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Are incels the new Al-Qaeda?

He's.. unfortunate looking.

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by Anonymousreply 136July 24, 2021 2:58 AM

It’s only going to get worse, the dating market is difficult for young straight guys, 27% of them under 30 are virgins and that number is rising.

by Anonymousreply 1July 22, 2021 1:25 AM

Squiggy is lost without Lenny.

by Anonymousreply 2July 22, 2021 1:27 AM

Really, R1? Because if the dating market is becoming difficult for straight men, the logical consequence is that it will also become difficult for straight women. After all, the ratio between both genders is roughly 50/50.

The problem with incels is that, instead of dealing with their feelings of inadequacy and social awkwardness by going to therapy and actually making the effort to improve on what they have, they lash out at society like little children for not allowing them to fulfill their creepy porn fantasies, and blame women for not wanting to become involved with (or rather, submit to) their exploitative, obnoxious and potentially violent selves. These deranged and clearly narcissistic individuals, truly seem to believe that they are entitled to get anything and anyone they want by force, while only giving in return the worst possible traits of humanity.

Well, guess what: unless people are masochists or have been damaged beyond repair by years of extreme abuse, they will not willingly agree to be objectified and degraded by you just because you feel inexplicably entitled to having sex with young, exceptionally beautiful people. Curiously enough, these incels never want to enter into relationships with girls who are as plain and awkward as they are themselves - for them it's either an idealized sex toy, or nothing... What sane person would be willing to put themselves in such a position?

What I find truly dangerous is that these people are so deranged, that they seem to believe that if their fantasy cannot be forced into becoming reality, then violence or a misandric government that enslaves women is the right answer. Also, it reveals their laziness, inner ugliness, immaturity and intellectual deficiency.

In short, forcing them into therapy would be much more useful than having to deal with the potentially horrifying consequences of their mental illness.

by Anonymousreply 3July 22, 2021 2:00 AM

This will eventually lead to societal collapse, hordes of virginal frustrated young men is not going to end well for anyone.

by Anonymousreply 4July 22, 2021 2:06 AM

R4 It might benefit some dataloungers.

by Anonymousreply 5July 22, 2021 2:20 AM

Heterosexual men are sick!

by Anonymousreply 6July 22, 2021 4:03 AM

I wouldn't fuck him either, sane or otherwise.

by Anonymousreply 7July 22, 2021 4:38 AM

These are the types of assholes who feel entitled to everything. Not just the most beautiful women, but also a good paying job, a house, two cars, a boat, a vacation home and various "toys" like motorcycles, jet skis and four wheelers.

But they refuse to get an education or do the necessary work like everyone else. No, these pricks think their very existence entitles them to anything they want.

They make me sick.

by Anonymousreply 8July 22, 2021 7:43 AM

Ohio.

by Anonymousreply 9July 22, 2021 7:50 AM

The more useless and junk women die the better.

by Anonymousreply 10July 22, 2021 7:58 AM

What went wrong? I thought musicians are supposed to get all the women.

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by Anonymousreply 11July 22, 2021 7:59 AM

Many of them don't realize their personalities are at least as off-putting as their looks.

by Anonymousreply 12July 22, 2021 8:03 AM

Gottmik!?

by Anonymousreply 13July 22, 2021 8:14 AM

Thank you for that R13. I shall continue to laugh all day.

by Anonymousreply 14July 22, 2021 2:06 PM

A guy with realistic expectations can always find love or get laid.

by Anonymousreply 15July 22, 2021 2:12 PM

Source, R1?

by Anonymousreply 16July 22, 2021 2:16 PM

Well isn’t he just a cutie! 🤢

by Anonymousreply 17July 22, 2021 2:20 PM

[quote]I wouldn't fuck him either, sane or otherwise.

