Cruising instructions

[quote] Who taught you how to cruise?

Bea Arthur.

My grandmother, Sioux City Sue

I miss old-school cruising.

There are still old-school cruising places but just a LOT fewer of them.

I was recently in Terminal F ATL restroom. Myself and some rando middle aged guy standing at the urinals, taking a piss. He was about 5 urinals down and finished before me and stepped back. I looked over and he was rubbing his hard cock while looking at me. I’m no prude, but it took me off guard and I quickly finished and walked out feeling flustered. Clearly I need to watch this video, having missed most of the clues. I still don’t know if I was flattered or repulsed, I mean his cock was huge.

I grew up in the video arcades of Chicago. They were a master class in assessment, time management and display.

R5 you were turned on, dear. That cock made you feel funny in your stomach. You locked it down, overwhelmed. Just as well.

I learned it all right here on Datalounge, OP.

p.s.--

YUM!

So this is like a masterclass on bathroom cruising which doesn't even exist anymore.

I read Everything You Wanted To Know About Sex and there was a bit in there about guys cruising in a bowling alley bathroom. It was meant to be a little mean to the bathroom cruisers but the idea turned me on.

The first time I ever did it I was in a JC Penney, and a guy tapped his foot, and then opened his door when I did. Looked like the brawny man and had a big swollen cock. I didn't do much, got panicked and ran out, but it didn't take me long after to try again and succeed.

I learned it from watching you, Dad. I learned it from watching you.

When I was 16, mid 90s, cruising the local park kept me sane and very busy. Sure, it was sketchy as hell sometimes, but those straight married guys were the best.

I feel bad for gay kids these days. Grindr is so boring.

I learned it from you, Dad!

Bathroom cruising doesn't exist anymore. When does he think he is?

I never had the luxury of cruising. Where would one even go to find hot enough guys to get pounded by?

I learned it in middle school. It was all a part of the " Gay Agenda" curriculum that Republicans have exposed. It was taught right before the unit on anal sex.

Good advice for everyone.

[quote] Myself and some rando middle aged guy

Oh, dear.

In the 70s, 2nd floor men's room in the huge standalone Sears at the corner of Peachtree & W. Paces Ferry Rd. in Buckhead (Atlanta), long gone and replaced with high rises in the late 80s. Never less than 10 horny men standing against the wall outside the cubicles just waiting. Those cubicles were a fellatio factory. Sears had to know what was going on in there but never did a thing about it. The suckers (more often than not Sears employees on their breaks) would position themselves in the cubicles taking any and all suckees for as long as they could. Once their shift was up they'd exit and be replaced by another. All day, every day.

Bookstore in Glendale. I just went to local gay owned places and there were always old gays ready.

It's genetic.

I was raring to go from the moment my mama dropped me out of her cooch. Hell, they'll put "Tap for BJ" on my tombstone.

Fascinating video! You learn something new every day, if you're paying attention.

R23 - you seriously didn't know all of this? Heck, my sister and roommate are hetero and know about gay cruising. Enough politicians, televangelists, and stars were caught at it...even my mom knows.

[quote] Bathroom cruising doesn't exist anymore

Oooh, you might want to tell the bathroom cruisers, then.

It may not be in the dependable department store any longer (since they're all but dead) but there's nothing like slurping on a fat married cock in a Home Depot or Lowe's, which is where the action is at these days.

I discovered cruising in my early 20s. I was jogging along the trails and some hot ass wearing nothing but little onion skin shorts was off the trail a little bit. He was clearly enjoying himself and the attention. I ended up blowing him. I was pretty back then so turning heads was easy and so was I. These days the only thing I turn is stomachs.

R24, of course I know it happens. But I didn't know the details outlined in the video. Why would I? I mean, you can fit what most of you guys know about menstruation on the head of a pin.

Just sayin'.

I've been in a lot of mens rooms and I have never been cruised or aware of any cruising or sexual activity going on. No tapping or loitering or anything. No one has engaged me in conversation or tried to catch my eye. I've never seen or heard any sexual activity. Just men pissing and shitting and getting the hell out of there.

[quote] I've been in a lot of mens rooms and I have never been cruised or aware of any cruising or sexual activity going on. No tapping or loitering or anything. No one has engaged me in conversation or tried to catch my eye. I've never seen or heard any sexual activity. Just men pissing and shitting and getting the hell out of there.

