Do you think bottoms have a biological need to get fucked?

i believe hormones in the womb make gay people gay. Bottoms got too much estrogen in the womb which make their butts passive and behave like vaginas.

It's rather a psychological need and a self-actualization process.

its not psychological my butt gets physically horny

I know the feeling R3. When I'm in the mood, I want nothing more. I don't even really like to masturbate without it. I've noticed that I do urinate with more consistency when I'm getting regular anal stimulation. It does make me wonder if there is some sort of connection, like my body is physiologically telling me that my prostate needs to get worked. I am one of those people who tends to get rock hard when I'm getting fucked. Lots of precum too.

R1 just admitted what I have argued all along: gay men are women, lesbians are men. Taking a cock in your ass makes your ass into a pussy. Of course, I already have a real pussy, so I don't need to do anal.

Experiencing the joys of bottoming encourages more of the same. It’s like, how’ ya gonna keep em down on the farm after they’ve seen Par-eee.

[quote]how’ ya gonna keep em down on the farm after they’ve seen Par-eee.

With leather straps.

What R6 said.

No biological need -- it just feels fan-fucking-tastic.

A biological need for pain and internal bleeding?

What R9 said.

The brain is the primary sexual organ - genitalia are secondary. I've heard it said that gay men were women in past lives. By that logic, however, we must assume that women who love to be penetrated anally were once gay men? Haha - I kid, I kid. Have a great weekend, folks!

[quote]I've heard it said that gay men were women in past lives.

Then I must have been Karen Carpenter.

"I sometimes wonder if there is a biologically-driven reason that comes into play with the urge to get fucked, i.e. having enlarged prostates that need stimulation to fully drain."

"Too bad there's no Nobel Prize for thinking about ass fucking, or is there?" is probably another thing you wonder about.. .

I love being filled, I just really like it.

R14 = Sally Field’s gay son

It just feels good. It's like how people feel horny because they just want to blow a load, they just coincidentally associate that with other people because of other people's organs that facilitate the blowing of the load. Like there is mo biological need to procreate, it's just a by product of men wanting to blow their load essentially.

[quote] Do you think bottoms have a biological need to get fucked?

Karen, maybe it's like your biological clock. It ticks and you feel the need. Your baby making compartment must be defective. You have ended up on a gay website trolling men about sex.

Don't blame men because you are barren. Go visit you mother's grave and yell at her.

All bottoms have chronic constipation and need a physical relieving mechanism.

[quote] Do you think bottoms have a biological need to get fucked?

Yes, it’s that primal need for seed

[quote] R1] just admitted what I have argued all along: gay men are women, lesbians are men. Taking a cock in your ass makes your ass into a pussy. Of course, I already have a real pussy, so I don't need to do anal.

Oh good god, not this shit again. Asked and answered, about a bizzillion times. There’s nothing here people, move on.

[quote] Karen, maybe it's like your biological clock. It ticks and you feel the need. Your baby making compartment must be defective. You have ended up on a gay website trolling men about sex. Don't blame men because you are barren. Go visit you mother's grave and yell at her.

Yes, go take your barren bitterness elsewhere.

[quote] I've heard it said that gay men were women in past lives.

Said by whom? Homophobes?

You have to want it.

[quote]I've heard it said that gay men were women in past lives.

Yes Trumpy, and injecting bleach will cure Covid. Sexologist, virologist, there's just no beginning to your talents.

It has nothing to do with “female” qualities. The excitement is precisely that we’re men getting fucked by other men. It’s a glorious concept.

Thank God for bottoms who love being fucked

Yes , they’re like a cat in heat, moaning and dragging their nasty asses across the floor .

When bottoms don’t get fucked regularly they become nasty cunts. That’s why there are so many evil bitches in WeHo and any department store makeup counter.

I guess this thread is for BORIS when he gets tired of lambasting Jazz Jenning’s weight gain…

Though it's very pleasurable when bottoming, I can't cum from it.

I've topped many times and the guys were hard and when they came, their hole just gripped around my dick in turn making me spew into their guts. HOT!

Is it the norm to come while getting fucked? Or is it just something they do in pron?

[quote] Is it the norm to come while getting fucked? Or is it just something they do in pron?

Typed by a frau who isn't even trying.

Not a Frau, I just don't have a sloppy blown out hole like you, whore.

You can when a bottom really wants it vs one who is just going through the motions

R31, your husband doesn't seem to mind. And he's not Lowes right now.

Don't try to use your credit card at the grocery store. We pranked you earlier and reported the card stolen.

No-one tell Miss OP about A/B/O fanfiction.

I wonder if maybe (*exclusive* bottoming) is more of a psychological impulse, coming from being repeatedly emasculated/bullied as a gay youngster. I was unable to top at all until I worked through some issues and cultivated some self-respect and confidence in my own manhood (without being cartoonish, posturing, or performative about it). Now, I'm 50/50 vers, and crave - and enjoy - both equally. Praise Jeebus.

