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David Archuleta reveals struggles with sexuality and Mormon faith, urges 'compassion' toward LGBTQ+ community

David Archuleta opened up about his struggles with his sexuality and faith in an emotional Instagram post on Saturday, calling for more "compassion" for those going through such experiences. The singer and American Idol alum, who is a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (also known as Mormons), said he has long been uncertain of his sexuality and struggled to reconcile this uncertainty with his religious faith. "I like to keep to myself but also thought this was important to share because I know so many other people from religious upbringings feel the same way," Archuleta began his lengthy post. "I've been open to myself and my close family for some years now that I am not sure about my own sexuality. I came out in 2014 as gay to my family. But then I had similar feelings for both genders so maybe a spectrum of bisexual. Then I also have learned I don't have too much sexual desires and urges as most people which works I guess because I have a commitment to save myself until marriage. Which people call asexual when they don't experience sexual urges." "I think we can do better as people of faith and Christians, including Latter-day Saints, to listen more to the wrestle between being LGBTQIA+ and a person of faith," he wrote. "I don't think it should come down to feeling you have to accept one or the other. For me to find peace the reality has been to accept both are real things I experience and make who I am.... You can be part of the LGBTQIA+ community and still believe in God and His gospel plan."

Like many Christian denominations, the LDS Church has long held that homosexual activity and same-sex marriage are forbidden by God. The Church revised its stance on same-sex marriage in 2019, reversing a 2015 declaration that couples in legal same-sex unions would be considered "apostate." However, such a marriage is still considered "a serious transgression" and officially opposed by the LDS Church. The Church's stance on LGTBQ equality has long been controversial even within its membership.

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by Anonymousreply 600July 7, 2021 7:27 PM

I’m glad he’s becoming open about his sexuality.

by Anonymousreply 1June 12, 2021 7:21 PM

Awwww. I just want to give him a hug . . . and then fuck him up the ass. Such a cutie.

by Anonymousreply 2June 12, 2021 7:21 PM

FINALLY!

by Anonymousreply 3June 12, 2021 7:23 PM

Wait a minute! The guy everyone pegged as gay while he was on American Idol finally came out as gay?

by Anonymousreply 4June 12, 2021 7:24 PM

He has such a great smile

by Anonymousreply 5June 12, 2021 7:27 PM

Good for him!

by Anonymousreply 6June 12, 2021 7:29 PM

If my eyes rolled any farther they would fall out of my head.

by Anonymousreply 7June 12, 2021 7:44 PM

Who is going to “guide him”?

by Anonymousreply 8June 12, 2021 7:46 PM

[quote] If my eyes rolled any farther

Oh, dear!

by Anonymousreply 9June 12, 2021 7:47 PM

How did Papa Archuleta handle the news?

by Anonymousreply 10June 12, 2021 7:49 PM

[quote] If my eyes rolled any farther they would fall out of my head.

How does this make any sense? Why would rolling your eyes too far back cause them to fall out?

by Anonymousreply 11June 12, 2021 7:50 PM

R10, the same way Cockgobbler’s father handled it.

by Anonymousreply 12June 12, 2021 7:52 PM

Paging Colton Underwood!

by Anonymousreply 13June 12, 2021 7:53 PM

Ironic, r11, since you called someone else pedantic on another thread.

by Anonymousreply 14June 12, 2021 7:53 PM

He needs to be rimmed properly, slow, deep and non-stop.

by Anonymousreply 15June 12, 2021 7:57 PM

Mormon Boyz need love too.

by Anonymousreply 16June 12, 2021 7:59 PM

I want to see him get deflowered by the Maverick Men.

by Anonymousreply 17June 12, 2021 8:09 PM

I am betting he's still a virgin. I can tell.

by Anonymousreply 18June 12, 2021 9:27 PM

He just said he's NOT gay.

He claims to be "bisexual" AND "asexual."

He definitely did not "come out as gay" at all.

by Anonymousreply 19June 12, 2021 9:36 PM

Bisexual is the off-ramp to Gaysville.

by Anonymousreply 20June 12, 2021 9:38 PM

No, he said he came out as "gay" in 2014, and then afterwards reversed it to "bisexual."

Creep.

by Anonymousreply 21June 12, 2021 9:39 PM

[QUOTE] He just said he's NOT gay. He claims to be "bisexual" AND "asexual." He definitely did not "come out as gay" at all.

Regardless, he’s open to me pounding his ass. That’s all I care about. And after a couple nights of good dick from a masculine, dominant top, there won’t be any ambiguity about his sexuality.

by Anonymousreply 22June 12, 2021 9:42 PM

* Frau alert *

by Anonymousreply 23June 12, 2021 9:43 PM

Watch out -- when closeted Mormons finally come out, they go from 0 to 100 on the party scale.

by Anonymousreply 24June 12, 2021 9:44 PM

[quote]said he has long been uncertain of his sexuality

Sure Jan. He’s as homo as the sky is blue.

by Anonymousreply 25June 12, 2021 9:44 PM

Carol in the EW comment section reacts to the news and his struggles with all the compassion in her soul-

[quote] Another lost sick soul that allowed the homosexual infection to pervert him and gave up the struggle against sin and will now lead others astray. He never chose Jesus the Savior in his religion which is part of the problem but now he has given in completely to sin as the Devil does another victory lap. This will not end well for him, I'm so sorry, I have to throw out his music. This is so very sad and to his parents, I'm so sorry this is your child.

by Anonymousreply 26June 12, 2021 9:45 PM

R26, Carol is a closeted dyke.

by Anonymousreply 27June 12, 2021 9:47 PM

Cumwhore!

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by Anonymousreply 28June 12, 2021 9:47 PM

"Carol" = David Cook

by Anonymousreply 29June 12, 2021 9:48 PM

Carol sounds like an insufferable cunt.

by Anonymousreply 30June 12, 2021 9:49 PM

[quote] Another lost sick soul that allowed the homosexual infection to pervert him and gave up the struggle against sin and will now lead others astray. He never chose Jesus the Savior in his religion which is part of the problem but now he has given in completely to sin as the Devil does another victory lap. This will not end well for him, I'm so sorry, I have to throw out his music. This is so very sad and to his parents, I'm so sorry this is your child.

Carol is a cunt, and she's going to hell for capitalizing "Devil" the same way in which she capitalizes "Jesus the Savior." For shame, Carol!

by Anonymousreply 31June 12, 2021 10:19 PM

r24

You are so right. It's one way or the other with them. No grey area.

by Anonymousreply 32June 12, 2021 10:21 PM

A part of his statement

[quote] I’ve tried for almost 20 years to try and change myself until I realized God made me how I am for a purpose. And instead of hating what I have considered wrong I need to see why God loved me for who I am and that it’s not just sexuality. So many other traits of who I am come from how I’ve been created. If other people choose to live differently than what you’ve been raised to believe is right, please have compassion because it’s most likely been an exhausting journey for them to be ok with the feelings they have and never have been able to change.

"I've tried for almost 20 years to try and change...."

Thanks, Mom & Dad, & the Mormon Church.

by Anonymousreply 33June 12, 2021 10:30 PM

Best coming out of 2021 so far.

by Anonymousreply 34June 12, 2021 10:32 PM

Imagine no religion, Archie. When you know better - you do better. It's not where you start, it's how you finish.

by Anonymousreply 35June 12, 2021 10:33 PM

I would like to know if he masturbates; and if he does, what does he masturbate to?

by Anonymousreply 36June 12, 2021 10:37 PM

^^Nude Joseph Smith, clearly.

by Anonymousreply 37June 12, 2021 10:39 PM

I’m cackling at how spot on DL had been all this time. You all never really forgot about him since threads would pop up about this guy from time to time.

People can still act like the queens in here don’t have a good gaydar. DL knows a fag when it sees one.

by Anonymousreply 38June 12, 2021 10:43 PM

r38 DL is NEVER wrong!!

by Anonymousreply 39June 12, 2021 10:52 PM

Watch him come out as trans in 2024.

by Anonymousreply 40June 12, 2021 10:53 PM

David Archuleta being gay is wish fulfillment, not prophecy. He was so CUTE. Those eyes. those lips, that ASS.

by Anonymousreply 41June 12, 2021 10:54 PM

r37 Is he a Helix model?

by Anonymousreply 42June 12, 2021 10:55 PM

[QUOTE] David Archuleta being gay is wish fulfillment, not prophecy. He was so CUTE. Those eyes. those lips, that ASS.

Why is this all framed in the past tense, R41? You’re saying his best days are behind him?

by Anonymousreply 43June 12, 2021 10:57 PM

R43, she’s practically an eldergay now. A sad spinster.

by Anonymousreply 44June 12, 2021 10:59 PM

I have a long history with Archie R43. For one whole summer I fucked him in the ASS off the coast of Great Salt Lake. It was a painful experience.

by Anonymousreply 45June 12, 2021 11:01 PM

Wee Davey hasn't come out as anything. He's wiggled backwards from being a gay man to being a celibate (and virginal) bisexual who has a low sex drive because he can shrink his libido like a toad suspends its activity in the mud as the drought comes. So he's come out as a (TA-DA) Mormon cult victim. Because that's what this shit is all about.

by Anonymousreply 46June 12, 2021 11:01 PM

It’s going to take a long time for David to be deprogrammed from the Mormon cult.

He may end up this month on the couch spilling it all to John Dehlin on Mormon stories.

by Anonymousreply 47June 12, 2021 11:03 PM

[quote] she’s practically an eldergay now. A sad spinster.

C’mon, man, he’s only thirt….

Oh, I see your point now.

by Anonymousreply 48June 12, 2021 11:04 PM

Has he showed skin yet? Cock pics? Presenting hole? Simulated anal sex with a mannequin?

by Anonymousreply 49June 12, 2021 11:10 PM

I get sex pig vibes from him.

by Anonymousreply 50June 12, 2021 11:19 PM

There’s nothing wrong with going back in the closet.

by Anonymousreply 51June 12, 2021 11:20 PM

There’s nothing wrong with going back in the closet.

by Anonymousreply 52June 12, 2021 11:23 PM

There’s nothing wrong with going back in the closet.

by Anonymousreply 53June 12, 2021 11:26 PM

I struggled with Archies' homesexuality for several years. And everynight I won.

by Anonymousreply 54June 12, 2021 11:28 PM

"I am betting he's still a virgin. I can tell."

Yep. Seriously suppressed by religion. Once he gets his weiner sucked and ass fingered he'll start thinking about sexy time a lot more.

by Anonymousreply 55June 12, 2021 11:31 PM

For a Mormon who's "uncertain" about his sexuality, uncertain = gay as a picnic basket.

by Anonymousreply 56June 12, 2021 11:32 PM

His post was liked by Instagram's official Instagram page.

by Anonymousreply 57June 12, 2021 11:34 PM

Is he losing his hair?

by Anonymousreply 58June 12, 2021 11:41 PM

I hope not.

Being being an eldergay AND losing his hair? No one should be subjected to that all at once.

by Anonymousreply 59June 12, 2021 11:46 PM

Has posted in here yet about being so happy that David has un-gayed himself and embraced the Lord?

What a homophobic bitch.

by Anonymousreply 60June 12, 2021 11:47 PM

Hole aside, I also love his voice. His Christmas album is one of my favorites.

by Anonymousreply 61June 12, 2021 11:48 PM

I called this from the very moment I saw his gayling self on AI.

by Anonymousreply 62June 12, 2021 11:49 PM

He needs an experienced elder to guide him in the ways (NSFW).

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by Anonymousreply 63June 12, 2021 11:50 PM

No one hates someone who comes out more than DL posters. At least they are consistent.

by Anonymousreply 64June 12, 2021 11:53 PM

Did anyone else notice David Cook took him under his wing toward the end of the series. Archuleta was struggling with the ever-growing pressure his father put him under, and maybe he confided his sexuality to Cook. Whatever happened, Cook became very protective of Archuleta.

I thought it was classy. I was happy Cook won because of that.

by Anonymousreply 65June 12, 2021 11:59 PM

Wasn't he talking last year about his porn addiction? That doesn't sound very asexual to me. At least we know now that the porn involved the man going up into the man.

We were pretty sure at the time, but now we know.

by Anonymousreply 66June 13, 2021 12:05 AM

He needs to star in a remake of this scene:

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by Anonymousreply 67June 13, 2021 12:06 AM

He doesn't seem very intelligent but good for him.

by Anonymousreply 68June 13, 2021 12:12 AM

With this news out, I wonder if the Mormon Tabernacle Choir will have him perform for their usual Christmas concert?

by Anonymousreply 69June 13, 2021 12:13 AM

Wait. She’s only 30?? Some of you were making it out like he was 45. Still young.

But she’s not “LGBTQIA+”. Obviously GAY from space.

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by Anonymousreply 70June 13, 2021 12:24 AM

He needs his brows cleaned up. But the hair around his hole is soft, dark and silky. I fucked David Archuleta off the coast of Great Salt Lake in his ASS one whole summer.

by Anonymousreply 71June 13, 2021 12:31 AM

R71 Do you think that capitalizing ass makes your lie more believable?

It doesn't.

You make me sad.

by Anonymousreply 72June 13, 2021 12:39 AM

[quote]I fucked David Archuleta off the coast of Great Salt Lake in his ASS one whole summer.

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by Anonymousreply 73June 13, 2021 12:39 AM

You ARE sad R72. Oh yes you are. Sadly.

by Anonymousreply 74June 13, 2021 12:40 AM

Did you really [R45] and [R71] or are you just making it up?

by Anonymousreply 75June 13, 2021 12:44 AM

His Instagram post was one of the stranger coming-out announcements I've read. He started by saying he'd come out to his family as gay a few years ago, but has since realised he is actually bi, and may in fact be asexual. The only bit that seemed unambiguous was that he is a virgin and plans on remaining one as the LDS church demands. Good luck!

by Anonymousreply 76June 13, 2021 12:44 AM

No way is he staying a virgin now. He's gonna have too much temptation coming his way.

Or he and Colton will be doing a series together.

by Anonymousreply 77June 13, 2021 12:45 AM

I wish him well. He always seemed to have a melancholy about him. Maybe now it will go away.

by Anonymousreply 78June 13, 2021 12:47 AM

Between the non-use, the repression and the anxiety, can you imagine how tight that hole is?

by Anonymousreply 79June 13, 2021 12:49 AM

I need to fuck this bitch. Does anyone have her Grindr or Scruff? What about Oblyfans??

by Anonymousreply 80June 13, 2021 12:49 AM

Let me give him a blow job and he'll be singing to the angels. That long-held explosion in my throat could damage my vocal cords, but it's all in the name of compassion.

by Anonymousreply 81June 13, 2021 12:50 AM

Do you think he grooms his pubes?

by Anonymousreply 82June 13, 2021 12:51 AM

Who ever deflowered that ass deserves a medal.

by Anonymousreply 83June 13, 2021 12:51 AM

He came out as alphabetical.

by Anonymousreply 84June 13, 2021 12:56 AM

r38 DL really always knows. To think of all the pre-out threads they had about this guy and many others like Jodie Foster, Kelly McGillis, Anderson Cooper, Don Lemon, Wentworth Miller, Cynthia Nixon, Matt Dallas, Lee Pace and even Ricky Martin. All without the often demanded "concrete proof". I'm looking at that Jonas brother, Gyllenhaal, Franco, Aaron Rogers, Skarsgard, Styles, Bradley Cooper, DiCaprio, Clooney and the rest and wondering who they think they're fooling.

by Anonymousreply 85June 13, 2021 12:58 AM

[quote]Or he and Colton will be doing a series together.

Will Gus Kenworthy also be serving as David's "gay guide"?

by Anonymousreply 86June 13, 2021 1:00 AM

[quote]Or he and Colton will be doing a series together.

Hopefully on OnlyFans

by Anonymousreply 87June 13, 2021 1:00 AM

La Belle Archuleta

by Anonymousreply 88June 13, 2021 1:00 AM

His best career move in a long while.

by Anonymousreply 89June 13, 2021 1:02 AM

I just fall in love again. I won that medal R83. It was a beautiful and painful time. He's the sweetest guy. You don't know if you should clean his ass or wipe his nose.