That's not unusual. It's not like every single one is cruisy.

They either tend to be out of the way, or in places where a large number of people come through (like an airport).

Although....sometimes I think it's something that you don't see until, well, you see it, and then you start to notice it all the time.

And the "out of the way" element is, I think, more important than he says in the video.

Part of the trick is that you have to be somewhere that isn't going to be interrupted constantly. Especially by kids, or old men, etc. I cruised the two malls nearest me in the 80s and while cruising DID go on in the main mall bathrooms, it was always much safer and more productive to cruise in the department store restrooms, which were a bit off the beaten path.

Sometimes, if a guy met me in a busy bathroom, I'd ask him to meet me at a smaller, less busy one. Had a few very hot suck sessions with guys who followed me to the quieter one and took their time feeding me cock and cum.

The cruiser/cruisee will always find the spot, no matter where it is. And it's unlikely that a rando straight dude is gonna walk in there, see what's happening, say, "Oh, I coulda had a V8!" and just unzip to be sucked. Those going to those spots are looking for actions.

[quote] Those going to those spots are looking for actions.

R30 - and they are people who are closeted or are in places with few gay-specific venues or they are just plain weird. Even in conservative Glendale, there was a bookstore with an openly gay owner and gay employees. We would meet there and take our business elsewhere...they did the same in the 1970's though some queens got it on in the deposit or the single-stall bathroom (key only). But it wasn't "gay only" and was frequented by straights and families too, which didn't bother us at all. Same with a video store in Silverlake. There was an adult section and some screwed around in the back or employee bathroom. Again, liberal LA...so it wasn't gay only and diverse demographics came, so we had our specific spots. Never in a big, mixed bathroom where straights who were there would come in and piss. For me, that would be a total dick wilter. Like, WTF? How do you even get horny knowing dad and lil' Johnny are peeing and chatting about a book for English 101? Or the last copy of Toy Story?

There was a JCPenney I went to in my little corner of the rust belt.

We almost never had anyone in that restroom who wasn't cruising. It was in a corner of the store where no one ever went.

It really was heaven. I probably went there a few dozen times over the years and I never, ever had to wait more than five minutes before some guy came in. My favorite was a guy who looked like Phil Dunphy of Modern Family. (This was late 80s so years before I knew who that was, obviously) He had glasses and always nicely dressed.

But yes, cruising has diminished to a considerable degree because it depended to a big degree on the closet or that guys were sneaking around. Guys will always be on the creep, as it were, but they have other options now. Craigslist replaced cruising nicely for a while until that also got shot down.

My college library had a cruisy bathroom. I was usually too scared of undercover cops to go through with it, but did get a few BJs. Was the first time a guy ever swallowed my load, which caught me by surprise.

He’s cruising

R14, I can assure you that bathroom cruising still exists. How else would old, closeted Republicans get any action?

It should be taught high school

It was taught at the Cathedral of Learning.

Like a field of young, erect cock, just waiting to explode. Dozens and dozens of them

In the 1970's wasn't it called TRICKING

There is cruising in this Romanian city and even an online place where they state their location. The problem? Lots of the guys are Arab and African students. A twink at work said to avoid them as they are unpredictable (some Arabs are "passing" so you don't know). He got death threats after the blow job. Told me about another engineering student who some African student fucked and then punched in the back of the head in the park.

Finally, the security guards are on to it. Most let it slide but if a more "vigilant" one suddenly does a "bathroom check" and finds out he may call the cops. Two guys were arrested in a mall bathroom in 2019. Since the pandemic started, not only the police, but the far more hardcore riot police in black berets are everywhere. If those guys catch you...they hurl you into their van, take you down to the station and open a criminal file. That goes for straights too. A misguided German couple got high and screwed in the Zara (!!!) dressing room during the music festival and were arrested and charged. I guess the moral of the story is...don't suck in public in Transylvania cuz they don't fuck around.

"Cruising" is looking for dick. "Tricking" is enjoying dick.

