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Ben Barnes, Part XX

Wow. 20 threads. Technically not that impressive because even when you add them all up, you still only reach half Ben's age.

At least his age in years and wrinkles. The age betrayed by his evident maturity level. . . actually 20 fits quite perfectly.

They do grow up so fast.

by Anonymousreply 600August 3, 2021 2:46 PM

Boom!

by Anonymousreply 1August 1, 2021 4:48 PM

Ben does not have nearly enough wrinkles for a 40 year old. He looks closer to 20 and 40 so this is fitting

by Anonymousreply 2August 1, 2021 4:48 PM

I can’t link it but anyone saw the last insta post of the sleuth?

by Anonymousreply 3August 1, 2021 4:49 PM

R2 with all the filters. Does look 40. behaves like 10.

by Anonymousreply 4August 1, 2021 4:49 PM

Can’t wait for the big birthday when all the fangirls learn he is horrible. Pap walk on the horizon now BL is showing off his new gf. BB you are old and I’m already over your album and mystery project. I’m just here to watch it all burn.

by Anonymousreply 5August 1, 2021 4:50 PM

Look closer R2, he has crow's feet like crazy.

Anyway, 20 threads!!

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by Anonymousreply 6August 1, 2021 4:50 PM

Well, isn’t that the point? Yet another of JH’s very good friends giving him the cut direct. Do you not see the writing on the wall, Benny B? They see you as the leechy neighbor who she occasionally lets between her thighs. Needs must, and all that.

by Anonymousreply 7August 1, 2021 4:52 PM

Hoping I managed to link the post

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by Anonymousreply 8August 1, 2021 4:52 PM

The Sleuth is private.

by Anonymousreply 9August 1, 2021 4:53 PM

Someone at the end of last thread said they didn't think that Ben was aware of his Joshua tree fuckup. But, he was called out and tagged by the IG account @joshuatreehatesyou (now defunct), and people in the comments there said that they'd DMed him about it.

by Anonymousreply 10August 1, 2021 4:54 PM

Sorry for the previous mistake I mean, this.

It still doesn’t look like 33

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by Anonymousreply 11August 1, 2021 4:54 PM

R11 it does in high resolution

by Anonymousreply 12August 1, 2021 4:55 PM

R10 I dont think he reads his DM requests ever.

by Anonymousreply 13August 1, 2021 4:56 PM

Can somebody paraphrase the Sleuth?

by Anonymousreply 14August 1, 2021 4:59 PM

Will someone be able to upload what the sleuth posted? For the one who doesn’t have Instagram

by Anonymousreply 15August 1, 2021 4:59 PM

The Sleuth is probably private for a reason, but if there is relevant info, let us know.

by Anonymousreply 16August 1, 2021 5:01 PM

The sleuth post is about Julianne getting cozy with men during her trip in Europe. An actor posted a picture of Julianne in Italy without tagging her (looks like a romantic pic to me)

by Anonymousreply 17August 1, 2021 5:03 PM

Has anyone here ever tried to DM Ben?

by Anonymousreply 18August 1, 2021 5:03 PM

R11 oh shit I see 39. This changes things if that isn’t 33. If it isn’t 33 why wouldn’t he correct it by saying it’s not 33 and why is he hiding a 39 then?

by Anonymousreply 19August 1, 2021 5:06 PM

Also curious about the Sleuth info. Congrats on 20 threads people! Continue with the good work 💪 Maybe BB and the Ho will do another pap walk tomorrow, or we'll hear him singing in the background of one of her stories, then we'll have these threads at 40 in time for his 40th🙃

by Anonymousreply 20August 1, 2021 5:06 PM

Sorry, if I was on a boat with Lucas Bravo, I‘d eat him up unless the jumped overboard and I‘d probably even jump after him, but who wouldn‘t? Ben or no Ben? Since they are only FWBs.

by Anonymousreply 21August 1, 2021 5:06 PM

Are there BB fans here trying to discredit the 33?? Lol that pic in R11 is definitely doctored. The original pic definitely had a 33 stop embarrassing yourselves

by Anonymousreply 22August 1, 2021 5:07 PM

R18 I did and he didn’t get back, but I’m not Cindy and I don’t line his pockets so no surprise there. I think if he was untagging posts during montanagate he is reading DMs.

by Anonymousreply 23August 1, 2021 5:07 PM

The actor was not Lucas (that was in France) the actor in Italy was Drew fuller

by Anonymousreply 24August 1, 2021 5:07 PM

R24 I prefer Lucas lol

by Anonymousreply 25August 1, 2021 5:08 PM

There are multiple pics of it on Twitter and Instagram and it’s definitely a 33

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by Anonymousreply 26August 1, 2021 5:09 PM

Can we see this pic? With this drew? Man poor dougster she was just jumping from guy to guy on her European trip. BB I don’t care about your feelings.

by Anonymousreply 27August 1, 2021 5:09 PM

When he posted that pic every fan acc screenshots it and on some it looked like a 33, on other a 35 and 39

by Anonymousreply 28August 1, 2021 5:09 PM

R27 Doug was never a date situation.

by Anonymousreply 29August 1, 2021 5:09 PM

R18, but what did you DM?😉 I wonder if a person were to send him a special snowflake message about how wonderful he is and his singing and acting is so amazing, wonder if he would respond...

by Anonymousreply 30August 1, 2021 5:10 PM

Anyone can who as access to the sleuth account can post the pic?

by Anonymousreply 31August 1, 2021 5:10 PM

R18 Yeah, I did a little while back. I learned to play the Ben parts of Southbound on my 12-string (which required figuring it out w/my guitar teacher, since chords aren’t posted online), and pinged him to thank him for the inspo. He never even read it. I suspect he only reads DMs from people he follows, and everyone else goes into a general folder and gets ignored.

by Anonymousreply 32August 1, 2021 5:11 PM

You mean her on a balcony?

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by Anonymousreply 33August 1, 2021 5:11 PM

R30 I feel like there is what the fangirls are constantly doing so I doubt that would work.

R29 he was important enough for her to share his stories from his private account and have multiple days of content dedicated to how great he is. We don’t really know anything on that front.

by Anonymousreply 34August 1, 2021 5:12 PM

R30 Nope! Did that. The message remained unread.

by Anonymousreply 35August 1, 2021 5:12 PM

R32 if you wrote him, many will, and you can see if it was read and there R35 says it

by Anonymousreply 36August 1, 2021 5:13 PM

Does drew give off creeper vibes or is it just me? That was posted a long time ago. I’m still confused. Why would BB send all the secret emojis after she is being posted on some other dudes account?

by Anonymousreply 37August 1, 2021 5:14 PM

She isn’t tagged how did you find that? Or was she tagged and then untagged herself? What else is there that is not being shared? I think everything needs to be out there.

by Anonymousreply 38August 1, 2021 5:15 PM

R38 I just went to Drew‘s account and there it is.

by Anonymousreply 39August 1, 2021 5:17 PM

R36 yeah we know how messenger works

by Anonymousreply 40August 1, 2021 5:17 PM

R37 The chances of BB having seen that are slim. Who the eff is Drew Fuller, anyway? I don’t see him adding value to her brand. He’s a journeyman actor, and has a mere 100k followers.

by Anonymousreply 41August 1, 2021 5:17 PM

R41 Why would this picture mean anything? It‘s just a nice photo. Probably Drew was part of the same cruise, invited by the same PR/producer people.

by Anonymousreply 42August 1, 2021 5:18 PM

The message will only show as read if he accepts the message request. He can still see the message requests and read the message without accepting it but it was show as unread. So he might be seeing them just not accepting and responding to them. My hot blue check friend with multiple mutual acquaintances with him DMed him asking if he wanted to get waffles sometime and he never responded after a week so she unsent it lol

by Anonymousreply 43August 1, 2021 5:18 PM

His acting credits are shit but he does have more than BB. Someone should tag BB in the comments of that pic. Let him know what his gf is doing.

by Anonymousreply 44August 1, 2021 5:19 PM

R40 because Sylvia believed he did read messages about Joshua Tree and I don‘t

by Anonymousreply 45August 1, 2021 5:19 PM

Dear OP, FUCK OFF TROLL, STOP SPAMMING THIS SITE WITH THESE STUPID THREADS!

by Anonymousreply 46August 1, 2021 5:19 PM

The blind about Julianne shopping for a husband was when she was in Italy

by Anonymousreply 47August 1, 2021 5:20 PM

R46 Hi Cindy! 👋 Caps lock is unnecessary, we’re not vision-impaired. Bye, fraulein! 😘

by Anonymousreply 48August 1, 2021 5:22 PM

This is what was written on the sleuth post, there is several pics but I can’t link them. On July 5 Julianne was at a big dinner in Italy,some of the guests were the multimillionaire Balthazar Getty and members of his family, including his friend the actor Drew Fuller. On July 8 Julianne liked and commented on Drew pic. On July 9 Drew posted that romantic picture of Julianne without tagging her (she’s wearing her green dress that she wore in one of her posts) she quickly liked the pic (it was apparently taken when they were in Positano). For me it look like they got cozy during that Italian trip. On the same day he tagged Julianne in a story (I don’t have a screenshot sorry) it was that question « you’re sleeping and you’re hungry you go to your fridge … ». The blind item about her husband shopping was when she was in Italy. July 15 Jack unfollowed her. July 17 she liked Lucas Bravo post. He spend the evening with her and nina but only followed Julianne.

by Anonymousreply 49August 1, 2021 5:22 PM

R35 that's what I thought. Can't exactly fault him for not responding to fanmail DMs. I wouldn't either. And if he did respond to pretty young fangirls who DM him thirst traps (not even sure what to politely call it, but I'm sure you get my meaning), then I'm sure that would have gotten out there already. This guy really is an enigma. Makes for some fun speculation!

by Anonymousreply 50August 1, 2021 5:23 PM

R49 thank you! It enforces the trolling theory

by Anonymousreply 51August 1, 2021 5:24 PM

R50 Tbh, I didn’t expect a response. Maybe backnin the days of 20k followers, but the volume of DMs he gets now must be overwhelming. He’d have been more likely to see/respond to my comment in response to an actual Twitter post of his.

by Anonymousreply 52August 1, 2021 5:27 PM

Well Drew is friends with a billionaire and grew up in Newport, maybe he has family money.

by Anonymousreply 53August 1, 2021 5:27 PM

R49 wow thank you. So she was doing what we all thought she was doing. BB is looking real stupid now. So he is making himself look like a cuck to troll? What does he gain from that except hate?

by Anonymousreply 54August 1, 2021 5:27 PM

I would have loved to a be a fly on the wall when the Barnes (sans Ben) were discussing his new romance. Iirc Jack has a bachelor in medical sciences, and of course his father is a doctor specializing in psychopharmacology, would love to hear what they have to say about miss Ho curing her endometriosis with good vibes :)

by Anonymousreply 55August 1, 2021 5:28 PM

We really need a dossier

by Anonymousreply 56August 1, 2021 5:28 PM

R55 Haha! NPD would be my guess, or BPD at the very least.

by Anonymousreply 57August 1, 2021 5:30 PM

Well, Drew Fuller‘s wife or ex wife was not in that trip according to her insta.

by Anonymousreply 58August 1, 2021 5:33 PM

Jack works in advertising now, btw. Professionally, my world intersects with his.

by Anonymousreply 59August 1, 2021 5:35 PM

This is like a soap opera and a who done it all in one. Cindy this is totally addictive, you should get in the game and stop yelling/trolling us. You would probably be happier.

by Anonymousreply 60August 1, 2021 5:35 PM

R60 I have completely stopped watching TV. DL BB is the new binge.

by Anonymousreply 61August 1, 2021 5:38 PM

R11 The problem is it's obviously an enlarged copy of something Ben stole from Etsy. There's no number there originally, it's something added. And the fact that it's enlarged means A TON of artifacts wind up "diluting" the smaller clear image. Unfortunately, depending on how you attempt to resolve those artifacts to "remake" a clear image, you can get a different result. Personally, I've seen a BB, a 33, a 35, and now a 39 in my attempts. And there's no way to know which is correct cause it's a game of pictorial telephone. Only the original image holder knows how it started. And Ben's not saying anything to correct the accusations of 33, which was already pointed out as the problem.

R13 Clearly you don't know how his "army of little ones" protect Ben when he gets hate he needs to remove online. He said they look out for him! Do you think they have his e-mail address? I mean Cindy is the only one that gets to talk to him directly of course. ;)

And regarding what The Army of IG Sleuths found (loving that there's multiples now!), all The Ho's IG behavior during her trip made it seem like she was shopping for a full month in multiple countries with MULTIPLE people. If that's only meant to troll us, and Ben's Emojigate is also only meant to troll us, then I'm pretty sure the joke's on them. Cause The Ho is then purposefully making herself out to be a whore for trolling purposes, and Ben is purposefully making himself out to be a lovesick cuck for trolling purposes. Neither of them looks in any way good in that situation, and if it's all done for the sole purpose of throwing people off the scent that they have a real, genuine but secret relationship??

To paraphrase a famous Spaniard, "I do not think that achieves what you think it achieves."

by Anonymousreply 62August 1, 2021 5:38 PM

R43 Damn sorry that was missed! Tell her to try again with pancakes instead of waffles and she may have more luck 😉

by Anonymousreply 63August 1, 2021 5:39 PM

R43 is your hot blue check friend a half decent human being? Tell her to try again. We'll ship it. Anything to get rid of the Ho at this point.

by Anonymousreply 64August 1, 2021 5:40 PM

Never doubted the trolling. But all the Grishaverse will remember is the visible connection made. And it‘s already circulating. That‘s why he was yelled at for trolling.

by Anonymousreply 65August 1, 2021 5:42 PM

So she was husband shopping, getting cozy with several men and he just hide little emojis for her?

by Anonymousreply 66August 1, 2021 5:43 PM

Was she in Paris with da DREWEWWWW? #blacknightie

by Anonymousreply 67August 1, 2021 5:45 PM

It just doesn't add up. And I don't think she was pretending to husband shop, she was definitely testing the market. Oh, and OP, you are awesome! Keep up the threads 👏

by Anonymousreply 68August 1, 2021 5:45 PM

That‘s what‘s been said all along, if he‘s trying to troll the trolls, he‘s only trolling himself. Because most people will just take it for face value.

by Anonymousreply 69August 1, 2021 5:51 PM

R64 she’s very decent. A writer/producer in her early-mid 30s so I guess you could say she’s a Lisa Joy type. She spends most of her time in NYC and London though, she’s not a fan of LA. And unfortunately she prefers waffles over pancakes lol but I’ll tell her to try again 😂

by Anonymousreply 70August 1, 2021 5:54 PM

R68 Personally I agree, I don't think it's trolling either. I was attempting a devil's advocate in R62 cause that's what would have to actually be going down in order for the trolling theory to be true.

But no matter what, they both look bad in either case. There are no winners, except for the fun DL is having with it of course! Maybe we should thank Ben for being willing to make himself look so unbelievably pathetic just to entertain us?!

by Anonymousreply 71August 1, 2021 5:55 PM

Actually it doesn‘t matter if it says 33 or not, she did the corresponding song, and he did the stupid emojis before, so it‘s all about appearance anyway. People will only search his pictures for weird stuff because he did put it on there before.

by Anonymousreply 72August 1, 2021 5:55 PM

R72 Very true. She escalated with her sunflower post & blew this up.

by Anonymousreply 73August 1, 2021 5:57 PM

I think all of us who were live watching Harry Burns go down with sunset love afterwards believe in the trolling theory. Don‘t you?

by Anonymousreply 74August 1, 2021 5:58 PM

But why would she play that emojis game if she was looking for a new rich man? Did she failed finding a new husband and decided to go back to Ben?

by Anonymousreply 75August 1, 2021 5:59 PM

R75 who knows if she knew she was playing it. I think he was the only troll, or he asked her to play along a little, because whatever they may be, they are close enough to spend vacation together. Let‘s not forget that folks.

by Anonymousreply 76August 1, 2021 6:01 PM

R46 We could just start a discord to continue these discussions, but then how would we get the amusement of pissing off people like you?

by Anonymousreply 77August 1, 2021 6:02 PM

I was only a lurker at the time of Harry Burns and the England semifinals, but everybody else’s gut reaction in that second indicated they thought it too.

by Anonymousreply 78August 1, 2021 6:16 PM

R75 R76 She’s keeping him on a string/leash, duh!

by Anonymousreply 79August 1, 2021 6:19 PM

R79 the one thing does not exclude the other with that woman.

by Anonymousreply 80August 1, 2021 6:21 PM

Haha I love it!!!

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by Anonymousreply 81August 1, 2021 6:24 PM

They’re loving this over there on Tumblr!

