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Is anyone else seeing a large number of trans profiles on gay dating/meeting apps lately?

Now I fully respect transpeople but are there not trans dating/meeting apps? When I go on grindr, scruff, jack'd etc, I'm looking to interact with other biological gay males, not transwomen and even sometimes transmen.

by Anonymousreply 182January 8, 2022 6:01 AM

Stop being transphobic op

by Anonymousreply 1September 15, 2021 2:41 AM

I've noticed it.

by Anonymousreply 2September 15, 2021 2:43 AM

The numbers have been increasing for years.

by Anonymousreply 3September 15, 2021 2:44 AM

Yes and blocking them doesn't work because the same ones keep creating new accounts over and over. I'm guessing either because theyre running some scam or everyone keeps blocking them.

by Anonymousreply 4September 15, 2021 2:50 AM

They keep turning you down, don't they OP? Don't be mad.

by Anonymousreply 5September 15, 2021 2:52 AM

Just joined Grindr a few days ago. Yes, I was surprised to see trans posts.

So it wasn't like that just a few years ago on Grindr?

I'm very near Boston, and the nearby profiles do include a very, very small sampling of trans. But maybe not so much in rural parts of the country? Just a guess.

Other parts of the world seeing this trend on Grindr?

What also surprised me were some, but just a petite sprinkling, of men (I assume straight or bi men, not the gay men?) seeking trans or fem.

Welcum to 2021!

by Anonymousreply 6September 15, 2021 3:26 AM

Grindr is basically a tranny/crossdresser/binary losers and chasers app now.

by Anonymousreply 7September 15, 2021 3:29 AM

Seems contradictory trolling a gay dating app to hook up with straight guys who are only into you because you fulfill a sexual kink. Obviously gay guys are hooking up with some straight guys too, but the majority of tranny chasers don’t see trans guys as legit women.—and most gay guys hook up with other gay guys.

by Anonymousreply 8September 15, 2021 3:41 AM

They're desperate. Where else are they gonna go?

by Anonymousreply 9September 15, 2021 5:02 AM

Yes big jump now. It’s getting crazy the type of people that are now coming on to a GAY dating app. Can’t have anything to ourselves and now sharing has resulted in colonization from the trannies and their hetero chasing men. Even getting straight MF couples now and actual women. This is getting ridiculous and if no one fights back I won’t be surprised if Grindr rebrands in the future

by Anonymousreply 10September 17, 2021 2:25 PM

Trans or semi-trans women, yes. They’re looking for bi guys. I don’t have a problem with trans men. I like a little trans man snatch on occasion.

by Anonymousreply 11September 17, 2021 2:31 PM

Yes, and I simply scroll past them like any guy on the app I’m not interested in. How hard is this?

by Anonymousreply 12September 17, 2021 2:33 PM

Yes—quite a few on male escort sites. F2Ms.

by Anonymousreply 13September 17, 2021 2:34 PM

[quote]like any guy

?

by Anonymousreply 14September 17, 2021 2:35 PM

But are they happy?

by Anonymousreply 15September 17, 2021 2:35 PM

I FF’d R11. That’s some agenda right there.

by Anonymousreply 16September 17, 2021 2:35 PM

Agenda? WTF is your problem?

by Anonymousreply 17September 17, 2021 2:42 PM

Oh and I FF’d your crazy ass, too.

by Anonymousreply 18September 17, 2021 2:43 PM

Sneaky little trans.

by Anonymousreply 19September 17, 2021 2:46 PM

It would be nice if you could sort them out and then just block them but like you say they keep popping up.

by Anonymousreply 20September 17, 2021 2:50 PM

It’s hardly surprising. What are they chances of a man in a wig being hit on by straight guys in real life? They can crying game some guy into replying and then if they recoil during the big reveal, they’re dead on social — “TRANSPHOBIC!” “LITERAL VIOLENCE!”

by Anonymousreply 21September 17, 2021 2:56 PM

Do trans ever date other trans?

by Anonymousreply 22September 17, 2021 4:53 PM

Perhaps said users of dating apps should demand a Warning! that misrepresenting genitalia could be grounds for rape or attempted rape.

by Anonymousreply 23September 17, 2021 4:56 PM

r22, why would they? It's not validating.

by Anonymousreply 24September 17, 2021 4:57 PM

[quote] Yes, and I simply scroll past them like any guy on the app I’m not interested in. How hard is this?

They take up real estate.

by Anonymousreply 25September 17, 2021 5:01 PM

One doesn't go on a fuck app to have one's dick wilted.

Cinderella's sisters need an app of their own.

by Anonymousreply 26September 17, 2021 5:10 PM

They show up occasionally on Rentmen.com. So I understand.

by Anonymousreply 27September 17, 2021 5:14 PM

If they wanted dick, why didn't they stay a chick?

by Anonymousreply 28September 17, 2021 5:16 PM

If transwomen are women, why are they on an app for gay men? And why is the app shoving gender identity and pronouns nonsense down its users’ deep throats.

by Anonymousreply 29September 17, 2021 5:22 PM

[quote] They take up real estate.