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by Anonymousreply 90June 13, 2021 1:06 AM

[quote][R38] DL really always knows. To think of all the pre-out threads they had about this guy and many others like Jodie Foster, Kelly McGillis, Anderson Cooper, Don Lemon, Wentworth Miller, Cynthia Nixon, Matt Dallas, Lee Pace and even Ricky Martin. All without the often demanded "concrete proof". I'm looking at that Jonas brother, Gyllenhaal, Franco, Aaron Rogers, Skarsgard, Styles, Bradley Cooper, DiCaprio, Clooney and the rest and wondering who they think they're fooling.

Yeah, well how do you explain Matt Gaetz?????

by Anonymousreply 91June 13, 2021 1:06 AM

After a few bouts of clap and antibiotics, he can sing about how “this thrush ain’t going away”

by Anonymousreply 92June 13, 2021 1:07 AM

How much for a used pair of his magic underwear?

by Anonymousreply 93June 13, 2021 1:11 AM

His coming out post saddens me. It's clear that he's still stuck on people pleasing (and those people are ignorant fuckheads so he should stop wasting his time). It's so obvious that he's trying to neutralize the ghey by claiming to have little libido when he previously came out as a porn addict...

I hope Connor Jessup appears in his DMs. He really needs some gay, non-sexual friends.

by Anonymousreply 94June 13, 2021 1:14 AM

[quote]His coming out post saddens me. It's clear that he's still stuck on people pleasing

It doesn’t sadden me. A “people pleaser” is a perfect little submissive bitch.

by Anonymousreply 95June 13, 2021 1:16 AM

99.9% of people don't understand what the word Asexual means r66 even the people who claim to be asexual don't know most of the time. Most people think it means being celibate or having a low sex drive.

by Anonymousreply 96June 13, 2021 1:19 AM

I feel like his pron addiction announcement was fake. It was to test the waters to see what his fans would tolerate.

by Anonymousreply 97June 13, 2021 1:20 AM

I don't think so. It would not surprise me if he's a virgin and that porn has been his only outlet.

by Anonymousreply 98June 13, 2021 1:21 AM

He came out circa age 23, right? I mean, to his family.

by Anonymousreply 99June 13, 2021 1:22 AM

100!

by Anonymousreply 100June 13, 2021 1:28 AM

I wonder if David's cadre of Frau-stans will stick by him? I well remember the Claymate conflagration when Clay Aiken came out...

by Anonymousreply 101June 13, 2021 1:29 AM

what's his type?

by Anonymousreply 102June 13, 2021 1:30 AM

What kinds of gigs does he do? County fairs?

by Anonymousreply 103June 13, 2021 1:31 AM

He’s brave to come out. I have always thought he was a great singer.

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by Anonymousreply 104June 13, 2021 1:34 AM

hellen keller could see that she was family

congrats... I guess

wonder if she's still a republican

by Anonymousreply 105June 13, 2021 1:34 AM

We must remember that while it is not a sin to be gay, it is a sin to engage in homosexual acts. Good for David!

by Anonymousreply 106June 13, 2021 1:37 AM

He's pretty hard to dislike. And not just because of his runny nose and lil round ASS.

by Anonymousreply 107June 13, 2021 1:39 AM

" She," R70? Do you hate yourself that much?

by Anonymousreply 108June 13, 2021 1:41 AM

The Archie with whom we fell in love...

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by Anonymousreply 109June 13, 2021 1:42 AM

American Idol??? Honey we knew when he was on Star Search singing Alciia Keys.....gay gay gay.

by Anonymousreply 110June 13, 2021 1:42 AM

If he lets some queen touch his brows, I swear...

by Anonymousreply 111June 13, 2021 1:43 AM

His uncertainty about his own sexual orientation, including asexuality, could have been the direct result of conflict and repression within him created by the teachings of his church.

by Anonymousreply 112June 13, 2021 1:58 AM

^^^could be the direct result...

by Anonymousreply 113June 13, 2021 2:04 AM

I wonder if he's ever had a BF

by Anonymousreply 114June 13, 2021 2:15 AM

R26, that's really fucking disgusting. EW clearly doesn't review the comments left by their readers before posting them like some other sites do. If they haven't already, they need to remove that from their site.

by Anonymousreply 115June 13, 2021 2:16 AM

I was his boyfriend for two years. The gaps in his teeth were so cute and sweet before he had them veneered. David is a sweet guy. Not dumb, but very indoctrinated. His hole tastes like heaven and opens to paradise. Tears. His lips I miss the most.

Off the coast of Great Salt Lake in his ASS I fucked David Archuleta one whole summer.

by Anonymousreply 116June 13, 2021 2:22 AM

R116: are you sure it’s not off the coast of the ATLANTIC ocean?

by Anonymousreply 117June 13, 2021 2:24 AM

JFC, that troll has been around since the Colton threads.

by Anonymousreply 118June 13, 2021 2:30 AM

I fucked others off the coast of the Atlantic. Are you Colton Haynes?

by Anonymousreply 119June 13, 2021 2:31 AM

[Quote] Are you Colton Haynes?

by Anonymousreply 120June 13, 2021 2:32 AM

Has Mitt Romney commented?

by Anonymousreply 121June 13, 2021 2:37 AM

I should have never revealed that about Colton. His hole was cold INSIDE. How weird is that. I fucked Colton Haynes off the coast of the Atlantic one whole summer in his ASS!

David Archuleta was my boyfriend for two years. Not cold. Warm and gushy, sweet inside.

For a whole summer in his ASS I fucked David Archuleta off the coast of Great Salt Lake.

by Anonymousreply 122June 13, 2021 2:38 AM

[quote][R26], that's really fucking disgusting. EW clearly doesn't review the comments left by their readers before posting them like some other sites do. If they haven't already, they need to remove that from their site.

They don't need to remove it. People need to see that this is how most Republicans think. If you're voting Republican, you're voting to support attitudes like this.

by Anonymousreply 123June 13, 2021 2:48 AM

Maybe Benji Schwimmer from "So You Think You Can Dance" can give him a pep talk. He's probably too obscure to be known on here, but he's another Mormon who came out as gay some years back.

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by Anonymousreply 124June 13, 2021 3:10 AM

What's next--duets with L'il NAS X? Todrick Hall? Barbra?

by Anonymousreply 125June 13, 2021 3:17 AM

He used to have something of a low hairline/brow, but now he seems to have acquired a five-head.

by Anonymousreply 126June 13, 2021 3:18 AM

[Quote] What's next--duets with L'il NAS X? Todrick Hall? Barbra?

He'd be missing a trick if he didn't approach Gladys Knight.

by Anonymousreply 127June 13, 2021 3:30 AM

Gladys Knight is a superstar at 77. David Archuleta is sweet in bed - but his career is singing in shopping mall parking lots.

by Anonymousreply 128June 13, 2021 4:25 AM

Gladys' last Vegas jaunt was a bust. She's no better than she ought to be.

by Anonymousreply 129June 13, 2021 4:41 AM

You're an argumentative fool R129. Who knows nothing about singing but a lot about Racism and Meth.

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by Anonymousreply 130June 13, 2021 4:47 AM

The only thing I know about meth is to stay away from it. Same for gambling.

by Anonymousreply 131June 13, 2021 4:50 AM

I imagine you stay away from most things but pudding and Murder She Wrote reruns at your age R131.

We all love David Archuleta, but some of us keep his talents in perspective. He was my boyfriend for two years. I know what he can and cannot do.

Your stupid Gladys Knight digs should be ignored. I don't even get the dumb joke of it -that's how old YOU are.

by Anonymousreply 132June 13, 2021 4:59 AM

The Mormon Elders will have a talk with David. But he’s kinda untouchable like the Osmonds.

by Anonymousreply 133June 13, 2021 4:59 AM

If David doesn't bring in big money, I don't see how he's untouchable.

by Anonymousreply 134June 13, 2021 5:02 AM

[Quote] I don't even get the dumb joke of it

Speaking of dumb jokes...

[Quote] He was my boyfriend for two years.

by Anonymousreply 135June 13, 2021 5:03 AM

The Mormon church has enough trouble handling the LGBTQ community within their own members. They don’t need to be fucking around with David about it.

by Anonymousreply 136June 13, 2021 5:04 AM

Bless your heart.

by Anonymousreply 137June 13, 2021 5:05 AM

That hole is so pink, Angelyne has been trying to buy it for years.

by Anonymousreply 138June 13, 2021 5:46 AM

[quote] What kinds of gigs does he do? County fairs?

Yes, but unlike some people, he doesn't bankrupt them.

by Anonymousreply 139June 13, 2021 5:48 AM

Remember when David went to a gay bar with charice pempengco now known as Jake Zyrus?

by Anonymousreply 140June 13, 2021 5:52 AM

He came out as gay the same year he left America for his mormon missionary trip.

by Anonymousreply 141June 13, 2021 5:53 AM

He’s had one hit song which was 13 years ago, what did he have to lose at this point?

by Anonymousreply 142June 13, 2021 5:53 AM

Gladys Knight closed the Kennedy Center Honors last week with a beautiful version of We Shall Be Free. She plays the Royal Albert Hall and Highlights the Nobel Peace Prize concerts. She doesn't play county fairs. They're more for Gloria Estefan, Dionne Warwick, David Cook.

David is a very cool and sweet guy and yes he has played fairs and shopping centers. But there is no smell of failure or disillusionment about him. He's a lovely guy and he's always got on clean white socks and small tight underwear - even on the back roads.

by Anonymousreply 143June 13, 2021 5:57 AM

And I am telling you.....

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by Anonymousreply 144June 13, 2021 6:00 AM

^Oh Archie, that was unfortunate. He sings Nessun Dorma as an adult too. He's not terrible but it's a mistake. Lil David A is a bit of a drama queen in his personal music tastes. But he has such other great qualities. To his voice. I'm fully behind him.

by Anonymousreply 145June 13, 2021 6:06 AM

How did we start discussing Gladys Knight's career in a thread about Archie finally coming out?

by Anonymousreply 146June 13, 2021 6:07 AM

Check David’s numbers on Spotify — almost 60M streams in 2020. I’d say he’s doing fine and has a solid career.

And watch some of his videos on IG and an IG Live. You’ll find a good, sweet guy with a lot of heart and who’s actually very sexy. The voice is still great, and I root for guys like this.

by Anonymousreply 147June 13, 2021 6:08 AM

He said he came out as gay to his own family in 2014.

So in April 2015, about 2 months before the Supreme Court was to rule on Gay Marriage, he tweeted this 2-part quote:

[quote]"Romantic love is incomplete. It is a prelude. Love is nourished by the coming of children, who spring from the fountain of love ... expressed between a man and a woman in marriage. #PresPacker."

The Advocate wrote "The Internet quickly erupted with some interpreting Archuleta's tweets as a statement against marriage equality. Others wondered if Archuleta was tweeting to show support for Indiana's discriminatory Religious Freedom Restoration Act."

Gay-to-his-family David apologized in this way-

[quote] I do hope however, that whoever may have been offended may know I respect everyone’s freedom to believe and live as they choose. I hope others can respect what I value most in my life as well. Again, I’m sorry and please forgive me if I offended you."

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by Anonymousreply 148June 13, 2021 6:09 AM

So in the music video his crush was actually the guy.

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by Anonymousreply 149June 13, 2021 6:13 AM

I forgive you Archie. Come on home.

by Anonymousreply 150June 13, 2021 6:16 AM

I think the point at r148 is that when he came out to his family as gay in 2014, it must have been like someone coming out as an alcoholic and seeking pity and help. At least at that time,7 years ago.

by Anonymousreply 151June 13, 2021 6:16 AM

Great, now just give up the Mormon church

by Anonymousreply 152June 13, 2021 6:18 AM

Datalounge was spot on with him, now it’s time for Taylor lautner.

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by Anonymousreply 153June 13, 2021 6:22 AM

He's so sweet and the voice is good. I like that he's a twunk, not a twink. The dudes got narrow hips and thick thighs and all that booty sitting up high in back. The way a man's supposed to be. He makes me restless. I'd like to coach him in some more dynamic stage presentations.

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by Anonymousreply 154June 13, 2021 6:26 AM

This sounds like a cry for help. He's in that religious cult and surrounded by greedy relatives and handlers. I bet none of them wanted him to come (almost) out of the closet.

They're castrating him. David exudes almost no adult male masculine energy. He's like a virginal 13-yr. old. He's not saving himself for marriage; he paralyzed by fear and self-loathing.

He needs to take a break from showbiz, church and family. Go off and live by himself for a while. Growxa beard. Grow up.

by Anonymousreply 155June 13, 2021 6:29 AM

David is a rare breed because the elder gays always had a sweet spot for him and wanted to protect/take care of him since the AI days unlike all the other famous/closet gays that they hate.

by Anonymousreply 156June 13, 2021 6:36 AM

Yeah, I think he still wishes he knew how it would feel to be free.

by Anonymousreply 157June 13, 2021 6:37 AM

[Quote] The voice is still great

It's amazing that his singing voice is still there at age 30. He's a regular Barbara Cook!

by Anonymousreply 158June 13, 2021 6:38 AM

[quote]Datalounge was spot on with him, now it’s time for Taylor lautner.

Taylor Lautner "liked" an Instagram post by Colton Underwood, a video in which Colton was getting advice on Tinder swipes from his grandmother. "Ha, this is great!" Taylor wrote.

by Anonymousreply 159June 13, 2021 6:39 AM

It's time for Zac Efron before it's time for Taylor Lautner.

by Anonymousreply 160June 13, 2021 6:40 AM

This is OLD news to anyone who's ever stepped into a DL Archuleta thread, and there have been many. At this point, it would be odd if Archuleta announced he was straight.

by Anonymousreply 161June 13, 2021 6:41 AM

He should get in touch with Tyler Glenn of neon trees who came out sometime back and was a Mormon. Initially he wanted to stay in the church but ultimately left it because of their continued anti gay policies.

by Anonymousreply 162June 13, 2021 6:42 AM

But it's not old news. It's todays news. David Archuleta is on the cover of People magazine. This is his announcement to make. Not some elder gay with Stevie Nicks in his handle.

by Anonymousreply 163June 13, 2021 6:43 AM

[quote] He came out as gay the same year he left America for his mormon missionary trip.

One might hope that he used the opportunity to sample some Chilean cock, but nope -- screams 100% virgin. [italic]Maybe[/italic] he jerked it with a guy once, and then had a good two-hour cry about it afterwards.

by Anonymousreply 164June 13, 2021 6:43 AM

R159, he really needs to come out..

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by Anonymousreply 165June 13, 2021 6:44 AM

So... he came out as asexual? He said he came out as gay a decade ago, then had relationships with both genders (aka bi) now he says he's not interested in sex with anyone. I feel bad for him. It's obvious that his religion messed him up. He probably tried it with women so that he wouldn't be going to hell (according to his religion) since being gay is a sin (again, according to his religion). When that didn't work he decided to be asexual. Poor guy. Talk about being messed up.

by Anonymousreply 166June 13, 2021 6:44 AM

Will we ever find out exactly what porn fueled David's addiction?

by Anonymousreply 167June 13, 2021 6:45 AM

[Quote] then had relationships with both genders (aka bi)

I must have missed where he said that he had relationships.

by Anonymousreply 168June 13, 2021 6:45 AM

[quote]So... he came out as asexual? He said he came out as gay a decade ago, then had relationships with both genders (aka bi) now he says he's not interested in sex with anyone.

He said nothing about having had relationships with anyone. He said he was attracted to both genders. On the contrary, he said he was saving himself for marriage.

by Anonymousreply 169June 13, 2021 6:47 AM

Here he is in 2014 the year he came out as gay to his family. I wonder who that other guy is?

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by Anonymousreply 170June 13, 2021 6:53 AM

I remember that r65. Archuleta’s dad was terrifying. The Davids season was, for me, the last really good season of AI. It was the season Paula was at her most fucked up.

by Anonymousreply 171June 13, 2021 6:53 AM

Did Paula try to fuck David?

by Anonymousreply 172June 13, 2021 6:55 AM

David is gay, I spent two years in love with him. The backstreets we travelled together. His father was there much of the time, but David and I bunked together. It was sadly romantic. He's got a wicked little sense of humor mixed with a perpetually sweet side. This tweet is pure David.

