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Do you think bottoms have a biological need to get fucked?

I sometimes wonder if there is a biologically-driven reason that comes into play with the urge to get fucked, i.e. having enlarged prostates that need stimulation to fully drain.

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by Anonymousreply 105Last Wednesday at 2:27 AM

i believe hormones in the womb make gay people gay. Bottoms got too much estrogen in the womb which make their butts passive and behave like vaginas.

by Anonymousreply 106/18/2021

It's rather a psychological need and a self-actualization process.

by Anonymousreply 206/19/2021

its not psychological my butt gets physically horny

by Anonymousreply 306/19/2021

I know the feeling R3. When I'm in the mood, I want nothing more. I don't even really like to masturbate without it. I've noticed that I do urinate with more consistency when I'm getting regular anal stimulation. It does make me wonder if there is some sort of connection, like my body is physiologically telling me that my prostate needs to get worked. I am one of those people who tends to get rock hard when I'm getting fucked. Lots of precum too.

by Anonymousreply 406/19/2021

R1 just admitted what I have argued all along: gay men are women, lesbians are men. Taking a cock in your ass makes your ass into a pussy. Of course, I already have a real pussy, so I don't need to do anal.

by Anonymousreply 506/19/2021

Experiencing the joys of bottoming encourages more of the same. It’s like, how’ ya gonna keep em down on the farm after they’ve seen Par-eee.

by Anonymousreply 606/19/2021

[quote]how’ ya gonna keep em down on the farm after they’ve seen Par-eee.

With leather straps.

by Anonymousreply 706/19/2021

What R6 said.

No biological need -- it just feels fan-fucking-tastic.

by Anonymousreply 806/19/2021

A biological need for pain and internal bleeding?

by Anonymousreply 906/19/2021

What R9 said.

by Anonymousreply 1006/19/2021

The brain is the primary sexual organ - genitalia are secondary. I've heard it said that gay men were women in past lives. By that logic, however, we must assume that women who love to be penetrated anally were once gay men? Haha - I kid, I kid. Have a great weekend, folks!

by Anonymousreply 1106/19/2021

[quote]I've heard it said that gay men were women in past lives.

Then I must have been Karen Carpenter.

by Anonymousreply 1206/19/2021

"I sometimes wonder if there is a biologically-driven reason that comes into play with the urge to get fucked, i.e. having enlarged prostates that need stimulation to fully drain."

"Too bad there's no Nobel Prize for thinking about ass fucking, or is there?" is probably another thing you wonder about.. .

by Anonymousreply 1306/19/2021

I love being filled, I just really like it.

by Anonymousreply 1406/19/2021

R14 = Sally Field’s gay son

by Anonymousreply 1506/19/2021

It just feels good. It's like how people feel horny because they just want to blow a load, they just coincidentally associate that with other people because of other people's organs that facilitate the blowing of the load. Like there is mo biological need to procreate, it's just a by product of men wanting to blow their load essentially.

by Anonymousreply 1606/19/2021

[quote] Do you think bottoms have a biological need to get fucked?

Karen, maybe it's like your biological clock. It ticks and you feel the need. Your baby making compartment must be defective. You have ended up on a gay website trolling men about sex.

Don't blame men because you are barren. Go visit you mother's grave and yell at her.

by Anonymousreply 1706/19/2021

All bottoms have chronic constipation and need a physical relieving mechanism.

by Anonymousreply 1806/19/2021

[quote] Do you think bottoms have a biological need to get fucked?

Yes, it’s that primal need for seed

by Anonymousreply 1906/19/2021

[quote] R1] just admitted what I have argued all along: gay men are women, lesbians are men. Taking a cock in your ass makes your ass into a pussy. Of course, I already have a real pussy, so I don't need to do anal.

Oh good god, not this shit again. Asked and answered, about a bizzillion times. There’s nothing here people, move on.

by Anonymousreply 2006/19/2021

[quote] Karen, maybe it's like your biological clock. It ticks and you feel the need. Your baby making compartment must be defective. You have ended up on a gay website trolling men about sex. Don't blame men because you are barren. Go visit you mother's grave and yell at her.

Yes, go take your barren bitterness elsewhere.

by Anonymousreply 2106/19/2021

[quote] I've heard it said that gay men were women in past lives.

Said by whom? Homophobes?

by Anonymousreply 2206/19/2021

You have to want it.

by Anonymousreply 2306/19/2021

[quote]I've heard it said that gay men were women in past lives.

Yes Trumpy, and injecting bleach will cure Covid. Sexologist, virologist, there's just no beginning to your talents.

by Anonymousreply 2406/19/2021

It has nothing to do with “female” qualities. The excitement is precisely that we’re men getting fucked by other men. It’s a glorious concept.

by Anonymousreply 2506/19/2021

Thank God for bottoms who love being fucked

by Anonymousreply 2606/19/2021

Yes , they’re like a cat in heat, moaning and dragging their nasty asses across the floor .

When bottoms don’t get fucked regularly they become nasty cunts. That’s why there are so many evil bitches in WeHo and any department store makeup counter.

by Anonymousreply 2706/19/2021

I guess this thread is for BORIS when he gets tired of lambasting Jazz Jenning’s weight gain…

by Anonymousreply 2806/19/2021

Though it's very pleasurable when bottoming, I can't cum from it.

I've topped many times and the guys were hard and when they came, their hole just gripped around my dick in turn making me spew into their guts. HOT!

Is it the norm to come while getting fucked? Or is it just something they do in pron?

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by Anonymousreply 2906/19/2021

[quote] Is it the norm to come while getting fucked? Or is it just something they do in pron?

Typed by a frau who isn't even trying.

by Anonymousreply 3006/19/2021

Not a Frau, I just don't have a sloppy blown out hole like you, whore.

by Anonymousreply 3106/19/2021

You can when a bottom really wants it vs one who is just going through the motions

by Anonymousreply 3206/19/2021

R31, your husband doesn't seem to mind. And he's not Lowes right now.

Don't try to use your credit card at the grocery store. We pranked you earlier and reported the card stolen.

by Anonymousreply 3306/19/2021

No-one tell Miss OP about A/B/O fanfiction.

by Anonymousreply 3406/19/2021

I wonder if maybe (*exclusive* bottoming) is more of a psychological impulse, coming from being repeatedly emasculated/bullied as a gay youngster. I was unable to top at all until I worked through some issues and cultivated some self-respect and confidence in my own manhood (without being cartoonish, posturing, or performative about it). Now, I'm 50/50 vers, and crave - and enjoy - both equally. Praise Jeebus.

by Anonymousreply 3506/19/2021

I believe that Early Man had buttsex regularly, with males and females (birth control). It's only after the religious freaks took over that it became verboten.

Then of course the population skyrocketed.

by Anonymousreply 3606/19/2021

I love it. It's the best thing in the world. My hole starts to itch when I go a few days without getting fucked.

by Anonymousreply 3706/19/2021

I need it in my MUSSY UHHH 😩

by Anonymousreply 3806/19/2021

The dick in the OPic is one of the best arguments for circumcision I've ever seen. The poor man looks deformed, as if the head of his dick is missing.

by Anonymousreply 3906/19/2021

R39 I thought it an unattractive pic too.

by Anonymousreply 4006/19/2021

I'd cum in seconds too if this gorgeous guy shoved his beautiful cock into me... especially while feeling the adrenaline rush of doing it in a public setting.

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by Anonymousreply 4106/19/2021

All men crave prostate stimulation.

by Anonymousreply 4206/19/2021

Tops are my heroes.

by Anonymousreply 4306/19/2021

Bottoms are the true heroes

by Anonymousreply 4406/19/2021

I bottomed when I was younger but it does nothing for me. However I can appreciate a bubble butt all day long.

by Anonymousreply 4506/19/2021

All the "total" bottoms I've met needed to keep taking bigger and bigger dicks, then bigger and bigger toys, then...well, you know.

by Anonymousreply 4606/19/2021

I've been vers, mostly top, and exclusively bottom, depending on the other guy in the relationship. They're all great. Depends on the guy.

by Anonymousreply 4706/19/2021

I was already sticking things in my butt in 6th grade - cucumbers, a boat oar. It just felt natural and normal, and honestly it never hurt. Couldn't figure out what the big deal was? I think you have to desire it, be *really* excited.

by Anonymousreply 4806/19/2021

I find it so bizarre that there are people who think that an uncut cock looks "deformed." It is the natural state of the human penis. I've seen a number of cocks that I would consider "deformed" by bad circumcisions.

by Anonymousreply 4906/19/2021

[quote]I was already sticking things in my butt in 6th grade - cucumbers, a boat oar.

Wait, hold up a minute. What was that again?!?!

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by Anonymousreply 5006/19/2021

Nothing turns me on in porn as much as a bottom getting his ass pounded doggy style, his dick leaking cum like a sieve.

by Anonymousreply 5106/19/2021

I *hate* when a bottom is distracted by aggressively jerking off his puny cocklet while he should be focusing on pleasing his top. OP's video is the only way a bottom should be allowed to cum ever.

by Anonymousreply 5206/19/2021

you gave me wood R51

by Anonymousreply 5306/19/2021

WTF? Not all gay men want or feel any desire to bottom at all. I don't and never have. No BS childhood trauma or anything. Just a regular top who likes ass. Period.

by Anonymousreply 5406/19/2021

You can tell the Top:Bottom ratio on DL by the number of W&Ws at R43 and R44

by Anonymousreply 5506/19/2021

R54 How YOU doin'?

by Anonymousreply 5606/19/2021

R53 I love it, but it's something that you rarely see captured in porn, which sucks. Most of the time, the bottoms are either flaccid or hard the whole time, but their dicks are dry. I personally leak like a faucet, and assumed most guys did, but it seems like it's a rare occurrence in most porn I've seen (and that goes for both amateur and professional)

by Anonymousreply 5706/19/2021

OP often I’ve wondered why stone-butches have a need to don a strap-on and refuse to let you touch them. It’s an easy cop-out to say ‘trauma’, and I’ve met some very health and clearly unmolested top dykes, so it can’t be that.

by Anonymousreply 5806/19/2021

Yes. Very much so. When you have the right chemistry with someone, your asshole can start twitching and wanting to open up. You can't wait for them to fuck you.

by Anonymousreply 5906/19/2021

R29 I've had better luck solo, using a dildo. I have never had a total "hands-free" orgasm, though I have gotten to the point where one or two strokes with my hand will send me over the edge--at that point, I can let go of my dick, and the sensation of getting fucked will force me to have a powerful orgasm. It is extremely pleasurable, but I don't shoot a lot from it; the load is usually thick and milky, but there's not a whole lot of it compared to how much I shoot from just penile stimulation alone.

by Anonymousreply 6006/19/2021

Totally agree r49

This mutilation is up there with jazz Jennings' one.

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by Anonymousreply 6106/19/2021

[quote]My hole starts to itch when I go a few days without getting fucked.

Yall some hoes up in here

by Anonymousreply 6206/19/2021

R30 r33

Counterpoint: eat a pound of broken glass & fuck off.

by Anonymousreply 6306/19/2021

A lot of people are off-put by the pain of anal, but really, once you get past that first ring of muscle and into the rectum, your ass really does relax and "take" whatever you've put in it. It's sort of difficult to understand it until you've actually experienced it. After a little practice, you are able to relax those muscles enough to the point that the initial penetration isn't painful. From thereon, it's all cruising.

by Anonymousreply 6406/19/2021

#64, have you graduated to squeezing his cock with your rectal muscles? Guys really like that.

by Anonymousreply 6506/19/2021

JFC....what is THAT R61 ?

by Anonymousreply 6606/19/2021

I get that itch to be fucked but when I actually do, it doesn’t usually feel so great.

So the thought of getting fucked is way better than the real thing for me

by Anonymousreply 6706/19/2021

Well this thread went off the rails quickly.

Meanwhile, this camerawork. With a huge light source directly behind them, it’s backlighting heaven.

by Anonymousreply 6806/19/2021

Is there a difference between bottoms who are hard and may orgasm during sex (i.e. they enjoy it) and bottoms who remain completely flaccid throughout (i.e. they don't seem to enjoy it physically but maybe they do psychologically)?

by Anonymousreply 6906/19/2021

Some tops dont want to see the bottom touching his dick or see the dick at all

by Anonymousreply 7006/19/2021

Even as a little boy, I liked to stick things in my ass. I'm talking younger than 10. I would go to sleep with an Eisenhower Dollar between my cheeks, or sometimes a little green army man. Have I read that kids have an "anal stage" or something? Maybe that was it, but the desire never left me. And, no, I was never abused that I remember.

by Anonymousreply 7106/19/2021

I have met many tops who say “ I just gotta fuck!”

by Anonymousreply 7206/19/2021

R71 you just jogged a memory for me--when I was around the same age, I remember sitting over the jets in my family's hot tub and letting the streams of water shoot up my ass, and finding it very enjoyable. It wasn't sexual per se because I hadn't gone through puberty, but it did give me "warm and tingly" feelings, the kind that eventually develop into full-blown horniness once your hormones kick in.

by Anonymousreply 7306/19/2021

so fucking hot

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by Anonymousreply 7406/19/2021

Some young men just have the fire down below. The prostate in some young men have a natural itch that needs to be satisfied, be it by finger, carrot, or an actual live throbbing cock. Satisfying of the prostate should be taught in every high school health class.

by Anonymousreply 7506/19/2021

AFAIK there isn’t a philosophical Greek treatise or theory that addresses this question. You’d think there would be.

by Anonymousreply 7606/20/2021

R76 -- there is. Sadly, it's one of Plato's great lost dialogues. Socates dilated for an entire evening of the motivations, pleasures, and pitfalls of inspired bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 7706/20/2021

[quote]I was already sticking things in my butt in 6th grade - a boat oar...

Dear Lord in Heaven!

by Anonymousreply 7806/20/2021

Bunch of whores! I’m happy jerking off to pornhub. Don’t need anything stuck in me or stick it into some desperate diseased hole.

by Anonymousreply 7906/20/2021

R69 it depends; for me, it's usually a bit of both, but I think it's just a matter of whether you're horny enough or not. If you are turned on, your prostate starts to swell with seminal fluid anyway, at which point stimulating it is likely going to be pleasurable. It goes hand-in-hand.

by Anonymousreply 8006/20/2021

"Too much estrogen in the womb which make their butts passive and behave like vaginas". OMFG that is the funniest thing i've read on here lately. Add too, that it also makes their puny cocklets extraneous.

by Anonymousreply 8106/20/2021

So is that why it's some of the videos the bottom so jockstraps. It's to hide their puny cocklets.

by Anonymousreply 8206/20/2021

R70 send those tops my way.

by Anonymousreply 8306/20/2021

Oh my goodness the boat oar guy reminded me of my go to item. The rake handle in the Paw Paw's shed. By the end of the summer of 7th grade I was taking probably 7 or 8 inches of that thing. Such good times. I eventually graduated to hammer handle and then a baseball bat and then the real thing. God, I was such a little whore.

by Anonymousreply 8406/20/2021

I do have a strange desire to be fucked in my balls, as if I had a vagina there.

by Anonymousreply 8506/20/2021

R85, you want what you'll never have which is the only reason you want it.

by Anonymousreply 8606/20/2021

R85 - and how would that even pen out logistically?

by Anonymousreply 8706/22/2021

Does it matter?

I love bottoms, they are the best thing about being gay.

Who cares why?

by Anonymousreply 8806/22/2021

In the mating position 🤤

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by Anonymousreply 8906/22/2021

I don't think it's biological, but there is definitely a psychological factor. I've often heard total bottoms or vers bottoms saying that they feel that really strong urge to get fucked, like their hole is aching to be filled with dick - it's a turn on tbh, but I haven't thought any more deeply about it.

by Anonymousreply 9006/22/2021

Well, I for one, think there was too much Estrogen in the anal cavity during gestation!

by Anonymousreply 9106/22/2021

There’s an amazing video that I’ve seen recently. I can’t find it to rewatch. Two tops and a bottom have a threesome. The bottom has an anal orgasm and is left writhing. It lasts a couple minutes, the tops can really finish and begin to get concerned. Then the bottom apologizes and says it anal orgasms happen to him sometimes, but never as good as the one he just had...

by Anonymousreply 9206/22/2021

I think the bottom was mixed, and I think it was the three of them doing an OnlyFans collaboration

by Anonymousreply 9306/22/2021

#bottumzrool

by Anonymousreply 9406/22/2021

Total bottoms = future hand puppets.

by Anonymousreply 9506/22/2021

Amazing anal orgasm. Interesting that it didn't come from the two dicks and two loads he took. It came about from two fingers.

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by Anonymousreply 96Last Tuesday at 8:20 AM

Fingers feel better because they can hit the prostate more directly if the top knows what he’s doing

by Anonymousreply 97Last Tuesday at 8:58 AM

Fingering is usually better for an anal orgasm. With a dick, you have to do a lot of trial and error to find the right position. A guy fucked me once and the stars aligned with the position and size of his dick. My entire body felt numb and I squirted out a load without even touching my dick. At first, I thought I was having a stroke.

by Anonymousreply 98Last Tuesday at 9:10 AM

Marry me, r4!

by Anonymousreply 99Last Tuesday at 10:07 AM

An anal orgasm does not involve jerking off, try again.

by Anonymousreply 100Last Wednesday at 12:19 AM

[quote]I do have a strange desire to be fucked in my balls, as if I had a vagina there.

What?

by Anonymousreply 101Last Wednesday at 12:41 AM

R17

Barren Karen.

Unreal.

by Anonymousreply 102Last Wednesday at 2:06 AM

I am a bottom and I admit that I hate anal. I don't want to risk potential bleeding for a feeling of diarrhea or shitting.

by Anonymousreply 103Last Wednesday at 2:18 AM

How can you be a bottom if you hate anal? Are you a sex slave?

by Anonymousreply 104Last Wednesday at 2:23 AM

Yes! That’s why they always beg, “Don’t Go!”

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by Anonymousreply 105Last Wednesday at 2:27 AM
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