Woman who detransitioned from FTM exposes Transgender Ideology

So she’s just fucked up? And transitioned - why? Because she wasn’t pretty as a girl? And this is the liberal professos fault? Does she take any responsibility?

I’m surprised Detrans is allowed as a subreddit. I’m gonna check it out.

I cannot wait for all the lawsuits to come. LOL!

How stupid do you have to be to think you can really change sex? How damaged a person do you have to be to hate your body so much you want to mutilate it via medicalization or surgery? And now the Trans activists want to outlaw the kind of psychological counseling to help people try to find peace and acceptance with their authentic, natural body.

I wish I could be around to see how we look back on this era and this craziness 50 years from now. I wonder what it will be called.

Fascinating that trans are trying to get detrans banned. I mean, I may not agree with ex-gay but if they want a community then let them.

I don’t think you can have this conversation without discussing personality disorders.

The greed of the medical community needs to be examined in a very detailed manner. Doctors should be held accountable for what they do and right now they are not. If I present and say my arm is wrecking my mental health and want it removed, shouldn't they just take it off? Why is a penis or vagina or breasts any different? They used to make you wait and get intense counseling, why has it changed now?

[quote] I wish I could be around to see how we look back on this era and this craziness 50 years from now. I wonder what it will be called.

Why wait? Just go ahead and call it "The Stupid Ages" like Leela did on [italic]Futurama[/italic] two decades ago.

R1, to be fair, trans people generally ARE fucked up. There is no actual science behind transgenderism. Feeling like you are born in the wrong body and desperately wanting to mutilate yourself isn’t sane.

I got into a recent fight on Twitter about this.

Trans refuse to believe that people detransition out of regret and that it’s rare. And I was shown studies and all this shit but this new trans movement is so new there’s no data over the last few years to show it. I’m sure detransitioning has been happening a lot over the last year alone.

And call me crazy but when I was growing up in the 90’s and the 2000’s I thought you had to undergo a real evaluation to become transgender. That’s not the case today.

Did she chop her tits off?? Did she then have to get bolt-ons applied to de-trans???

R9 I think the data shows a higher rate of transition regret (whether leading to detransing, when possible), than the loudest voices in the trans community would acknowledge--and probably not as high a rate as anti-trans people want to claim. I think it would be wisest to wait to do any surgical interventions until a person is at least 25 (arbitrary, but the typical age when neuroscientists think the mature brain is sufficiently formed), unless there is a life or death situation (and I don't mean suicidal ideation or threat if the surgery is not allowed, but something medical/physiological); I'm more open to hormonal therapies in or around adolescence, as there is less dramatic permanent change, but even some of the effects then cannot be undone (remember Jazz and her stinky intestine-vagina).

I think most people feel alienated from their bodies at some point--even cisgender, heterosexual white people. In typical cases, it's called puberty or having some characteristic society deems as unattractive (weight, large nose, etc.); I do believe there are some cases that may call for more complex medical interventions, but I suspect more of them could be addressed with psychotherapy/medication. I'm not a TERF, but I think we are in a "moment," and such moments have a way of cycling,

Trust me, if you are anything less than 100% encouraging people to transition no question asked, then by their own standards you ARE a terf!!

[quote] I'm more open to hormonal therapies in or around adolescence, as there is less dramatic permanent change, but even some of the effects then cannot be undone

That is a lie fed by the Trans community and their cohorts in the bought medical community.

You cannot disconnect physical puberty from brain & emotional maturation. It is all linked. There is a reason why they have found that puberty blockers can result in an IQ drop of some 10 points.

The body and mind mature as an interlinked entity. If you administer puberty blockers then you do not get to brain maturation at 25. In fact, you may never get there at all.

The only argument that Trans have for administering irreversible puberty blockers is to prevent natural cosmetic changes. Deeper voice, hair growth, genital maturation, etc.

The Trans have lied and lied about puberty blockers and the harm they can do both as the child is maturing - or is NOT maturing as the case really is - and the future medical issues.

Just do a quick check from a non Trans source and you can see how bad this can be for the body and brain as well as the misadministration of the drugs that goes on.

Dee Trans ? Wasn't she a character on that colored show , What be Happening?

So many trans one knew from back in 1990's or 1980's have gone back into boys clothes in middle age or older. One was scheduled to have her implants removed, but things were postponed due to covid.

Asked a trans one has known for years who has lived as "female" since college about how things are going now that she's in her 50's.... Her response was if could do things all over again would just be maybe a femmy gay but never bothered with trans "nonsense".

Further went on that the whole "trying to be something one isn't" just gets tiring after awhile. Pile on discrimination, disrespect, and often down right virulent hatred directed towards trans (MTF or FTM), and you can understand why things are do difficult.

R16, those people need to speak out now and tell their experiences because what's happening to kids in particular with this current transition craze is going to be a nightmare.