He's got a dirty hungry bad boy side too.........and it ain't for girls.

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by Anonymousreply 173June 13, 2021 6:56 AM

Gladys, shut the fuck up about your time spent inside David!

by Anonymousreply 174June 13, 2021 7:02 AM

He didn't come out as gay. He didn't come out as anything. Reading between the lines he first came out as gay to his family, then backtracked to bisexual and now claims he's asexual. I guess that means he's asexual and/or bisexual, not gay.

by Anonymousreply 175June 13, 2021 7:11 AM

If lautner did come out, Would he blame being out for a lack of good roles. I mean in his case he really isn’t a talented actor and nothing he’s done since twilight ended has been good.

by Anonymousreply 176June 13, 2021 7:12 AM

[Quote] He didn't come out as anything.

Lies-a Minnelli!

by Anonymousreply 177June 13, 2021 7:16 AM

If anything, he's more in now than he was a few years ago when he did his no-cameras-or-recording-devices, vetted-guests-only talk at North Star.

by Anonymousreply 178June 13, 2021 7:18 AM

[Quote] nothing he’s done since twilight ended has been good.

Wasn't there a britcom that ran?

by Anonymousreply 179June 13, 2021 7:22 AM

He’s a virgin but FOR SURE has done oral with a guy.

He’s gay but still can’t accept it. He has liked girls but never sexually. I guarantee he’s liked guys sexually.

by Anonymousreply 180June 13, 2021 7:43 AM

r155 is spot on.

by Anonymousreply 181June 13, 2021 7:53 AM

A lot of religious people like David believe that being gay is some sort of affliction, as a matter of fact most straight people feel this way even if they aren't religious at all. His church may accept him if he promises to stay celibate. They have convinced him that being gay(and I"m sure he is gay not bi, not asexual) automatically means he was called by God to be celibate or that he just hasn't worked hard enough to get those nasty gay feelings out of his life. It's very cruel when you think about it.

One day he will come to the realization that he deserves to live his life just like his heterosexual friends and relatives do and that God has in interest nor intention of making gay people straight.

by Anonymousreply 182June 13, 2021 9:55 AM

I've followed--and started--several of the numerous Archie threads here. Sure, DL-ers pine over his, "silky-haired, tight virgin hole." But I think it's more that he comes off as sweet and innocent that's the actual attraction.

I wish him well, and I even left exactly that in a comment on his IG post. (David Cook commented as well; I'm sure he's known for years.) All jokes aside, I hope Archie finds happiness. And that he doesn't jump out a window like my gay son.

by Anonymousreply 183June 13, 2021 10:23 AM

He will not get compassion from that demented cult. What they do is tell them it's no problem, get into a mixed-orientation marriage and have babies and pray. That way, he stays relevant in the church, maintains his support group, is seen as some hero to them and "proof" their BS is real and the wife gets a gay husband (which many women actually do enjoy in some ways) and is seen as a true "martyr". That is the insanity of this "religion".

by Anonymousreply 184June 13, 2021 10:31 AM

He's not getting his own planet in the afterlife right?

by Anonymousreply 185June 13, 2021 12:13 PM

I have a ticket for David’s 2020 tour that is scheduled for next year. At a previous performance, during a VIP ticket meet and greet, I touched him and grazed his butt.

by Anonymousreply 186June 13, 2021 12:56 PM

R97 That would be very weird, he said that he had a porn addiction and he had to deal with fetishes.

That doesn't seem testing the waters, that seem like someone who is repressing his feelings and his sexuality cause him remorses. He comes from a very religious family which is surely makes him difficult to accept whatever he really feels.

If being attracted to men was not enough if he has unconventional (for a repressed religious guy) fantasies that could be overwhelming.

But the fact that he is talking about this is a good sign and maybe some day he will not feel guilty for what he feels

by Anonymousreply 187June 13, 2021 1:19 PM

He only gets his own planet if he marries a woman and has kids.

by Anonymousreply 188June 13, 2021 1:22 PM

He’s so psychologically damaged, I fear sex with him would be horrific. He would have some kind of breakdown.

by Anonymousreply 189June 13, 2021 1:25 PM

R175 Well, that's what Lucas Hedges did too, coming out as nothing and he get a lot of praise of the gay media in the process.

At least David didn't came out to personal gain (not being criticise for playing so many gay roles) and didn't go out with his "girlfriend" just after the "coming out".

It's obvious that Archuleta's enviroment is not the best to accept anything that it's not being straight and marriage oriented

by Anonymousreply 190June 13, 2021 1:26 PM

[QUOTE] I have a ticket for David’s 2020 tour that is scheduled for next year. At a previous performance, during a VIP ticket meet and greet, I touched him and grazed his butt.

You paid for a VIP ticket and only grazed his butt? I would’ve grabbed a handful of that sweet Mormon ass while looking right in his eyes, daring him to do something. You pay that much for a ticket, you should get to grab some ass.

by Anonymousreply 191June 13, 2021 1:26 PM

[QUOTE] He’s so psychologically damaged, I fear sex with him would be horrific. He would have some kind of breakdown.

As a top who loves doing most of the work, that’s fine by me. He can lay there on his stomach and cry all he wants until I get my nut inside him.

by Anonymousreply 192June 13, 2021 1:27 PM

David Archuleta crying when his faghag is kicked off American Idol. Watch how his hot daddy next to him is comforting him.

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by Anonymousreply 193June 13, 2021 1:35 PM

Mormons struggling with their sexuality are an even bigger mess than Christians struggling with their sexuality. Who has the time and energy for that drama?

I'm sure there is an online support group for Mormons who struggle with sexual identity issues. Maybe even local, in person, support groups.

by Anonymousreply 194June 13, 2021 1:36 PM

I had a one-minute Meet and Greet with Archie back when he had a Pop single ("Crush").

I said to him, "Be true to yourself," to which he replied, "Always."

I guess "Always" is now.

by Anonymousreply 195June 13, 2021 1:37 PM

Cookie had/has an okay voice, but nothing like the range and purity of Archie's.

But "Idol" knew. Ry-Ry knew. And now we absolutely know.

And that's why David A., like Clay before him and Adam after him, had to finish second.

by Anonymousreply 196June 13, 2021 1:47 PM

Isn't this just the 21st century version of coming out as a gay man?

These young celebs talk about being "confused" and "making choices", etc., as a "tip-toe" to test the waters of their fan base/the public.

Only to avoid what they've probably known since puberty, that they're 100% gay.

Well, as far as the porn addiction thing, I'm guessing his favorite site is MormonBoyz.com.

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by Anonymousreply 197June 13, 2021 1:51 PM

He is a virgin with a very very very tight ass a gay top’s dream.

by Anonymousreply 198June 13, 2021 1:54 PM

I wouldn’t call him a dishonest person. It’s not like he’s some Republican politician who hops on dicks like a Merry Go Round and then goes home to his wife. If he’s a virginal hermit then he has no experience to determine his actual sexuality.

I know you Judy Garland girls who were walking around in high heels at 6 may have always known you were gay, but some guys have to go out there and get some ass and dick before they can say so definitively. I started fucking girls in high school and, coming from a small town, had one openly gay boy who sunk his teeth into me and helped make me realize who I was. It’s unfortunate that Archie couldn’t have the same thing. They probably homeschooled him and kept him locked up in the house.

by Anonymousreply 199June 13, 2021 1:55 PM

R196 Cook won because he was one of the first to do real versions on the show. He had a great voice and some of his covers were really good.

Archie always was too angelic for pop music, but at least he had a big hit with Crush

by Anonymousreply 200June 13, 2021 1:59 PM

Who is going to be the lucky fella who will finally put the dick inside this 30 year old virgin.. imagine his reaction..wow!!

by Anonymousreply 201June 13, 2021 2:10 PM

[quote] he first came out as gay to his family, then backtracked to bisexual and now claims he's asexual.

It's working. He's getting better!

by Anonymousreply 202June 13, 2021 2:18 PM

[QUOTE] Who is going to be the lucky fella who will finally put the dick inside this 30 year old virgin.. imagine his reaction..wow!!

Who are some of the guys that are close to him? Maybe at his record label, or other artists he frequently works with? It would have to be someone in his orbit who has regular access to him.

by Anonymousreply 203June 13, 2021 2:24 PM

Someone on one of the other, numerous Archie threads said David spoke and sang at a Mormon conference that's specifically geared towards Mormons struggled with their sexuality. I forget the name of the conference...but this was last year or 2019, and that was apparently pretty much confirmation that he likes the dick.

by Anonymousreply 204June 13, 2021 2:27 PM

Here he is with the very gay Matt Bloyd.

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by Anonymousreply 205June 13, 2021 2:31 PM

He just needs a guy who will court him the traditional way, which is a rarity in the gay community of whores who just want to suck fuck and be gone. Some guys do need to feel a romantical connection before they become sexually freaky with you. If he wanted 100 dicks he could've had that already for sure. He has likely been searching for a real meaningful connection with a guy for so long that he's probably just ready to resign and declare himself asexual. That happens to women more often, sex is not enjoyable unless they feel romance.

by Anonymousreply 206June 13, 2021 2:38 PM

He definitely has daddy issues so he needs an older type of guy.

by Anonymousreply 207June 13, 2021 2:49 PM

Oof R193, that high-five/hug mixup at the end was difficult to watch.

by Anonymousreply 208June 13, 2021 2:54 PM

R203, Either one of the Osmond or Romney sons/grandsons would be appropriate.

by Anonymousreply 209June 13, 2021 2:56 PM

Bangs are your friend, David.

by Anonymousreply 210June 13, 2021 3:03 PM

He was so uncomfortable with Lady Gaga.

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by Anonymousreply 211June 13, 2021 3:12 PM

I am SHOCKED, I tell you. SHOCKED!!!!

by Anonymousreply 212June 13, 2021 3:18 PM

I'm probably the only Mormon who doesn't want him dead.

by Anonymousreply 213June 13, 2021 3:32 PM

Chasten and Pete need to invite him into a polyamory relationship. That's hole AND pole.

by Anonymousreply 214June 13, 2021 3:35 PM

Aww Davie, whatever that hateful thing inside you is, don’t let it keep you in a corner.

by Anonymousreply 215June 13, 2021 3:36 PM

That was me, r204. I posted it again at r178.

There’s no secretly recorded video online, unfortunately. No one even dared to write a recap, which makes perfect sense considering everyone there has been brought up to hoard secrets, “float above the ugly,” and not just smile but smile from the heart.

In any case, the party line never changes — temped into doing something really BAD by porn, the devil’s most insidious corrupter. Suffering from same-sex attraction is fine as long as it’s never acted on. Marrying a woman and having children will turn the boat around 9 times out of 10. Think of how sad your mom will be when she’s in the celestial kingdom and she can never see her baby boy again because he’s stuck in the telestial kingdom. Blah, blah, blah...

by Anonymousreply 216June 13, 2021 3:50 PM

[quote] he first came out as gay to his family, then backtracked to bisexual and now claims he's asexual.

Good boy! You keep this up and maybe in the afterlife you won't get an entire planet, but maybe a really, really small Moon.

by Anonymousreply 217June 13, 2021 3:57 PM

Wait, he just came out as asexual????

by Anonymousreply 218June 13, 2021 4:00 PM

[quote]Wait, he just came out as asexual????

No, he just came out as terribly confused and conflicted because of his religion.

by Anonymousreply 219June 13, 2021 4:03 PM

Does his hole hurt?

by Anonymousreply 220June 13, 2021 4:11 PM

If I talk about my sexuality, will you buy my music?

by Anonymousreply 221June 13, 2021 4:14 PM

I was going to see him live at the Troubador -- and then covid hit. Funny to think of angelic Archie just blocks away from that den of vice and sin known as the West Hollywood boystown bars. Talk about a lamb in the wolves' lair.

by Anonymousreply 222June 13, 2021 4:17 PM

Dimwit. Mormons are a perfect example of people only believe in it because they think other people do, and yet nobody really does.

by Anonymousreply 223June 13, 2021 4:22 PM

[quote]Who is going to be the lucky fella who will finally put the dick inside this 30 year old virgin.. imagine his reaction..wow!!

Mission Accomplished. The summer of 2014. Off the coast of Great Salt Lake I fucked David Archuleta one whole summer in his ASS.

by Anonymousreply 224June 13, 2021 5:07 PM

He is obviously gay, if he was really bi nothing stops him from finding a good girl and marry. If he was really bi he would be married now.

He is gay and probably has a lot of fantasies (when he mentioned fetishes is obvious he has more than one) that makes even more difficult to accept his sexuality.

by Anonymousreply 225June 13, 2021 5:23 PM

[quote]Bangs are your friend, David.

So are gang-bangs.

by Anonymousreply 226June 13, 2021 5:32 PM

R211 Gaga seemed so sweet and unpretentious in that video clip. Much different than today.

by Anonymousreply 227June 13, 2021 6:11 PM

Has Doktor Jāk€ pôüf commented yet?

Oh wait, he's too narcissistic and self-involved to care.

by Anonymousreply 228June 13, 2021 6:57 PM

He’s been down a long and winding road.

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by Anonymousreply 229June 13, 2021 7:22 PM

Any comment from his porn cousin, Adam Archuleta?

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by Anonymousreply 230June 13, 2021 8:06 PM

That title kinky angels seems perfect for Archie

by Anonymousreply 231June 13, 2021 8:19 PM

So he came out as gay, then bi and finally asexual. Isn't it usually the other way around? Is asexuality a real thing? Most asexuals seem like gay men afraid of their sexuality

by Anonymousreply 232June 13, 2021 9:08 PM

Not to throw shade on him but since he is still a TBM (True Believing Mormon), this isn't a "coming out" story, this is a Northstar approved (Mormon ex-gay group) "I have same sex attraction" (as if it were disease) but still believe in all the crazy bullshit in the Book of Mormon so I will never have any physical or romantic relationship with a man and will try my best to find some poor girl to marry off and fuck once a year to make babies and give as much money to the church as possible.

Oh and if could muster even a bit of sexual attraction to a woman, he would have been married off to a church approved bride by now. The reason you never hear about bisexual men in these homophobic religions is that they pass much more easily as heterosexual so they don't stand out as much.

I wish the secular press were better at covering these stories because the focus should be on the religious homophobia, which he is subject to and believes in, and not some feel good coming out story (which it isn't). I feel sorry for the guy but plenty of gay mormons escape that cult and the ones who remain are usually the most self-loathing assholes ever. He just sounds sad.

Oh and props to the ex-mos above -the John Dehlin reference was a dead give away.

by Anonymousreply 233June 13, 2021 9:36 PM

I disagree R233. David is finding his way. He's been a very troubled guy for far too long. He's taken a very public step here - perhaps guided by the church. But it's not his only step and it needn't be the last.

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by Anonymousreply 234June 13, 2021 9:46 PM

I feel kind of bad for the guy. It must suck growing up in such an oppressive environment and be in the public eye when you're trying to sort out your sexuality. He seems like a decent, talented human being. I wish him well.

by Anonymousreply 235June 13, 2021 9:51 PM

I wonder if he's more celibate than asexual.

by Anonymousreply 236June 13, 2021 9:52 PM

[quote] I wonder if he's more celibate than asexual.

I feel like people say they're asexual when they want to hide their true sexual feelings. I have no doubt he's rubbing several out each day. He's admitted to a porn addiction. That doesn't sound very asexual.

by Anonymousreply 237June 13, 2021 9:55 PM

This could be a hit for him. A cover of the Foreigner song.

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by Anonymousreply 238June 13, 2021 9:58 PM

He'll be doing commercials extolling the benefits of conversion therapy.

by Anonymousreply 239June 13, 2021 9:59 PM

Remember when people came out as "gay"? Now they come out as "members of the LGBTQIA+ community".

"LGBTQIA+ community" basically means EVERYONE now, so I'm not sure what there is to "come out" from. Queer means straight, I is actually male or female, there is no third sex, and asexual could mean straight or gay, so who the fuck knows.

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by Anonymousreply 240June 13, 2021 10:08 PM

"I have same sex attraction" (as if it were disease)

And even that is a recent concession. It was always "suffered from" until someone decided that using "have" would offer some plausible deniability.