He could be endowed with an incredibly fuckable ass.

by Anonymousreply 18July 22, 2021 2:31 PM

Straight white men by and large are struggling because they feel their status is threatened.

by Anonymousreply 19July 22, 2021 2:37 PM

Societal collapse, R4? For fuck's sake, bitter straight white men are not a new phenomenon. And to answer the OP, yes, and we should be taking steps to interrupt/take down the sites and boards that are fueling this radicalization.

by Anonymousreply 20July 22, 2021 2:44 PM

[quote] Curiously enough, these incels never want to enter into relationships with girls who are as plain and awkward as they are themselves

Uh, yeah they do. But those girls don't want them either. Hence the term incel. INVOLUNTARY Celibate.

by Anonymousreply 21July 22, 2021 2:48 PM

R21 thats bullshit. Sexually frustrated men is hardly a new phenomenon so why does this group in particular feel so entitled to sex? Just get a fleshlight and call it a day.

by Anonymousreply 22July 22, 2021 2:53 PM

Why ever would a beautiful or even halfway decent young lady with any type of functional brainstem or hope of a future not want this nice, mentally stable young man?

by Anonymousreply 23July 22, 2021 2:54 PM

[quote] The problem with incels is that, instead of dealing with their feelings of inadequacy and social awkwardness by going to therapy and actually making the effort to improve on what they have, they lash out at society like little children for not allowing them to fulfill their creepy porn fantasies, and blame women for not wanting to become involved with (or rather, submit to) their exploitative, obnoxious and potentially violent selves. These deranged and clearly narcissistic individuals, truly seem to believe that they are entitled to get anything and anyone they want by force, while only giving in return the worst possible traits of humanity.

Guys like this have always existed, but the internet lets them find each other and reenforce their dysfunctional beliefs. The sheer hatred many straight men have for women still astonishes me.

[quote] A guy with realistic expectations can always find love or get laid.

Truth. I frequent a video-game website that’s absolutely packed with this type, all whining about how women only want ‘Chads.’

I’ve frequently pointed out that I live in NYC and see all sorts of women with all sorts of men, who obviously aren’t all ‘Chads.’ They act as if women don’t date, and marry, complete losers ALL the time! Woman aren’t nearly as picky as these guys tell themselves, but as r3 noted, these guys all think they’re entitled to supermodels.

by Anonymousreply 24July 22, 2021 2:55 PM

But that's not what they're ENTITLED TO, R22! You don't understand! They DESERVE the Stacys! The HOTTIES! THEY HAVE NEEDS!

by Anonymousreply 25July 22, 2021 2:56 PM

We live in a world in which straight guys who have no social skills and are addicted to porn are shifting the blame for their complete undesirability on the rest of us and deciding we all must die.

Is anything [italic]not[/italic] an insane cult these days?

by Anonymousreply 26July 22, 2021 2:59 PM

[quote] Uh, yeah they do. But those girls don't want them either.

No, they don’t. R24 again. They complain CONSTANTLY that various women in media aren’t ‘fuckable’ enough for their exalted standards. I’ve often posted that they’d be in trouble if women apply the merciless standards to them that they do to women.

by Anonymousreply 27July 22, 2021 3:30 PM

There are no limits to what reasons sadistic numbnuts like this can come up with for mass murder sprees and at this point they all blur together for me. Whether you're killed by an incel or a right-wing fanatic or a Christian fanatic or a Muslim fanatic or someone who got fired from their job or dumped by their partner or just feels like they're not being treated with the kingly reverence they deserve, their victims are just as dead and it's just as infuriating that these events have become so common. The FBI has to do a better job at protecting the public from them. It's not like they don't leave clues all over as to their intentions, usually online but also by stockpiling lethal weapons and committing starter crimes leading into full-on murder.

by Anonymousreply 28July 22, 2021 3:32 PM

[quote]R1 the dating market is difficult for young straight guys

Oh? And who is it great for, exactly?

by Anonymousreply 29July 22, 2021 3:36 PM

They could get laid if they wanted to, they just think they deserve women who look like porn stars.

by Anonymousreply 30July 22, 2021 3:39 PM

That guy has cold eyes........he's a fuckin killer.