So do fat eldergays.

by Anonymousreply 30September 17, 2021 5:23 PM

If it’s an app for ALL “queer” identities why aren’t lesbians on it too?

by Anonymousreply 31September 17, 2021 5:23 PM

Not the point R30. Do you think lesbians should be on Grindr too? If not, why not?

by Anonymousreply 32September 17, 2021 5:24 PM

Please direct them to Cockblockr.

by Anonymousreply 33September 17, 2021 5:56 PM

[quote] It’s getting crazy the type of people that are now coming on to a GAY dating app. Can’t have anything to ourselves

Why should we? They did the same thing to lesbians years ago; now it’s our turn.

by Anonymousreply 34September 17, 2021 7:10 PM

R31 just wondering, what are the biggest apps for lesbians? I never thought about it until now

by Anonymousreply 35September 17, 2021 8:19 PM

[quote] If it’s an app for ALL “queer” identities why aren’t lesbians on it too?

When it's working, you cannot beat female instinct.

by Anonymousreply 36September 17, 2021 8:23 PM

How could an MtF trans think a gay cis-male would be remotely interested in them?

by Anonymousreply 37September 17, 2021 8:39 PM

A couple of MtFs popped up about a year ago or so, so I asked them why they were on Grindr and they told me they just moved and were looking for friends, I play online games with one of them, shes really cool.

by Anonymousreply 38September 17, 2021 8:56 PM

There seem to be “straight” guys who are on Grindr for the transsexuals. They write in their profiles “No Guys” and “Looking for TS”. And they have the ‘Trans’ box tucked in their ‘Tribes’. So the MTFs are there for those “straight” guys.

God only knows why there are any FTMs on there, but there are. Just not nearly as many.

There really needs to be a separate app for all of the above. It makes no sense for the app to be for gay and bisexual guys but also “straight” guys who are “not into guys.” Again, if transwomen are women, why are they on Grindr but lesbians aren’t? There’s no way to answer that question without revealing giant holes in the theory of the One Big Happy Queer Community.

by Anonymousreply 39September 17, 2021 9:00 PM

[quote]How could an MtF trans think a gay cis-male would be remotely interested in them?

They don't. They're on there for bi and bi-curious "straight" men.

by Anonymousreply 40September 17, 2021 9:01 PM

[quote] And they have the ‘Trans’ box tucked in their ‘Tribes’.

Ugh, TICKED not tucked. Why does autocorrect wait until a few seconds after it’s accepted the word as I’ve typed it before it goes and stealthily ‘corrects’ it for me.

by Anonymousreply 41September 17, 2021 9:01 PM

Freudian slip lol

by Anonymousreply 42September 17, 2021 9:13 PM

[quote]God only knows why there are any FTMs on there, but there are.

To rob you.

[quote]There seem to be “straight” guys who are on Grindr for the transsexuals.

This is why so many gay men transition. They don’t want to be gay and they don’t like the selection within the gay male community. These mentally ill gay men…in wigs…want “straight” guys.

by Anonymousreply 43September 17, 2021 9:18 PM

You mean FTM trans who are gay?

by Anonymousreply 44September 17, 2021 9:20 PM

[quote]You mean FTM trans who are gay?

?

by Anonymousreply 45September 17, 2021 9:21 PM

FTM trans who are into men would be gay. FTM who are into women are hetero men now. However, that’s too conventional so they probably have some random subcategory that allows them to continue being “the other” for the the negative attention.

by Anonymousreply 46September 17, 2021 9:38 PM

R35 nice try, slick. You’ll have to get earlier than that to catch us out.

by Anonymousreply 47September 17, 2021 10:07 PM

R43.

by Anonymousreply 48September 17, 2021 10:34 PM

Can’t they make an app for trans folks who aren’t merely exploiting Grndr to troll for straight guys for the kink factor? It feel like there’s two different worlds on it. Seems like the only trans that should be on Grndr are fully transitioned FTM who attracted to men.

Speaking of Different Worlds—they should do a tranny reboot of Angie!

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by Anonymousreply 49September 17, 2021 11:30 PM

[quote]FTM trans who are into men would be gay.

Logic is gone.

by Anonymousreply 50September 17, 2021 11:39 PM

R49 the fetish is for cornering others—gay or straight—into dubcon scenarios, forcing them to accept something sexually that they mightn’t normally. These predatory creeps get off on that, and hide behind gay civil rights to mandate their perverse disrespectful behaviour.

by Anonymousreply 51September 17, 2021 11:39 PM

I like athletic female to male transgender people, so I love this trend

by Anonymousreply 52September 17, 2021 11:41 PM

R48.

by Anonymousreply 53September 17, 2021 11:45 PM

I’m trans Asian and want to meet only eligible Asian men who will fully accept me as a non-bio Asian. They have to be ok with my Caucasian past. Respect my journey, or no sticky rice for you! My username is NotMaidenChina.

by Anonymousreply 54September 17, 2021 11:52 PM

Are you a man, R52?

by Anonymousreply 55September 17, 2021 11:52 PM

What about GndrBendr for an app name?

by Anonymousreply 56September 17, 2021 11:54 PM

How about Transgndr.

by Anonymousreply 57September 17, 2021 11:55 PM

What about NegAttnAdix?

by Anonymousreply 58September 18, 2021 12:01 AM

If I can hook up with a transman that looks like Laith Ashley, I would tear that pussy up.

