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How do former rent boys end up?

What I've read, there are high rates of PTSD in female ex-prostitutes. Does the same apply to males? Or is it easier for them to move on with their lives, looking on their time in prostitution as just another job?

by Anonymousreply 51September 15, 2021 1:16 PM

Scratch a whore, find a drug problem.

They end up in dead-end jobs, just like most whores with drug problems. Either that or they OD.

by Anonymousreply 1September 6, 2021 12:08 AM

Men are stronger than women

by Anonymousreply 2September 6, 2021 12:08 AM

R1 can’t afford a whore

by Anonymousreply 3September 6, 2021 12:10 AM

They find Jesus.

by Anonymousreply 4September 6, 2021 12:19 AM

How do rent boys end up?

End up.

by Anonymousreply 5September 6, 2021 12:20 AM

Hundreds get freaked-out by Miss Lindzebelle's ladybugs but they enjoy the fabulous poosie.

by Anonymousreply 6September 6, 2021 12:20 AM

They become stars in Hollywood.

by Anonymousreply 7September 6, 2021 12:22 AM

Actually, that's true R7, good point.

by Anonymousreply 8September 6, 2021 12:23 AM

Early (way too early) introduction to sex, with the wrong “partner,” is underneath the drugs, which is underneath the hooking.

by Anonymousreply 9September 6, 2021 12:26 AM

[quote] What I've read, there are high rates of PTSD in female ex-prostitutes.

Link please.

And is the alleged PTSD related to the actual sex work itself (in which case I would highly doubt the data, since sex work is not in and of itself traumatic if it is not being forced upon you), or is it related to being beaten up by pimps and/or by clients?

by Anonymousreply 10September 6, 2021 12:27 AM

I married one. He is very very sweet, and has a new career. Why would I hold it against him, what he did in his youth? He made it out of that without AIDS, herpes, or a serious drug problem.

by Anonymousreply 11September 6, 2021 12:29 AM

As much as I hate Lindsey Graham, these jokes about his ladybugs are just stupid and counterproductive.

A gay man publicly admitted he entirely made up from scratch the idea that Lindsey Graham has moles on his taint and calls them his "ladybugs." In the end, perpetuating that story takes away from the truth of his closetedness and his experiences with experts because it is patently untrue. Graham can always say, "No, they're clearly lying that I'm gay and enjoy male prostitutes, because I can prove they're lying that I have moles down there."

by Anonymousreply 12September 6, 2021 12:32 AM

You become First Lady.

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by Anonymousreply 13September 6, 2021 12:36 AM

R11, good for you and God bless you two.

There's no reason to judge your husband for work he did as a younger man. It's work that he has clearly gotten away from now. He's lucky that he got out relatively unscathed, didn't get caught by drugs and moved on with his life. Mazel.

by Anonymousreply 14September 6, 2021 12:41 AM

They find someone to keep them if they're lucky, otherwise their looks go and they're fucked

by Anonymousreply 15September 6, 2021 12:46 AM

My friend did it for a few years, landed a cosmetic exec as a sugar daddy. He is set for life but hates his life. He is so lonely. He begs me to visit him (they moved to the UK). I am leary because the last time he begged me to fuck him because his daddy was old and a bottom.....it was kind of sad. I mean I did it because he is hot and my friend. but...damn. Sad life.

by Anonymousreply 16September 6, 2021 1:05 AM

Well, they all go to hell for a while, then they return and do it all over again. That’s what they all do OP.

All doctors go to heaven then return to become doctors again although on a different planet.

Where or where do posters come up with more idiotic questions?

by Anonymousreply 17September 6, 2021 1:59 AM

Movie stars.

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by Anonymousreply 18September 6, 2021 2:13 AM

In society, it is much easier for attractive people to thrive than plain people. It should be a cinch to do well if you're pretty. There's no reason for an attractive person to go into porn unless he's a drug addict, unintelligent, or a victim of childhood abuse.

by Anonymousreply 19September 6, 2021 2:21 AM

[quote]There's no reason for an attractive person to go into porn unless he's a drug addict, unintelligent, or a victim of childhood abuse.

Or lazy. Why work 40 hours per week, when you can make more doing a one day shoot?