by Anonymousreply 31July 22, 2021 3:45 PM

Str8 men have a complete inability to assess their own looks. The incels are often ugly guys who could find a average looking or chubby girl, but no: they think they are entitled to a very beautiful woman. Str8 men rarely if ever work with what they have. This incel is very ugly. A woman (trans or cis) or gay man would have had plastic surgery and transformed their appearance long ago. Why does an ugly dude like this incel think he is entitled to a girl like Kendall Jenner? Worse, Incels dress like slobs and most don’t seem to have good hygiene. But again, all of this is not obvious to these idiots because they have so little ability to self assess.

by Anonymousreply 32July 22, 2021 3:46 PM

Before they become mass murderers, if they need sex so bad, these guys could probably find a gay guy or tranny who might enjoy servicing them. It might not be their dream partner, but if you want sex so badly, having sex with another human would seem preferable to mass murder. But that never seems to occur to them.

by Anonymousreply 33July 22, 2021 3:48 PM

Again, R33, they're too good for that. They DESERVE better than that. They're ENTITLED to better, ENTITLED to girls that they (and their guy friends) will find smoking hot and will do whatever they want in bed. And if they can't get what they're ENTITLED TO, people deserve to die.

Because they're trash.

by Anonymousreply 34July 22, 2021 3:56 PM

These guys scare me

by Anonymousreply 35July 22, 2021 4:58 PM

R33, believe it or not straight men (whether they're incels or not) don't want to be serviced by men. They want women

by Anonymousreply 36July 22, 2021 5:00 PM

Yeah… that’s like saying gay guys would be fine getting pegged by a woman with a strap on, on a slow night!

by Anonymousreply 37July 22, 2021 5:10 PM

R1 they’re own fucking fault

by Anonymousreply 38July 22, 2021 5:12 PM

Gays aren't the ones going on shooting sprees because we can't get laid. Neither are our lesbian sisters.

by Anonymousreply 39July 22, 2021 5:13 PM

It never changes.

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by Anonymousreply 40July 22, 2021 5:43 PM

Are gays that desperate to service ugly straight dweebs?

by Anonymousreply 41July 22, 2021 5:53 PM

R36: maybe now is the time for people to put that vaunted "sexual fluidity" to the test.

by Anonymousreply 42July 22, 2021 6:05 PM

R16

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by Anonymousreply 43July 22, 2021 6:09 PM

R3 I hate incels as much as the next person but you're psychoanalyzing too much. There's no way you actually know what you're talking about. You haven't mentioned any clinical training but you're so certain that incels believe THIS and incels say THAT. Have you even met an incel because I haven't.

by Anonymousreply 44July 22, 2021 6:21 PM

Thank god I’m gay, Will never have to jump through hoops to get a crumb of pussy.

by Anonymousreply 45July 22, 2021 6:22 PM

Young women could and should be scared to have sex with someone they do not know very, very well. To explore sex can not be very tempting when they can expect to be degraded and choked by their partner. So, yes, fewer young men get laid.

by Anonymousreply 46July 22, 2021 6:25 PM

Interesting read.

Women are having sex with a small group of men, the top 78% of women are competing for the top 20% of men, while the bottom 80% of men are competing for the bottom 22% of women.

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by Anonymousreply 47July 22, 2021 6:28 PM

I think part of the problem is that too many women are being raised with too much self esteem. Once upon a time they would've just settled because they had no self worth so it was easier for these ugly slobs to knock one up and keep her.

by Anonymousreply 48July 22, 2021 6:35 PM

"The top 78% of women are competing for the top 20% of men, while the bottom 80% of men are competing for the bottom 22% of women"? Really, r47? When according to the author himself, only 27 females were interviewed, and all data is self reported?

Yeah, no. There's a heap of self-selection (for narcissism, primarily) and confirmation bias there. As r24 pointed out, women are FAR less choosy when it comes to picking dates than men are, because they're much more interested in having a relationship.

by Anonymousreply 49July 22, 2021 6:35 PM

R48, apparently not settling for sociopathic losers is "too much self-esteem"

The real reason is that more women are working, so they don't need a guy to support them.

by Anonymousreply 50July 22, 2021 6:38 PM

Forgot to add: Tinder is far from representative for women as a whole, since less than a quarter of the people using Tinder are actually female.

