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Are Any DLers Victims of Findom?

Don’t tell me you guys are giving up your hard-earned Social Security money to these bozos.

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by Anonymousreply 142October 12, 2021 10:52 PM


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by Anonymousreply 1July 30, 2021 11:14 PM

Whoa! He's hot!

How much is the #fagtax ?

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by Anonymousreply 2July 30, 2021 11:15 PM

This is why they hate us.

by Anonymousreply 3July 30, 2021 11:16 PM
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by Anonymousreply 4July 30, 2021 11:16 PM

Pathetic AF.

by Anonymousreply 5July 30, 2021 11:18 PM

Will YOU pay for his new tatts?

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by Anonymousreply 6July 30, 2021 11:22 PM

Watch this. Sickening.

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by Anonymousreply 7July 30, 2021 11:23 PM

None of those guys look alpha!, why would I pay for them to Dom me?

by Anonymousreply 8July 30, 2021 11:26 PM

When fetish is not distinguishable from abuse, it's abuse. These guys are emotional predators.

It would be hilarious to cancel and bankrupt these guys, particularly shits like Pedro.

by Anonymousreply 9July 30, 2021 11:28 PM


by Anonymousreply 10July 30, 2021 11:28 PM

That twink Pedro should be getting his young ripe ass pounded, but instead he’s siphoning tens of thousands of dollars from the pockets of gay men for doing absolutely nothing.

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by Anonymousreply 11July 30, 2021 11:32 PM

There's a local guy i see on grindr, his linked twitter shows he's a findom. His postings make me laugh, and cringe. I guess there are guys really into that. It just comes across as forced. Oh well, to each their own I guess.

by Anonymousreply 12July 31, 2021 2:39 AM

“To each their own” my ass. This needs to be shut down by the Department of Justice.

by Anonymousreply 13July 31, 2021 6:43 AM

R12 He'd probably cry like baby if any size dick got in his ass.

by Anonymousreply 14July 31, 2021 6:47 AM

R13 I wonder how much of a "dom" Pedro would be in jail.

by Anonymousreply 15July 31, 2021 6:51 AM

And guys actually pay for this shit to be told what to do over the internet from some clever whore who clearly thinks he getting over. Wow.. fuck that shit don’t do it.

That’s absolutely criminal like taking advantage of the mentally ill by stealing their personal savings. Don’t do it. And I hope this gets shut down ASAP.

by Anonymousreply 16July 31, 2021 6:58 AM

Why anyone would pay these nellies is beyond me.

by Anonymousreply 17July 31, 2021 7:02 AM

In my day, when you paid a whore, you at least got to have sex.

by Anonymousreply 18July 31, 2021 7:10 AM

These are Alphas?

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by Anonymousreply 19July 31, 2021 11:58 AM

What is in it for the payers? Do they actually get off on this more than taking the same amount of cash and finding a rent boy? It seems like the same thing, minus the chance for actual enjoyment. Makes zero sense.

by Anonymousreply 20July 31, 2021 1:32 PM

Paying people for sex is pathetic

by Anonymousreply 21July 31, 2021 1:38 PM

R21 True, but paying people for no sex, that seems even more pathetic.

by Anonymousreply 22July 31, 2021 1:41 PM

Twinks are Alphas now, man this world is screwed up.

by Anonymousreply 23July 31, 2021 1:57 PM

The whole "alpha" thing is so laughably ridiculous.

Anyone who has to say it or claim it is NOT one by the very definition.

by Anonymousreply 24July 31, 2021 2:10 PM

Not really. I know of many alphas who advertise it

by Anonymousreply 25July 31, 2021 2:14 PM

If you have to tell people you're an "alpha" or advertise it, you aren't one.

Your status as top dog should be readily and abundantly apparent, as it is among animals.

by Anonymousreply 26July 31, 2021 2:17 PM

R24/R26 you can usually tell which the alpha is in any room by looking to whom every person or creature points their feet and body. Isn’t always the biggest and strongest and loudest, and it isn’t always the male either.

by Anonymousreply 27July 31, 2021 2:29 PM

This may be a controversial take, but I think this is only acceptable when women do it to men—sort of like reparations for all the unfair and abusive control females have laboured under for so many years, and for the constrictive patriarchal controls still in place across the world. Plus, so many Hetero men turn out to be abusive pigs or fucked-up sociopaths, even if only covertly, that frankly many of them deserve to be entrapped in shit like this. Payback is a dog.