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by Anonymousreply 82August 1, 2021 6:26 PM

R82 Forgot to say… this is an interesting take on it.

by Anonymousreply 83August 1, 2021 6:27 PM

Remind me, is the Harry Burns private account still up?

by Anonymousreply 84August 1, 2021 6:28 PM

R84 Yes.

by Anonymousreply 85August 1, 2021 6:32 PM

R84 bur has no follows and no followers

by Anonymousreply 86August 1, 2021 6:34 PM

It‘s almost impossible to get rid of an instagram account. When you deactivate them, they don‘t disappear. It‘s really quite a bother.

by Anonymousreply 87August 1, 2021 6:36 PM

R81 Oh, Benny, we were too late warning you! Now you‘re the Tumblr cuck. And none of it your fault! You are completely innocent! As always!

by Anonymousreply 88August 1, 2021 6:42 PM

It would be soooo funny if all this stuff Ben was posting was related to his new project and JH just blew it all up by posting the song and lyrics and editing her previous posts to have the fairy. I’m still leaning towards there being something going on between them especially with the Harry Burns thing, but I wouldn’t put it past that cunt to try to ruin his reputation just for fun

by Anonymousreply 89August 1, 2021 6:44 PM

R89 also here: the one does not exclude the other!

by Anonymousreply 90August 1, 2021 6:45 PM

R89 Ha that’s a fun thought, and I’m with you on that. Especially if he dumped her, she’d hate that.

by Anonymousreply 91August 1, 2021 6:50 PM

R87 as I said, they were close enough for a holiday couples trip. That is close, no matter if they are friends, fwbs or an actual couple. So, yes, there is of course an intimate connection. And that‘s why it‘s so bloody stupid, no matter what it is, because everybody knows they were *something*.

by Anonymousreply 92August 1, 2021 6:54 PM

They are celebs, they don’t function like us. I remember Tom Hiddleston taking his fwb on va pro an island and then we never heard of her ever again

by Anonymousreply 93August 1, 2021 6:59 PM

Edit R92 especially if you post to 2 million, of which 1 million are teenagers who don‘t get the concept of things like *yeah, we‘re good friends, sometimes we fuck when we‘re drunk, but things never really got off on the romantic side, but we still get along* as longtime tinder-suffering 30+ people do. Teenagers just think love or no love, marriage, it‘s all over, mass panic.

by Anonymousreply 94August 1, 2021 6:59 PM

R93 hm I knew a few celebs in my time (in an other field, but quite famous), and they tick just like the non-famous people, only the get more offers and opportunities to take people to islands if they don‘t want to go alone. It all depends on character.

by Anonymousreply 95August 1, 2021 7:02 PM

R74 The only thing there that's questionable is the private account changes started privately if you remember. The history is..

He reactivated it (early to mid-June was suspected) with everything exactly the same as when he deactivated back in February. It stays like that for a couple weeks, not publicly noticed.

Thursday June 24 he "accidentally" follows the Inspirational Barely Legal IG account.

Sunday June 27 he deletes all the posts, follows and followers. It remains publicly unnoticed.

Monday June 28 he changes his pseudonym to Harry Burns. The account is still publicly unnoticed.

(mentioning Wednesday June 30 is The Ho's mini lionheart emoji - the "known" beginning of Emojigate)

Friday July 2 the private account reactivation finally makes a public announcement on DL (no idea at all if it was rediscovered in another corner of the internet.

It's on this day (AFTER being mentioned in DL) that he changes the PFP. Then a couple hours later, again AFTER getting called on lazily *not* bothering to change it here, he changes the account address from _theoneandonlybillyshears_ to _oneandonlybillyshears_ as it remains to this day. Did he really think removing the "the" would make it impossible to find again? Yes he's a moron, but is he *that* stupid?

That completes the timeline, which is memorialized in its entirety in thread 15 should you want to read all of it for yourselves.

As far as whether he was trolling with it, I'm still not sure. Because the changes started before being publicly discovered. Someone would have had to have been waiting and looking for if/when he reactivated to notice the changes, so does it count as trolling if there's no known audience for him? Once discovered however, the changes are either troll adjacent, or ridiculously stupid if it isn't trolling. But I'll repeat now what I said at the time because it still holds up. . .

[quote]Now someone mentioned above how "lazy" he was for not changing the account so it "couldn't be found" again. My *immediate* thought (though I didn't specifically think lazy) as well. Ben ***ALWAYS*** changed the account every time it got discovered. It used to include the positively adorable "Please don't tag this account in photos!" because he didn't want to be found. He deactivated it back in February (presumably) because it had been found and people started tagging it after Montanagate broke. So Ben-I'm way more fucking paranoid than you can even imagine-Barnes reactivates it, but doesn't *immediately* change the account so it can't be found again? That makes NO logical sense. So. . . is he trolling the world? He *wanted* to be found again because his now well documented inner sociopath is playing with the "fandom"? He just now decides to change his pic to a heart, again along with the name change, after removing all his followers? Who is going to see he's making changes to his private friends n' family only account when he has NO friends and family left anymore?!? Moreover, why bother to *keep* it AT ALL if you erased all your posts and removed all your followers? NO ONE can see anything you do with it. Except to see that you did that, and changed your pseudonym and changed your profile pic. There's no reason to do this whatsoever. Not a logical one anyway. Unless you're just manically trolling people for daring to look at you.

by Anonymousreply 96August 1, 2021 7:05 PM

R96 I remember your post, thinking, well he must know somebody is watching right now, for putting up the black heart, which I read as an admission *yes, it‘s me, now what, I‘m never using this again, so go fuck yourselves*

by Anonymousreply 97August 1, 2021 7:08 PM

R96 I don’t think he’s that stupid, I think the change in profile pic and removal of the “the” was a signal he was watching here and knew it has been discovered. A quick search from his public account would have told him it’s still discoverable using the rest of the handle

by Anonymousreply 98August 1, 2021 7:09 PM

R98 exactly my belief. Plus the sunset lover pic afterwards, just when it had been discussed that he was still using that old sunset pic etc.

by Anonymousreply 99August 1, 2021 7:11 PM

I think he got a heads up about DL during instaboob. The changes started of the username started right after Sylvia went *are you kidding me* and posted a screeny of Harry Burns. Then Syl said the Sleuth believed, DL was compromised.

by Anonymousreply 100August 1, 2021 7:14 PM

R81 That just officially made my day. Someone that had never heard of Ben took one quick look at everything today and apparently independently came to the exact same conclusion we've been barking about here. Perfect.

They used the words cringe and cuck to describe you Benny B! How's that taste on this beautiful Sunday?

by Anonymousreply 101August 1, 2021 7:16 PM

And I remember it all so well, i.e. Harry Burns Gate, because then I was a nonbeliever, thinking people on here were crazy for their theories. But I already loved it for it‘s entertainment value.

by Anonymousreply 102August 1, 2021 7:18 PM

The Lionheart Debate went on at the same time, so whoever read the Harry Burns stuff, also knew about the red heart. So when he posed so stupidly, after the semifinal, with that very lionheart, several people were calling ir at once. That should have been the end of it. But nooooo, BB does not know when to stop and fucks it right up. Just my interpretation, maybe complete bollocks, but it was his DL trolling that made me decide to register and troll him back because it was such an utterly stupid thing to do.

by Anonymousreply 103August 1, 2021 7:25 PM

Especially, because he was probably all self-righteous about DL calling him out for the instaboob follow, which was just a glitch and how dare anyone interpret it any differently. But yeah, you clicked it, B. And you keep your follows to 250 constantly, so the 251 SPRANG out like a neon sign.

by Anonymousreply 104August 1, 2021 7:34 PM

R103 The only thing there is his lion hearts could very easily have been a legitimate reference to the team he was supporting in his post. Especially since they were full size front and center, not the mini meant to be hidden ones like aaalllllllllllllllll the rest of Emojigate.

But we still welcome you to the party nonetheless. Cause it's fun!

by Anonymousreply 105August 1, 2021 7:35 PM

Well we know that Cindy has probably been sliding into his DM’s every chance she gets so that Ben will ‘talk’ to her. And yes, I believe he looks at his DM’s (maybe not all of them, as his usual MO seems to be to like posts and tweets that pop up when he’s on one of his social media slots) but doesn’t respond to them (sorry Cindy, don’t believe ya). So I think he absolutely saw some of what she was reporting back on. And it’s such a Leo thing, a passive-aggressive response, all that emoji shit and what-have-you.

I also think that in addition to fans, he’s got friends who take a stroll through here. Not sure he’d be brave enough to do so himself. Hope they’re also doing the same for him on Tumblr and Twitter because the word is *spreading*!!!!

by Anonymousreply 106August 1, 2021 7:38 PM

Ah well, it was many people‘s gut reaction though. And of course it was not hidden because it was again a *fuck you, here‘s your lionheart*. I read it like that. Again. Could be utter bs. Let me remind you though, how many also felt, he needed to prove he was in California.

by Anonymousreply 107August 1, 2021 7:41 PM

Ben, should you still read along, you are so lucky Montanagate did not happen after S&B, so keep your fucking head down, be fair and honest to your fans and stop feeling so bloody self-righteous.

by Anonymousreply 108August 1, 2021 7:49 PM

If he was hiding these emojis because it was a message to Julianne, after what we read about her Europe trip, it makes him looks so sad. Like your girl is trying to find a new husband when you hide emojis in your stories for her

by Anonymousreply 109August 1, 2021 7:54 PM

And that‘s just it - most people don‘t see the meta stuff. They see: Secret emojis between Ben Barnes and Julianne. They were seen eating icecream. They must be a couple. Oh, she‘s fucking other people in Europe? What a loser!

by Anonymousreply 110August 1, 2021 7:59 PM

R107 Yeah you absolutely could be right!

But I don't personally need reminding, as I was one of the people laughing that he was obviously trying to prove he was in CA back then. It's all one long really bad soap opera with the most pathetic plot devices ever dreamt up by man. Ya know, fun! I mean, Ben's not winning an Emmy any other way..

by Anonymousreply 111August 1, 2021 7:59 PM

R112 but it‘s the only soap opera you can actually participate in. I am helplessly addicted, I can‘t stop reading, posting, or laughing!

by Anonymousreply 112August 1, 2021 8:01 PM

R111 hahahaha he’s not winning an Emmy either way. So true! After this saga and him looking stupid with every passing moment, he’s not really achieving those goals of greatness. Cannot wait to see how bad this album is gonna be. What can he possibly be writing about? How hard it is to be privileged white man? Letting down all the people who support you?

by Anonymousreply 113August 1, 2021 8:12 PM

Just to play devil’s advocate on the instaboobgate thing, my friend who works at Facebook (which owns Instagram) in a role involved in fighting fraudulent activity like purchasing follows, confirmed it’s possible you can find your account accidentally following some random new account if that account was doing a follower purchase and yours got swept up in it. Blue check accounts aren’t immune to that and they may have been targeting male accounts of a certain age group. He obviously can’t confirm anything specific about Ben’s accounts that breaks many many different rules, this was just a general hypothetical discussion. But even if he did accidentally follow that account when it came up in for for you page or something I think that’s hardly a scandal compared to what celebrities often get themselves into. He’s just a red blooded man with needs and those influencers put themselves out like that begging to be looked at.

by Anonymousreply 114August 1, 2021 8:15 PM

Also what were the factors that led people to believe Ben bought followers? I thought it was just increasing due to the punisher season 2 and this shadow and bone hype

by Anonymousreply 115August 1, 2021 8:20 PM

R114 Instaboobgate was not that bad per se, it was only revealing. That‘s what I meant. I have several times followed accounts by accident, by just scrolling and touching the screen. It‘s about the handling of any situation with him. It did get out of hand on twitter, the darklinas were tumbling all over themselves, and it was noticed by all of them because of the 251.

by Anonymousreply 116August 1, 2021 8:21 PM

R115 you see, there is no general consensus here on anything. We are all acting alone. I don‘t believe he bought them. Some do.

by Anonymousreply 117August 1, 2021 8:23 PM

R49 by the way the answer to her stupid riddle is: your eyes. You open your eyes first.

by Anonymousreply 118August 1, 2021 8:49 PM

I'd just like to say that I'm feeling cheated today. There hasn't been a new Sunday morning piano feel, or sun related, or ANY other kind of breadcrumb post of any kind yet today! You can't build hype for something if you don't, ya know, continue to build hype for it. Like on a schedule that makes people anticipate coming back to check for more! Do we have to do everything for you Barnes? Cause I can't imagine you would actually enjoy the "hype" we're building here..

by Anonymousreply 119August 1, 2021 9:05 PM

R115 R117 You’re right that we don’t know for sure, but imo it was a combination of genuine new and bought followers. It coincidentally reached 1m on 21 April (useful) and was going up by around 1-2K followers a day, which continued till he got to the 1.8m he’s plateau’d at for a while now. I think more of the subsequent 800K after 23 April were probably genuine, whereas up to 21 April I think were mainly bought. I think it was felt at the time that the Ho ‘I’ve got 4.9m followers’ Monster was probably the one who suggested that to him. But it’s like you said, we’ve each got our own opinions and that’s absolutely fine.

by Anonymousreply 120August 1, 2021 9:07 PM

R119 Me too! Although he did post the theatre story later than usual the other day so you never know.

Wouldn’t it be funny if he did a real honest-to-god genuine ‘Sunday feels’ thing and we got a ‘Stop fucking trolling and stalking me, you bastards!” rant??!!!

I’d be even happier if he followed up with “And I’m not with that toxic fuckwit so stop saying that I am!”

If only!!!!

by Anonymousreply 121August 1, 2021 9:14 PM

R121 we can dream

by Anonymousreply 122August 1, 2021 9:15 PM

Since I‘m a totally pathetic high functioning internet stalker, I found out that Drew Fuller is not from a superrich family. But, he looks as if he had a mean streak and that may appeal to her. Dunno about abs and specks.

by Anonymousreply 123August 1, 2021 9:20 PM

*pecs. Hahahahahaaaa

by Anonymousreply 124August 1, 2021 9:20 PM

Our favorite *little ones* account is actually begging Ben to choke her. There is a lot of 50 shades crossover going on in that teenie fandom. Jeez! Some want to be spit on. Wow.

by Anonymousreply 125August 1, 2021 9:35 PM

R123 Yes I get a bit of a bad boy vibe off him. BB with a bit of oomph. I think he’s maybe got a bit more upper body muscle but not sure about the legs lmao.

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by Anonymousreply 126August 1, 2021 9:39 PM

*spat. Gotta sleep

R126 he gives me the creeps.

by Anonymousreply 127August 1, 2021 9:40 PM

R125 Has everyone here not heard of the current blackout challenge on TikTok? And since his fans are all teenagers that are on TikTok now. . . it could be S&M, it could be they're all stupid children. Really, who can tell?

by Anonymousreply 128August 1, 2021 9:42 PM

R127 Oh I agree - I was just saying about the vibe.

He doesn’t do anything for me.

But I bet he did something for our Miss Twinkletoes in Italy (winks).

by Anonymousreply 129August 1, 2021 9:45 PM

R128 WHAAAAA no I haven‘t. I‘m so happy I don‘t have to be a teeny ever again.

by Anonymousreply 130August 1, 2021 9:46 PM

Now, wonder if Loyal Pup’s going to like the Ho’s latest post? She’s not actually shilling anything as such (just trying to get another free stay at a Portuguese hotel) and bigging up a musician and a surfer. 49 minutes and counting.

by Anonymousreply 131August 1, 2021 9:49 PM

How annoying always to check posts whether they are business related. And I share and like my friends‘ *endeavors* like crazy and they mine.

by Anonymousreply 132August 1, 2021 9:53 PM

Ok you picky bitches, I updated the London slide. Feel free to like and share. I might get a fuckin ko-fi. :P

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by Anonymousreply 133August 1, 2021 9:58 PM

R131 Oh honey if you don't think she's shilling her ass off in order to make tons of money with that post then you do not understand how social media and its wannabe influencers work.

R132 Funny thought I just had. . . Ben never had a problem promoting and sharing his friend's new movies and/or new albums etc. He actually did that quite often. It's only The Ho's professional ventures that he refuses to support publicly. Yeah, that is a funny thought indeed.

by Anonymousreply 134August 1, 2021 10:02 PM

Also, I updated Cryinhoa's Joshua tree post.

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by Anonymousreply 135August 1, 2021 10:04 PM

R133 *raises hand with child like pouting and stomping feet* Now do Emojigate! Now do EMOJIGATE!! I wanna see it mommy!!!!

Love you smartass. *grin*

by Anonymousreply 136August 1, 2021 10:07 PM

R137 bitch has blocked me. I need a new burner.

by Anonymousreply 137August 1, 2021 10:08 PM

R126 Is that nail polish? The day Ben Barnes starts wearing nail polish will be the final nail in his. Completely ruins the image of all his choking

by Anonymousreply 138August 1, 2021 10:08 PM

R138 nail in his coffin!

by Anonymousreply 139August 1, 2021 10:09 PM

R11...and in comes the the discrediting info and counteracting discussed topics on threads about our info on BB and the Ho covid travels etc. as mis-information...classic chess move in the PR/marketing and tactics of warfare!! Nice try R11,R18 (BB, JH, PR, Barnacle Stans) and whoever else. You stand out but we welcome you as your presence only solidifies we are on the right track with our conversations and points of view.

I don't feel there also needs to be a general consensus here of having the exact same opinion. That's what I quite like about here everyone has a different perspective and comes from different walks of life and prof. industries and puts there 2cent into the convo which at times can be silly chat, insightful or just someone's opinion. R111 I am intrigued about Ben's music and what direction he goes in as he is a talented versatile musician and how he defines himself in this arena of the industry will be interesting. I just hope he's not going to do a Michael Bublè type white man singing the blues. That for me would be lazy, generic and a waste of talent. R114 could you forward a link to the info about purchase following on social media I'd like to read about that. I've noticed there is a lot more adds for social media marketing on Instagram. Selling or free sharing info on how to manage and effectively broaden followers and exposure, which also includes the 250 max thing Ben is doing. Also Ben is a public figure with a platform to inform and influence. His account associates with many charities, organisations as a form of social awareness, equality and inclusivity and human rights as well garnering popularity with young impressionable youth and so does have a responsibility to manage the 'basics' effectively from a professional and personal perspective. I agree he's human and redblooded. If he wants to get his rocks off he can go onto free pornhub and get his thrills/kinks whatever but don't intersect your sexual needs with your social media profiles. Basic common sense as accidents and slip ups do happen. But he's shown he ain't that competent or smart to self manage his social media as we have witnessed so far this past year.

