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Ben Affleck is looking really miserable with J Lo

When he's going to dump her?

Discuss

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by Anonymousreply 166October 27, 2021 5:03 AM
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by Anonymousreply 1September 20, 2021 12:49 AM

He always looks miserable maybe he needs to start drinking more

by Anonymousreply 2September 20, 2021 12:53 AM

He's lost a lot of weight. He's probably off the booze at the direction of that control freak. The novelty and 'high' of being back with her has worn off and he's jonesing for the booze again. The clock's definitely ticking on this. How embarrassing for her. She still looks like she's happy to be back with him while he couldn't possibly be more miserable and doesn't care who knows it.

by Anonymousreply 3September 20, 2021 12:55 AM

He's hungry and dying for a drink!

by Anonymousreply 4September 20, 2021 12:57 AM

[quote] He's hungry and dying for a drink!

He's hungry for Jack in the Box and dying for a drink!

by Anonymousreply 5September 20, 2021 12:58 AM

It's Sunday and he's not gone to church, that's why. I will pray for him.

by Anonymousreply 6September 20, 2021 12:59 AM

The only time he's looked happy since reuniting with JLo was when he was at a casino with her mother.

by Anonymousreply 7September 20, 2021 12:59 AM

For a woman who likes to project a strong, self-confident image, J Lo doesn't like to spend too much time alone, does she? She always seems to be hanging onto a man. Like, physically hanging on. As a result, I expect she keeps her men on a very short leash. And that could be suffocating. Not that a short leash isn't a good thing for some people who otherwise are prone to making poor decisions for themselves.

by Anonymousreply 8September 20, 2021 1:09 AM

He’s just a miserable person. I don’t remember this sad sack being happy once in the past twenty years.

by Anonymousreply 9September 20, 2021 1:10 AM

[quote] He’s just a miserable person. I don’t remember this sad sack being happy once in the past twenty years.

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by Anonymousreply 10September 20, 2021 1:13 AM

I’ve noticed that too. The last few pictures of her with him. He look like he wanted to be on a different planet.

by Anonymousreply 11September 20, 2021 1:15 AM

[quote] The Great Sadness of Ben Affleck

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by Anonymousreply 12September 20, 2021 1:16 AM

[quote] The sorrows of Ben Affleck

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by Anonymousreply 13September 20, 2021 1:17 AM

[quote] Ben revives ‘Sad Affleck’ meme as he leaves Jennifer Lopez’s home

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by Anonymousreply 14September 20, 2021 1:18 AM

[quote]For a woman who likes to project a strong, self-confident image, J Lo doesn't like to spend too much time alone, does she? She always seems to be hanging onto a man.

Have you ever known any Puerto Rican women?

by Anonymousreply 15September 20, 2021 5:09 AM

Ben Affleck is the kind of alcoholic who will never stay sober. He'll keep relapsing for the rest of his life. Some people are just like that.

by Anonymousreply 16September 20, 2021 5:09 AM

I get that look when I wanna drink.

by Anonymousreply 17September 20, 2021 5:12 AM

That’s how he looked all the time right before they called off their engagement.

by Anonymousreply 18September 20, 2021 1:50 PM

They're like the old people version of Ariana Grande and Pete Davidson.

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by Anonymousreply 19September 20, 2021 1:54 PM

r3

You can tell all that by a photo? What a tool!!!

by Anonymousreply 20September 20, 2021 1:58 PM

He misses Matt.

by Anonymousreply 21September 20, 2021 2:04 PM

He's tired of hearing JLo recount to him what she did every day between when they broke up and got back together.

by Anonymousreply 22September 20, 2021 2:13 PM

What runs thru Ben's brain

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by Anonymousreply 23September 20, 2021 2:16 PM

Ben feels the pain of Hollywood's rejection of J-Lo.

by Anonymousreply 24September 20, 2021 2:21 PM

The comment on DM related to OP's image generated over 700 comments. The comments have been mysteriously dropping in and dropping out of sight for past couple of days. In other words, you see 742 comments, and you click on Comments and not one comments pop. Most of the comments are pretty negative and funny, like.....

"When does the sexting begin.....?"

by Anonymousreply 25September 20, 2021 2:28 PM

I don't think either one of them is into it. She's just a better actor than he is, which says a lot, because she doesn't have any skills beyond dancing.

The idea was for her to save face after ARod cheated on her and for him to get work she could help Ben promote. It looks like this is not turning out as expected. They both look weak and pathetic! Hollywood is kinda over Bennifer and America has moved on. Whatever publicist came up with this idea of revisiting the past should be fired.

by Anonymousreply 26September 20, 2021 2:37 PM

Real-time realization of the one he held in his bitter heart as the "The One Who Got Away" will never make him as happy as 1 bourbon, 1 scotch and 1 beer.