I believe that Early Man had buttsex regularly, with males and females (birth control). It's only after the religious freaks took over that it became verboten.

Then of course the population skyrocketed.

I love it. It's the best thing in the world. My hole starts to itch when I go a few days without getting fucked.

I need it in my MUSSY UHHH 😩

The dick in the OPic is one of the best arguments for circumcision I've ever seen. The poor man looks deformed, as if the head of his dick is missing.

R39 I thought it an unattractive pic too.

I'd cum in seconds too if this gorgeous guy shoved his beautiful cock into me... especially while feeling the adrenaline rush of doing it in a public setting.

All men crave prostate stimulation.

Tops are my heroes.

Bottoms are the true heroes

I bottomed when I was younger but it does nothing for me. However I can appreciate a bubble butt all day long.

All the "total" bottoms I've met needed to keep taking bigger and bigger dicks, then bigger and bigger toys, then...well, you know.

I've been vers, mostly top, and exclusively bottom, depending on the other guy in the relationship. They're all great. Depends on the guy.

I was already sticking things in my butt in 6th grade - cucumbers, a boat oar. It just felt natural and normal, and honestly it never hurt. Couldn't figure out what the big deal was? I think you have to desire it, be *really* excited.

I find it so bizarre that there are people who think that an uncut cock looks "deformed." It is the natural state of the human penis. I've seen a number of cocks that I would consider "deformed" by bad circumcisions.

[quote]I was already sticking things in my butt in 6th grade - cucumbers, a boat oar.

Wait, hold up a minute. What was that again?!?!

Nothing turns me on in porn as much as a bottom getting his ass pounded doggy style, his dick leaking cum like a sieve.

I *hate* when a bottom is distracted by aggressively jerking off his puny cocklet while he should be focusing on pleasing his top. OP's video is the only way a bottom should be allowed to cum ever.

you gave me wood R51

WTF? Not all gay men want or feel any desire to bottom at all. I don't and never have. No BS childhood trauma or anything. Just a regular top who likes ass. Period.

You can tell the Top:Bottom ratio on DL by the number of W&Ws at R43 and R44

R54 How YOU doin'?

R53 I love it, but it's something that you rarely see captured in porn, which sucks. Most of the time, the bottoms are either flaccid or hard the whole time, but their dicks are dry. I personally leak like a faucet, and assumed most guys did, but it seems like it's a rare occurrence in most porn I've seen (and that goes for both amateur and professional)

OP often I’ve wondered why stone-butches have a need to don a strap-on and refuse to let you touch them. It’s an easy cop-out to say ‘trauma’, and I’ve met some very health and clearly unmolested top dykes, so it can’t be that.

Yes. Very much so. When you have the right chemistry with someone, your asshole can start twitching and wanting to open up. You can't wait for them to fuck you.

R29 I've had better luck solo, using a dildo. I have never had a total "hands-free" orgasm, though I have gotten to the point where one or two strokes with my hand will send me over the edge--at that point, I can let go of my dick, and the sensation of getting fucked will force me to have a powerful orgasm. It is extremely pleasurable, but I don't shoot a lot from it; the load is usually thick and milky, but there's not a whole lot of it compared to how much I shoot from just penile stimulation alone.

Totally agree r49

This mutilation is up there with jazz Jennings' one.

[quote]My hole starts to itch when I go a few days without getting fucked.

Yall some hoes up in here

R30 r33

Counterpoint: eat a pound of broken glass & fuck off.

A lot of people are off-put by the pain of anal, but really, once you get past that first ring of muscle and into the rectum, your ass really does relax and "take" whatever you've put in it. It's sort of difficult to understand it until you've actually experienced it. After a little practice, you are able to relax those muscles enough to the point that the initial penetration isn't painful. From thereon, it's all cruising.

#64, have you graduated to squeezing his cock with your rectal muscles? Guys really like that.

JFC....what is THAT R61 ?

I get that itch to be fucked but when I actually do, it doesn’t usually feel so great.

So the thought of getting fucked is way better than the real thing for me

Well this thread went off the rails quickly.

Meanwhile, this camerawork. With a huge light source directly behind them, it’s backlighting heaven.

Is there a difference between bottoms who are hard and may orgasm during sex (i.e. they enjoy it) and bottoms who remain completely flaccid throughout (i.e. they don't seem to enjoy it physically but maybe they do psychologically)?

Some tops dont want to see the bottom touching his dick or see the dick at all

Even as a little boy, I liked to stick things in my ass. I'm talking younger than 10. I would go to sleep with an Eisenhower Dollar between my cheeks, or sometimes a little green army man. Have I read that kids have an "anal stage" or something? Maybe that was it, but the desire never left me. And, no, I was never abused that I remember.

