mention her.
|by Anonymous||reply 117||September 24, 2021 2:20 AM|
Jo as JOE
|by Anonymous||reply 118||September 24, 2021 2:21 AM|
The ultra femme Dorothy Azner, pioneering director (and pussy licker.)
|by Anonymous||reply 119||September 24, 2021 2:23 AM|
Forever brilliant, forever goddess
|by Anonymous||reply 120||September 24, 2021 2:26 AM|
And speaking of old dykes and Dusty's spring field.....
|by Anonymous||reply 121||September 24, 2021 2:27 AM|
R114- Another LESBIAN hiding in plain site.
|by Anonymous||reply 122||September 24, 2021 2:29 AM|
A young Jodie Foster demonstrates her technique.
|by Anonymous||reply 123||September 24, 2021 2:35 AM|
Excuse me! I'm a Lez Legend!
|by Anonymous||reply 124||September 24, 2021 2:39 AM|
Mrs. Bundy ( there NEVER was a Mr. Bundy) from The Birds
|by Anonymous||reply 125||September 24, 2021 4:24 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 126||September 24, 2021 4:56 AM|
The FABULOUS chanteuse and Gong Show panelist JAYE P MORGAN!
Never married or faked it. She'll be 90 years old in Dec.
|by Anonymous||reply 127||September 24, 2021 3:07 PM|
I didn't know Jaye P did the Lez Lez!
|by Anonymous||reply 128||September 24, 2021 3:23 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 129||September 24, 2021 4:31 PM|
R102 Let's review: What is the polar opposite of an old lez? How about a crazy-for-dick gay male senator?
|by Anonymous||reply 130||September 24, 2021 7:36 PM|
R130 the joke was that the Senatrice LOOKS like an old lesbian.
|by Anonymous||reply 131||September 24, 2021 7:54 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 132||September 24, 2021 7:59 PM|
Thankful to them both.
|by Anonymous||reply 133||September 24, 2021 8:01 PM|
Any reference to Buddy Ebsen has to include this gem.
|by Anonymous||reply 134||September 24, 2021 8:25 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 135||September 25, 2021 2:35 AM|
Taken from us too soon:
|by Anonymous||reply 136||September 25, 2021 4:00 AM|
You bitches are slipping. 134 replies and nobody mentioned me!
|by Anonymous||reply 137||September 25, 2021 4:29 AM|
When did Kate Smith become a confirmed lezzie? Just because she never married...I always thought she was more asexual than anything, with a healthy dose of Jesus (who she was always singing about).
I'd hate to be the wardrobe person who washed out her dirty pantyhose.
I'm loving seeing all this lezzie love on the DL - thank heaven for all these good ladies who get it done (even though society has always made it doubly difficult for them).
|by Anonymous||reply 138||September 25, 2021 3:28 PM|
Kate Smith was an obsessed Catholic, not a lesbian, R138.
|by Anonymous||reply 139||September 25, 2021 3:35 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 140||September 25, 2021 3:37 PM|
Wrong again, R140
|by Anonymous||reply 141||September 25, 2021 3:48 PM|
Again? When was I wrong before, sweet pea?
|by Anonymous||reply 142||September 25, 2021 3:53 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 143||September 25, 2021 4:08 PM|
R132, Marjorie Main was Spring's partner.
|by Anonymous||reply 144||September 25, 2021 4:11 PM|
Anyone mention Lily Tomlin, Jane Wagner or Ruth Buzzi?
|by Anonymous||reply 145||September 25, 2021 4:17 PM|
You did R145
|by Anonymous||reply 146||September 25, 2021 4:19 PM|
Pat St Clement and Patricia Routledge dating blows my mind
|by Anonymous||reply 147||September 25, 2021 4:27 PM|
Legendary rocker Joan Jett!