Difficult days ahead for Affleck.

by Anonymousreply 27September 20, 2021 2:40 PM

On a serious note, he is an alcoholic. Most alcoholics are self-medicating. Many cannot be effectively treated by pharmaceuticals. So he could be on all manner of anti-depressant and anti-anxiety meds and getting no relief. If I had his money and fame and all the sex I could stand AND I was still in despair I would be at the end of my rope.

I genuinely feel sad for anyone in a predicament where they seem to have EVERYTHING and yet their despair and hopelessness cannot be abated.

by Anonymousreply 28September 20, 2021 3:03 PM

He needs to slink behind the scenes, marry a stable, attractive but unshowy executive, and direct/produce. His star days are over. He needs to cultivate a little dignity.

by Anonymousreply 29September 20, 2021 3:04 PM

Ben is in this PR "relationship" to distract from the fact that he's circling the drain with his addictions and also to promote his next movie.

by Anonymousreply 30September 20, 2021 3:08 PM

Those pics where he has the faraway look in his eyes tell me he disassociates

by Anonymousreply 31September 20, 2021 3:11 PM

So he did get that back tattoo for real? Does he still have it? I lost track of that debacle.

by Anonymousreply 32September 20, 2021 3:18 PM

Wasn't Ben chasing some younger chick on Raya a while back? He doesn't want JLO's old worn out snatch! R30 This is definitely a business arrangement he has with JLO and it didn't work. He looks depressed.

by Anonymousreply 33September 20, 2021 3:25 PM

Hopeless alcoholic depressive who gloms onto higher functioning women that he uses to prop up his image.

by Anonymousreply 34September 20, 2021 3:27 PM

He misses his mom, Jen Garner. She cut the crusts off of his sandwiches just how he liked it and never made him shower like step-mom Jenny From the Block.

by Anonymousreply 35September 20, 2021 3:39 PM

[quote]because she doesn't have any skills beyond dancing.

Shaking your ass into a camera isn't dancing.

by Anonymousreply 36September 20, 2021 3:40 PM

He always looks happiest with Matt.

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by Anonymousreply 37September 20, 2021 3:42 PM

He looks like a lost soul.

by Anonymousreply 38September 20, 2021 3:43 PM

Bet JLO has the "family" Christmas PJ's already selected and gift-wrapped too.

by Anonymousreply 39September 20, 2021 3:48 PM

I feel sorry for him, he looks chronically depressed and detached from those around him. His addictions stem from that.

Whatever excitement she provided was temporary. Now he's stuck in a PR relationship with a crazy woman who has moved home and her kids from school to be near him. He doesn't want to be in that situation anymore. You can see him thinking "wtf have i done...nooooo"

by Anonymousreply 40September 20, 2021 4:30 PM

Lots of alcoholics are very depressed people, and quitting drinking doesn't make their depression any better.

by Anonymousreply 41September 20, 2021 4:36 PM

He looks that way in OP's picture because they were at Dunkin' Donuts and they refused to serve him because they wouldn't believe he was deaf and dumb.

by Anonymousreply 42September 20, 2021 4:39 PM

So many guys from Boston are just like him.

by Anonymousreply 43September 20, 2021 4:40 PM

Handsome guy, had a lot going for him...good wife (Jennifer G), a good career....pretty intelligent. Many would love to be in his happier situation. I guess he has a chemically awry problem with his brain...even before his drinking and drugging? It's a shame.

by Anonymousreply 44September 20, 2021 4:45 PM

He needs JENERGY!!

by Anonymousreply 45September 20, 2021 4:49 PM

He has a challenge living sober, because the people he keeps being attracted to are the same dysfunctional types he had around him when he was drinking and using.

He doesn’t accept that, if he keeps staying with the same playmates and play toys in the same playgrounds, he’ll always be what he was.

Drinking was just a symptom, the tip of a codependent iceberg.

by Anonymousreply 46September 20, 2021 4:51 PM

r42 what ?

by Anonymousreply 47September 20, 2021 4:54 PM

Ugh alright R46, I'll bite. Can you explain more? It's ringing true.

by Anonymousreply 48September 20, 2021 4:56 PM

Ben Affleck is looking-

to come out of the CLOSET

by Anonymousreply 49September 20, 2021 4:58 PM

Pretty sure they're just a PR pairing much like Shawn and Camila. Their people probably coordinate their stunts and they likely do not communicate with each other otherwise. Between this and the last ridiculous PR relationship (forgot her name already) and his alcohol issues, you would think he would be a laughing stock.

But... he has a lot in the pipeline per IMDB, so maybe it's working? Or, maybe it's the age-old truth that het white men get a million chances in Hollywood (if they're insurable and make bank). We'll see. I personally no longer have any interest in watching anything him or Damon are in. They've ruined whatever mystique they once had.

by Anonymousreply 50September 20, 2021 5:07 PM

Has the "discuss" troll returned?

by Anonymousreply 51September 20, 2021 5:08 PM

[quote] Lots of alcoholics are very depressed people, and quitting drinking doesn't make their depression any better.

Having a huge double digit cock doesn't make it any better, either.

by Anonymousreply 52September 20, 2021 5:09 PM

He looks so unwell lately. Very gaunt in his face . Yes, he lost the alcohol bloat but he’s using something.. Coke, heroin, opiates.. does not look sober or well.

by Anonymousreply 53September 20, 2021 5:31 PM

[quote]He misses Matt.

Yes, but does Matt miss him?

by Anonymousreply 54September 20, 2021 5:48 PM

r49 Affleck is one person we can all say is 100% straight.

by Anonymousreply 55September 20, 2021 6:38 PM

R55 - we can?

by Anonymousreply 56September 20, 2021 6:51 PM

[quote]Yes, but does Matt miss him?

I don't think Matt has cut him out of his life, but it seems like he keeps his distance more [for a while - not JLO related]. I caught an interviewer when he was doing his Stillwater junket when it had just broken that they were dating and they asked him about it. He initially he said-- you really don't want to ask me about that - no comment - then when pressed, he said he thought it was great. I think his initial reaction -- don't want to touch this with a ten foot pole -- was more accurate. After that, I think he had a canned reaction ready for the question.

by Anonymousreply 57September 20, 2021 7:12 PM

Peak Affleck Perfection was almost a quarter of a century ago (GOING ALL THE WAY). Sadly, that was a very long time ago.

He can join AARP next year.

by Anonymousreply 58September 20, 2021 7:32 PM

[quote] He looks so unwell lately. Very gaunt in his face . Yes, he lost the alcohol bloat but he’s using something.. Coke, heroin, opiates.. does not look sober or well.

A woman in his situation would be mocked and ostracized. Think Whitney Houston...

by Anonymousreply 59September 20, 2021 7:33 PM

How many loads did Ben fill Matt's ass with?

by Anonymousreply 60September 20, 2021 7:35 PM

R48 I'm not R46 but I think what they were getting at is when you are trying to get sober and/or stay sober you often have to distance yourself from the people, places and things that you associated with your drinking/drugging days. Staying around those "triggers", or coming back to them can lure you back in. It's best to stay as far away as possible, and depending on how deep in it you are (and he's pretty fucking deep in it), sometimes you have to distance permanently.

He needs to get out of the business completely. Go raise yaks in Outer Mongolia. Slight exaggeration, but he needs to move to a completely different part of the world and take on something utterly different. Go be a gentleman farmer in Nova Scotia. Get more into nature and animals or agriculture and less from people. He doesn't do well with people. I can relate, frankly.

by Anonymousreply 61September 20, 2021 7:59 PM

R61, thanks. I relate.

by Anonymousreply 62September 20, 2021 9:35 PM

She drains the life from every man she's with. My fuckin nickname is Skeletor!

by Anonymousreply 63September 20, 2021 9:37 PM

Being in a situation when you feel forced to be an inauthentic version of yourself is never good.

He looks miserable and clearly doesn't want to be in a relationship (real or fake) with this woman.

He needs to find a way to get out of it and yes, leave the business.

He was never that great an actor anyway. He just was a good looking young man. He's not so young anymore and folks are less forgiving as you age.

He made his money and had a good run. As other have said, it is time to find something else so he can maintain his sobriety and get on with a better life.

by Anonymousreply 64September 20, 2021 9:55 PM

r20 I work in AOD treatment and am a reformed alcoholic myself (as many of us who work in this sector are), so yes, what is highly likely going on there based on the weight loss and the euphoria at the commencement of the relationship (a new 'high' and distraction) to the obvious low here (that man is miserable) it becomes very clear to those of us who know what we're highly likely seeing. He has "swapped the witch for the bitch" as addicts do to help avoid doing the real work to get better.

by Anonymousreply 65September 20, 2021 10:08 PM

Jennifer belongs with Marc Anthony.

by Anonymousreply 66September 20, 2021 10:23 PM

She’s too old for him

by Anonymousreply 67September 20, 2021 10:24 PM

R67 YES!