In ancient history I was a 20 year old traveling cross county and a great adventure. I was taking the train from Boston to New York and had a "layover" in New Haven. I think I wanted to see Yale. Waiting mid-week, mid-day in the cavernous old New Haven station I went into the restroom to piss. One of those old restrooms with 20-30 urinals up on a little platform. I unzipped and started to piss and an older man who had followed me in took the urinal right next to me. I knew it was weird, I sensed from him this desperate hunger. At that point I didn't even know my own orientation - at least not in any way that suggested action. I was confused and zipped up quickly and left the restroom. He also left and lingered in the station until my train left.

The British used to call it "cottaging" right? All I knew is that some energy had been laid over me,, and stayed for the rest of the trip. The streets were dark with something more than night.

[quote] The streets were dark with something more than night.

MARY!

I second R42.

MARY!

MARY!

and once more for good measure

MAAAARYYYYYY!

I was a young gayling in the late 80’s and discovered Boston Public Library’s restroom and got plenty of attention. Tea rooms wear thin after awhile if you’re a hopeless romantic or the guy is staggeringly gorgeous. like some back story before getting busy.

I also cruised the MBTA and the Blue Line out to Wonderland was always good for picking out a hot guy or two. I had a very hot stroke session one night with two guys then they took me home and I was spit roasted on both sides!

R41, Mary!

Is the Minneapolis Airport men's room still cruisy?

Asking for a friend

Barnes and Nobles had a great cruising bathroom.

I have done my fair share of cruising, but never in a public bathroom. Is one really expected to slide under the partition to meet their suitor? Cause, that's just nasty.

No, YOU don’t slide under the partition, IT slides under.

Anyone remember the old empty shopping bag trick?

R47 That's the part I never really enjoyed. I preferred to stay seated like royalty and have the tall, dashing gentleman caller stand above me as I slobbered on his knob.

I could improvise at the urinals if needed, but just NO for the sticking the cock underneath the divider business.

R50 has clearly stated her boundaries.

Boundaries that could be compromised for some truly fine cock, of course.

I never understood why they called them tearooms.

There are cruising videos on the tube sites but in a lot of them, you can hear kids in the background so they're more gross than hot.

The “t” in t-rooms stands for trade, as in trading sexual acts.

Stars who were busted for bathroom cruising:

George Michael

George Maharis

John Gielgud

Any others?

Paul Rubens, aka Peewee Herman.

No, r57, he was busted in a movie theater. (A porn theatre to be sure, but not a bathroom.)

Ah, thanks, r55!

[quote] There are cruising videos on the tube sites but in a lot of them, you can hear kids in the background so they're more gross than hot.

Oh, bullshit. I’ve watched hundreds, probably thousands of these videos over the years. I can probably count on one hand the times I heard anyone—children or otherwise—in the bathroom at the same time.

Your comment comes off very homophobic.

According to my talks with the famous Fassbender muse, Barbara Valentine, young Freddie Mercury would cruise bathrooms in all kinds of locations (rest areas, truck stops...you name it). His "music manager" who backstabbed him and spilled the beans for about £30K was also his pimp and drug dealer. His name was Peter and he was portrayed as the "evil homosexual" in the movie. Actually, it was Freddie's girlfriend who pushed to bring him on board because apparently the famous performer was so fond of rough trade that she feared for his life and would say that he would get himself killed. Prenter and Freddie were also FWB and, sadly, both died within months of each other. Prenter sold pictures of Freddie in bed with loads of men he "procured".

Cynthia Manley taught me the basics !!!!!

How forward-thinking of him..

That takes me back, R62 -- thanks for the mem'ries!

Paul Rubens was busted in a porn movie house not a tearoom.

Back in the 80s in NYC there was the wonderful "Glory Hole Club" on 8th Ave.. 4 floors of nothing but single and group glory holes and a room full of theater seats with porn playing on a monitor. That place would get packed to the gills after midnight 7 nights a week. Getting or giving action was completely effortless. It was an oral pig's version of heaven.

JFC, r65, read the goddamn thread.

It was six fucking posts before yours. JFC.

R66 sounds like the heyday of the Bijou in Chicago.

What happened to romance?!

R69 The Spell - Alan Holinghurst (Booker Award etc.) Central romance/relationship (eventually going south) of two who met each other while "cottaging"

R70 That's because, now say it with me, Sluts Ruin Everything.

Romance is fine, but there are times when a guy just wants to be a ravenous pig and never have to see other other guy(s) again.

