I love him as well! Just because we only meet at weekends doesn't mean my feelings don't matter.
I know I'm his side boyfriend but I wish he would limit his posts with his partner.... ):
by Anonymous | reply 17 | September 14, 2021 11:04 PM |
Letting yourself get emotionally attached was your mistake
by Anonymous | reply 1 | September 14, 2021 6:16 PM |
As God is my witness, I will never be a sidepiece again
by Anonymous | reply 2 | September 14, 2021 6:20 PM |
You make up a lot of stupid posts.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | September 14, 2021 6:25 PM |
You’ll never be anything more than a cheap whore, OP. How could you not have figured this out by now?
by Anonymous | reply 4 | September 14, 2021 6:36 PM |
Do you think this website is your personal Twitter?
by Anonymous | reply 5 | September 14, 2021 6:40 PM |
I obviously don’t know any of the three of you but if my own experience is any indication, your feelings DON’T matter to him. I was kept on the side for 7+ years by a guy who loved to say “Now. Forever. Aways.” I could never have imagined anyone saying those words to me whose real feeing was IDGAF, but time finally wised me up and it HURT.
You can care like you never cared before and that still won’t make anybody love you who’s only in it to use you. If you have the strength you should leave now, but I don’t think you will. You’re too invested, still thinking he *should* do the caring and considerate thing because he *should* care about your feelings even if he’s partnered up. Imagine his delight when a side piece says he needs to please stop gushing so much about his partner cuz it makes the side piece FEEL BAD. He’ll KNOW he’s got you trapped for as long as your tolerance for humiliation holds out.
It may take a lot more pain before you summon up enough pride and anger to face what your situation really is. I hope you do. Or I hope I’m wrong.
But I should also thank you, because after having quit being a side piece 18 months ago, I had a really bad day yesterday — suddenly missing him, wanting to text him — and you’ve helped remind me of the sensation of powerlessness and desperation that comes when you know you’re not loved and you still can’t give it up yet, so you try to negotiate that maybe he’ll give you just that one more crumb of attention — please not talk about his partner SO much.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | September 14, 2021 6:49 PM |
He's getting what he needs. You have no leverage. He's just not that into you. He loves someone else. You will die lonely.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | September 14, 2021 6:51 PM |
You have the power of goodbye.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | September 14, 2021 6:57 PM |
Being a side piece is GREAT if you know the score and just enjoy the good sex.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | September 14, 2021 6:59 PM |
Slut!
by Anonymous | reply 11 | September 14, 2021 7:50 PM |
You deserve better.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | September 14, 2021 8:31 PM |
A sideshow for the weekend!!! hahahahahaha
by Anonymous | reply 13 | September 14, 2021 10:30 PM |
R10 No, this is OP’s theme song, overwrought, rain soaked and alone.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | September 14, 2021 10:35 PM |
[quote] "Just because we only meet at weekends doesn't mean my feelings don't matter."
Does he own a boat, OP? The weather is still lovely this time of year. Perhaps you could have a day on the water...
by Anonymous | reply 15 | September 14, 2021 10:56 PM |
That’s precisely the point OP - your feelings don’t matter, they never have and they never will. Run.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | September 14, 2021 11:01 PM |
OP. Watch a tv show. Read a book. Fresh air is nice.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | September 14, 2021 11:04 PM |