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Keanu Reeves is not gay, right?

He's had plenty of girlfriends and never seriously tied to a guy romantically. I think the evidence is there that he's just a quirky (and maybe smelly) straight guy.

By the way he's finally beginning to lose his looks.

by Anonymousreply 195January 28, 2022 8:30 PM

Not gay. Mom would see him back in the 1980's making out with a girl near the place she worked while studying for the bar.

by Anonymousreply 1August 10, 2021 12:35 PM

Does anyone care at this point? He’s like almost 60. The straights can keep him.

by Anonymousreply 2August 10, 2021 12:50 PM

He is dating a pretty average or even below average looking woman. From all accounts I’ve read, he is a shy, but nice man. I think if he was gay he would own it and by dating an average woman seems like he has nothing to prove like other closet cases who go for beautiful age inappropriate females.

by Anonymousreply 3August 10, 2021 1:22 PM

He is secretly married to David Geffen

by Anonymousreply 4August 10, 2021 1:50 PM

He still looks good.

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by Anonymousreply 5January 13, 2022 5:05 AM

He is beautiful. Very akin to Lisa Bonet. So exquisitely beautiful that age can’t touch them.

by Anonymousreply 6January 13, 2022 5:11 AM

Most of you are fat and fugly as sin.

by Anonymousreply 7January 13, 2022 6:32 AM

Right, he is.

by Anonymousreply 8January 13, 2022 6:41 AM

[Quote]He is beautiful. Very akin to Lisa Bonet. So exquisitely beautiful that age can’t touch them.

Are you crazy? Yes, I think you're crazy.

by Anonymousreply 9January 13, 2022 8:28 AM

I never thought he was gay.

by Anonymousreply 10January 13, 2022 12:31 PM

He farts alot.

by Anonymousreply 11January 13, 2022 12:39 PM

He used to seem like a real dick but he appears to have aged well and seems very sweet and humble.

by Anonymousreply 12January 13, 2022 1:10 PM

R6 He lost his looks completely. He was really beautiful as young man. Now, he is still lean, but face has lost all the beauty.

And, like for many other Hollywood celebrities with gay rumors, I wouldn't be so sure that he is gay. People tend to think that every unmarried guy who is older than 30 is gay. While it is not true.

by Anonymousreply 13January 13, 2022 1:16 PM

My family is very mixed. Keanu is starting to look like a great uncle of mine in his 60s. Scraggly beard doesn't help. He was absolutely beautiful in his youth. I'm not a model myself.

by Anonymousreply 14January 13, 2022 1:17 PM

For what it's worth I am convinced Keanu is gay. And I myself was the cutest mixed race twink when younger.

by Anonymousreply 15January 13, 2022 1:22 PM

Gay or straight he needs that awful beard styled. Other than that he’s still one handsome dude.

by Anonymousreply 16January 13, 2022 1:55 PM

I don’t get gay from him. So so beautiful when he was young. Would look better now if he groomed. Agree he seems like a kind but quirky guy.

by Anonymousreply 17January 13, 2022 1:59 PM

He looks kinda like Severus Snape now. But I had a real crush on him when I was a teen. I don’t think he’s gay. Maybe just has intimacy issues.

by Anonymousreply 18January 13, 2022 2:03 PM

I think he’s still gorgeous.

by Anonymousreply 19January 13, 2022 2:06 PM

Alex Winter was more fuckable in the Bill and Ted days.

Keanu was lovely but he came across as passive and more someone to look at rather than dig into.

by Anonymousreply 20January 13, 2022 2:06 PM

Keanu is a very nice looking chap and was engaged to a woman who died. People think he's possibly gay because of the Idaho movie. It was River Phoenix who had sex with a man to do research for the role.

by Anonymousreply 21January 13, 2022 2:10 PM

Keanu is not a gay.

by Anonymousreply 22January 13, 2022 2:47 PM

Keanu is 57 and still looks like a movie star! He's not gay. Leave this man alone.

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by Anonymousreply 23January 13, 2022 2:52 PM

He never had a gayface. Not gay.

by Anonymousreply 24January 13, 2022 2:54 PM

He's ugly and weird. The obese fraus in this thread can keep him.

by Anonymousreply 25January 13, 2022 3:10 PM

His looks went south a long time ago, he's old and worn out now.

by Anonymousreply 26January 13, 2022 3:30 PM

Needs a decent haircut and shave, then I’ll decide if he’s loosing his looks

by Anonymousreply 27January 13, 2022 3:38 PM

Alexandra Grant is a M to F, isn't she?

by Anonymousreply 28January 13, 2022 3:43 PM

Not gay, but likely Aspergers is my guess.

Gay, straight, neuro diverse or typical, i adore him

by Anonymousreply 29January 13, 2022 4:08 PM

I'm in the minority here who firmly believes he's probably bisexual. Too many first and second-hand accounts to ignore. I also believe millennials and, especially, zoomers could learn from boomers and Gen Xers how to pry into celebrities and private lives and not fall for obvious PR decoys.

by Anonymousreply 30January 13, 2022 4:42 PM

I don’t think he’s gay.

I’ve only read good things about him. I remember an article about all the celebrities loading up on free swag that they had at events and they said he was the only one who didn’t partake in anything. He also donated most of his current Matrix charity to leukemia research. He’s a good guy.

by Anonymousreply 31January 13, 2022 6:35 PM

I also think he's a good guy...and a gay.

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by Anonymousreply 33January 13, 2022 8:50 PM

He strikes me as asexual. He's always been physically beautiful, especially when young, but just didn't have any sex appeal to me. I wouldn't be surprised to learn he's bi, but probably doesn't fuck anyone much.

by Anonymousreply 34January 14, 2022 12:01 AM

Moronic thread

by Anonymousreply 35January 14, 2022 12:06 AM

Didn't he date someone in Dogstar?

by Anonymousreply 36January 22, 2022 1:06 PM

[quote] by dating an average woman seems like he has nothing to prove like other closet cases who go for beautiful age inappropriate females.

I for one don't feel addressed at all.

by Anonymousreply 37January 22, 2022 1:25 PM

R21 their baby died, I think it was stillborn.

A while later, she died in a traffic accident rumored to have been suicide.

by Anonymousreply 38January 22, 2022 1:27 PM

All of you seem to forget he got ugly and bloated for a good five years.