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by Anonymousreply 59September 18, 2021 12:10 AM

FF’d.^

by Anonymousreply 60September 18, 2021 12:12 AM

what about “thr” for the app. Or “thm”.

by Anonymousreply 61September 18, 2021 12:13 AM

How About PayAttn2Me?

by Anonymousreply 62September 18, 2021 12:16 AM

How about “Tr” - is that an element?

by Anonymousreply 63September 18, 2021 12:26 AM

[quote] Can’t they make an app for trans folks who aren’t merely exploiting Grndr to troll for straight guys for the kink factor? It feel like there’s two different worlds on it. Seems like the only trans that should be on Grndr are fully transitioned FTM who attracted to men.

I’m sorry, but if there’s going to be a separate app for MTFs and the “straight” guys who are into them, the FTMs can use it as well, and the “gay” guys who are into FTMs (don’t even get me started) can follow them there.

A gay app should be for male people with male genitalia who are looking for sex and relationships with other males who have intact male genitalia. That’s what being gay is all about. If you fall outside that scope, get your own app.

Or, what the hell, since transwomen are women and transmen are men, they can use the straight dating apps. If we’re gonna insist that fantasy is reality, go all the way with it.

by Anonymousreply 64September 18, 2021 1:09 AM

Laith is my fantasy dude

by Anonymousreply 65September 18, 2021 1:13 AM

I hear you r65.

by Anonymousreply 66September 18, 2021 1:14 AM

^^ You guys are fetishists or bisexuals then.

by Anonymousreply 67September 18, 2021 1:15 AM

Mainstream gays totally deserve this outcome by digging their own grave. Instead of fighting against these homophobic cunts, they not only chose silence but also super enthusiastically welcomed the mentally ill as "our own".

by Anonymousreply 68September 18, 2021 1:22 AM

Not all of us did that, R68. I have never supported “integration” of the two diametrically different populations. I also don’t know what I or anyone else could have done to stop it.

It’s the HRC that’s mostly to blame, and the media as well.

by Anonymousreply 69September 18, 2021 1:24 AM

[quote] Seems like the only trans that should be on Grndr are [bold]fully transitioned[/bold] FTM who attracted to men.

No real penis they're born with? GTFO. XX chromosomes? GTFO. The first thing trannies do is to destroy and redefine the language. Their "fully transitioned" does not mean completely getting rid of their own genitals or replacing with fake ones. Most do nothing down there. Just fake show with boob jobs or chopping them off.

by Anonymousreply 70September 18, 2021 1:31 AM

I spend a minute each morning removing trans from my app. Usually, there's only one or two per day, but there were a dozen or so newbies this morning. My thumbs do the work. They don't bother me personally, but I like masculine. I also delete androgynous profiles, or any signs of femme fetish. And I say this as a person who was slightly androgynous earlier in life.

by Anonymousreply 71September 18, 2021 1:59 AM

R59 Laithi s the only transman I've ever found sexually attractive. NONE of the transmen I've encountered on grindr, scruff, jack'd etc look as realistic as him.

by Anonymousreply 72September 18, 2021 2:43 AM

They certainly did R68. That’s why I hope ex-gay therapy makes a huge comeback. Just for my own entertainment, if nothing else.

by Anonymousreply 73September 18, 2021 2:44 AM

R72, a lot of the ones I’ve seen look like fat butch lesbians, although to be fair, they’re probably not very far along in the transition process. I’ve seen some who are very attractive, and one who I genuinely would not have known was trans until I saw his pussy.

by Anonymousreply 74September 18, 2021 10:42 AM

Bump! lol

by Anonymousreply 75September 22, 2021 1:10 AM

Many straight women catfishing from MM romance novel lust.

by Anonymousreply 76September 22, 2021 1:40 AM

These apps are for men only! Transmen = men. So I don’t see the problem. They’re exactly where they belong, on an app for men.

by Anonymousreply 77October 28, 2021 7:35 PM

YES!! They're all over and I report them to the site admin as SPAM.

by Anonymousreply 78October 28, 2021 7:50 PM

No comment…

by Anonymousreply 79October 28, 2021 8:33 PM

There’s about 10 just in my state on a male escort site I use. There’s an uptick in straight and transmale escorts on a gay male escort site. The straight only working for women—the trans looking for both.

by Anonymousreply 80October 28, 2021 8:49 PM

You're spared the gender nonsense if you filter the under 30s.

by Anonymousreply 81October 28, 2021 9:43 PM

One trans claims to be male—not trans. The rest claim to be transmen.

by Anonymousreply 82October 28, 2021 9:50 PM

There are sites that no longer offer race as a filter option. What next, no filters at all for fear of insulting the tall, or the brown haired, or the fit, or the not-hung, or any physical feature?

by Anonymousreply 83October 28, 2021 9:57 PM

[quote] There’s an uptick in straight and transmale escorts on a gay male escort site. The straight only working for women—the trans looking for both.

