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People Who Get Flashed In Public

Are they victims? Is it assault?

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by Anonymousreply 97July 15, 2021 7:17 PM

Yes and yes.

by Anonymousreply 1July 12, 2021 10:52 PM

How is it assault? Assaulting your precious eyes and mind? lol. I’m the victim of seeing a big penis!

by Anonymousreply 2July 12, 2021 10:55 PM

Yes OP.

by Anonymousreply 3July 12, 2021 10:58 PM

Itd be fine if the flashers were hot but they rarely ever are so therefore we are traumatized.

by Anonymousreply 4July 12, 2021 11:00 PM

The ones who claim not are “pro-trans”.

by Anonymousreply 5July 12, 2021 11:02 PM

It's not assault. It's just stupid.

If you can't handle things like this, stay home and read a book.

It's stupid. It's gross. It's laughable. It's entirely inappropriate if there are children around. But if you find it threatening or an assault, you need to grow up.

by Anonymousreply 6July 12, 2021 11:03 PM

Yes, perv.

You didn't know it was wrong because you're a sociopath.

by Anonymousreply 7July 12, 2021 11:04 PM

Fat chicks should be so lucky.

by Anonymousreply 8July 12, 2021 11:05 PM

R7 = lez.

by Anonymousreply 9July 12, 2021 11:05 PM

[quote]You didn't know it was wrong because you're a sociopath.

Right or wrong was not the question posed, dumb ass.

by Anonymousreply 10July 12, 2021 11:08 PM

Every single woman I know has had to deal with this shit at some point. Seriously. Ask any woman you know and they will have been subjected to a disgusting perv showing his penis at some point. I had this happen to me in a parking lot where I looked over and the guy in the car next to me was jerking it while looking at me. I got out of my car, walked behind his car and took a picture of his license plate, then he took off. I called the police and they went to talk to him and called me later and said he admitted to being in the parking lot but not to jerking off. They asked if I wanted to press charges. I said no because I think the police just showing up at his house likely spooked the motherfucker. Honestly, it doesn't bother me much because when you look at them and laugh, it pisses them off.

by Anonymousreply 11July 12, 2021 11:09 PM

Oh, you poor thing r11. lol. You’ve probably only fucked in one position. Give me a break.

by Anonymousreply 12July 12, 2021 11:11 PM

Seeing fat people makes me uncomfortable! I’m a victim!!!!

by Anonymousreply 13July 12, 2021 11:12 PM

She seems repelled, but strangely attracted.

by Anonymousreply 14July 12, 2021 11:12 PM

I'll take my boobs out anywhere. It's a cheap ego boost, I know, but I've always craved the spotlight.

by Anonymousreply 15July 12, 2021 11:14 PM

[quote] I called the police and they went to talk to him

They should have arrested you for making a complaint about such a trivial situation.

by Anonymousreply 16July 12, 2021 11:15 PM

There used to be a guy I would see on the 1 train in NYC during morning rush hour who would often have his floppy pencil dick out and pressed up against some unsuspecting woman. He never got hard so I always wondered what the point was.

by Anonymousreply 17July 12, 2021 11:21 PM

They’re getting hitched!

by Anonymousreply 18July 12, 2021 11:22 PM

It’s indecent exposure to just have your penis exposed to people in public and is indeed a crime.

If you actually masturbate in public, that’s also a crime. Public lewdness.

by Anonymousreply 19July 12, 2021 11:23 PM

^^ under the NY Penal Code, anyway.

by Anonymousreply 20July 12, 2021 11:25 PM

^^ You said "penal". Heh.

by Anonymousreply 21July 12, 2021 11:27 PM

R17, the point, ha ha. The point to his pencil.

by Anonymousreply 22July 12, 2021 11:33 PM

Be hilarious if she got up and just lobbed it off with the machete she keeps in her bag. Or at least laughed at it…it’s really pretty unimpressive

by Anonymousreply 23July 12, 2021 11:34 PM

Every woman this has happened to needs to learn to just tell the guy it's too small and then laugh.

by Anonymousreply 24July 12, 2021 11:42 PM

[quote]Every woman this has happened to needs to learn to just tell the guy it's too small and then laugh.

And risk herself of getting beaten or killed?

by Anonymousreply 25July 12, 2021 11:44 PM

I was molested.

by Anonymousreply 26July 12, 2021 11:47 PM

Naw, r25. Guys who do this shit are fucking pussies. They aren't going to do shit.

by Anonymousreply 27July 12, 2021 11:50 PM

R6, if you can't restrain yourself from flashing unsuspecting women then stay home and read a book.