From Wikipedia: In a 2018 interview with the New York Times, when asked about how an LGBT film festival did not want to show her documentary because she was not "out", Jett said: "They don't want the movie there because I don't declare? [Holding up her necklace of a labrys] What the [expletive] is that? Two labryses, or axes, crossing each other, inside of two women's symbols crossing each other. It's not been off since I got it. And I wear this one every day. [She turns around, lifts her shirt and reveals a tattoo with similar female symbols on her lower back.] I don't know how much more you can declare."
|by Anonymous||reply 148||September 25, 2021 4:31 PM|
Anyone remember Remington Steele? Stephanie Zimbalist is turning 65 in two weeks making her an elder lez!
|by Anonymous||reply 149||September 25, 2021 4:44 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 150||September 25, 2021 4:46 PM|
I didn’t know about the labrys double axe being a symbol for lesbians. It makes sense though: axe, hatchet wound, etc.
|by Anonymous||reply 151||September 25, 2021 5:23 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 152||September 25, 2021 5:40 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 153||September 25, 2021 5:41 PM|
The labrys is a lesbian symbol because of its generally ancient Greek origins and more specifically because axes were associated with Amazons in mythology.
|by Anonymous||reply 154||September 25, 2021 5:48 PM|
[quote]I didn’t know about the labrys double axe being a symbol for lesbians.
More specifically, lesbian feminism.
|by Anonymous||reply 155||September 25, 2021 6:04 PM|
Our Gina has a labrys tattoo in BOUND.
|by Anonymous||reply 156||September 25, 2021 7:19 PM|
Boy, it took a long time for someone to mention Lily Tomlin!
Kathleen Freeman was perhaps my all-time favorite Dyke (capitalization intended). God, she was great!
But it's Broadway star Cherry Jones, with her warm, deep voice and intelligent intensity, who really shakes me up. Thank god she's a Lesbian -if she were straight she just might convert me!
|by Anonymous||reply 157||September 25, 2021 8:00 PM|
Honestly I thought someone mentioned Jane and Lily up top, I thought of them several times.
|by Anonymous||reply 158||September 25, 2021 8:43 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 159||September 25, 2021 10:59 PM|
Nana Visitor- Kira Nerys on Star Trek: Deep Space Nine
|by Anonymous||reply 160||September 25, 2021 11:16 PM|
Ellen Corby, Grandma Walton.
|by Anonymous||reply 161||September 26, 2021 2:42 AM|
Delta Dawn, what’s that thing you’ve got strapped on?
|by Anonymous||reply 162||September 26, 2021 3:12 AM|
It's her party and she'll make the lez-lez if she wants to!
|by Anonymous||reply 163||September 26, 2021 3:33 AM|
Diane Keaton. With Sarah Paulson. In matching black and white. AT A MILEY CYRUS CONCERT.
|by Anonymous||reply 164||September 26, 2021 4:21 AM|
I love older lesbians. I’ve known a few. One was a co-worker. Guess who?
|by Anonymous||reply 165||September 26, 2021 5:39 AM|
R165- Beatrice Arthur
But Betty White is a LESBO too.
|by Anonymous||reply 166||September 26, 2021 5:46 AM|
Lezzlie Charleson aka Monica Quartermaine
|by Anonymous||reply 167||September 26, 2021 6:07 AM|
^^ she had dry dyke face for days.
|by Anonymous||reply 168||September 26, 2021 6:17 AM|
Hmmm. A very nice pic of Angela Lansbury in her youth. I assume she plays on the same team as Greta Garbo.
|by Anonymous||reply 169||September 26, 2021 6:49 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 170||September 26, 2021 6:51 AM|
No wonder Keaton's clothes often look masculine. She is a lez. Never thought of her that way.
|by Anonymous||reply 171||September 26, 2021 7:16 AM|
Angela Lansbury is definitely not a lez. In fact, the only blemish on her otherwise-excellent LGBTQ+++++ record is that misguided quote from 2013 about women turning to lesbianism because there weren't enough men around -or something like that. It was a statement she later apologized for, confessing her own ignorance. Her first husband was gay, and she genuinely didn't know. She had a long and happy second marriage (with children). I know neither of those prove anything, of course -But just because she is a gay icon doesn't make her gay either.