Straight escorts only looking for women clients on a gay male escort site?? How does that work?

by Anonymousreply 84October 28, 2021 10:14 PM

They just post. It was a gay male escort site. Even the title has “gay male escorts”.

by Anonymousreply 85October 28, 2021 10:15 PM

How would they even get women clients if there are no women using a gay male site?

by Anonymousreply 86October 28, 2021 10:19 PM

Don’t know. They probably don’t get many. Or any. But they can still post.

by Anonymousreply 87October 28, 2021 10:23 PM

I love tranny pussy so I am good with it. I block the chicks with dicks, they are gross.

by Anonymousreply 88October 28, 2021 10:27 PM

[quote] I love tranny pussy so I am good with it.

🤮

by Anonymousreply 89October 28, 2021 10:28 PM

I never see any trans people on gay sites....DLers are making stuff up to have another excuse to bash trans people

by Anonymousreply 90October 28, 2021 10:29 PM

No^.

Mintboys is flooded with trans.

by Anonymousreply 91October 28, 2021 10:30 PM

R83, why do you need to filter anyone out? Just don't respond to the people you're not attracted to. Problem solved

by Anonymousreply 92October 28, 2021 10:31 PM

R70, no one "destroyed" the language. You sound like the overdramatic conservatives who think we "stole" the word "gay"

by Anonymousreply 93October 28, 2021 10:32 PM

R81, there are plenty of trans people over 40. Look at Caitlin....

by Anonymousreply 94October 28, 2021 10:33 PM

R76, I've never heard of straight women catfishing on a gay site....but I know tons of gay men who pretend to be women in order to catfish straight men

by Anonymousreply 95October 28, 2021 10:34 PM

[quote]Do trans ever date other trans?

Now, the trans are pretty open-minded, but....no.

by Anonymousreply 96October 28, 2021 10:40 PM

LOL, R96.

by Anonymousreply 97October 28, 2021 10:43 PM

We've now proven that the ABSOLUTE WORST thing one can ever say to a "trans" person is "Sorry, not interested!"

by Anonymousreply 98October 28, 2021 10:50 PM

[quote] I never see any trans people on gay sites....DLers are making stuff up to have another excuse to bash trans people

🙄🙄🙄 Right, everything is a conspiracy by the anti-trans trolls on DL.

by Anonymousreply 99October 28, 2021 11:07 PM

[quote] Do trans ever date other trans?

Why would they have to? Transmen = real men, transwomen = real women. As real men and women, they would have the right to date real men and women, not trans.

by Anonymousreply 100October 28, 2021 11:10 PM

When a trans messages me I reply with "sorry, not into chubs" regardless of their physical stature. It infuriates them and I just laugh.

by Anonymousreply 101October 28, 2021 11:11 PM

They don't bother me. Just because I look at car crashes doesn't mean I want to get into one.

by Anonymousreply 102October 28, 2021 11:16 PM

It’s a another form of conversation therapy to cure the gay community.

by Anonymousreply 103October 28, 2021 11:42 PM

If tranaswomen are women why are they on Grindr???

by Anonymousreply 104October 28, 2021 11:52 PM

Because they’re straight women looking for dick.

by Anonymousreply 105October 28, 2021 11:54 PM

Anti-woke DL at it again. It’s quite entertaining though. DLers, tell us how you REALLY feel… WE’RE NOT GONNA TAKE IT ANYMORE!

by Anonymousreply 106October 28, 2021 11:57 PM

R105, lol, straight women aren't on the internet looking for dick, just ask all the straight guys who got scammed on Ashley Madison

There aren't any transmen on grindr. I'm on grindr, I would know. DL makes shit up to grandstand against "woke" people or trans people

by Anonymousreply 107October 29, 2021 12:01 AM

[quote]If tranaswomen are women why are they on Grindr???

then shouldn't they be on a straight app??

by Anonymousreply 108October 29, 2021 12:02 AM

R99, if you think the right-wing anti-trans people don't make shit up......

Watch them say that transwomen are all straight men in dresses who want to rape women.....then turn around and say that transwomen are all gay men who can't handle being gay. Which is it, guys? Pick a narrative and stick with it

by Anonymousreply 109October 29, 2021 12:03 AM

R109:

[quote]The first group is composed of ‘androphilic’ (sometimes termed ‘homosexual’) trans women, who are exclusively sexually attracted to men and are markedly feminine in behaviour and appearance from a young age. They typically begin the process of medical transition before the age of 30.

[quote]The second group are motivated to transition as a result of what Blanchard termed ‘autogynephilia’: a sexual orientation defined by sexual arousal at the thought or image of oneself as a woman. Autogynephiles are typically sexually attracted to women, although they may also identify as asexual or bisexual. They are more likely to transition later in life and to have been conventionally masculine in presentation up until that point.

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by Anonymousreply 110October 29, 2021 12:09 AM

[quote] There aren't any transmen on grindr. I'm on grindr, I would know. DL makes shit up to grandstand against "woke" people or trans people

You’re an idiot. There are tons of both transmen and transwomen on Grindr. Maybe you’re too stupid to know since you think they pass and don’t realize they’re trans.

by Anonymousreply 111October 29, 2021 12:21 AM

I'll say it once and I'll say it again: Trans people need their own app/section on Grindr.

by Anonymousreply 112October 29, 2021 12:53 AM

But that wouldn't validate them and we know what happens then.

