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Tom Daley On 20 yr Age Difference w/ husband Dustin Lance Black

“One thing I learned early on is not to care what other people think. That’s been useful since I’ve been with my husband. I’m 27, he is 47. People have their opinions, but we don’t notice the age gap. When you fall in love, you fall in love.

I had girlfriends briefly before Lance, but nothing serious. As soon as I was with him I knew right away. It was like, ‘OK, wow, this is it.’”

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by Anonymousreply 97July 31, 2021 3:18 AM

Creep city

by Anonymousreply 1July 22, 2021 12:48 AM

I have to admit I am bit surprised they are still together.

by Anonymousreply 2July 22, 2021 12:51 AM


by Anonymousreply 3July 22, 2021 1:04 AM

There’s nothing wrong with an age gap so long as both guys are hot.

by Anonymousreply 4July 22, 2021 1:07 AM

DLB had a pretty nice body in his sex tape. Not Olympian level, obviously, but fuckable.

by Anonymousreply 5July 22, 2021 1:13 AM

And DLB had a big ass dick to go with the nice, non-Olympia body.

by Anonymousreply 6July 22, 2021 1:17 AM

Yes, he did, R6. Money, nice body, and a big dick can help overcome the age difference

by Anonymousreply 7July 22, 2021 1:35 AM

I give until the end of the year for these two.

by Anonymousreply 8July 22, 2021 1:38 AM

They cheat on each other so it's not like a real marriage anyway. They are just a couple of roommates, now with legal obligations.

by Anonymousreply 9July 22, 2021 2:00 AM

[quote]They cheat on each other

How do YOU know?

by Anonymousreply 10July 22, 2021 2:04 AM

Tom is as much TRASH as DLB......I hope they get "MeToo".....I felt sorry for Tom at first because he was probably preyed upon....But now he seems to be PARTICIPATING in his hubbys "hobbies".....Good Riddance...

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by Anonymousreply 11July 22, 2021 2:08 AM

Did Tommy mention Perez Hilton accusing him of kissing a 15 year old BOY---when Tom was 25?

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by Anonymousreply 12July 22, 2021 2:10 AM

16 Y.O. BOY.....Practically the same difference ^^^

by Anonymousreply 13July 22, 2021 2:11 AM

Actually, I watch them on youtube and I kind of like their domesticity. Tom knits and crochets and Dustin cooks. It's kind of cute. Oh, and they're good parents from what I can see.

by Anonymousreply 14July 22, 2021 2:14 AM

R14 = you really should learn to READ....

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by Anonymousreply 15July 22, 2021 2:16 AM

[quote] Did Tommy mention Perez Hilton accusing him of kissing a 15 year old BOY

Past peak ripeness.

by Anonymousreply 16July 22, 2021 2:25 AM

Tom notices the age gap and thinks about it. That's why he felt compelled to put out a press release about how he doesn't notice it or think about it. This is why I could never date a younger guy. The age difference is inescapable, always hovering in his mind.

by Anonymousreply 17July 22, 2021 2:30 AM

[quote]I had girlfriends briefly before Lance, but nothing serious.

No he didn't. Daley has always been so gay that the people of Mars could see it from there.

by Anonymousreply 18July 22, 2021 2:33 AM

R17 = Tom is starting to realize that having a husband with a "Younger Guy Fetish" is a never ending game and TOM is the aging part of hubbys hobbies. It's kind of sad because Tom is going to feel like HE is not what the Hubby wants---and he is not--the more candles he adds on his birthday cake..We have all seen the DL Stories of the things Tom has to do to keep DLB happy..

by Anonymousreply 19July 22, 2021 2:38 AM

And how the worm will turn when Tommy is 37 and hubby is 57.

by Anonymousreply 20July 22, 2021 2:40 AM

Yeah I've wondered what will happen in ten years. Tom is a young adult dating a still-hot middle aged guy. What happens when Tom is a real adult and DLB is a senior citizen? I bet he'll bail.

by Anonymousreply 21July 22, 2021 2:48 AM

Tom is probably looking forward to helping DLB keep track of his prescriptions.

by Anonymousreply 22July 22, 2021 2:53 AM

[quote] Tom is probably looking forward to helping DLB keep track of his prescriptions.

