Now I fully respect transpeople but are there not trans dating/meeting apps? When I go on grindr, scruff, jack'd etc, I'm looking to interact with other biological gay males, not transwomen and even sometimes transmen.
Is anyone else seeing a large number of trans profiles on gay dating/meeting apps lately?
by Anonymous | reply 182 | January 8, 2022 6:01 AM |
Stop being transphobic op
by Anonymous | reply 1 | September 15, 2021 2:41 AM |
I've noticed it.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | September 15, 2021 2:43 AM |
The numbers have been increasing for years.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | September 15, 2021 2:44 AM |
Yes and blocking them doesn't work because the same ones keep creating new accounts over and over. I'm guessing either because theyre running some scam or everyone keeps blocking them.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | September 15, 2021 2:50 AM |
They keep turning you down, don't they OP? Don't be mad.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | September 15, 2021 2:52 AM |
Just joined Grindr a few days ago. Yes, I was surprised to see trans posts.
So it wasn't like that just a few years ago on Grindr?
I'm very near Boston, and the nearby profiles do include a very, very small sampling of trans. But maybe not so much in rural parts of the country? Just a guess.
Other parts of the world seeing this trend on Grindr?
What also surprised me were some, but just a petite sprinkling, of men (I assume straight or bi men, not the gay men?) seeking trans or fem.
Welcum to 2021!
by Anonymous | reply 6 | September 15, 2021 3:26 AM |
Grindr is basically a tranny/crossdresser/binary losers and chasers app now.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | September 15, 2021 3:29 AM |
Seems contradictory trolling a gay dating app to hook up with straight guys who are only into you because you fulfill a sexual kink. Obviously gay guys are hooking up with some straight guys too, but the majority of tranny chasers don’t see trans guys as legit women.—and most gay guys hook up with other gay guys.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | September 15, 2021 3:41 AM |
They're desperate. Where else are they gonna go?
by Anonymous | reply 9 | September 15, 2021 5:02 AM |
Yes big jump now. It’s getting crazy the type of people that are now coming on to a GAY dating app. Can’t have anything to ourselves and now sharing has resulted in colonization from the trannies and their hetero chasing men. Even getting straight MF couples now and actual women. This is getting ridiculous and if no one fights back I won’t be surprised if Grindr rebrands in the future
by Anonymous | reply 10 | September 17, 2021 2:25 PM |
Trans or semi-trans women, yes. They’re looking for bi guys. I don’t have a problem with trans men. I like a little trans man snatch on occasion.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | September 17, 2021 2:31 PM |
Yes, and I simply scroll past them like any guy on the app I’m not interested in. How hard is this?
by Anonymous | reply 12 | September 17, 2021 2:33 PM |
Yes—quite a few on male escort sites. F2Ms.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | September 17, 2021 2:34 PM |
[quote]like any guy
?
by Anonymous | reply 14 | September 17, 2021 2:35 PM |
But are they happy?
by Anonymous | reply 15 | September 17, 2021 2:35 PM |
I FF’d R11. That’s some agenda right there.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | September 17, 2021 2:35 PM |
Agenda? WTF is your problem?
by Anonymous | reply 17 | September 17, 2021 2:42 PM |
Oh and I FF’d your crazy ass, too.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | September 17, 2021 2:43 PM |
Sneaky little trans.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | September 17, 2021 2:46 PM |
It would be nice if you could sort them out and then just block them but like you say they keep popping up.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | September 17, 2021 2:50 PM |
It’s hardly surprising. What are they chances of a man in a wig being hit on by straight guys in real life? They can crying game some guy into replying and then if they recoil during the big reveal, they’re dead on social — “TRANSPHOBIC!” “LITERAL VIOLENCE!”
by Anonymous | reply 21 | September 17, 2021 2:56 PM |
Do trans ever date other trans?
by Anonymous | reply 22 | September 17, 2021 4:53 PM |
Perhaps said users of dating apps should demand a Warning! that misrepresenting genitalia could be grounds for rape or attempted rape.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | September 17, 2021 4:56 PM |
r22, why would they? It's not validating.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | September 17, 2021 4:57 PM |
[quote] Yes, and I simply scroll past them like any guy on the app I’m not interested in. How hard is this?
They take up real estate.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | September 17, 2021 5:01 PM |
One doesn't go on a fuck app to have one's dick wilted.
Cinderella's sisters need an app of their own.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | September 17, 2021 5:10 PM |
They show up occasionally on Rentmen.com. So I understand.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | September 17, 2021 5:14 PM |
If they wanted dick, why didn't they stay a chick?
by Anonymous | reply 28 | September 17, 2021 5:16 PM |
If transwomen are women, why are they on an app for gay men? And why is the app shoving gender identity and pronouns nonsense down its users’ deep throats.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | September 17, 2021 5:22 PM |
[quote] They take up real estate.
So do fat eldergays.
by Anonymous | reply 30 | September 17, 2021 5:23 PM |
If it’s an app for ALL “queer” identities why aren’t lesbians on it too?
by Anonymous | reply 31 | September 17, 2021 5:23 PM |
Not the point R30. Do you think lesbians should be on Grindr too? If not, why not?
by Anonymous | reply 32 | September 17, 2021 5:24 PM |
Please direct them to Cockblockr.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | September 17, 2021 5:56 PM |
[quote] It’s getting crazy the type of people that are now coming on to a GAY dating app. Can’t have anything to ourselves
Why should we? They did the same thing to lesbians years ago; now it’s our turn.
by Anonymous | reply 34 | September 17, 2021 7:10 PM |
R31 just wondering, what are the biggest apps for lesbians? I never thought about it until now
by Anonymous | reply 35 | September 17, 2021 8:19 PM |
[quote] If it’s an app for ALL “queer” identities why aren’t lesbians on it too?