Rapists and child molesters often start out as flashers

by Anonymousreply 28July 12, 2021 11:52 PM

R12, you poor thing. Being prevented from flashing people. Your life must be over if you can't run around flashing your dick in public.

LOL at the straight guys who think all women are obsessed with their dicks. Just because your attracted to all the women you see doesn't mean they're attracted to you

by Anonymousreply 29July 12, 2021 11:55 PM

She should feel flattered! He’s just showing his appreciation for her attractiveness!

by Anonymousreply 30July 12, 2021 11:57 PM

The subject of the thread is people who are flashed, not people who do the flashing. The questions posed are to try to understand the person receiving the attention.

by Anonymousreply 31July 12, 2021 11:58 PM

Flashing is similar to sending dick pics, and everyone accepts those as a fact of life.

by Anonymousreply 32July 13, 2021 12:01 AM

No they don't, r32. What world do you live in? Women HATE when men send dick pics but men are too stupid to know this. No one gives a flying fuck about your dick outside of the gays.

by Anonymousreply 33July 13, 2021 12:03 AM

Ironic that these guys flash women who don’t want to see, although the woman in the first guy’s video actually does look like she’s intrigued by the experience. Meanwhile there are so many men who are craving that and no one is flashing them.

by Anonymousreply 34July 13, 2021 12:06 AM

R32, most women don't want dick pics from a guy unless they're involved with him. They don't want dick pics from strangers or from guys they've never expressed any interest in whatsoever

I guess some gay men are raised to believe that a gay man is a woman trapped in a man's body, so they assume women and gay men have the same thoughts, fantasies, and desires as gay men and the same attitudes toward sex and dating. Newsflash: they don't. Just because you want to see random dicks 24/7 doesn't mean women do. When it comes to sex gay men really have more in common with straight men than with women

by Anonymousreply 35July 13, 2021 12:08 AM

I want a hot dude to JO in front of me!

by Anonymousreply 36July 13, 2021 12:12 AM

If we would post a lot of dick pics on DL, would that make the straight females leave? If not, then I guess them saying they don’t like it is a lie.

by Anonymousreply 37July 13, 2021 12:42 AM

[quote] They don't want dick pics from strangers or from guys they've never expressed any interest in whatsoever

I don’t know about dick pics but I do know what women have told me about flashers. Women are people, not one monolithic blob, and while it’s perfectly true that the majority of women hate this or are even traumatized by it, there are some who are exhilarated by it.

I had a friend who was a Puerto Rican girl from the south Bronx and when she was sitting on a 6 train — literally by herself on this one car — a man walked into the car with his erect penis siticking out of his trousers. He came right up to her and it was right in her face. He asked her a question about the 6 and didn’t say a word about what he was doing. She was shocked but just answered his question and he walked off the train at the next stop. It was then she noticed that people in the next car were watching and as soon as he got off they came running in to ask her if she was alright. She was a fragile person already seeing a psychiatrist and was very traumatized by this.

Then another girl, who lived in East New York, told me about a Rastafarian type guy sitting on her car with his eyes closed masturbating. The whole story was told to me with great relish and a lot of giggles, and the considerable length and girth of the member was described in detail, with more giggles.

I think guys expose themselves to humiliate women, not because they think she’ll like it. It’s a power play.

by Anonymousreply 38July 13, 2021 12:50 AM

I think guys expose themselves to humiliate women, not because they think she’ll like it. It’s a power play.

Thank you, Captain Obvious

by Anonymousreply 39July 13, 2021 1:06 AM

I personally do not want to have a man flash his penis at me.

Unless he's good looking, or young, or hung ....

by Anonymousreply 40July 13, 2021 1:13 AM

[quote] Thank you, Captain Obvious

And thank YOU, Helen Keller.

by Anonymousreply 41July 13, 2021 5:14 AM

Yes it's extremely hot when guys flash. But you could have posted a photo without a woman in it FFS.

by Anonymousreply 42July 13, 2021 5:19 AM

OP is obviously bisexual who has to post porn with women in it.

by Anonymousreply 43July 13, 2021 5:21 AM

The video link posted has homophobic comments on it. FF the OP for posting this straight porn, and homophobic shit here. You could have posted literally so many hot voyeur/flashing porn without women it! OP is a fucking bi motherfucker.

by Anonymousreply 44July 13, 2021 5:24 AM

R2 were you at wi spa in LA a few weeks ago?