But men doing it to other men, and gays to other gays...yeah, not sure about it (FWIW I’d also feel uncomfortable about a woman doing it to another woman). Doesn’t seem fair or to have any sociopolitical point, even in an eye-for-an-eye sense.

by Anonymousreply 28July 31, 2021 2:30 PM

When is this going to be shut down? Where are the authorities?

by Anonymousreply 29July 31, 2021 2:32 PM

Why are the findom people so often into feet? What is the connection? I don’t get it.

Best guess is that it’s connected to the idea of degradation or being close to the ground I.e. submissive and ‘dirty’ and ‘low’.

by Anonymousreply 30July 31, 2021 2:47 PM

Hey, if you can just demand people to give you money for doing nothing, why not?

by Anonymousreply 31July 31, 2021 3:19 PM

This hot guy has a normal Twitter and Instagram where he’s very sweet AND openly gay, and he has this findom account.

He’s NOT an Alpha, as his other accounts make clear.

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by Anonymousreply 32July 31, 2021 5:40 PM

^^well it’s cheaper than therapy I guess...

by Anonymousreply 33July 31, 2021 7:10 PM

I love hot alpha feet

by Anonymousreply 34July 31, 2021 7:13 PM

R3, findom is a million times bigger with straight men than it is with gays.

by Anonymousreply 35July 31, 2021 7:17 PM

I see LOTS of punchable faces here.

by Anonymousreply 36July 31, 2021 7:18 PM

I've spent more than I care to think about of rentboys and such, but I always get dick out of it.

by Anonymousreply 37July 31, 2021 7:19 PM

Blast from the past

by Anonymousreply 38July 31, 2021 7:27 PM


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by Anonymousreply 39July 31, 2021 7:27 PM


They enjoy it.

by Anonymousreply 40July 31, 2021 7:30 PM

No more than a drug addict or alcoholic, R40.

by Anonymousreply 41July 31, 2021 7:44 PM

Why are people all screaming MARY’s about this? It’s nkt that crazy and if you get off on it then do it. No harm done. The person giving the money have the ultimate choice. It’s probably a rush similar to poppers or certain drugs I imagine.

How about the people eating and being 700lb? Where are the authorities in shutting down McDonald’s?

by Anonymousreply 42July 31, 2021 8:02 PM

Putin: alpha

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by Anonymousreply 43July 31, 2021 8:27 PM

Lady Alpha G

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by Anonymousreply 44July 31, 2021 8:30 PM

What kind of taxable earnings are these Alphas reporting ?

All information appreciated and anonymity assured.


by Anonymousreply 45July 31, 2021 8:35 PM

You all need to stop kink shaming people.

by Anonymousreply 46July 31, 2021 11:00 PM

They need reporting to the tax authorities.

by Anonymousreply 47July 31, 2021 11:15 PM

R47 if they get paid via PayPal or other apps, after 6k they’re gonna get a tax form and will need to pay (most likely with penalties)

by Anonymousreply 48July 31, 2021 11:23 PM


by Anonymousreply 49July 31, 2021 11:26 PM

R13, if people get off by sending money to an 'alpha' what business is it of ours? I think its ridiculous but that doesn't make it wrong. if anything they are up front people unlike those phone scammers telling old ladies to buy gift cards.

Unless you think people shouldn't be allowed to do what they want with their own money. Some buy beanie babies, some buy drugs, some buy stocks,and some send it to doms.

by Anonymousreply 50August 1, 2021 1:40 AM

The authorities need to bring an end to it.

by Anonymousreply 51August 1, 2021 7:06 AM

R51 why are people calling for authorities? No one is forcing these people to give them money by will… this is all consensual. Kink shaming at it’s finest. If these guys real in enough money via online payment apps they will need to pay taxes.

by Anonymousreply 52August 1, 2021 4:08 PM

Reel in not real in* OH DEAR!

by Anonymousreply 53August 1, 2021 4:09 PM

Look at this shit.