When it's working, you cannot beat female instinct.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | September 17, 2021 8:23 PM |
How could an MtF trans think a gay cis-male would be remotely interested in them?
by Anonymous | reply 37 | September 17, 2021 8:39 PM |
A couple of MtFs popped up about a year ago or so, so I asked them why they were on Grindr and they told me they just moved and were looking for friends, I play online games with one of them, shes really cool.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | September 17, 2021 8:56 PM |
There seem to be “straight” guys who are on Grindr for the transsexuals. They write in their profiles “No Guys” and “Looking for TS”. And they have the ‘Trans’ box tucked in their ‘Tribes’. So the MTFs are there for those “straight” guys.
God only knows why there are any FTMs on there, but there are. Just not nearly as many.
There really needs to be a separate app for all of the above. It makes no sense for the app to be for gay and bisexual guys but also “straight” guys who are “not into guys.” Again, if transwomen are women, why are they on Grindr but lesbians aren’t? There’s no way to answer that question without revealing giant holes in the theory of the One Big Happy Queer Community.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | September 17, 2021 9:00 PM |
[quote]How could an MtF trans think a gay cis-male would be remotely interested in them?
They don't. They're on there for bi and bi-curious "straight" men.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | September 17, 2021 9:01 PM |
[quote] And they have the ‘Trans’ box tucked in their ‘Tribes’.
Ugh, TICKED not tucked. Why does autocorrect wait until a few seconds after it’s accepted the word as I’ve typed it before it goes and stealthily ‘corrects’ it for me.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | September 17, 2021 9:01 PM |
Freudian slip lol
by Anonymous | reply 42 | September 17, 2021 9:13 PM |
[quote]God only knows why there are any FTMs on there, but there are.
To rob you.
[quote]There seem to be “straight” guys who are on Grindr for the transsexuals.
This is why so many gay men transition. They don’t want to be gay and they don’t like the selection within the gay male community. These mentally ill gay men…in wigs…want “straight” guys.
by Anonymous | reply 43 | September 17, 2021 9:18 PM |
You mean FTM trans who are gay?
by Anonymous | reply 44 | September 17, 2021 9:20 PM |
[quote]You mean FTM trans who are gay?
?
by Anonymous | reply 45 | September 17, 2021 9:21 PM |
FTM trans who are into men would be gay. FTM who are into women are hetero men now. However, that’s too conventional so they probably have some random subcategory that allows them to continue being “the other” for the the negative attention.
by Anonymous | reply 46 | September 17, 2021 9:38 PM |
R35 nice try, slick. You’ll have to get earlier than that to catch us out.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | September 17, 2021 10:07 PM |
R43.
by Anonymous | reply 48 | September 17, 2021 10:34 PM |
Can’t they make an app for trans folks who aren’t merely exploiting Grndr to troll for straight guys for the kink factor? It feel like there’s two different worlds on it. Seems like the only trans that should be on Grndr are fully transitioned FTM who attracted to men.
Speaking of Different Worlds—they should do a tranny reboot of Angie!
by Anonymous | reply 49 | September 17, 2021 11:30 PM |
[quote]FTM trans who are into men would be gay.
Logic is gone.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | September 17, 2021 11:39 PM |
R49 the fetish is for cornering others—gay or straight—into dubcon scenarios, forcing them to accept something sexually that they mightn’t normally. These predatory creeps get off on that, and hide behind gay civil rights to mandate their perverse disrespectful behaviour.
by Anonymous | reply 51 | September 17, 2021 11:39 PM |
I like athletic female to male transgender people, so I love this trend
by Anonymous | reply 52 | September 17, 2021 11:41 PM |
R48.
by Anonymous | reply 53 | September 17, 2021 11:45 PM |
I’m trans Asian and want to meet only eligible Asian men who will fully accept me as a non-bio Asian. They have to be ok with my Caucasian past. Respect my journey, or no sticky rice for you! My username is NotMaidenChina.
by Anonymous | reply 54 | September 17, 2021 11:52 PM |
Are you a man, R52?
by Anonymous | reply 55 | September 17, 2021 11:52 PM |
What about GndrBendr for an app name?
by Anonymous | reply 56 | September 17, 2021 11:54 PM |
How about Transgndr.
by Anonymous | reply 57 | September 17, 2021 11:55 PM |
What about NegAttnAdix?
by Anonymous | reply 58 | September 18, 2021 12:01 AM |
If I can hook up with a transman that looks like Laith Ashley, I would tear that pussy up.
by Anonymous | reply 59 | September 18, 2021 12:10 AM |
FF’d.^
by Anonymous | reply 60 | September 18, 2021 12:12 AM |
what about “thr” for the app. Or “thm”.
by Anonymous | reply 61 | September 18, 2021 12:13 AM |
How About PayAttn2Me?
by Anonymous | reply 62 | September 18, 2021 12:16 AM |
How about “Tr” - is that an element?
by Anonymous | reply 63 | September 18, 2021 12:26 AM |
[quote] Can’t they make an app for trans folks who aren’t merely exploiting Grndr to troll for straight guys for the kink factor? It feel like there’s two different worlds on it. Seems like the only trans that should be on Grndr are fully transitioned FTM who attracted to men.