I have met many tops who say “ I just gotta fuck!”

R71 you just jogged a memory for me--when I was around the same age, I remember sitting over the jets in my family's hot tub and letting the streams of water shoot up my ass, and finding it very enjoyable. It wasn't sexual per se because I hadn't gone through puberty, but it did give me "warm and tingly" feelings, the kind that eventually develop into full-blown horniness once your hormones kick in.

so fucking hot

Some young men just have the fire down below. The prostate in some young men have a natural itch that needs to be satisfied, be it by finger, carrot, or an actual live throbbing cock. Satisfying of the prostate should be taught in every high school health class.

AFAIK there isn’t a philosophical Greek treatise or theory that addresses this question. You’d think there would be.

R76 -- there is. Sadly, it's one of Plato's great lost dialogues. Socates dilated for an entire evening of the motivations, pleasures, and pitfalls of inspired bottoms.

[quote]I was already sticking things in my butt in 6th grade - a boat oar...

Dear Lord in Heaven!

Bunch of whores! I’m happy jerking off to pornhub. Don’t need anything stuck in me or stick it into some desperate diseased hole.

R69 it depends; for me, it's usually a bit of both, but I think it's just a matter of whether you're horny enough or not. If you are turned on, your prostate starts to swell with seminal fluid anyway, at which point stimulating it is likely going to be pleasurable. It goes hand-in-hand.

"Too much estrogen in the womb which make their butts passive and behave like vaginas". OMFG that is the funniest thing i've read on here lately. Add too, that it also makes their puny cocklets extraneous.

So is that why it's some of the videos the bottom so jockstraps. It's to hide their puny cocklets.

R70 send those tops my way.

Oh my goodness the boat oar guy reminded me of my go to item. The rake handle in the Paw Paw's shed. By the end of the summer of 7th grade I was taking probably 7 or 8 inches of that thing. Such good times. I eventually graduated to hammer handle and then a baseball bat and then the real thing. God, I was such a little whore.

I do have a strange desire to be fucked in my balls, as if I had a vagina there.

R85, you want what you'll never have which is the only reason you want it.

R85 - and how would that even pen out logistically?

Does it matter?

I love bottoms, they are the best thing about being gay.

Who cares why?

In the mating position 🤤

I don't think it's biological, but there is definitely a psychological factor. I've often heard total bottoms or vers bottoms saying that they feel that really strong urge to get fucked, like their hole is aching to be filled with dick - it's a turn on tbh, but I haven't thought any more deeply about it.

Well, I for one, think there was too much Estrogen in the anal cavity during gestation!

There’s an amazing video that I’ve seen recently. I can’t find it to rewatch. Two tops and a bottom have a threesome. The bottom has an anal orgasm and is left writhing. It lasts a couple minutes, the tops can really finish and begin to get concerned. Then the bottom apologizes and says it anal orgasms happen to him sometimes, but never as good as the one he just had...

I think the bottom was mixed, and I think it was the three of them doing an OnlyFans collaboration

#bottumzrool

Total bottoms = future hand puppets.

Amazing anal orgasm. Interesting that it didn't come from the two dicks and two loads he took. It came about from two fingers.

Fingers feel better because they can hit the prostate more directly if the top knows what he’s doing

Fingering is usually better for an anal orgasm. With a dick, you have to do a lot of trial and error to find the right position. A guy fucked me once and the stars aligned with the position and size of his dick. My entire body felt numb and I squirted out a load without even touching my dick. At first, I thought I was having a stroke.

Marry me, r4!

An anal orgasm does not involve jerking off, try again.

[quote]I do have a strange desire to be fucked in my balls, as if I had a vagina there.

What?

R17

Barren Karen.

Unreal.

I am a bottom and I admit that I hate anal. I don't want to risk potential bleeding for a feeling of diarrhea or shitting.

How can you be a bottom if you hate anal? Are you a sex slave?

Yes! That’s why they always beg, “Don’t Go!”

R103 has shat over a thousand unsuspecting cocks. She is a none too subtle scat queen.

[quote] Do you think bottoms have a biological need to get fucked?

No.

Next question.

I enjoy reading bottoms here discussing how much they like it. Even better is when you're with one of these guys who just has to have it and are overwhelmed with pleasure while you're topping them. And I love the ones who act submissive but are really in control the whole time.

Fuck. I need to fuck now.

In addition to above, while I mostly, almost exclusively, top, I did bottom a few times when in my early 20s, and I never had pain, not even the first time. I think really wanting it and the mental aspect of it is key, as people say.