[quote]But it's not his only step and it needn't be the last.

That's true, but the next step could also be pouring his heart out to Heavenly Father and being blessed with a wife and children. I've posted this guy before -- he's married to a woman and has four (or is it five?) kids, and is considered to be a success story of an inherently straight man who suffered from a wee bit of attraction to men and overcame it all.

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by Anonymousreply 241June 13, 2021 10:11 PM

Naming your child Brad is just asking for a gay son.

by Anonymousreply 242June 13, 2021 10:19 PM

And he’s got terminal gay face.

by Anonymousreply 243June 13, 2021 10:21 PM

Still a total cutie pie if you ask me!

by Anonymousreply 244June 13, 2021 10:22 PM

[quote]I wonder if he's more celibate than asexual.

That's what I think. Like I said before at r206, I think his real struggle is dating and not really his sexuality. I just get the feeling he had a hard time dealing with other men in the community and I can totally understand. There are some nightmares out there and he is probably just tired of it. I think saying he might be asexual is the only way he can qualify himself to other people without going into other details.

by Anonymousreply 245June 13, 2021 10:34 PM

When he finds love again, he'll fully come out. But he's not into being used up by lying whores or drooling daddies.

by Anonymousreply 246June 13, 2021 10:36 PM

David, call me.

by Anonymousreply 247June 13, 2021 10:36 PM

Here's part 1 of Brad stating his boundaries in his first blog post. So fucking depressing:

Be Careful How You Judge

Frequently I am approached by someone, or someone asks one of my children if I am Gay. I makes me laugh how quickly we are to judge by what we hear or what we see. I have been posting on a blog for the past year, It's called the Jonathan and David Experience, it is a blog designed to help men who struggle with SGA, Same Gender Attraction. I started the blog out of a need to help men who are struggling and need support, guidance, love, and direction. It has been a great blessing and yet at the same time really hard. The hard part is dealing with narrow minded people who assume that just because one involves himself in a worthwhile cause he must have problems of his own. I decided to write a blog to educate everyone just were I stand. So judge for yourself and please in the future when you make judgements on people, get the whole story and keep in mind that judgements made without knowing all the details can hurt and cause harm to many, those you judge and who knows how many countless others you will affect by your judgements.

I have never considered myself a gay man. However, after all is said and done, most people think I am. It does make me laugh, Let me explain. The first 18 years of my life were pure hell. I was raised in a small town in northern Arizona. As a child I was different from the other children. I loved playing with dolls, dressing up in my mom’s clothes, writing poems, and planting flowers. The hard part was that I was raised in a home filled with what I call “macho idiots”. These were men who did not understand that a boy could behave in a way other than how they thought a boy or man should behave. In their minds, real men did certain things; real men did not do the things I did. It was a difficult situation to say the least. I really did try to do ‘boy things’. I tried sports just to make the men in my life happy. That is what they wanted after all, and so I really tried to please, only to fail and then feel worse.

Home life was hard, but school was even harder. I was a sissy at home. At school I was called a faggot. To this day I hate both of these words. I had absolutely no friends to speak of and was beaten up frequently at school, spit on, bullied, and verbally abused by everyone at school and at home.

My parents divorced when I was twelve and that only added to the confusion and abuse. Her husbands were abusive and difficult and resented me and my feminine ways. I was extremely effeminate and as I look back I understand completely why I was judged to be gay.

My father, a good man, had absolutely no understanding of me and my girlish ways. He tried, but had no clue how to raise an effeminate boy. He told me once in a fit of anger that I was a girl in a boy’s body. Those words cut clear to the bone and are not easily set aside or easy to forget. I craved his love and attention. My brothers got all they needed from him. They understood each other. After all they were real boys and I was something he just could not understand. At one point I thought I hated my dad, but realized it was not hate but a desire to have him love me and acknowledge who I was.

I really cannot remember very many pleasant times prior to age eighteen. At an early age I started working in the cafe business, I was constantly surrounded by women which contributed to my feminine ways and was constantly propositioned by men patrons to do things. I was sexually abused as a teenager by a man who took advantage of my vulnerable state and the need to be loved.

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by Anonymousreply 248June 13, 2021 10:37 PM

The recommended treatment for SGA is a hot beef injection. Repeat as needed.

by Anonymousreply 249June 13, 2021 10:40 PM

Part 2:

Growing up my family was not active in church. I tried and had the deep desire to do so, but each time I tried I felt out of place and was often rejected by judgmental church members who did not understand what I was going through. We moved around a lot and I would try to go to seminary and church and do what I felt was right, but I cannot ever remember feeling accepted or wanted in any church setting.

When I was eighteen, I had an experience one evening that set my course for life. I was involved in some things that I should not have been doing. Nothing too serious, but wrong nonetheless. At one point I was handed a mirror and as I looked in the mirror I saw the reflection of what I thought was Satan. He was laughing at me and as he laughed at me I heard him say, ”I have you now, just where I want you”. It scared the crap out of me. I left the party and called my Bishop and met with him. Since then I have learned that when the Devil thinks he has won, God always steps in. The trick is to follow him when he steps in. I did.

I changed my life and started going to church. It was hard. I was still the same effeminate person I always had been. Because of the small town in which I lived , the people had their opinions of me. But I stayed the course. It was the hardest year of my life as I gave up bad habits for new ones.

At one point in that year I came to a conclusion: Everyone thought I was gay and I had to make a decision about who I was. I didn't know if I loved men or not at that age. I had never really had many male friends, or crossed the line with inappropriate behavior, but whatever the course I made a life changing decision during that year. I told myself that I was not gay and no matter what I felt or what others told me, first and foremost I would follow the Savior and do whatever he asked of me. I decided that I would keep the commandment at whatever cost, not matter how I felt or what I wanted.

Thirty seven years later after many years of battling same gender attraction (SGA), for me it was more a deep love for men rather than a sexual attraction or need, and coming to understand who I am, I have discovered that the choice I made so many years ago kept me on the path that God wants me on. There have been major challenges and obstacles to overcome and understand. I have recently come to understand that since I made the choice to follow Him no matter what, he has blessed me with an amazing understanding of who I am and why I struggled with those deep loving feelings for men for so long. Through obedience to Him and my complete desire to follow Him, He has opened the doors of personal revelation and I understand my feminine qualities and attraction to other men are indeed gifts from God; If used in His way this can and indeed will bless my life and the lives of so many others in ways that I am just starting to understand.

by Anonymousreply 250June 13, 2021 10:41 PM

David, you in danger, gurrrl. Part 3:

So yes, according to the world’s standard, I might be considered GAY. But in my eyes I am a man that has a deep Christ like love for men and in God’s eyes I am a son of God with specific talents and abilities, that if used for good can become and have become my greatest blessings and gifts from a loving Heavenly Father. I am proud to be a man that loves other men in a healthy Christlike way, and I am proud to be a man who chooses to follow the Savior no matter what. Life is hard, but as we take the challenges we have been given and trust in the Lord, all things will come to light and we will come to understand our divine missions and stewardships here on earth.

I have come to understand that one of my missions is to teach other men what I have learned and help them understand that indeed we can have deep loving healthy relationships with other men. In fact I have learned that as we move forward and learn to love other men in a healthy non sexual way our lives are enriched and blessed in ways that exceed our understanding.

I am grateful for the challenges I have had and I am most grateful for the knowledge that when we follow the Savior we receive all we need to battle what life gives us. I am happy to have so many loving men friends in my life that bless me in so many ways and I look forward to many more as I have come to understand that one of God's greatest gifts He gives us is a heart with an unlimited ability and capacity to love as deeply and as many as we want. The only restrictions he places on loving others is to keep it within the bonds He has set.

Greatest Joy and Success to you in your own personal journey and please be careful how you judge, you never know what is on another's heart.

by Anonymousreply 251June 13, 2021 10:42 PM

God Bless Brad. He reminds me of a young Richard Simmons. They both overcame their attraction to men. Anusthing is possible.

by Anonymousreply 252June 13, 2021 10:46 PM

[quote] Anusthing is possible....

...with enough lube and patience!

by Anonymousreply 253June 13, 2021 10:57 PM

I think there's a bit of a misunderstanding of what asexual can mean. I came out as gay, enjoy porn but uh... the actual physical contact with another person just is an immediate turn off. I'd make excuses to not have sex but finally realized that I just don't want to. I've never been subjected to religion and have never wished I was any other way. Nowadays, people assume that I'm gay and I don't feel like 'coming out' as asexual since it's only an issue if someone is hitting on me, which I can just politely decline.

by Anonymousreply 254June 13, 2021 11:48 PM

Fetishes? I'd deck him out in a chest harness and a cock ring. I'd have fun putting them on him. I might have to yank on the furry bush he no doubt has to get the ring on, but I'll tell him the pain is foreplay. He'll think his cock head is going to explode when the ring prevents blood from exiting his erection and he's about to cum.

David, where are you?

by Anonymousreply 255June 13, 2021 11:50 PM

^creep-fucking-y!

by Anonymousreply 256June 13, 2021 11:51 PM

[quote] I think there's a bit of a misunderstanding of what asexual can mean. I came out as gay, enjoy porn but uh... the actual physical contact with another person just is an immediate turn off. I'd make excuses to not have sex but finally realized that I just don't want to. I've never been subjected to religion and have never wished I was any other way. Nowadays, people assume that I'm gay and I don't feel like 'coming out' as asexual since it's only an issue if someone is hitting on me, which I can just politely decline.

According to WebMD, asexual is the lack of sexual attraction to others and a low interest in sexual activity. If you're rubbing one out every day and watching porn, you are obviously attracted to others even if the idea of actually going through with it isn't something you're interested in. What you're describing sounds more like agoraphobic than asexual.

by Anonymousreply 257June 13, 2021 11:53 PM

Call me when reveals hole.

by Anonymousreply 258June 13, 2021 11:54 PM

[quote] sounds more like agoraphobic than asexual.

I’m awhoreaphobic.

by Anonymousreply 259June 13, 2021 11:58 PM

David: "I've tried for almost 20 years to try and change...."

Well, at least you didn't waste the best part of your life. Oh, wait....

Just don't fuck up the time you have left, David, with endless "I don't know what I am" and "I don't know what or whom to do."

by Anonymousreply 260June 14, 2021 12:04 AM

You can still masturbate anf be asexual. Masturbation is kind of a biological neccisity. You can get sick from the biildup of all that semen.

by Anonymousreply 261June 14, 2021 12:20 AM

[quote] I should have never revealed that about Colton.

Don't worry; no one believed you, weirdo.

by Anonymousreply 262June 14, 2021 12:21 AM

I can’t believe the idol showdown of the “two David’s” was 13 years ago. Feels like just yesterday

by Anonymousreply 263June 14, 2021 12:28 AM

[Quote] I just get the feeling he had a hard time dealing with other men in the community and I can totally understand. There are some nightmares out there and he is probably just tired of it.

I think you're projecting. I very much doubt that David has even been on a coffee date with a man.

I think it says a lot that David claims that he came out in 2014 but he went on that Mormon year away in 2015. As suggested above, David didn't come out as gay, he came out with "an affliction."

Remember when his Dad was busted in a massage parlor? I bet the church didn't give him 100th of the hell that's been given to David.

by Anonymousreply 264June 14, 2021 12:39 AM

Glad he's out, sorry he's still in the thrall of the ridiculousness known as organized religion.

by Anonymousreply 265June 14, 2021 12:43 AM

Hey David,

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by Anonymousreply 266June 14, 2021 12:48 AM

Sexuality is who you are attracted to, that's it. You can be celibate and still be homosexual. David probably isn't experienced or confident enough to tell a potential partner what he likes and doesn't like. That type of anxiety can get in the way of arousal. With porn there is no expectation so it's much easier.

by Anonymousreply 267June 14, 2021 1:04 AM

For me, it's less about whether or not David doesn't have an interest in sexual intercourse than it is about his choice to foreground that in his coming out statement.

Connor Jessup's marking of two years since coming out had an interesting point where a friend of his said "now you can come out" AFTER Jessup had already done so. The friend meant that blasting open the closet door is only one aspect. There is unfurling still to be done.

Sadly, I think David is still under the thumb of misguided (and that's being generous) people.

by Anonymousreply 268June 14, 2021 1:11 AM

[quote] where a friend of his said "now you can come out" AFTER Jessup had already done so. The friend meant that blasting open the closet door is only one aspect. There is unfurling still to be done.

RME. What a load of shit!

by Anonymousreply 269June 14, 2021 1:18 AM

Was he on the "Who will come out in 2021" list?

by Anonymousreply 270June 14, 2021 1:23 AM

[Quote] RME. What a load of shit!

Shallow.

by Anonymousreply 271June 14, 2021 1:24 AM

David was reply 63 in the "Who WON'T Come Out in 2020?" thread.

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by Anonymousreply 272June 14, 2021 1:26 AM

Has he ever been fingered?

by Anonymousreply 273June 14, 2021 6:32 AM

He'd kill a gay for his religion.

by Anonymousreply 274June 14, 2021 6:34 AM

Awww. Bless his little Mormon foreskin.

by Anonymousreply 275June 14, 2021 6:40 AM

Struggle schmuggle . . . a good amount of lube and he'll be fine.

by Anonymousreply 276June 14, 2021 7:13 AM

Is this Joey person also a religious?

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by Anonymousreply 277June 14, 2021 7:13 AM

There's something eerily calm and measured about his speaking voice. I wonder what he'd sound like after a couple of cocktails.

by Anonymousreply 278June 14, 2021 7:14 AM

[quote] I think there's a bit of a misunderstanding of what asexual can mean. I came out as gay, enjoy porn but uh... Nowadays, people assume that I'm gay and I don't feel like 'coming out' as asexual

Uh, you can’t be asexual if you enjoy porn. To asexuals, porn is like viewing a Bugs Bunny cartoon. They get zero arousal from it. You can’t be gay either since asexuals would have no attractions to either sex so being gay would be a foreign concept.

by Anonymousreply 279June 14, 2021 7:21 AM

The poster means that they don't want to do it but enjoy watching it. What's not clicking?

by Anonymousreply 280June 14, 2021 7:25 AM

Then they’re not asexual. What’s not clicking with you? You can’t just redefine words. He’s basically a gay who likes to watch gay porn but doesn’t feel like the muss and fuss of sex. Nothing wrong with that but it’s not what asexual is. It’s like people who don’t eat gluten but don’t have celiac disease. Nothing wrong with that but you can’t just say you have celiac disease.

by Anonymousreply 281June 14, 2021 7:34 AM

One definition:

[Quote] adjective: asexual

[Quote] 1. not involving sexual activity, feelings, or associations; non-sexual. "he led an asexual life"

by Anonymousreply 282June 14, 2021 7:41 AM

Yes, and that definition would mean no porn and no gay feelings.

by Anonymousreply 283June 14, 2021 7:46 AM

He needs me to suck that hot cock one time!

by Anonymousreply 284June 14, 2021 7:57 AM

[Quote] Yes, and that definition would mean no porn and no gay feelings.

Not if someone thinks of sexual activity as involving two or more people...

by Anonymousreply 285June 14, 2021 8:03 AM

Why are you taking what he says so seriously? He's just reciting a very predictable script which has been given to and driven into the ground by every flaming Mormon whose testimony and tithe is worth preserving.

Those of us who have been there and/or have seen this exact performance play out time and time again recognize the script. There's no mistaking it for anything else. He also has public recognition going for him, which makes him even more worthy of protection.

If he were David who makes minimum wage dumping creamer and syrup into Coke at Swig, things would be very different for him right now. But he's not; he's getting the treatment that's reserved for those who have a reason to be kept around and he's hitting every talking point like a pro.

Anything that comes out about him in the future, whether next week or next year, has been preemptively explained away and, as always, it started with porn.

by Anonymousreply 286June 14, 2021 8:35 AM

But why even come out publicly? Is he going to ramp up participation in Ex-Gay shenanigans?

by Anonymousreply 287June 14, 2021 8:37 AM

Is he cut or uncut?

by Anonymousreply 288June 14, 2021 9:00 AM

This thread is very funny. For some reason the gays really bring out the funny when it comes to David.

I have a lot of thoughts, but one thing I will say is we should blaming the LDS church because David Archuleta hasn’t come to terms with his sexual orientation. For one thing, David is thirty. He’s been places, had opportunities to do things, made money. This isn’t a thing of him not knowing if the world outside of his little town and church.

But also, David has chosen to deal with this by closing himself off and not living his truth, whatever it is. I’m not saying he needs to get on Tinder or Grindr, but yeah, if you’re not sure what your true feelings are, so you decide to go on missions, sing sad adult contemporary songs, and not leave the house, uh, the problem isn’t going to resolve itself.

I don’t think that’s the church’s fault.

by Anonymousreply 289June 14, 2021 9:35 AM

[Quote] For one thing, David is thirty. He’s been places, had opportunities to do things, made money. This isn’t a thing of him not knowing if the world outside of his little town and church.

It's not just the church, it's his family. Has he ever had any independence? Even his year abroad took place within a Mormon framework.

by Anonymousreply 290June 14, 2021 9:39 AM

He and Tim Tebow should talk on how to manage same-sex attraction in Christ-approve way.

by Anonymousreply 291June 14, 2021 9:47 AM

Also, I’m super proud of DL for allowing this thread to get this long without single joke or mention about Shawn Mendes. That’s growth!

by Anonymousreply 292June 14, 2021 9:51 AM

QUEEN size bed? Was he dropping hints before the big reveal?

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by Anonymousreply 293June 14, 2021 10:02 AM

[quote] He’s basically a gay

WTF is "a gay"?

by Anonymousreply 294June 14, 2021 10:15 AM

Romantic feelings for a woman don’t equal hard dick.

by Anonymousreply 295June 14, 2021 10:18 AM

The pic at r240 looks like his face has been 'shopped onto someone else's head.

by Anonymousreply 296June 14, 2021 10:20 AM

[Quote] Romantic feelings for a woman don’t equal hard dick.

Thank heavens!

by Anonymousreply 297June 14, 2021 10:21 AM

Can David be That for you?

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by Anonymousreply 298June 14, 2021 10:30 AM

R261 Well, that depends of the frecuency of the masturbation. That could be a necesity if you do once a week or every 10 days, if you masturbate every day or every two days it's obvious you do it because it gives you pleasure.

Asexuality and celibacy are two different things. People think because you have a low sex drive you are asexual and that's not true. When you are asexual you are basically not atracted to men or women. You can be gay or straight and have no problem with celibacy because you are not into physical contact but that doesn't make you asexual.

And in my oppinion David is clearly gay and without a religious enviroment he'll be free to be gay and find a guy. He probably doens't have a high sex drive and need something more traditional, but that won't be a problem because a lot of gays want relationships more than sex.

by Anonymousreply 299June 14, 2021 11:03 AM

Whoa, r240. David looks like he told his hair guy, "Give me the 'Frankenstein's Monster' 'do."

by Anonymousreply 300June 14, 2021 11:09 AM

R289 I think that's because he seems genuinely a good guy. He was very innocent when he became famous and his father's manipulations were very obvious.

I remember some years ago he said something in a concenrt about a man finding the right woman or something like that and some of his fans didn't react well (and that's another funny thing, like a lot of talent shows singers he has a lot of gay fans) but people tend to forgive him anything because he doesn't have ill intentions.

Unfortunately everything he says seems directed by others, right now it seems useful that he says he has same sex attraction but who knows. Hopefully he'll find someone.

At least he seem to be concious enough to not marry a girl and make her waste a lot of years in a marriage destined to fail

by Anonymousreply 301June 14, 2021 11:30 AM

Does he still live in Utah?

by Anonymousreply 302June 14, 2021 11:37 AM

Is he a virgin ?

by Anonymousreply 303June 14, 2021 11:38 AM

Now he needs to go full Steve Grand

by Anonymousreply 304June 14, 2021 11:55 AM

Eh, with regard to asexuality, it's all in the definition. I'm not particularly bothered by labels, I just know that I'm not interested in partnered sex, even with people that I think are very attractive. (No objection to watching them, though... from a distance where I can't smell them. Basically, I'm super happy to be born into the Internet porn age!)

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by Anonymousreply 305June 14, 2021 12:27 PM

After his admission that he’s been a fraud for many years, why should we believe his mumbo-jumbo about bisexuality and asexuality? We haven't gotten the full truth yet.

by Anonymousreply 306June 14, 2021 1:52 PM

David, it's okay to crave cock.

by Anonymousreply 307June 14, 2021 2:48 PM

[quote] Not if someone thinks of sexual activity as involving two or more people...

What is masturbation if not sexual activity?

by Anonymousreply 308June 14, 2021 2:49 PM

I agree with r289. I think too much attention is being put on the church. As we all know, whores gonna whore, Mormon or not. David is 30 years old and has been in the industry for a long time, if he wanted to sit on dicks and be fabulous nothing is stopping him. He is a grown man. He just doesn't want that life at this time so people should respect his personal decisions.

by Anonymousreply 309June 14, 2021 4:05 PM

Has Marie Osmond commented?

by Anonymousreply 310June 14, 2021 4:11 PM

Just dump the LDS and get a life. You aren't confused, just scared. You aren't going to hell, you are living it.

by Anonymousreply 311June 14, 2021 4:32 PM

[quote]He just doesn't want that life at this time so people should respect his personal decisions.

Just a friendly reminder that you're on DL.

by Anonymousreply 312June 14, 2021 4:49 PM

Being a gay is most certainly a noun. What is a lesbian if not a noun? It's old gay men who insist on these distinctions. They don't like the word queer or bisexual or questioning or non binary. They sure don't like being lumped together with lesbians. This is all for the worse in my opinion. BUT being "a gay" is for sure a thing. A GAY is a man, and a certain type of gay man. Period.

David Archuleta is questioning. (LGBTQI) That is exactly what's he's doing. Yet others here try to define him according to their own jadedness or attraction to him. Someone who watches porn but never has sex considers himself GAY? I call that just as much a problem with self acceptance and intimacy as queer closeted men or women experiences. Being Gay is about more than sex, but without sex or the desire for love, you are not living up to your human potential.

David Archuleta has been in love with a guy before. He's just not going to tell you that right now. But he will, the next time.

Lots of horny young gay men don't hook up with strangers all the time. This is not the self hating 1970s.

by Anonymousreply 313June 14, 2021 4:54 PM

Behold, and hearken, O ye elders of my church, saith the Lord your God, even Jesus Christ, your advocate, who knoweth the weakness of man and how to succor them who are tempted.

Doctrine and Covenants 62:1

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by Anonymousreply 314June 14, 2021 4:55 PM

R264 He left for his mission in 2012 and returned in 2014

by Anonymousreply 315June 14, 2021 6:15 PM

His smile has always seemed false to me. His eyes on the other hand speak the truth.

by Anonymousreply 316June 14, 2021 6:25 PM

R315 Almost feels like his mission could've been based on the movie "The Falls"

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by Anonymousreply 317June 14, 2021 6:26 PM

R302 No , he lives in Nashville .

He did a podcast episode with Jeanette McCurdy that talked a bit more about his idol experience and his dad .

by Anonymousreply 318June 14, 2021 6:28 PM

He’s asexual. A sexual power bottom.

by Anonymousreply 319June 14, 2021 6:53 PM

[quote]He left for his mission in 2012 and returned in 2014

But his quest to pass as straight was a Mission Impossible.

by Anonymousreply 320June 14, 2021 7:23 PM

He's like Columbus. He discovered something millions of people already knew about.

by Anonymousreply 321June 14, 2021 7:34 PM

Even Helen Keller knew he was gay.

by Anonymousreply 322June 14, 2021 7:36 PM

Does he remove his Mormon underwear before getting fucked in the ass?

by Anonymousreply 323June 14, 2021 7:42 PM

Right now he should focus on doing something about his forehead.

by Anonymousreply 324June 14, 2021 7:50 PM

[quote] You can still masturbate anf be asexual. Masturbation is kind of a biological neccisity. You can get sick from the biildup of all that semen.

Jesus! Are you doing it as you type?

by Anonymousreply 325June 14, 2021 8:03 PM

[quote] To asexuals, porn is like viewing a Bugs Bunny cartoon. They get zero arousal from it.

Speak fo youseff, fwend.

by Anonymousreply 326June 14, 2021 8:04 PM

There are so many gay twinks in Utah, half of them have done gay porn for major studios. If David wants to tap into that network he would have plenty to choose from.

by Anonymousreply 327June 14, 2021 9:59 PM

R304 Well, Steve has fetishes too, so maybe they are compatible

by Anonymousreply 328June 14, 2021 10:08 PM

He should start up an OnlyFans page. Would the Mormons rather acknowledge a homosexual or someone showing off a throbbing erect dick just ready to burst. I think its the former.

by Anonymousreply 329June 14, 2021 11:48 PM

There are those here to talk shit about those of us here at DL who call out entertainers we think are gay.

But we have a good track record.

Well done Datalounge.

by Anonymousreply 330June 14, 2021 11:59 PM

Who’s that idol finalist who did porn ?

by Anonymousreply 331June 15, 2021 12:17 AM

MormonBoyz calling.

by Anonymousreply 332June 15, 2021 12:17 AM

he looks a little Buttigiegy at r298

by Anonymousreply 333June 15, 2021 12:21 AM

He may be claiming bisexuality so that he can avoid being found guilty of lying for whenever he mentioned girls in the context of relationships or what he was looking for.

by Anonymousreply 334June 15, 2021 12:25 AM

I'm betting his claims of bisexuality are so that he doesn't completely alienate his Christian-y frau/fangirl base. That why they hold out hope that maybe he'll meet 'a nice girl'...

by Anonymousreply 335June 15, 2021 12:31 AM

The whole "asexual" thing sounds like bullshit. He's obviously downplaying the fact that he's a huge homo to placate the Mormons, whom he clearly is still afraid of offending. Religion fucks up so many people. Especially religions that function as cults.

by Anonymousreply 336June 15, 2021 12:32 AM

^^Along with the religion, his father sounds like a real piece of work, too.

by Anonymousreply 337June 15, 2021 12:34 AM

r332 MormonBoyz changed its name to Missionary Boys.

by Anonymousreply 338June 15, 2021 1:26 AM

R334, How mendacious!

by Anonymousreply 339June 15, 2021 1:52 AM

Do his family live in Nashville as well? Does David have his own apartment or house?

by Anonymousreply 340June 15, 2021 7:31 AM

He's a piece of shit.

by Anonymousreply 341June 15, 2021 7:40 AM

He’s been allowed to live in his own home for several years now.

by Anonymousreply 342June 15, 2021 7:42 AM

Are the Mormons as hardcore as Scienos? Do they use spies etc?

by Anonymousreply 343June 15, 2021 7:44 AM

One of my best friends (female) married a guy from a Mormon family. He was sort of an ambivalent Mormon. His parents were/are zealots. EVERY day from the day they announced their engagement until almost a month after the wedding, his parents sent over a pack of Mormons to my friend's house to try to convert her to Mormonism. It didn't work. My friend is a lapsed Catholic, but they were married in the Catholic church anyway, of course with the proviso that any children from the marriage would have to be raised Catholic. His mother and his four sisters SOBBED through the entire wedding ceremony and during the (almost) entire dinner and dance.

At one point during the evening, the happy couple introduced me to his parents. The groom had mentioned me before to them and had told them I was gay. (They had been concerned because their future daughter-in-law had such a close male friend.) His father never smiled, but reluctantly shook my hand. His mother who was still crying shook her head "no" and waved me away with her hand full of Kleenex. It was...bizarre.

by Anonymousreply 344June 15, 2021 8:03 AM

Wow, your friend had... perseverance.

by Anonymousreply 345June 15, 2021 8:05 AM

[quote] Wow, your friend had... perseverance.

LOL, Only three and a half years worth of perseverance. They separated and eventually divorced. His parents were constantly interfering and pushing them to have kids and my friend couldn't put up with it any longer. Oh, and BTW, HE later found out he is sterile due to mumps when he was a teen, but his parents maintain that's his punishment for her not being Mormon. You just cannot make this shit up !!!

by Anonymousreply 346June 15, 2021 8:10 AM

Wow. Has the ex-husband remarried? How is he not a basket case?

by Anonymousreply 347June 15, 2021 8:13 AM

[quote]His mother and his four sisters SOBBED through the entire wedding ceremony

They were lucky that they were allowed to attend. In their cult, parents who don't qualify for a temple recommend have to hang around outside while their kid gets sealed.

by Anonymousreply 348June 15, 2021 8:17 AM

At least David hasn't gone to ridiculous bearding and having babies with a rent-a-wife. He is standing in his truth that he does like dick, at least sometimes!

by Anonymousreply 349June 15, 2021 8:17 AM

[quote] Wow. Has the ex-husband remarried? How is he not a basket case?

No, not remarried. Well, I suppose alcoholism falls under "basket case"? (His parents blamed my friend for that, although she doesn't drink and he didn't start until during the marriage.) He's been sober for almost two years, so he's doing okay. He had a girlfriend, but broke up during COVID. Too much time in quarantine together is what he told me. My friend has not remarried either and swears she never will.

by Anonymousreply 350June 15, 2021 8:30 AM

[Quote] My friend has not remarried either and swears she never will.

That's sad. Are these people pushing 40?

by Anonymousreply 351June 15, 2021 8:34 AM

[quote] That's sad. Are these people pushing 40?

She's 47. He's five years younger.

by Anonymousreply 352June 15, 2021 8:36 AM

[Quote] She's 47. He's five years younger.

Oh, well. She probably knows what's best for her at that age.

by Anonymousreply 353June 15, 2021 8:48 AM

R335 That's not usually the case. In fact most christians react way worse to bisesuality than to homosexuality, because they considered that's a vice (instead of being your only option).

And he is not bisexual, if he was bisexual he would probably found a girl to marry by now

by Anonymousreply 354June 15, 2021 2:03 PM

The "gay -> bi -> a" is to neuter him in the eyes of the "faith" community.

by Anonymousreply 355June 15, 2021 2:05 PM

R355 Not for catholics.

They can understand you are gay, but if you are bi, you better marry a girl and forget to have dick outside marriage or you will be vilified as a sinner full of vices.

In general people react worse to bisexuals, unless they are in a relationship with a woman

by Anonymousreply 356June 15, 2021 2:08 PM

At least he's not trans

by Anonymousreply 357June 15, 2021 2:09 PM

I don't think that's true. "Bi" allows people to hope that you'll find the "right" way.

by Anonymousreply 358June 15, 2021 2:09 PM

R358 No, because those who came out as bi in a religious family is because they have all the intention to have relationships with men. The others simply avoid the matter because they can date a girl.

I suppose they will get a positive reaction if they in fact date a woman, but the moment they date a man things will change.

by Anonymousreply 359June 15, 2021 2:17 PM

He needs to stop singing songs about his mental problems and start singing torch songs about hot men.

by Anonymousreply 360June 15, 2021 2:38 PM

Can a dancefloor EP be far off?

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by Anonymousreply 361June 15, 2021 2:45 PM

[quote]At least he's not trans

Give him time. First he has to announce that he's non-binary and tell us his preferred pronouns.

by Anonymousreply 362June 15, 2021 4:41 PM

He's not Iranian. There will be no sex change.

by Anonymousreply 363June 15, 2021 4:42 PM

I can't help but wonder to which type of porn he was addicted:

Regular guys: Corbin Fisher - Sean Cody

Daddy issues: Mormon Boyz - Family Dick - Say Uncle

Cumdumpster slutty pig: FratX - Sketchy Sex - Bukkake Boys

by Anonymousreply 364June 15, 2021 5:03 PM

[quote]Are the Mormons as hardcore as Scienos? Do they use spies etc?

I don't know about now, but during the '60s and '70s Brigham Young University spied on gay students (e.g., tailed them to gay bars and bugged their dorm rooms). Those who got caught were given the choice of being expelled and outed to their families or submitting to aversion therapy.

by Anonymousreply 365June 15, 2021 5:10 PM

[quote]They were lucky that they were allowed to attend. In their cult, parents who don't qualify for a temple recommend have to hang around outside while their kid gets sealed.