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by Anonymousreply 39January 22, 2022 1:42 PM

I’d blow him.

by Anonymousreply 40January 22, 2022 1:43 PM

Young Keanu

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by Anonymousreply 41January 22, 2022 1:49 PM

25 year old Keanu being very shy and charming:

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by Anonymousreply 42January 22, 2022 1:53 PM

Some frau friends dragged me to a Dogstar show at a small club back in the day. He was stunning in person. The band sucked, though. He walked through the crowd at one point after the show, passed very near us, and smiled at me and said “hey, how’s it going” or something like that. I had never given him much thought before that, but I just about melted. Charisma!! Of course, the fraus I was with were then convinced he must be gay because he didn’t even look at them, only me. I chalked it up to him distancing himself from all the desperate women who were creaming their panties over him.

Back on topic, I have never really thought he was GAY…maybe has dabbled? I dunno, he seems like the type who wouldn’t be closeted, especially at this age.

by Anonymousreply 43January 22, 2022 2:06 PM

I think he is truly bi. Before this gf, didn't he have a boyfriend for a couple of years?

by Anonymousreply 44January 22, 2022 2:18 PM

I mean we know for sure he had sex with Gus van Saints and David Geffen ect, right?

by Anonymousreply 45January 22, 2022 2:20 PM

no we don't know that.

by Anonymousreply 46January 22, 2022 2:23 PM

He was truly beautiful in his younger years.

by Anonymousreply 47January 22, 2022 2:26 PM

He’s a very sweet and down to earth man. He’s a good man which is rare in Hollywood. He used to be gorgeous in his younger days but still looks good and in shape. Def straight

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by Anonymousreply 48January 22, 2022 2:30 PM

My Own Private Idaho

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by Anonymousreply 49January 22, 2022 2:34 PM

bi dabbler. and i agree...beard needs to be styled and haircut. but he;s earned however he wants to groom.

by Anonymousreply 50January 22, 2022 2:35 PM

I think he's unique, racially and sexually. He's Keanusexual.

by Anonymousreply 51January 22, 2022 2:37 PM

He's not gay, but I can see why so many gay men WANT him to be. He's handsome, quiet, not overtly homophobic or a pussy hound. It is easy to project on him anything you want.

by Anonymousreply 52January 22, 2022 2:38 PM

As long as he is happy is all that matters. I found him cute when he was younger but not so much now. I probably would with a make-over though.

by Anonymousreply 53January 22, 2022 2:45 PM

^ He's just waiting for the right gal, right frau?

He's bisexual, likely pansexual. He even dated a trans woman.

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by Anonymousreply 54January 22, 2022 2:48 PM

Who did he date who’s trans?

by Anonymousreply 55January 22, 2022 2:50 PM

There is a Keanu loon frau replying to her own comment over and over again. There have been years of rumors about him been closeted and how it has affected his acting. If he is straight so is Leo and the reason is because they both tend to have this closed off persona that was probably affected due to years of been in the closet. I remember reading at a credible site that Keanu had a longtime boyfriend. The understanding among those that have followed Hollywood gossip for years is that he is bisexual or gay and it has been discussed since the early 90s. It has nothing to do with him staring in a movie with river Phoenix. The chick that died was not his official girlfriend more like a hookup. It was discussed he never wanted kids.

by Anonymousreply 56January 22, 2022 2:53 PM

R54 But does kissing a post-op transexual really make you "gay?" At that point isn't it a woman? Wouldn't that mean he is attracted to women?

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by Anonymousreply 57January 22, 2022 2:55 PM

R55 frau he was pictured on a date with a famous trans celeb. You can Google it. It seems you know less about him than I do. You are embarrassing yourself.

by Anonymousreply 58January 22, 2022 2:56 PM

R38, she died after Marilyn Manson kicked her out of his house party and forced her to drive away under influence. I personally get a dark vibe from Keanu.

by Anonymousreply 59January 22, 2022 3:09 PM

Keanu along with Jake and Leo are all puzzling when it comes to trying to determine what their sexual preferences are.

by Anonymousreply 60January 22, 2022 4:05 PM

He has been rumored to have been involved with his Dogstar bandmate Robert Mailhouse (who is/was also a small time actor)

by Anonymousreply 61January 22, 2022 5:50 PM

I cannot stand the word preference when discussing a gay or lesbian person. I suppose a bisexual person might have a preference of one gender over the other. But preference indicates choice and that is NOT orientation.

by Anonymousreply 62January 22, 2022 6:05 PM

I've told this story before here:

In the '90s, I had a very good-looking male friend, tall, tan and blond. He capitalized on his sex appeal by taking out an ad on Craiglist as an escort. He was a top.

One of his clients, he told me years later, was Keanu Reeves. He said the first time Keanu came over, he made my friend come outside first while Keanu inspected him from inside his car.

My friend was a hooker, but not a liar. I believe him.

by Anonymousreply 63January 22, 2022 6:06 PM

R63 I never believe virtually anything I read on the internet, but I want to believe that. And fervently pray the sex tape will some day be released.

by Anonymousreply 64January 22, 2022 6:51 PM

I respect him for not being a media whore and keeping his relationships private. He's so private that people can just project whatever they want onto him. I think like many, he likely slept for roles and did some gay4pay stuff to get his name in Hollywood. But whether he's gay or even bisexual is hard to say. There's no evidence. And no, his friendship with River Phoenix is not really evidence. Both played up the homoeroticism for the press. Maybe River liked Keanu more than a friend since he rewrote the script of My Own Private Idaho to have the love confession. But it's not known if Keanu reciprocated. Both had girlfriends at the time too. Keanu is so likable that I don't feel the need to pressure someone like him to come out. He's not pathetic like Leonardo DiCaprio who shows off his new model every week.

by Anonymousreply 65January 22, 2022 11:10 PM

Very well said R65. Very reasonable! 👍

by Anonymousreply 66January 24, 2022 4:28 AM

River Phoenix is a prime example of DL projection. He’s been dead for nearly 3 decades (insane) if he was gay if would’ve come out already.

by Anonymousreply 67January 24, 2022 4:37 AM

Robert Mailhouse and another older guy were both supposedly long-term. I believe those. The River Phoenix stuff was mostly fanfic. Then there was the ballet dancer in Toronto whose performances Keanu attended multiple times and got defensive when asked, saying ballet dancers are "athletic as Michael Jordan". Don't know what to make of the Geffen story, but you can't have smoke without a fire. And this was pre-internet days and was mentioned even on his own Vanity Fair profile.