There are plenty of wonderful, elder vagitarians out there -the group doesn't need her to shine. :)
|by Anonymous||reply 172||September 26, 2021 7:27 AM|
[quote]Nana Visitor- Kira Nerys on Star Trek: Deep Space Nine
Nana Visitor is not a lesbian. But she is the niece of Cyd Charisse.
|by Anonymous||reply 173||September 26, 2021 7:53 AM|
Mary Ann aka Dawn Wells of Gilligan's Island fame. Aside from dinner theater, her career never took off after the show...maybe by her design ;)
|by Anonymous||reply 174||September 26, 2021 1:18 PM|
R174 coconut pie was a euphemism when Dawn was around
|by Anonymous||reply 175||September 26, 2021 1:20 PM|
So many newswomen, national and local.
Wasn't Savitch a lez?
|by Anonymous||reply 176||September 26, 2021 1:39 PM|
Jessica and Sue Simmons = VERY close
|by Anonymous||reply 177||September 26, 2021 2:08 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 178||September 26, 2021 2:11 PM|
Ooops! Forgot about Robin Roberts. Thanks, R176!
|by Anonymous||reply 179||September 26, 2021 2:45 PM|
I always got lezzie vibes from the four-times married (to men) Linda Ellerbee.
|by Anonymous||reply 180||September 26, 2021 2:52 PM|
I'm croning as we speak!
|by Anonymous||reply 181||September 26, 2021 2:56 PM|
Did anyone post Wanda Sykes yet?
|by Anonymous||reply 182||September 26, 2021 3:18 PM|
I guess if we're including Robin then Wanda's in there too
though fiftysomething isn't exactly "elderlez"
R180 I agree.
|by Anonymous||reply 183||September 26, 2021 3:25 PM|
R176 In the books about her she comes off as nearly asexual but but infer she enjoyed ladyparts .
|by Anonymous||reply 184||September 26, 2021 3:25 PM|
Wow, R183 -- I thought she was older than that. But she's only 57.
So much for "black don't crack."
|by Anonymous||reply 185||September 26, 2021 3:28 PM|
[quote]R176 So many newswomen, national and local. Wasn't Savitch a lez?
She did marry her gynecologist. That’s suspicious. Was he the keeper of its secrets?
|by Anonymous||reply 186||September 27, 2021 4:15 AM|
Weren't Jessica Savitch and Sue Simmons an item for a New York minute?
|by Anonymous||reply 187||September 27, 2021 5:07 PM|
R187, they were "roommates." And it's been discussed above.
|by Anonymous||reply 188||September 27, 2021 5:09 PM|
R186 he was gay.
|by Anonymous||reply 189||September 28, 2021 2:16 AM|
I don't know which concept is worse-- (a) a gay gynecologist or (b) a woman marrying her straight one.
|by Anonymous||reply 190||September 28, 2021 3:33 AM|
Jessica never figured herself out. She gave men what she thought they wanted, only to get beat up in one way or another. She had Judy Garland syndrome.
Cynthia McFadden on the other hand…
|by Anonymous||reply 191||September 28, 2021 3:41 AM|
One of the greatest and most legendary Elder Lezzies is responsible for some of the greatest and most subversive children’s literature of all time. Ursula Nordstrom ruled the world of children’s publishing for close to five decades at Harper Brothers and single handily discovered and promoted some of the greatest Lesbian and Gay children’s writers and illustrators of all time, culminating in Maurice Sendak whose portrait of her is here. Almost Elder Lezzies Margaret Wise Brown (Goodnight Moon, Runaway Bunny) and Louise Fitzhugh (Harriet the Spy and sequels) would have attained that status if they both hadn’t died young. She discovered Shel Silverstein in the pages of Playboy magazine from his irreverent cartoons. She said she wanted to make “good books for bad children.” And had one of the biggest bitch fights in the history of lesbians that lasted decades with the head of the NY Public Library’s children’s services with Anne Carrol Moore, who was a wicked, wicked cunt!