by Anonymousreply 45July 13, 2021 5:33 AM

I thought indecent exposure IS considered sexual assault and the guy goes on a sex offender's list for life.

by Anonymousreply 46July 13, 2021 5:48 AM

I've been flashed more than once. I think it's hysterical. But, I'm a 6'2" man. I never really feel physically threatened. Is it assault? I don't know. Is it annoying and super pervy? For sure.

by Anonymousreply 47July 13, 2021 5:55 AM

No, indecent exposure is not sexual assault. It’s a class B misdemeanor. Crimes commonly known as sexual assault (it’s a wide umbrella) typically involve unwanted physical contact and are often (but not always) felonies.

by Anonymousreply 48July 13, 2021 5:58 AM

However, registering for a sex CRIME is not the same thing as sexual ASSAULT. Some states require you to register as a sex offender if you’re convicted of indecent exposure, even though it’s a misdemeanor. This is a crushingly punitive requirement.

by Anonymousreply 49July 13, 2021 6:03 AM

WHAT A FEELING!!!

by Anonymousreply 50July 13, 2021 6:05 AM

'Some states require you to register as a sex offender if you’re convicted of indecent exposure, even though it’s a misdemeanor. This is a crushingly punitive requirement.'

So in OP's photo if this guy does this in a state that requires you to register as a sex offender this follows you forever and can ruin your life.

by Anonymousreply 51July 13, 2021 6:12 AM

It’s not necessary to expose yourself. At work, just do some periodic pelvic thrusts in the direction of the womenfolk to maintain the power structure.

by Anonymousreply 52July 13, 2021 11:58 AM

Women like it even when they say they dont.

by Anonymousreply 53July 13, 2021 12:21 PM

[quote] Rapists and child molesters often start out as flashers

Link.

by Anonymousreply 54July 13, 2021 12:55 PM

[quote] Yes it's extremely hot when guys flash. But you could have posted a photo without a woman in it FFS.

Men are hardly the ones filing sexual assault reports against flashers, hon.

by Anonymousreply 55July 13, 2021 12:57 PM

[quote] I think guys expose themselves to humiliate women, not because they think she’ll like it. It’s a power play.

Oh, please. They do it because it’s taboo. It’s the same reason people fuck in public.

by Anonymousreply 56July 13, 2021 12:58 PM

Not assault but probably harassment.

by Anonymousreply 57July 13, 2021 12:59 PM

I know R55, but the straight porn was not necessary. OP could have posted an article regarding it, without actually posting straight porn.

by Anonymousreply 58July 13, 2021 1:04 PM

You are stupid, OP.

by Anonymousreply 59July 13, 2021 1:06 PM

OP is the reason Trump was elected.

by Anonymousreply 60July 13, 2021 1:09 PM

Jesus, how I laughed at OP's pic

by Anonymousreply 61July 13, 2021 1:12 PM

R4 is correct. Sexual deviants are gross. They are never sexy and in many cases choose to expose themselves to children. If Chris Evans or Charlie Hunnam went around flashing housewives and gay men nobody would be complaining.

by Anonymousreply 62July 13, 2021 1:34 PM

If a hot guy is doing the flashing, then very few people are going to complain.

But just let the poor perv not be hot and he's going to be in a lot of trouble.

by Anonymousreply 63July 13, 2021 1:37 PM

It's assault. When I was a teenager on the bus home from school. And asshole used to do that on the ride home.

It's really disgusting when you see this without your consent.

by Anonymousreply 64July 13, 2021 1:52 PM

I dunno.. that bitch looks like she's considering mounting him.

by Anonymousreply 65July 13, 2021 1:52 PM

There are a lot of these videos online and in more than a few of them the girl goes over and gives the guy a handjob, so I’m guessing the vast majority of them are fake and the woman got on the bus with the videographer.

by Anonymousreply 66July 13, 2021 1:56 PM

Yes r65 she looks like she’s dreaming about gobbling his big knob.

Fake?

by Anonymousreply 67July 13, 2021 6:01 PM

It’s not assault.

Just because you don’t like it doesn’t make it so.

It’s absolutely wrong, and absolutely a crime. But not that crime.

by Anonymousreply 68July 13, 2021 6:03 PM

I wonder if a woman was flashing her pussy, would she be regarded as mentally ill?

I know flashers aren't that big a deal, but I've always thought that people who are compelled to show their genitals have a serious problem.