He said they were married in Catholic church, so I don't think that would be an issue.

by Anonymousreply 366June 15, 2021 5:48 PM

In addition to what R365 wrote, there's this:

[quote]Confrontation with homosexuality (which was itself becoming more and more publicized) and what to do with "out" homosexuals was inevitable. For example, in 1945, as reported by D. Michael Quinn, church leaders realized that there were quite a number of Mormon homosexuals who were meeting for sex at the Deseret Gym in downtown Salt Lake. ("Cruising for sex" had been going on there since at least 1930, as personally reported to me in the late 1980s by Spencer Kimball's Gay first cousin twice removed, Jack Pembroke [1913-2000], who began cruising there that year. Homosexual activities were constantly occuring in the showers and steam room at the Deseret Gymnasium in Salt Lake throughout the 1970s and 1980s, when I had a membership there. Several members of the Mormon Tabernacle Choir, one Tabernacle organist, and at least two General Authorities were participants in the sexual activies there, as personally witnessed by me or by a Gay employee I knew who worked there.) Quinn claims that First Presidency member, J. Reuben Clark, asked former Bishop Gordon Burt Affleck "to organize a surveillance for possible homosexuals in the steam room of the church-owned Deseret Gymnasium."

As for present-day BYU, they removed "homosexual behavior" from the honor code last year with no explanation of what that meant. In the ensuing confusion a vague statement was issued saying only that cases would be dealt with on a case-by-case basis. That led to even more confusion and a final statement went out, this time clarifying that same-sex dating and PDA were still verboten. In other words, the only thing that changed was the addition of another nacreous layer of permamindfuck on already fucked students.

by Anonymousreply 367June 15, 2021 6:55 PM

I can't be hard on him. He grew up a Mormon. I know Mormons, they are deeply indoctrinated into their faith and most of their lives revolve around their church and their family much more so than other types of Christianity. He is making progress though and I think he will come out as gay in a few years. It just takes time for people in that environment but he is taking the right steps

by Anonymousreply 368June 15, 2021 6:58 PM

[quote] I can't be hard on him.

Oh, I can!

by Anonymousreply 369June 15, 2021 7:20 PM

So what happens to Archie's hole now . Do we need a special thread again ?

by Anonymousreply 370June 15, 2021 9:56 PM

Someone said that Archie did a talk at some university and that no recording devices were allowed...

I have an awful feeling that David is actually against us. I have no issue if he wants to be celibate his whole damn life. It's the thought of him promoting "don't act on your homosexual thoughts" around colleges that sticks in my craw.

by Anonymousreply 371June 16, 2021 3:33 AM

Who under the age of dead uses the word "craw"?

Don't demonize Archie. He's making his way in this world. And he sure as fuck can't harm your ancient white ass, R371. Don't lay your troubles on mine.

by Anonymousreply 372June 16, 2021 3:40 AM

Perhaps Connor and Miles have opened up their relationship to include David. That Miles can never get enough foreskin.

by Anonymousreply 373June 16, 2021 3:45 AM

R370, I can only imagine Archie has been training his hole with any number of household items. His most recent IG post is about doing yard work, so perhaps he had an intimate moment with the rake handle in the shed when he was done.

by Anonymousreply 374June 16, 2021 4:02 AM

Gladys, give it a rest. Or at least get some new material.

by Anonymousreply 375June 16, 2021 4:06 AM

[Quote] Don't lay your troubles on mine.

Ugh. Gladys, you and Matt should get married and move somewhere that has no phone or internet reception.

by Anonymousreply 376June 16, 2021 4:07 AM

Speak of the devil...Archie's doing a show with me on August 25th! Hope all you gays come out and support us.

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by Anonymousreply 377June 16, 2021 4:52 AM

I'm not feeling the pompadour.

by Anonymousreply 378June 16, 2021 4:57 AM

R371 I think that talk was probably the North Star thing he did a few years back .

by Anonymousreply 379June 16, 2021 4:57 AM

[quote]He is making progress though and I think he will come out as gay in a few years.

Like I said before, I think he is just saying all this to qualify and fit himself into the LBGT spectrum, for other people. Millennials do not like being locked under labels. I mean the fact that he is even openly acknowledging his sexuality as anything but hetero is huge, especially because he is young. Most men from the church wait until they are way over the hill.

He is just not a "practicing homosexual", as I like to say. There are many many gay men who are out, but not actively having sex with other men.

by Anonymousreply 380June 16, 2021 5:11 AM

Fuck that shit. Heterosexuals don't have to be fucking in order to be heterosexuals. No one ever says "practicing homosexual."

by Anonymousreply 381June 16, 2021 5:23 AM

Who the fuck is Gladys? Is that some ancient white FAGS way of putting a real man down? Very old fashioned, as is the sick old poster. Bitch trolls open minded younger men who challenge his incel opinions. Withered old nub or worn out hole. R375 and R376 are the same sad OLD f@g. Always answering his own posts. Ha. What a nut job.

David is finding his way. He's been fucked and had his dick sucked. He's been in love with a guy. He'll never be like you because he doesn't have to be. No man under 50 has to be like these worn out holes who "decide" what's right on Datalounge. Die off. Now and soon. R375 can go first.

by Anonymousreply 382June 16, 2021 5:29 AM

[quote]Heterosexuals don't have to be fucking in order to be heterosexuals.

Explain what you mean by "in order" r381

by Anonymousreply 383June 16, 2021 5:48 AM

[Quote] Explain what you mean by "in order"

ESL?

by Anonymousreply 384June 16, 2021 5:53 AM

[Quote] who challenge his incel opinions.

Hon, you keep typing that you've fucked X in their ASS (ALL CAPS is very important to you, for some reason) off the coast your sanity. You have no room to be mudslinging at anyone else.

by Anonymousreply 385June 16, 2021 5:55 AM

what got up his ass??

by Anonymousreply 386June 16, 2021 6:08 AM

Just die R385. I fucked some men off the coast one whole summer in their ASS! Everyone knows this. I was very much in demand. But I got my own boy now so I am less available. It's not for the money but the love.❤️ Too bad you've never known love. May jesus visit healing to your troubled mind tonite. 🙏🏾

by Anonymousreply 387June 16, 2021 6:09 AM

r381 / r384 Im asking for you to expound your thoughts instead of cursing at me.

by Anonymousreply 388June 16, 2021 6:13 AM

[Quote] I fucked some men off the coast one whole summer in their ASS!

If only you would give DL one whole summer's respite from your repetitious ramblings.

by Anonymousreply 389June 16, 2021 6:13 AM

Cussing? Who cussed?

by Anonymousreply 390June 16, 2021 6:15 AM

[quote] No , he lives in Nashville .

Is Nashville actually an upgrade from Salt Lake City?

by Anonymousreply 391June 16, 2021 6:15 AM

[Quote] But I got my own boy now so I am less available.

Get yourself a whole buncha boys!

by Anonymousreply 392June 16, 2021 6:16 AM

[Quote] Is Nashville actually an upgrade from Salt Lake City?

It's a good place to be for a songwriter.

by Anonymousreply 393June 16, 2021 6:16 AM

"what got up his ass??"

Not me. He was too tight.

by Anonymousreply 394June 16, 2021 6:17 AM

[quote] It's a good place to be for a songwriter.

But what about for a gay man?

by Anonymousreply 395June 16, 2021 6:20 AM

At their concert, is Marie Osmond going to acknowledge Archie's "new found" sexual awareness? His "coming out"?

Is he going to sing "It's Raining Men" or "I'm Coming Out" to celebrate it...???

With Marie's dried up old snatch and Archie's love of cock, are they going to discuss favorite lubricants?

Since Marie is divorced and Archie's probably had his heart broken by unrequited love, should they perform 'No More Tears (Enough is Enough)"???

by Anonymousreply 396June 16, 2021 12:00 PM

Marie Osmond isn't divorced.

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by Anonymousreply 397June 16, 2021 1:39 PM

R396, no doubt ol' Marie will make some veiled references to Archie's love of the cock and the concert in August. Something along the lines of, "I'm so proud of this young man for opening up and speaking his truth." (That's code for, "I had a gay son who jumped out a window and killed himself, so this is my way for making up for not accept my son way back then. Go out and get some dick tonight, David!")

by Anonymousreply 398June 16, 2021 3:07 PM

You're not fully gay until you can tweet this for father's day.

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by Anonymousreply 399June 20, 2021 8:14 PM

He listened to some of you bitches re: his hair and debuted a new look. Maybe he reads DL?

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by Anonymousreply 400June 21, 2021 10:39 PM

I miss Archies cute gap teeth. The veneers are big but look dirty. Porcelain doesn't get dirty. I fear David is not keeping up with his personal hygiene. He used to be all silky soft dark hair down there with a beautiful pink hole. He's grown coarse with time.

I fucked David Archuleta off the coast of Great Salt Lake in his ASS one whole summer.

by Anonymousreply 401June 21, 2021 10:45 PM

You are Grotesque (And The Pips), r401.

by Anonymousreply 402June 21, 2021 11:38 PM

He does have a lovely voice.

by Anonymousreply 403June 22, 2021 12:05 AM

R403 He really does. The thing is David has such a sad voice, though. You can kinda tell he’s been running for a long time.

by Anonymousreply 404June 22, 2021 2:08 AM

[quote]You can kinda tell he’s been running for a long time.

Like Forrest Gump?

by Anonymousreply 405June 22, 2021 3:10 AM

[Quote] You can kinda tell he’s been running for a long time.

He has asthma.

by Anonymousreply 406June 22, 2021 9:00 AM

R405/R406 Queens like you are why men like David have such a hard time coming out and what makes DL so funny.

by Anonymousreply 407June 22, 2021 2:39 PM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 408June 22, 2021 9:14 PM

If you missed me on GMA, catch me on Nightline! DavidArchie is ready to talk about maybe having sex one day soon with somebody. He's still adorkable and fuckable but tic tok David. Let's make 2021 the best year yet! Meet me on the other side of town.

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by Anonymousreply 409June 23, 2021 4:20 PM

The reporter couldn’t help himself by only mentioning that young girls and older women were attracted to David when he started his career, even though it was a LGBT story! No mention of any gay male fans being attracted.

It was stated, as we predicted at the time, that it was during his Chilean mission that his lust for men became so strong that he could no longer deny his feelings. Latino men can trigger that.

by Anonymousreply 410June 23, 2021 4:28 PM

Did Davey get some of Steve Osunsami's BBC after the interview?

by Anonymousreply 411June 23, 2021 4:31 PM

Is he open to dating men or is he still fighting his same sex feelings?

by Anonymousreply 412June 23, 2021 4:35 PM

The reporter only asked if David had ever dated a man or had a boyfriend. He didn’t ask the key question of whether or not David had been penetrated anally yet. Maybe we will get more details on Nightline.

by Anonymousreply 413June 23, 2021 4:52 PM

I still consider this the most satisfying coming out of 2021.

by Anonymousreply 414June 23, 2021 4:56 PM

Not Carl?

by Anonymousreply 415June 23, 2021 4:57 PM

We love you David Archie! Your female fans are about to desert you, so get your high plump round ass to the gym, STAT.

by Anonymousreply 416June 23, 2021 4:57 PM

R414, Carl's was nice and a great inspiration to closeted male athletes, but I've not been as invested in his closeted struggle over the years like with Archuleta, and in fact, did not know who he was until this past week (not to diminish his bravery).

by Anonymousreply 417June 23, 2021 5:01 PM

[Quote] The reporter only asked if David had ever dated a man or had a boyfriend.

What was David's answer?

by Anonymousreply 418June 23, 2021 5:02 PM

R417 David makes you feel like you need to protect him in a way a football player doesn't

by Anonymousreply 419June 23, 2021 5:14 PM

This "interview" was boring, useless, uninformative fluff.

It was essentially a commercial for Archuleta's new CD and, hilariously, children's book.

by Anonymousreply 420June 23, 2021 5:19 PM

Females still like him because he came out “asexual” just like how Boy George and Morrissey were “celibate” in the 80’s and their female fanbase grew.

by Anonymousreply 421June 23, 2021 5:23 PM

Did David Archuleta always have such a huge forehead?

by Anonymousreply 422June 23, 2021 5:41 PM

But who did he vote for?

by Anonymousreply 423June 24, 2021 2:33 AM

He really needs to get over his Mormon induced sex shame .

by Anonymousreply 424June 24, 2021 2:18 PM

[R423] He voted for David Cook.

by Anonymousreply 425June 24, 2021 4:57 PM

The Nightline continuation is a hot damn mess. He says his girlfriend just broke up with him because he wasn't interested in her and kept checking out other guys while they were together. Then he still has the nerve to say he's on a "spectrum of bisexual" chile PLEASE. If he don't get his fully gay ass out that church and serve ass.

by Anonymousreply 426June 24, 2021 8:14 PM

[R424] That's the only reason he's even thinking to call himself asexual. This poor bastard called gay porn a fetish that he was addicted to, he is no more asexual than your average Tumblr queer.

by Anonymousreply 427June 24, 2021 8:17 PM

R427 In fact no, porn was one of the things, fetishes were other, he is a sweet innocent angel but for sure he has an addictive personality

by Anonymousreply 428June 24, 2021 8:18 PM

He is pathetically inarticulate. I can't stand men who can't use their words.

by Anonymousreply 429June 24, 2021 8:19 PM

R426 I'm surprised he actually had a girlfriend

by Anonymousreply 430June 24, 2021 8:20 PM

R430 I'm surprised he hasn't auditioned for My husband isn't gay . My hope here is that now that he's out as whatever he'll meet some nice non asshole guy who'll get him over the sex shame . I think when he came out as gay in 2014 to his family he had it right but the church environment and the issue with his abusive father pushed him towards the some form of bisexuality indentification . Maybe he found one girl cute and went with it . In a "see I'm only half an appostate , please love me " kind of way .

by Anonymousreply 431June 24, 2021 8:41 PM

[R428] I know the way Mormons talk trust me, they see "porn addiction" as anyone watching porn more than 1x a week. He most definitely would see gay porn as fetish porn, he's so stunted in social growth. He couldn't even say the word gay in his interview, it's a shame.

by Anonymousreply 432June 24, 2021 8:44 PM

[R431] He spoke at that fucked up NorthStar "we support the gays but only if you bitches don't act on it" conference in 2018 and in 2020, so it doesn't shock me he's going down this public path. He's making his way toward marrying a woman and being in a "mixed-orientation marriage".

by Anonymousreply 433June 24, 2021 8:46 PM

Hi Everyone, It's Dave. Just signed up on my local Grinder under the username Mmwhoreman.

Send nudes.

by Anonymousreply 434June 24, 2021 8:49 PM

Oh my

by Anonymousreply 435June 24, 2021 9:24 PM

[Quote] He's making his way toward marrying a woman and being in a "mixed-orientation marriage".

He's taking a long time about it.

by Anonymousreply 436June 24, 2021 9:34 PM

Is the interview available anywhere online?

by Anonymousreply 437June 24, 2021 9:51 PM

Just the desire to view porn (of any variety) is considered a fetish in itself. And since the official line is that porn is instantly addictive, once someone has been exposed to a single pornographic image they're now addicts and carriers of the plague which is destroying society.

They love to scare little kids with imagery of the devil wedging his foot in a door they've left cracked open. Some of the dimwits carry those beliefs around for life because they've also had it drilled into their heads that, as saints, they question things more than the general population. They may not remember questioning anything, ever, but if a few old men say they have, it must be true.

by Anonymousreply 438June 24, 2021 9:54 PM

Here's some GMA footage.

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by Anonymousreply 439June 24, 2021 9:56 PM

The 30-year-old Virgin.

by Anonymousreply 440June 24, 2021 9:59 PM

KELLY CLARKSON!!

by Anonymousreply 441June 24, 2021 10:24 PM

R441, Kelly Clarkson would squish him to death by rolling over him in bed.

by Anonymousreply 442June 24, 2021 10:34 PM

When Archuleta can sing like this, let us know. Kelly takes Garth's song and elevates it to the moon. Gorgeous singing with a beautiful presence. Clarkson is the most gifted vocalist in the game.

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by Anonymousreply 443June 24, 2021 10:56 PM

Maybe Archie can marry Steven Tyler. He thought he was a woman...