Dating the transsexual was bold and remember thinking then he was inching his way out, but it didn't happen.

by Anonymousreply 68January 24, 2022 5:18 AM

He looks so much hotter with shorter hair and clean-shaven. Many straight-ish men don't seem to understand that their hair is another body part and needs to be cleaned and groomed if it grows long. The longer it is, the more attention and care you have to give to it. Shampooing, combing, de-tangling, conditioning, protective styling, etc. It's a lot of work. Women could never get away with have their hair unkempt. But alas many women I meet do go crazy over long hair on men though and it blows my mind because some of these guys have gross, dirtiest-looking hair. Keanu has a beautiful face and I hate he hides it with grimy long hair and beards. When he does groom his hair which adds texture and bounce and is clean-shaven he can look great.

by Anonymousreply 69January 24, 2022 10:43 PM

He made his nut playing an idiot, like many American movie stars. They basically play total morons and the masses embrace them. Jim Carrey is another, but he didn't have Reeve's looks. I think he's handsome, but certainly not someone I'd pass out over if I met him in person.

by Anonymousreply 70January 24, 2022 10:58 PM

Street trade Keanu.

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by Anonymousreply 71January 24, 2022 11:09 PM

David Geffen, Gus Van Sant, Ron Nyswaner and Bernardo Bertolucci most likely banged young twink Keanu.

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by Anonymousreply 72January 24, 2022 11:15 PM

Gosh it always amazes me how many Hollywood stars are secretly gay or bisexual according to the insiders on DL. Such insight!

by Anonymousreply 73January 24, 2022 11:28 PM

I can't remember Keanu ever steaming up the screen with a female co-star.

by Anonymousreply 74January 24, 2022 11:28 PM

R69 you do realize its 2022 and Keanu is 60 and most of the hair, and the beard, are there to visually re-sculpt his face is as to make some visible connection to his glory years for old twats like yourself who have no visual literacy, and forget that time marches one. Keanu is OLD and the hair is DYED (what is his) and mostly a weave.

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by Anonymousreply 75January 24, 2022 11:42 PM

time marches on.

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by Anonymousreply 76January 24, 2022 11:43 PM

I think he dabbled in some same-sex stuff, but he’s basically straight with an open boundary. If he were gay I don’t think he’d hide it.

I think he’s still very handsome.

by Anonymousreply 77January 24, 2022 11:53 PM

he lost his looks ages ago.

by Anonymousreply 78January 24, 2022 11:54 PM

R77 you type dumb and your comment is all over the place.

by Anonymousreply 79January 25, 2022 12:07 AM

Interview with Colbert just 11 days ago. Still young and very attractive. Note that Stephen Colbert is only 57 but looks much much older than Keanu

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by Anonymousreply 80January 25, 2022 12:17 AM

Yes he's handsome but he doesn't look young. To my eyes. Also he is jittery like he has DTs or something.

by Anonymousreply 81January 25, 2022 12:20 AM

Men who have sex with other men consensually, repeatedly and seek it out are not "straight." Someone as goodlooking as him in his youth would have no shortage of men and women who would want to pleasure him.

by Anonymousreply 82January 25, 2022 12:24 AM

I didn’t realize how different he sounds now. I’m used to the slightly valley accent. I do think a shave and slight haircut would do wonders.

by Anonymousreply 83January 25, 2022 2:47 AM

He’s one person I can’t figure out. Usually my gaydar is always correct, but with him I just can’t tell.

by Anonymousreply 84January 25, 2022 2:49 AM

He is bi….stayed at the Parliament House in Orlando before he started filming PARENTHOOD….

by Anonymousreply 85January 25, 2022 2:52 AM

He had a Canadian accent originally. It does slip out at times. I've read the Southern California accent was influenced by Ontarians.

by Anonymousreply 86January 25, 2022 2:53 AM

Keanu is mostly straight but did use the casting couch with gay directors, and studio executives early in on his career. He was very strategic starting in his late teens to hook up with powerful men in the movie industry. I know this as someone related to him told me about this. I think it might have messed him up a bit. I was in shock that he was so strategic and calculating early on in his career. Those rumors you heard about him having a relationship with David Geffen weren’t rumors!

by Anonymousreply 87January 25, 2022 2:57 AM

Didn't he come from a broken home with a deadbeat absent mom and single mom? I mean his life seemed messed up and that can make you ambitious and willing to trade to get to the top. He had the looks and interest in the arts but probably lacked the money. Unlike other actors who may be motivated by fame and greed, Keanu seems to genuinely love acting though he's not very good.

by Anonymousreply 88January 25, 2022 3:03 AM

Keanu gave an interview recently saying he lived on Hazleton Avenue in Toronto when he was growing up. This is the best street in Toronto’s most expensive neighborhood (price per sq ft) - Yorkville. I was kind of shocked to hear this. A 2000sqft house would easily sell for $6million CAD. Even thirty years ago it was an expensive street. I don’t think his parents were deadbeats or they were on social assistance.

by Anonymousreply 89January 25, 2022 3:33 AM

I think he's Cis.

by Anonymousreply 90January 25, 2022 4:40 AM

There was a puff piece about him in Esquire magazine recently. It was all about what a nice, good, special person he is. It featured quotes from his co-stars (all of them female: Martha Plimpton, Sandra Bullock, Winona Ryder) saying what a unique and wonderful person he is. It didn't mention a love interest. It just talked about how hard he works and what a great guy he is.

Wasn't there a big deal about him having a gray haired girlfriend? He went to some event with a fugly woman named Alexandra Grant, who he'd known for a long time had "collaborated" on a couple of books with. Are they romantically involved? Just friends? Who knows? Who cares? I do remember what a ruckus it caused when he was seen with her: "oh my God! Keanu Reeves has a girlfriend with GRAY HAIR! How adorable and sweet!"