Dear Lord in Heaven!

It's funny: this guy certainly has a look going on, but I'm not sure it's flattering to him. Which is too bad, because he's got a nice body, nice features, and nice hair, and a nice FM radio voice.

The rest stops along Route 80 in NJ were the hottest. The tearoom at the Garden State Plaza had too many old fuckers.

Paul Reubens, R65. Peter Paul Rubens was a Flemish painter who liked to paint big girls.

R72 How vivid.

The lyric Cole Porter forgot to write!

Yeah, R77 ... "forgot."

Bathrooms are gross

ICK! Touch.a stranger's peepee in a bathroom?

The maiden aunt brigade has arrived

How does not wanting to get on your knees on the floor of a public toilet make you a Maiden Aunt?

I prefer bathhouses.

[quote]JFC, [R65], read the goddamn thread.

[quote]It was six fucking posts before yours. JFC.

They could have that poster on block, for all you know.

This is just a gossip forum, Blanche. Try to chill out.

[quote] How does not wanting to get on your knees on the floor of a public toilet make you a Maiden Aunt?

You always get on your knees when giving head? What if you’re getting?

This guy has a lot of pizzazz

Along with a host of other diseases, I’d guess.

It was all instinct.

R81 - I'm sorry man. I'm a top and love fucking and getting blown and rimming...but public bathrooms are disgusting. Just nasty. And the smell? Total dick wilter. Either dirty or, of you are lucky, ammonia. If hating those smells makes me a "maiden aunt", so be it. Shit and ammonia aren't a sexy combo.

Here's how I learned.

[quote] How does not wanting to get on your knees on the floor of a public toilet make you a Maiden Aunt?

Because it means you're probably the nellie prisspot who has sex with the lights off, as quietly and quickly as possible and with the fewest number of fingers you can use to touch the other guy's penis.

AND the minute he cums, you shriek, leap from your bed, immediately strip all sheets and then run to the shower to scrub as if Karen Silkwood herself was getting detox'd.

Honey, I know your type to a T.

OP's video host is the third Property Brother.

Dave Grohl is a tearoom whore?

This Patrick Marano guy looks like Jeffrey Epstein.

Is the yummy man next to Patrick his partner?

Only a nasty, dirty whore has sexy time in a public toilet.

r96, you take that back!!!!!

R56

[quote] Stars who were busted for bathroom cruising . . . Any others?

Alec Guinness

No, Sir. We all know it's the truth.

Gielgud had the rare distinction of winning an Oscar, an Emmy, a Grammy, and a Tony.

[quote] Only a nasty, dirty whore has sexy time in a public toilet.

^ The 1920s flapper in that picture is Isabel Jeans using exaggerated gestures because she's starring in one of those wordless movies for Alfred Hitchcock.

She had a bad marriage with Claude Rains and her career sagged while mooching around Hollywood. Hitchcock gave her a small part as Cary Grant's sidekick in 'Suspicion' in '41.

Back in England she appeared in a Wilde play dressed by Beaton. And ten years later Beaton suggested she play the courtesan's teacher in 'Gigi'.

As a teen i used to jerk off endlessly at the idea of cruising, but it just never happened. I think 'Stranger Danger' ruined that for my generation.

^ The smell of excrement ruined it for me.

You can think whatever you want R91, and have fun kneeling in stale piss.

There can't possibly be cruising in countries with uncircumcised anteater cocks! WHO WOULD TOUCH such flithy disgusting things! The rotten smell alone is vomitous! I recoil in revulsion at the hideous image of cruising in the parks and tearooms of London and Berlin.

Dirty anteaters are revolting

Just the thought of two hearty germans in a tearoom servicing their huge pale veiny cocks dripping ropes of beer scented pre-cum through their generous foreskins is enough to make me.... puke. I certainly wouldn't want to picture this. I might die of disgust.

You younguns simply don't understand. Many, if not most, of us here were around long before you were born. Back in the old days being out & proud was not nearly as easy as it is today. We were much more sexual than you kids are today and the availability of places for some impromptu action were far more than today. Plus, we didn't have AIDS to worry about. The worst thing we had to worry about was a case of the clap, and if you got it you simply went down to the local VD clinic, got a jab, and that took care of that.