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by Anonymousreply 444June 24, 2021 11:59 PM

Destroy him, DL queens! Make him wish he never said anything. Feel good about yourselves.

by Anonymousreply 445June 25, 2021 1:31 AM

This is the GMA part

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by Anonymousreply 446June 25, 2021 5:18 AM

And this the Nightline thing

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by Anonymousreply 447June 25, 2021 5:19 AM

I wonder what type of gay fetish porn he watched.

by Anonymousreply 448June 25, 2021 6:06 AM

This is age where gender and sexuality is all fluid and " on a spectrum" surely mixed-orientation marriage is pretty woke move on his part.

by Anonymousreply 449June 25, 2021 6:55 AM

Mormons aren't Christians. They just think they are.

by Anonymousreply 450June 25, 2021 7:51 AM

I think he's adorable. He's 100% my type.

But, I'm sorry, he's thirty fuckin' years old.

A person should really have their shit together by the time they're 30.

by Anonymousreply 451June 25, 2021 10:19 AM

R448 Definitely chastity play.

by Anonymousreply 452June 25, 2021 5:45 PM

He probably watched Latter Days and thinks it's porn

by Anonymousreply 453June 25, 2021 7:17 PM

R433 I don't think so. It will take a lot of time but he will end with a guy.

I'm pretty sure he was pressured to marry a nice woman and he is unable to do it. He didn't use women as beards for the sake of his career neither.

Very deep, he knows he is gay and sooner or later he is going to accept it.

Hopefully he will find a nice guy soon

by Anonymousreply 454June 25, 2021 8:00 PM

If he were going to succumb to pressure from his family or the church to marry a woman I would think that it would have happened by now. The longer he holds out against the pressure, the less likely that he'll give in.

by Anonymousreply 455June 25, 2021 8:03 PM

Well, he missed out on his twenties for dating/hooking up with guys, but on the brighter side of things, he still has all of his thirties ahead of him.

by Anonymousreply 456June 25, 2021 8:05 PM

I hope the Imagine Dragons guy lets David go down on him...just to celebrate all of this.

by Anonymousreply 457June 25, 2021 8:28 PM

Somebody needs to explain to him that his gay biological clock is ticking and he doesn’t have much time left. He needs to be jumping on a dick right now. He’s already past his sell date for a good portion of the community.

by Anonymousreply 458June 25, 2021 8:41 PM

R458 I don't think he is that type of guy. He is more the one who find a nice guy and marry and has kids

by Anonymousreply 459June 25, 2021 8:47 PM

How is he going to find a nice guy when he passes his expiration date?

by Anonymousreply 460June 25, 2021 9:04 PM

R460 He is cute now, but he seem lovable and nice and that won't change (probably he'll be even more lovable when he learns to love himself, and i'm not talking about masturbation).

And a lot of people like mature guys, maybe on clubs will be difficult to find guys when you reach a certain age but that's not the case with online dating

by Anonymousreply 461June 25, 2021 9:07 PM

R454 I agree . He's also said publically that he had a girlfriend and well , guys were hotter (maybe not in these words ) . He couldn't even pretend that much or rationalize himself into it .

by Anonymousreply 462June 25, 2021 9:08 PM

He'll soon become the town man-whore and his ass will have seen more traffic than the Interstate.

by Anonymousreply 463June 25, 2021 9:10 PM

Real life hobbits like David don’t stay cute when they age, like they do in LotR.

by Anonymousreply 464June 25, 2021 9:12 PM

[quote]How is he going to find a nice guy when he passes his expiration date?

Not everybody wants a twink.

by Anonymousreply 465June 25, 2021 9:28 PM

[quote] Not everybody wants a twink.

That’s the point. He’s going to end up having to settle for that kind of person and I want David to have better than that.

by Anonymousreply 466June 25, 2021 9:43 PM

How is getting with someone who doesn't want a twink "settling"? Shouldn't he be with someone who he can be happy with, which isn't necessarily a twink chaser?

by Anonymousreply 467June 25, 2021 9:51 PM

[quote]He is more the one who find a nice guy and marry and has kids

Well, the older he gets, the harder it is for him t o get pregnant.

by Anonymousreply 468June 25, 2021 10:50 PM

I've done my research (lol) and think this is what happened .

David goes on his mission partly out of religious conviction and partly to get away from dear old dad . He says as much in a podcast he did with Jeanette McCurdy . His father wasn't happy because he feared the loss of control over his son for 2 years . At some point during this mission David's I like dick part wakes up , no wonder if you have to share a room with another guy all the time . Also his dad is still trying to control him and is sending rather abusive emails which had an effect on David's behaviour . This was obvious enough to get him an invite to his mission president who wanted to know what's going on ( Jeanette Mc Curdy podcast) . Eventually he gives the emails to the mission president who reads them and informs David that dad is abusive and David should cut him out of his life . At some point David comes out to the mission poresident . In 2014 ,back home in Utah David puts distance between himself and his dad and for a while treated his father as if he had died . He also comes out to his family as gay . Now I think David is gay , not bi or asexual . He had it right when he first told his family he was gay . But he also had just cut contact with his dad , still lived in a religious evironment , be it family or faith community and most important , David himself is religious , he believes . He had just spend 2 years bathed in Mormonism selling his faith . And gay wasn't something he realistically could allow himself to be (remember the twitter backlash after tweeting about the Mormon General conference in 2015) . He's also a people pleaser who had just displeased somebody . So he jumps on the bi train . Maybe he found a girl cute once and decided that's enough . Bi also allows him to date girls and not feel like he's cheating or lying to them . But he's not bi , he's gay so he finds himself not attracted to any of his dates , worse , he's checking out guys while on dates with his girlfriend . And because he has convinced himself that he's bi but not attracted to his female date he thinks he's asexual . Eventually that entire construction has to fall apart and that's were he is right now . He's publically come out , still sort of hanging onto the bisexual/asexual part but at least mentally moved to the point of opening up the possibility of dating a guy .

by Anonymousreply 469June 26, 2021 8:48 PM

Is he, though? Someone said the North Star talk was 2018. I think the most obvious narrative is that David is involved with, essentially, praying away the gay, though sold as "praying for a wife" while studiously avoiding dicks.

by Anonymousreply 470June 26, 2021 8:58 PM

I think if he was "praying for a wife" then he wouldn't have come out publicly . He is still a celebrity with a following , he isn't Josh Weed or any of the mixed orientation guys who are only known for being in a mixed orientation marriage .

by Anonymousreply 471June 26, 2021 10:12 PM

Did you not see his response to the question about dating a guy? He came out a half decade ago...

by Anonymousreply 472June 26, 2021 10:20 PM

[R470] He did the conference in 2018 and the Spanish version last year. It was so hush-hush that I only knew from seeing it buried on their website. Which means that he was still buying into the "pray the ghey away" shit a year ago.

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by Anonymousreply 473June 27, 2021 7:46 PM

He tried to pray the gay away.

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by Anonymousreply 474June 27, 2021 9:46 PM

He's been fucking dudes since his American Idol days, I'm sure of it.

by Anonymousreply 475June 27, 2021 9:57 PM

Did he fuck David Cook?

by Anonymousreply 476June 27, 2021 11:52 PM

[quote] He's been fucking dudes since his American Idol days

He was 17 when he was on American Idol, so lets assume not.

by Anonymousreply 477June 28, 2021 12:19 AM

I expect David has done handjobs at most and it was probably while he was away for a year on a Mormon mission.

by Anonymousreply 478June 28, 2021 12:30 AM

[quote] Destroy him, DL queens!

Going after Archie would be akin to kicking a pup. Not happening.

by Anonymousreply 479June 28, 2021 5:06 AM

[R469] You're spot on. I've been a fan since 2008 and I remember the way he would go "ew girls" in all interviews despite 90% of his friends being female. He flat out said he never had crushes on girls and also said in a past interview that he didn't start dating until he got back from his mission. He got in trouble for his tweets about marriage a year after he came out to his family. Now he's saying he's "on the bisexual spectrum" and asexual, aka he can't get it up for girls. It's clear this is a fully GAY man that is trying to convince himself he likes women romantically so he doesn't become a total failure (in his mind) to his family and church.

by Anonymousreply 480June 28, 2021 4:27 PM

If he's doing these SGA talks, then he's worse than just an individual trying to please his family/church. He's actively contributing to other gay people's misery.

by Anonymousreply 481June 28, 2021 4:31 PM

He should take a hint from "Prayers For Bobby".

by Anonymousreply 482June 28, 2021 6:17 PM

[R481] Take this as you wish, but I used to fuck around with a guy who grew up Mormon. He said back in '18 that he knew someone who went to that North Star conference when David performed. His friend was told not to record any portion of David's speech or performances. Apparently he came out there are being "inflicted with SGA" but that he refused to act on it, instead was waiting for the right woman to enter his life and form a partnership in the eyes of the lord (yawn). I used to think he was fucking with me because he knew I grew up on this man's music, but I believe it now with all that he's said in the past 2 weeks.

by Anonymousreply 483June 28, 2021 8:15 PM

Mormons don’t operate under the same sexuality perimeters that the rest of us good sinners do. This gay to bisexual to asexual pipeline is an attempt for him to exist as a celibate gay man in a church that would punish him if he was openly dicked down. Even when he gets ~mixed orientation~ married to some fugly greased up woman, he’ll still be watching “fetish” porn to get himself ready for the 2.5 kids and picket fence life. The old hags on FOD have NO chance of being his milk maid, they aged out of that 30+ years ago.

by Anonymousreply 484June 28, 2021 8:20 PM

Maybe he could go the Eric Turner route and quit the LDS church and become a muscle whore.

by Anonymousreply 485June 28, 2021 8:21 PM

[Quote] I grew up on this man's music

How many megamixes of Crush can one man stand?

by Anonymousreply 486June 28, 2021 8:22 PM

[R486] Now don't act like his first album didn't have some preteen angst bangers bitch

by Anonymousreply 487June 28, 2021 8:24 PM

Thanks, r483. That makes David's recent TV interviews even worse. He's not even saying it with his chest. He's still perpetrating lies of omission.

by Anonymousreply 488June 28, 2021 8:24 PM

Poor kid.

Lot of repression.

Once he comes out though, he can choose whatever hottie he wants to plow his ass. He's a total cutie and on the small side so, there are opportunities for bedroom gymnastics.

A guy could pick him up, tell him to put his arms around his neck while facing him, David could wrap his little legs around the guy's waist and just be carried around while taking a dick up the butt.

David, what are you waiting for?

by Anonymousreply 489June 28, 2021 8:31 PM

David should talk to Charlie Bird. He shows that you can be openly gay, happy and Mormon.

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by Anonymousreply 490June 28, 2021 8:33 PM

David looks like a huge mess this past week, especially after getting an awful haircut. He looks like a drug addict.

by Anonymousreply 491June 28, 2021 9:19 PM

David really enjoys overindulging on Sudafed before I fuck him in the ASS.

by Anonymousreply 492June 28, 2021 10:30 PM

[R491] Right, who the fuck told him an undercut bowl and unkempt face was the look? At this rate, he won't have to worry about being gay, bi, asexual or what the fuck ever, no one will want him.

by Anonymousreply 493June 28, 2021 11:00 PM

R484 don't think that will happen . The mixed orientation marriage, I mean . Not after publicly coming out . That isn't something you announce to the world , you just get married and keep it quiet. People only go on a proselytizing trips afterwards to show how great their hetero life is (until it falls apart ) and being in a mixed orientation marriage is what they are known for . Or they were known for something else before like Ed Smart who by the way got married last weekend . David also worked with happy out gay people so it's harder to sell him the narrative that they are sad lonely sinners . For me it looks like this last breakup with a girlfriend really moved his head space to include guys for the first time .

by Anonymousreply 494June 29, 2021 12:01 AM

If that's the case then why didn't he make that clear in the interview? When the interviewer pushed the dating guys angle, David reminded him that he's waiting for marriage. The guy didn't ask if David was fucking, or had fucked, guys... Nowhere am I getting that David is looking for a boyfriend or a husband.

by Anonymousreply 495June 29, 2021 12:13 AM

David has known the love of a cute, sexy man. Deep inside. For a whole summer off the coast of secret waters in his ASS I fucked him.

by Anonymousreply 496June 29, 2021 12:25 AM

I hope David shaves his hole.

by Anonymousreply 497June 29, 2021 12:32 AM

R495 because David heard sex , not dating . He's a sexually repressed Mormon who thinks one look at porn makes you an addict .

by Anonymousreply 498June 29, 2021 4:24 AM

Asexuality is the only thing that would prevent David from being excommunicated from the Mormon Cult.

by Anonymousreply 499June 29, 2021 4:25 AM

Asexuality or celibacy?

by Anonymousreply 500June 29, 2021 11:30 AM

[R500] It's celibacy, but the church/David-as-their-spokesman is trying to appeal to the gen z crowd by rebranding it as asexuality. If you say you're asexual rather than celibate, you'll get more support and diversity points.

by Anonymousreply 501June 29, 2021 12:27 PM

Why the children's book now, though?

by Anonymousreply 502June 29, 2021 12:29 PM

[R495] Right, but this is a man who has known nothing but repression his whole life. Guaranteed he equates liking men as a purely sexual thing, even though the interviewer only said dating, because that's how his religion works. Dating women = romantic, dating men = sexual sin. He's been hanging out with a lot of gay artists these days, we can only hope they bring him away from the brainwashing. That Matt guy he's been collaborating with has been with his boyfriend for 5 years. David could learn some things.

by Anonymousreply 503June 29, 2021 12:31 PM

[R502] A man with no children who doesn't even seem to care for them is going to have a ghostwriter pop out a book for the Mormon bratlings. Peter Pan syndrome.

by Anonymousreply 504June 29, 2021 12:33 PM

His IG stories are a mess. Someone please befriend this lonely plod of a man and bring him into reality.

by Anonymousreply 505June 29, 2021 11:41 PM

Those stories are always like that . He's a bit of a nerdy scatterbrain .

by Anonymousreply 506June 30, 2021 12:20 AM

I don't mean to be cruel, however...

He's better off dead because he will be at war with himself for the rest of his life. And that is no way to live.

by Anonymousreply 507June 30, 2021 4:54 AM

He's not better off dead. He just needs a non-church-affiliated therapist to help him figure out what he really wants out of his life.

by Anonymousreply 508June 30, 2021 6:15 AM

[quote] He just needs a non-church-affiliated therapist to help him figure out what he really wants out of his life.

Oh, I don't think his family will allow that.

by Anonymousreply 509June 30, 2021 6:40 AM

R 509 he's 30 and lives in Tennessee while his family is in Utah .

by Anonymousreply 510June 30, 2021 11:56 AM

He's going to need to find a man who is patient, understanding, and kind. He's going through hell right now, fighting against who he really is. If he can find a man who will see him through the battle, he will have a happy life. Being inexperienced, he has to avoid the exploiters.

by Anonymousreply 511June 30, 2021 12:09 PM

We don't know he's going through hell. If he's involved in the SGA/Ex-Gay movement, he may actually be having a gay old time as he and his charge(s) pray together that the sex they just had will never happen again.

by Anonymousreply 512June 30, 2021 1:38 PM

[R507] Would you say that about all of the gay teens that were stuck in self hatred and closeted for years due to religious abuse? If so, a majority of gay adults today would not be alive. No one expected Archuleta to ever come out, let alone at 30. He's clearly developmentally stunted from the church/fame/upbringing, but that doesn't mean he's better off dead.

by Anonymousreply 513June 30, 2021 4:27 PM

[R512] His past two albums have been all about depression and mental health. His IG post was scolding other religious bigots and telling them to accept that we can't change ourselves. Hopefully this is his attempt to stop being a miserable sod and be on the right side of history.

by Anonymousreply 514June 30, 2021 4:30 PM

Your post suggests that you haven't watched the interviews, r514.

by Anonymousreply 515June 30, 2021 4:32 PM

Please look at his Instagram story from today and try and tell me he’s not entering Tyler Posey territory. All he needs is some tattoos and some masturbation videos to complete the transformation. He’s been looking like he’s on anti-anxiety meds.

by Anonymousreply 516June 30, 2021 5:06 PM

I don't want to follow his social media. Can you upload the video/pic somewhere?

by Anonymousreply 517June 30, 2021 5:20 PM

Check his last IG live. He looks disheveled and can barely speak coherently. My guess is these quack religious doctors they have him going to are drugging him because he's so depressed that he can't be with a man the way he wishes. Fuck the church.

by Anonymousreply 518July 1, 2021 1:02 PM

He could barely speak clearly on Idol back in the day.

by Anonymousreply 519July 1, 2021 1:25 PM

He needs dick! Stat!

by Anonymousreply 520July 1, 2021 1:56 PM

I left thirst emojis on one of his Insta stories. He sent me a thumbs up and replied "same to you". Should I take one for the team and see what repressed Mormon hole is like? 300 miles away and counting.

by Anonymousreply 521July 1, 2021 9:33 PM

Sure R521. Just go to his house and I'm sure he'll be more than willing

by Anonymousreply 522July 1, 2021 9:35 PM

People are sending him bookmarks with scripture suggestions. Oy.

by Anonymousreply 523July 1, 2021 9:35 PM

[R523] That's because his interview got talked about by a notorious right wing website the other day. These people will stop at nothing to keep this grown ass man in the closet.

by Anonymousreply 524July 1, 2021 9:52 PM

In the closet and miserable , can't have happy gay people around .

by Anonymousreply 525July 1, 2021 9:56 PM

Gay people are not usually very happy.