P.s. my silly chat rounding up the weekend is that Ben is low-key doing botox on his forhead area! Just an observation from his theatre video and a cheeky thought of a wee bday present to himself for his 40th😉 stay young Ben love ya the way you are...looks wise anyway🙃

by Anonymousreply 140August 1, 2021 10:10 PM

R133 Excellent. Yes, we need an EmojiGate portfolio. All hail the non-trolling truth-giving IG/DLers!

R134 Of course I realise that lmao, I was just pointing out it wasn’t her usual *blatant* shilling. She’s trying to do subtle, darling!

R135 That is fucking hilarious!

by Anonymousreply 141August 1, 2021 10:11 PM

R140 I was wondering if he did some fillers in his cheeks. The apples seem a little plumper when he smiles. Just seems off, y'know?

by Anonymousreply 142August 1, 2021 10:16 PM

I think he just discovered the Lensa app or something like it.

by Anonymousreply 143August 1, 2021 10:17 PM

R140 That made laugh about the Botox, those forehead lines definitely don’t look so deep! And R142 I’ll need the check that out re the fillers! We know who knows all about fillers!!!!

R143 And then again you could also be correct.

This is fun. Let’s see what evidence we can gather over the coming days.

by Anonymousreply 144August 1, 2021 10:21 PM

[quote] Of course I realise that lmao, I was just pointing out it wasn’t her usual *blatant* shilling. She’s trying to do subtle, darling!

R141 Just a difference of opinion then, as I don't consider tagging the account in every single (animated??? why bother, does the place need something so extra to look appealing to anyone? trying too hard much???) picture and spelling out the full name in your caption MULTIPLE times as being "subtle" ;)

Then again, you could be right. . . maybe that's literally as "subtle" as she's capable of being!

by Anonymousreply 145August 1, 2021 10:23 PM

It seems to be the Billy stan accounts in particular that really beg for that 50 shades cross over. Then on the other side of the fandom we have the “don’t specialize Ben crowd” 🙄 which cryainhoa and Cindy are the presidents of

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by Anonymousreply 146August 1, 2021 10:30 PM

R145 That’s exactly what I meant! 😂

by Anonymousreply 147August 1, 2021 10:40 PM

R146 SEXUALIZE

by Anonymousreply 148August 1, 2021 10:43 PM

Can someone give me a succinct timeline of emojigate? I'll make a manifesto but I've not kept up 100% due to um summer.

by Anonymousreply 149August 1, 2021 10:47 PM

R135 They would be interested, sorry, I can‘t tweet at the moment.

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by Anonymousreply 150August 1, 2021 10:51 PM

I think anyway it‘s time for a big applause for Ravena!

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by Anonymousreply 151August 1, 2021 10:53 PM

R146 Wow, so it looks like Benny has such incredibly wide appeal across the attraction board. . . and he capitalizes on that by being a pathetic love sick cuck on social media.

Hold on. . . I need to catch my breath. . . laughing. . . too much. . . .

by Anonymousreply 152August 1, 2021 10:53 PM

And I love THIS merger

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by Anonymousreply 153August 1, 2021 10:56 PM

R151 She’s speaking their language

by Anonymousreply 154August 1, 2021 11:02 PM

They all think Cindy is creepy 😂 and I think the DL has a much wider audience than we realize

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by Anonymousreply 155August 1, 2021 11:06 PM

Having banged on about the Leo passive-aggressive thing at R106, I just had a revelation which might *possibly* be applicable to Mr Barnes.

I can’t count the number of times my Leo bestie has started a conversation with ‘If so-and-so happens to ask you, I’ve told them we are going to (insert name of a place/party/restaurant) on (whatever) date.”

This is because said person - and this can be a family member of theirs, a friend, a work colleague - has asked them to go somewhere and they just don’t want to.

Rather than saying, ‘Ah, no - I can’t, sorry. Let’s meet up another time,” they can’t actually bring themselves to say the ‘No’ word, so use a ‘little white lie’ involving me instead. It happened all the time when we still had social lives to co-ordinate!

I get warned in advance now as a while back, I was ambushed about a proposed night out by one of their colleagues, hadn’t been told about the excuse already given and so I dropped them in it. Hey, I’m not telepathic.

It creates so much more hassle as you’ve got to keep your stories straight, remember what was said to whom and so on. It drives me up the wall quite frankly. I don’t get a choice in the matter as the story’s already out there by the time I’m told about it. And my friend is usually an honest person so when this first happened, I was quite taken aback.

I can so picture Mr Barnes doing exactly that. Lie instead of softening the truth!

OK they hate conflict (most of us do) but you can say ‘No’ to someone without being brutal or rude. But they just can’t seem to do it. I don’t know, is it a Leo thing? They’re the only one of my friends who do that.

by Anonymousreply 156August 1, 2021 11:07 PM

R156 I know several Leos very well and they‘re passive aggressive but usually don‘t involve others afaik.

by Anonymousreply 157August 1, 2021 11:12 PM

R156 I’m confused can you tie this back to Ben’s behavior and what you think he may be lying about? Is he doing emojigate because he doesn’t want to admit it’s over between him and JH completely?

by Anonymousreply 158August 1, 2021 11:17 PM

R158 Just the overall lying tbh. Someone who I thought didn’t lie, lying quite casually to friends and family when a simple No would do.

I guess I could reach, and tie it to Ben ending up going places with her because he’s not good at saying No and couldn’t come up a lie in time, due to lack of available other friends during lockdown. Not Montanagate though! Other less consequential outings.

But yeah, just the lying basically! Which I guess we all know he does anyway.

PS I’d love it if he was lying about emojigate!

by Anonymousreply 159August 1, 2021 11:26 PM

R156 This!!!! I have many Leo friends also they all communicate differently but similarly majority can't say no. I have a bestie who instead of saying 'sorry I'm busy or got other plans' its radio silence! Its so infuriating!! Won't respond to the offer, suggestion or idea and that's when I know she's not available or can't do the suggestion. She is a very outgoing, bubbly, social person who is always well liked and is a total sweetheart. On the flip side she way over analyzes any potential minimal social conflict issues which can border into neediness/dependency on maintaining a 'good image' over her own integrity and it fuels her anxiety/OCD tendencies. We've spoken about it and even laughed as it's now a known comm. rule between us. she knows it's there but is stuck in her way of being for now. But we all have our issues with communication I suppose. I was laughing tho when writing this post as my bestie does show strong parrallels to Ben Barnes comm. issues which is just hilarious as I'm here on this forum dragging him about it!

by Anonymousreply 160August 1, 2021 11:32 PM

R160 Luv ya Lilly, but def TMI for this thread 😂

by Anonymousreply 161August 1, 2021 11:36 PM

Unpopular opinion I guess lol but I don’t think astrology has any basis in reality and I can’t bring myself to use stars to explain the fact that Ben occasionally makes bad choices because he’s bored during a pandemic and thinking with his dick. Let’s not complicate things he’s a simple creature

by Anonymousreply 162August 1, 2021 11:38 PM

R160 OMG yes! Radio silence. Forgot about all about that habit, also one of my friend’s.

And who does radio silence better than anyone? Step forward, Mr Barnes!

by Anonymousreply 163August 1, 2021 11:44 PM

Since we are analyzing Ben’s birthday and Andrew and Ben share a birthday, I recently learned Andrew was a bit pissed Ben got Caspian instead of him 😂 how different would Ben’s life had been if that had happened. Andrew got something bigger with Spider-Man anyways

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by Anonymousreply 164August 1, 2021 11:48 PM

R138 Ha good spot, yes it is! Definitely more bad boy than BB. JH would love that kind of thing!

by Anonymousreply 165August 1, 2021 11:53 PM

R164 I loved that interview, the fact that he started really laughing when he thought about it! And the ‘Ben Barnes I’ll get ya’. BB must have *loved* it when AG said he didn’t get it because he wasn’t handsome enough. As if his ego wasn’t big enough!!!! I’m surprised AG admitted that tbh. Good on him.

by Anonymousreply 166August 1, 2021 11:57 PM

R166 yes not all Leo’s are the same! Luckily they are good friends

by Anonymousreply 167August 1, 2021 11:58 PM

R161 and 163 Ha yes me included and it's making me chuckle so much!! R162 not an unpopular opinion but just different which is accepted here but I can't help but laugh again as astrology has played a part in this whole saga also between JHo and Ben. 😂

Are there any screenwriters in the house cause this real life saga should be made into a TV series pronto! Especially with the possibility of an alternate universe episode of what Ben's career life would be if he didn't get the Caspian Gig R164...a theatre darling in London, an awards winner, EGOT possibly?

by Anonymousreply 168August 2, 2021 12:10 AM

🗣 Also big shout to the super sleuthers in and out of DL for putting the info together and sharing Thanks alot!

by Anonymousreply 169August 2, 2021 12:23 AM

Does the DL hive mind know who is in these pics with Ben?

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by Anonymousreply 170August 2, 2021 12:49 AM

R170 This is from a while ago. She’s a film producer.

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by Anonymousreply 171August 2, 2021 12:58 AM

R170 I'm *pretty* sure that's Jillian Share (Morin), Rob is friends with her for obvious reasons when you check her IMDb profile, but I think I can remember Ben hanging with her other times as well.

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by Anonymousreply 172August 2, 2021 1:00 AM

Thank you! He was just recently tagged in that and she looked SO familiar I thought it was someone I went to college with but I guess it’s not.

by Anonymousreply 173August 2, 2021 1:05 AM

So, all of JH’s posts of the past week cement it: she’s professionally a social media influencer now, and nothing more. The singing & acting careers are over. She churns out the occasional dance-related gig. She hawks other people’s business ventures in the guide of being a founder/CEO. And no, based on the interaction rates on his IG account (both likes & comments), I do not think he purchased followers. JH quite clearly did, based on the extremely low interaction rates (half that of BB) at her IG with nearly 3x the followers.

by Anonymousreply 174August 2, 2021 1:13 AM

*guise (not guide)

by Anonymousreply 175August 2, 2021 1:13 AM

I think Ben must have definitely noticed that Ravena and other accounts (trolling and fans!) made emojigate go mainstream. He’s been very quiet between not posting fan art Friday or a Sunday post or anything else.

by Anonymousreply 176August 2, 2021 1:20 AM

R174 She definitely gets lower than BB even when her minion doubles it up for her lmao! Sorry, I still think BB purchased a percentage of his new follows pre-April 21 - his interaction rates are good, he generally gets anywhere between 200K-500k with some 800K likes thrown in, from 1.8m followers. He did get over 1m on his 1m follower post haha. But I’d agree he’s got a lot more genuine followers than Fairy Fuckwit.

by Anonymousreply 177August 2, 2021 1:23 AM

R176 Yeah, he’s laying very low (aka hiding).

by Anonymousreply 178August 2, 2021 1:23 AM

Hiding again.

by Anonymousreply 179August 2, 2021 3:04 AM

Anyone when this was, or what it was for?

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by Anonymousreply 180August 2, 2021 4:10 AM

*Anyone know

by Anonymousreply 181August 2, 2021 4:10 AM

A bit disappointed no one of interest or meaningful authority has come to give us a slap on the wrist yet for whatever that psycho on the other thread said she “noted and passed along” after falsely accusing us of doxing. I guess Ben must have left her messages unread as well and the NSA and whatever security agencies she alerted about the DL baddies clearly don’t give a shit

by Anonymousreply 182August 2, 2021 5:23 AM

R180 I Belive that’s rehearsals for Birdsong so 2010.

On a side note, just looked at that particular IG account and they are literally going through BB’s IG and Ben Barnes Fan site and just posting every single thing they’ve got, it’s really funny.

I know a lot of the fan pages do that but this one is just marching through with military precision and individually posting 7 or more photos every 10 hours or so. Wow that’s dedication for you, if not very inspired! BB you’ve still got some fans, don’t worry.

by Anonymousreply 183August 2, 2021 5:38 AM

R183 *believe* 🙄

by Anonymousreply 184August 2, 2021 5:41 AM

R183 if they are going to do that it’s kinda annoying they don’t carry over the citation from BBF because a lot of those pics actually say when and where they are from. I’m not familiar with all the pics so sometimes I’m curious, but can’t be bothered to spend hours trying to link it back to where it originally came from

by Anonymousreply 185August 2, 2021 6:08 AM

R185 Yes BBF is good that way.

It’s also very lazy - lifting a pic from there and just posting it but that’s what a lot of them do, I guess. What cracks me up - prime example, the photo from R170 - is any time he’s with a woman, there’s a load of ‘who is SHE?!” comments. Calm down, dears.

by Anonymousreply 186August 2, 2021 6:22 AM

Benny, you can‘t tease everybody and then just lie low and do nothing. SM is a bloody job. Either you do it or you don‘t. If you don‘t really want to do it, don‘t do it at all, no fault in that.

by Anonymousreply 187August 2, 2021 6:50 AM

Did Ben actually say somewhere that he was working on an album? I remember him saying in an interview he had been working on some music and was looking for a place for it to land or something, but I’m not sure how people jumped from that to album instead of just a single or an EP or or another acting project that might have his music or something. Besides the (likely contractually obligated) promotion of his projects when he’s working and an occasional song, he seems to have already started to retreat from social media as his follower count increased and I think that’s going to become even more apparent if he’s too sensitive to these missteps. He clearly wasn’t required to do any of his own promotion for that Paris con he’s doing so maybe he will go the way of his buddy Andrew Garfield soon and negotiate out of social media obligations so he can avoid it completely again

by Anonymousreply 188August 2, 2021 7:23 AM

R188 he certainly said it to Cindy lolz.

I don‘f know if he‘s aware that his fans expect an actual album of original tracks with his own lyrics. He‘s been going on somewhere that most of his free time was spent making music, but I don‘t know to what an extent he did it, especially with Covid restrictions on studies. You need people to play instruments and who do the mixing … Also, he practices his little instasongs, binge watches almost every show there is (by his own admission), probably has to work out, eat, sleep and whatever else people do.

During the Mt Wolf thing it didn‘t sound as if he had an actual album in the making, and it takes bands like Muss (hehehe) years to record and produce one. But I may be totally wrong.

by Anonymousreply 189August 2, 2021 7:44 AM

R188 to the social media: that‘s what makes emojigate even more stupid because again, it just pops out at everyone when he posts. because they are waiting with their tongues hanging out for something from him, to screenshoot and interpret. You just don‘t come back from the millions.

by Anonymousreply 190August 2, 2021 7:54 AM

R189 That’s pretty much my thoughts around it too. Studio time is insanely expensive even if you are already signed to somewhere with the resources and facilities. And just like movies/films/commercials are struggling to book available facilities and find enough crew to hire due to the backlog of work from covid delays, there are probably similar issues in the music industry unless you are someone like Taylor Swift who probably has at least one home studio and a full staff and can get people to work with her pretty easily. Ben has obviously not done himself any favors by not managing expectations well, but it seems kinda ridiculous even in normal times to expect a whole album from him when he’s said he doesn’t usually have confidence in his own writing because a blank sheet of paper is intimidating (paraphrasing) and he doesn’t have a band and it takes him ages to learn a new song. Even professional musicians find it challenging to get albums made. People need to lower their expectations lol or save their expectations for his acting career and hope someone casts him for a musical

by Anonymousreply 191August 2, 2021 8:01 AM

R191 he does nothing to stifle their expectation. On the contrary, he liked plenty of album tweets, probably thinking it was praise for his singing. They are mostly clickbait to gain a coveted like by him for their fandom ranking of course. But Cindy and Ainhoa are absolutely convinced he films a music video.

And your points are absolutely valid regarding the production itself.

by Anonymousreply 192August 2, 2021 8:10 AM

There is a wonderful and very long german word called *Sendungsbewusstsein* (Cindz, you certainly have one), which can‘t really be translated. But it‘s a noun indicating somebody is aware of the messages they are sending out into the world and how they are received. Ben clearly has none.

by Anonymousreply 193August 2, 2021 8:21 AM

Lol

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by Anonymousreply 194August 2, 2021 8:32 AM

R194 yeah, well … now with so many more people looking on … somebody is going to pick up on it.

by Anonymousreply 195August 2, 2021 8:38 AM

If somebody asks Soho about that, it‘s gonna roll. Oh Ben. I somehow feel bad for you, but then you really did this when the rest of the world was self-isolating.

by Anonymousreply 196August 2, 2021 8:48 AM

LMAO 🤣

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by Anonymousreply 197August 2, 2021 9:16 AM

Lot‘s of them know. Look.

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by Anonymousreply 198August 2, 2021 10:14 AM

R194 I hope that had something to do with my reposting SmartAss' Montanagate dossier yesterday.

by Anonymousreply 199August 2, 2021 10:15 AM

R199 this is from two days ago, so they knew already.

by Anonymousreply 200August 2, 2021 10:21 AM

R199 Sorry! Yes that one yes!

by Anonymousreply 201August 2, 2021 10:22 AM

I really want to know what the final straw was to get Jack to unfollow JH. The last time Ben liked one of her posts was that idiotic peeing post on 23 July so if it weren’t for Ben following D-Ho it would seem like they have had nothing to do with each other since emojigate became public. This needs a dossier too lol just trying to keep all the dates and incidents straight is ridiculous

by Anonymousreply 202August 2, 2021 10:31 AM

R202 I have two theories.

