I don’t know any of these people, however, I agree that she’s super intelligent, and I also admire her for not going for Hollywood’s groveling bullshit. Why should she?
That being said, I don’t believe Pitt’s the idiot his PR makes him out to be, with his full blessing, undoubtedly. Smart women cannot handle being with a dumbfuck, even if that dumbfuck happens to be Brad Pitt. They obviously had enough in common to plow through six kids together. He’s not an asshole for falling for her. And she’s probably not the vile bitch everyone makes her out to be. But things fall apart after 5 to 7 years. You have to understand this in order to stay married. Almost every single marriage I’ve seen go on over 20 years, the couples ALL had MAJOR problems, anywhere from cheating, babies from mistresses, breakups, divorce, remarrying, to finally making a decision: “Do I wanna spend the rest of my life with this man/woman? Why the fuck would I choose to stay in this?”
If you answer NO, then most people break up amicably, while uttering venom through their clenched teeth, because unless your spouse is abusing or molesting the children, you break up AMICABLY for the children.
If you answer: YES, then understand that things will NEVER be as they were when you were both fucking like rabbits and were madly in love with one another. That’s never EVER coming back. But from what I understand, what comes after that, is REAL love, because it’s gotta be real love, to forgive, and remain married.
👆🏽This👆🏽is what couples mean, when they say they married their best friend.
I honestly do not understand why these two remain insistent upon tearing each other down. I haven’t a clue who in this mess takes action, or which of the two then reacts to the other’s actions. All I know that once you share children together? This public war is absolutely inappropriate and NOT beneficial for the kids, NO MATTER WHY OR HOW YOU CONVINCED YOURSELVES THAT WHAT YOU ARE ENGAGING IN IS FOR THE BENEFIT OF THOSE CHILDREN.
Please let me assure you, it’s a game changer for those children, and NOT in a good way. My mother alienated my father from me,for many years. I’m so grateful that I had the opportunity to grow up, and see my dad in a different light, and did so many years before he died of alcoholism.
My father fucked up BAD and he was NOT perfect. But you wanna know something? That man made sure we ALWAYS had food on the table, nice clothes in the closet for me to wear, paid for annual vacations, took me Broadway plays, paid for years of ballet lessons, private school for junior high, summer camp, ice skating lessons, and top notch health insurance until I was 21.
I genuinely appreciate everything he worked so hard to give us, and I am so thankful he was my father and am forever grateful for the financial stability he provided for my mom and myself, as well as providing for his second wife and my little brother.
Do I believe Brad fucked up big time with Maddox? Why yes, I do. But if he sincerely has attempted to make amends and fix things with his son, then he deserves a second chance to be an involved and emotionally present father.
Kids eventually grow up and see things for what they actually were, despite any attempts to trash talk either parent by the ex. They will more often than not, seek a relationship with their father or mother.
Why prevent that?
Let parents make amends and try to be better fathers or mothers, whenever possible.
It’s a REALLY BIG deal, and it matters much more than quarreling exes realize.