Guys usually don't go back to old relationships except maybe to hit it. They are different people now, and there's a reason they are exes.

Nobody wants an old woman no matter how hot she is.

Besides, both have access to fuck whoever they want. This is strictly business but it is destroying him. He needs to get out.

by Anonymousreply 68September 20, 2021 10:32 PM

I agree he is the type who cannot sustain sobriety. It’s very sad and I feel especially sorry for his kids.

That being said, I knew someone who could scramble together a week at a time sober for decades and then all the sudden at age 60 he finally got clean and stayed clean until he passed away ten years after. But it’s very rough on personal relationships.

by Anonymousreply 69September 20, 2021 10:41 PM

[R46] here:

Wherever you go, there you are.

It really doesn’t matter where he goes, he will always be faced with his personal issues. The best way to handle this is, first, to seriously want to change. If he wants the same life sober that he had drinking, then he’s lost from the beginning.

Stay sober, work a program, and do one-on-one therapy. With time, he can gradually realize his life was an endless series of self-sabotage. To rekindle a former dysfunctional connection, of any sort, is only an unconscious attempt to go back to drinking.

A friend once told me, “It’s a very simple program: don’t drink, go to meetings, and change your whole fucking life.”

But he’s a movie star. He can have anyone and anything he wants. Why should he bother with sincere self-searching?

He doesn’t see he’s already sliding down the same path as Jan Michael Vincent, to name only one precedent.

by Anonymousreply 70September 20, 2021 10:45 PM

He will soon be an old Geza.

by Anonymousreply 71September 20, 2021 10:46 PM

I just want to hear news about Alex R.'s giant Dominican cock. What's it been up to lately?

by Anonymousreply 72September 20, 2021 10:59 PM

[quote] What's it been up lately?

Fixed that for you.

by Anonymousreply 73September 20, 2021 11:03 PM

She looks clingy and he's not even touching her. His hands are in his pockets, lol.

by Anonymousreply 74September 20, 2021 11:09 PM

He looks embarrassed to be part of this charade, as he should be.

by Anonymousreply 75September 20, 2021 11:12 PM

She's so fake and dislikable, he looks miserable but he only has himself to blame for agreeing to be a part of this charade, they look so fake together in the red carpet it's sad.

by Anonymousreply 76September 20, 2021 11:20 PM

JLo is so deluded and in denial about her age she'll probably have her PR plant pregnancy rumours next. I remember when she was with ARod, she talked about wanting another child. No mention of her age and having to do either IVF or adopt. She just acted like she was a 30-year-old for whom getting pregnant was the logical next step. Then the next week she showed up to an awards show wearing some weird baggy/oversize dress. I felt embarrassed for her.

by Anonymousreply 77September 20, 2021 11:25 PM

I think Jlo wants to look petite and cute like Ariana Grande. The way her clothes are oversized and the ponytail. The person who compared them to the old version of Pete and Ariana are spot on

by Anonymousreply 78September 20, 2021 11:28 PM

R78 difference is Ariola is cover up the fact that she's anorexic while j.ho just looks dumpy.

by Anonymousreply 79September 21, 2021 12:12 AM

He also has a gambling habit. IMO, regular life is just "too boring" for some people. The girlfriend he had before JLO was in someone in her 20s, i.e., an exciting conquest at least for a month or so. He seems bored and grouchy unless he's actively drinking or gambling or with a new young woman.

Yes, it is sad to have enough money for whatever you want and nothing makes you happy/

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by Anonymousreply 80September 21, 2021 12:45 AM

I wonder how much $$$ he's pissed away on gambling. Hopefully Jennifer kept her finances separate from his during their marriage.

by Anonymousreply 81September 21, 2021 1:01 AM

JLo looks controlling...it's all about her image.

by Anonymousreply 82September 21, 2021 9:30 AM

They're taking things way to fast and way too public.

When it all ends, it's gonna be rather embarrassing.

by Anonymousreply 83September 21, 2021 9:43 AM

R68, And then men wonder why old women don't gussy themselves up. For whom? For what?

BTW, if you think women of any age seriously want an old man, I suggest you check his bank account.

by Anonymousreply 84September 21, 2021 10:25 AM

Is he POZ? Reminiscent of Jolie and Colin Farrell, who suddenly seem really circumspect and don't screw around with every person they meet anymore after being wild whores. Now they're scared and chastised middle aged white people wasting away.

by Anonymousreply 85September 21, 2021 11:11 AM

R84 it's actually more calculated than that for women. It is ALWAYS a social contract for the women.