|by Anonymous||reply 192||September 28, 2021 8:16 AM|
So, here’s my Nancy Culp story. In Pennsylvania, not far outside of Gettysburg there is a summer stock theater in a state forest called Totempole Playhouse that was owned and operated by well known homosexual William Putch and his wife Jean Stapleton, yes Edith Bunker was married to a gay man, and they had children. In 1984, the year after he died, Jean was carrying on with the season and as a young gayling theater nerd my parents took me to see “You Can’t Take it with You,” which they had both starred in during a high school production. Ms. Culp was in the audience that night and it was electric as she was leading up to the election and her name was everywhere again, although the theatre wasn’t technically in the voting district. At the intermission she was swarmed with admirers and then afterwards outside the theater in the woods a huge crowd gathered and she graciously chatted and shook hands with everyone and even I got to meet her and tell her how much my family loved The Beverly Hillbillies. It was very heady, as south central Pennsylvania didn’t have many known TV stars from Hollywood!
|by Anonymous||reply 193||September 28, 2021 8:34 AM|
[quote]R193 yes Edith Bunker was married to a gay man
Well, really, not to put too fine a point on it, but I doubt straight men were beating down her door (?)
|by Anonymous||reply 194||September 28, 2021 8:52 AM|
R94- More important- Was Jean Stapleton a lesbian?
|by Anonymous||reply 195||September 28, 2021 3:25 PM|
R195 That was not a rumor that circulated in Pennsylvania, I think she spent most of her time in California while he was based more in PA.
|by Anonymous||reply 196||September 28, 2021 3:31 PM|
[quote]She had Judy Garland syndrome.
Bi-polar drug addict
|by Anonymous||reply 197||September 28, 2021 4:07 PM|
Half of the women here aren't/weren't even lesbians.
|by Anonymous||reply 198||September 28, 2021 4:36 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 199||September 28, 2021 4:38 PM|
R199 The straight/bi half
|by Anonymous||reply 200||September 28, 2021 4:40 PM|
I mean Dana Delaney, Liza Minnelli, Dianne Keaton...?
|by Anonymous||reply 201||September 28, 2021 4:42 PM|
Yeah... Dana Delaney... she dated... eh... Jeffery Self!
|by Anonymous||reply 202||September 28, 2021 4:44 PM|
Liza likes Lisa but Chita put a stop to it.
|by Anonymous||reply 203||September 28, 2021 4:44 PM|
Liza likes Lisa but Chita put a stop to it.
|by Anonymous||reply 204||September 28, 2021 4:45 PM|
R198 is one of those insecure lesbianphobes who gets agita when a favorite of his may not 'love cock' as much as he does.
R201, Liza Minnelli is at least bi-sexual. I don't understand the surprise. She's probably more lesbian that not but too screwed up to know.
|by Anonymous||reply 205||September 28, 2021 4:45 PM|
Jean’s son John Putch always pinged to me, especially when he was on ONE DAY AT A TIME.
|by Anonymous||reply 206||September 28, 2021 6:08 PM|
R205 is one of those insecure delusional DLers who think 99% of population is gay. Or any older person that isn't married and has 20 kids is a closeted homosexual.
|by Anonymous||reply 207||September 28, 2021 7:42 PM|
But only the good looking ones, R207.
|by Anonymous||reply 208||September 28, 2021 7:48 PM|
R205 " Liza Minnelli is at least bi-sexual"
- yeah, sure. Cause you say so. Also, bisexual and gay are two different things.
|by Anonymous||reply 209||September 28, 2021 7:52 PM|
True dat, r209.
|by Anonymous||reply 210||September 28, 2021 7:56 PM|
R209 - teetering of the edge of a make believe nightmare!
|by Anonymous||reply 211||September 29, 2021 2:42 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 212||September 29, 2021 7:00 PM|
There’s tons of elder Lez representation in this new HBO documentary series.
|by Anonymous||reply 213||September 29, 2021 7:13 PM|
That is one ugly dude R212.
|by Anonymous||reply 214||September 29, 2021 10:51 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 215||September 30, 2021 12:30 AM|
People are just throwing out random names.
|by Anonymous||reply 216||September 30, 2021 1:19 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 217||September 30, 2021 1:35 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 218||September 30, 2021 1:39 AM|
"She spent the last 39 years of her life with her domestic partner, Edith Lewis, before being diagnosed with breast cancer and dying of a cerebral hemorrhage. She is buried alongside Lewis in a Jaffrey, New Hampshire plot. "
|by Anonymous||reply 219||September 30, 2021 2:09 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 220||September 30, 2021 2:10 AM|
R214, he’s revealed his identity after ten years of being an anonymous meme and he’s pretty cute.
|by Anonymous||reply 221||September 30, 2021 2:14 AM|
can't mention Ethel Waters and not point out....