1. her constant stories got on his nerves 2. we were discussing him following her just the day before he unfollowed and it was a camouflage move. You can follow that up I think in XVI.

by Anonymousreply 203August 2, 2021 10:37 AM

R203 If it was a camouflage move and they were trying to camouflage anything, posting secret tiny emojis and posts with the same song lyrics shortly after was just really fucking stupid. My gut feeling is Jack wouldn’t have participated in whatever bullshit game they are playing and probably just unfollowed out of annoyance. But if Ben, Jack, Ho, and D-Ho are really all involved in some elaborate scheme to troll DL I’d say it’s backfiring on Ben now that it’s being picked up on Twitter and tumblr lol so if it wasn’t his idea in the first place it’s certainly showing him how shitty his wannabe friends are

by Anonymousreply 204August 2, 2021 10:46 AM

R204 I don‘t believe in any elaborate scheme. I just maybe believe in Ben asking Jack to unfollow the Ho. No, there is no scheme. If anything it‘s only Ben and maybe the Ho in parts and nobody else.

by Anonymousreply 205August 2, 2021 10:55 AM

To specify 205 I believe we are being read, if by Ben or somebody close or whoever, if all the time or just on occasion, NO IDEA. I‘m just confident BB is aware of what is being discussed in here. This is, btb, the only message board about him on the entire internet.

by Anonymousreply 206August 2, 2021 10:58 AM

Ben is no longer bisexual, as DL touted in the old threads?

by Anonymousreply 207August 2, 2021 11:16 AM

R207 *crazy laugh* who cares about THAT anymore?

by Anonymousreply 208August 2, 2021 11:38 AM

R207 Turns out he’s actually just straight with (currently) horrible taste in women

by Anonymousreply 209August 2, 2021 12:08 PM

R208 I do! And for all we know, he may still be a touch bisexual and self-loathing about it.

by Anonymousreply 210August 2, 2021 12:10 PM

R210 I think he gets infatuated with admiration of a cooler guy. Like Robert Sheehan.

by Anonymousreply 211August 2, 2021 12:17 PM

I always assumed that he and Julian Morris were sometimes fuckbuds back in the day, and I still believe it.

by Anonymousreply 212August 2, 2021 1:01 PM

R211 He’s definitely drawn to douchebags, be they male or female. He’s not drawn to people who reflect the image/persona he tries to present, put into the world. I think who he’s drawn to tells us everything ww need to know about what a shallow piece of garbage he is.

by Anonymousreply 213August 2, 2021 1:02 PM

Is Julian Morris out-gay yet?

by Anonymousreply 214August 2, 2021 1:02 PM

R207 😂 sweet flower child, how many of these threads have you missed? If only it were still that simple.

by Anonymousreply 215August 2, 2021 1:03 PM

I mean, don't they look like they just got back from bathroom blowjobs??

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by Anonymousreply 216August 2, 2021 1:03 PM

R216 Not really, but okay 😂

by Anonymousreply 217August 2, 2021 1:06 PM

I don’t know about back then but the comments from friends and others on this post make me think Julian and Landon are very much out as a couple now finally 😂

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by Anonymousreply 218August 2, 2021 1:08 PM

Sorry that I asked. It's just these threads went on forever, positive that BB was bisexual - NOT gay, not straight.

So, what changed the hive-mind?

by Anonymousreply 219August 2, 2021 1:10 PM

R219 *maniacal laugh* The last 6000 messages. Possibly more. We still don‘t know that, but we wished it was our only concern.

by Anonymousreply 220August 2, 2021 1:15 PM

R219 no need to say sorry. Just thought it was funny after everything that was discovered and that we have talked about on here. We need to get the dossier to you. Basically, Julianne Hough happened. PS I think BB has realized the best way to troll us is through the radio silence. Already starved for content.

by Anonymousreply 221August 2, 2021 1:16 PM

R219 I guess JH and his taste in trashy women changed people's minds, but it didn't change mine. About 10 or 12 threads ago we observed how BB always seemed to make himself an annoying third wheel by hanging out with partnered couples. We speculated that he got his bisexual urges out by engaging in threesomes and telling himself that he was doing it for the women.

What would Brooks say? Heh

by Anonymousreply 222August 2, 2021 1:17 PM

R219 Rayana, Meganne Young, Peyton, The Ho!!!, montanagate, instaboobgate, emojigate. Pretty sure I'm missing a lot.

by Anonymousreply 223August 2, 2021 1:20 PM

R222 I think I brought a theory up about that in the last thread too. Ben in the blinds somehow figuring, Brooks feeling he needed to evaluate his sexuality, but running in the end. DDP for JH?

by Anonymousreply 224August 2, 2021 1:21 PM

R222 Plausible. I’m sure many women dating his friends would be open to a threesome if the third wheel was Ben Barnes lol

by Anonymousreply 225August 2, 2021 1:21 PM

R222 This I’d buy into. Or perhaps a threesome is his only chance with certain women who are otherwise unattainable. With which partnered couples did he try to be the 🦄 ?

by Anonymousreply 226August 2, 2021 1:21 PM

R226 Chloe and Rob seem like an obvious choice

by Anonymousreply 227August 2, 2021 1:23 PM

But let us not forget his Gold Digger interview (or whatever), where he said he was as straight and vanilla as could be … 😇

by Anonymousreply 228August 2, 2021 1:23 PM

R228 Missionary with average cock and mad skillz (which just means he knows to try & get the girl off, unlike most men who can’t be bothered). Sounds like half of Ashley Madison.

by Anonymousreply 229August 2, 2021 1:26 PM

R228 True. The “gentleman” in bed also seemed to have a problem with some of the props in Dorian Gray.

by Anonymousreply 230August 2, 2021 1:26 PM

R229 well, you sure missed a lot …

by Anonymousreply 231August 2, 2021 1:27 PM

Rob is unfuckable, and doesn’t improve in comparison to pretty boy Ben.

by Anonymousreply 232August 2, 2021 1:27 PM

But Chloe is very fuckable

by Anonymousreply 233August 2, 2021 1:28 PM

But the package has been approved.

by Anonymousreply 234August 2, 2021 1:28 PM

R231 Nope. Been an active an active poster for tge past 5 threads, and lurker before that.

by Anonymousreply 235August 2, 2021 1:28 PM

But then you know about the excellence of the package

by Anonymousreply 236August 2, 2021 1:29 PM

R234 It was approved due to accompanying skillset. Intel said he knew what to do with what he has. Translation: he utilizes his fingers & tongue. If he’s vanilla with an average cock, nothing a few hip swivels can do to make that superlative unless you have talented fingers & tongue.

by Anonymousreply 237August 2, 2021 1:31 PM

One person said it was average the other person said it was excellent. It’s all subjective based on what you’re comparing it too

by Anonymousreply 238August 2, 2021 1:32 PM

Nono, it was sizewise approved, wasn‘t it?

by Anonymousreply 239August 2, 2021 1:32 PM

R236 No, it was specifically said that he knew what to do with what he has, which was average & uncut. That means excellent skills, not excellent package. There is a difference.

by Anonymousreply 240August 2, 2021 1:32 PM

Remember the woman who strolled in and said he had an excellent package? Where are you BTW? Please come back!

by Anonymousreply 241August 2, 2021 1:33 PM

R240 our first hand witness said verbatim excellent package

by Anonymousreply 242August 2, 2021 1:33 PM

So, these are just threads about an aging straight man now?

Frau threads, right? Like the Jon Hamm and Armie Hammer threads?

Stalking heterosexual men threads on Datalounge for some reason.

by Anonymousreply 243August 2, 2021 1:34 PM

R240 I’ll ask her but I doubt she will provide any more details

by Anonymousreply 244August 2, 2021 1:34 PM

R238 The person who said it was excellent package said that knowing what to do with it made it an excellent package. I corrected them & said no, that’s an excellent skillset not an an excellent package. And I stand by that.

by Anonymousreply 245August 2, 2021 1:35 PM

R245 Gonna repeat myself AGAIN: They said that knowing what to do with it is what made it excellent.

by Anonymousreply 246August 2, 2021 1:36 PM

For the record, the average comment and the excellent comment were from two separate people lol

by Anonymousreply 247August 2, 2021 1:37 PM

R245 I thought that was someone else before her.

by Anonymousreply 248August 2, 2021 1:37 PM

R247 Yes, we know.

by Anonymousreply 249August 2, 2021 1:37 PM

R246 you are oddly sure for someone who has never fucked Ben and didn’t know they were two separate people

by Anonymousreply 250August 2, 2021 1:37 PM

R247 exactly. Your comment r245 skillsetwise was before she chimed in, I‘m quite sure. We were at the total end of XVIII

by Anonymousreply 251August 2, 2021 1:38 PM

Its all around 559 on thread XVIII

by Anonymousreply 252August 2, 2021 1:40 PM

OMG This is getting nuts, can he please emoji something?

by Anonymousreply 253August 2, 2021 1:41 PM

R253 seriously! This conversation has taken a bad turn

by Anonymousreply 254August 2, 2021 1:42 PM

R250 I was then and remain fully aware they were two separate people. When person #2 said excellent, and I reminded them of what person #1 said, their response was that knowing what to do with it can make an average package excellent. And I then made the distinction in that case, it’s the skillset that’s excellent and not the package.

by Anonymousreply 255August 2, 2021 1:43 PM

559 (eye witness) only spoke once and then all the way at the end in 596 or something

by Anonymousreply 256August 2, 2021 1:45 PM

But somehow is penis is of little interest to me. Just protecting his reputation. LMAO.

by Anonymousreply 257August 2, 2021 1:46 PM

This conversation is going to make Cindy spiral into a jealous rage and come all caps at us again shortly. And we know someone else is probably crying about it already

by Anonymousreply 258August 2, 2021 1:49 PM

Seriously exchange emails you two.

R226 Off the top of my head, there was his douchey gym bro friend Brandon and his wife, with whom he spent a weekend in Austin.

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by Anonymousreply 259August 2, 2021 1:50 PM

R258 she sat alone … beneath a dead joshua tree … and the phone in her hand fell limp to her knees … she cried, oh she cried, for the manchild who lied … all the days and the nights between Julianne Houghs thighs …

(Unknown folksong)

by Anonymousreply 260August 2, 2021 1:51 PM

R259 seriously, he looks so awkward in these as if he went to bed with ovaltine while everyone else had a group shag.

by Anonymousreply 261August 2, 2021 1:57 PM

R259 I’m wondering if this third wheeling just reflects that they’re all age appropriately partnered off, while he’s still clinging to his freewheeling bachelor ways 🤷‍♀️

by Anonymousreply 262August 2, 2021 1:58 PM

R261 lmao poor ben 😂 R262 or there actually is more crossover to 50 shades than realizes and his concubines just don’t go in public for photo opportunities with him

by Anonymousreply 263August 2, 2021 2:02 PM

R263. No. It‘s clear as day to me, he is just infantile, and that‘s at the bottom of everything. All the Gates.

by Anonymousreply 264August 2, 2021 2:03 PM

R263 if there ever was a picture more representative than the one in the tub from above, let me know. All guys sprawled out and he looks like a ten year old.

by Anonymousreply 265August 2, 2021 2:10 PM

Well, these were 5+ years ago. He’s matured since the. He’s pursuing true love with a sweet girl who’s trailblazing as a social media influencer!

by Anonymousreply 266August 2, 2021 2:14 PM

In honor of the ongoing Ben Barnes DL threads I would just like to announce that I made some banana bread today. Using a recipe that called it *gasp* bread. If this is wrong I don’t want to be right

by Anonymousreply 267August 2, 2021 2:15 PM

R266. He was only 35 then, barely out of his nappies. These days, a man of some gravitas (well at least the packaggggge)

by Anonymousreply 268August 2, 2021 2:17 PM

R267 this ends today‘s *loaf* discussion.

by Anonymousreply 269August 2, 2021 2:19 PM

R243 We sure proved this guy wrong

by Anonymousreply 270August 2, 2021 2:28 PM

Meanwhile, Ben’s over there, just waking after getting a morning BJ from the 22YO who’s now off to prepare his toast, thinking: “I’ll show those bloody DL fuckers. I won’t post again today!”

by Anonymousreply 271August 2, 2021 2:33 PM

R261 He looks really happy in the hot tub full of guys, tho. Ben's inordinate mancrushes on straight douches is one of the things that convinced everyone of his gayness.

by Anonymousreply 272August 2, 2021 2:33 PM

R272 and now I‘m convinced he‘s just so happy the doods took him along.

by Anonymousreply 273August 2, 2021 2:36 PM

R271 yeah, choke her, mate. But then post a sweet kitten with an 8888 in a bubble. Thanks! Because I won‘t be angry at him unless he continues his SM shite show. If he just shuts it, it‘s best for all.

by Anonymousreply 274August 2, 2021 2:39 PM

R271 so true. In 18 days he’s about to enter his DiCaprio DILF era (hopefully without the headphones and erectile dysfunction) with a constant stream of women in their 20s and a side of tea and toast

by Anonymousreply 275August 2, 2021 2:39 PM

R275 If you’re reading this Ben, show us how you take your… tea and toast.

by Anonymousreply 276August 2, 2021 2:45 PM

Is this Ben’s project wrapped?

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by Anonymousreply 277August 2, 2021 3:04 PM

[quote] and now I‘m convinced he‘s just so happy the doods took him along

Tragic, isn't it?

by Anonymousreply 278August 2, 2021 3:28 PM

Well this is a weird coincidence 😂 I think the DL readership is quite broad actually

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by Anonymousreply 279August 2, 2021 4:17 PM

Some Reddit crossover 😂 and news of a double date!

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by Anonymousreply 280August 2, 2021 4:27 PM

R280 I’m Asian myself, so I’m holding hope that he was with the “really pretty Asian girl” 😂

by Anonymousreply 281August 2, 2021 4:38 PM

R280 Fascinating that the commenter felt certain that he was into someone else now. WHO?!?

by Anonymousreply 282August 2, 2021 4:44 PM

R282 Floriana.

Obvi.

by Anonymousreply 283August 2, 2021 5:20 PM

Well Georgia is also hinting that Rise Up has wrapped. And at least she indicates 'more on this to come.' Unlike Ben, who can't even be bothered with breadcrumbs anymore apparently.

Well at least a time slot is here, so let's see!!

by Anonymousreply 284August 2, 2021 5:27 PM

This person’s who had Chloe in her story posted a far away shot of the LA theater stage where Ben was. Can’t tell what it is though. I guess Georgia will eventually tell us if Ben won’t

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by Anonymousreply 285August 2, 2021 6:08 PM

🧐.

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by Anonymousreply 286August 2, 2021 6:50 PM

The more time that goes by and the more screenshots that come out, with chloe playing the saxophone or whatever that was, the more I have this gut feeling that if it is a music video that it’s not gonna be that good. I already feel the cringe and we haven’t even seen anything yet. Also how long does it take to edit? A commercial can take months to edit and that is only a 30 sec spot.

He should have released the song already, a nice summer surprise, and then been hyping the music video while doing live chats with fans about the process of making the song and the meaning. He could put out a lyric video out to by time. It’s not rocket science.

by Anonymousreply 287August 2, 2021 7:25 PM

R284 R285 Still nothing from Barnes. He’s hopeless, he really is. But someone’s found something!! Where’s this from the?

The Ho’s not posted any stories yet today, unlike her.

Well, if he does make it over to London for his birthday, I’ll see what I can find out for y’all. I could offer to give him a lower leg workout (winks).

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by Anonymousreply 288August 2, 2021 7:28 PM

R288 *then*

by Anonymousreply 289August 2, 2021 7:29 PM

It’s from someone’s IG stories apparently

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by Anonymousreply 290August 2, 2021 7:40 PM

R287 Lol, no ad agency I’ve worked at gets months to edit. It can take awhile to get approvals in creative review process, but no production schedule gives months just to edit. ROFLMAO

by Anonymousreply 291August 2, 2021 7:41 PM

R290 Well spotted! Another private IG perhaps?? And there’s Roger again!! Curiouser and curiouser!

by Anonymousreply 292August 2, 2021 7:42 PM

R283 Ah, so we’ve settled on Flo. Whatever her issues are, she’s still a major improvement over JH.

by Anonymousreply 293August 2, 2021 7:44 PM

R292 Actually the more I think about it, that’s got to be a private account - they’ve @‘d BB on it and we all know that’s a big no-no!!!!

by Anonymousreply 294August 2, 2021 7:47 PM

R294 Nope, it's not private. But at least this guy follows Ben.

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by Anonymousreply 295August 2, 2021 7:53 PM

R291 not just editing, but approval and all the other shit. Good job taking things literally and missing the point entirely.

by Anonymousreply 296August 2, 2021 7:55 PM

Also aren’t we talking about a music video which has other things happening like promotional aspects that are taken into account. So maybe it is not like a commercial at all considering you have to brand around the artist. I think the main argument being this is not going to be coming soon. Probably will hit in the fall as it is already august.

by Anonymousreply 297August 2, 2021 7:58 PM

Why does everyone think it’s a music video? It could be a short or a documentary piece since that is what Georgia and the cinematographer have experience in. Like something to help the Arts industry after the pandy. I’m not sure Ben would have all these people involved in a music passion project that’s just his, but maybe

by Anonymousreply 298August 2, 2021 8:01 PM

R297 Yes something released this fall as in 11/11

by Anonymousreply 299August 2, 2021 8:02 PM

Related?

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by Anonymousreply 300August 2, 2021 8:08 PM

Another member of the cast??? 😂

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by Anonymousreply 301August 2, 2021 8:12 PM

Or maybe Bens new girl. She is exactly like that insta profile he followed and then once called out about unfollowed.

by Anonymousreply 302August 2, 2021 8:16 PM

Does she do porn?

by Anonymousreply 303August 2, 2021 8:17 PM

Chloe just started following a cinematographer named Kai Saul who posted a couple stories from inside the Los Angeles Theater, including a photo of Lee Toland Krieger (Shadow and Bone producer/director) and Evan Rachel Wood.