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by Anonymousreply 54August 30, 2021 1:45 AM

R48, it’s not $6000 it’s $600. All the Ebay resellers I know are so upset!

by Anonymousreply 55August 30, 2021 1:48 AM

R50 Exactly right. I'm surprised these guys haven't found a way to make cash in both directions - from the suckers who love getting treated like shit, and those who would love to see them humiliated for being such arrogant shits.

R54 The guy is certainly nice to look at, though he wouldn't stand out from a zillion basic white boys on TikTok. When guys like this piss me off, I'm content in the knowledge that life will teach them just how unremarkable they are.

by Anonymousreply 56August 30, 2021 1:52 AM

I read a book years ago about scams. This was talked about. It is just a variation of the "romance scam". It is also prosecuted in many places. Just like the romance scam. Especially if Seniors are victims. YES you might have "given" them the money but the right DA will prosecute.

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by Anonymousreply 57August 30, 2021 1:53 AM

Sad. Gay men love straight guys.

by Anonymousreply 58August 30, 2021 1:54 AM

R3 is the one time that terrible phrase is right.

by Anonymousreply 59August 30, 2021 2:14 AM

This is the gay equivalent of simping.

by Anonymousreply 60August 30, 2021 2:19 AM

Women do it all the time. It’s just weird straight men are playing the role of the woman today.

by Anonymousreply 61August 30, 2021 4:02 AM

Some people just have more money than sense

And there aint a damn thing anyone can do about that

by Anonymousreply 62August 30, 2021 3:12 PM

[QUOTE] Women do it all the time. It’s just weird straight men are playing the role of the woman today.

At least guys usually get sex out of that arrangement, R61.

by Anonymousreply 63September 8, 2021 10:18 PM

Funny. Michael Henry just did a video spoof about this

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by Anonymousreply 64September 8, 2021 10:27 PM

People receiving money without working for it is nauseating.

by Anonymousreply 65September 8, 2021 10:43 PM

Yeah, the trailer park trash of the gay world. Thank God I have always stayed away from the gay ghetto scene. Is it really any different than a MAGA rally?

by Anonymousreply 66September 8, 2021 10:57 PM

R11 [quote] doing absolutely nothing.

No, he's getting them horny. Some gays only get touched when they go to the dentist.

by Anonymousreply 67September 8, 2021 11:05 PM

No different than gullible people who fall for the Prosperity Gospel grift.

A fool and his money are soon parted.

by Anonymousreply 68September 8, 2021 11:13 PM

🤮 🤮 🤮

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by Anonymousreply 69September 8, 2021 11:16 PM

[quote] Are Any DLers Victims of Findom?

We aren't victims, we are role-players.

by Anonymousreply 70September 8, 2021 11:21 PM

Never heard of this… Whatever next. Let’s hope Trump never hears about this…this would totally suit his manipulative, narcissist grifter ass.

by Anonymousreply 71September 8, 2021 11:23 PM

Give me all of your $! I’m naked!

by Anonymousreply 72September 8, 2021 11:31 PM

Show us the pictures, R72.

Show us your bulge, R72

by Anonymousreply 73September 8, 2021 11:32 PM

These people are providing a service. They're roleplaying and dominating people over the internet. And people are willing to pay them for it. I'm not seeing what the problem is.

by Anonymousreply 74September 8, 2021 11:32 PM

Suck my feet n cock!

by Anonymousreply 75September 8, 2021 11:34 PM

[quote] Suck my feet n cock!

Show me your pictures!

by Anonymousreply 76September 8, 2021 11:35 PM

No ur gonna Jack off to them without $

by Anonymousreply 77September 8, 2021 11:38 PM
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by Anonymousreply 78September 8, 2021 11:39 PM

^ Alpha Connor had got a better chest than Alpha Pedro.

by Anonymousreply 79September 8, 2021 11:45 PM

The saddest people who are into this are the ones who also want to be humiliated by having their private information exposed (e.g., taking photos where they're holding their driver's license).

by Anonymousreply 80September 8, 2021 11:48 PM

Don't be so judgemental, R80.

by Anonymousreply 81September 8, 2021 11:52 PM

R81 which one of these skinny, hairless twats do you belong to?

by Anonymousreply 82September 8, 2021 11:53 PM

I think it's fascinating but would never do it.