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by Anonymousreply 51July 22, 2021 6:39 PM

This has only become a serious problem with the rise of the internet/social media.

Straight women are having their egos stroked online and think they are worth significantly more than they actually are, Younger men don’t have interpersonal social skills and most are addicted to porn.

by Anonymousreply 52July 22, 2021 6:43 PM

Fuck -- have we got a generic troll or a bona fide incel posting here at r10/ r48/ r52?

Either way, fuck off back to the Redpill forum, loser!

by Anonymousreply 53July 22, 2021 6:54 PM

R53 Karen I’m a gay man, calling me an Incel won’t work, fuck off back to Reddit.

by Anonymousreply 54July 22, 2021 6:57 PM

R52, it's incels who have an ego. They think they're entitled to hot babes

by Anonymousreply 55July 22, 2021 7:00 PM

Eating too much Chinese stuff will make you look like that thing in OP's headline. Creepy, ugly, and nasty incels.

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by Anonymousreply 56July 22, 2021 7:02 PM

R53 lol. No. I'm just tired if all these bitches thinking they are above being broodmares to low class trash hick neanderthals. Accept your caste and marry accordingly.

by Anonymousreply 57July 22, 2021 7:14 PM

The government should do a Meals on Wheels program for Incels, except instead of food, they pay prostitutes to have sex with these assholes. Problem solved.

by Anonymousreply 58July 22, 2021 7:20 PM

R12 Looks = Personality

Women perceive attractive men as having better personalities Men do it as well, but the difference is significantly more pronounced in women than men.

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by Anonymousreply 59July 22, 2021 7:28 PM

[quote]Thank god I’m gay, Will never have to jump through hoops to get a crumb of pussy.

I'm thrilled to be gay, I don't have to deal with women and all their bullshit. Can you even imagine being married to some Karen frau? JFC.

by Anonymousreply 60July 22, 2021 7:35 PM

R60, I guess you'd rather deal with murderous incels. Weird how some gay men give a free pass to straight men no matter how repellent they are

R57 is the ultimate incel. No woman has to be a broodmare for any man. Go back to the 19th century with your fellow Republicans and leave normal people alone

by Anonymousreply 61July 22, 2021 7:38 PM

R58, these guys can pay for their own prostitutes if they want. Weird how people think we should be paying women to indulge these guys

by Anonymousreply 62July 22, 2021 7:39 PM

R61 I'm gay and though overweight moderately attractive and quite liberal. I just think people need to recognize they are born to a certain station and should not try to reach beyond that. Duh.

by Anonymousreply 63July 22, 2021 7:41 PM

I'd rather pay to have them lobotomized, R58.

by Anonymousreply 64July 22, 2021 7:42 PM

[quote]I guess you'd rather deal with murderous incels. Weird how some gay men give a free pass to straight men no matter how repellent they are

No, I'm thrilled I don't have to deal with being in relationships with women. Incels are not part of my world.

by Anonymousreply 65July 22, 2021 7:43 PM

R63, no one should be forced to get married and have kids if they don't want to. How stupid do you have to be to be gay and believe something like that? I certainly don't know any "liberals" who have such reactionary views on women or marriage, you sound a lot like Tucker Carlson for a supposed liberal

by Anonymousreply 66July 22, 2021 7:44 PM

"Tres"? Someone please explain that name.

by Anonymousreply 67July 22, 2021 7:46 PM

R66 I didn't say forced dumbfuck. I said they need to realize they were born into a particular situation and need to accept and recognize that.

by Anonymousreply 68July 22, 2021 7:47 PM

No one is "born into" marriage or childbearing, dumbfuck. No woman has to marry a man or have kids. Shouldn't gay people realize this, conservatives tell us we should be "cured" and get married like everyone else. You sure don't sound like any liberal I've ever known

by Anonymousreply 69July 22, 2021 7:51 PM

I think posters are right when they say porn plays a role in this. Porn used to be harder to come by, and the people who did it were seen as an “other”. Now with the ease of access, people think that there are a lot more people who look like that and are into kinky sex than their really are. Young women are on Instagram and think that they have to look a certain way, and young men are on Pornhub thinking they have to fuck a certain way.

by Anonymousreply 70July 22, 2021 7:54 PM

PSA: There is one troll spamming this thread with incel talking points. Hit "ignore" on r48 and he disappears.