There's a note on his Wikipedia page that's pretty funny. It states that "Meg Tilly, Grant's friend, stated in July 2020 that "I remember a couple of years ago, about a year and a half ago, Grant said, "Keanu Reeves is my boyfriend,'" and "Grant had gone to a lot of events with him in the past. It’s just suddenly surfaced that he’s been dating her for several years." Actually, it's JENNIFER TILLY who is a friend of Grant's. And if Grant actually said "Keanu Reeves is my boyfriend" then she sounds like a real dipshit. At any rate, he doesn't seem any more "attached" to anyone than he ever did.

He's not the beautiful man he used to be. I guess his looks aren't that bad. But the stringy hair and the beard....they don't become him.

by Anonymousreply 91January 25, 2022 5:00 AM

Take it for what it's worth but I used to know a group of eldergays here in Toronto who fondly remembered his days of working at a restaurant on Baldwin Street (I forgot the name, it was some Middle Eastern place) before he made it to Hollywood. At the time he had a couple of sugardaddies who were "generous". Doesn't necessarily means he was/is gay but they were helping with his bills, so to speak.

by Anonymousreply 92January 25, 2022 5:29 AM

What about the stories that he farts constantly. No one wants to be around a farter.

by Anonymousreply 93January 25, 2022 6:53 AM

He's been on the casting couch. Every person in TV or Movies had to do something sexual they didn't want. The field is too competitive. It goes with the territory. It is similar to the way a lot of hookers have sex with male customers but are actually lesbians.

Keanu is not gay. If he were, we would know it by now. Fellow actors won't discuss it openly because they all had to do it. Even in a tell all book, a "straight man" will not be looked upon favorably for whoring himself to a man. Most take it to their graves. Directors won't discuss it because they could be sued.

by Anonymousreply 94January 25, 2022 7:36 AM

R84 I guess because he doesn't have a gay lisp when he talks and he doesn't act like a queen with his hands you can't tell.

by Anonymousreply 95January 25, 2022 11:20 AM

R87 "mostly straight" is another word for bisexuals. R94 you have never heard of bisexual men? You sound naive and dumb.

by Anonymousreply 96January 25, 2022 11:25 AM

[quote] He strikes me as asexual.

We have never seen any sign of a penis.

by Anonymousreply 97January 25, 2022 12:03 PM

Actors who go Hollywood are usually coached to sound less gay and act less flaming. They been doing that since films incorporated sound. I bet a lot of silent male actors had strong gay voices.

by Anonymousreply 98January 25, 2022 12:25 PM

Al Pacino admitted he was a male hustler and Marlon Brando admitted to sleeping with men. But I figure their choice of films and highbrow artist image made them less likely to care. Keanu, Tom Cruise, Matt Damon and Will Smith will likely not admit to being gay or bi because of they make big budget popcorn flicks and audience is mainstream, lowest common denominator.

by Anonymousreply 99January 25, 2022 12:31 PM

R98 which Colton Haynes talked about recently. How depressing.

R99 Will may as well after the mess Jada's made with her Red Table show.

by Anonymousreply 100January 25, 2022 12:50 PM

Al Pacino admitted he had been a male hustler? Really? When R99?

by Anonymousreply 101January 25, 2022 3:23 PM

I think Will is messsexual, not gay or bi.

by Anonymousreply 102January 25, 2022 3:24 PM

I think Keanu is just not that into sex so I can see him experimenting with guys but he's straight. He was handsome but not sexy imo. I've had a few guys who I found out later wanted to hook up with me but I hadn't a clue until they told me much later. They didn't know how to flirt, at all. They were both Virgos.

by Anonymousreply 103January 25, 2022 4:07 PM

Here’s the vintage gossip:

“Dirt-bisexual; has terrible body odor; he was once asked to leave an outdoor cafe because of it; used to bring boyfriend to the set of the original 'Matrix' movie”

“ Reeves, Keanu. May be a FOD, although there are many conflicting reports on this. Hygienically challenged. Never graduated from high school. Supposed drug use. No one home upstairs, but it's a hell of a climb up the staircase. In person, a nice, sweet, unassuming guy who is very generous with his money, both to the crews of his films as well as to charities. Reportedly becoming increasingly withdrawn due to a series of personal tragedies. Linked with Carrie-Anne Moss, Keanu Reeves, and Michael Stipe.”

by Anonymousreply 104January 25, 2022 6:01 PM

[quote]He's not the beautiful man he used to be. I guess his looks aren't that bad. But the stringy hair and the beard....they don't become him.

It’s like he purposely makes himself ugly with that long hair and beard. When he cuts his hair and shaves he looks great.

by Anonymousreply 105January 25, 2022 6:14 PM

[quote]What about the stories that he farts constantly. No one wants to be around a farter.

I’ve never heard this about Keanu. I have heard this about Leo D. though. Are you sure you aren’t confusing them?

by Anonymousreply 106January 25, 2022 6:16 PM

[Quote]you have never heard of bisexual men? You sound naive and dumb.

R96 Nobody appreciates idiots who just come on to unnecessarily flame at other people. Say something meaningful or get the fuck off the thread! Ya MORON!

by Anonymousreply 107January 25, 2022 6:17 PM

R75 Right? These old queens wanna hold actors to impossible standards. A 60 year old who looks 60 does not mean he aged horribly or is hideous. It just means he is not 20 anymore, he's 60!

It must be a nightmare to age in public.

I'd rather he wear a weave and grow facial hair than destroy his looks with ghoulish plastic surgery.

He is a handsome 60 year old man. And I'm pretty sure most of you queens wouldn't turn him down if you had a shot at him. But you know it aint happening because he's not gay. Let it go.

by Anonymousreply 108January 25, 2022 6:26 PM

I’m really impressed with his ability to use the casting couch at such a young age. I was terrified my religious parents would find out when I was in my teens.

by Anonymousreply 109January 25, 2022 6:29 PM

Keanu is who Keanu is, He is just" living his life his life on his terms"

Keanu has the Freedom to do this..."FREE SPIRIT"


by Anonymousreply 110January 25, 2022 6:30 PM

Keanu didn't have a relationship with his dad. So that's probably one reason he gave no shit about the casting couch. In fact his life story probably got him sugar daddies who felt bad and wanted to help him like Geffen.

by Anonymousreply 111January 25, 2022 6:40 PM

R23 Fuck off fat cunt frau. Like saying someone might be gay is offensive, homophobic cunt. Go shove chetos up your fishy cunt.

by Anonymousreply 112January 25, 2022 6:43 PM

[quote]which Colton Haynes talked about recently. How depressing.