Does he take the same medications as Medina Spirit?

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by Anonymousreply 23July 22, 2021 2:56 AM

They are still together for their 'brand' and they are fucking other people on the side. Do you call this a real relationship?

by Anonymousreply 24July 22, 2021 3:00 AM

The problem is not the age gap, it’s the repulsiveness gap. Tom barely registers on the repulsiveness scale, while DLB is off the charts. It’s discordant.

by Anonymousreply 25July 22, 2021 3:03 AM

I was puzzled by this item initially: what could these thirsty famewhores be shilling now? DLB's last major job was the epic disaster WHEN WE RISE LGBT miniseries in 2017. MILK was 13 years ago.

Then I remembered he's making a documentary--about himself, naturally--and his Mormon mother. (Did anyone ask for this movie? I didn't.)

Can we anticipate more pointless PR plants about the Black-Daleys to come?

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by Anonymousreply 26July 22, 2021 3:05 AM

I’m surprised he didn’t get a book deal out of that.

by Anonymousreply 27July 22, 2021 3:08 AM

Lets not forget that time Dustin Lance Black chastised the Gay Community for NOT wear condoms----then his Home Porno dropped and guess who fucks bareback?.......That's when I knew I hated this guy...And his dick looks weird to me....

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by Anonymousreply 28July 22, 2021 3:22 AM

I recently watched J EDGAR (DLB's last notable screenplay) out of curiosity.

It's dreadful. How does someone make the life of J Edgar Hoover, the famously closeted head of the FBI (and possible cross dresser) that dull? It's so coy about the queer content that it could have been written by J Edgar himself.

DLB is a hack.

by Anonymousreply 29July 22, 2021 3:25 AM

My theory about guys like DLB is they burn A LOT of bridges behind the scenes. He went from Golden Gay Boy to JOBLESS and making Youtube Videos. If DL knows he is trash you can believe Hollywood knows even worse things about him.

by Anonymousreply 30July 22, 2021 3:40 AM

Tom Daley should take a look at Tom Ford and his hubby to see what his future holds.

by Anonymousreply 31July 22, 2021 3:47 AM

I cannot STAND Tom Daley. The moment his image comes on TV, we are diving for the remote to change the channel.

by Anonymousreply 32July 22, 2021 3:57 AM

Why R32? (Not that there's anything wrong with your contempt.)

by Anonymousreply 33July 22, 2021 4:00 AM

R33 - he doesn’t smile, he smirks. He is absolutely that kid in school that had a little club of followers that killed time by making fun of others, and mocking them for their very existence.

He’s flippant and shallow, and that child of theirs is a PR tool. Daley does not demonstrate anything having to do with paternal instinct. He is never affectionate with that child. And he strikes me as always being thirsty for attention and getting fucked by strangers.

by Anonymousreply 34July 22, 2021 4:13 AM

Thank you, R34.

by Anonymousreply 35July 22, 2021 4:16 AM

Why do gay men have to change the way they speak after they came out? Rewatch the coming out video Tom did when he was 18. He actually spoke like a normal person but he is an annoying flaming queen now.

by Anonymousreply 36July 22, 2021 4:18 AM

[quote]He is absolutely that kid in school that had a little club of followers that killed time by making fun of others, and mocking them for their very existence

He was bullied so badly he had to change schools, so try again.

[quote]Daley does not demonstrate anything having to do with paternal instinct. He is never affectionate with that child.

And you're basing that on what, exactly? With them 24/7, are you?

by Anonymousreply 37July 22, 2021 4:26 AM

R37 = We see you Dustin. And we know you for the FILTH you are. Heck, we have even seen you bottom and your odd little wang too.

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by Anonymousreply 38July 22, 2021 4:37 AM

[quote]Tom Daley should take a look at Tom Ford and his hubby to see what his future holds.

A decades-long relationship with a person that is at the least your friend?