Something that, like any sort of domination, I'd prefer to see from a distance....

by Anonymousreply 83September 8, 2021 11:53 PM

I worship Diggory Vinicius.

by Anonymousreply 84September 8, 2021 11:56 PM

Call in the authorities!

by Anonymousreply 85September 9, 2021 12:47 AM

Peachyboy like alpha role-play.

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by Anonymousreply 86September 9, 2021 1:03 AM

I’m gonna fly up your ass!

by Anonymousreply 87September 9, 2021 1:15 AM

Oh golly, I came into this thread thinking it was about Finn Wolfhard superfans.

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by Anonymousreply 88September 9, 2021 1:23 AM

R88 Finally, someone who makes Chalamet look manly.

by Anonymousreply 89September 9, 2021 2:13 AM

For those of us who don't have this kink, and who have reactions that are something in the range of either shared humiliation, self-hatred, anger over bullying, envy of attractive/confident men, or whatever, I guess the only useful reaction is to ignore it.

If these assholes break a law, then they should be prosecuted. Otherwise, these are adults doing what they want to do.

Save your time and energy for things that actually matter to you.

by Anonymousreply 90September 9, 2021 2:26 AM

Boundaries stated by R90, people. Adhere to them please, you whiny little bitches. Now fill my PayPal.

by Anonymousreply 91September 9, 2021 4:47 AM

R91 No honey no money.

by Anonymousreply 92September 9, 2021 4:52 AM

I'm only 41 and I feel so old and out of touch. I legit don't understand anything that happens in the world anymore.

by Anonymousreply 93September 9, 2021 5:41 AM

I have a hot alpha master that orders me around and keeps me underneath his desk.

by Anonymousreply 94September 11, 2021 7:56 PM

It's hot, as long as you get some content/videos out of it and know your spending limits.

by Anonymousreply 95September 11, 2021 8:00 PM

“Hot” is not a synonym for “pathetic,” R95.

by Anonymousreply 96September 11, 2021 8:53 PM

R96 I think rimming and anal sex is pathetic and gross, but I don't go out judging people for it--I keep it to myself. Move on, people have their kinks.

by Anonymousreply 97September 11, 2021 8:56 PM

[quote] I think rimming and anal sex is pathetic and gross


CLUTCH 'EM!!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 98September 11, 2021 11:41 PM

I'd like to stand up for my constitutional right to be treated like a piece of shit!!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 99September 11, 2021 11:42 PM

Some people were always ugly throughout their lives, and no matter how fit they got, they still got ZERO attention. With this arrangement, you get the type you want to notice you and you get some hot content out of it. Nothing wrong with that.

by Anonymousreply 100September 12, 2021 4:16 PM

Can't we have a fantasy life any longer without being hectored by accountants and auditors?

by Anonymousreply 101September 12, 2021 4:24 PM

If these guys could capture the "turn the tables on the bully" kink, they'd make even more money.

by Anonymousreply 102September 12, 2021 5:15 PM

This is no different than black people who demand “reparations” though Cash app / Venmo on their Twitter accounts

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by Anonymousreply 103September 13, 2021 12:45 AM

Did you eat my ass yet?

by Anonymousreply 104September 13, 2021 1:51 AM

Eat my black ass r104

Reparations are $20

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by Anonymousreply 105September 13, 2021 2:32 AM

R99 That's what the GOP is for.

by Anonymousreply 106September 15, 2021 1:41 PM

Its harmless if you set limits and control.

by Anonymousreply 107September 20, 2021 2:33 PM

It’s fun

by Anonymousreply 108September 20, 2021 3:10 PM

It’s quick

by Anonymousreply 109September 20, 2021 3:10 PM

I’d never even heard of this until now……

Whatever the fuck next?

by Anonymousreply 110September 20, 2021 3:13 PM

R110 go off into a cornfield and wait for it to happen.

by Anonymousreply 111September 20, 2021 3:32 PM

Who knows if any of this is actually even true

by Anonymousreply 112September 20, 2021 7:15 PM

I had no idea this existed but right after reading this thread, I "returned" an alpha $500.