Why? Gayvoice is cringe and embarrassing.

by Anonymousreply 113January 25, 2022 6:43 PM

R109 Keanu's father split when he was very young. His mother was married 4 times so she would have been in no position to give him advice on morality.

One of his stepfathers was a Broadway and Hollywood director, so I'm sure he schooled Keanu on "the biz." He's never been a strong actor. He had to know that "the couch" was his only path to success.

I also would not be surprised if he did some gay for pay.

But I don't see him outing any of the guys who gave him his early start (some of whom are probably married).

Everyone knows he is a kinda quirky guy. What good would it do him to lie about being gay or bisexual?

I think he'd come out if he was gay or bi. It would not impact his career one bit. His fans would still love him.

by Anonymousreply 114January 25, 2022 6:49 PM

R112 Nobody said there was a problem being gay. Stop being so defensive you thin-skinned fairy! HAHAHA

There is a lot wrong with accusing someone of being dishonest about their life. He is being his true and authentic self as far as we know. Why don't you stop lying on this man.

Although a lot of you flakes like to think everybody is lying because you lied so many years (and are probably still lying) about who you really are, he doesn't need to hide who he is. And unless you have proof he's lying why don't you go fuck yourself.

by Anonymousreply 115January 25, 2022 6:56 PM

Oh fuck yourself r115. You have no idea how Hollywood works

by Anonymousreply 116January 25, 2022 6:58 PM

R108, at least get his age right... he’s 57.

by Anonymousreply 117January 25, 2022 6:59 PM

R115 is unhinged.

by Anonymousreply 118January 25, 2022 7:00 PM

R116 Why don't YOU fuck yourself! You have no idea how THE WORLD works! Lying is still lying wherever it happens! Shit for brains!

by Anonymousreply 119January 25, 2022 7:06 PM

[quote]Robert Mailhouse and another older guy were both supposedly long-term.

He dated a woman friend of mine so either he's bi or straight. I only spoke to him once during that time.

[quote]Every person in TV or Movies had to do something sexual they didn't want. The field is too competitive.

If only reality was really that interesting.

Outside of that: I do agree with the fact that we live in the age where information travels at light speed. If at any point he was engaging in sexual relations with a man in the past decade or so there would have been a credible source about it.

by Anonymousreply 120January 25, 2022 7:06 PM

r119 you have proven with your comments you are a troll and an idiot.

by Anonymousreply 121January 25, 2022 7:08 PM

R117 Yes BITCH, we all know Keanu is 57. If you read the thread I was specifically responding to the posters who said he is "almost" 60. It's called rounding. Ever heard of it?

Quit nitpicking and find something meaningful to add. You coulda saved that shit.

by Anonymousreply 122January 25, 2022 7:10 PM

[quote] If at any point he was engaging in sexual relations with a man in the past decade or so there would have been a credible source about it.

No, there wouldn't have been. Not everybody lives their lives online. There are plenty of same-sex hookups that stay private, just like there are many opposite-sex hookups that stay private.

by Anonymousreply 123January 25, 2022 7:10 PM

R121 and you have proven you are a moron with incredibly thin skin!

by Anonymousreply 124January 25, 2022 7:11 PM

Just stop r124. Why get so defensive about an actor being gay or bi? It's ridiculous.

by Anonymousreply 125January 25, 2022 7:12 PM

R125 Why fucking attack other posters? This isn't even about Keanu. Fuck him. You are just being an asshole!

You get what you give, you piece of shit!

by Anonymousreply 126January 25, 2022 7:14 PM

[quote]There are plenty of same-sex hookups that stay private, just like there are many opposite-sex hookups that stay private.

Nah. If you fucked Keanu Reeves, you would say something. No one particularly cares about NDAs. There would have been a credible comment, somewhere, anywhere at this point from someone who knew someone first hand or who was that person directly. It's hard to "live your life offline" when your life is tied to other people who do. It's even more complicated when you're a celeb.

by Anonymousreply 127January 25, 2022 7:14 PM

[quote] It's hard to "live your life offline" when your life is tied to other people who *do.

*Should have been who don't.

Hate to double post but since it's relevant, fun to read and supports my point:

Here's the famous Keanu is nice thread from Twitter from a while back. There are a few threads (I know Matt Cherry has another one) that detailed, from hundreds of people who have met him, their experiences with him because even if you're not online someone you know probably is and people just love to talk about these things even if you have remained silent about it.

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by Anonymousreply 128January 25, 2022 7:17 PM

R128 People love to talk about their encounters with stars. They are gonna share it with someone. And that someone will have to share it as well. This is how things get out.

by Anonymousreply 129January 25, 2022 7:29 PM

[quote]Nah. If you fucked Keanu Reeves, you would say something. No one particularly cares about NDAs. There would have been a credible comment, somewhere, anywhere at this point from someone who knew someone first hand or who was that person directly. It's hard to "live your life offline" when your life is tied to other people who do. It's even more complicated when you're a celeb.

So where are all the women who fucked straight male celebs spilling their guts online? Chris Evans, for example, is a total pussyhound but you never hear about his hookups. Things can still stay private.

by Anonymousreply 130January 25, 2022 7:38 PM

R130 I'm pretty sure some of those bitches are talking, but is it really a headline? Who cares? Unless he knocked one up or gave her an STD it is not gonna get any traction, even if she looks like a baboon.

by Anonymousreply 131January 25, 2022 7:41 PM

But r131 the point is a lot of people's hookups don't make it to the internet.

by Anonymousreply 132January 25, 2022 7:43 PM

R5, I was about to say the same thing

by Anonymousreply 133January 25, 2022 7:44 PM

R131 maybe he has gotten a vasectomy after his first pregnancy scare?

by Anonymousreply 134January 25, 2022 7:46 PM

R3, I never knew what the fuss was all about until this happened.....

[quote] He is dating a pretty average or even below average looking woman.

