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Is anyone else seeing a large number of trans profiles on gay dating/meeting apps lately?

Now I fully respect transpeople but are there not trans dating/meeting apps? When I go on grindr, scruff, jack'd etc, I'm looking to interact with other biological gay males, not transwomen and even sometimes transmen.

by Anonymousreply 48September 17, 2021 10:34 PM

Stop being transphobic op

by Anonymousreply 1September 15, 2021 2:41 AM

I've noticed it.

by Anonymousreply 2September 15, 2021 2:43 AM

The numbers have been increasing for years.

by Anonymousreply 3September 15, 2021 2:44 AM

Yes and blocking them doesn't work because the same ones keep creating new accounts over and over. I'm guessing either because theyre running some scam or everyone keeps blocking them.

by Anonymousreply 4September 15, 2021 2:50 AM

They keep turning you down, don't they OP? Don't be mad.

by Anonymousreply 5September 15, 2021 2:52 AM

Just joined Grindr a few days ago. Yes, I was surprised to see trans posts.

So it wasn't like that just a few years ago on Grindr?

I'm very near Boston, and the nearby profiles do include a very, very small sampling of trans. But maybe not so much in rural parts of the country? Just a guess.

Other parts of the world seeing this trend on Grindr?

What also surprised me were some, but just a petite sprinkling, of men (I assume straight or bi men, not the gay men?) seeking trans or fem.

Welcum to 2021!

by Anonymousreply 6September 15, 2021 3:26 AM

Grindr is basically a tranny/crossdresser/binary losers and chasers app now.

by Anonymousreply 7September 15, 2021 3:29 AM

Seems contradictory trolling a gay dating app to hook up with straight guys who are only into you because you fulfill a sexual kink. Obviously gay guys are hooking up with some straight guys too, but the majority of tranny chasers don’t see trans guys as legit women.—and most gay guys hook up with other gay guys.

by Anonymousreply 8September 15, 2021 3:41 AM

They're desperate. Where else are they gonna go?

by Anonymousreply 9September 15, 2021 5:02 AM

Yes big jump now. It’s getting crazy the type of people that are now coming on to a GAY dating app. Can’t have anything to ourselves and now sharing has resulted in colonization from the trannies and their hetero chasing men. Even getting straight MF couples now and actual women. This is getting ridiculous and if no one fights back I won’t be surprised if Grindr rebrands in the future

by Anonymousreply 10September 17, 2021 2:25 PM

Trans or semi-trans women, yes. They’re looking for bi guys. I don’t have a problem with trans men. I like a little trans man snatch on occasion.

by Anonymousreply 11September 17, 2021 2:31 PM

Yes, and I simply scroll past them like any guy on the app I’m not interested in. How hard is this?

by Anonymousreply 12September 17, 2021 2:33 PM

Yes—quite a few on male escort sites. F2Ms.

by Anonymousreply 13September 17, 2021 2:34 PM

[quote]like any guy

?

by Anonymousreply 14September 17, 2021 2:35 PM

But are they happy?

by Anonymousreply 15September 17, 2021 2:35 PM

I FF’d R11. That’s some agenda right there.

by Anonymousreply 16September 17, 2021 2:35 PM

Agenda? WTF is your problem?

by Anonymousreply 17September 17, 2021 2:42 PM

Oh and I FF’d your crazy ass, too.

by Anonymousreply 18September 17, 2021 2:43 PM

Sneaky little trans.

by Anonymousreply 19September 17, 2021 2:46 PM

It would be nice if you could sort them out and then just block them but like you say they keep popping up.

by Anonymousreply 20September 17, 2021 2:50 PM

It’s hardly surprising. What are they chances of a man in a wig being hit on by straight guys in real life? They can crying game some guy into replying and then if they recoil during the big reveal, they’re dead on social — “TRANSPHOBIC!” “LITERAL VIOLENCE!”

by Anonymousreply 21September 17, 2021 2:56 PM

Do trans ever date other trans?

by Anonymousreply 22September 17, 2021 4:53 PM

Perhaps said users of dating apps should demand a Warning! that misrepresenting genitalia could be grounds for rape or attempted rape.

by Anonymousreply 23September 17, 2021 4:56 PM

r22, why would they? It's not validating.

by Anonymousreply 24September 17, 2021 4:57 PM

[quote] Yes, and I simply scroll past them like any guy on the app I’m not interested in. How hard is this?