One of the first 5 serious questions out of a women's mouth (assuming she doesn't already know the answer) is always, "ok, so what do you do for a living?" Most young men don't make a lot of money so this is a very awkward to get this grilling from her and then from her family and friends. And then all the awkward stares...

I feel sorry for guys who think it is all about their abs or the size of their trouser snake.

Then reality hits and she's looking for him to resolve all the money issues.

While women may like a handsome man, that is not what seals the deal. It's ALWAYS all about the Benjamins. It's how they are raised and socialized.

Women sell themselves! So after 10-20-30 years they refuse to "gussy up" and add 40-50 lbs, why are so many clutching their pearls when they get traded in?

by Anonymousreply 86September 21, 2021 12:23 PM

*woman's

by Anonymousreply 87September 21, 2021 12:24 PM

He should just come out. Has anyone in his looooong string if women made him happy? No. He needs the love of a good man.

by Anonymousreply 88September 21, 2021 12:27 PM

R88 I actually don't think he is gay.

Hollywood is full of queens and as handsome as he was in his heyday I'm sure he's had many opportunities.

Between queens wanting bragging rights and his own arrogance, I believe we woulda heard about it.

It is very "in" right now for an attractive White male to be queer. I doubt that it would hurt his career. It certainly would be better than being a falling down drunk who has to resort to dating JLO! Being queer would be a much better PR distraction. I just don't think that's him.

by Anonymousreply 89September 21, 2021 12:39 PM

Ben isn’t gay. He might’ve fucked around with Matt in their younger days out of curiosity since they’ve known each other so long. But they’ll take it to their graves. I’ve never got the gay vibe from either of them. But both are truly pathetic the way they are trying to sell this so called relationship. It’s plastered every day on TMZ. There a level of phoniness with both of them that runs deep.

by Anonymousreply 90September 21, 2021 12:41 PM

There’s ^

by Anonymousreply 91September 21, 2021 12:42 PM

Thanks R84, R68 sounds like a misogynistic, ageist asshole. He will be 50 someday (if he don't croak first). Anyway, Ben is not a spring chicken and Jen has him beat in the looks dept (face and body) regardless of her age.

by Anonymousreply 92September 21, 2021 2:16 PM

R89, IDK if Ben is gay (or bi) or not, but your reasons don't hold water. Many men in Hollywood and music are gay and in the closet without kissing and telling. And it is not "in" for a white actor to be queer.

by Anonymousreply 93September 21, 2021 2:23 PM

No woman or man will make Benny happy as long as he's sober. That bitch wants a drink and some lines more than he wants success, stability, health, wealth or pussy/ass. His addictions will kill him one day but that is the face of a man who is dying inside because he's deciding if going out that way wouldn't be so bad, after all.

by Anonymousreply 94September 21, 2021 2:33 PM

He's trying to stay sober for his kids. poor dude, he's suffering but that's what life is about.

by Anonymousreply 95September 21, 2021 4:27 PM

One day at a time, Ben.

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by Anonymousreply 96September 21, 2021 4:32 PM

so how do they lose the weight? do they stop eating? I know they stop drinking but is the weight loss just from not boozing?

by Anonymousreply 97September 21, 2021 4:34 PM

I'm learning a lot from this thread, thanks for all the info.

by Anonymousreply 98September 21, 2021 4:34 PM

Ben is not gay you stupid hermits. Get out of your shell. Isolation can make you go psychotic so know they signs.

by Anonymousreply 99September 21, 2021 4:44 PM

I’ll say this much though, this thread is so much more mature that the Angie/Brad threads. This is like a Harvard debate in here compared to that mess.

As you were.

by Anonymousreply 100September 21, 2021 4:51 PM

You can eat absolutely nothing, not a single pea, but if you are drinking a lot you will get fat. Not just bloat. FAT. All of the keto people found that out the hard way. Vodka? No carbs! I can't get fat. Well, many of those with that mindset are now fatty boom blatty. I speak from a similar experience.

He really does look awful. Like a wasting disease. He looks yellow too. Maybe his liver has given up, I don't know, but that's not normal weight loss. Not at all. Maybe he got some bad news about his health and is freaked out.

by Anonymousreply 101September 21, 2021 4:51 PM

He’s over the hill now. How did he ever get Batman?

I think he needs to do a tv show. It’s steady and has a schedule. He could play a professor or some kind of warm character that gives advice. Ben can play shy and thoughtful. Or somebody’s dad.

by Anonymousreply 102September 21, 2021 4:53 PM

Because R99 knows Ben personally and in his bedroom...Nope. StFU fangirl. None of us know for sure either way.