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by Anonymousreply 304August 2, 2021 8:19 PM

Lol she has a radio so probably member of the crew…but interesting

by Anonymousreply 305August 2, 2021 8:19 PM

R304 interesting! This definitely seems bigger than a music video

by Anonymousreply 306August 2, 2021 8:20 PM

R301 OMG! Girl what’re you doing! Unfortunately she’s definitely an Instaboobgate type lmao.

R300 R304 R306 Definitely not just a music vid. Whatever this is, it’s not a BB vanity project. So not sure what BB’s IG story was all about???

by Anonymousreply 307August 2, 2021 8:24 PM

R307 Yeah, I now see Rise Up as someone else’s project that he’s participating in, not his project that sll these people are assisting with.

by Anonymousreply 308August 2, 2021 8:28 PM

Good thing I didn't have many clients today and I could catch up from the last time I posted. LOL

Ben is probably part of an ensemble project with the other creative peeps (like Chloe) seen in the posts being shared here so why did he say he was location scouting for a secret project?! See, this is the stuff that I wanna slap him for. This lying by omission bullshite makes him comes off as a clout chaser with low self-esteem. And I don't like that color on him.

by Anonymousreply 309August 2, 2021 8:32 PM

DL baddies at it again. You’re welcome BB Twitter peeps!

by Anonymousreply 310August 2, 2021 8:32 PM

R309 maybe it was a secret that he’s involved? His name could be the promo value. But yeah who knows at this point

by Anonymousreply 311August 2, 2021 8:33 PM

Lol

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by Anonymousreply 312August 2, 2021 8:35 PM

R309 Exactly what I was getting at in R307 - scouting for locations, secret project. What? Not unless as you say he’s in this ensemble project but also then thought, maybe I could use this place for my ‘whatever’ project? But yeah, it’s weird.

by Anonymousreply 313August 2, 2021 8:39 PM

R309 100% agree with you

by Anonymousreply 314August 2, 2021 8:40 PM

guys i found something today when i was on the ig page posted in the last thread. confirmation that ben has slept with a woman before?! i looked again a few minutes ago and it looks to have been deleted

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by Anonymousreply 315August 2, 2021 8:45 PM

So not his music video than why did he do the tiny emojis story? Was that still for JH? That pic was when he was working on this project right?

by Anonymousreply 316August 2, 2021 8:46 PM

So he was being a fuckboy during punisher just like that friend of the producers assistant said many threads back. The internet never forgets!

by Anonymousreply 317August 2, 2021 8:49 PM

pixiewings

by Anonymousreply 318August 2, 2021 8:49 PM

pixiewingz

by Anonymousreply 319August 2, 2021 8:49 PM

Well. Aha. Not very well redacted folks. That was a bad job.

by Anonymousreply 320August 2, 2021 8:52 PM

R309 whitehorse dear you speak from my heart. He made it seem as if he had gone specifically to the theater to inspect it for a future project. But obviously he only meant that particular corner of the theater. Or that chair.

by Anonymousreply 321August 2, 2021 8:55 PM

Which one of these is supposed to be his "other" account? Not that it matters I guess. _oneandonlybillyshears_ theoneandonlybillyshears oneandonlybillyshears

And hey, Kate (pixiewingz) from R315 is a beauty. Good for her if she was romping with him. LOL

by Anonymousreply 322August 2, 2021 8:55 PM

Ben fucked this ugly whore? Pixiewingz?

Proof he's gay!

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by Anonymousreply 323August 2, 2021 8:56 PM

To be fair, all the people involved in the project seem to know specifically him in some way more than they do each other, so take that as you will. R315 — very interesting. Wonder if that was during season 1 or season 2 filming.

by Anonymousreply 324August 2, 2021 8:57 PM

R323 to each their own, I think she’s cute in a normal way which honestly wins him more points in my book.

by Anonymousreply 325August 2, 2021 8:58 PM
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by Anonymousreply 326August 2, 2021 8:58 PM

R323 oh come on, that‘s mean. She didn‘t want to be in this seriously.

by Anonymousreply 327August 2, 2021 8:59 PM

Yiiiikes the handle could have been blocked out a little more. NDA breach

by Anonymousreply 328August 2, 2021 8:59 PM

R328.

by Anonymousreply 329August 2, 2021 8:59 PM

Since Ben stalks these threads, he'll know she blabbed now.

by Anonymousreply 330August 2, 2021 9:00 PM

Come on guys, leave her be, you are all complaining about Ben being an asshole but now your treating a source like shit.

by Anonymousreply 331August 2, 2021 9:00 PM

Outing a normie isn’t that cool…a bit too far in my book. Not that it matters much here I know

by Anonymousreply 332August 2, 2021 9:01 PM

Did she private her account like super fast? I think she is a bit basic. Obviously BB just used her. I wouldn’t necessarily brag about that if I were her. I want to know when? Season 1 or 2?

by Anonymousreply 333August 2, 2021 9:04 PM

R330 I know I’m in the minority here, but I hope he doesn’t read these threads for this reason alone.

by Anonymousreply 334August 2, 2021 9:04 PM

I didn‘t get the entire thing so I typed out the handle before I realised it was her, not somebody speaking about a third person.

by Anonymousreply 335August 2, 2021 9:05 PM

So, Ross a/k/a smart.as5 is one of the posters in this thread?

Whorewingz will figure out he catfished her for info!

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by Anonymousreply 336August 2, 2021 9:05 PM

Convo saved for all eternity:

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by Anonymousreply 337August 2, 2021 9:05 PM

He brought this on himself with all the games he plays. The games he plays with his fans, with the woman he used and then throws away. He has brought this all on himself. Thank god we are finally seeing him for the asshole he really is.

by Anonymousreply 338August 2, 2021 9:05 PM

Ok this is fucked up. You might have just inadvertently caused someone legal trouble that’s way too far

by Anonymousreply 339August 2, 2021 9:07 PM

R338 and that’s her fault how?

by Anonymousreply 340August 2, 2021 9:07 PM

Legal trouble? Did she sign an NDA? She shouldn’t be posting this on insta if she is so worried about legal trouble? Please!

by Anonymousreply 341August 2, 2021 9:08 PM

Y’all, the commenter said it was their friend, not tgem. But! Given concerns about a cease & desist — how very Trumpian — am thinking it was her, not her friend. Regardless, this is totally disgusting behavior on his part. Really gross.

by Anonymousreply 342August 2, 2021 9:09 PM

I agree that image should not have been posted here.

by Anonymousreply 343August 2, 2021 9:09 PM

R339 Honestly, who told her to post from an account with a recognizable profile pic?!?

by Anonymousreply 344August 2, 2021 9:10 PM

I don’t understand how people think they can say delete something after they put it in the public sphere and how it is someone else’s fault for sharing it. Don’t put it out there if you don’t want people to know. I think it was totally fine.

by Anonymousreply 345August 2, 2021 9:10 PM

She was simply mentioned without being asked

by Anonymousreply 346August 2, 2021 9:10 PM

She had a whole convo with her friend on a public platform. Don’t act like she did nothing. She didn’t get hacked or something, she participated. Like wtf?! Once again Ben really picking winners! Can’t wait for all the other girls you met on Raya to tell all your secrets.

by Anonymousreply 347August 2, 2021 9:12 PM

Scenario: I meet a guy, we connect on some level(s), we’re about to get sexual. He slides an NDA in front of me or sends it via DocuSign. That would have me running for the hills. No fuck is worth that shit. No cock is that golden.

by Anonymousreply 348August 2, 2021 9:16 PM

R342 this behavior right here is exactly why celebrities use NDAs. But there’s no evidence here Ben uses NDAs that’s just speculation. It’s just fucked she tried to protect his privacy and delete the comments when she released she made a mistake but of course it was on a troll account and too late.

by Anonymousreply 349August 2, 2021 9:16 PM

Can you imagine if the fairy emoji was for pixie? 😂

by Anonymousreply 350August 2, 2021 9:17 PM

R349 As much as we love getting the intel, I agree. If you chose to play by his rules & signed an NDA, then 🤐 If there was no NDA, the frankly she’s free to blab. Uncool, yes; illegal, no.

by Anonymousreply 351August 2, 2021 9:20 PM

R350 Ha ha yes - but sounds like she was one of his ‘Messin’ Around’ one and done’s. He wasn’t going to be in NY forever so no need for anything serious, I’m betting that was his manifesto back then.

by Anonymousreply 352August 2, 2021 9:30 PM

R352 just like the average man. Who was expecting anything else really?

by Anonymousreply 353August 2, 2021 9:33 PM

Seeking my people... LOL I think I've found some of the fun accounts from here but suggestions are welcome!

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by Anonymousreply 354August 2, 2021 9:33 PM

R354 whitehorse you have to stop asking people for stuff. 😇

by Anonymousreply 355August 2, 2021 9:34 PM

R355 But I'm a giver too!

by Anonymousreply 356August 2, 2021 9:36 PM

Ok this is smartass. I was reposting the covid manifesto and a friend of this girl's saw it and had no idea that Barnes is anyone special or famous, just another actor that her friend dated for a while. Her friend is a nice girl who hasn't talked to him for years. I updated that at y'all's request. Don't ruin this poor girl's life because she dated an asshole years ago. And she's not a whore. I did not trick her into a conversation, either. I didn't speak to her until I deleted the conversation.

by Anonymousreply 357August 2, 2021 9:38 PM

Wow she's super pretty and not all carved up looking like the Ho/other hollyweird peeps. her friend was wrong for tagging her and she asked for the post to be deleted so i think a line was crossed here in terms of posting to DL. leave her alone guys. she didn't even say she slept with him so there's no reason for this to be posted here.

by Anonymousreply 358August 2, 2021 9:38 PM

R357 it‘s on imgur already.

by Anonymousreply 359August 2, 2021 9:43 PM

R358 Agree she should be left alone but the friend did say she slept with him. And she should’ve thought a bit more before replying on a public thread.

by Anonymousreply 360August 2, 2021 9:50 PM

I have no followers and they had no way of knowing about the spies.

by Anonymousreply 361August 2, 2021 9:51 PM

What a stupid friend to have

by Anonymousreply 362August 2, 2021 9:51 PM

Wow. her friend sucks. maybe it's not someone she knows anymore/someone she used to know. her friend said she slept with him but she didn't confirm it. i checked and she went private. someone must have alerted her about this. as far as we know nothing has been confirmed and this total normie is getting her profile blown up. not cool guys. leave her be.

by Anonymousreply 363August 2, 2021 9:54 PM

Vouching that everything went down exactly as Smartass said. Totally unsolicited comment from the friend led to this. Don't harrass that woman or Smartass either.

by Anonymousreply 364August 2, 2021 9:55 PM

Can we please just return to pick on Ben and the Ho?

by Anonymousreply 365August 2, 2021 9:56 PM

She's SO pretty. GET IT GIRL!!! i want to message her so bad but i'm sure you guys are already all over it. i won't chime in but can't lie about being curious. someone else mentioned the pixie emoji....any chance it wasn't for JHo after all?

by Anonymousreply 366August 2, 2021 9:57 PM

And hello, why is she the woman of loose morals? Was he not there having sex? Is he a whore? Leave her alone or crucify him.

by Anonymousreply 367August 2, 2021 9:57 PM

BREAKING: good looking single actor has sex with women!

by Anonymousreply 368August 2, 2021 9:58 PM

some of you basic ass bitches are SO jealous. there is no universe where this pixie woman is ugly * rolls eyes * i feel badly for her. leave the woman alone you jealous psychos

by Anonymousreply 369August 2, 2021 9:59 PM

He can fuck three chicks everyday and night for all I care. Boys and everything in between as long as it‘s legal and he uses protection. I‘m only interested in him being a bloody moron and hypocrite in the way he presents himself as a concerned Covid guy and how he bullshits his harmless fanhords. Pull the mask over your nose, btw.

by Anonymousreply 370August 2, 2021 10:01 PM

R366 Doubt it. I think he left her in the dust in Brooklyn. She at least seemed very casual about it herself (now, anyway) which I applaud her for. Unlike Rayana who seemed to get a bit clingy and annoying from what was observed at the time. But hey BB still followed her on his private IG years later so who knows!!

by Anonymousreply 371August 2, 2021 10:01 PM

Oh please she will be forgotten about in a week, just like the rest. He’ll post a new story with some fucking emoji and then this will all be forgotten. Yeah she needs new friends. My friends would never put my shit on blast like that. Not cool. She is unimportant anyway, she has like 1000 follows and is a basic white girl. Not worth even trolling or anything.

Interesting intel, proves BB is a fuckboy and confirms it during the punisher days which is exactly what was said so we do have some truths now.

Someone tell Cindy to calm the fangirls, those bitches are vicious. Way worse than the lot over here. Also glad to know the fans have beef with him and now normies who have no idea who he is know there is beef. Burn baby burn!

by Anonymousreply 372August 2, 2021 10:02 PM

R370 That didn’t register with me till you said it - yeah, mask over nose BB!!!

by Anonymousreply 373August 2, 2021 10:03 PM

Can someone update newer people as to the fuckboy claims made by the producer? Not because I‘m surprised, just because I‘m nosy (.NOSE)

by Anonymousreply 374August 2, 2021 10:08 PM

R369 For real. She’s beautiful. Just decided to catch up again and wtf so much for this group having a certain level of maturity lol but that was too much to expect. Told you guys a couple threads ago Ben has obviously been with more than just the ones who happen to make it onto DL or tabloids, including normal ones like myself. Glad I at least found a fellow Eskimo sister in case I decide to start a club later lol. You jealous psychos can keep to your fantasies here

by Anonymousreply 375August 2, 2021 10:09 PM

R375 says the lady who feels the need to parade her alleged experiences. Run along hun. You‘re not as alone as you think.

by Anonymousreply 376August 2, 2021 10:12 PM

R375 so I'm assuming you're also an ex?

by Anonymousreply 377August 2, 2021 10:13 PM

Wasn't he with Peyton during the Punisher filming? We need a timeline with this guy.

by Anonymousreply 378August 2, 2021 10:15 PM

Once again real winner BB picks. Just airing out all his shit and like proud of that. Low class. You are coming for people criticizing someone’s looks when what you are doing is so much worse. Ridiculous. These hoes ain’t loyal.

by Anonymousreply 379August 2, 2021 10:16 PM

guys i saw her page before it went private and she had a black heart emoji. i know it's common or whatever but since we're in the business of examining emojis....he uses pixie, she uses black heart. maybe those emojis were for her and not the ho?

i like the idea of ben being with a girl who has a normal life and a thousand ig followers. definitely makes him more appealing. she is beautiful but not a blonde fake botched bitch. im going to go with those emojis being for her since i hate the Ho so much

by Anonymousreply 380August 2, 2021 10:16 PM

R375 this is no group! I have idea who any of the other‘s are, nor do I know who I ever agree or disagree with. As you just saw, most users were not happy about this. But you‘re here too, spilling the beans maybe, maybe not. Your reasons are your own

by Anonymousreply 381August 2, 2021 10:16 PM

Apparently not, or he was just fucking a bunch of people. What is the definition of a fuckboy again?

by Anonymousreply 382August 2, 2021 10:16 PM

Shit like this is exactly why it’s difficult for a “normie” to date a celeb. You hate JH but you doom BB to only be accessible to women like her because this unwanted attention that they are apparently “asking for” by association drives them away

by Anonymousreply 383August 2, 2021 10:16 PM

Edit R381 NO idea. Obviously.

by Anonymousreply 384August 2, 2021 10:19 PM

R383 Definitely. But we don’t know how they met. Was she on Raya? A member of the Punisher production crew? Not a normal ‘normie’ if so! But he could’ve just picked her up in a bar. Anyhow, we should move along now.

R378 Just confirms that PL was another inconsequential hookup for him, even if she did hop across the Pond to see him.

by Anonymousreply 385August 2, 2021 10:21 PM

Soon he can go by exclusion … it was not the pixie who spilled the package beans (if that was not fiction)

by Anonymousreply 386August 2, 2021 10:21 PM

R379 lol jealous much? How is that so much worse? As far as I know she just came to defend his honor about his package (assuming it’s the same person) and barely said anything since except to say “told you so” when you all discover Ben has actually fucked other normal people. Just because it will never be one of you doesn’t mean you have to be such jealous psychos. You are letting your Cindy show

by Anonymousreply 387August 2, 2021 10:21 PM

this was an obvious mistake if you're not some cynical jackass reading into it like a sleuth. she didn't ask for this and now ya'll are calling out her account and messaging her? really not cool. she asked for the thread to be deleted and did NOT say she slept with him (maybe her friend was misinformed) so you're really posting about her for no reason.

by Anonymousreply 388August 2, 2021 10:23 PM

Here’s the deal, y’all. When you treat people as disposable, as happens with one or two-offs, there should be no expectation for loyalty. When it’s an actual relationship, the rules of engagement change. Someone wants to fuck & run, someone will want to spill the tea. If you don’t want people to talk shit, tgen don’t give them shit to talk about.

by Anonymousreply 389August 2, 2021 10:23 PM

Wow this getting nasty. Can we stop turning into the S&B fandom please?

by Anonymousreply 390August 2, 2021 10:23 PM

SO….Malina or Darklina?

by Anonymousreply 391August 2, 2021 10:25 PM

Just from those ss she seems cool as hell. She confirmed nothing and asked for her name to be x'd out of this narrative. just going to friend her for being a cool a** b*tch

by Anonymousreply 392August 2, 2021 10:25 PM

R387 you‘re here just like hs sweatheart. So membership DL does not exclude anyone.

by Anonymousreply 393August 2, 2021 10:26 PM

R380 she said they have talked in years so doubt the emojis are related. Still think they were for JH or he is trolling. Both are not making him look good in any capacity.