AND in porn you don't have to deal with the HR cvnt threatening to make your life hell.

by Anonymousreply 20September 6, 2021 2:33 AM

As militant vegans

by Anonymousreply 21September 6, 2021 2:47 AM

They get hired as Republican strategists. A lateral career move, if you will.

by Anonymousreply 22September 6, 2021 3:22 AM

There’s 4-5 guys who quit their training jobs to become only fans whores. They’ve lost my respect because they’re lazy and want easy money. I kind of hope things end badly for them.

by Anonymousreply 23September 6, 2021 4:25 AM

Why is monetizing your own body to enrich yourself seen as lazy and dishonorable? But working as a wage slave so the product of your labor can make some CEO a billionaire viewed as industrious and admirable?

by Anonymousreply 24September 6, 2021 4:48 AM

R24, well, the wage slaves behind Pfizer or moderna vaccines make their CEOs billionaires, however, we admire them.

by Anonymousreply 25September 6, 2021 6:02 AM

Seize the means of production, R24!

by Anonymousreply 26September 6, 2021 11:28 AM

Dead and bled out on the strip, that’s where!

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by Anonymousreply 27September 6, 2021 11:30 AM

R25 Home schooled?

by Anonymousreply 28September 6, 2021 2:57 PM

The way they started. On their backs.

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by Anonymousreply 29September 6, 2021 3:16 PM

R29 - Are they bitcoin mining?

by Anonymousreply 30September 6, 2021 3:18 PM

Mostly just battered flat OP.

by Anonymousreply 31September 6, 2021 3:19 PM

They go into real estate or personal training.

by Anonymousreply 32September 6, 2021 3:21 PM

The professional path for retired sez workers has been established.

Dental hygienist is the most popular as you can tell which clients have dick bruising of the mouth.

Paralegal is an option for those who offer the benefits of a lawyer for basic needs without the time and expense of keeping one on retainer.

Gym Trainer is popular for those who enjoy body worship from the genetically unfortunate.

Firefighter is a popular choice for those seeking hero worship and high risk.

by Anonymousreply 33September 6, 2021 3:58 PM

Real Estate is very common. I can think of a couple DC realtors past or present wh days d porn.

Many start as bartenders or trainers and go back to that.

A few take up with sugar daddies. David Geffen used to find entry level jobs for them in his businesses.

by Anonymousreply 34September 6, 2021 4:01 PM

Well, the issue with the wage slave argument is there isn't a lot of opportunity for advancement. Maybe 1/10,000 become a real celebrity. A c-lister for a short time with a high mortgage and possibly more degrading work than porn. Eventually, your face and body age and degrade out and you have nothing to fall back on. If you learn an "honest" job, hopefully you can continue to make money after you get your first wrinkle or prolapse.

Life is about trade offs and you should keep your mind on the long game.

Also, as my granddaddy said, if you marry for money, you earn every cent.

by Anonymousreply 35September 6, 2021 5:24 PM

How they preach the entrepreneurship mantra until it comes to sex workers. Capitalist hypocrisy.

by Anonymousreply 36September 6, 2021 6:47 PM
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by Anonymousreply 37September 6, 2021 6:49 PM

They DIE Blanche, they DIE

by Anonymousreply 38September 6, 2021 6:52 PM

[quote]Also, as my granddaddy said, if you marry for money, you earn every cent.

Did he also say, "Kissin' don't last -- cookin' do"?

by Anonymousreply 39September 6, 2021 7:00 PM

Personal chef is a popular choice.

There was a time when a lot of them ended up as waiters at the Serendipity ice cream parlor in NYC.

by Anonymousreply 40September 6, 2021 7:02 PM

They get elected to Congress

by Anonymousreply 41September 6, 2021 7:03 PM

R39, I don't think so. We've all always been of British stock, so... the cooking has always been worthless.

by Anonymousreply 42September 6, 2021 7:18 PM

[quote] There was a time when a lot of them ended up as waiters at the Serendipity ice cream parlor in NYC.

That explains why "Kyle" always got excited when he talked about toppings.

by Anonymousreply 43September 7, 2021 12:10 AM

They end up in mergers & acquisitions

by Anonymousreply 44September 15, 2021 12:27 AM

r16 Did your friend think of himself as a rent boy or an escort?

by Anonymousreply 45September 15, 2021 12:30 AM

Obscurity, Op.

by Anonymousreply 46September 15, 2021 12:32 AM

Ironically, I know three professionals (4 or 5 year degrees) who are committed expeditionists. .

A very close friend, married to a woman, who has done playgirl spreads and videos.

by Anonymousreply 47September 15, 2021 12:38 AM

R47 To be clear, are they travelers or do they just love punctuality?

by Anonymousreply 48September 15, 2021 12:47 AM

R48. Bitch, have you tried editing a post?

Thank you.

by Anonymousreply 49September 15, 2021 12:56 AM

I don't see how it's THAT much different than flaming out in any other career, particularly ones that often have a limited timeline - the outcomes would be broad.

by Anonymousreply 50September 15, 2021 4:37 AM

r50 Surely the timeline for rent boy is on average shorter than for many other jobs?

by Anonymousreply 51September 15, 2021 1:16 PM
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