Personally I never specifically looked for action in public restrooms. Too many other people around who weren't looking for action. I went for places where they provided spaces specifically for hot action and where everyone was of the same mind, horny-ready-willing. That's not to say there weren't a few times when the opportunity presented itself in other places. Opportunities I admit to having taken advantage of. In particular, while driving across country in 1978 I stopped for gas at a nice looking gas station off the freeway outside Dallas, Tx.. Their restroom facility, though small, was immaculately clean with no urinals, only 2 cubicles that had a quite convenient glory hole between them. There I encountered the sexiest looking cowboy with his Levis down around his ankles on the other side obviously there for one thing. And being the giving sort that I am, I gave him exactly what he wanted.

[quote] Stars who were busted for bathroom cruising:

George Michael

George Maharis

John Gielgud

Any others?

Busted? I didn't hide it, darling!

To be honest, I would have done it far more often as a young man, but was terrified of entrapment. These days, do a lot of rest rooms have security cameras?

And I would love the scene at R107. But then again I'm attracted to ***men*** - the way they look, feel, taste and smell.

I don't want to lie back and think of England during a sexual encounter with my similarly sexless prisspot boyfriend that lasts the length of the Golden Girls opening theme.

R108 save a horse, ride a cowboy. Or at least drain his nuts.

[quote] These days, do a lot of rest rooms have security cameras?

No.

There are no security cameras INSIDE bathrooms.

There's never cameras inside a bathroom.

Security may set up a camera in the areas leading back to a bathroom if they suspect someone is going in and out frequently. Another reason why once I went in, I stayed in and stayed in my stall - usually escaping the notice of any possible guard patroling.

R114 was the malingering troll the rest of us wished would get up and give somebody else a chance.

R115 LOL, no. I was cute in those days. And I never lingered for too long. I just didn't like to do the in-out-in-out thing b/c it always seemed to draw attention.

But I hated the Old Trolls. I would go once in a while to my favorite place and I swear, morning noon or night the same old troll would show up. The one that never took no for an answer.

[quote] There's never cameras inside a bathroom.

Oh, dear!

[quote]— Not the usual troll

Maybe not, but you’ve got a future here.

R56-Larry Kert, but Hal Prince made it go away.

Lucy wanted to cruise, but Gary talked her out of it.

The "Everything was better in MY day" troll at r108 forgets all the guys targeted by undercover cops

tap tap

tap tap tap

TAP TAP TAP

*nudges foot*

hasn't gazing into cell phones basically ended the ritual as we knew it in the last century?

They’re cruising

They're just amateur porn performers R124.

r116, any chance you're now one of those trolls you loathed so much?

R126 Nope. I don't think I've cruised in the 21st century, outside of a random visit to an adult bookstore a few times.

[quote]They're just amateur porn performers.

Still cruising.

In an effort to make his case that undercover police were proliferate in restrooms to bust cruisers, he links an article from almost 60 years ago describing one such sting operation. One.

Nice work, Mr. Researcher. My own research over many years directly and completely contradicts your findings.

R129, that was one of MANY. I guess you have to make shit up to keep up the lie that everything was perfect IN MY DAY

Nice work, Mr Moron

I don't think mall restrooms were ever spots for police surveillance, unless the store asked for their help (and that would be rare). More often, it would be a security guard.

I got caught once when I'd skipped school to go cruise, in a Horne's of all places. The guard took me to the police station and told me an officer would come talk to me, but they were shorthanded. When I realized he had left, I calmly got up and left the station. They didn't chase me. I'm sure technically they could have charged me with disorderly conduct or something but they didn't.

The more frequent place you'd see an undercover cop would be a place like a public park. I think they had jurisdiction in those areas.

I know everyone will scream "Nifty!" but I remember being in the woods next to the public beach, jacking off a burly, hot daddy with an extremely fat dick. When we were done, he zipped up and walked a little bit ahead of me as I took a different path out of the woods, and I could hear and see him saying "[city we were in] Police" to two older guys that were playing there. It made me ill, not so much that he would come after me but the feeling that he was a turncoat.

There were only two places to cruise(that I heard of)because I lived in a rural area, and one of them was a park a couple of towns over where a guy got the shit kicked out of him by a group of teenagers when he made the mistake of hitting on one of them.