I too struggled with David Archuleta's sexuality. Till it burst open like a flower.

by Anonymousreply 526July 1, 2021 9:59 PM

[quote]He could barely speak clearly on Idol back in the day.

I'm sure we can all think of better uses for his mouth.

by Anonymousreply 527July 1, 2021 10:19 PM

I bet if he let loose, he'd be a little pig bottom in bed

by Anonymousreply 528July 1, 2021 11:31 PM

I met this bitch once, he was all of 5'4 with the juiciest ass. I bought his virgin cocktail and slipped him my number. He never called, but I noticed he wet the seat when he left. I wish I had licked his secretions knowing what I know now.

by Anonymousreply 529July 2, 2021 1:08 AM

I liked his work out instastory from a few days ago. Keeping the tits nice and perky.

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by Anonymousreply 530July 2, 2021 4:36 AM

He's stuck in that Mormon bullshit. I sense this will not end well now that the press and initial goodwill has ended. 5150 stat.

by Anonymousreply 531July 4, 2021 2:35 AM

I'm bored with his ASS already.

by Anonymousreply 532July 4, 2021 2:42 AM

I feel kind of bad that he feels he needs to reveal all that. It would be nice if people could just say "I'm not totally straight" and leave it at that. I don't want to know about his confusion or struggles, why are they our business? Btw way Carol is a freak not Archie.

by Anonymousreply 533July 4, 2021 2:59 AM

Carol?

by Anonymousreply 534July 4, 2021 3:01 AM

R533 Sorry but the struggles are what make this interesting and real. Some people just want celebrities to say how easy is to come out and no, for a lot of people it's not easy at all

by Anonymousreply 535July 4, 2021 10:37 AM

R535 That isn't what I meant. Sure, the struggles make it interesting and real. I just don't get why it has to be everyone's business. I mean privacy is underrated nowadays.

by Anonymousreply 536July 4, 2021 3:23 PM

I mean, in Archuleta's case, there's an agenda at play here. And it goes beyond comfort in his own skin...

by Anonymousreply 537July 4, 2021 3:25 PM

The struggle isn't interesting - it's annoying. The struggle is because of his religion.

At 30, you shouldn't be this confused.

by Anonymousreply 538July 4, 2021 3:27 PM

Is he confused, though? I think he's pretty certain about where his alliances lie.

by Anonymousreply 539July 4, 2021 3:30 PM

[quote]At 30, you shouldn't be this confused.

R538 Many people are this confused. At 30 and beyond. Not always anything to do with religion, either. Don't make it like everyone has to be un-confused by age 29. Just because you aren't.

by Anonymousreply 540July 4, 2021 3:30 PM

R540 - bullshit. Get some therapy then. It's not healthy to be stumbling around like Helen Keller grasping at the air when you're 30.

It's not that complicated - this is just being self-indulgent and avoidance of topics you're not comfortable with for whatever reason. Ditch the 'church' - particularly the stupid ass Mormon religion and their magic underwear and other non-sensical bullshit.

by Anonymousreply 541July 4, 2021 3:56 PM

R541 Pull yourself up by your bootstraps! Snap out of it!

by Anonymousreply 542July 4, 2021 4:01 PM

He didn't come as gay but as a member of the LGBTQIA+ community. Of course he's confused.

by Anonymousreply 543July 4, 2021 4:06 PM

Does he even believe in therapy? Religion is a form of brainwashing.

by Anonymousreply 544July 4, 2021 4:10 PM

R542 - his confusion is only because of his membership in a CULT.

People who aren't in cults aren't confused at the age of 30.

And yet nobody dares to question him the obvious - Have you thought about leaving the Mormon church? Have you thought that maybe they are wrong?

Can't touch religion though.

by Anonymousreply 545July 4, 2021 4:22 PM

[quote] Does he even believe in therapy? Religion is a form of brainwashing.

His album released last year, "Therapy Sessions," was inspired by his own therapy. He said that his brother and 2 sisters struggle with what appears to be depression, and he does too. Some of them are on medication.

At timemark 1:45 he talks about some of his mental issues.

This video is prior to his coming out, so he doesn't discuss any sexuality confusion.

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by Anonymousreply 546July 4, 2021 4:35 PM

Is the therapy provided by followers of the Mormons?

by Anonymousreply 547July 4, 2021 4:36 PM

The podcast with McCurdy.

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by Anonymousreply 548July 4, 2021 4:39 PM

[quote] Is the therapy provided by followers of the Mormons?

In another interview, he said he was given a therapist reference by another contestant on American Idol. The therapist supposedly had a lot of experience dealing with reality show contestants and their special challenges.

by Anonymousreply 549July 4, 2021 4:44 PM

R549 - or there's a therapist wanting to bring some d-list celebrities to their client list for publicity purposes.

by Anonymousreply 550July 4, 2021 4:52 PM

R546 Maybe he wouldn't be so depressed if he accepted his sexuality.

by Anonymousreply 551July 4, 2021 4:57 PM

In the podcast above, he mentions that the distance he put between himself and his father after his mission was spurred by advice from his mission advisor. You can see how his loyalties would be divided.

by Anonymousreply 552July 4, 2021 5:01 PM

R552 - what? Please explain. Loyalties to the church? His family?

by Anonymousreply 553July 4, 2021 5:19 PM

Aw. His voice breaks when he mentions how his dad would call David's older sister a whore. I hope she doesn't read the Data Lounge, while fat or otherwise.

by Anonymousreply 554July 4, 2021 5:22 PM

"Excuse me... do you have any sweaters that are in pretty colors that basically announce 'I'm sexless'?"

by Anonymousreply 555July 4, 2021 5:22 PM

While away on his mission, David's dad would send him long, ALL CAPS emails - they were so long that David had to print them out on his weekly visit to the internet cafe because he could not read them in the alotted time at the cafe. David wrestled with the idea of showing them to his mission leader. After reading them the mission leader said that they were abusive emails. He spent 40 minutes going through them with David.

My point on divided loyalties relates to the idea of David just up and embracing his sexuality when a Mormon leader helped him recognize the abusive relationship he had with his father. David put distance between himself and his father. But where does he go for guidance, support, affirmation now? Unsurprisingly, it would seem: The Church.

by Anonymousreply 556July 4, 2021 5:26 PM

There are still internet cafes?

by Anonymousreply 557July 4, 2021 5:28 PM

In a twist worthy of a telenovela, David's grandmother abandoned David's father and his sibling when they were kids/teens. She died at 40/41 after pursuing a career as a singer (!) while struggling with mental health. David's grandfather wouldn't even elaborate on what those mental health issues were.

by Anonymousreply 558July 4, 2021 5:28 PM

*siblings

by Anonymousreply 559July 4, 2021 5:29 PM

[Quote] There are still internet cafes?

It was Chile. Or Chil-eh, as David says.

by Anonymousreply 560July 4, 2021 5:29 PM

R556 - Or he could be an adult and stand on his own two feet and lean on friends or other support.

You have to let go of the parent titty at some point. He's not the only person to grow up and be distanced from his parents and his church - hell, that describes over half of gay men.

Sorry but he seems like a whiney little bitch.

by Anonymousreply 561July 4, 2021 5:30 PM

[Quote] Or he could be an adult and stand on his own two feet and lean on friends or other support.

He's open about his difficulty with interpersonal relationships - that David's own insecurities/demons would come out. His father told him he was stupid, and unable to think without help, from when David was a child. You're being obtuse if you don't see how a lifeline provided by a Mormon elder might negatively affect David's ability to embrace his sexuality.

by Anonymousreply 562July 4, 2021 5:32 PM

[Quote] You have to let go of the parent titty at some point. He's not the only person to grow up and be distanced from his parents and his church - hell, that describes over half of gay men.

Yes but the point is that the church gave him support when he was alone and at his lowest. That's not true of all gay men, who have historically been more likely to hear fire and brimstone and little else from churches.

by Anonymousreply 563July 4, 2021 5:34 PM

David makes a crack that he fired his father three times despite never having hired his father. His father also held David's website domain hostage as the father owned it. Whoo-boy. There's some comedy in this story.

by Anonymousreply 564July 4, 2021 5:36 PM

David is a sweet man-child. He's actually been terribly and systematically brainwashed and abused in my opinion. By his FAMILY. Better to lean on the church than bathhouses, meth and gloryholes. The gay community is not as welcoming as R561 remembers it. I suspect that poster was run out of town for lisping and walking funny, sometime back in 1972.

by Anonymousreply 565July 4, 2021 5:40 PM

This thread is weird

by Anonymousreply 566July 4, 2021 5:55 PM

His father is a nightmare, even if he wasn't a mormon he would have issues with his self esteem

by Anonymousreply 567July 4, 2021 6:49 PM

[quote] his confusion is only because of his membership in a CULT.

All religions are cults.

by Anonymousreply 568July 4, 2021 7:06 PM

Some religions are much more cult-like than others.

by Anonymousreply 569July 4, 2021 7:31 PM

I'm pretty sure it'll help if you tell a religious person that their religion of choice is stupid . It's not like David can just unchoose his believe system.

by Anonymousreply 570July 5, 2021 12:41 AM

David needs the angel Moroni to appear and to tell David to find a real church.

by Anonymousreply 571July 5, 2021 2:07 AM

Elder McKinley has some sage advice for David:

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by Anonymousreply 572July 5, 2021 3:35 AM

Some good discussions in this thread. Seeing as David is still performing with the Mormon choir as of yesterday, I'd say that a few of you were right about him being the mouthpiece of the church. This is all an agenda for them to cover up their homophobia and try to claim they're a "woke" church. Meanwhile, this grown man can never get married to a man or have a family as long as he's a member of the cult. I don't buy a word out of his mouth about liking women, he would have been married to one by now. Mormons move fast.

by Anonymousreply 573July 5, 2021 4:07 PM

What’s the status of his bussy today? Still unprobed?

by Anonymousreply 574July 5, 2021 4:10 PM

[R574] Unprobed and unspread. The hole has never seen sunlight.

by Anonymousreply 575July 5, 2021 9:15 PM

[Quote] I don't buy a word out of his mouth about liking women, he would have been married to one by now.

I give him some credit for holding off thus far.

by Anonymousreply 576July 5, 2021 9:42 PM

[R576] Same here. It's kind of shocking to see a devout Mormon man/celebrity who isn't married yet at his age. Rumor is, he's a shit boyfriend to the women that the church's singles ward sets him up with. He kind of admits to it by saying he was checking out guys while with his girlfriend.

by Anonymousreply 577July 5, 2021 10:00 PM

What do we think of David's brother?

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by Anonymousreply 578July 5, 2021 10:08 PM

I can't believe a thread about a gay American Idol loser actually has 578 comments.

by Anonymousreply 579July 5, 2021 10:09 PM

There were almost no threads about Richard Madden before Brandon Flynn entered the chat. The Data Lounge is another country. We do things differently here.

by Anonymousreply 580July 5, 2021 10:13 PM

R579, there have even been entire threads about his butthole.

by Anonymousreply 581July 5, 2021 10:14 PM

[quote] there have even been entire threads about his butthole.

The ultimate "thread is useless without pictures" threads.

by Anonymousreply 582July 5, 2021 11:13 PM

[quote] He kind of admits to it by saying he was checking out guys while with his girlfriend.

Oh, my. One can only imagine how sad that sight must have been. Some mousy Mormon girl staring across the table from him with stars in her eyes, talking about whatever puerile, saccharine thing Mormons go on about, while David stares at some guy's ass.

by Anonymousreply 583July 5, 2021 11:19 PM

[quote]Mormons move fast.

Brigham Young acknowledged that men would never get married if they had a choice, and he's the one who got the ball rolling on turning singleness into an illness that needed to be cured. That has never gone away and the party line, albeit in much softer language after the Prop 8 backlash, is that any man who is "marriageable" but not married isn't living the religion; is irresponsible and immature, too lazy to support a family, and just all-around defective.

That's how it's gotten to the state where no one bats an eye when a 20-year-old missionary returns home after two years in Madagascar and is getting married a week later and why BYU has so much on-campus housing with 2-3 bedrooms for married undergrads with children.

by Anonymousreply 584July 5, 2021 11:39 PM

Derek Hough is a Mormon. He's 36 years old and has never been married. His sister is 32, divorced and bisexual. Witney and Benji and Lacey and Lindsay are all Mormon and lots of fun and more than gay friendly. Derek is not unmarried because of having yellow skin. He has a girlfriend and shows off a lot of skin. Mormons give us Ballroom Dancing and hot yellow bone ASS guys!!

by Anonymousreply 585July 5, 2021 11:54 PM

[quote] Witney and Benji and Lacey and Lindsay are all Mormon and lots of fun and more than gay friendly.

Benji is also gay and out.

by Anonymousreply 586July 5, 2021 11:55 PM

Benji also left the church

by Anonymousreply 587July 6, 2021 12:07 AM

[quote]Witney and Benji and Lacey and Lindsay are all Mormon...

Houston, Madden, Chabert and Lohan?

by Anonymousreply 588July 6, 2021 3:19 AM

Carson, Schwimmer & Schwimmer and Arnold.

Have some cheesecake Rose.

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by Anonymousreply 589July 6, 2021 3:26 AM

Benji Schwimmer certainly looks different.

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by Anonymousreply 590July 6, 2021 4:41 AM

Witney Carson? Who the fuck?

by Anonymousreply 591July 6, 2021 1:15 PM

"Witney Carson? Who the fuck?"

Pro dancer on DWTS. Here she is dancing with a 17yr old Disney star, Milo Manheim.

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by Anonymousreply 592July 7, 2021 5:47 PM

Thanks for the clarification. DL isn't really a DWTS/frau site.

by Anonymousreply 593July 7, 2021 6:43 PM

Ancient white gay men lusting after a teenage American Idol runner up from 13 years ago - not fraus at all. (◔_◔)

by Anonymousreply 594July 7, 2021 7:11 PM

[quote]DL isn't really a DWTS/frau site.

R593 is typing from 2004.

by Anonymousreply 595July 7, 2021 7:17 PM

[Quote] a teenage American Idol runner up from 13 years ago

AKA a 30 year old. DLers are a strange brand of chicken hawks to be lusting after a 30 year old.

by Anonymousreply 596July 7, 2021 7:18 PM

^(◔_◔)(◔_◔)(◔_◔)(◔_◔)^

Archuleta had just turned 17 when your unhealthy obsession began.

by Anonymousreply 597July 7, 2021 7:21 PM

How do you know they weren't also 17 when the obsession began?

by Anonymousreply 598July 7, 2021 7:23 PM

[Quote] Archuleta had just turned 17 when your unhealthy obsession began.

Assuming someone did have an unhealthy obsessions, has it become a healthy obsession know that Archie has reached Logan's Run age?

by Anonymousreply 599July 7, 2021 7:26 PM

Assuming someone did have an unhealthy obsession, has it become a healthy obsession now that Archie has reached Logan's Run age?

by Anonymousreply 600July 7, 2021 7:27 PM
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