I’m sorry, but if there’s going to be a separate app for MTFs and the “straight” guys who are into them, the FTMs can use it as well, and the “gay” guys who are into FTMs (don’t even get me started) can follow them there.
A gay app should be for male people with male genitalia who are looking for sex and relationships with other males who have intact male genitalia. That’s what being gay is all about. If you fall outside that scope, get your own app.
Or, what the hell, since transwomen are women and transmen are men, they can use the straight dating apps. If we’re gonna insist that fantasy is reality, go all the way with it.
by Anonymous | reply 64 | September 18, 2021 1:09 AM |
Laith is my fantasy dude
by Anonymous | reply 65 | September 18, 2021 1:13 AM |
I hear you r65.
by Anonymous | reply 66 | September 18, 2021 1:14 AM |
^^ You guys are fetishists or bisexuals then.
by Anonymous | reply 67 | September 18, 2021 1:15 AM |
Mainstream gays totally deserve this outcome by digging their own grave. Instead of fighting against these homophobic cunts, they not only chose silence but also super enthusiastically welcomed the mentally ill as "our own".
by Anonymous | reply 68 | September 18, 2021 1:22 AM |
Not all of us did that, R68. I have never supported “integration” of the two diametrically different populations. I also don’t know what I or anyone else could have done to stop it.
It’s the HRC that’s mostly to blame, and the media as well.
by Anonymous | reply 69 | September 18, 2021 1:24 AM |
[quote] Seems like the only trans that should be on Grndr are [bold]fully transitioned[/bold] FTM who attracted to men.
No real penis they're born with? GTFO. XX chromosomes? GTFO. The first thing trannies do is to destroy and redefine the language. Their "fully transitioned" does not mean completely getting rid of their own genitals or replacing with fake ones. Most do nothing down there. Just fake show with boob jobs or chopping them off.
by Anonymous | reply 70 | September 18, 2021 1:31 AM |
I spend a minute each morning removing trans from my app. Usually, there's only one or two per day, but there were a dozen or so newbies this morning. My thumbs do the work. They don't bother me personally, but I like masculine. I also delete androgynous profiles, or any signs of femme fetish. And I say this as a person who was slightly androgynous earlier in life.
by Anonymous | reply 71 | September 18, 2021 1:59 AM |
R59 Laithi s the only transman I've ever found sexually attractive. NONE of the transmen I've encountered on grindr, scruff, jack'd etc look as realistic as him.
by Anonymous | reply 72 | September 18, 2021 2:43 AM |
They certainly did R68. That’s why I hope ex-gay therapy makes a huge comeback. Just for my own entertainment, if nothing else.
by Anonymous | reply 73 | September 18, 2021 2:44 AM |
R72, a lot of the ones I’ve seen look like fat butch lesbians, although to be fair, they’re probably not very far along in the transition process. I’ve seen some who are very attractive, and one who I genuinely would not have known was trans until I saw his pussy.
by Anonymous | reply 74 | September 18, 2021 10:42 AM |
Bump! lol
by Anonymous | reply 75 | September 22, 2021 1:10 AM |
Many straight women catfishing from MM romance novel lust.
by Anonymous | reply 76 | September 22, 2021 1:40 AM |
These apps are for men only! Transmen = men. So I don’t see the problem. They’re exactly where they belong, on an app for men.
by Anonymous | reply 77 | October 28, 2021 7:35 PM |
YES!! They're all over and I report them to the site admin as SPAM.
by Anonymous | reply 78 | October 28, 2021 7:50 PM |
No comment…
by Anonymous | reply 79 | October 28, 2021 8:33 PM |
There’s about 10 just in my state on a male escort site I use. There’s an uptick in straight and transmale escorts on a gay male escort site. The straight only working for women—the trans looking for both.
by Anonymous | reply 80 | October 28, 2021 8:49 PM |
You're spared the gender nonsense if you filter the under 30s.
by Anonymous | reply 81 | October 28, 2021 9:43 PM |
One trans claims to be male—not trans. The rest claim to be transmen.
by Anonymous | reply 82 | October 28, 2021 9:50 PM |
There are sites that no longer offer race as a filter option. What next, no filters at all for fear of insulting the tall, or the brown haired, or the fit, or the not-hung, or any physical feature?
by Anonymous | reply 83 | October 28, 2021 9:57 PM |
[quote] There’s an uptick in straight and transmale escorts on a gay male escort site. The straight only working for women—the trans looking for both.
Straight escorts only looking for women clients on a gay male escort site?? How does that work?
by Anonymous | reply 84 | October 28, 2021 10:14 PM |
They just post. It was a gay male escort site. Even the title has “gay male escorts”.
by Anonymous | reply 85 | October 28, 2021 10:15 PM |
How would they even get women clients if there are no women using a gay male site?
by Anonymous | reply 86 | October 28, 2021 10:19 PM |
Don’t know. They probably don’t get many. Or any. But they can still post.
by Anonymous | reply 87 | October 28, 2021 10:23 PM |
I love tranny pussy so I am good with it. I block the chicks with dicks, they are gross.
by Anonymous | reply 88 | October 28, 2021 10:27 PM |
[quote] I love tranny pussy so I am good with it.