(He was also spreading his misogynist BS on the "Women who have issues with their husband's interests" thread a couple of weeks ago.)

by Anonymousreply 71July 22, 2021 7:56 PM

Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

There is abundant evidence that women, as well as men, desire long-term committed relationships; but there is also an emerging literature revealing a hidden side of women's desires suggesting that women have also evolved to pursue short-term or illicit affairs. The purpose of this article is to review these lines of evidence and other recent findings pertaining to the evolution of women's sexual strategies.

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by Anonymousreply 72July 22, 2021 7:56 PM

If Incels can't earn sex and/or a relationship, they don't deserve either. Life, unlike their mommies, aren't going to give them "trophies" just for being alive and wanting.

by Anonymousreply 73July 22, 2021 7:57 PM

R72, and yet Ashley Madison was 99% men. Most of the "women" on the site were bots.

by Anonymousreply 74July 22, 2021 8:01 PM

R71 bitch is just mad cause she herself got her bitch ass knocked up by some brain dead dirt poor laborer and is stuck raising their impressively stupid kids. Her only joy now is in ruining anything he enjoys and stalking people on anonymous message boards.

by Anonymousreply 75July 22, 2021 8:05 PM

The less attractive a man is the longer his female partner will make him wait for sex.

Apparently it’s only men who care about looks though?

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by Anonymousreply 76July 22, 2021 8:05 PM

Also and I'm pretty certain most would agree that beginning a post like yours with PSA just tells them your psychotic and little to nothing that follows is worth knowing.

by Anonymousreply 77July 22, 2021 8:08 PM

R75 is a bitter incel who feels the need to invade gay boards

by Anonymousreply 78July 22, 2021 8:08 PM

R76, and yet women aren't going on mass shooting sprees because they're pissed that men won't have sex with them. Imagine that

by Anonymousreply 79July 22, 2021 8:09 PM

Youth culture these days is too much online. I work at a college and have observed hot, beautiful, stunning girls walking down the campus. The str8 boys don’t even look-they are too busy fiddling with their phones. It’s really bizarre. I had one class with a girl who was beautiful and built and these dumb boys don’t even notice her. BITD dudes would have been trying to chat her up, etc. But now they just text their homies.

The lgbt kids seem to be more grounded in the real world and tend to socialize with each other. They also move between worlds easier than my generation. The prettiest girls get more attention from the gay boys than the str8s. The lesbians got game. I just don’t know what is going on with the str8 boys.

One other thing I’ve noticed is that the kids who do date often try to be mysterious or something about it. Like they chill in a group and their intended is in the group, but you can barely tell they are a couple. This generation is very confusing and confused.

by Anonymousreply 80July 22, 2021 8:09 PM

Women consider 5% of men acceptably attractive and 95% unattractive.

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by Anonymousreply 81July 22, 2021 8:09 PM

R76 is an Incel str8 troll.

by Anonymousreply 82July 22, 2021 8:10 PM

[quote] and yet women aren't going on mass shooting sprees because they're pissed that men won't have sex with them.

No, they're just insane cunts who make life miserable for everyone who encounters them.

by Anonymousreply 83July 22, 2021 8:11 PM

[quote]Youth culture these days is too much online. I work at a college and have observed hot, beautiful, stunning girls walking down the campus. The str8 boys don’t even look-they are too busy fiddling with their phones. It’s really bizarre.

