....you ever seen this?
I have one friend, German, 40s, who has had relationships only with women *that I know of*. They never work out so he's a perpetual bachelor type. Not especially butch but straight nonethless.
Then, after two glasses of wine, the chin tilts downwards and the bedroom eyes come out, the pinkies go up, the giggling begins, the cheeky comments start flowing, and he's a Southern accent away from being Blanche Deveraux.
I have another friend , Indian,, 20s, who hasn't dated much but talks only about how sexy girls are, his exes, how he'll get married by 26 because it's expected and someone will matchmake for him...and then when he smokes up and gets high, which is often, he curls up like a saucy kitty, dramatically works his eyebrows and becomes completely limp-wristed.
There's nothing wrong with any of these traits, I possess some of them myself, but Dear Lord...what's the deal with these men?
Have you guys noticed this phenomenon? Self identifying straights who morph into femmes fatales once drunk or stoned...??
I really find it baffling. Afterwards, its like they are completely unaware of how they acted beforehand...and it makes me wonder whether they're denying their homo side or whether I'm just irritated they're somehow holding onto their straight privilege card while still being so...well queeny.
I'm just curious if y'all have seen it firsthand and if you address it or ignore it or if it annoys you or what.
Ihave another friend, Indian,,