McCullers fell in love with a number of women and pursued them sexually with great determination, but seems not to have succeeded in finding mutual attraction. Her most documented and extended love obsession was with Annemarie Schwarzenbach, of whom she once wrote "She had a face that I knew would haunt me for the rest of my life." In her autobiography, McCullers reports that the two shared one kiss. McCullers' passion, however, was not reciprocated, and the two remained friends with McCullers dedicating her next novel, Reflections in a Golden Eye, to her. Sarah Schulman writes:
There is the infamous obsession with Katherine Anne Porter and a much-implied ongoing “friendship” with Gypsy Rose Lee. But if Carson ever actually had sex with a woman, even Tennessee [Williams] didn't hear of it. According to McCullers's brilliant biographer, Virginia Spencer Carr, Carson did brag to her male cousin that she'd had sex with Gypsy once. But if that was the case, she never mentioned it to any of her gay friends. In the absence of reciprocated lesbian love and the inability to consummate lesbian sex, McCullers still wore a lesbian persona in literature and in life. She clearly wrote against the grain of heterosexual convention, wore men's clothes, was outrageously aggressive in her consistently failed search for sex and love with another woman, and formed primary friendships with other gay people.[14
|by Anonymous||reply 222||September 30, 2021 2:14 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 223||September 30, 2021 2:22 AM|
I know I’ve been over here in the shadows ignoring you, but you couldn’t possible have forgotten about me could you?
|by Anonymous||reply 224||September 30, 2021 2:24 AM|
I had them all....Virginia, Violet, Harold, Mary, Hilda, and that hot menage a trois with Evelyn and Olive. I was insatiable
"Woolf was often bothered by what she viewed as Sackville-West's promiscuity, charging that Sackville-West's great need for sex led her to take up with anyone who struck her fancy."
|by Anonymous||reply 225||September 30, 2021 2:26 AM|
they didn't get more elder or more lezzie than moi
|by Anonymous||reply 226||September 30, 2021 2:32 AM|
What about me, Gertrude?
|by Anonymous||reply 227||September 30, 2021 1:07 PM|
R193 Confirming what you said, a friend went to Totem Pole Playhouse to get his Equity card. Bull Putch hit on every young male apprentice.
|by Anonymous||reply 228||September 30, 2021 1:12 PM|
How about LaRue/Viola Beverly Archer? Certainly seemed like a lesbian.
|by Anonymous||reply 229||September 30, 2021 2:00 PM|
What about Candy Crowley? Always loved her energy on CNN.
|by Anonymous||reply 230||October 1, 2021 4:03 AM|
I just finished reading Colm Toibin’s novel about Thomas Mann called The Magician. He managed to basically repress his homosexuality, but it popped up in three of his six children. Erika Mann comes directly out of Cabaret and in fact ran very subversive cabarets in Germany and Switzerland. She asked Isherwood to marry her so she could get out of Germany and have British citizenship, he declined, but past her onto Auden who did and they remained married for life, though never lived together. She lead a fascinating life.
|by Anonymous||reply 231||October 1, 2021 5:51 AM|
[quote]What about Candy Crowley? Always loved her energy on CNN.
Her "energy" was Type 2 diabetes.
|by Anonymous||reply 232||October 1, 2021 7:42 AM|
Yikes, R227. Alice B. Toklas got beaten with the ugly stick.
|by Anonymous||reply 233||October 1, 2021 7:45 AM|
DL used to have an always hungry and very funny Candy Crawley poster.
|by Anonymous||reply 234||October 1, 2021 2:31 PM|
How about former DL fave, CNN's Suzanne Malveaux?