It is strange how much things have changed. Back in the day if you didn't gawk at every beautiful woman in public and comment on how hot she was, you were immediately pegged as gay.

by Anonymousreply 84July 22, 2021 8:12 PM

[quote] No, they don’t. [R24] again. They complain CONSTANTLY that various women in media aren’t ‘fuckable’ enough for their exalted standards.

Ugly people do that all the time. It's easy to bitch about celebrities' looks from the comfort of your own home. That doesn't mean they wouldn't date the first halfway decent looking person they met in real life. But even those people don't want them. That's why they put up a front of being too good for others. The truth is that they're not good enough for anyone else. And deep down they know it.

[quote] I’ve often posted that they’d be in trouble if women apply the merciless standards to them that they do to women.

You consider being a sexless incel posting from your patents' basement about shooting up strangers a desirable way of life? They're already "in trouble".

by Anonymousreply 85July 22, 2021 8:13 PM

According to the info at R76, an attached Incel wouldn't get laid anyway, because no woman is going to take the chance that her potential offspring might inherit his weak and malformed genetic characteristics.

by Anonymousreply 86July 22, 2021 8:13 PM

R80, if you think attractive women don't get attention from straight men then you aren't as observant as you think. Your generation is very confusing

by Anonymousreply 87July 22, 2021 8:14 PM

R80 the reason they aren't gawking at her is because their busy sliding into her DMs with dick pics.

by Anonymousreply 88July 22, 2021 8:16 PM

The truth is that the old system in which straight men had to commit to a lifetime with one woman in order to get regular sex and female companionship, and in turn his wife had to commit to entering their relationship as a guaranteed virgin and only having sex with him for the rest of her life in order to have a home and legitimate children, was a miserable system that didn't make anyone happy. It's better to have lots of choices than just one.

by Anonymousreply 89July 22, 2021 8:19 PM

Female sexual standards towards men are higher than male sexual standards towards women.

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by Anonymousreply 90July 22, 2021 8:19 PM

r89 there were so many miserable marriages and mistreated children that resulted from that way of life. It's a good thing that there are more choices for people these days.

by Anonymousreply 91July 22, 2021 8:22 PM

There is Evidence women are much more superficial and give much more importance to physique than men.

Women judge men based on their appearance before other traits by a large margin, regardless of how much they state they follow personality traits. Both women rating men as potential partners and mothers rating those same men as their daughters’ potential partners used the men’s physical attractiveness as the primary indicator for desirability, even the girls and mothers who said they cared more about personality.

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by Anonymousreply 92July 22, 2021 8:22 PM

That's why there are sex dolls for straight and gay men, Incel poster. You don't have to take them to dinner or buy them a birthday gift (like you could even afford it, lol).

by Anonymousreply 93July 22, 2021 8:22 PM

Women like jerks, men like nice girls.

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by Anonymousreply 94July 22, 2021 8:25 PM

R92, and yet studies from dating sites (which include millions of users) show women are just as likely to date an ugly guy with money as a broke hot man

by Anonymousreply 95July 22, 2021 8:25 PM

R95 Exactly. Beta Bucks, Alpha fucks.

by Anonymousreply 96July 22, 2021 8:26 PM

R94, men like "nice" girls as long as they're pretty. And if they don't get those pretty women, they go on violent murder sprees

by Anonymousreply 97July 22, 2021 8:27 PM

I know a childhood neighbor who is a complete sociopath and constantly on social media crying how women are just gold digging bitches who only want money and a guy with a 6 pack. He's severely overweight, appears to only bathe on a once a month basis, can't hold down a job to save his life, and is just a miserable person. What is funny is his younger brother is the opposite. They both were fat kids but the younger brother works out, is college educated, has a decent paying job, is pretty chill, and appears to have an active dating life. You would think the older brother would take a hint from the younger but NOOOO.

by Anonymousreply 98July 22, 2021 8:28 PM

R96, and yet there weren't too many women signing up for "alpha fucks" (or any kind of fucks) on Ashley Madison. It was mostly straight guys waiting for women who never materialized

by Anonymousreply 99July 22, 2021 8:29 PM

What a shocking, groundbreaking discovery, r90!