It's not all about fucking. Some people just genuinely like being around each other. That's exactly how you end up with these couples with age gaps where they're unlikely to be fucking. Even if one runs off and screws who they want on the side they still go back home to their partner just because they genuinely like them.

by Anonymousreply 39July 22, 2021 4:38 AM

Dears, you consider DLB to have a noticeably big dick? Well, I never in all my life! It's normal. And knob-headed dicks are my least favorite variety. They look vulgar and non-human. Like DLB's face.

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by Anonymousreply 40July 22, 2021 4:44 AM

I remember seeing that sex tape of DLB. I can never unsee that.

by Anonymousreply 41July 22, 2021 4:51 AM

Tom should be with someone like him, the guy he had an affair with.

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by Anonymousreply 42July 22, 2021 4:55 AM

Ed used to live quite close to Tom, but he's moved to N London now.

by Anonymousreply 43July 22, 2021 5:13 AM

Robert Daley, Tom's father, died of a brain tumor at age 40, just a few days after Tom's 17th birthday in 2011.. But I'm sure that has nothing to do with why Tom started dating a 40 year old just 2 years later, in 2013.

by Anonymousreply 44July 22, 2021 5:29 AM

Tom has unresolved Daddy Issues. Throw predatory men (with career prospects dwindling) and Tom was bound to end up in a bad marriage. And sometimes you don't know you are in a bad marriage until it's over. But Tom is not a kid anymore. He seems to be participating in bad choices so if he gets divorced (and a judge hands over millions to DLB), that's going to do a serious number on Tom too. You know DLB has a tape of Tom sitting in a bank deposit box someplace as collateral. Sad.

by Anonymousreply 45July 22, 2021 5:59 AM

[quote]and a judge hands over millions to DLB

Wouldn't the net-worth of Daley and Black be similar? I know Daley would have had endorsement deals back when he was an Olympian, but Black won an Oscar (even it was for screenwriting) for a movie that made good money (for an "arthouse" film). He was also paid handsomely to write the Hoover film for Clint Eastwood. Daley probably gets higher paying speaking gig fees these days. Hmmn.

by Anonymousreply 46July 22, 2021 6:08 AM

Stupid question, but did an actual video ever leak of DLB? I've seen those pictures many times, and they are obviously screencaps, but I never did see a video. Does anybody have it or know where to find it?

by Anonymousreply 47July 22, 2021 6:41 AM

I remember when the video came out. In the video DLB is a generic lazy bottom. Not hung at all. Just presents hole and lays there. Poor Tommy.

by Anonymousreply 48July 22, 2021 7:00 AM

[quote] I have to admit I am bit surprised they are still together.

Nothing keeps people together like mutual avarice.

by Anonymousreply 49July 22, 2021 7:44 AM

DLB has an ugly mutilated dick. Tom deserves better than some scarred dried up cock.

by Anonymousreply 50July 22, 2021 7:47 AM

Tom is rooming with his diving partner Mattie at the Olymoic Village. In Tom's latest video, Mattie offered to test the cardboard boxed bed with Tom (in a firty but joking way). Tom should make the move and do it.

by Anonymousreply 51July 22, 2021 7:54 AM

Separate beds:

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by Anonymousreply 52July 22, 2021 8:05 AM

They are bi, so I hope they die painfully.

by Anonymousreply 53July 22, 2021 8:09 AM

Bi? 99.5% gay, maybe. They might occasionally pretend to find some woman hot.

by Anonymousreply 54July 22, 2021 8:12 AM

I'll just sit quietly here on the sideline....but I think they are fabulous together.

by Anonymousreply 55July 22, 2021 8:20 AM

Wait, they both claim to be bi? 😂🤣😂😅

by Anonymousreply 56July 22, 2021 8:27 AM

For a 40 year old to be dating a 19 year old is gross. He’s still a teen, barely out of high school while you’re going to your 20th reunion. It’s sick. Their brains aren’t even fully formed, ready for you to groom and brainwash.

by Anonymousreply 57July 22, 2021 8:29 AM

Seems like a classic marriage of convenience to raise both profiles and combine wealth. Tom is the trophy husband of course. I really don't see what a 40 something would have in common with a 20 year old to cause them to fall in love.

by Anonymousreply 58July 22, 2021 8:34 AM

This is a weird thread, why is an age gap gross ? What is the maximum age gap the posters on this thread will allow ? And how is it their business.

by Anonymousreply 59July 22, 2021 8:45 AM

Age gaps are fine for casual hookups because it's purely sexual. But I just find it odd for a middle-aged man to fall in love with an adolescent boy and want to marry him.

by Anonymousreply 60July 22, 2021 8:48 AM

It’s not strange at all. My dad and I are 20 years apart and we’re best friends.

by Anonymousreply 61July 22, 2021 8:51 AM

R52 I kinda hope they fucked anyway. Both hot.

by Anonymousreply 62July 22, 2021 8:56 AM

R61 = Is one of "THOSE" gays....Daddy (or Mommy) is their best friend....UNdateable.....The guys cannot cut the apron strings off....And then they complain about being single....LoL

by Anonymousreply 63July 22, 2021 9:24 AM

why is the uber cute/fun daley with someone like mr black??

by Anonymousreply 64July 22, 2021 9:42 AM

R64 = He was tricked...Old dude (into young guys) sees rich young naive guy. The rest is history. EXPENSIVE history for Tommy when he gets dumped. He is pushing 30. READ THIS STORY about DLB--according to this Tom is not the first Teen that DLB (allegedly) dated.....Poor Tom.

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by Anonymousreply 65July 22, 2021 9:55 AM

Bryan Singer looks "cartoon evil." Something stone-cold about him.

by Anonymousreply 66July 22, 2021 10:15 AM

R66 = And he is walking around free. You really can commit ANY crime in Los Angeles and with a shred of fame Prosecuters will be too scared to prosecute you. They wouldn't even arrest Harvey Weinstein. New York had to do it and NOW they finally did it. Colton Underwood (possibly) faked an alleged "extortion attempt" and not a peep out of the LA District Attorneys Office.

by Anonymousreply 67July 22, 2021 10:38 AM

That's still bisexual R54. It doesn't matter if a bi men prefers men more, he is still bisexual. This is why we have a massive number of bi men who prefer men identifying as gay. It's fucking sociopathic, disingenuous, dishonest, inauthentic, retarded, and nothing but a mockery of gay sexuality and gay identity.

by Anonymousreply 68July 23, 2021 4:20 AM

I bet Tom and his diving partner are fucking.

by Anonymousreply 69July 23, 2021 4:33 AM

R69– You might’ve just signed your post as captain obvious

by Anonymousreply 70July 24, 2021 12:54 AM

Well done Tom and Matty. GOLD in Tokyo 2021 Yay

by Anonymousreply 71July 26, 2021 7:11 AM

Tom and Lance Bass Black won?

by Anonymousreply 72July 26, 2021 7:22 AM

Toms marriage is like his Olympic Career.......Tick Tock....Tick Tock....The 30s will not be kind to Tom....

by Anonymousreply 73July 26, 2021 7:29 AM

[quote]Tom is a young adult

I don't care about either of these people but are we really calling men who are nearly 30 "young adults" now?

by Anonymousreply 74July 26, 2021 7:30 AM

I think Sir Tom Daley will have a great time in his 30s. Certainly better than anyone here (though that wouldn't be hard, I imagine).

by Anonymousreply 75July 26, 2021 8:03 AM

My Theory = Tom went from Mommys house to Old Husbands house. When Tom gets dumped he isn't going to have a clue about how to function. When your husband dated a teenager BEFORE you (as a teenager)---you can believe Hubby has a type and a Thirtysomething Husband isn't going to be it. Sadly,Toms downfall will be epic.

by Anonymousreply 76July 26, 2021 8:10 AM

Do Tom and Matty Lee fuck? They are so well synchronized

by Anonymousreply 77July 26, 2021 8:14 AM

R77 Tom fucks anything. He is bi trash.

by Anonymousreply 78July 26, 2021 8:16 AM

From Tom Bisexual Daley:

“I don’t put a particular label on any of it because right now I’m in a relationship with a guy, but I still have sexual feelings towards girls.”