LITERAL VIOLENCE

by Anonymousreply 113October 29, 2021 2:40 AM

Why would they need their own separate section? Transmen are gay men. Last time I checked, Grindr is an app for gay men. So perfect fit.

by Anonymousreply 114October 29, 2021 2:53 AM

Let me guess R114 - we're all transphobic because our 'genital preference' is a cock and balls?

by Anonymousreply 115October 29, 2021 3:15 AM

There’s no such thing as genital preference. If you’re attracted to men then you’re attracted to men. Don’t call yourselfs gay men if you’re not attracted to men.

by Anonymousreply 116October 29, 2021 3:54 AM

Fuck off, R114/116.

by Anonymousreply 117October 29, 2021 4:09 AM

I'm not curious to fuck one, but I'm curious to know what Trans Man snatch is like? Does it look like a nutsack cut in half? does it smell musky like a scrotum or, not to be rude, fishy? Is it better to hit it in missionary or doggy? T

by Anonymousreply 118October 29, 2021 4:52 AM

R116 I’m attracted to men. Men with a cock and balls. Not someone who calls themselves a man who has had a double mastectomy and has a vagina and a slightly enlarged clitoris from being pumped full of male hormones.

If that makes me transphobic then guilty as charged.

by Anonymousreply 119October 29, 2021 5:10 AM

I actually went on Grindr and blocked every tranny and non-binary nut on there - half the people in my city are now gone, it’s THAT many!

by Anonymousreply 120October 29, 2021 5:16 AM

The transtapo says that if you’re attracted to someone based on genitalia you’re a fetishist.

by Anonymousreply 121October 29, 2021 5:17 AM

The trans movement is a way the gov can secretly cure the lgb community without looking homophobic.

by Anonymousreply 122October 29, 2021 5:44 AM

R119 = TERF!! Blocked!!

by Anonymousreply 123October 29, 2021 6:33 AM

I've got to the stage where I don't give a fuck if I get called a TERF or transphobic. I'm attracted to MEN not surgically fucked up women attempting to pull off an a terrible approximation of a man. How about you do us a favour and block everyone.

by Anonymousreply 124October 29, 2021 6:50 AM

[quote] I'm not curious to fuck one, but I'm curious to know what Trans Man snatch is like? Does it look like a nutsack cut in half? does it smell musky like a scrotum or, not to be rude, fishy? Is it better to hit it in missionary or doggy?

You’ve never fucked a vagina? Yeah, it’s like that. Why would it look like a nutsack or smell like a scrotum?

by Anonymousreply 125October 29, 2021 6:58 AM

I've seen a couple of transmen on my local Grindr. I've not noticed them spamming the app with new profiles or being hostile and accusatory as a default, so I don't have any problem sharing the space with them. The morbidly obese transwomen who REFUSE TO BE DISMISSED, PERIODT and the allegedly straight men with "no fags!" in their profiles who are now cropping up can go to hell, or the nearest hourly rate motel near a truck stop (same difference).

by Anonymousreply 126October 29, 2021 7:02 AM

R123 (although you won’t see this as you’ve allegedly blocked me), as an intelligent gay man I’m happy to be called a radical feminist, as far as being transphobic - I couldn’t give a flying fuck.

by Anonymousreply 127October 29, 2021 7:07 AM

Many ask that the tranny trollers who engage them “come correct”.

by Anonymousreply 128October 29, 2021 9:51 AM

What’s funny are the tranny dick loving chasers that claim absolutely NO MEN in their profiles on grindr on an app made for gay men, lol who are they kidding.

by Anonymousreply 129October 29, 2021 9:53 AM

Sorry, no straight man would want a tyranny when they can get real pussy.

by Anonymousreply 130October 29, 2021 10:19 AM

R121 Do they really say that? I’d like to see that.

by Anonymousreply 131October 29, 2021 10:48 AM

Is being trans a fad? I'm serious. Are all the trans people from the last 5 years going to maintain and commit or will we get a new word?

by Anonymousreply 132October 29, 2021 10:55 AM

I have seen a handful of FTM and they seem low key. Now the men dressed as women? I hate having to fucking look at all that ugly, ridiculous shit. 99 cent wigs and zero dress sense. Make-up put on all shoddy. Then they all have these haunted, creeped out looks and are housed in trailers. WhoEVER is fucking them needs to take them somewhere else.

by Anonymousreply 133October 29, 2021 10:58 AM

[quote]The transtapo says that if you’re attracted to someone based on genitalia you’re a fetishist.

[quote]R121 Do they really say that? I’d like to see that.

I'm not R121 but yes. This thread focuses more on lesbians but it applies to gay men as well.

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by Anonymousreply 134October 29, 2021 4:45 PM

If you use Grindr you deserve what you're getting.

by Anonymousreply 135October 29, 2021 4:59 PM

[quote] Why would they need their own separate section? Transmen are gay men. Last time I checked, Grindr is an app for gay men. So perfect fit.

A thing doesn’t become true because you say it over and over again. .

[quote] There’s no such thing as genital preference. If you’re attracted to men then you’re attracted to men. Don’t call yourselfs gay men if you’re not attracted to men.

This right here is the shit that turns gay people against the trans. They scream and whine about the necessity of everyone else ‘validating’ their identity, while they, and their idiot allies, proceed to IN-validate the identities of others.