You mean men are more willing to fuck a random woman than vice versa?

by Anonymousreply 100July 22, 2021 8:30 PM

Genetic inequality is brutal.

When people date, personality is purely determined by looks and no ugly people are considered to have great personalities.

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by Anonymousreply 101July 22, 2021 8:32 PM

OMG, go cry to your mother, R101. Or is she sick of your whining, too? No wonder no woman wants you.

by Anonymousreply 102July 22, 2021 8:36 PM

However, men are more superficial in what they're attracted to than women are:

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by Anonymousreply 103July 22, 2021 8:37 PM

R102 I’m a gay and partnered man, can you explain why I would want a woman?

by Anonymousreply 104July 22, 2021 8:38 PM

Incels are extremely homophobic. The deepest fear is 'sliding into homosexuality' as a last resort to not finding a woman.

by Anonymousreply 105July 22, 2021 8:48 PM

Is there a gay male version of incel?

by Anonymousreply 106July 22, 2021 8:48 PM

R105, no, they don't fear that. Most straight men have no interest in fucking guys, it's not something they "slide" into

by Anonymousreply 107July 22, 2021 8:52 PM

R106, yes, Lindsey Graham

by Anonymousreply 108July 22, 2021 8:52 PM

R88 you must be dreaming. None of those boys ever said anything to her. I highly doubt they were “sliding into her DMs.” In fact, I am certain they were not.

by Anonymousreply 109July 22, 2021 9:16 PM

"Is there a gay male version of incel?"

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by Anonymousreply 110July 22, 2021 9:28 PM

R67: I guffawed when I saw that. When I was a little kid, some family friends had a big Shepherd-hound mix named "Trace". Or rather, that's what I thought I was hearing: T-r-a-c-e. (like a shortened version of the name Tracey, or maybe Tracer?).

For years, I thought that was the dog's name/how it was spelled, only to discover that his name was in fact "Tres". As in, the number three, in Spanish....because he was their third dog. (nobody was rolling the R enough, so all those years, it sounded like they were saying t-r-a-c-e)

by Anonymousreply 111July 22, 2021 10:10 PM

R54 is Boris

by Anonymousreply 112July 22, 2021 10:11 PM

It's true that ugly women don't want these guys either as they have much more to lose by getting involved with a loser. Having said that I've seen plenty of women hitched to men who are beneath them so anything can happen.

by Anonymousreply 113July 22, 2021 11:23 PM

He really isn't the worst-looking kid I've seen by a long shot. If he got a decent haircut, a bit of sun, and put himself out there, he could've gotten laid.

He had emotional and psychiatric problems, period.

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by Anonymousreply 114July 23, 2021 1:57 AM

There are a few pics of him with a mustache and goatee, and he looks like your everyday West Virginia / Alabama man. All he needed was.a pickup truck and a camouflage hat, and lots of young women would have been glad to go out with him.

by Anonymousreply 115July 23, 2021 2:08 AM

[quote]r47 Women are having sex with a small group of men, the top 78% of women are competing for the top 20% of men, while the bottom 80% of men are competing for the bottom 22% of women.

Uhh... and how exactly would one measure that?

by Anonymousreply 116July 23, 2021 3:42 AM

Why has the number of incels seemingly increased so much?

by Anonymousreply 117July 23, 2021 4:00 AM

I blame the parents. It was his mother's job to cull that unearthly beast from the herd.

by Anonymousreply 118July 23, 2021 4:24 AM

Arabs are right. We have to enslave women.

by Anonymousreply 119July 23, 2021 6:26 AM

r116, I'm not r47 and I don't know about where or how they got those numbers. But I will say it would actually make sense. Humans are animals and across species only a handful of males actually get to mate and pass on their genes as the females of those species only select the strongest, most dominant males. I could see how it applies to humans, but social constructs, well at least Western ones, realizes the danger in having the majority of males sexually frustrated so society promotes the concept of everyone finding that one to settle down with. Even so I know and seen too many women happy with being main chick/side chick dynamics when it comes to men who are financially secure if not wealthy. Evolutionary research suggests women are more inclined to think a man is attractive if other women have rated him highly and women find men who have girlfriends more attractive than single men.

