San Francisco has launched the Horse and Mare parties

This is why they hate us.

R1 doubtful the world at large knows these exist.

We have Twitter now, R2. Nothing is hidden.

Here is the link.

Sounds HAWT!

Where can I find the "Horse and MARY!" party?

Could be more fun.

I wonder how many stallions get refused for being too big.

I’ve been to the ones in Berlin and Amsterdam. The sound of all the bottoms collectively moaning is hilarious. The Germans and the Dutch are sticklers for rule following; not sure if SF can pull that off.

Berlin has not even opened Der Boler yet, the rest of the EU is having sex.

I like that he had to remind everyone it is not possible to change roles in red bold font

SF eldergays: is this like the Olympus sex parties they use to have in the city?

I am on the mailing list and they have a waiting list of bottoms that need to be filled so they are trying to find more tops.

How to check if he’s wearing a condom? Just reach around and feel… uhm sure, that sounds totally foolproof.

Who hates himself this much?

I've never been to one of these, but I want to, or at least see a live stream video

There's one in Maine as well, I believe.

I have seen video. Most go BB

I’m going when there is one within convenient travel distance. I’m a Stallion. Bareback

What's the top bottom ratio at these parties?

Depends R19. They now limit the number of bottoms to 20. Tops are unlimited, but more rare.

Thanks r20 Are the tops required to wear condoms? The bottoms holes must get awful sloppy otherwise.

R21 Bottoms choice, they can ask for condoms or bareback.

From the video I saw it was 99% bareback.

Again thank you. I've always fantasized about sloppy seconds but not being hung I'm sure I'd be a disappointment to these hard core bottoms.

Anonymous pig bottoms?

I ahm reespectable now! Wuz Wurst Laydy.

The bottoms wear a different color head covering. In Germany it was actually about 60/40 condom/bare (I think people are concerned about the whole STD collection. )

I’ve watched the video of the one in Germany. Two things bother me. Tops who are wearing hardware on their cock and guys who want to fist.

r8, I’d like to hear more about your experiences. Is language a barrier there? And are the bottoms open to anything goes? What happens if you don’t want to be fisted?

I’m sorry R18, but anyone who says ‘I’m a Stallion’ is inviting derision.

The bottom can raise his hand at any time for a time out, and a helper comes to take them to a break room or the toilet. Soft drinks are free for bottoms.

And while you can’t turn down a fuck per se, I think fisting, DP, etc needs to be negotiated. I didn’t see as much…standard fuck and go on to the next. Everyone speaks some mix of German, Dutch, English, plus others, but very little needs to be communicated with words.

It sounds kind of hot

[Quote] Soft drinks are free for bottoms.

Aww. Sweet.

Yuck

bump

What is the appeal of this?

Is it for unattractive people who would not be able to have sex if their faces were visible?

This is how HIV will evolve to evade Prep. We can't have nice things

From the link at r4 "The Horse Market SF is a private event for all male identified persons"

Can't wait for Elliott Page to attend one of these.

MARY 🙄 R34

[Quote] What is the appeal of this?

I wouldn't attend this but I've had my joys of depravity.

There's depravity and then there's human assembly line.

R33 It filters out the people who openly talk about these things so we don’t have to associate with them.

This is why we hate us.

Sarah Jessica Parker can be the Grand Marshall for the parade, and lead the trot through the Castro.

I can’t believe there’s a shortage of tops!

Every time I say on DL there are way more bottoms, I get excoriated because “most are vers and can do both” Which is generally false. I guess bottoms don’t like to hear that they are a dime a dozen.

I’m a top but I’m only 6” erect.

I stayed HIV- so I could watch this shit happen?

These days I go by the rule that all gay/bi/str8 men are HIV+

[quote] Soft drinks are free for bottoms.

I'm going for the free Sprite.

I just can't wait until HMSF! I'll get bred like a mare all weekend long!

***whinnies appreciatively***

It's fascinating to me that the kink scene in US gay culture so often returns to fantasies of early childhood--pretending you're a puppy, pretending you're a horse, playing dress-up--and yet justifies it by making it all about sex.

Sometimes I wonder if the actual sex is not as much the point of it as the return to childhood fantasy is.

R43 you are in fact a stallion, you are larger than average. Harry Reems had 6 inches.

Most men who say they have 7 have 5.

I bet in reality this is just a gay version of the orgy from It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia