Why are daddies so popular with younger gays?

Because they were raised by single fraus. They've never been around men. I have guys in their 20's lining up to fuk my old ass, and that would've NEVER heppened when I was their age

So thank you, stupid cunt fraus

OP is posting his fantasy again.

They're not.

I got to be fucked by your husbands, now I'm getting fucked by your sons. Hurrah for feminism

They ARE R3, it's crazy. I have guys in their 20's hitting on me in the fucking streets, in broad daylight.

They are…and I’m 73!

I'm just happy they are...and believe me, these young guys are into it.

Totally agree. I have 3 FB's and they are under 24.

Some of the more typically masculine phenotype markers become more pronounced when men age.

Also, there is a cultural perception of masculinity associated with the idea of grizzled and hardened men - think soldiers.

Younger men can be seen to look more feminine.

Finally, with age often comes money and power - both known to be desirable.

R3 They are. When I hit 45, I noticed I was being cruised and hit on more than ever by young twenty something guys and girls.

To answer the OPs question: because older guys seem more masculine.

When I was in my 20's I was always attracted to older guys. Not because I was seeking out some sort of "sugar daddy" arrangement. It was because they're more mentally mature and responsible. I can't stand coked up/methed club queens that act like little girls.

Only top daddies, which isn't most.

When I was young, I wasn't attracted to older men. Now that I'm older, I'm still not.

I’m 93, a 21 young guy hit on me the other day

I definitely had a daddy fetish when I was young. I thought people my age were immature and juvenile. My mom always said that it was a breeze raising me -- because I was never a rebellious party animal. I was ready to be an adult.

At the checkout line at the supermarket a couple of young guys are checking me out and very friendly. One of them wished me a Happy Valentine's day last February and they often chat me up and say hello if I pass them in the store. Some men like Harrison Ford looked better with a few years on them. Ford in Star Wars was in his earlier 30s but looks hotter in Working Girl when he was 46.

StanChris is all about the daddies.

Because the daddies pay them.

After coming out and playing the field for a bit, I realized I connected to older men more. First of all, they're more secure and experienced in bed. They've been around long enough to realize what works and what doesn't. Besides that, I found myself able to hold a conversation with them longer than with my contemporaries. I wasn't interested in clubs and Lady Gaga and all that stuff, but I could talk to some 55 year old guy about 80's movies for hours.

It's also worth consideration that those of us younglings growing up throughout the onset of the AIDs crisis - that if the older guy is still alive, that's a good sign.

Some have unresolved father issues.

Others... the heart wants what the heart wants.

Some men really do blossom around 35-55 and become much more attractive than they ever were. This ridiculous idea that anyone over 30 isn't sexy is ridiculous. I've seen far too many cases where that's not true.

As I kid I saw a film The War Wagon (1967) with John Wayne and Kirk Douglas who was 52 at the time and he has a scene where he walks away from the camera wearing only a gun belt. It got me excited. The film played a a matinee. The film is listed as 'unrated' on IMDB

Speaking as someone who dated a 45-year-old man when I was 18/19 -- and a few other age gap instances -- it was part physical attraction, but it was also being attracted to someone who I viewed as more worldly, knowledgeable, and sophisticated. And feeling that guys my own age were not at the same maturity level.

It’s because you have money OP, hate to break it to ya…

They want Generous$ Gentlemen

I don't think that's totally true R27

$$$$$$$$$$$$

For me it's a don't-look-a-gift-horse-in-the-mouth situation, though I draw the line at anyone younger than 30. Guys in their 20s read as more kids than men to me, and I don't know what we'd talk about. How eager they are to move out of their parents' homes?

Who said anything about talking R30?

don't kid yourself.

this is the answer [quote]Finally, with age often comes money and power - both known to be desirable.

hmmmm guess quote doesn't work unless it's at the top

Daddy issues?

Agree with R30

R31 maybe having a relationship that includes more than just sex is what is wanted and I find men who are unintelligent/vapid ultimately not very sexy.

Well, it seems anyone over the age of 28 is considered a daddy - so there's a very wide range.

Men aren't really mature until they are 30 - so I think there's something about that.

As someone said upthread, the top-daddys will have a much better go of it than the bottom-daddys. If you're more of a bottom and approaching daddyhood but not there yet, what I did worked very well for me. Take all of the fantasies you have as a bottom that you were never able to fulfill because the tops you hooked up with just didn't cut it, and start playing them out from YOUR end. Take baby steps at first if you have to. Gradually you will start to take on a legit top status, and the feedback will give you confidence to pursue it more.

Eventually you'll start hooking up with guys and getting off as a top. You won't be running a subtext-fantasy in your mind in which you're a bottom in order to get off. I've been there before and it's the worst. You as a top will feel very real.

I'm not complaining.

When did this become a thing?

i’m 43 dating a 59 year old.

#1 = David Pevsner

Only the burly muscular top daddies. But the thin lithe femme bottom daddies... They're likely nowhere near as popular with the younger gays.

They want that fat big green thing you have in your pocket.

Depends on what the specific guy is searching for. Money might be a factor but also one might assume that an older man is more mature, relaxed and also more open-minded in some ways. Young people can be immense drama queens, just because when something happens to you for the first time, you tend to derive it's a world-first and act accordingly. Not everyone is a fan of their own behaviour in other people.

Gotta put it all in perspective. Older guys don't get hit on as often, so when a young one comes along, it can be fun. Half the time they are hoping you're a sugar daddy and the other half are legit, IMHO.

I am a 26-year-old with a daddy issue. I thought by growing older, I will grow out of it. But unfortunately, I didn't.

All my life, I have been attracted to men in their 40s. The first time I realized my desire for the body of a mature man was when desperate housewife was still on air, and actor Doug Savant dress in leapord underwear. That scene was a great turn-on for me that I jerked off for several months only thinking about him.

Since then, my sex fantasy, which I have enacted with a lot of men in their 40s years afterward, is to be fucked by an older man while he compliments my obedience and desire to please him the daddy. Even up till now, I have no sexual attraction to people my age. This is quite unfortunate since I would not have a long-term relationship with an older man. So my best guess is that I may never been in love.

From my research and understanding, your sexuality would probably be set after your puberty. So whatever tickles your boyish pee pee will tickle you for the rest of your life. One example is Louis CK. When he was a teenager, an older girl asked him to jerk off in front of her. He then carried that fantasy to later his adult life (as I record).

It may sound so random. However, why such an experience turned you on in the first place should be the main issue to focus on. One psychological trivial I learned from my research and life experience is that your sexual desire reflects what you lack. Human being is very strange in this way. When we lack something psychologically, most of the case we don't actively seek out the things we lack, but it will manifest itself into a twisted sexual desire. For example, people who into being submissive may have grown up in an environment where he or she will need to take charge even at a very young age. People into voyeur were probably grown up having no friends or unable to connect with others.

As for daddy issue, from my first hand experience, was because I grow up having little validation. I was a bit of a late boomer and I was good at absolutely nothing when I grew up. And my parents were either worried or disappointed. So in my early childhood, I was basically chasing the parents and teachers approval while I only got very few. It all changed when I suddenly have a spike in my intelligence and became a top student at 16 then went on to best college in my country. Don't know why, must have been something in the water. LOL. But my need for approval probably got twisted into a sexual desire for older person and I will probably carry it for the rest of my life.

I don't know the previous generation. But my guess for daddies to become so popular is because kids these days grow up in social media and reality TV, which are basically a bunch of bragging. They may think their life was not that glorious and tried to compensate and seek approval from peers and parents, which they mostly did't get.

So for all of you who are interested in getting a young guy with a daddy issue in bed. I can give you a few tips. 1. Don't just refer to yourself as "I" only, refer yourself as "Daddy" from time to time. 2. Pretend to have an interest in his well-being but not the things he love, say stuffs like "Maybe you can come here eariler, I don't want you to be tired at work/school tomorrow", and defintely not, " I love Beyonce, she is my Kween B and Cardi B is my second Kween B". 3. And compliment him for being handsome and cute, try to use fewer words such as "sexy" or "hot".

I’m 104 and a 22 year old hit on me at the market this morning.

Younger guys also seem to really like being the Daddy. I have had guys call themselves Daddy when we are having sex and I am way older. It's kind of hot. I never want to be called Daddy and would dump someone immediately if they said that.

In the video @ r18 they look like they’re in a hobo camp.

R48, you looked like you had money and I don't want to wait until the last minute like I did in July to pay my bills.

It all started when I watch Tom Chase fuck Lane Fuller in some porno back in high school. Ever since then, I got the feeling that older and more experienced was better.

I’ve always been all about daddies!

I’ve always loved daddies because the sex and passion are so much better.

My favorite FB is a daddy with a thick cock. The problem is he HATES being called a daddy, so I have to remember not to call him that when I cum

Because money makes the world go around.

A hairy daddy fucking me while deep kissing me and whispering dirty talk is the perfect experience

Hmm - where is this happening and what age is considered “daddy”. In Chelsea, I’m not seeing it but maybe I’m missing something. In the age of Grindr, isn’t it all about your abs? - which are rare in the eldergay crowd.

Why are daddies so popular with younger gays? I dunno.

I'm 64 and I look 65. But I've got several FB's under 30 right now. One of them is 19. And they all want to call me Daddy. No money is involved. No gifts.

Why do so many of them also want to be puppies? That is incomprehensible to me.

It's because you have money, OP, and the college-bound twinks don't.

When I was younger I was definitely attracted to daddies. Playing sports through my youth I can still remember having crushes on my coach, never too many team mates my own age. It wasn't that I wanted a dad in the sense to take care of me, but more a physical attraction. I liked the manliness of older men - the big hands, the chest hair, the humpy ass, the mature attitude - all that. I still like it. I was never into smooth, boyish twinks. Now being older and having younger guys attracted to me, It turns me on, knowing that they dig all the same stuff I do.

Can someone please explain what a puppy is? And not as in Golden Retriever.

I generally know, but have heard general various definitions of it. My first intro to puppies was in Palm Springs at the Tool Shed. These twinks were in latex outfits with inflatable balloons up their asses they create a "tail" effect. They were on the ground like pawing at something - a treat?

Are the younger gays topping the daddies? Seems hard to imagine.

Yes, R62. I've gotten really into these "Twink Top" videos (that's the series). There is this hot one where this twink breed his coach and then the principal pulls is cock out of the coach, takes some of the twinks cum that shot on the coaches ass, and then shoves the twink up is own ass. It's pretty hot!

HUGE difference between what some of you are describing-- actual dating and relationships a la R25 and what I suspect many of you are talking about--20 something guys hitting you up on Grindr for some quick sex.

For the latter, there are a bunch of possible reasons:

• You are unlikely to have overlapping social circles so they can try things out with you. And if they're closeted, you are not going to know any of their straight friends

• As an Eldergay, you likely have your own apartment or house and many of them live at home or with roommates

• You are not going to want a relationship--fuck buddy is fine

• They may not have the body type or face that gets a second look from guys their own age, but a 55 year old with a beer belly is not going to mind that they don't have an 8-pack or that their face is a 6 rather than a 9.

• They may legit be into older guys.

[quote]it was also being attracted to someone who I viewed as more worldly, knowledgeable, and sophisticated. And feeling that guys my own age were not at the same maturity level.

No disrespect but realistically someone more worldly, knowledgeable and sophisticated you isn't then dating you as an equal. He's dating you as a piece of meat. If he is all those things, logically, if he weren't an old dog, he would then prefer all those things in the parts of his life that don't demand Viagra. You prove it yourself saying the feeling guys of my own age weren't at the same maturity level. They're not. And they won't be facing the same collagen and elasticity issues before their time.

I agree, I am 49, married and have 2 kids. When I'm on grindr- majority of the hits I get are 25-35 year Olds. This generation does seem to have a Daddy preference.

I'm 33 and have always been attracted to me old enough to be my father. For me, it's the body and the. Vintage Dick I want. It's kinda like forbidden fruit, you can't have sex with your actual father, but you can have the next best thing which is a man in your dad's age bracket, who has a nice faded in shape body, but more of a dad bod. And there's the maturity and the hardened masculinity level that I'm also attracted to too.

I'm lucky, because that's all I seem to attract is older sexy rugged alpha type men. Eventhough in the gay world I'd be considered old now. I've always taken good care of myself and has a nice tight body. And at 33, I'm still not far from my twenties so I still have that 20s fresh face look about me. I'm still getting what the 20 something twinks are getting.

I'm not quite over the hill yet, lol!

It’s because everybody is broke and America has finally joined the rest of the world in that now you have to either inherit or marry into property if you ever want to own a home. The American dream is mostly dead, and so we are back to the serf days of offering up our youthful wares in exchange for a pot to piss in.

“You are unlikely to have overlapping social circles”

This is a biggie.

R68 hit the nail on the head. It reminds me of a forum I used to read and an Australian made a comment, "thank God for shitty economies" about how easy it is to score gorgeous Eastern European chicks

Also,when you are young you stay in a constant state of horniness. The wind blows and your dick gets hard. Speaking for myself ,when I decided I wanted to get laid I pretty much took whatever came along. It wasnt that I preferred older men,but they seemed more aggressive and played less games. Hence,id sleep with them. Plus,I was always about the dick so the rest it was attached to wasnt super important.

because most boys know they need a nice sound spanking

Part of it seems to be the evolution of our culture, gay culture AND straight. There have always been "daddies," of course, but when I was a kid or young adult in the 80s older people weren't thought of as being sexual. A daddy was almost always a "sugar daddy" and usually thought of as a letch chasing a young woman or man.

I think a few things happened in the last 30-40 years to change that......in my humble opinion.

One is that not every man is working a hard factory or industrial job. Someone in their 40s and 50s today looks a lot different than they did in the 70s or 80s.

Despite an uptick in obesity and diabetes, etc. many people lived healthier lives from the HS and college days on and stayed fit. They're a lot more handsome and attractive at 40 or 50 something as a result.

I think it was also a media thing. When 90210 and Dawson's Creek had young, hot parents, that sort of changed the game. I mean, Mitch Leary was total fantasy level hotness DILF. And that's when we started having the concept of DILFs and MILFs. The idea has just kind of expanded from those earlier years. The more an idea is broadcast, the more followers it finds.

I think the concept of daddies also expanded as so called "bear" culture expanded.

I was always into daddies, partly because I had daddy issues and partly because maturity and confidence is a big turn on for me, far stronger than any faux, sad attempts at being dominant from some punk. But I never really thought of them as "daddies" until much later down the line.

So it is a newer concept, though I don't know that it's solely the younger gays, it's been coming at us for the last 40 years.....

You're projecting. Youth is as desired in the gay community as ever

OP: Easy……..because it’s what they need.

Thanks R69

I suspect that "has own place and can host with no problem" is also a big one.

The previous generation didn’t have many daddies as so many died with AIDS. We’re finally getting daddy sexual role models now

My friend who's 50 and I were having dinner in a restaurant yesterday when his phone rang. It was his 24-year-old fuck buddy wanting to know if he wanted to get together later that evening. My friend said yes and they met up at 6.

At 6? Right after the early bird special?

I was all about daddies in my 20s and early 30s. The whole fantasy: Older, wiser, aggressive in bed, was in love with my youth and beauty, I wanted zero money for them. Just love and affection. And man did I get what it!

I also really likedthe idea of someone older who was able to protect me. Though I needed no protection (I'm 6'2"). So, for me, it was sooo much more than sex. It was the idea that they were looking out for me that turned me on more than the age. Like it was their job to make sure nothing bad happened to me. Man, did I love that. I realize how fucked up that makes me seem!

But then, at about 30 or so, that need and desire started to wan. I still liked older men (45-60), but no longer needed a "daddy" to look out for me.

Luckily my partner at the time was more than happy to segue from daddy to older partner rather seamlessly.

Clayton is a hobo, r50?

R80 I totally get it.

I had a very coach like fuckbuddy early on, and he probably set the standards high for me - very loving, aggressive only in welcome sexual ways and never in a diminishing, you-piece-of-shit way so many try in bed.

He'd muss my hair and call me "sport" and "champ" in his deep voice....that intimacy is something I missed from my own father so it's easy to see where all of that got sort of knotted up and confused.

Some of you have very weird incest like relationships. Seek therapy.

My dad was present and supportive in my life so I never had that void of parental affection some guys seem in need of filling. But when I was a teen and first casting a horny eye out into the world, it was TV hunks about ten years my senior (like Jon-Erik Hexum and John Schneider) that I found most attractive. That age gap seems to have remained constant relative to me, while the trailing edge of acceptable younger men at first moved with my age and then lagged behind at about the late 20s.

I'm 23 and personally don't find older guys hot or interesting.

Finally a reality check R85 - not sure if this is the same as the “I’m 65 but look 45” delusional queens. Maybe on occasion - but it’s far from “a thing” from what I see in NYC.

At 40, the thought of dating significantly older has ramifications. When I am 55, potential partner will be 70. I'm sure it works that way with younger guys and 40, but I'm not really interested in younger guys. Sadly, most guys my age are. If someone called me daddy, I would throw a drink in their face! Maybe I could do "hot contemporary".

Oddly, I love daddies as FB but only date guys my age

When I was in late teens, I wanted chubby, late 30s/40s, fun, and kind and I had many. Now at age 46, I’ve become that type but no one is interested. Sad. I’m a good guy.

I think a lot of younger folks assume older men who are more masculine are sexual tops. It seems like there are way more bottoms and few tops-especially young tops. This is really more about the desirability of finding a top.

R88, I think that's exactly what older guys want as well -- a younger guy is fine for a FB but where it comes to a relationship, someone your own age is always a better fit.

'Some of you have very weird incest like relationships. Seek therapy. '

or, alternatively, fuck therapy, and find relationships that fit your needs

When the *younger Millennials became old enough for the new dating apps - about the time they became a thing in 2010 or so - you began seeing occasional ads and profiles with young people explicitly asking for older men. Old men have been trying to get young tail forever. But with the apps and Craigslist, there was a definite increase in ads offering to pay/seeking payment for sex among these younger-older pairings. It was a little surprising at first. Then it became fairly common. Now it's constant, trite even. I get hit on by young men calling me Daddy on the apps. I nearly always ignore them. The Boomers and Millennials mutually support each other's narcissism.

*Older Millennials are more like GenX, and find the dynamic distasteful.

I wonder at the young ones seeking Daddies who are tops. They really are swimming upstream with this. Really.

The young man who makes it clear he is a top and is seeking out Daddies who bottom will have a line of eager suitors blocks long.

The young man seeking a fierce 60 year old top shows he understand little of geriatric physiology. Viagra is fine, but it's doesn't give you a 22 year old dick that will do anything you want it to do.

R87... preach.

Same dilemma, although I am fifteen years older. The guys my age seem largely fixed on relationships that may violate some statute. But I am acutely aware, physically, how wide the gap between now and then becomes with late age. Being both a pragmatist and to some degree ethical, I don't think it's fair, knowing what I know about how the body, energy and spirit changes past fifty, I don't think it's fair to burden a much younger man with something I can only do so much about, even if he claims he's doing so with free, informed and prior consent. Even I'm surprised by some of the things that are happening to me or to my peers. And I am pragmatist enough to know the odds of winding up abandoned are pretty good anyway. I once saw a May December couple at a resort. He was wealthy surgeon, somewhere between sixty five and onward. His boytoy was forties. The contempt of the younger one, trapped by the money but without the stomach for the price, was visible. You flinched to see them together. It was one end of the extreme but it was sobering.

They're far more experienced at sex and know exactly what buttons to push. I learned so much from daddies as I evolved sexually and I'm forever grateful. They taught me how to top, to bottom, to fist, etc. They introduced me to slings, leather, poppers, orgies, etc.

Sex is so much fun with daddies, rarely awkward or embarrassing.

Blame it on those great thinkers of Greek culture.......

Because we have all the money and they think they're entitled to it. I had some nasty ass twink hit me up on one of my dating profiles wanting me to buy him "little tittys, be my boiwife and fuck his pussy". And he posted his picture thinking that'd seal the deal. When I saw the pic I responded with BWAHAHAHAHA.

In my 20's, I always sought out older men. In school, in the work place, in so many social situations, young people are inevitably competing against other young people for advancement, recognition, for whatever bit of success might be available.

I found it enormously relaxing to be with a man who clearly occupied another place in life. He had his place and I could not threaten it. I had my place. We could be very generous and relaxed with one another. He could share his experience. I could benefit from it and be genuinely appreciative.

That's with the right older man. The wrong one will be insecure and controlling. That's why they are seeking out less experienced young men. Avoid those guys. They are terrible users.

R99=WHORE.

I'm dead and twinks exhume me on the regular for a party.

I loved a confident older daddy when I was younger.

I was very attracted to guys my age, but to me, they were all bottoms, and they were all annoying to talk to. Guys in college were obsessed with shit like Lady Gaga and fashion, two things I hated. They all seemed extremely insecure and were either broke or being taken care of by rich parents. None of them seemed to know what they wanted in life and that made me feel like I had to always lead with guys my age. Since I was confident, street-smart and quiet, I was always instantly assumed to be a top by guys my age. I wanted to fuck them but I did not want to date them.

I also was not attracted to older men who were into younger gay guys. My type was the successful, in good shape, quiet yet confident older guy who dated guys his own age because he'd find younger guys to be immature but I'd be so irresistible and "mature", that I'd get him to break his own rules. If an older guy I wanted told me that I was "mature" for my age, that'd drive me crazy. It was like the ultimate compliment. I was very creeped out by older guys who dated younger on purpose though. And most older guys fell into this category. I was also only seeking mainly tops. The idea of bottoming for a younger guy sounds horrible to me since they have no experience and I'm only good at bottoming with patient men since it takes me a while to open up. It was also great being with someone who lived alone. Since I was in college, it seemed nobody lived alone even those who did had no privacy since all college dorms are basically hang out spaces. So, it'd feel so sexy to me being in a large clean adult apartment and not having to worry about anyone else.

Now that I'm older part of me realizes I desperately wanted to be like these guys, and now that I'm in my 30s, I mainly stick to my age group. I do get hit a lot online by younger guys seeking daddy tops. Few times I've met up with one, I realize they look at me the same way I used to look at the older guys I liked, and that makes me feel really great. But it's just a fantasy based on their insecurities. Mostly though, I only seek guys my age now. I finally find guys my own age to be experienced and confident while still having many shared life experiences.

So for me, my attraction was due to daddy issues, insecurity over my career as I didn't have one yet, finally being comfortable bottoming with someone I saw as more in control of his life than me, and also seeking mentorship from those I thought had "made it" in life.

Money makes the world go around.

At first when eldergays used to boast that they got hit on a lot by young people,I scoffed like the rest of you. Then as an experiment I posted a pic of myself,fat gut and all ,pretending to be an alpha top (wich as a committed bottom was a joke in itself) . Im not kidding when I tell you my inbox was flooded with hungry bottoms,some quite young. If I were into topping my dance card would stay full.

You sound exhausting R103.

You gay tops like to be daddies too. I've been pounded by younger guys and want me to call them daddy. If someone called me daddy, I would throw a drink in their face.

Hasn't it always been this way? Well, it has for me at least. My first bf was 20 years older than me. I always lusted after guys in their mid-30s and older as a teenager. I wanted muscular, hairy chested, ruggedly handsome bearded men not slim smooth twinks. And I still do.

I want UKGuy to pound my ass with this big, thick, uncut cock and hot hairy chest.

R108 but what do you look like?

cause no one can rim a boybutt like daddy

Daddy is the fucking best. Experienced, open minded and focus on your needs

The concept of being gay has changed. In the 70s and 80s gay men in their 40 and 50s were Liberace; today gay men in their 40s and 50s are hot and in shape.

[quote]In the 70s and 80s gay men in their 40 and 50s were Liberace; today gay men in their 40s and 50s are hot and in shape.

UTTER BULLSHIT.

In the 70s and into the 80s, the clone look ruled. Slim naturally built men who could rock a pair of Levis and a polo shirt were the gold standard. And there were lots of them to go around. As AIDS became ubiquitous, gay men coped by going to the gym to get themselves in the best shape possible.

And today? The world is being crushed in a global fat epidemic. There was no large "bear community" in the 70s and 80s. That grew as the men grew.

R113 I was a child in the 1970s and some of the 80s and the way I saw gay men then was how the media (movies and TV) depicted them and was mostly as the limp-wristed and flamboyant. So, while there may have been an abundance of hot men in their 50s in your day, I was stuck with this image in terms of my perception of gays. So, I hold true that if you were a pre-gayling in 1978, you might have been a little scared of what you saw on TV...and that your reality at the time was likely shaped by what you saw in person. The kids born in the 1980s probably saw hotter gay men depicted by the media. As my generation has aged, we have kept in shape and the kids born in the 80s and 90s are hot for us.

[quote] Some of you have very weird incest like relationships. Seek therapy.

Some of you are very judgmental and faux moralistic. Chill out.

There is something about being in a daddies arms, feeling him cum deep inside you, your ass flooded with hot cum, cuddling while he is still inside you;

^ There's something about MARY!

Some daddies are really hot because they can remove their teeth.

Let’s be honest: this trope came about because the patriarchy means most fathers end up in some way neglecting or abusing their kids & partners, and most men in power end up either neglecting or abusing their responsibilities. Whether intentionally or unintentionally; whether direct or indirect; whether because of the constrictions of work, social conditioning, toxic masculinity, or whatever else.

The world is burning in front of our eyes, and no-one in power seems either willing or able to do anything about it. The majority of us are only crying out for a strong, moral, capable and protective older man who actually cares, to hold us in his arms and reassure us everything will be alright. There’s barely anything sexual about it.

[quote] When the *younger Millennials became old enough for the new dating apps - about the time they became a thing in 2010 or so - you began seeing occasional ads and profiles with young people explicitly asking for older men. Old men have been trying to get young tail forever. But with the apps and Craigslist, there was a definite increase in ads.

Not to get all Woo, but—younger Millennials or Zillennials were born in the early-mid 90s, when most of the outer planets were transiting through Capricorn. The sign of Capricorn is presided over by the energies of the planet Saturn, which governs and champions maturity, power, personal advancement, experience, prowess and masterful skill, rules and discipline, loyalty and uprightness, wealth, senescence, elders & authority figures. This age group, currently aged in their late twenties & thirties, love nothing more than a person in their prime or senior years who know exactly what they’re doing and who do it well (and preferably making bank at it). They are also likely to be sexually attracted to traditional romance, conventional marriages and civil partnerships, formalwear, BDSM, denial, tantra, complicated and long private affairs, and ‘sugar baby’ or transactional relationships.

By contrast, the Zoomer generation to succeed them, currently in their teens & early-twenties, were born under the transit of the outer planets into Aquarius, the sign presided over by the planet Uranus. This planet is considered the primal forebear to Saturn, and is opposite in character. Uranus champions androgyny, eternal youth & enthusiasm, rebellion & anarchy, exhibitionism, a punkish DIY approach to life, collectivism, platonic love, emotional detachment, and a disdain for normative relationships and sexuality (or even for sex & gender itself); hence, we’re currently seeing all these College-aged neo-hippies, throuples, pronouned asexuals and blue-haired Ts looking like Peter Pan and running around like lobotomised hormone-addled chickens, when they aren’t posting explicit content on OnlyFans for their followers.

Single parent families. My boyf has a daddy syndrome. I'm 55 and he's 29.

Notice this too. Love it!

[quote]Single parent families

[quote]I'm 55

This explains it.

I’ve been helping a 23-year old work through his daddy issues and it’s been quite enjoyable.

I was into daddies when I was in my 20s, though never exclusively. Now that I’m in my 40s, I find that I’m at the sweet spot age where I can be a daddy for a 20-something and a “boy” for a man in his 60s. I plan to enjoy it as much as possible.

I never dated guys out of my age group, then or now. Admittedly, a twenty-something houseboy would be enjoyable, but not as a partner.

More than any other thread about some 1955 production of a Broadway musical starring some long dead actress and an ingenue who is now a very sprightly 89 years old ( including at least one anecdote about how the original cast album was purchased on EBAY and/or a garage sale by someone who saw the play as a child but whose parents wouldn't let him by the album because they were already paying for tap lessons), this is absolutely the most old white gay man thread I've ever read here.

Who says getting old doesn't have its perks?

My father walked out on the family when I was 4 years old. When young men start with the 'daddy' stuff, I just tell them they found the wrong guy. If I tried to act like a daddy, I would just abandon them..