She was so popular here once, and she's now in her mid-50s:
|by Anonymous||reply 235||October 1, 2021 3:22 PM|
OMG! Wiki says Suzanne is in a relationship with Karine Jean-Pierre! Didn't know that.
|by Anonymous||reply 236||October 1, 2021 3:27 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 237||October 1, 2021 3:31 PM|
R237 = not bright
|by Anonymous||reply 238||October 1, 2021 3:39 PM|
R235 She's only 53. That's not elder.
|by Anonymous||reply 239||October 1, 2021 5:03 PM|
R239, her date of birth is Dec 4, 1966. 55 on that date.
|by Anonymous||reply 240||October 1, 2021 5:05 PM|
Silly R239. Here on the DataLounge, anything north of 39 is absolutely antiquated!
|by Anonymous||reply 241||October 1, 2021 5:10 PM|
My, Gertrude Stein sure had a mannish face. Here's Alice, looking more lady like.
|by Anonymous||reply 242||October 1, 2021 5:13 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 243||October 1, 2021 5:42 PM|
DL gays looooove lezzies like Gertrude Stein, not so much for the Suzanne Malveaux type. The only ones I've known have been the latter.
|by Anonymous||reply 244||October 1, 2021 5:48 PM|
[quote]R239 She's only 53. That's not elder.
ESPECIALLY when you just look 36!
|by Anonymous||reply 245||October 1, 2021 11:09 PM|
r55 Dinah Shore wasn't a lesbian. She just had a LPGA tournament in Palm Springs named after her. (Neither was Mary Wickes for that matter.]
|by Anonymous||reply 246||October 2, 2021 12:13 AM|
Margaret Hamilton was confirmed to be an elder "lesbitarian" according to DL fave Bruce Vilanch. Apparently she had lived on the DL for years, but by the time they did the Paul Lynde Halloween Special, she was pretty much out and on the prowl! Bless her.
Broadway's Patricia Morison was allegedly family as well.
|by Anonymous||reply 247||October 2, 2021 12:30 AM|
We mustn't forget about our dear, delightful Miriam Margolyes either! Perhaps the greatest Graham Norton guest... And she just released a terrific memoir (available on Audible)
|by Anonymous||reply 248||October 2, 2021 12:33 AM|
No one forgot Miriam. She was checked in upon arrival upthread.
|by Anonymous||reply 249||October 2, 2021 1:39 AM|
VITA! R225 How wonderful. But where Vita goes, surely there must be Violet. She is the unexploded bomb in her life. And also I just love the hat.
|by Anonymous||reply 250||October 2, 2021 2:00 AM|
Well, if you’re going to play that game, let’s toss in Nazimova.
|by Anonymous||reply 251||October 2, 2021 5:42 AM|
Oh - I didn’t know this…!
[italic]”Mary’s, owned by Nazimova, was a dyke bar on the Sunset Strip opposite Café Gala, a gay bar that by the 1930s was home away from home for Cole Porter.“
|by Anonymous||reply 252||October 2, 2021 5:46 AM|
I was going to start a Favorite Lesbians thread, but will list mine here:
Lily Tomlin: Michigan Legend
Patty Schemel: Hole drummer
Joan Jett: Eats out bi-curious young Hollywood (Lindsay Lohan, Pink, Carmen Electra, Christina Aguilera)
Alla Nazimova: Started "Sewing Circles" in Classic Hollywood
|by Anonymous||reply 253||October 2, 2021 5:48 AM|
Another elder lesbian writer.
|by Anonymous||reply 254||October 2, 2021 5:56 AM|
^^ I am SHOCKED!
|by Anonymous||reply 255||October 2, 2021 6:00 AM|
PS: is she the one that murdered her girlhood friend’s mom, in “Heavenly Creatures”?
|by Anonymous||reply 256||October 2, 2021 6:01 AM|
A wonderful Irene Ryan story!
My mother used to be the P.A. for Nancy Kulp back in the day when good ol Nance had the dough for a P.A. (post Parent Trap). Anyway, Nance had just gone through a very rigorous audition process in order to get the role of Ms. Jane Hathaway, on what would become the landmark televison series "The Beverly Hillbilly's". She was assigned a dressing room with an actress she had never heard of named one Ms. Irene Ryan. Well, Nance and Irene got along famously from the get go, though, apparantly, Nance was apprehensive about letting Irene know about her diggin the ladies, seeing as how Irene was 86 at the time, Nance suspected she might not take to kindly to having a lady co-star who liked to shave other gals Hams.