Anyway, wine does not make you fat. Ask the thin French. But the other stuff, yep - eso. if you plan on eating food also. Thin drunks are either young or starving.

by Anonymousreply 103September 21, 2021 5:23 PM

R92 We speak truths. If you can't accept the fact that most men aren't seeking old farts to hook up with then I don't know what to tell you.

Men can make up for average looks with A LOT of money (or a FREAKY CIRCUS HUGE penis for some gays). Looks can help women, but being old is often a dealbreaker for most men.

There is hope for your old ass, but you are gonna need to work on your attitude (you sound angry, so you probably don't have any money or a big dick).

People your age will sense that you're a miserable old goat and will steer clear, but you might be able to trick someone younger, but you're gonna have to stop the nagging. You sound like a downer. "Zaddy" is hot. Dad is not.

by Anonymousreply 104September 21, 2021 7:11 PM

AA is very effective against depression but is he seriously plugged into the community and the daily practices to sustain recovery? Physically he looks clean and sober.

by Anonymousreply 105September 21, 2021 7:25 PM

R93

Sure there are gay men in the entertainment industry, but how many are as rich and as famous AND have been in the public eye for as long as he has?

This is not like old Hollywood when things were easy to cover up. Everyone has a camera now and is on social media. If there was a hint of him being gay that would be breaking news!

There are lots of good looking gay and bisexual White male actors with thriving careers! His problem is that he's not as talented as they are so in the long run it wouldn't help him, but it may buy him some time to get out of this rut he's obviously in. LOL

Do you realize the lengths he would have to go to conceal something so basic to him? Add to that the substance abuse issues which will necessarily make him sloppy and vulnerable to having things slip when his inhibitions are low in public.

I just don't see him being able to pull that off for so long in this day in time given his celebrity and all his problems.

Also, there is no way JLO would go along with this. She is a dancer so you know she knows a lot of dancers and they would clock him even if she didn't. JLO protects her image. No way is she gonna get dumped by AROD and then get dumped/duped by a gay man. LOL

He has plenty of smart people around him that he pays well to guard his image. I am sure they would tell him that being gay would be a lot easier than the road he is taking.

If he were gay it would be better for him to come out rather than play out this charade which is going to end badly for him. All the problems he was seeking to resolve will still be there when this is over - and probably will be worse.

by Anonymousreply 106September 21, 2021 7:26 PM

R88/R106 is a bit too invested in Ben being very straight...and delusional about how many goodlooking, long-standing, leading A-list actors are in the closet in Hollywood...

by Anonymousreply 107September 21, 2021 7:54 PM

R88=R89, of course

by Anonymousreply 108September 21, 2021 7:55 PM

she never lets him eat so of course he looks depressed and has no energy.

by Anonymousreply 109September 21, 2021 7:59 PM

Who cares if he is straight, gay or bi? He's a fucking mess. He looks like a fucking mess, and except for the smallest of intervals, he acts like a fucking mess.

He's a fucking mess. Full fucking stop. I'm not a fan, but it is sad, and I think we all know where this is going to end up. I hope I am wrong, but...

by Anonymousreply 110September 21, 2021 8:02 PM

I bet he would look elated if Matt was walking with him 🙃

by Anonymousreply 111September 21, 2021 8:07 PM

It may just be a bad pic that op posted, but can you imagine having to deal with JLo every day? Jenn Garner is a Sunday school teacher compared to this bitch. Sure he’s just bored with her high maintenance bs by now. I called it earlier I gave them til the end of the year, now I’m giving it til the end of October.

by Anonymousreply 112September 21, 2021 8:12 PM

R86, Don't presume to "enlighten" me about women. I'm a 71-year-old Frau, so FO.

by Anonymousreply 113September 22, 2021 7:57 AM

R102, Ben can play a weirdo genius, too. I think he's excellent in "The Accountant."

by Anonymousreply 114September 22, 2021 8:03 AM

Straight men go back to old relationships quite frequently but maybe not in Hollywood.

by Anonymousreply 115September 22, 2021 11:22 AM

See: Franco Nero and Vanessa Redgrave.

by Anonymousreply 116September 22, 2021 12:59 PM

He’s not much better than his BFF Matt. Phony as a three dollar bill and self centered AF. He deserves her.

by Anonymousreply 117September 22, 2021 1:23 PM

It's amazing how so many people think a millisecond of a person's face in a photo tells the complete story of how they're feeling. People who walk around with big grins on their faces all the time are more often than not, nuts.