I also agree with r28. I think this sort of stuff escalates over time into real criminality, e.g., sexual assault.

by Anonymousreply 69July 13, 2021 6:23 PM

Well you might not consider it sexual assault but what matters is what the law says.

by Anonymousreply 70July 13, 2021 7:00 PM

It's a great way to let people know that you're mentally ill.

by Anonymousreply 71July 13, 2021 7:01 PM

r16, it's not trivial. If you can't do that at home, then there is something seriously wrong with you. I think there was some thread started here about a guy on a temp assignment who on his lunch or break went to the parking lot and sat in his car and had a jerk off. One of the attendants approached his car and he thought he was out of sight, and was asked why he was in the parking lot and he explained about his job.

Then he got a call asking him to report to some supervisor in the morning and he was really worried and nervous he was going to lose job.

Do that shit at home or you will become a sex offender.

by Anonymousreply 72July 14, 2021 12:44 AM

One pervert who graduated from flashing to rape and murder.

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by Anonymousreply 73July 14, 2021 2:16 AM

I accidentally see homeless people fucking on the streets all the time. It is assaultive.

by Anonymousreply 74July 14, 2021 2:34 AM

[quote] Well you might not consider it sexual assault but what matters is what the law says.

Really? And what laws are you citing that hold indecent exposure as a sexual assault, r70? I’ve already cited New York law. Is is possible some outlier state considers it assault? Maybe. What state’s penal law are you referring to?

by Anonymousreply 75July 14, 2021 2:45 AM

I was mollested

by Anonymousreply 76July 14, 2021 3:08 AM

I wish someone would flash me. It sounds hot. Unless they’re ugly or fat or old then I’m calling the police.

by Anonymousreply 77July 14, 2021 3:19 AM

"That looks like a penis, only smaller. "

by Anonymousreply 78July 14, 2021 5:02 AM

Mind your own business, R77

by Anonymousreply 79July 14, 2021 2:10 PM

The Castro Street Fair in San Francisco is notorious for public nudity.........doesn't bother me in the least.

by Anonymousreply 80July 14, 2021 2:38 PM

I think putting someone’s face on the internet alongside your penis is a worse crime.

by Anonymousreply 81July 14, 2021 2:53 PM

Like R77 said if they're young and beautiful otherwise call 911!

by Anonymousreply 82July 14, 2021 3:11 PM

I lost my glasses. I think this is people who get fisted in public? When/where?

by Anonymousreply 83July 14, 2021 4:51 PM

Being bothered by it appears to be strictly a female problem.

by Anonymousreply 84July 14, 2021 10:44 PM

OP posted a porn site. It's staged. Nearly all "amateur porn" is anything but.

by Anonymousreply 85July 14, 2021 11:08 PM

I saw a nude woman walking down a median near an Interstate the other day. Hundreds of people passed and ignored. No one honked or hollered. Just ignore them.

by Anonymousreply 86July 14, 2021 11:13 PM

That's not the same thing at all, R80. Flashers target a person in order to shock them with the unwanted sight of their dick. Upsetting an unsuspecting person is what gets them off. That's why it's a crime with a victim. Flashers aren't just people parading around nude.

by Anonymousreply 87July 15, 2021 3:25 AM

It's really no big deal

by Anonymousreply 88July 15, 2021 3:33 AM

Literal violence to a straight woman who could never please that cock as well as it has been pleased…

by Anonymousreply 89July 15, 2021 4:11 AM

Right, r84. Feel free to flash a straight dude and see how fast they have a problem with it.

by Anonymousreply 90July 15, 2021 4:23 AM

Straight guys do flash each other R90.

by Anonymousreply 91July 15, 2021 4:48 AM

It's very easy to tell who all the man hating females are in this thread.

*They're also the same cunts posting appalling things about transgender people in all the anti-trans hatred threads...

by Anonymousreply 92July 15, 2021 4:52 AM

Now, people who get fisted in public, that's another matter all together.

by Anonymousreply 93July 15, 2021 4:57 AM

R93 😂

by Anonymousreply 94July 15, 2021 3:40 PM

It's gross, and someone needs to stomp their asses to teach them to keep it in their pants.

by Anonymousreply 95July 15, 2021 3:58 PM

Sure, r70, what matters is what the law says.

But what, exactly, is "the law" going to do about it? Tie up cop and court time trying to prosecute low-level anti-social behavior? And then what, send them to jail?

As unsavory as flashing is, I think calling it "assault" is drawing a long bow. Offensive? Absolutely. Disturbing? Yes, that too. But what are you gonna do? Maybe a quick squirt of pepper spray will dampen the enthusiasm for showing dick.

by Anonymousreply 96July 15, 2021 5:07 PM

Where do you get a load of me.

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