That's when I started liking him and thinking he's an okay guy

by Anonymousreply 135January 25, 2022 7:48 PM

R132 That is the point I am making. Of course ALL hookup stories don't make the internet, but that doesn't mean it isn't being talked about offline. Believe it or not most people don't spend their lives online. Also, how would you know it made the internet unless it gains traction? Those stories are not gonna pick up.

My point is not about on or offline, but that although everyone doesn't talk, a lot of people DO! Celebrity stories do get shared. If an "almost" 60 year old "straight identifying" celebrity is even occasionally having sex with other men, that information will be credibly somewhere in the public sphere. Everyone doesn't go quietly into that good night. lol

by Anonymousreply 136January 25, 2022 8:00 PM

Wrong r136. There are hookup stories that may be shared with a small group of friends, but it doesn't spread like wildfire. I personally knew a male escort whose clients were Tim Robbins and Johnny Depp but you'll never see that online.

by Anonymousreply 137January 25, 2022 8:04 PM

[quote]Who cares? Unless he knocked one up or gave her an STD it is not gonna get any traction, even if she looks like a baboon.

Seriously, that stuff is out there if you look. Like you said, R131, it doesn't really get traction because "I dated/My friend/My friend's sister dated Chris Evans and he was perfectly nice" isn't that interesting and there are a few of those on Twitter. Also fans are psycho like with the most recent woman Henry Caville is "dating." As soon as she appeared she was attacked by them.

Also how do you know, R131, that he's a "total pussy hound?" It's very possible he's not having sex with as many people as you'd like to think he is. The Daily Mail has caught him out and about with women before (because that stuff gets online) even if those women haven't come forward.

There have been a couple of first hand accounts and some second hand accounts about Sebastian Stan here over the years. I'm sure they are other places too. I've never gone looking.

Point is: if you're a person who is sexually active over a long period of time with both sexes at some point, someone, will say something first hand or second hand if you're a celebrity.

He doesn't have that with men but he does with women.

by Anonymousreply 138January 25, 2022 8:05 PM

Chris Pine is gay or at the very least bi but there's nothing about him fucking guys that's really out there.

by Anonymousreply 139January 25, 2022 8:06 PM

[quote]Also how do you know, [R131], that he's a "total pussy hound?" It's very possible he's not having sex with as many people as you'd like to think he is.

I know people in the Boston area, which is where he's from.

by Anonymousreply 140January 25, 2022 8:07 PM

So a man can't be gay or bi because it doesn't reach the internet gossip mill? The above poster defending "there would be talk on the internet about it if he hooked up with guys" sounds like a PR plant.

There is a thing called discretion.

by Anonymousreply 141January 25, 2022 8:09 PM

R140 in anutha datalounge thread someone said that gerard butler is a pussyhound or has the image of one. Is that true?

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by Anonymousreply 142January 25, 2022 8:09 PM

I know nothing about Gerard Butler

by Anonymousreply 143January 25, 2022 8:10 PM

57 is closer to 60 than 22

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by Anonymousreply 144January 25, 2022 8:29 PM

R136 If the casting couch did happen in early days, the gentlemen auditioning Keanu would be elderly now and would not be bragging abouit it on twitter. In fact, that type of gentlemen are not bragging about it on social media today neither, it wouldn't be so great for their image.

by Anonymousreply 145January 25, 2022 8:29 PM

Guess these things only remain rumours and you never know, exscept in the case of Weinstein, when it wasn't always on voluntary basis.

by Anonymousreply 146January 25, 2022 8:31 PM

R107 pleasures herself to the latest cover of people magazine keanu reeves supposed "heterosexuality". She is probably a fat frau who thinks she has a chance with a slim keanu. Someone needs to let this bitch know she needs to have a dick.

by Anonymousreply 147January 25, 2022 9:54 PM

R122- are you off those meds? Lol

by Anonymousreply 148January 25, 2022 11:35 PM

Cut or uncut?

by Anonymousreply 149January 26, 2022 12:36 AM

R115 Fat cunt This is a gay forum, fuck off you homophobic frau cow.

by Anonymousreply 150January 26, 2022 12:47 AM

R118 It's poo shoes, I can tell by her unhinged paragraph long homophobic rants.

by Anonymousreply 151January 26, 2022 12:48 AM

R113 in your opinion.

R131 well we already know Chris has herpes.

R138 Henry's "gf" was "attacked" because she was being an asshole to fans on instagram.

by Anonymousreply 152January 26, 2022 1:26 AM

He swings both ways.

by Anonymousreply 153January 26, 2022 1:30 AM

I get the impression that he doesn't do much with either sex. He seems strangely asexual. He reminds me of Greta Garbo in that way. Her sexuality is being speculated on to this day. You hear all kinds of different things about her. One friend of her said "she was strictly, exclusively lesbian." Another friend said "she wasn't lesbian. She wasn't ANYTHING." I've always felt the latter is probably correct. Garbo didn't seem to be interested in sex one way or the other. Maybe she got bored by constantly being pursued sexually by both men and women. It seems she could take it or leave if, and she usually left it.

Keanu Reeves was on a talk show, I think it was Jay Leno, and Leno asked him "Have you ever been in love?" He looked startled, then sidestepped the question, not giving a yes or no answer. I don't think he has ever been in love. For all the gushing about how wonderful he is there seems to be something "missing" in him.

by Anonymousreply 154January 26, 2022 2:10 AM

R134, I can agree with that. I like him, he’s always been handsome, but he never seemed attainable. He’s kind of a remote type. Like Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp (never got his appeal myself) had more accessibility and sex appeal.

by Anonymousreply 155January 26, 2022 3:21 AM

Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp are white trailer park hot. Keanu looks more exotic (being part Asian) which adds to his mystique. In interviews, he's goofy as hell. So I don't get the "Keanu is depressed" meme. He's a grown man who can be happy by himself. Being introverted is seen as an issue by some.

by Anonymousreply 156January 26, 2022 3:51 AM

Keanu is always more handsome than Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp to me. Being classy, sweet, generous and mysterious make him even more attractive. I agree with some posters here that he appears to be asexual probably due to past sexual experiences and personal life unfortunate events.

by Anonymousreply 157January 26, 2022 4:04 AM

At his best Keanu Reeves was way more attractive than Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp.

by Anonymousreply 158January 26, 2022 4:39 AM

Besides Keanu, there's a dozens of actors who are more attractive than Brad Pitt and Johny Depp. I don't get the worship of those two anymore.

by Anonymousreply 159January 26, 2022 4:45 AM

Johnny Depp in his Kate Moss years, skinny and with his hair high off his head - he looked great when he did that. Great bone structure and exotic genetics just like Keanu.