by Anonymousreply 118September 22, 2021 1:25 PM

Remember when JLo was looking for a 24/7 assistant and she only wanted to pay 50k a year? I have a feeling she's a deeply unpleasant person. Ben seems really fun and laid-back compared to her.

by Anonymousreply 119September 22, 2021 2:07 PM

R119, wow, imagine...so, she is cheap too! 24/7 PA should earn 100K, at least, for giving up their life.

by Anonymousreply 120September 22, 2021 2:14 PM

[quote] I bet he would look elated if Matt was walking with him 🙃

There is great comfort in the camaraderie of an old, trusted friend. Some people -- i.e. addicts -- are crushed by the weight of expectation and responsibility they believe are imposed on them by spouses, lovers, children, family, their profession and society.

So, yeah, he'd love the company of a real friend right now.

by Anonymousreply 121September 22, 2021 2:18 PM

Why can’t she be brought down a peg or four…did you read her latest bullshit in THE DAILY MAIL? She said that she feels like an outsider in Hollywood because HUSTLERS was snubbed by the Oscars. My iPad is acting up right now, so I can’t even post the article. The story ran on the 17th of September. She is such a deluded cunt.

by Anonymousreply 122September 22, 2021 5:39 PM

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by Anonymousreply 123September 22, 2021 6:45 PM

See what I mean r123?

She’s a horrible woman.

by Anonymousreply 124September 22, 2021 6:51 PM

They deserve each other

by Anonymousreply 125September 23, 2021 6:56 AM

The way females are treated in the entertainment industry I can certainly imagine why many of them end up surly and suspicious of anyone they don't know. I don't blame her at all if she's an ice queen, at least until she gets to know someone and can actually trust them. She knows there's always someone out to get what they can from her.

by Anonymousreply 126September 23, 2021 11:39 AM

[quote] Jennifer Lopez & Ben Affleck Spotted Making Out on the NYC Sidewalk - See Photos!

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by Anonymousreply 127September 26, 2021 10:35 PM

I guess suppressing a laugh wasn't in Ben's acting arsenal that day, r127.

by Anonymousreply 128September 26, 2021 10:44 PM

This relationship is as fake as any fake relationship ever.

by Anonymousreply 129September 26, 2021 10:46 PM

POZ face

by Anonymousreply 130September 26, 2021 10:53 PM

Do these two motherfuckers go even one single day without a pap stroll? It must be exhausting.

by Anonymousreply 131September 26, 2021 11:10 PM

[Quote]BTW, if you think women of any age seriously want an old man, I suggest you check his bank account.

R84 / R113

Sweetie I wasn't trying to convince you of a thang. I was stating an opinion.

Apparently you already know that women sell themselves as a part of the social contract. My point is, don't be surprised when a man trades you in for a newer model - gussied up or not! It won't matter. Old is old. 😂

The only thing universally good at any age is money!

I think we agree! 😂

by Anonymousreply 132September 30, 2021 3:15 PM

R127 This looks so contrived. Does anyone really believe this?

The last time I saw something this fake was when Henry Cavil was screaming on instagram "See, I have a girlfriend!" 😂😂😂

by Anonymousreply 133September 30, 2021 3:21 PM

She’s probably had him cut down on his smoking too. His one last vice.

by Anonymousreply 134September 30, 2021 3:40 PM

Cavill is 100% butt pirate. No girls allowed.

by Anonymousreply 135September 30, 2021 4:39 PM

Haha. This is hilarious. Look what happened behind the scenes of that staged love fest between the two of them.

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by Anonymousreply 136September 30, 2021 8:45 PM

A pair of clowns.

by Anonymousreply 137September 30, 2021 10:18 PM

Ben is no less thirsty than his whore.

by Anonymousreply 138October 1, 2021 12:38 AM

[quote]It may just be a bad pic that op posted, but can you imagine having to deal with JLo every day?

He has to listen to her voice speaking to him every day. Of course he's miserable.

by Anonymousreply 139October 1, 2021 1:06 AM

I can't wait till he has to promote that movie with Ana de Armas. That should be interesting. He looked much happier with her. Probably because being with a much younger "it" girl gave him an ego boost.