"Does Black mind? “No, we joke about it sometimes. He actually sometimes has sexual feelings towards girls. Relationship, feelings…"

by Anonymousreply 79July 26, 2021 8:35 AM

DLB screamed like a huge queen when Tom won LOL look at his instagram story.

by Anonymousreply 80July 26, 2021 8:43 AM

Tom Daley is gayer than a gay can be.

by Anonymousreply 81July 26, 2021 8:46 AM

R81 umm, men who are attracted to females and have had sexual and romantic relationships with females and who enjoy it, ARE THE EXACT OPPOSITE OF GAY YOU FUCKTARD!

by Anonymousreply 82July 26, 2021 8:49 AM

Aaaand… that’s weird bisexual troll R82 who has been flooding the Tom Daley threads with this bullshit blocked. Bye Felicia.

by Anonymousreply 83July 26, 2021 8:54 AM

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by Anonymousreply 84July 26, 2021 8:58 AM

R83 can't handle the truth. It's most likely a Tranny who built it's entire life on make believe, or just another bi cunt who lies shamelessly about being "gay" like all narcissistic bi scum who destroy and confuse everything with deliberately blurring lines.

by Anonymousreply 85July 26, 2021 9:03 AM

R82 R82 “ exact opposite of gay”men don’t marry old queens like dlb LOL

by Anonymousreply 86July 26, 2021 9:12 AM

R85 Queeny behaviour or not, they are still bisexual. If you think just because a man is queeny that means they are gay, you are fucking stupid. That's the equivalent of saying that masculine gay men can't exist because no gay men are masculine, so therefore any masculine man must be attracted to and fucking females, according to your fucked backwood logic. There are straight men who imitate queeny behaviour or effeminate voices when they are mocking other men, and it sounds exactly the same. Queeny behaviour is learnt behaviour. The bisexuality of a bi man doesn't disappear because they act queeny or effeminate. Effeminate straight men exist and they still are attracted to females and are fucking females only.

I have seen effeminate bisexual men in gay clubs having sex with females at gay clubs/bars. Even Jeffree Star who is so fucking fugly and looks like an anorexic tranny, has sex with females in bi threesome's. He did all the time with his bi scum ex boyfriend.

by Anonymousreply 87July 26, 2021 9:53 AM

Meant for R86, not R85^.

by Anonymousreply 88July 26, 2021 9:54 AM

Tom only thanked his mom and his son in the interview after the ceremony. Poor DLB.

by Anonymousreply 89July 26, 2021 11:06 AM

R89, he said thank you to Lance first then his mum and then Robbie.

by Anonymousreply 90July 26, 2021 2:31 PM

Why would R89 pop up here to just tell an easily disprovable lie?

by Anonymousreply 91July 26, 2021 2:38 PM

creepy horse faced predator

and daley obviously has daddy issues

horse face is prob a DLer

by Anonymousreply 92July 26, 2021 2:46 PM

Tom is cute

by Anonymousreply 93July 26, 2021 2:47 PM

Horseface probably had Tom sign a MANAGER FOR LIFE contract to skim off Tommys wealth even after they divorce.

by Anonymousreply 94July 26, 2021 11:35 PM

I wanted to upvote R87. I agree with everything except I don’t think queenie mannerisms are learned behaviours.

I grew up in a farm town in the 80s with no out gays. I’m not a flaming homosexual, but I’m certainly not straight acting. Never was. I didn’t learn it.

by Anonymousreply 95July 27, 2021 5:26 AM

R95 I can understand that not all effeminate/queeny behaviour is learnt behaviour with every guy that is like that. I'm also not a straight acting masculine gay man, but I'm also not an effeminate gay man, so I relate to what you are saying. But there are still a lot who act like that from learnt behaviour, and sometimes even use it as a coping mechanism because they were always told they were females simply for being a gay male.

by Anonymousreply 96July 27, 2021 9:51 AM

oh tommy, u can do much better than horse face bozo man

by Anonymousreply 97July 31, 2021 3:18 AM
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