R387 it’s not jealously, it’s about having class. Being the type of woman that doesn’t come on a forum for gay men and talks shiT. I can all talk shit because I’m never gonna meet this man in my life and honestly I don’t want to. She was intimate with him and she is being messy. Criticism of some white girls looks is not the same as telling the world whose dick you have had and then acting like that is right.

by Anonymousreply 394August 2, 2021 10:26 PM

R392 no one cares about her, that ship has sailed. We don’t care about the pixie girl.

Actually more interested in why the porn star chloe is at that shoot and why BB is acting like that project is just for him.

by Anonymousreply 395August 2, 2021 10:29 PM

[R394] the girl you're talking about didn't confirm she slept with him at all though. whoever tagged her could've had it wrong. she only made two comments and neither said she slept with him so shitting on her looks/saying anything rude is cruel and immature.

by Anonymousreply 396August 2, 2021 10:30 PM

R392. Chloe was there today, seems the other project wrapped yesterday. So I guess a different gig

by Anonymousreply 397August 2, 2021 10:31 PM

Why are we still talking about her? This is a forum for Ben Barnes yes?

by Anonymousreply 398August 2, 2021 10:31 PM

R397 Cherrie That is

by Anonymousreply 399August 2, 2021 10:31 PM

R392 awww thank you. Bummer was interested in how those worlds collided. Well everyone go watch chloe do some porn and can we please refocus. I thought all the talk about JH was bad.

by Anonymousreply 400August 2, 2021 10:33 PM

R394 lmao you all have been desperate for details and eager to debate size vs skill just hours ago, but are now on some self righteous streak now that someone used this site for exactly what it was invented for. Luckily class is not measured by what you do on an anonymous forum, I’m sure she’s doing just fine

by Anonymousreply 401August 2, 2021 10:33 PM

R32 wrong! i think there's something deeper to the pixie girl...i want to find out more. anyone here message her and get a response?

honestly this is the first girl there has ever been an IOTA of evidence about so i'm intrigued even if ya'll would rather talk about JHo. i want to know dick length, if he took her anywhere nice, etc! come join the fun pixie...some of us are VERY interested in your history with ben

by Anonymousreply 402August 2, 2021 10:33 PM

R401!we were only debating who remembered the conversation correctly afair. Not the thing itself.

by Anonymousreply 403August 2, 2021 10:35 PM

R401 who cares about how she is doing? Ben is doing just fine and look at the garbage fire that is his reputation online or only on this forum as all the criticism on twitter he is not tagged in. No one cares about her well being or how he fucked her and dumped her. Well done.

by Anonymousreply 404August 2, 2021 10:35 PM

R402 R401 lol case in point

by Anonymousreply 405August 2, 2021 10:36 PM

I feel like only two people care about that. I want dirt that will cause some damage.

by Anonymousreply 406August 2, 2021 10:38 PM

R406 ok psycho

by Anonymousreply 407August 2, 2021 10:39 PM

Oh my, most of us are just here for fun because we‘re bored. I‘ve been ill in bed for 12 days now and this is my major entertainment, I‘m not taking any of this seriously, let‘s all stop yelling and continue the fun part of imagining we can have a little influence in unmasking the Montana-Man.

by Anonymousreply 408August 2, 2021 10:39 PM

R406 What kind of damage? You want to ruin a man’s career because he chose to get his dick wet a few times with his divorcée neighbor? Hardly the biggest sin in Hollywood

by Anonymousreply 409August 2, 2021 10:40 PM

R408 couldn't have said it better!

by Anonymousreply 410August 2, 2021 10:41 PM

omg i was gone all day and i came back to a treasure trove!! lmao at the people in here saying "whatever who cares?" when ya'll have been DESPERATE for evidence about ANY girl he has ever fucked. now we get evidence about this pretty but not-famous girl he fucked and ya'll are pretending to be above it? puh-LEASE! did anyone manage to add her before she went private?

by Anonymousreply 411August 2, 2021 10:42 PM

Some entertainment to cleanse the timeline #hyriseforlife

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by Anonymousreply 412August 2, 2021 10:44 PM

R417 again to you, there is no you all in this. I‘m here because I think he‘s an idiot. I‘m absolutely sure he has sex with plenty of pretty girls all the time.

by Anonymousreply 413August 2, 2021 10:44 PM

R301 wow what a traumatised looking girl😐 R363 yes agreed crappy friend and whoever didn't block out the names properly did that intentionally which makes me think that this reveal of the ig profile was maliciously intended to reveal her identity but also she engaged in the convo ONLINE! Which is also on her but she doesn't deserve hate. R387 "your letting your Cindy show" Cindy's name is going to be the new Karen reference in BB fandom😂 R390 agreed the Barnacles Stans are joining the show now! I feel like im a kindagarden teacher🙃

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by Anonymousreply 414August 2, 2021 10:45 PM

R402 all i saw before pixie went private was she's a NY-based model. very pretty but not lots of information on there. it's possible if she models professionally she could run in entertainment circles (many models do.) he could have met her at an industry event or even at a bar, really. who knows what he was doing while in new york? definitely a playground for fuckboys like him

by Anonymousreply 415August 2, 2021 10:47 PM

R411 totally agree. I'm certainly interested and not above it 😂

by Anonymousreply 416August 2, 2021 10:51 PM

Everyday I think, today I‘m not going to Datalounge. And everyday something new escalates. How is this not the best show ever??? Thank you, Ben Barnes, for making me google you those weeks ago. I might be one of the few here who do not think you so very attractive, but I thank you for being so dumb and making my recovery such a fun ride. Hurray to Ben.

by Anonymousreply 417August 2, 2021 10:51 PM

R402 same. keep us updated.

by Anonymousreply 418August 2, 2021 10:52 PM

She got to fuck Billy Russo!!!! What a fuckin legend good for her

by Anonymousreply 419August 2, 2021 10:54 PM

R402 R418 Sadly there’s no way she’ll engage now.

by Anonymousreply 420August 2, 2021 10:55 PM

R417 honestly this is all far more entertaining than any film or TV show he's ever been in.

by Anonymousreply 421August 2, 2021 10:55 PM

R402 i did some sleuthing. not going to post receipts because someone trusted me with the info but pretty pixie was with him 2017-2018. it was more than a hookup according to my source. she is completely normal- not an industry drone. believe what you will.

by Anonymousreply 422August 2, 2021 10:57 PM

If some fucking asshole hadn't posted her profile and maybe had asked her nicely, she might have given up some info. One can only assume it was a jealous cunt that had him on a virgin pedestal, fantasizing that he was saving himself for her. He's never going to think of you as anything but a dollar sign, honey.

by Anonymousreply 423August 2, 2021 11:00 PM

Seriously I want the Ho back. I‘m not interested in normal people.

by Anonymousreply 424August 2, 2021 11:00 PM

R422 do you happen to know how they met? No worries if not/you’d rather not share obviously!

by Anonymousreply 425August 2, 2021 11:02 PM

Even for Ben Barnes hookups he's still just another generic actor and unmemorable ouch!

by Anonymousreply 426August 2, 2021 11:03 PM

There‘s NOTHING interesting about BB sleeping with nice pretty girls. That‘s what men like him do by default. But the Ho! And in a somewhat different capacity. THAT I find fascinating because it fits neither the friendly model fling, nor the serious lifepartner scenario.

by Anonymousreply 427August 2, 2021 11:04 PM

R422 they met while he was filming the punisher at some party. she is a model. lol @ the jealous hags on here who called her ugly when her job is to be professionally pretty. you people are ridiculous.

by Anonymousreply 428August 2, 2021 11:05 PM

R422 Pixie for the timeline! Do you maybe know why it ended?

by Anonymousreply 429August 2, 2021 11:05 PM

Snore. Okay, nobody here to Ho rage with me anymore. I hope there‘ll be better stuff tomorrow.

by Anonymousreply 430August 2, 2021 11:12 PM

I hope they reunite over this to solve the JH problem and turn all you jealous hags into super cindys. That would be a serendipitous turn of events

by Anonymousreply 431August 2, 2021 11:12 PM

R422 source says it was due to where they are each based/she had an ex in the picture. word is it wasn't that serious but there were feelings on both sides and that he used to call her pixie in public (source was at parties). don't know if that has anything to do with emojis.

by Anonymousreply 432August 2, 2021 11:12 PM

R430 I’m ready to ho rage again. I swear to god if I don’t find out wtf emojigate actually was I’m going to swipe on Raya until my thumbs fall off or I find BB to ask him

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by Anonymousreply 434August 2, 2021 11:16 PM
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by Anonymousreply 435August 2, 2021 11:16 PM

R432 Who tf is your source that has all these intimate details about Ben’s relationship? You could have satiated our curiosity anonymously without having to ruin that poor girls week

by Anonymousreply 436August 2, 2021 11:16 PM
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by Anonymousreply 437August 2, 2021 11:16 PM

R434 R435 why are you posting those again? We all have the ability to scroll

by Anonymousreply 438August 2, 2021 11:17 PM

R432 so doesn't seem like there is bad blood there. Does she feel like he is a decent guy? And thanks for the info BTW! I like Pixie, she seems cool. Much better than his other exes.

by Anonymousreply 439August 2, 2021 11:19 PM

R432 do you know if it was during season 1 or season 2 filming? Just curious because my friend was the one who saw him on Raya during season 2 filming!

by Anonymousreply 440August 2, 2021 11:19 PM

R432 i'm not the one who posted her pictures or ss. i just saw we had a mutual and did some sleuthing. source doesn't have any more info as he is an old acquantaince and only knew her from seeing her with him at some parties during filming. she isn't an actor or anything like that. he said she was always quiet around ben and sweet when he spoke to her. that's all i got for now

by Anonymousreply 441August 2, 2021 11:21 PM

2018 would have been season 2 filming. I also saw him on Raya in 2018 but that was before my interest in Ben was recently sparked so I unfortunately barely remembered who he was then

by Anonymousreply 442August 2, 2021 11:23 PM

Too bad there is no Raya where I‘m at. I only have a Wikipedia entry to boot.

by Anonymousreply 443August 2, 2021 11:28 PM

I wonder if Ben is ever going to touch social media ever again after this fiasco of a week for him. People forgot all about emojigate for a bit

by Anonymousreply 444August 2, 2021 11:29 PM

If not, I feel my mission is somehow accomplished

by Anonymousreply 445August 2, 2021 11:32 PM

R432 i only know what he said and he didn't say much more than that. she is a model, they met at a party that the source was at and he would see them together at house parties/bars while he was in nyc for about a year. no other info except that she was very kind and pretty in person. my source had nice things to say about ben as well although all of his info seemed casual/like anyone who was around them for any period of time would've known so yeah, not that deep but better than having no info.

will see if i can dig deeper

by Anonymousreply 446August 2, 2021 11:33 PM

So I guess he’s not gay after all

by Anonymousreply 447August 2, 2021 11:40 PM

R446 Interesting indeed! I think she looks like a cool pretty chick. I also like the fact that there was an ex in the picture - keeping it real, girl! But I am a bit confused, was there overlapping going on, then? Him, Pixie, Rayana, Peyton, unknown others? Just trying to tie in him seeing someone on a regular basis to being a fuckboy. Or has he just got lots of ladies on the go?

by Anonymousreply 448August 2, 2021 11:41 PM

R437 Smartass! We’re not worthy. Love the content.

by Anonymousreply 449August 2, 2021 11:42 PM

Ok. So the consensus among people who’ve spilled some tea is that they nothing bad to say about him. So as much we all want to judge his sexlife, the reality is that we’ve yet to hear one unkind word from those with IRL experience with him. I think that says a lot.

by Anonymousreply 450August 2, 2021 11:43 PM

R450 I think he’s an overall decent person and this theme you point out also aligns with what I’ve heard about him from mutual acquaintances. But unfortunately that makes him the perfect target for JH to take advantage of which is what probably brought many of us together here in the first place

by Anonymousreply 451August 2, 2021 11:49 PM

As if this poster here actually talked to someone who "knows" Kate/pixiegirlz.

Her super-fake boobs show her as a narcissist, who obviously sets out to snag rich, famous men (mostly the rich part). Fake boobs, fake lips, all of her Instagram photos showing off her body for potential customers - "boyfriends."

Fake boobs, already with fillers on her face and injected lips... she's no innocent flower.

The friend of a friend here is making it up, and not even doing a convincing job, although you seem to believe ANYTHING thrown out there about Ben.

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by Anonymousreply 452August 2, 2021 11:49 PM

"Ben called her 'Pixie'..."

LOL! Y'all will fall for ANYTHING!

by Anonymousreply 453August 2, 2021 11:50 PM

He's a covid fucker. That's all I need to know.

by Anonymousreply 454August 2, 2021 11:50 PM

"Ben called her 'Pixie!'"

Squee!

LOL!

by Anonymousreply 455August 2, 2021 11:52 PM

R452 awwwww is the pretty girl making you feel bad about yourself? Just try to cut some calories and exercise. I'm sure your mommy thinks you're beautiful.

by Anonymousreply 456August 2, 2021 11:52 PM

Y’all are just mad it took you 20 fucking threads to get hard evidence he’s not gay and now the last glimmer of hope is fading away for you. She has gorgeous eyes and doesn’t look remotely fake especially compared to Hollywood’s standards so you hateful hags just sounds ridiculous. But also lol at Ben calling her pixie i can’t see that

by Anonymousreply 457August 2, 2021 11:53 PM

R453 R455 Um, are you ladies even of voting age yet? Coherent sentences, or naff off.

by Anonymousreply 458August 2, 2021 11:54 PM

R452 *super-Cindy has entered the chat*

by Anonymousreply 459August 2, 2021 11:57 PM

R452 lol youre just a hater. nothing about her looks fake. tragic you can;t believe someone can just be pretty

by Anonymousreply 460August 2, 2021 11:57 PM

R452 or Cryinhoa

by Anonymousreply 461August 2, 2021 11:58 PM

No one is more jealous or more defensive than Cindy. (Except maybe Cryinhoa.) I doubt Cindy’s ever interacted with an adult cock in her life.

by Anonymousreply 462August 2, 2021 11:59 PM

Haha what’s this then? No context.

We know a lot of what he’s done. Give us a clue!!

And another thirst hotel-shilling post from HoMonster. Yawwwwn.

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by Anonymousreply 463August 3, 2021 12:00 AM

R452 she is a MODEL you absolute psycho. her body is her job. also there is nothing fake looking about her whatsoever. those are A cup tits- B cup at best in a pushup bikini. there is absolutely nothing scandalous about some model fucking some D list actor she met at a party. you're a jealous hag who is projecting and making up false stories to make yourself feel better. this girl fucked BB. you never will. sucks to suck.

by Anonymousreply 464August 3, 2021 12:03 AM

J-Ho is definitely playing catch-up with a backlog of payday posts, that’s for sure.

by Anonymousreply 465August 3, 2021 12:03 AM

R462 well hopefully not a non-adult cock either. Otherwise this thread just took a super dark turn

by Anonymousreply 466August 3, 2021 12:03 AM

R462 Teen Cindy may have had a bf. But yeah, I perhaps should’ve just said cock.

by Anonymousreply 467August 3, 2021 12:04 AM

R463 she’s part of our readership fo sho. She called herself a BB news account the other day after retweeting Ravena, but is an effective news spreader

by Anonymousreply 468August 3, 2021 12:06 AM

However most of the fans still seemed to be convinced it’s an album or music video and I now think that’s probably the least likely thing. So maybe they don’t share that opinion or don’t read the DL

by Anonymousreply 469August 3, 2021 12:08 AM

At this rate we might actually get to 40 threads by his 40th birthday lol

by Anonymousreply 470August 3, 2021 12:12 AM

R469 Maybe they don’t read threads in realtime, but will catch up later. They’re in for a few treats today! Honestly, for all of the reasons outlined above, I suspect his album isn’t coming any time soon. He prob bankrolls it song by song, bit by bit — if he’s even at the point where he’s recording.

by Anonymousreply 471August 3, 2021 12:14 AM

Here's Ross's Twitter, the guy in this thread who started it all:

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by Anonymousreply 472August 3, 2021 12:14 AM

DL's Ross only has two Followers.

#Sad

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by Anonymousreply 473August 3, 2021 12:16 AM

Not sure about music video but I do think it’s something that might be “his” in some way — as pointed up thread, all those people (Georgia, Chloe, Floriana, Lee, Evan) all know him in some way but don’t seem to know each other, so it feels plausible that he rounded up his friends for a project.

by Anonymousreply 474August 3, 2021 12:16 AM

I didn't start it all. Not this shit.

by Anonymousreply 475August 3, 2021 12:17 AM

The DL fam appears to be fighting now

by Anonymousreply 476August 3, 2021 12:18 AM

R473 Seriously? Is that the best you’ve got?

by Anonymousreply 477August 3, 2021 12:19 AM

Using first names feels like breaking the first rule of fight club

by Anonymousreply 478August 3, 2021 12:20 AM

holy shit. i;ve been here for years and this is the first time i've seen anything that even looks slightly confirmed as more than a friend. granted, pixie didn't say she slept with him (good if she had an NDA because this covers her) but i would assume she was seeing him. interesting about the overlap with peyton and rayana. i wonder if pixie took him to personal parties or if they merely attended ben's friend's events.

in any event this is fucking awesome. i'm glad he hooks up with women who aren't celebs and obsessed with themselves like the Ho. pixie is beautiful in a natural way. gorgeous body too. sad we drove her away. as someone mentioned above, if someone with some tact had just messaged her instead of some asshole posting her information here thus forcing her to go private, we couldve gotten some first hand info potentially. in any event, this was the most exciting thing i've read in any BB post for a long time. sick of reading about the Ho and how horrible she is. we know, it's boring.

by Anonymousreply 479August 3, 2021 12:20 AM

Woe is me. My BB troll account has but two followers. I feel so bad about myself. Clearly no one sees my posts. As I'm sure Kate would agree.

by Anonymousreply 480August 3, 2021 12:20 AM

Ross said that he thinks Ben has fillers but doesn't think the whore does.