I honestly don't know I survived those formative years.

Supposedly, my hot cop cousin in Tampa was on the "cruise" beat and he killed himself eventually. His parents were mega rich but tight and high strung Christians.

Who knows?

R124 wow wow - the way it used to be! Those are hot displays of guys craving cock and ass. Where is that? WC Masculino

I would be down on the silver haired daddy in a second

You know, it’s not that some of us “younguns” have no interest in cruising, it’s simply the state of the world today.

I’m sure cruising in 1978 was an exciting, fun thing. But the onset of AIDS, homo homicide, public arrest & shame from “law & order” politicians, and YES the convenience of doing things online have changed things Y’all talk about the golden days of CraigsList all the time.

Most of the above precedes Millennials really….

There's a silver haired daddy in my Swiss city like that one in the tearoom. Except this Swiss daddy is even more handsome/lurchy and super charming, and his dick is 10 inches easily. He was in all the cruise spots in the early 2000s and they were very active. I guess he must have been late 50s even 60 back then! Yet he was very popular! Every Twink and upward wanted to get with him.

I remember a beautiful Polish daddy I'd run into from time to time in my favorite downtown department store men's room. He was a writer and a bit "lurchy" (think Richard Moll) but he had a beautiful cock and I watched once as it shot a huge load. Unfortunately even in my late 20s I was a bit older than he liked. He was all about the college boys and the poor waifs.

[quote]Y’all talk about the golden days of CraigsList all the time

Wow. You really are young.

Well, r71 had better not be a gay or bisexual man, because almost all gays are "sluts."

Why don't you go to church to clutch your pearls instead of DL?

He was much hotter in his gay porn days as Eddie Stone, r74.

Since you didn't know that.

r89 is a pearl-clutching incel and homophobe with a set of provincial misconceptions and a right-wing agenda she's always pushing on DL.

Pay her no mind.

Actually, r124 is exactly the other reason nobody cruises today:

EVERYBODY HAS A VIDEO CAMERA IN THEIR POCKET NOWADAYS AND SOME PIG IS GOING TO PUT YOUR BUSINESS ON TWITTER, etc.

Cruising hookups used to be anonymous. Now your enemies can send it to your mom. This scares nearly everybody away — especially the closet cases who would cruise.

If someone pulled out a smartphone in a cruising spot I'd punch them in their fucking faces. Sorry, but don't do shit like that without consent or you'll get knocked on your ass.

Police stakeouts caught less than 1 percent of cruising activity in public spaces.

I bet r130 also thinks there's no point in getting a COVID vaccine just because 1 to 15 percent of them don't stop the virus.

Well, they pull out their smartphones in nearly every cruising place that still exists, r145, which is partly why I don't cruise anymore.

Public restrooms, parks, bathhouses; adult bookstores. There's always somebody collecting videos or trying to build up his OF or Pornhub account.

Can you imagine running into one of those Old Trolls Who Won't Take "NO" for An Answer nowadays? They could easily record you and post revenge porn, everywhere you went.

To each their own. But while I'm not a prude, I've always thought this behavior comes off as sad and desperate. The last thing I'd describe it as...is "hot'.

[quote] while I'm not a prude

Cruising is great if you want to end up on a tube site because some of those assholes hide cameras too.

I spent countless hours every week cruising various spots in a handful of cities in the northeast US for over a decade and never got video recorded as far as I know. If there is a video out there, I’d like to see it! One time I thought I saw one of myself in a NYSC locker room, but it wasn’t me upon closer inspection. I was excited by the prospect, though.

By the way, Grindr is no substitute for any of this. It’s way easier to get action—and LOTS of action—by showing up in person to these spots and just whipping it out, than it is to try to court a prospective hookup on Grindr for god knows how long. Especially since Grindr is mostly the dregs of the gay population now (plus some trans of course).

Not every bathroom is filled with the smell of poop, either, as someone insinuated upthread. There are certain bathrooms in various buildings that rarely get used *except* by cruisers.

I’ve had so many exhilarating, shocking, hilarious, ecstatic times in bathrooms, parks, video stores, locker rooms, etc., I can hardly remember them all. I am not ashamed, and I wouldn’t want to un-do any of it. Looking forward to it starting up again, post-Covid.