🤮
by Anonymous | reply 89 | October 28, 2021 10:28 PM |
I never see any trans people on gay sites....DLers are making stuff up to have another excuse to bash trans people
by Anonymous | reply 90 | October 28, 2021 10:29 PM |
No^.
Mintboys is flooded with trans.
by Anonymous | reply 91 | October 28, 2021 10:30 PM |
R83, why do you need to filter anyone out? Just don't respond to the people you're not attracted to. Problem solved
by Anonymous | reply 92 | October 28, 2021 10:31 PM |
R70, no one "destroyed" the language. You sound like the overdramatic conservatives who think we "stole" the word "gay"
by Anonymous | reply 93 | October 28, 2021 10:32 PM |
R81, there are plenty of trans people over 40. Look at Caitlin....
by Anonymous | reply 94 | October 28, 2021 10:33 PM |
R76, I've never heard of straight women catfishing on a gay site....but I know tons of gay men who pretend to be women in order to catfish straight men
by Anonymous | reply 95 | October 28, 2021 10:34 PM |
[quote]Do trans ever date other trans?
Now, the trans are pretty open-minded, but....no.
by Anonymous | reply 96 | October 28, 2021 10:40 PM |
LOL, R96.
by Anonymous | reply 97 | October 28, 2021 10:43 PM |
We've now proven that the ABSOLUTE WORST thing one can ever say to a "trans" person is "Sorry, not interested!"
by Anonymous | reply 98 | October 28, 2021 10:50 PM |
[quote] I never see any trans people on gay sites....DLers are making stuff up to have another excuse to bash trans people
🙄🙄🙄 Right, everything is a conspiracy by the anti-trans trolls on DL.
by Anonymous | reply 99 | October 28, 2021 11:07 PM |
[quote] Do trans ever date other trans?
Why would they have to? Transmen = real men, transwomen = real women. As real men and women, they would have the right to date real men and women, not trans.
by Anonymous | reply 100 | October 28, 2021 11:10 PM |
When a trans messages me I reply with "sorry, not into chubs" regardless of their physical stature. It infuriates them and I just laugh.
by Anonymous | reply 101 | October 28, 2021 11:11 PM |
They don't bother me. Just because I look at car crashes doesn't mean I want to get into one.
by Anonymous | reply 102 | October 28, 2021 11:16 PM |
It’s a another form of conversation therapy to cure the gay community.
by Anonymous | reply 103 | October 28, 2021 11:42 PM |
If tranaswomen are women why are they on Grindr???
by Anonymous | reply 104 | October 28, 2021 11:52 PM |
Because they’re straight women looking for dick.
by Anonymous | reply 105 | October 28, 2021 11:54 PM |
Anti-woke DL at it again. It’s quite entertaining though. DLers, tell us how you REALLY feel… WE’RE NOT GONNA TAKE IT ANYMORE!
by Anonymous | reply 106 | October 28, 2021 11:57 PM |
R105, lol, straight women aren't on the internet looking for dick, just ask all the straight guys who got scammed on Ashley Madison
There aren't any transmen on grindr. I'm on grindr, I would know. DL makes shit up to grandstand against "woke" people or trans people
by Anonymous | reply 107 | October 29, 2021 12:01 AM |
[quote]If tranaswomen are women why are they on Grindr???
then shouldn't they be on a straight app??
by Anonymous | reply 108 | October 29, 2021 12:02 AM |
R99, if you think the right-wing anti-trans people don't make shit up......
Watch them say that transwomen are all straight men in dresses who want to rape women.....then turn around and say that transwomen are all gay men who can't handle being gay. Which is it, guys? Pick a narrative and stick with it
by Anonymous | reply 109 | October 29, 2021 12:03 AM |
R109:
[quote]The first group is composed of ‘androphilic’ (sometimes termed ‘homosexual’) trans women, who are exclusively sexually attracted to men and are markedly feminine in behaviour and appearance from a young age. They typically begin the process of medical transition before the age of 30.
[quote]The second group are motivated to transition as a result of what Blanchard termed ‘autogynephilia’: a sexual orientation defined by sexual arousal at the thought or image of oneself as a woman. Autogynephiles are typically sexually attracted to women, although they may also identify as asexual or bisexual. They are more likely to transition later in life and to have been conventionally masculine in presentation up until that point.
by Anonymous | reply 110 | October 29, 2021 12:09 AM |
[quote] There aren't any transmen on grindr. I'm on grindr, I would know. DL makes shit up to grandstand against "woke" people or trans people
You’re an idiot. There are tons of both transmen and transwomen on Grindr. Maybe you’re too stupid to know since you think they pass and don’t realize they’re trans.
by Anonymous | reply 111 | October 29, 2021 12:21 AM |
I'll say it once and I'll say it again: Trans people need their own app/section on Grindr.
by Anonymous | reply 112 | October 29, 2021 12:53 AM |
But that wouldn't validate them and we know what happens then.