Well, how funny was it when after a long day of shooting, Irene packed up the castor oil and bag of hair that she always had with her and left the lot for the day. Nance thought that she had free reign of the trailer for the rest of the evening and invited a delightful Nubian extra named Puma into her trailer for some dinner and some hot finger fucking !!! Well no sooner had our girl Nance gotten up to her shoulder in Puma's girl than Irene walked in, Nance told my mom that she was caught "black handed" by dear granny herself. Well, Nance was ashamed and had it not been for her damned collatta ring gett ing caught on some of Puma's internal lady skin she would have had her arm out of her in an instant. Irene just looked at the tw o of them in their "compromising position" and chuckled. You could have knocked Nance over with a feather. Apparantly, she was bright red so Irene soothed her fears and told her not to worry, she was totally cool with the fact that Nance liked to bump waffles and then proceeded to lift up her skirt and show her the tiniest pair of balls that Nance had ever seen (granted, Nance probably didn't see too many balls in her day, but still). Irene then explained that while she was all lady, she happened to have be en born with a pair of vestigal testicals right underneath her clitoris.
Ever since then Irene and Nance remained busom pals til Irene's death in 1974 and Nance never revealed her secret, except to a few close personal friends. Now that is friendship!!
|by Anonymous||reply 257||October 2, 2021 6:08 AM|
R256, that was Anne Perry.
|by Anonymous||reply 258||October 2, 2021 7:14 AM|
Irene Ryan was 70 years old when she died in 1973 R257. Irene was around 60 years old when she started The Beverly Hillbillies. Makes your whole story suspect when you claim she was 86 years old.
|by Anonymous||reply 259||October 2, 2021 11:59 AM|
Ha ha ha, R257. Very creative. But "for some dinner and some hot finger fucking" is just too stupid.
|by Anonymous||reply 260||October 2, 2021 3:59 PM|
[quote] Makes your whole story suspect when you claim she was 86 years old.
You actually thought that was a true story? It had "Bad DL Creative Writing" written all over it.
|by Anonymous||reply 261||October 2, 2021 6:56 PM|
Cornwell's enthusiasm for cosmetic surgery did surprise me.
|by Anonymous||reply 262||October 2, 2021 7:09 PM|
I stopped reading it after he said she was 86 years old R261
|by Anonymous||reply 263||October 2, 2021 7:35 PM|
Consider yourself lucky, R263.
|by Anonymous||reply 264||October 2, 2021 8:07 PM|
R258 As one who likes Miriam, I worry about her carrying all that extra weight.
|by Anonymous||reply 265||October 2, 2021 8:29 PM|
Oops I meant not R258 but whoever posted about Margolies. Which I'm probably misspelling. Whatever.
|by Anonymous||reply 266||October 2, 2021 8:33 PM|
R254 Ew, she's a republican.
|by Anonymous||reply 267||October 2, 2021 10:18 PM|
Old biddy dykes really got it going on!
|by Anonymous||reply 268||October 2, 2021 10:25 PM|
Diane Bish of The Joy of Music fame, fired by Coral Ridge Presbyterian for her lesbishious tendencies.
|by Anonymous||reply 269||October 2, 2021 11:48 PM|
[quote]R268 Old biddy dykes really got it going on!
Biddies in da house ! !
|by Anonymous||reply 270||October 3, 2021 6:23 PM|
|by Anonymous||reply 271||October 3, 2021 6:34 PM|
[italic]Biddies Gone Wild[/italic] (Barely Legal edition)
|by Anonymous||reply 272||October 3, 2021 6:36 PM|
Mrs. Bundy in “The Birds.”
|by Anonymous||reply 273||October 4, 2021 2:38 AM|
|by Anonymous||reply 274||October 21, 2021 7:26 PM|
A nephew or cousin of Ms. Kulp was/is? an educator in my town. I never had him for class, but he dated one of my teachers and they eventually married. I would see him often. He looked just like Nancy Kulp only a little more heavy set.
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