There is some generational confusion here. Bathrooms used to be kept immaculately clean. Especially in department stores, offices, hotel lobbies, airports, banks, and a lot of public spaces.

They had people called custodians who’s full time job was to keep the restrooms sparkly clean. There were whole departments dedicated to sanitation. A dirty restroom was a big no-no and was not tolerated.

If you go into a restroom these days it’s filthy. Maybe it gets cleaned once a day. Maybe.

Oh, man, more of the "Everything was better in MY day" stuff. No, not all bathrooms were not spotless in the past. And custodians still exist.

That guy Patrick Marano is really wise. His video about seducing straight guys is good, too.

Dear r151,

We are not talking about "over a decade" three decades ago.

We're talking about 2021, when everybody has a smartphone, social media and monetizing websites like OnlyFans and Pornhub.

I started noticing video cameras, then phones in steam rooms, gym locker rooms, bathhouses and orgies at gay resorts in the aughts. So I basically stopped cruising by 2012 and so did most of the men at my gym.

If you don't believe me, just search any freetube site for "hidden camera," "cruising," "toilet," "locker room" or "glory hole" and you'll see plenty of privacy invaded.

You just won't find the numbers of cruisers you found in the 20th century, r151.

And hardly anyone cruising anymore will be young.

“@And custodians still exist “

Not really.

I'm sad for those who've never had the opportunity to be in a location where something sexual happening was the farthest thing from your mind, but were suddenly presented with something so unbelievably hot you immediately lost all inhibitions. If you've never known that, you've never known true animal lust.

I'm too shy and too cautious to cruise for public sex.

Hot cowboy at a rest stop driving across the states, super sexy man waved his huge dick at me , it was huge and asked me If I wanted more. He had a big truck, hauling horses in the lot. One of the absolute best memories of my life. I was 17 and with very little experience. He was amazing. Looking back , I think he had a thing for teenagers, but he could not have been over 25. I’d have loved to find out how his life is. Is he happy? God knows he changed my life.

[quote] And hardly anyone cruising anymore will be young.

Based on the videos that pop up, the young cruisers these days are almost exclusively black or Latino guys, often overweight.

[quote] And hardly anyone cruising anymore will be young.

Of course not. They're all locked away in their bedrooms on their computers. Most of them don't even know how to talk to a person face to face, much less shove their faces into some hot man's crotch.

A few years ago I was in a sports bar after work. There were only a few people there since it was Monday about 4:30. A guy who delivered Red Baron Pizza came in and sat a few seats from me. He had curly black hair, looked to be late 30s or early 40s. We both nodded to each other. I went to the restroom. There were 4 urinals and 1 toilet. I was at a urinal and he came in just stood in front of the urinal beside me and pulled out a beautiful thick cock. If I had not been such a chicken shit I would have taken him over to the stall and sucked him off. I just walked out, payed my tab and left.

[quote] payed my tab

Oh, dear.

[quote] They had people called custodians who’s full time job

Oh, DEAR!

MARY!

Suck cock in public spaces and sooner or later you'll wind up on Dudetube for all to enjoy.

Or Reddit

Dear God, he has a punchable face.

And a photoshopped dick.

I thought the guy in OP's video Patrick Marano looked very familiar. He was in gay porn videos in the early 2000s under the porn name Eddie Stone. He was very much hot stuff and was primarily the bottom in most of his videos.

[quote] and was primarily the bottom

I'm shocked, I tell you, SHOCKED!

I don't understand why anyone needs instructions

It says it right there on the stall "Tap Foot for BJ"

Eddie Stone was one of my favorite Falcon stars alongside Brad Patton, Roman Heart and Tristan Adonis.

Private cocks in public places are wiser and nicer than public cocks in private places.

OP's guy was MUCH better looking with short hair. That long cut looks laughable on him.

[quote] It says it right there on the stall "Tap Foot for BJ"

So now I have to buy tap shoes, too? Nah, I’m out.

Thank you R152

That explains a lot though I admit I am skeptical that most bathrooms in the 70s were actually all that clean.

Maybe a couple in department stores or hotels, but beyond that?

[quote] That guy Patrick Marano is really wise.

Maybe, but he's also too gay acting.

He ain't acting.

He's a flamer who thinks he's way more special than he is.

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