I still have some guilt over my first time as it was with the ex-boyfriend of a friend of mine. I was at the house they still shared though they were broken up, and he kept suggesting it, and then just grinning at me as we sat there, nodding his head towards the bedroom. "Come on..." Next thing I knew I'm face pressed against the wall while he is grunting in my ear: "I'm gonna start riding you now, ok?" It was intense, but not painful. Pressure on the bladder too. But I really liked it. And felt like a right cunt afterwards, even though they were broken up, it just felt like a shitty thing to do, and I've never done anything like that again (helped that I developed more self-esteem too after that situation too).

A couple more times I did it with other guys, and definitely came with no hands too, which is amazing. It's funny, in some ways I feel I was built to do it, but I stopped after about 23/24 and became an exclusive top. I fantasise about doing it, but don't really want to in real life. The closest was when I hooked up with this gorgeous guy, and he started to push into me bare and just growled at me: "Come on, open up!" and I nearly did, because he was so hot and I really wanted it, but the whole unsafe sex thing was too dangerous, so I put a stop to it.

I've known a number of guys who started bottoming again around 40, so who knows, maybe I will too?

I must admit, I do get the occasional ‘itch’.

They want to be submissive bitches.

It's biological and natural. However, I can't bottom for any guy just because I'm craving it or just because I'm extremely horny. I have to be into the guy, attracted to him, horny for him, and I have to know him properly. I can't do random hookups with guys that I don't know. I can't relax and I can't enjoy it. I've tried but I'm not built that way.

A guy I loved with all my heart and was madly attracted to in every way who I was dating in 2016, I craved his gorgeous penis in my horny hole, and his ass tasted so damn good! I loved rimming him! But he never penetrated me when I wanted it, except for one time, and he treated me badly. Made me feel like I was ugly and like he hated it. Ever since then I haven't bottomed, and I will never bottom unless I feel extremely close to another guy like I did with the guy in 2016.

Gay make bottoms are EXTREMELY HOT and EXTREMELY TALENTED. The bullshit about them all being feminine and thinking they are females, comes from homophobic scum who know nothing about gay men or male anatomy/male biology. Many gay males who bottom are extremely hot and masculine, and very powerful. It's primal and it's powerful. It's one of the best things about being gay and being a male.

Total bottoms tend to be pushy and entitled, like gay Karens.

R113 I've never met a pushy gay bottom. They were always great. However, I've met many pushy gay tops. I'm versatile.

Yes it sometimes can be like a really bad itch like your ass is craving or even starving for it. You want to scream fuck me somebody fuck me please. One time I actually did. Nobody did. As mentioned by a previous poster I can't just do it with anyone. Many tops have failed to please me so the fantasy and reality often crash There are a lot of factors for me to enjoy it and a lot of selfish tops. My goal is just one good fuck by the end of the year.

I'm referring to total bottoms R114

R115 I have found a lot of tops to be lacking passion and connectedness with the bottom. I know some bottoms love to be fucked without any passion or connectedness, and love the anonymous gay hookups because of it. But for me personally, I need that passion, foreplay, rimming, connectedness, and especially the trust factor when getting penetrated by a man.

Even though I'm versatile, I prefer to just rim and get rimmed by a guy and suck cocks and wank at the same time when getting rimmed or when rimming a guy. But of course I love to bottom as I said earlier, but it's got to be with the right guy/s who care about my body and how it responds, and I give the same intimate understanding and care in return.

I love watching gay anonymous bareback porn and think it's extremely hot and masculine. But in real life I need to know the guy properly etc, and when I do and there is chemistry between us, my hole is extremely horny and begging for his penis inside me.

Another thread which is full of examples of autogynephilia.

R116 okay yeah. I think that total gay tops and total gay bottoms equally share the same pushiness. That's why I prefer versatile gay men, like myself.

R118 we are gay males who enjoy everything about being males you homophobic trash! We aren't females and we don't want to be females you homophobic dumb fuck! Get off our gay website!

R120 You are an AGP, you will not silence women any longer.

This site is filled with misogyny and hatred of women, all because you wish you were a woman!

#WomenWontWheesht

I always care for the bottoms who are kind enough to spread for me, but I won't lie my favourites are the ones who can really take it, in fact, demand that I give it to them hard.

R121 you again, you homophobic bitch! You've got some real fucked up narcissism posting your homophobic bullshit on our gay website! Most of us don't support trans you stupid fucking bitch! Gay men didn't start transgenderism, homophobic straight scum like yourself created this trans nonsense with your evil homophobia towards gay people, particularly from the UK!

Get your fugly homophobic British self off our gay website, you vile bitch!!!

Barren Karens and angry bottoms are like 90% of all DLers.

They're referred to as Bossy Bottoms for a reason.

R125 Clearly you have a 3000 IQ to come up w that gem. Jesus fuck.

Hot r122!

Spoken like a true cock holster R126.