[quote]Dee Trans ? Wasn't she a character on that colored show , What be Happening? —Mamie Ekinhower ( I just got a walk in tub love it ! )

Yes, and you have no idea how much teasing I got because of it.

I have had enough trans friends to know that "detransitioning" is not unheard-of, and none of the people I have known have considered their status, personal identity or position as targets by straights (and others) as cause to adopt an ideology.

They look for understanding and patience. None have felt a need to change anything about me while going through their own processes. Meaning no one has expected me to explain my own opinions or politics. I support them.

And the transphobic crazies and Borises here who keep starting the same threads over and over need to quit taking blood money for their time or need to be treated as belligerent hate speakers. There's no excuse for this onslaught.

R19 is Ling-Ling the homophobic Chinese troll.

The word “cisgender” really bugs me. I’m not the aberration; why do I need a special term to differentiate me from the deviation?

It's just another way of vilifying homosexuality, R21.

I think what’s unfair is the lack of objective help available for people struggling with gender dysphoria. The trans ideologues have hijacked things to such an extent that it’s more about the “movement” than helping each person carefully discern what is best for them. I think most trans folks would encourage anyone considering transitioning to really assess if they are making the best decision, and to seek out professional help to do so. To do so is not transphobic, but caring enough about an individual to make sure they are making an informed decision. It’s not a new hairdo, so it’s not a decision to be made in an echo chamber that tells you that it’s the answer for you, and to question it merely internalized transphobia, etc. Are people on the trans community equating these people with the ex-gay movement?

There is no such thing, R23.

this thread is literally killing Transpersons

stop it

Is it also killing unicorns, R25, you misogynistic homophobe?

You stop mutilating gay people, especially gay youth.

I was just thinking about this today after Blaire White's latest upload (linked below), realizing that when I was a teen, if this insane ideology was prevalent at the time, I would've been labeled as transgender because I [bold]constantly[/bold] expressed disdain about being female, always dressed masculine, and was a hardcore tomboy. However, I really, [bold]really[/bold] didn't want to be a male, either. It was a very confusing time period. As a 13-15 year old kid who is still trying to discover themselves, you don't always have concrete answers or an understanding about the feelings you have about certain aspects of your own identity. That's why the adults are supposed to step in and offer sound guidance. Emphasis on the "sound" part.

It wasn't until I got older that I realized I didn't so much hate being female as I hated how males (in particular those I was exposed to on a daily basis) [bold]made me feel[/bold] about being a female. I was made to feel like a dehumanized and hypersexualized piece of meat whenever I presented myself as feminine. And they were always very...aggressive, disrespectful, and intimidating with their approach. The proverbial cherry on this fucked up sundae was accepting the fact that I was physically weaker than males and, quite literally, in a position where if I had to, I wouldn't be able to physically defend myself in a 1v1 situation. This reality made me so uncomfortable that I began to actually hate being female because I associated femaleness with weakness and vulnerability. Females were "prey" and males were "predators."

I have no doubt that a lot of FTM, namely those who are teens and young adults, have similar issues, but due to this woke ideology, it all but gets ignored and they're just told to discard their femaleness and femininity by mutilating their bodies to, ironically, look more similar to the very sex that likely contributed to their body image issues in the first place. The TRA community has advocated for these girls to engage in the worst form of self-harm, and they have the support of a large portion of the medical community and that is just unacceptable.

[quote]I’m surprised Detrans is allowed as a subreddit. I’m gonna check it out.

r/exhomosexual is a good one too.

R27: Blair is such a humane, kind person. I'm glad the detransitioners have such an influential ally.

That Blair dude is the epitome of ex-gay.

The doctors who administer puberty blockers are nothing but criminals. Mengeles. In a deade or few people will be shocked by it.

I knew someone who became trans.

Thing is, I have met trans people and just said ok this is a woman or this is a man. I know trans people who truly are trans.

Then I met the someone who became trans. This was someone I believe was rejected as a gay man so he tried something different.

He started out with these really bad wigs and dresses and was taking hormones and he just looked like himself with an ugly old lady wig on.

Eventually the wig turned into a bandana and the dresses turned into women’s sweatpants.

Last I saw him, he was a man.

R27 As a young child, I used to envision myself as a woman because I was attracted to men and did not realize men could be attracted to men.

And the rejection of being gay. There was a time I wanted to be transgender because I was so terrified of being gay. I even told my Mom. She’ll never forget the name: Jean Madison. But honestly that was like 2 months at 14 years old.

I’m still pretty feminine and androgynous as an adult and it works but it’s my clothes, not my identity.

Children should be taught to believe in themselves, to respect themselves and each other, and to believe that their behaviour is more important than their looks.

The rest will follow, and fewer self-esteem kids will grow up thinking that magically erasing their sex will change their life.

R15 LOL!!!!!!