by Anonymousreply 113September 20, 2021 7:16 PM

R105, ewwwwwww. its like jello

by Anonymousreply 114September 20, 2021 7:16 PM

Did u drink piss?

by Anonymousreply 115September 20, 2021 7:26 PM

R113 you’re a disgrace. Him and his girlfriend are probably spending that money while laughing at the “fag” who gave it to him.

by Anonymousreply 116September 20, 2021 9:23 PM

Fags don’t care

by Anonymousreply 117September 20, 2021 9:29 PM

[quote] [R113] you’re a disgrace. Him and his girlfriend are probably spending that money while laughing at the “fag” who gave it to him.


by Anonymousreply 118September 20, 2021 10:18 PM

R116 No he's fucking some other guy who's "better" than the one who gave it to him.

by Anonymousreply 119September 21, 2021 9:39 PM

Isn’t this basically what prisoner pen pals do, but in this case you get a video or some mean texts instead of letters and a 20 year-old picture?

by Anonymousreply 120September 21, 2021 10:11 PM

Peachyboy likes to taunt his fans.

He's dismissive, plays hard-to-get and is almost contemptuous of his audience.

He relies on his lieutenant to provide more of a tease.

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by Anonymousreply 121September 22, 2021 1:26 AM

R121 He's a pretty pony who's smart enough to know that he doesn't have many tricks to sell.

by Anonymousreply 122September 22, 2021 1:41 AM

[quote] he doesn't have many tricks to sell.

That's the problems with striptease performers like him; they spend too much time teasing and insufficient time stripping.

by Anonymousreply 123September 22, 2021 1:52 AM

R123 I wonder if he ever does meet-ups.

by Anonymousreply 124September 22, 2021 1:56 AM

I think it seems like a form of begging. Some guy in a hat calls me a faggot and I'm supposed to be so impressed that I give him money? Only boring people are turned on by this shit.

by Anonymousreply 125September 22, 2021 2:01 AM

They need "findom payback", where some pretty asshole gets humiliated for his attitude.

by Anonymousreply 126September 22, 2021 2:08 AM

R125 Your last sentence is an allegation which is both obtuse and insupportable.

by Anonymousreply 127September 22, 2021 2:12 AM

So how is this any different than the little old ladies who fork over all their money to Joel Osteen, Jim Baker ... or Donald Trump?

by Anonymousreply 128September 22, 2021 2:53 AM

What is the etymology of the word ‘findom’? What is the ‘fin’ referring to?

by Anonymousreply 129September 22, 2021 3:51 AM

‘findom’ = 'financial domination'

by Anonymousreply 130September 22, 2021 3:54 AM

Thank you, R130.

God, what didn’t I get into this racket back when I was a camwhore. I was a lot hotter and am better hung than most of these “alphas”.

by Anonymousreply 131September 22, 2021 4:16 AM

I'll bet you it's not just the twinks that have followers, R131. There is probably a niche for "alpha" Daddies, Bears and Leather Kings.

by Anonymousreply 132September 22, 2021 5:49 AM

This young man wants to abuse you.

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by Anonymousreply 133October 2, 2021 10:54 PM

What an idiot. His voice completely betrays him. Too nervous and not confident at all.

by Anonymousreply 134October 3, 2021 12:01 AM


by Anonymousreply 135October 12, 2021 7:57 PM

R134 I think the guy at R133 is hot as fuck. Dominant cocky attitude.

by Anonymousreply 136October 12, 2021 7:58 PM

R133 I just came watching that!

by Anonymousreply 137October 12, 2021 8:00 PM

[quote]Dominant cocky attitude


by Anonymousreply 138October 12, 2021 9:02 PM

I wouldn't want that on the internets forever.

by Anonymousreply 139October 12, 2021 9:27 PM

Is that a distant relative to Fintech?

by Anonymousreply 140October 12, 2021 9:29 PM

R133 I want to just break the middle finger during the video.

by Anonymousreply 141October 12, 2021 10:31 PM

[quote] Why are people all screaming MARY’s about this?

The more pressing question: why people do use apostrophes in plural forms that do not take them?

by Anonymousreply 142October 12, 2021 10:52 PM
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