They take up real estate.

by Anonymousreply 25September 17, 2021 5:01 PM

One doesn't go on a fuck app to have one's dick wilted.

Cinderella's sisters need an app of their own.

by Anonymousreply 26September 17, 2021 5:10 PM

They show up occasionally on Rentmen.com. So I understand.

by Anonymousreply 27September 17, 2021 5:14 PM

If they wanted dick, why didn't they stay a chick?

by Anonymousreply 28September 17, 2021 5:16 PM

If transwomen are women, why are they on an app for gay men? And why is the app shoving gender identity and pronouns nonsense down its users’ deep throats.

by Anonymousreply 29September 17, 2021 5:22 PM

[quote] They take up real estate.

So do fat eldergays.

by Anonymousreply 30September 17, 2021 5:23 PM

If it’s an app for ALL “queer” identities why aren’t lesbians on it too?

by Anonymousreply 31September 17, 2021 5:23 PM

Not the point R30. Do you think lesbians should be on Grindr too? If not, why not?

by Anonymousreply 32September 17, 2021 5:24 PM

Please direct them to Cockblockr.

by Anonymousreply 33September 17, 2021 5:56 PM

[quote] It’s getting crazy the type of people that are now coming on to a GAY dating app. Can’t have anything to ourselves

Why should we? They did the same thing to lesbians years ago; now it’s our turn.

by Anonymousreply 34September 17, 2021 7:10 PM

R31 just wondering, what are the biggest apps for lesbians? I never thought about it until now

by Anonymousreply 35September 17, 2021 8:19 PM

[quote] If it’s an app for ALL “queer” identities why aren’t lesbians on it too?

When it's working, you cannot beat female instinct.

by Anonymousreply 36September 17, 2021 8:23 PM

How could an MtF trans think a gay cis-male would be remotely interested in them?

by Anonymousreply 37September 17, 2021 8:39 PM

A couple of MtFs popped up about a year ago or so, so I asked them why they were on Grindr and they told me they just moved and were looking for friends, I play online games with one of them, shes really cool.

by Anonymousreply 38September 17, 2021 8:56 PM

There seem to be “straight” guys who are on Grindr for the transsexuals. They write in their profiles “No Guys” and “Looking for TS”. And they have the ‘Trans’ box tucked in their ‘Tribes’. So the MTFs are there for those “straight” guys.

God only knows why there are any FTMs on there, but there are. Just not nearly as many.

There really needs to be a separate app for all of the above. It makes no sense for the app to be for gay and bisexual guys but also “straight” guys who are “not into guys.” Again, if transwomen are women, why are they on Grindr but lesbians aren’t? There’s no way to answer that question without revealing giant holes in the theory of the One Big Happy Queer Community.

by Anonymousreply 39September 17, 2021 9:00 PM

[quote]How could an MtF trans think a gay cis-male would be remotely interested in them?

They don't. They're on there for bi and bi-curious "straight" men.

by Anonymousreply 40September 17, 2021 9:01 PM

[quote] And they have the ‘Trans’ box tucked in their ‘Tribes’.

Ugh, TICKED not tucked. Why does autocorrect wait until a few seconds after it’s accepted the word as I’ve typed it before it goes and stealthily ‘corrects’ it for me.

by Anonymousreply 41September 17, 2021 9:01 PM

Freudian slip lol

by Anonymousreply 42September 17, 2021 9:13 PM

[quote]God only knows why there are any FTMs on there, but there are.

To rob you.

[quote]There seem to be “straight” guys who are on Grindr for the transsexuals.

This is why so many gay men transition. They don’t want to be gay and they don’t like the selection within the gay male community. These mentally ill gay men…in wigs…want “straight” guys.

by Anonymousreply 43September 17, 2021 9:18 PM

You mean FTM trans who are gay?

by Anonymousreply 44September 17, 2021 9:20 PM

[quote]You mean FTM trans who are gay?

?

by Anonymousreply 45September 17, 2021 9:21 PM

FTM trans who are into men would be gay. FTM who are into women are hetero men now. However, that’s too conventional so they probably have some random subcategory that allows them to continue being “the other” for the the negative attention.

by Anonymousreply 46September 17, 2021 9:38 PM

R35 nice try, slick. You’ll have to get earlier than that to catch us out.

by Anonymousreply 47September 17, 2021 10:07 PM

R43.

by Anonymousreply 48September 17, 2021 10:34 PM
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