I am a gay man, and as such, I want another MAN! He needs to LOOK like a man, SMELL like a man, FEEL like a man, and yes, have a fucking PENIS, like a MAN!!! You don’t define what ‘gay’ is to me, nor do you define who I’m allowed to be attracted to. You’re worse than the bible-thumpers. At least they never claim to be ‘allies.’

[quote] Is being trans a fad? I'm serious. Are all the trans people from the last 5 years going to maintain and commit or will we get a new word?

There have always been transgendered people; they are a part of the human experience, like homosexuals, but never in THESE numbers. What we’re seeing here is a combination of factors: social contagion, which young women seem especially susceptible to, internalized mysogyny, as young women reject what many see as the restrictions and downsides of female identity, the rise of autogenophiles, hiding behind the ‘trans’ title to fulfill their fetish, and the ability of social media to connect a large number people with untreated mental illness and associated personality disorders like narcissism and borderline (which creates an unstable sense of self!). (I am NOT saying ALL trans are mentally ill!)

Its all converging at once, but will it last? I doubt it. The most radical of the trans ideologies are at war with rational thought and provable facts: eventually, reality tends to win out, especially as more people begin to resist being told how to think and what to say. In five to ten years, there will be a new word entering the lexicon: detransitioning, as more and more people realize that (supposedly) changing their gender didn’t change their life; they’re still stuck with themselves. There will be lawsuits and suicides as they cast around for someone to blame. It wont be pretty.

[quote] Now the men dressed as women? I hate having to fucking look at all that ugly, ridiculous shit. 99 cent wigs and zero dress sense. Make-up put on all shoddy. Then they all have these haunted, creeped out looks and are housed in trailers.

I live in the Chelsea neighborhood of NYC, so no trailers, but there are a LOT of them around, almost all black, for some reason, and NONE of them pass, to even the most casual observer. Im guessing they’re mostly sex workers because I can’t imagine anyone hiring them. I wonder about their lives because, as you say, none look happy. ‘Trans joy’ is mostly a hopeful myth.

[quote] We've now proven that the ABSOLUTE WORST thing one can ever say to a "trans" person is "Sorry, not interested!"

Its LITERAL VIOLENCE!

by Anonymousreply 136October 29, 2021 5:06 PM

I suspect that R114/R116/R123 is parodying trans activist discourse, kind of like how "Ayyyyyyden Fonzarelli-Dudegash" used to do.

[quote]Do they really say that? I’d like to see that.

Lil Nas X getting grief for being a 'genital fetishist':

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by Anonymousreply 137October 29, 2021 5:12 PM

Black gays are assaulted, attacked and stigmatized in their communities more than white gays, so they go the trans route to get everyone to quit bothering them. Better one should be a messed up tranny woman than a fag. It's pretty easy to see the Trans movement is a crypto Gay Conversion therapy adopted by the clueless.

That's why I see through all the Gender Identity nonsense. Drop the T!

by Anonymousreply 138October 29, 2021 5:50 PM

If having a dick doesn't define being a man, then what does????

by Anonymousreply 139October 29, 2021 10:25 PM

Re: the link at R137 : Oh noes! A hot, rich, successful breakout gay artist doesn't want to sleep with them! HOW DARE HE?!? When will the legislature correct this grave injustice and make it illegal to be unattracted to theys and thems?

by Anonymousreply 140October 30, 2021 1:42 AM

We need an app for trannies and their chasers called 4ChixWithDix

by Anonymousreply 141October 30, 2021 2:17 AM

Lil Nas X Is the TERFiest TERF who ever TERFed! I blocked him ages ago. I don’t want trash like that contacting me.

by Anonymousreply 142October 30, 2021 3:29 AM

[quote] If having a dick doesn't define being a man, then what does????

Uh, how about your masculinity, your mustache, your muscles, your hairiness, your affinity for the color blue, your interest in sports and cars, ogling women, smashing smokeshows, burping, farting, lifting weights 🏋️‍♀️, the list goes on. You don’t need a dick to do any of that.

by Anonymousreply 143October 30, 2021 3:33 AM

I love blue, is it really a man thing?

by Anonymousreply 144October 30, 2021 8:39 AM

[quote] Re: the link at [R137] : Oh noes! A hot, rich, successful breakout gay artist doesn't want to sleep with them! HOW DARE HE?!?

One point of hope: EVERYONE in that thread wss SHREDDING that little girl with a mustache for claiming that his not wanting to fuck her was ‘erasure!’ The trans have FINALLY gone too far! When you're dictating to gay men who were allowed to have sex with, thats when our tolerance vanishes.

[quote] You don’t need a dick to do any of that.

No, but you do need one to be a man, which transmen will NEVER be. Cosplay your little LARP (live action role play) all you like, but not in MY bedroom.