Ridiculous.

by Anonymousreply 481August 3, 2021 12:20 AM

R481 JH has absolutely had fillers

by Anonymousreply 482August 3, 2021 12:23 AM

R480 Ah but thousands of lurkers. Just won’t put their heads above the parapet and follow in case they get blocked. Then they can’t act as double agents (winks). Keep up the good work.

by Anonymousreply 483August 3, 2021 12:24 AM

So people who have sex with other people are now whores. Just because. Should she have held out for marriage? Lol

by Anonymousreply 484August 3, 2021 12:24 AM

That's actually funny, R482.

Whore switchout.

by Anonymousreply 485August 3, 2021 12:25 AM

Then I’d say some people here need to do a bit more whoring because they are wound a little too tight if they get this furious over Ben having a confirmed relationship of some sort with a decent looking person.

by Anonymousreply 486August 3, 2021 12:26 AM

The title of Pixie's autobiography: Call Me Kate.

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by Anonymousreply 487August 3, 2021 12:27 AM

R481 Cindy go sit on some adult dick we are sick of your shit

by Anonymousreply 488August 3, 2021 12:27 AM

R487 why do you keep posting this? it's been posting 100 times and this poor girl did nothing. enough. let's move on.

by Anonymousreply 489August 3, 2021 12:29 AM

So. Anyone have any inkling as to how to view Exposed, the Patty Jenkins pilot that BB did in 2015? Or Killing Bono? Can’t find that either.

by Anonymousreply 490August 3, 2021 12:30 AM

R489 because they probably look like a literal troll in real life and are jealous AF

by Anonymousreply 491August 3, 2021 12:31 AM

Killing Bono I bought on Google movies. Exposed I could only find snippets on benbarnesfan.com

by Anonymousreply 492August 3, 2021 12:36 AM

R492 Google movies — did not even think to look there, thank you!

by Anonymousreply 493August 3, 2021 12:42 AM

R487 her autobiography should be called Kiss Me Kate. she's gorgeous. i'd fuck her too.

by Anonymousreply 494August 3, 2021 12:42 AM

does someone have an updated timeline including Pixie now? i need this all spelled out for me L M A O!!

by Anonymousreply 495August 3, 2021 12:44 AM

Sure. 1) leave her alone. 2) bitches be jealous.

by Anonymousreply 496August 3, 2021 12:45 AM

The original comments said they were just seeing each other casually so I don’t think it would really matter that much if her timeline overlapped with the others we are aware of or the Raya account. Not everyone dates exclusively this isn’t the 50s

by Anonymousreply 497August 3, 2021 12:46 AM

Y'all, can we just stop to imagine him in Hello Kitty underwear for a minute. Then let your mind wander to the Marks & Spencer underwear he mentions and then to the burgundy ones from the How About That video snippet and... I'll be right back. *sets shower handle all the way to cold*

R408 Sorry to hear you're not well and hope you get to feeling better soon!

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by Anonymousreply 498August 3, 2021 12:47 AM

R408 Sorry to hear you're not well and hope you get to feeling better soon!

by Anonymousreply 499August 3, 2021 12:47 AM

R497 the sleuth in this thread said they met at a party, not on an app. her source was at the party where they met. just want to get my facts straight lol

i wish we could see her page :( can't believe we lost a public account in the blink of an eye. maybe she had pics with ben hidden on there and we fucked it up by posting her page

by Anonymousreply 500August 3, 2021 12:49 AM

Good old sohoharlem.

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by Anonymousreply 501August 3, 2021 12:49 AM

R500 yeah I meant the original comments between her and her friend. They might have met at a party but it still could have been casual

by Anonymousreply 502August 3, 2021 12:54 AM

R500 lol right? we screwed up the chance of a lifetime here! something obvious/could've resulted in actual info/pics of ben with a woman he was linked sexually to. i'm mad it went down like this, ya'll aint shit. can we all agree that next time, we can handle this more tactfully (if there IS a next time?)

PS pixie seems cool. it's sad to see you hater hags attack pretty girls because they may or may not have fucked BB (doesn't look like she confirmed it herself)

by Anonymousreply 503August 3, 2021 12:57 AM

R498 Watched every single How About That on BB’s IG, and no sign of these burgundy skivvies. Hint as to which one, or link?

by Anonymousreply 504August 3, 2021 12:58 AM

R503 if she immediately asked her friend to delete those comments on a post with little to no likes/follows, she seems to respect his privacy even after they haven’t talked in years so I kinda doubt she would give any info privately to a stranger since nothing on the internet is private

by Anonymousreply 505August 3, 2021 1:00 AM

So after Tamsin he definitely seems to have a type with slim brunettes

by Anonymousreply 506August 3, 2021 1:07 AM

R446 back with slightly more info though nothing that exciting. just wanted to share what i got.

mutual acquaintance worked on the punisher in some capacity. says he knew ben through work and that he met pixie at a party in BK that was not hosted by industry folks, but a few people from set went to hang out at someone's apartment who had people over. ben met her there.

i asked if she was the one who approached him and he said no, that ben had approached her. they did NOT leave the party together but my source said they were together at multiple subsequent gatherings. they were not lovey-dovey in front of people (i asked specifically.) but it was obvious that they were fucking.

again, believe what you will. he told me ben called her pixie in front of people. not sure why that would be so unbelievable but i think it's true.

by Anonymousreply 507August 3, 2021 1:13 AM

R507 breaking hearts of fan girls everywhere. And Ainhoa was already obsessively using the fairy 🧚🏻‍♀️ even before all this

by Anonymousreply 508August 3, 2021 1:17 AM

R504 This one! I seem to remember some of the fangirls posting it in slow-mo!

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by Anonymousreply 509August 3, 2021 1:23 AM

R504 It's over in a flash but here you go!

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by Anonymousreply 510August 3, 2021 1:29 AM

R509 Haha! Funny one. He shrewdly avoided posting that his personal IG.

by Anonymousreply 511August 3, 2021 1:29 AM

R511 Yes he did! Just the cover sheet lmao.

by Anonymousreply 512August 3, 2021 1:36 AM

It's still available on his saved stories, I think.

by Anonymousreply 513August 3, 2021 1:36 AM

Here

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by Anonymousreply 514August 3, 2021 1:38 AM

R513 R514 Forgot about those! And with one of his cute little stickers - no pants club.

by Anonymousreply 515August 3, 2021 1:48 AM

R507 I’ll admit I’m jealous! but not about to start bad-mouthing the girl, lmao.

by Anonymousreply 516August 3, 2021 1:50 AM

R514 Thank you! Never watched the saved stories, so didn’t realize how many more of these there were to see. Wish they’d kept this up — they were fun :-)

by Anonymousreply 517August 3, 2021 1:51 AM

Yeah those were more of his STAY AT HOME I'M A GOOD GUY, COVID BAD campaign. And I believe they stopped when George Floyd was murdered and it didn't seem appropriate anymore.

by Anonymousreply 518August 3, 2021 1:53 AM

R507 i am also jealous. i wish i could've seen her page myself before it went private. maybe it sounds creepy but knowing about a girl he was with for the first time ever....i wanted to see all of her pics and know more about her. seeing her for a year is hardly a hookup so i guess i'm just curious about what she's like. would give us an idea about what other kinds of girls he goes for. JHo is terrible and i don't even think they're together tbh. a few coincidences does not a relationship make. i'd rather learn more about normal girls he's been with. makes him feel closer to earth

by Anonymousreply 519August 3, 2021 1:55 AM

I feel even more annoyed about this JH thing after learning that he could have been happy with a seemingly normal nice girl. Wtf are you doing with your time sir. I still see him with more of an intellectual type girl that isn’t necessarily an actress or model, but I guess some can be both

by Anonymousreply 520August 3, 2021 1:55 AM

Wait were they together for a year or was it casual but clearly fucking? It seems there are two stories

by Anonymousreply 521August 3, 2021 1:57 AM

does anyone know if the S&B teens have caught wind of pixie yet?

by Anonymousreply 522August 3, 2021 1:58 AM

Good lord, everyone let it be FFS.

by Anonymousreply 523August 3, 2021 1:58 AM

R521 it seems from the thread that they were casual (not exclusive) but were seeing each other for a year.

by Anonymousreply 524August 3, 2021 2:00 AM

R519 She’s still not a total ‘normie’ though is she, being a model and all. But she looks a helluva more normal than the fake HoMonster, that’s for sure.

R520 I would have thought so too, which makes the whole Ho Thing doubly incredible.

by Anonymousreply 525August 3, 2021 2:03 AM

But also on Raya and possibly overlapping with others during that time. He left for London around august 2018 to film gold digger too. And if she still had an ex in the picture it doesn’t really sound that serious and I agree we should move on. There are many relationships like that I’m sure we’ve all had them

by Anonymousreply 526August 3, 2021 2:04 AM

R524 That’s what doesn’t absolutely square with the fuckboy rep??

by Anonymousreply 527August 3, 2021 2:04 AM

I don’t know why the year matters that much that’s approximately the time he was in NYC it’s not that weird to have a resident fuck buddy I had several during 3 years of grad school

by Anonymousreply 528August 3, 2021 2:06 AM

R528 i feel like people are making a big deal out of nothing. we're all a bunch of bored ugly gay men / women who can't relate to what it must be like to just show up at a party and have there be some D list actors around to chat with. we have him on a pedestal but he is accessible to certain people as we see all the time. it's not crazy at all that they were together casually for some period while he was local to where i;m assuming she lives. whoopdeedoo. happy for her though. hope he treated her well. i do wonder if she knew there were others

by Anonymousreply 529August 3, 2021 2:10 AM

R525 It's cracking me up that people are calling her a normie when she looks like that! Famous or no, she's way more beautiful than any "normie" I know in my regular life. Doesn't shock me in the slightest that Ben would be attracted to pretty girls even if they aren't famous. Before the Ho, I never thought he was a fame-whore.

by Anonymousreply 530August 3, 2021 2:13 AM

R519 he's not close to earth. You're a $ to him. He doesn't give a fuck about you.

Nobody said how long they were seeing each other. They hung out for a while. Leave her alone. She hasn't seen him or heard from him for years.

by Anonymousreply 531August 3, 2021 2:13 AM

Not every beautiful girl ends up being an actress or a model lol the point of the word “normie” is that they aren’t famous or a public figure and may lead a low key life that shouldn’t involve having her profile publicly posted on a public gossip forum. I agree this may be a little bit of a gray area since she is a model (although not a widely known one) but I don’t think she needs someone going through “every” picture of her to “see what she’s like” just because she had a casual relationship with him 3 years ago. Which is probably why she immediately made her shit private ASAP and we should respect that

by Anonymousreply 532August 3, 2021 2:24 AM

Go stalk Rayana or Tamsin they both have public profiles

by Anonymousreply 533August 3, 2021 2:25 AM

Who's gonna tell Cindy about Pixie? I would love to see her reaction. She probably thinks he's never been with anyone, ever! He's obviously saving himself for her. Would love to see her implode over this

by Anonymousreply 534August 3, 2021 2:29 AM

R519 Jesus with comments like this no wonder he wants to keep his dating life private. It’s for their protection too not just his

by Anonymousreply 535August 3, 2021 2:30 AM

I'm just gonna say it: I liked this place much better before fangirls showed up.

You may go now.

by Anonymousreply 536August 3, 2021 2:30 AM

R536 was is? in the years we were just speculating whether or not he was gay when he obviously isn't? i'd rather know the truth, myself.

by Anonymousreply 537August 3, 2021 2:38 AM

R535 that's what I told her. She's worried about some psycho bitch hunting her down and I can't even tell her she's being ridiculous.

by Anonymousreply 538August 3, 2021 2:38 AM

R538 The Ben Barnes fandom is crazy I don’t blame her. It will take a special type of person to brave that to go public with Ben someday. Lots of parallels to why Josh and Tamsin fled to England

by Anonymousreply 539August 3, 2021 2:43 AM

R539 Still feel like Matthew Goode is a great example of a tall, lean, prettier-than-thou British actor who manages to work a lot while having a lowkey life with a family. But he lives in England. It is possible, there. Perhaps just not in LA… ?

by Anonymousreply 540August 3, 2021 2:50 AM

R540 it’s totally possible. There are a lot of normal people in LA as well, so maybe I’m being naive but I’m holding out hope for him!

by Anonymousreply 541August 3, 2021 2:52 AM

R535 i agree with you. read the whole thread and i think it was really sick to post this girl's ig. she never even confirmed she slept with ben. she didn't say much of anything at all. are we posting ig's of every person he's ever possibly interacted with now? not cool.

by Anonymousreply 542August 3, 2021 2:55 AM

R541 I think he would have to want that. He's the same guy that dropped everything to leave London and go to Montana to screw Julianne Hough with no quarantine. Tests can give false negatives. He followed his dick during a pandemic where millions have died. That makes him a bad person.

by Anonymousreply 543August 3, 2021 2:57 AM

I think part of Ben’s problem was that he got famous with a certain set of the population with Caspian and in the era of twilight and Harry Potter fandoms when online communities around those fandoms and others really took off and him getting fan cast as literally everything just took on a life of its own so he has this extremely intense niche fanbase that doesn’t even necessarily align with his career because some of the things he’s most famous for with them are characters he didn’t even play like Sirius black. I assume offline it’s been much more low key because otherwise he wouldn’t have been able to stay so private I think, but S&B made him enter a new wave of that craze so it’s hard to compare him to other British actors who mostly play in BBC and period pieces and have a more mature fan base. I don’t think living in LA helps

by Anonymousreply 544August 3, 2021 3:00 AM

I really wish he would just go through a moody phase where he does interviews like Rpatz making fun of his work and his fans and saying he wants to strangle whoever came up with the nick name Rpatz (same with BinBins) and just give them a healthy dose of though love

by Anonymousreply 545August 3, 2021 3:05 AM

What does everyone think of his acting? I think he's pretty good. Nothing amazing but convincing in his later roles. Billy Russo was his best character, hands down. Wish they would've explored him more in season one. Didn't love season two as much

by Anonymousreply 546August 3, 2021 3:06 AM

Ive been aware of him over the years and happened to randomly meet him once at a bar but besides one of the Caspian movies that I don’t really remember I haven’t seen anything of his before 2015. I “discovered” him in Westworld and then rediscovered him in S&B and have since watched the punisher and gold digger and think he is a very underrated actor based on the impression I got from all that. I’ll eventually make my way through it he pre-2015 stuff perhaps, but it sounds like he’s made massive progress and I think it makes him a little more endearing that he’s had to work at it and improve and wasn’t just a natural cocky talent from the beginning.

by Anonymousreply 547August 3, 2021 3:14 AM

R547 tell us more about meeting him!

by Anonymousreply 548August 3, 2021 3:15 AM

R548 It’s not really that exciting of a story because I have to say I didn’t really find Ben that attractive until like 2016 onwards and I think I met him in either 2013 or 2014 around the holidays in London, so it didn’t leave that big of an impression on me lol but I would probably feel differently now. And I was kinda tipsy. And he was wearing a weirdly deep vneck shirt or sweater which I just hate on guys lol. But I was standing at the bar with my friend getting drinks and my friend loudly and drunkenly said “that’s prince Caspian” and I didn’t recognize either Ben or the main person he was with but in retrospect I think (or maybe hope lol) it may have been Jack. And one of their friends asked if we were going to ask for a picture and I said no I don’t know who they are and Ben or Jack said something like “that’s what we like to hear.” Then I must have chatted to Ben a little more while we were waiting at the bar until I figured out who Caspian was because I remember telling him I only saw the second movie with Caspian on the “boat” and I only saw it because I love Reepicheep. And he laughed and said you’d be surprised how often I hear that or something. And I think I may have asked about how Reepicheep was made or some stupid question like that but he was at least laughing and friendly and gave some answer I must have been satisfied with. I think we were standing near them and chatted for a bit longer after we finally got our drinks from the bar but eventually went somewhere else. Anyways this sounds like a dumb rambling fanfic now lol so believe it or not, but that’s what I remember of it. A wasted opportunity in retrospect. But they all seemed really nice and Ben seemed a bit more reserved compared to the other guys he was with.

by Anonymousreply 549August 3, 2021 3:44 AM

R549 and for the record I was like 27 or 28 at this time I wasn’t a child, I just really liked Reepicheep especially when I was drinking apparently

by Anonymousreply 550August 3, 2021 3:53 AM

R432 maybe im reading too much into this but i think it's interesting the mutual said pixie was quiet with ben. ben always struck me as someone who would be the one to fall back in group settings. i'm trying to picture her sitting next to him, his hand on her thigh, while he blabbers on and does all the talking. giving me more of a billy russo vibe than i've thought he would be irl. or maybe hes just different around different people. i just picture him with the Ho being the one to fall back while she blabs.

by Anonymousreply 551August 3, 2021 3:57 AM

R549 that’s a really sweet story, thank you for sharing!

by Anonymousreply 552August 3, 2021 4:00 AM

Found a bunch of Pretty Pixie's modeling photos. Do I post....

by Anonymousreply 553August 3, 2021 4:10 AM

No, just leave it already.

by Anonymousreply 554August 3, 2021 4:12 AM

Leave her alone. She didn’t ask for this. Her friend dragged her into it. Oh

by Anonymousreply 555August 3, 2021 4:17 AM

R553 dude, no. her stuff never shouldve even been posted here. let this woman live.

by Anonymousreply 556August 3, 2021 4:25 AM

while i'm curious, we can already see from the photos posted that she is beautiful with brown hair and blue eyes. what else is there to see. let's grow up, DL. most of us are in our 40s and harassing this young woman isn't a good look

by Anonymousreply 557August 3, 2021 4:28 AM

Jesus Fuck I leave to go to work One. Day..