LITERAL VIOLENCE
by Anonymous | reply 113 | October 29, 2021 2:40 AM |
Why would they need their own separate section? Transmen are gay men. Last time I checked, Grindr is an app for gay men. So perfect fit.
by Anonymous | reply 114 | October 29, 2021 2:53 AM |
Let me guess R114 - we're all transphobic because our 'genital preference' is a cock and balls?
by Anonymous | reply 115 | October 29, 2021 3:15 AM |
There’s no such thing as genital preference. If you’re attracted to men then you’re attracted to men. Don’t call yourselfs gay men if you’re not attracted to men.
by Anonymous | reply 116 | October 29, 2021 3:54 AM |
Fuck off, R114/116.
by Anonymous | reply 117 | October 29, 2021 4:09 AM |
I'm not curious to fuck one, but I'm curious to know what Trans Man snatch is like? Does it look like a nutsack cut in half? does it smell musky like a scrotum or, not to be rude, fishy? Is it better to hit it in missionary or doggy? T
by Anonymous | reply 118 | October 29, 2021 4:52 AM |
R116 I’m attracted to men. Men with a cock and balls. Not someone who calls themselves a man who has had a double mastectomy and has a vagina and a slightly enlarged clitoris from being pumped full of male hormones.
If that makes me transphobic then guilty as charged.
by Anonymous | reply 119 | October 29, 2021 5:10 AM |
I actually went on Grindr and blocked every tranny and non-binary nut on there - half the people in my city are now gone, it’s THAT many!
by Anonymous | reply 120 | October 29, 2021 5:16 AM |
The transtapo says that if you’re attracted to someone based on genitalia you’re a fetishist.
by Anonymous | reply 121 | October 29, 2021 5:17 AM |
The trans movement is a way the gov can secretly cure the lgb community without looking homophobic.
by Anonymous | reply 122 | October 29, 2021 5:44 AM |
R119 = TERF!! Blocked!!
by Anonymous | reply 123 | October 29, 2021 6:33 AM |
I've got to the stage where I don't give a fuck if I get called a TERF or transphobic. I'm attracted to MEN not surgically fucked up women attempting to pull off an a terrible approximation of a man. How about you do us a favour and block everyone.
by Anonymous | reply 124 | October 29, 2021 6:50 AM |
[quote] I'm not curious to fuck one, but I'm curious to know what Trans Man snatch is like? Does it look like a nutsack cut in half? does it smell musky like a scrotum or, not to be rude, fishy? Is it better to hit it in missionary or doggy?
You’ve never fucked a vagina? Yeah, it’s like that. Why would it look like a nutsack or smell like a scrotum?
by Anonymous | reply 125 | October 29, 2021 6:58 AM |
I've seen a couple of transmen on my local Grindr. I've not noticed them spamming the app with new profiles or being hostile and accusatory as a default, so I don't have any problem sharing the space with them. The morbidly obese transwomen who REFUSE TO BE DISMISSED, PERIODT and the allegedly straight men with "no fags!" in their profiles who are now cropping up can go to hell, or the nearest hourly rate motel near a truck stop (same difference).
by Anonymous | reply 126 | October 29, 2021 7:02 AM |
R123 (although you won’t see this as you’ve allegedly blocked me), as an intelligent gay man I’m happy to be called a radical feminist, as far as being transphobic - I couldn’t give a flying fuck.
by Anonymous | reply 127 | October 29, 2021 7:07 AM |
Many ask that the tranny trollers who engage them “come correct”.
by Anonymous | reply 128 | October 29, 2021 9:51 AM |
What’s funny are the tranny dick loving chasers that claim absolutely NO MEN in their profiles on grindr on an app made for gay men, lol who are they kidding.
by Anonymous | reply 129 | October 29, 2021 9:53 AM |
Sorry, no straight man would want a tyranny when they can get real pussy.
by Anonymous | reply 130 | October 29, 2021 10:19 AM |
R121 Do they really say that? I’d like to see that.
by Anonymous | reply 131 | October 29, 2021 10:48 AM |
Is being trans a fad? I'm serious. Are all the trans people from the last 5 years going to maintain and commit or will we get a new word?
by Anonymous | reply 132 | October 29, 2021 10:55 AM |
I have seen a handful of FTM and they seem low key. Now the men dressed as women? I hate having to fucking look at all that ugly, ridiculous shit. 99 cent wigs and zero dress sense. Make-up put on all shoddy. Then they all have these haunted, creeped out looks and are housed in trailers. WhoEVER is fucking them needs to take them somewhere else.
by Anonymous | reply 133 | October 29, 2021 10:58 AM |
[quote]The transtapo says that if you’re attracted to someone based on genitalia you’re a fetishist.
[quote]R121 Do they really say that? I’d like to see that.
I'm not R121 but yes. This thread focuses more on lesbians but it applies to gay men as well.
by Anonymous | reply 134 | October 29, 2021 4:45 PM |
If you use Grindr you deserve what you're getting.
by Anonymous | reply 135 | October 29, 2021 4:59 PM |
[quote] Why would they need their own separate section? Transmen are gay men. Last time I checked, Grindr is an app for gay men. So perfect fit.
A thing doesn’t become true because you say it over and over again. .
[quote] There’s no such thing as genital preference. If you’re attracted to men then you’re attracted to men. Don’t call yourselfs gay men if you’re not attracted to men.
This right here is the shit that turns gay people against the trans. They scream and whine about the necessity of everyone else ‘validating’ their identity, while they, and their idiot allies, proceed to IN-validate the identities of others.
I am a gay man, and as such, I want another MAN! He needs to LOOK like a man, SMELL like a man, FEEL like a man, and yes, have a fucking PENIS, like a MAN!!! You don’t define what ‘gay’ is to me, nor do you define who I’m allowed to be attracted to. You’re worse than the bible-thumpers. At least they never claim to be ‘allies.’