And isn’t it instructive that you chose the most lazy, stereotypical activities. NONE of those things make you a man, just as putting in a wig and a dress doesn’t make you a woman. Your shallow attempt to assume an identity which isn’t yours is very telling.

by Anonymousreply 145October 30, 2021 10:02 AM

I just assumed R143 was sarcasm

Oh dear.

by Anonymousreply 146October 31, 2021 12:44 AM

I predicted they would start going after gay men

by Anonymousreply 147October 31, 2021 12:53 AM

I'm not kidding nor am I a trans hater, but today a depressed friend of mine who's straight was telling me Tinder was giving him lots of men. I never experienced that, being I never swiped women, because once you choose your preference they only give you that. Apparently the men he's seeing are trans man but they register as woman, so they show on a straight guy's feed, that's insane.

by Anonymousreply 148October 31, 2021 2:11 AM

[quote] There seem to be “straight” guys who are on Grindr for the transsexuals. They write in their profiles “No Guys” and “Looking for TS”. And they have the ‘Trans’ box tucked in their ‘Tribes’. So the MTFs are there for those “straight” guys.

You can't say you want any particular race without being labeled a racist, but apparently straight men can now be homophobic on gay dating apps and fucking Grindr won't say a peep.

anyway like I said before, if you use grindr you deserve this type of thing.

by Anonymousreply 149October 31, 2021 2:21 AM

OK, Boris, stop making up lies that there are trans on Grindr and Tinder. The DL anti-trans trolls will do anything to perpetuate this lie.

by Anonymousreply 150October 31, 2021 2:48 AM

It literally takes one 6 minutes to make a profile and check for themselves, fuck you.

by Anonymousreply 151October 31, 2021 3:35 AM

I know straight guys who feel bad about turning down trannies on Tinder and I say DON’T. I wouldn’t date a trans man either.

As the song widely says…..

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by Anonymousreply 152October 31, 2021 3:59 AM

wisely*

by Anonymousreply 153October 31, 2021 3:59 AM

Trans don't date other trans.

Even they are disgusted by each other.

by Anonymousreply 154October 31, 2021 5:02 PM

Trans are all over Grindr and so are the profiles saying "No men"

by Anonymousreply 155November 1, 2021 2:57 AM

I'm terrified that r143 isn't joking!

by Anonymousreply 156November 1, 2021 4:51 AM

I've never been on "the apps", but if I were I'd write "No Gender Illusionists" and probably get blocked by the service in one day.

by Anonymousreply 157November 1, 2021 4:55 AM

To be fair, the apps should just allow you in your profile to specify what your preference is regarding trans people. Why make the trans people deal with people who aren't interested in dating them?

by Anonymousreply 158November 1, 2021 5:04 AM

The trans people think it's transphobic if you aren't interested in dating them, r158.

by Anonymousreply 159November 1, 2021 5:07 AM

In that case, there isn't anything wrong with being "transphobic." It's like not liking peanut butter or having blue eyes.

by Anonymousreply 160November 1, 2021 2:02 PM

I actually do fear trans people. So I am transphobic.

by Anonymousreply 161November 1, 2021 2:26 PM

I haven't listened to straight society telling me who I should be attracted to since I was a teenager. Why should I listen to entitled trans shrieking it's literal violence to not be into them any more than I do Karens thumping their Bibles at me?

by Anonymousreply 162November 2, 2021 3:46 AM

There should be a word for when you fear something for good reason

by Anonymousreply 163November 2, 2021 3:54 AM

[quote] Why should I listen to entitled trans shrieking it's literal violence to not be into them any more than I do Karens thumping their Bibles at me?

What bugs me is that it clearly demonstrates their narcissism, entitlement, and disconnect from reality. Most gay men had to STRUGGLE, with society, our own fears, or, most likely, both.

We’ve survived those struggles and made it to adulthood, battered and bruised, but with a sense if who we are. Now these little twats tell is we have NO RIGHT to be who we are, after shrieking about how everyone else OWES them constant ‘validation?’ Fuck them!! (Metaphorically, because it damn sure wont be physically!)

by Anonymousreply 164November 2, 2021 3:02 PM

Nothing is a bigger dick wilter than some ugly, crazy dude all dressed like some sick version of a chick

by Anonymousreply 165November 23, 2021 1:53 AM

R148 I've never swiped women either, and have my profile set to men, but I get women pop up from time to time. And no, not transwomen.

by Anonymousreply 166November 23, 2021 2:39 AM

I block them

by Anonymousreply 167November 23, 2021 2:58 AM

R136 is right. R143 None of those things define being a man. Most of the men I am most attracted to have very few or even NONE of the attributes in your "definition"

Primary thing that defines being a man is genitals. R116 is completely wrong, and if that makes me a "fetishist" than I'll wear that label proudly, along with most of humanity

I dont use Grindr for other reasons, but this is another good reason I wont bother with it

by Anonymousreply 168November 23, 2021 6:15 PM

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by Anonymousreply 169January 6, 2022 10:49 AM

[quote] Now I fully respect transpeople

‘Pathetic’ isn’t a strong enough word. The pick-me energy is off the charts with this one girlies...

Straight men including TIMs inherently hate us. When are you all guna accept that?

by Anonymousreply 170January 6, 2022 10:53 AM

R169, the fascinating thing is that someone in West Virginia apparently procreated with someone outside their immediate family!

by Anonymousreply 171January 6, 2022 2:22 PM

[quote] To be fair, the apps should just allow you in your profile to specify what your preference is regarding trans people. Why make the trans people deal with people who aren't interested in dating them?