A couple thoughts, though the last is most important IMO..

(Part 1) Attractiveness is entirely subjective period. However, if this girl is a professional model, then she was likely scouted by professionals and judged by those professionals to be appealing enough to the masses, otherwise she wouldn't get work as a model. These girls are not hired for their minds, and it does not matter one iota whether they have them or not outside of work. They're hired exclusively because they're attractive enough to be worth the monetary investment. If you personally don't find her attractive, the likelihood that the professionals managing her image would use it to try to sell *you* something is. . . slim. She just looks like a girl to me, but then, I don't give a fuck. And that's the entirety of my two cents on that. It literally doesn't matter.

Also, let's not kid ourselves ladies, she is *not* a normie. She may not be a supermodel with a billion dollar worldwide name, but she is a professional model. Literally speaking, her job is to have people look at her all day. Analyze every detail they wish because she's meant to make others want to be more like her. After all, if you wear the clothes she's wearing, and do your hair and make-up *exactly* like she does, maybe you'll get that much closer to other people finding you attractive too. That's what models sell, the enticement to make you look. Otherwise we'd just take pictures of the clothes on a hanger, and who would be enticed then. Whether that should be the case is a debate The Woke are welcome to have, but it doesn't belong here. At least for now, this *is* the way it is.

by Anonymousreply 558August 3, 2021 4:41 AM

(Part 2) That he possibly called her Pixie.. At least that is what she calls herself in her IG, so might be her thing this time. Or maybe women associated with fairy emojis are his thing, who knows! But it unfortunately made me remember two other things. The first being when Rayana's twitter (during the time they were dating) featured her extolling the virtues of ending a phone conversation with the classic continued argument of "no YOU hang up!" And I had to fight to keep my lunch down. At least *she* had the excuse of being only 22. But then secondly there was also that Italian singer, whose name was Valentina, but who Ben used his private account to once comment, "Happy Birthday Valley-kins!" And again, my vomit center rumbled. Though now, all three of these things make me wonder. . . Is Man-child Ben's kink that he likes to infantilize his girls? Is that why he prefers them so much younger? It makes it easier to have them not protest? And people want him to date more intellectual girls. . . I ask you, what girl with any self worth in her brain would countenance that foolishness? It may just be that he works with all he can get.

This purported timeline feels off somehow.. 2017 - 2018? If memory serves, Ben wrapped Punisher1 in April (or May??) 2017 and left NYC. There's no record of him being in NYC again until. . . . He was supposed to return for NYCC in October 2017 but that was cancelled due to the Las Vegas mass shooting. He did return for the Punisher1 premiere November 6th. He could have stayed a little while but he was back in LA by the 15th. Then, there's no known record of him being in NYC again till February 2018 when Punisher2 starts filming (and just of note, that was the last time he ever added a post, three at once, to his private account. huh..). He is there however until August 2018. I remain convinced that Peyton (who was filming that Batman show in NYC within the first half of that year) enters the picture during Punisher2 filming, because otherwise why would he skip his wrap party and RUSH home to LA in August? Especially if this girl is still in the picture then? And the "intel" said they stopped their casual flinging because they lived in different places (LA and NYC). Yet he was *IN NYC* with this model-girl for the majority of 2018. Now while I fully understand the concept of unserious casual dating. . . when *exactly* did this go on? Unless it was *literally* just a "hey I'm in town again, you up?" Otherwise, and while I've no doubt he made some serious money doing two seasons of flagship HBO and one season with a renewal upcoming of Netflix MCU, he would have had to do multiple(??) cross-country short stay flights for months for nothing more than a booty call? Really???

by Anonymousreply 559August 3, 2021 4:41 AM

(Part 3) And now lastly, to all the newbie ladies who've wandered in over the past couple weeks. I personally don't mind at all that you're here and I sincerely welcome you if you want to remain. And I sincerely apologize if you didn't realize ahead of time into what kind of den you wandered. Please allow me to make a semi-formal introduction. This is Datalounge. A forum built and designed (at least in part) for the snippiest of bitches to gossip their fucking brains out without the need to be polite and with no fear of being crude. If this thread's newest contents offend your sensibilities be thankful you didn't wander into SO MANY of the other threads here. This thread is why we're here, in Datalounge. What you have to understand is the collective blueballed orgasm that was had by The OG Ben Barnes Posters here today. I'd bet most don't even care that it's about a woman, just the fact that *something* might have officially slipped out. Understand the exuberance by understanding how long and boring the wait has otherwise been.

Again, if DL has offended your sensibilities I actually do apologize. However, this is largely what is done here. So please do not enter this home and demand to rearrange the furniture. That's far more rude than anything that's been posted here today. If after today, you wish to pull up a chaise lounge and watch and post with us, then feel free to stay. If you merely want to lurk, I shall wave to you from afar. But always remember where you are and respect it. Otherwise, it has genuinely been nice chatting with you ladies and I wish you well.

Good night ALL.

by Anonymousreply 560August 3, 2021 4:41 AM

Ugh the begging to look begins again. Remember the one that was screaming at him to look at the badly photoshopped pic that replaced ARR with some fangirl's face and they screamed for him to look because they made a cute couple?

His fangirls are fucking batshit.

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by Anonymousreply 561August 3, 2021 5:01 AM

Some good advice for Ben!

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by Anonymousreply 562August 3, 2021 5:35 AM

Watched the 11-minute clip of Exposed, with Ben’s scenes as Stoya. While this was a departure from his earlier work, it is very similar to his work on the Punisher S1. He needs some role diversification after S&B S2.

by Anonymousreply 563August 3, 2021 6:33 AM

R563 There are even similarities in the storyline - the military angle, Stoya and investigative reporter, Russo and Madani - attracted to and sleeping with each other, but each having hidden agendas. Still, it’s a pity it didn’t get picked up, he looked hot in it.

by Anonymousreply 564August 3, 2021 8:06 AM

Okay, maybe it's childish, and I 100% understand casual dating, but I still want to try and figure some semblance of a timeline. Because the math is giving me a headache. Anyone wanna please assist?

So 2016 - ? Rayana 2017- 2018? Pixie 2018 - ? Meganne Young (btw why does no one here care about her? Do I simply find her vaguely interesting because we're both South African? Along with Ben's mom. Must be that I guess.) 2018 - 2019 - Peyton April 2020 - the Ho Era begins

Corrections/thoughts please?

by Anonymousreply 565August 3, 2021 8:54 AM

R565 I could be wrong but I thought he was hooking up with Rayana mid 2016 to early 2017?

Meganne - I think she was part of his 2016/2017 friendship group. She posted a pic of her hugging him in April 2017, so that was *maybe* a hint they were dating - and even clingier pix on 21 Aug 2018 (1 day late for his birthday!) saying ‘old birthday pics for an older birthday boy’ and a big gushing caption about him. He didn’t like either of them with his public IG but I think someone on here said he’d followed her on his private account so he might’ve liked it with that (he did that on Rayana’s posts, so it’s a possibility).

I got the feeling (based solely on those pix I admit!) that she was maybe a bit too clingy for him and if they did date rather than hang out with the friend group, it was over super quick. Again though - who actually knows and I could be totally wrong,

by Anonymousreply 566August 3, 2021 9:51 AM

R566 Forgot to say, re the hugging pic in particular - I think that’s what most people base the dating rumour on but we know BB is not keen on those, don’t we?!

by Anonymousreply 567August 3, 2021 10:04 AM

R566 I had the same impression re: Meganne, that her public posts were a turn-off to him. R565 Have also wondered why she’s so overlooked here. I think 2017-2018 is their timeline, and it would have been LA-based. I’ve never had any indication from her IG that she’s spent time in NYC, though she does spend time in LA. But we know that he was with Peyton in 2018, so maybe Meganne was really 2017 and her birthday post in 2018 was a reference to the 2017 birthday. Either way, she still follows him on IG.

by Anonymousreply 568August 3, 2021 11:51 AM

Since we’ve established that BB finds someone local to attend to his sexual needs wherever he’s on set filming, any thoughts on the lucky lady/ladies for Budapest in 2019-2020?

by Anonymousreply 569August 3, 2021 12:06 PM

Pants getting a little tight in public here?

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by Anonymousreply 570August 3, 2021 12:10 PM

R557 Loved this whole analysis. Attraction is obviously subjective but there is no doubt Pretty Pixie (PP? what are we calling her now?) is objectively beautiful. Symmetrical, nice coloring, fine features, slim body, small waist. No one is asking DL hags to want to fuck her but to the 2 or 3 posters who were calling her UGLY....their motives are clear. I hate seeing that type of jealousy over anyone purported to be with a famous person. It makes everyone look petty, jealous, and frankly, stupid.

In general I agree with the rest of what you wrote, but because this woman was not a public figure//how this all looks to have come about, I wish she hadn't been posted here at all. Rayana, Meganne, the Ho are all public figures and fair game. Private people....not so much. Think whoever posted that should;ve used better judgement.

by Anonymousreply 571August 3, 2021 12:47 PM

R568 I think it's 2018 that's got me wondering. So potentially he had 3 that we know of in 2018? Meganne, Pixie and Peyton? R568 I also get the feeling that her posts and maybe being a bit clingy were a problem. Don't think it lasted long or that they were serious either, but def more than just friends in my opinion. If they were over by late 2017 and she posted those Birthday photos of him a year later in 2018, that's a little strange, no? Was she deliberately trying to stick it to him after the breakup knowing how much he hates stuff like that? R569 I would also definitely like to know about who it was for S&B filming!

by Anonymousreply 572August 3, 2021 1:01 PM

R571 I think whoever posted that should have some supervision of their internet use from their mommy and daddy as they're clearly still in fucking middle school. Probably one of the dorks who make videos for him. There's one that says they feel like they know him.

He knows you, too, honey. Your name is $.

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by Anonymousreply 573August 3, 2021 1:03 PM

R572 I never thought of it like that, flagrantly sticking it to him by tagging him in a suggestive photo, but could very well be. I always thought she was trying to take them public, exploiting her association or trying to rekindle… but knowing what we do about him, his privacy, the no photos/no tagging rules, surely she was already redirected after the April 2017 post. The Aug 2018 is ostensibly sweet, but likely just a very passive-aggressive needling.

by Anonymousreply 574August 3, 2021 1:07 PM

Did people tear apart Meganne and Rayana's looks when they were first posted here? Both look so average (especially meganne) to me. Hard to see Ben with them. I think JHo is also nothing special and her eyes trip me out.

by Anonymousreply 575August 3, 2021 1:13 PM

R575 To my eye, Meganne is pretty, but very girl-next-door. Rayanna is striking, beautiful.

by Anonymousreply 576August 3, 2021 1:17 PM

R574 They were in the same friend group at the time. I felt that Meganne was so gushing in both 2017 post and even more so in 2018 that she was trying to push it both times. I think if they *were* together then BB would’ve had her take down the post. Rayana had at least one during her time with him that disappeared off her IG (someone documented it many threads ago, I can’t remember which) as it hinted big time about the two of them being together and I don’t think he was even in it! I’m sceptical they dated. I think she wanted to date him but it never went further than that. All the ‘who dated who’ websites who mention her have that 2017 photo so I guess she kind of won after all, even if she didn’t actually get the guy!

by Anonymousreply 577August 3, 2021 1:20 PM

R577 Very gushy indeed. In any event, one of her accomplishments was to reinforce his no photos, no tagging rules and drive him further into his hidey-hole.

by Anonymousreply 578August 3, 2021 1:24 PM

R575 R576 Someone did make a bitchy comment on an old thread about how you ‘could screen a movie on Rayana’s forehead’ and I haven’t been able to unsee that since! (Sorry RR!) Someone on a more recent one said they thought Meganne looked plain and boring but I don’t think they’ve been ripped apart as such for their looks, no. With Rayana it was more her age and her ambition that got it most. Meganne kind of sank without trace as I think most people weren’t sure they’d actually dated.

by Anonymousreply 579August 3, 2021 1:27 PM

R579 She certainly wanted people to think it was more, or to know that it was. So either way, she disrespected his wishes re: privacy, tagging, etc. I think he backed off or broke off as a result.

by Anonymousreply 580August 3, 2021 1:38 PM

R575 I agree that Meganne is painfully average. Not ugly but just totally bland. Rayana needs bangs. Pixie seems above the lot to me. If I saw her on the street I'd be enthralled, she's my type.

by Anonymousreply 581August 3, 2021 1:39 PM

R580 Yeah I think so too. Wish whoever it was that said he’d followed MY on his private IG would tell us if he liked one or both photos or not. If he did, then I think they were definitely just friends. Right enough if he didn’t like them, it’s hard to know if that was because they were something more or he was just unimpressed that she’d posted them. I definitely get the feeling that she was the one pushing it.

R581 I scrolled through her feed and Rayana’s got a full fringe these days, much better. Interestingly enough, his castmate Calahan Skogman began liking just about every one of her posts in March this year and then stopped. What a small world!

by Anonymousreply 582August 3, 2021 1:58 PM

R581 She does have bangs nowadays ;-)

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by Anonymousreply 583August 3, 2021 1:59 PM

Let's not forget that it wasn't only RR that was posting things back then, she had friends. It was a friend that posted their brunch date. It was a (different) friend that posted the video of their karaoke night, in which you could *VERY* *clearly* hear Ben singing Oasis' Champagne Supernova with all *her* friends. It wasn't his friends too, it was only her and her friends. And there's no evidence she came to NYC in October for work. There is evidence she hung out with him (and all her friends that eventually met her there when they all hung out together) while she was there. It was while she was there with him that Ben went to see Hamilton. Did he go alone? He made you think he did with his public social media, but I'm rather dubious.

BTW, I believe someone once asked how we knew about her at all. Because Ben I'm a very careful person Barnes mixed up his public and private IGs. Again. Too bad for him it takes far more intelligence to successfully live a double life.

by Anonymousreply 584August 3, 2021 2:13 PM

R582 Just for the month of March, to clarify.

by Anonymousreply 585August 3, 2021 2:13 PM

R584 Ha ha I didn’t know that snippet about his public/private IG! What did he post, do you know? What a dork!!

by Anonymousreply 586August 3, 2021 2:16 PM

I think it’s odd people immediately think BB and MY dated just because she posted a gushing bday post for him, but some of this other friends like Brooke also post sweet birthday posts for him like Brooke’s story series last year, and people never assume they are more than just friends. She’s also been able to post him on Instagram without being reprimanded, but maybe it’s because Brooke seems longer term than MY.

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by Anonymousreply 587August 3, 2021 2:18 PM

OK i really need someone to figure out a definitive (as possible) timeline for all of these lovely ladies. We need to get our ducks in a row!

by Anonymousreply 588August 3, 2021 2:25 PM

R587 That’s true, but has she ever posted photos of her draped all over him or kissing him - not sure she has? And I agree, she seems to have been part of the Julian/Rob/Chike gang so definitely a longer term friend. BB doesn’t follow her on his public IG but maybe she was on his private one, which of course he’s cleared out now.

Would love to know if he’s got a genuine new private IG? Maybe not - bearing in mind the recent EmojiGate activity and also that he kept mixing up the two!!!

by Anonymousreply 589August 3, 2021 2:27 PM

I don’t think a timeline would be that helpful when only the maybe 10% that have been caught by the paparazzi or immature enough to try to get caught on social media are known to DL. That just makes him look like a nearly celibate saint with only a small handful of girls over a decade

by Anonymousreply 590August 3, 2021 2:29 PM

R590 10% is generous…

by Anonymousreply 591August 3, 2021 2:31 PM

I have reason to believe those fairy emojis were for PP and not JH.

by Anonymousreply 592August 3, 2021 2:32 PM

PP?

by Anonymousreply 593August 3, 2021 2:33 PM

R593 I think they're referring to Pretty Pixie

by Anonymousreply 594August 3, 2021 2:35 PM

R594 lol no I’ve talked to her I can assure you they are not. They haven’t talked in years she got randomly dragged into all this by her friend stop trying to stir shit up just leave her alone

by Anonymousreply 595August 3, 2021 2:37 PM

Brooke was clearly just part of the Julian/Landon/Zelda crowd. Love this post, in which she avoids naming/tagging him but takes the piss out if him with the #hyriseforever hashtag.

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by Anonymousreply 596August 3, 2021 2:41 PM

One more for you bitches!

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by Anonymousreply 597August 3, 2021 2:42 PM

Oh! And a look in the comments of R596 will see a comment from the one & only Billy Shears.

by Anonymousreply 598August 3, 2021 2:43 PM

The desperation to continue to harass this woman by making shit up is just embarrassing even for an anonymous site

by Anonymousreply 599August 3, 2021 2:44 PM

Thread closed. Move it!!

by Anonymousreply 600August 3, 2021 2:46 PM
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