[quote] Is being trans a fad? I'm serious. Are all the trans people from the last 5 years going to maintain and commit or will we get a new word?
There have always been transgendered people; they are a part of the human experience, like homosexuals, but never in THESE numbers. What we’re seeing here is a combination of factors: social contagion, which young women seem especially susceptible to, internalized mysogyny, as young women reject what many see as the restrictions and downsides of female identity, the rise of autogenophiles, hiding behind the ‘trans’ title to fulfill their fetish, and the ability of social media to connect a large number people with untreated mental illness and associated personality disorders like narcissism and borderline (which creates an unstable sense of self!). (I am NOT saying ALL trans are mentally ill!)
Its all converging at once, but will it last? I doubt it. The most radical of the trans ideologies are at war with rational thought and provable facts: eventually, reality tends to win out, especially as more people begin to resist being told how to think and what to say. In five to ten years, there will be a new word entering the lexicon: detransitioning, as more and more people realize that (supposedly) changing their gender didn’t change their life; they’re still stuck with themselves. There will be lawsuits and suicides as they cast around for someone to blame. It wont be pretty.
[quote] Now the men dressed as women? I hate having to fucking look at all that ugly, ridiculous shit. 99 cent wigs and zero dress sense. Make-up put on all shoddy. Then they all have these haunted, creeped out looks and are housed in trailers.
I live in the Chelsea neighborhood of NYC, so no trailers, but there are a LOT of them around, almost all black, for some reason, and NONE of them pass, to even the most casual observer. Im guessing they’re mostly sex workers because I can’t imagine anyone hiring them. I wonder about their lives because, as you say, none look happy. ‘Trans joy’ is mostly a hopeful myth.
[quote] We've now proven that the ABSOLUTE WORST thing one can ever say to a "trans" person is "Sorry, not interested!"
Its LITERAL VIOLENCE!
by Anonymous | reply 136 | October 29, 2021 5:06 PM |
I suspect that R114/R116/R123 is parodying trans activist discourse, kind of like how "Ayyyyyyden Fonzarelli-Dudegash" used to do.
[quote]Do they really say that? I’d like to see that.
Lil Nas X getting grief for being a 'genital fetishist':
by Anonymous | reply 137 | October 29, 2021 5:12 PM |
Black gays are assaulted, attacked and stigmatized in their communities more than white gays, so they go the trans route to get everyone to quit bothering them. Better one should be a messed up tranny woman than a fag. It's pretty easy to see the Trans movement is a crypto Gay Conversion therapy adopted by the clueless.
That's why I see through all the Gender Identity nonsense. Drop the T!
by Anonymous | reply 138 | October 29, 2021 5:50 PM |
If having a dick doesn't define being a man, then what does????
by Anonymous | reply 139 | October 29, 2021 10:25 PM |
Re: the link at R137 : Oh noes! A hot, rich, successful breakout gay artist doesn't want to sleep with them! HOW DARE HE?!? When will the legislature correct this grave injustice and make it illegal to be unattracted to theys and thems?
by Anonymous | reply 140 | October 30, 2021 1:42 AM |
We need an app for trannies and their chasers called 4ChixWithDix
by Anonymous | reply 141 | October 30, 2021 2:17 AM |
Lil Nas X Is the TERFiest TERF who ever TERFed! I blocked him ages ago. I don’t want trash like that contacting me.
by Anonymous | reply 142 | October 30, 2021 3:29 AM |
[quote] If having a dick doesn't define being a man, then what does????
Uh, how about your masculinity, your mustache, your muscles, your hairiness, your affinity for the color blue, your interest in sports and cars, ogling women, smashing smokeshows, burping, farting, lifting weights 🏋️♀️, the list goes on. You don’t need a dick to do any of that.
by Anonymous | reply 143 | October 30, 2021 3:33 AM |
I love blue, is it really a man thing?
by Anonymous | reply 144 | October 30, 2021 8:39 AM |
[quote] Re: the link at [R137] : Oh noes! A hot, rich, successful breakout gay artist doesn't want to sleep with them! HOW DARE HE?!?
One point of hope: EVERYONE in that thread wss SHREDDING that little girl with a mustache for claiming that his not wanting to fuck her was ‘erasure!’ The trans have FINALLY gone too far! When you're dictating to gay men who were allowed to have sex with, thats when our tolerance vanishes.
[quote] You don’t need a dick to do any of that.
No, but you do need one to be a man, which transmen will NEVER be. Cosplay your little LARP (live action role play) all you like, but not in MY bedroom.
And isn’t it instructive that you chose the most lazy, stereotypical activities. NONE of those things make you a man, just as putting in a wig and a dress doesn’t make you a woman. Your shallow attempt to assume an identity which isn’t yours is very telling.
by Anonymous | reply 145 | October 30, 2021 10:02 AM |
I just assumed R143 was sarcasm
Oh dear.
by Anonymous | reply 146 | October 31, 2021 12:44 AM |
I predicted they would start going after gay men
by Anonymous | reply 147 | October 31, 2021 12:53 AM |
I'm not kidding nor am I a trans hater, but today a depressed friend of mine who's straight was telling me Tinder was giving him lots of men. I never experienced that, being I never swiped women, because once you choose your preference they only give you that. Apparently the men he's seeing are trans man but they register as woman, so they show on a straight guy's feed, that's insane.
by Anonymous | reply 148 | October 31, 2021 2:11 AM |
[quote] There seem to be “straight” guys who are on Grindr for the transsexuals. They write in their profiles “No Guys” and “Looking for TS”. And they have the ‘Trans’ box tucked in their ‘Tribes’. So the MTFs are there for those “straight” guys.