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by Anonymousreply 160January 26, 2022 4:53 AM

Skinny Brad, in Johnny Guitar and Thema and Louise, great looking charming young man.

I'd say all three were equally handsome, occasionally, but rather of different genres.

I'll give you that Keanu looked stunning with a few different looks and in a few different eras - Point Break, Speed and 1st Matrix being top examples.

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by Anonymousreply 161January 26, 2022 4:57 AM

Johnny Depp only looked good in the 80s and early 90s. Brad Pitt only looked good in the 90s and early 2000s and got back to looking good in the late 2010s. Keanu consistently looked good from the 80s to the 2000s. All of them have issues with hygiene, shaving their patchy beards and cutting their grody hair. I think that at least helps dispels a lot of the gay speculation.

by Anonymousreply 162January 26, 2022 5:14 AM

Brad Pitt looks like he has herpes. Reeves has an innate reserve and class that shines through. Depp looks like the southern fried boy he is at heart, quirky and volatile.

by Anonymousreply 163January 26, 2022 3:41 PM

It's interesting to me that neither Keanu nor any of the women he's alleged to have dated have ever spoken of, or simply acknowledged being in a relationship. For example, a poster upthread says "he dated a friend of mine" but none of these women are talking. Matter fact, the only person who's ever mentioned being in any kind of relations with him is Gus Van Sant, albeit indirectly in a book with changed names where he talked about fucking him.

He and Mailhouse seem pretty close.

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by Anonymousreply 164January 26, 2022 8:29 PM

From an old DL thread back when we used to have "insiders" post here. This poster was one we considered reliable:

[quote]People very close to keanu know he is gay but they do not talk. His long-term boyfriends were Robert Mailhouse and Tiger Chen. He did some favors for them but no one can take too much of keanu, he is an alcoholic. Keanu is the definitive glass closet, although Jennifer Syme's relationship with him suggests some interest in women (and, in an awful way, that tragedy is probably how the general public rationalise his lack of a girlfriend).

I don't know who Tiger Chen is, but I'm intrigued by Mailhouse.

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by Anonymousreply 165January 26, 2022 8:41 PM

R156 I think some say he is depressed because of this one picture where he sits on that bench and looks on the ground(sad keanu meme). Then some people looked up his personal life and read how is ex died in a car crash and that she had a miscarriage while they were in a relationship. So they combined these two things and weird keanu fans came up with the story that he is forever depressed because of that incident. Someone on here on this site however once mentioned that he was allegedly not all too happy about the pregnancy because it was a typical case of rich guy being trapped. It would add up with how some on here described him as friendly and polite but not quite bright... very naive actually. Nowadays, he seems to live a happy bachelor life, far away from what Pitt and Depp went through recently, so I'd say he is actually far from depressed? By the way, combined with what has been written here, does that mean he is... bisexual? (allegedly)

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by Anonymousreply 166January 27, 2022 9:15 AM

As part of the Rob Lowe press that's been happening recently, it's been discussed that his wife used to date Keanu Reeves, and while they were dating she taught a teenage Gwyneth Paltrow how to give good blow jobs. GP has also talked about how cool she thought Sheryl Berkoff was, how she was dating her crush Keanu, etc. I don't think they'd need to drag his name into it if it wasn't true.

To me the bigger mystery here is how this average seeming woman managed to date and marry such attractive men.

by Anonymousreply 167January 27, 2022 10:31 AM

Personally I have stopped caring about Keanu Reeves.

He's not that good an actor and I can't remember how long it's been since I've been interested in seeing one of his movies.

If he's gay, being in the closet doesn't endear him to me.

If he's straight, I couldn't give a fuck.

If he's anything else, still in the closet so....

Speaking of Rob Lowe, let's just say #me too was catching up to him long before it was ever a meme, and that's why he married the "ordinary" wife.

Not everyone who beards is gay.

by Anonymousreply 168January 27, 2022 11:15 AM

I'm sure Rob Lowe is also bisexual. His lack of acting talent and painfully gorgeous looks would have made him the object of lust for many old queens in Hollywood. Just like Keanu, I'm sure he got off on that attention and used it to keep the roles coming. Unlike Keanu, Rob has no charisma and his attempts at being a leading man was a failure before TV rescued him. I swear he was sucking some dude on the sex tape (that's legal and available on the web). Unfortunately, the video quality is so grainy it can never be confirmed fully.

by Anonymousreply 169January 27, 2022 11:18 AM

According to DL these are the male stars that are gay or bisexual: Everyone

by Anonymousreply 170January 27, 2022 12:00 PM

R170 No, I think they said Liev Schreiber is straight

by Anonymousreply 171January 27, 2022 12:02 PM

The arts attracts the gay, the bi, minorities, independent women, the mentally ill and outcasts. And people who were "str8" would become more open to experimentation being around a lot of liberal gay men. Most of the Hollywood at a corporate level is run by straight businessmen though. But a lot of actors, dancers, visual artists and writers are LGBT.

Traditional straight men have more success in the white collar world as lawyers and CEOs and the blue collar world as construction workers and carpenters.

by Anonymousreply 172January 27, 2022 12:11 PM

R170 bisexuals don't exist on DL.

by Anonymousreply 173January 27, 2022 1:18 PM

[quote] Just like Keanu, I'm sure he got off on that attention and used it to keep the roles coming. Unlike Keanu, Rob has no charisma and his attempts at being a leading man was a failure before TV rescued him.

I think it's important to point out that Keanu's mother was a costume designer who even designed Dolly Parton's, Playboy Bunny (cover) outfit. I'm sure he's mentioned a few other famous people of the time who were around. Keanu's stepfather Paul Aaron, who was a Broadway director and directed movies of the week, didn't stay married to his mother for long but they both stayed in contact. He hired him as a PA and helped him get his green card to come to the US. In other words: he had some help and some exposure to the industry.