I'm sure he's enjoying pounding JLo's big butt but everything else is forced.

by Anonymousreply 140October 1, 2021 2:17 AM

People magazine had a little blurb about how they both will be too busy to see each other as much as they have been since their schedules are about to get much busier. However they are committed to making their relationship work despite that. Or some jazz along that line. I couldn’t tell if they are setting up the break up or what.

by Anonymousreply 141October 1, 2021 9:25 AM

R139, that nasal, NYC honk she has would drive me up the fucking wall. Not only can this bitch not sing, she can’t even speak.

by Anonymousreply 142October 1, 2021 12:26 PM

Just saw him in an ad about betting/gambling...what a lost cause.

by Anonymousreply 143October 3, 2021 9:51 PM

Who could even stand to be with this woman a couple of hours? Asslick must be a masochist, only explanation.

by Anonymousreply 144October 3, 2021 10:02 PM

Ben is no prize. A withered dry drunk on the edge of relapse at any moment. JLo has the worse end of the stick. Nothing is worse than an addict. They will lie and obfuscate to hide their habits.

He is better off with the young playboy model he was hanging out with before he was accosted by the bible waving mother of his kids.

by Anonymousreply 145October 3, 2021 10:04 PM

He must have some childhood trauma to be such a disaster.

by Anonymousreply 146October 3, 2021 10:06 PM

What do you mean "dry" drunk?

by Anonymousreply 147October 3, 2021 10:42 PM

A dry drunk is an alcoholic who's not currently drinking but not dealing with their issues. Another idiom related to this is a "white knuckle sobriety" (think of gripping the safety bar in a roller coaster). The term currently used for the opposite of this is a "recovering alcoholic", referring to the ongoing process of recovery.

by Anonymousreply 148October 4, 2021 4:19 AM

He only wants her so she'll agree to donate part of her liver to him when his finally craps out. Live liver donation has a much higher chance of success than a liver donation from a cadaver.

by Anonymousreply 149October 4, 2021 4:24 AM

r148 that was a joke post. Affleck isn't "dry," he's still a drunk.

by Anonymousreply 150October 4, 2021 4:25 AM

Hell always be miserable until the day he dies of cirrhosis.

by Anonymousreply 151October 4, 2021 4:37 AM

He misses his 8-ball.

by Anonymousreply 152October 4, 2021 5:30 AM

Ben deserves to be miserable for engaging in this bullshit.

He's old enough (and rich enough) to know he should be dealing with his problems, instead of being out here taking photoshoots with this vapid bitch pretending his life is not just normal, but perfect.

Ben is a hot mess!

Right now there is some 13 year old girl looking at these pictures of him on Instagram and crying that her life is not as wonderful as his and JLO's.

by Anonymousreply 153October 4, 2021 9:33 AM

Those snaps at R136 with the press pics vs real life are great. What pathetic fake assholes these two are.

by Anonymousreply 154October 4, 2021 1:36 PM

R35 You're not my real mom, and you never will be.

by Anonymousreply 155October 4, 2021 1:45 PM

That's hilarious r136. So much of celebrity life is such bullshit, and the stupid public eats it up.

by Anonymousreply 156October 4, 2021 6:34 PM

Eh, there might be some very poor Puerto Rican girl in NYC who looks at those pictures, and says "one day, I will have that"... we cannot decide what that image means to everyone.

by Anonymousreply 157October 5, 2021 12:01 AM

Well if that Puerto Rican girl has little talent but is an underhanded, nasty cunt she'll be okay then.

by Anonymousreply 158October 5, 2021 12:02 AM

R158, baby, that's true for everyone.

by Anonymousreply 159October 5, 2021 12:06 AM

I haven’t heard anything good about her from the film community. Depends everything white in her dressing room. When she had that restaurant, I knew a server that worked there. She wasn’t say shit to the staff. Nothing. Ben is a retard.

by Anonymousreply 160October 27, 2021 4:37 AM

Lol. Demands.

by Anonymousreply 161October 27, 2021 4:37 AM

[quote] Depends everything white in her dressing room.

So did I, but let's just say they didn't stay white.

by Anonymousreply 162October 27, 2021 4:45 AM

It's obvious Jello cannot be without a man. No sooner was her split with A Rod announced, she was...legs akimbo...back with Ben Affleck.

What is Jello's problem? She cannot be alone? Needs to be adored by some man? Or is simply a sex addict?

Is Jello's bed-hopping solely about the publicity she knows her messy personal life drama will garner?

Inquiring minds want to know.

by Anonymousreply 163October 27, 2021 4:51 AM

R148, AA seems exhausting. You’re never recovered , always finding issues with yourself , a lot of disturbed people in meetings . It’s pretty crappy

by Anonymousreply 164October 27, 2021 4:57 AM

“has "swapped the witch for the bitch" as addicts do to help avoid doing the real work to get better” Define real work?

by Anonymousreply 165October 27, 2021 4:58 AM

Ben looks like he was beaten up

by Anonymousreply 166October 27, 2021 5:03 AM
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