by Anonymousreply 120July 23, 2021 2:34 PM

The picture at OP - how does a face like that happen?

by Anonymousreply 121July 23, 2021 2:43 PM

[quote]Why has the number of incels seemingly increased so much?

self-identity and self-selecting

back when i was young there was SUCH pressure to fuck a girl, you had to, it was oppressive, but it did make me thing about what being together with another person sexually could be like. Now that it is all in the news and on the web, young guys can self-select to be this avoidant type that never even gets to think about what the possibilities are - and sure as shit no girl wants to be in the company of an antisocial like that

by Anonymousreply 122July 23, 2021 3:00 PM

[quote]Arabs are right. We have to enslave women.

Spoken like a true incel and racist misogynist piece of shit!

by Anonymousreply 123July 23, 2021 3:31 PM

If he wants sex, he could get a prostitute....That is if he can afford one. If this psychologist actually got into a relationship with a woman he would end up killing her.

by Anonymousreply 124July 23, 2021 3:40 PM

R120, does it make sense, though? In real life, about half of the population is married.

by Anonymousreply 125July 23, 2021 3:51 PM

Nah that statistic is bullshit R125

by Anonymousreply 126July 23, 2021 3:58 PM

The thing is, incels hate women. Women can smell that on them. They can see it from across the room. Incels are predators. Very few women want to entangle themselves in that. And let's say you're an incel that can pass as a nice guy. Their standards are so sky high, they reject anyone, even for fucking, who isn't their outlandish version of perfect.

by Anonymousreply 127July 23, 2021 4:27 PM

Exactly, R127. Ladies don't want to date men who hate them (or they won't date them for very long) and these "involuntarily celibates" hate most or all women. It would be like me fucking a violent homophobe who might kill me if I broke it off with him --why? Why would I bother? What's in it for me, when if doing so could could cause me to get murdered? And, make no mistake, that's what ladies face with straight dudes these days. See what this "winner" was arrested for for back up of my statement, look into the records of the US's mass shooters or check domestic violence statistics.

Incels are mentally and genetically malformed and I think that the ladies recognized that on an instinctual level. That's why they either run or avoid.

by Anonymousreply 128July 23, 2021 4:40 PM

Like a poster upthread pointed out, back in the "olden days" before "the interwebs", guys like this typically found some other outlet like drag racing, bar fights, or even channeled that energy into self improvement.

Now, they all huddle together in the fevered swamps of the interwebs, egging each other's sick fantasies on and recruiting new members.

If one of these guys who isn't so far gone happens to meet some girl, he gets attacked by the other incels as a "traitor". He's told the girl is fat/ugly/ out for his money? They reinforce their negative behavior with each other and feed off of each other's hate. Like MAGAts do.

by Anonymousreply 129July 23, 2021 6:36 PM

I blame fetal alcohol syndrome.

by Anonymousreply 130July 23, 2021 6:43 PM

Do you mean psychopath, r124? Because in your context, "psychologist" doesn't make any sense.

by Anonymousreply 131July 23, 2021 8:03 PM

Yes, r131.My ham-fisted typing is sometimes off, and autocorrect takes over.

by Anonymousreply 132July 23, 2021 11:08 PM

r122 Thanks for your reply.

by Anonymousreply 133July 24, 2021 2:22 AM

Are some gay men incels or is part of the definition of incel heterosexual?

by Anonymousreply 134July 24, 2021 2:27 AM

As per the definition of "incel", it's ostensibly limited to heterosexual men, but frankly I think gay incels are a thing.

by Anonymousreply 135July 24, 2021 2:29 AM

Oh, I'm sure there are some obese 60-year old bottoms who rarely get laid. But gay men aren't planning bombing raids or mass shootings on guys for not sleeping with them. (Though maybe some become "family values" politicians and pass anti-gay laws....)

by Anonymousreply 136July 24, 2021 2:58 AM
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