Rob Lowe's father helped hook him up with his first representation. I wouldn't say his attempts at being a leading man failed, as much as he crashed and burned his own career. Who knows where he would have been if not for that tape.

[quote]I swear he was sucking some dude on the sex tape (that's legal and available on the web). Unfortunately, the video quality is so grainy it can never be confirmed fully.

Row Lowe wasn't sucking a dude off on the tape. I don't think it was in question that he ever was except on Datalounge. If he was, his attitude towards it (he has called himself out about the incident even spoofing it) would have been different. That particular tape (with his former friend and another woman they met) isn't a secret shame he hides.

[quote]I think some say he is depressed because of this one picture where he sits on that bench and looks on the ground(sad keanu meme).

FWIW: people mostly ignored that he explained that day he was hungry, thinkin' and had some stuff going on at 2:37.

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by Anonymousreply 174January 27, 2022 2:20 PM

He was a beauty in his youth but now an AWG. And nothing wrong with that - much preferable than those Hollyewood freaks growing old ungracefully.

by Anonymousreply 175January 27, 2022 5:06 PM

[quote] Not gay, but likely Aspergers is my guess.

What in the world would make you "guess" he has Asperger's Syndrome? You must be the insane fucked up autism troll.

by Anonymousreply 176January 27, 2022 9:37 PM

There's nothing autistic about him. If you've watched interviews. He's very emotionally intelligent, very bubbly and laughs a lot and compliments his interviewers. He has a flirty and carefree demeanor. His voice is not monotone, he gives eye contact and he was not only an actor but also in rock bands.

by Anonymousreply 177January 27, 2022 9:39 PM

R177 did his publicist paid you to state that.

by Anonymousreply 178January 27, 2022 9:54 PM

R178 You can look up his interviews yourself. Actual autistic people would not be able to maintain the career he has. He does have good social skills and is polite. Most autistic people do not have good social skills and many come across as rude by mistake.

I know people like to make autism into some superpower and have it be "sexy." But most autistic people do better in programming, music, writing and art. Not acting where you get paid to be exposed to the world on camera and have to be diplomatic and have charm.

by Anonymousreply 179January 27, 2022 10:06 PM

[quote] I know people like to make autism into some superpower and have it be "sexy."

Who does that? Oh, somebody put up something about some autistic named "Greta" who thinks she has a "super power" but I doubt the general population feels that way. And who thinks autism is "sexy?" I never heard of anybody who thinks autism is "sexy."

by Anonymousreply 180January 27, 2022 10:31 PM

Keanu is a tough little Asian. Rob Lowe farts rainbows. It's nice but the movie going public wants to see a little macho in their man.

by Anonymousreply 181January 27, 2022 11:02 PM

R179 there are people who are socially awkward but not autistic and I believe Keanu falls into that category. He seems closed off during media interviews and he isn't that outgoing. I won't be surprised that he is an introvert. It is interesting that a good portion of actors are introverted. They can be a little more sociable when they need to be but they probably prefer been in their own world.

by Anonymousreply 182January 27, 2022 11:08 PM

Can we agree Keanu is cis(gender)?

by Anonymousreply 183January 27, 2022 11:10 PM

I don't see socially awkward with him. He just sounds like any other young North American dude who smokes a ton of pot. He's not educated or heavily media-trained but he's still diplomatic and well-spoken. He comes across as more authentic too. Not robotic like many actors especially those who started as child stars.

Most socially awkward people would wish to be able to speak in public with this much calmness and confidence.

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by Anonymousreply 184January 27, 2022 11:19 PM

A lot of people who are both ADHD and introverted get mistaken for autistic. Many actors are ADHD.

by Anonymousreply 185January 27, 2022 11:22 PM

[quote] Keanu is a tough little Asian. Rob Lowe farts rainbows. It's nice but the movie going public wants to see a little macho in their man.

Rob is also stuck-up and comes across as "I'm hotter than you, you mongrel!" Straight guys don't want to see a stuck-up fruit who's prettier than their girlfriend. Keanu can at least butch it up and do martial arts

by Anonymousreply 186January 27, 2022 11:25 PM

R180 There's this weird movement on the internet by some to make autism seem attractive and cool. Just like with bipolar and social anxiety disorder. "Sexy" I used to mean appealing and attractive not sexy in the literal sense. Most autistic people while sweet are not very attractive in their mannerisms, many actually put no effort in their looks and can be very annoying and rude. Most autistic people would not make good actors or models. They would be too bored with all the sitting still and be annoyed by the constant following of orders and changes in routine. It's almost impossible to get an autistic person to do something they don't want to do. Many high-functioning autistic people do make good programmers, researchers, artists and musicians because they have that ability to focus nonstop on their interests.

Autism was overdiagnosed in the 90s and 2000s. Many Aspergers people probably are not really autistic at all. Just introverted, socially awkward, suffering from trauma-induced anxiety or other conditions like ADHD, OCD or bipolar.

by Anonymousreply 187January 27, 2022 11:37 PM

R177 bubbly???

by Anonymousreply 188January 28, 2022 4:41 PM

Keanu has been gay like forever on this site, almost 20 years and now DL is saying he's straight? Or bi? Really?

by Anonymousreply 189January 28, 2022 5:12 PM

R188 He laughed a lot and smiled in early interviews and said goofy things. He's more reserved now because he's older and mature.

by Anonymousreply 190January 28, 2022 6:42 PM

Keanu is gay because he's not that good of an actor.

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by Anonymousreply 191January 28, 2022 6:55 PM

Adam Driver & Timothée Chalamet eat your hearts out.

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by Anonymousreply 192January 28, 2022 6:58 PM

Adam Driver looks like his mirror image , across the galaxy, in a world where his nose is bigger and bumpier.

by Anonymousreply 193January 28, 2022 8:26 PM

Adam Driver and Timothee Chalamet were never handsome. They may be able to act better though.

by Anonymousreply 194January 28, 2022 8:28 PM

James Duval looked a lot like Keanu Reeves and was basically the go-to for pretty airhead stoner roles in the 90s. I wish Nowhere was made in the 80s and we had Keanu in that nude shower scene.

by Anonymousreply 195January 28, 2022 8:30 PM
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