You can't say you want any particular race without being labeled a racist, but apparently straight men can now be homophobic on gay dating apps and fucking Grindr won't say a peep.
anyway like I said before, if you use grindr you deserve this type of thing.
by Anonymous | reply 149 | October 31, 2021 2:21 AM |
OK, Boris, stop making up lies that there are trans on Grindr and Tinder. The DL anti-trans trolls will do anything to perpetuate this lie.
by Anonymous | reply 150 | October 31, 2021 2:48 AM |
It literally takes one 6 minutes to make a profile and check for themselves, fuck you.
by Anonymous | reply 151 | October 31, 2021 3:35 AM |
I know straight guys who feel bad about turning down trannies on Tinder and I say DON’T. I wouldn’t date a trans man either.
As the song widely says…..
by Anonymous | reply 152 | October 31, 2021 3:59 AM |
wisely*
by Anonymous | reply 153 | October 31, 2021 3:59 AM |
Trans don't date other trans.
Even they are disgusted by each other.
by Anonymous | reply 154 | October 31, 2021 5:02 PM |
Trans are all over Grindr and so are the profiles saying "No men"
by Anonymous | reply 155 | November 1, 2021 2:57 AM |
I'm terrified that r143 isn't joking!
by Anonymous | reply 156 | November 1, 2021 4:51 AM |
I've never been on "the apps", but if I were I'd write "No Gender Illusionists" and probably get blocked by the service in one day.
by Anonymous | reply 157 | November 1, 2021 4:55 AM |
To be fair, the apps should just allow you in your profile to specify what your preference is regarding trans people. Why make the trans people deal with people who aren't interested in dating them?
by Anonymous | reply 158 | November 1, 2021 5:04 AM |
The trans people think it's transphobic if you aren't interested in dating them, r158.
by Anonymous | reply 159 | November 1, 2021 5:07 AM |
In that case, there isn't anything wrong with being "transphobic." It's like not liking peanut butter or having blue eyes.
by Anonymous | reply 160 | November 1, 2021 2:02 PM |
I actually do fear trans people. So I am transphobic.
by Anonymous | reply 161 | November 1, 2021 2:26 PM |
I haven't listened to straight society telling me who I should be attracted to since I was a teenager. Why should I listen to entitled trans shrieking it's literal violence to not be into them any more than I do Karens thumping their Bibles at me?
by Anonymous | reply 162 | November 2, 2021 3:46 AM |
There should be a word for when you fear something for good reason
by Anonymous | reply 163 | November 2, 2021 3:54 AM |
[quote] Why should I listen to entitled trans shrieking it's literal violence to not be into them any more than I do Karens thumping their Bibles at me?
What bugs me is that it clearly demonstrates their narcissism, entitlement, and disconnect from reality. Most gay men had to STRUGGLE, with society, our own fears, or, most likely, both.
We’ve survived those struggles and made it to adulthood, battered and bruised, but with a sense if who we are. Now these little twats tell is we have NO RIGHT to be who we are, after shrieking about how everyone else OWES them constant ‘validation?’ Fuck them!! (Metaphorically, because it damn sure wont be physically!)
by Anonymous | reply 164 | November 2, 2021 3:02 PM |
Nothing is a bigger dick wilter than some ugly, crazy dude all dressed like some sick version of a chick
by Anonymous | reply 165 | November 23, 2021 1:53 AM |
R148 I've never swiped women either, and have my profile set to men, but I get women pop up from time to time. And no, not transwomen.
by Anonymous | reply 166 | November 23, 2021 2:39 AM |
I block them
by Anonymous | reply 167 | November 23, 2021 2:58 AM |
R136 is right. R143 None of those things define being a man. Most of the men I am most attracted to have very few or even NONE of the attributes in your "definition"
Primary thing that defines being a man is genitals. R116 is completely wrong, and if that makes me a "fetishist" than I'll wear that label proudly, along with most of humanity
I dont use Grindr for other reasons, but this is another good reason I wont bother with it
by Anonymous | reply 168 | November 23, 2021 6:15 PM |
[post redacted because linking to dailymail.co.uk clearly indicates that the poster is either a troll or an idiot (probably both, honestly.) Our advice is that you just ignore this poster but whatever you do, don't click on any link to this putrid rag.]
by Anonymous | reply 169 | January 6, 2022 10:49 AM |
[quote] Now I fully respect transpeople
‘Pathetic’ isn’t a strong enough word. The pick-me energy is off the charts with this one girlies...
Straight men including TIMs inherently hate us. When are you all guna accept that?
by Anonymous | reply 170 | January 6, 2022 10:53 AM |
R169, the fascinating thing is that someone in West Virginia apparently procreated with someone outside their immediate family!
by Anonymous | reply 171 | January 6, 2022 2:22 PM |
[quote] To be fair, the apps should just allow you in your profile to specify what your preference is regarding trans people. Why make the trans people deal with people who aren't interested in dating them?
They WANT to deal with those who aren’t interested. They need to MAKE you see what a ‘genital fetishist’ you are! They NEED you to understand that THEY are men, despite all objective reality saying otherwise, because they NEED to to ‘validate’ their identity?
What’s that, you say? What about YOUR identity as a homosexual man? Well, that DOESN’T EXIST! There is an only ‘gender identity,’ not sex. Denying THEIR identity is ‘violence’ and ‘erasure!’ Read the thread, and that idiot who wont leave Little Nas alone! People tend not to believe it because it reads like parody, but they are DEAD SERIOUS!
Someone DL mentioned a study that found over half of all MTF trans suffered from narcissistic personality disorder (its actually everyone around them who suffers!). I’m now thinking the same is true of many FTM, because this type of disordered thinking just cant be ‘normal!’ They’re trying to tell people that up is down, that left is right, and you’re transphobic for disagreeing.
by Anonymous | reply 172 | January 7, 2022 1:32 AM |
I agree with R172. I think they WANT you to be "transphobic" (according to their own warped ideas) because otherwise there is no reason for them to have a massive attention drawing, victim confirming, controlling temper tantrum.
by Anonymous | reply 173 | January 7, 2022 1:45 AM |
[quote]Trans people need their own app/section on Grindr.
Ha! Trans people are usually looking for non-trans people to date, have sex with and validate their gender illusion, so that wouldn't work.
by Anonymous | reply 174 | January 7, 2022 2:43 AM |
[quote](I am NOT saying ALL trans are mentally ill!)
I am saying exactly that!
by Anonymous | reply 175 | January 7, 2022 2:48 AM |
Exactly r172. What they want and need are targets of their violence: Either obey to the cult or get attacked for transphobia.
by Anonymous | reply 176 | January 7, 2022 2:54 AM |
Lol. Boy George - who used to have a brain on these issues - tweeted some shit in defence of male rapists in women's prisons and his 80s gender-bender buddy Marilyn owned him. Thank you Marilyn for standing up for the real gay community, defending our right to speak our minds and for being brave enough to say this stuff publicly.
Boy George: [quote]Trans people are not a threat to women or female spaces. All the trans women I know carry themselves with grace and respect for the goddess energy. If you don't like me having an opinion fuck off and don't follow me. Anyone who wants critical thinking please stick around.
Marilyn: [quote] No they fukkin don't!!!! How can you lump everyone into the same car agora!! Trans women are DIVERSE, not the same individual replicated ad infinitum!! You sound ridiculous
[quote]I find it utterly nauseating that the gay community fought for DECADES to have a voice, and one of the first things they do after getting one is SHUT PEOPLE UP WHO HAVE DIFFERING OPINIONS!!!! How the FUK can they justify THAT behaviour?!! And then there’s the implicit threat >
[quote] 2) that anyone who doesn’t parrot the ‘party line’ will be targeted and labelled ‘anti trans’!! It’s fukkin disgusting!! And no, I’m not frightened of being labelled by any of them, because my name is MARILYN bitch, and I have FOUGHT for the freedoms they enjoy today!!
[quote]Nobody is going to fukkin bully ME into chatting absolute bollox for fear of some half wit ‘coming for me’!! You can kiss the blackest part of my ass!! Fear and intimidation?? I think NOT!!!! I wonder if they know how despicably hypocritical they are being!! Don’t fuk with me!!"
by Anonymous | reply 177 | January 7, 2022 9:17 AM |
2020s are going to be the era of trannies. GenZ love tranny porn(check the pornhub stats) and many self proclaimed gay men are open to fucking trannies. trannies are gaining a good space in mainstream gay porn and even straight porn too. I also seen women and couple(even straight proclaimed) open to fucking trannies too.
This decade is going to be a mess
by Anonymous | reply 178 | January 7, 2022 2:21 PM |
Marilyn for the win!!!! He (or whatever pronoun Mariliyn pefers) should be our new leader!!!! Everything he said 100X!
by Anonymous | reply 179 | January 7, 2022 4:51 PM |
[quote]Boy George: [quote]Trans people are not a threat to women or female spaces. All the trans women I know carry themselves with grace and respect for the goddess energy.
Ohmygawd! Such nonsense!
All the trans women I know carry themselves like very conflicted, embittered drag queens!
by Anonymous | reply 180 | January 8, 2022 12:52 AM |
[quote] Marilyn for the win!!!! He (or whatever pronoun Mariliyn pefers) should be our new leader!!!! Everything he said 100X
He’s (or ‘she’ or ‘they’) got MY vote! Someone needs to call this shit out!!
[quote] 2020s are going to be the era of trannies. GenZ love tranny porn(check the pornhub stats) and many self proclaimed gay men are open to fucking trannies.
Are they? Really? I was out last weekend; made out with several hot guys! EVERY ONE OF THEM grabbed my (erect) penis!!!
I think there’s a difference between what people say to a pollster and what they actually WANT!! If there weren’t, there wouldn’t be all these bitter FTM’s complaining that gay guys aren’t fucking them! I don’t think thousands of years of human sexuality have been overturned overnight.
Or maybe I’m wrong, but MY dick isn’t going near them, which is all that really matters.
by Anonymous | reply 181 | January 8, 2022 5:24 AM |
Just block them so they see few profiles when they log in. When they get bored (which happens often with that group) they'll go elsewhere.
by Anonymous | reply 182 | January 8, 2022 6:01 AM |