They WANT to deal with those who aren’t interested. They need to MAKE you see what a ‘genital fetishist’ you are! They NEED you to understand that THEY are men, despite all objective reality saying otherwise, because they NEED to to ‘validate’ their identity?

What’s that, you say? What about YOUR identity as a homosexual man? Well, that DOESN’T EXIST! There is an only ‘gender identity,’ not sex. Denying THEIR identity is ‘violence’ and ‘erasure!’ Read the thread, and that idiot who wont leave Little Nas alone! People tend not to believe it because it reads like parody, but they are DEAD SERIOUS!

Someone DL mentioned a study that found over half of all MTF trans suffered from narcissistic personality disorder (its actually everyone around them who suffers!). I’m now thinking the same is true of many FTM, because this type of disordered thinking just cant be ‘normal!’ They’re trying to tell people that up is down, that left is right, and you’re transphobic for disagreeing.

by Anonymousreply 172January 7, 2022 1:32 AM

I agree with R172. I think they WANT you to be "transphobic" (according to their own warped ideas) because otherwise there is no reason for them to have a massive attention drawing, victim confirming, controlling temper tantrum.

by Anonymousreply 173January 7, 2022 1:45 AM

[quote]Trans people need their own app/section on Grindr.

Ha! Trans people are usually looking for non-trans people to date, have sex with and validate their gender illusion, so that wouldn't work.

by Anonymousreply 174January 7, 2022 2:43 AM

[quote](I am NOT saying ALL trans are mentally ill!)

I am saying exactly that!

by Anonymousreply 175January 7, 2022 2:48 AM

Exactly r172. What they want and need are targets of their violence: Either obey to the cult or get attacked for transphobia.

by Anonymousreply 176January 7, 2022 2:54 AM

Lol. Boy George - who used to have a brain on these issues - tweeted some shit in defence of male rapists in women's prisons and his 80s gender-bender buddy Marilyn owned him. Thank you Marilyn for standing up for the real gay community, defending our right to speak our minds and for being brave enough to say this stuff publicly.

Boy George: [quote]Trans people are not a threat to women or female spaces. All the trans women I know carry themselves with grace and respect for the goddess energy. If you don't like me having an opinion fuck off and don't follow me. Anyone who wants critical thinking please stick around.

Marilyn: [quote] No they fukkin don't!!!! How can you lump everyone into the same car agora!! Trans women are DIVERSE, not the same individual replicated ad infinitum!! You sound ridiculous

[quote]I find it utterly nauseating that the gay community fought for DECADES to have a voice, and one of the first things they do after getting one is SHUT PEOPLE UP WHO HAVE DIFFERING OPINIONS!!!! How the FUK can they justify THAT behaviour?!! And then there’s the implicit threat >

[quote] 2) that anyone who doesn’t parrot the ‘party line’ will be targeted and labelled ‘anti trans’!! It’s fukkin disgusting!! And no, I’m not frightened of being labelled by any of them, because my name is MARILYN bitch, and I have FOUGHT for the freedoms they enjoy today!!

[quote]Nobody is going to fukkin bully ME into chatting absolute bollox for fear of some half wit ‘coming for me’!! You can kiss the blackest part of my ass!! Fear and intimidation?? I think NOT!!!! I wonder if they know how despicably hypocritical they are being!! Don’t fuk with me!!"

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by Anonymousreply 177January 7, 2022 9:17 AM

2020s are going to be the era of trannies. GenZ love tranny porn(check the pornhub stats) and many self proclaimed gay men are open to fucking trannies. trannies are gaining a good space in mainstream gay porn and even straight porn too. I also seen women and couple(even straight proclaimed) open to fucking trannies too.

This decade is going to be a mess

by Anonymousreply 178January 7, 2022 2:21 PM

Marilyn for the win!!!! He (or whatever pronoun Mariliyn pefers) should be our new leader!!!! Everything he said 100X!

by Anonymousreply 179January 7, 2022 4:51 PM

[quote]Boy George: [quote]Trans people are not a threat to women or female spaces. All the trans women I know carry themselves with grace and respect for the goddess energy.

Ohmygawd! Such nonsense!

All the trans women I know carry themselves like very conflicted, embittered drag queens!

by Anonymousreply 180January 8, 2022 12:52 AM

[quote] Marilyn for the win!!!! He (or whatever pronoun Mariliyn pefers) should be our new leader!!!! Everything he said 100X

He’s (or ‘she’ or ‘they’) got MY vote! Someone needs to call this shit out!!

[quote] 2020s are going to be the era of trannies. GenZ love tranny porn(check the pornhub stats) and many self proclaimed gay men are open to fucking trannies.

Are they? Really? I was out last weekend; made out with several hot guys! EVERY ONE OF THEM grabbed my (erect) penis!!!

I think there’s a difference between what people say to a pollster and what they actually WANT!! If there weren’t, there wouldn’t be all these bitter FTM’s complaining that gay guys aren’t fucking them! I don’t think thousands of years of human sexuality have been overturned overnight.

Or maybe I’m wrong, but MY dick isn’t going near them, which is all that really matters.

by Anonymousreply 181January 8, 2022 5:24 AM

Just block them so they see few profiles when they log in. When they get bored (which happens often with that group) they'll go elsewhere.

by Anonymousreply 182January 8, 2022 6:01 AM
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