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Where were you when sex became deviant

My first visit to a bathhouse when I was 20 and have been a fan since. The first time I ever did poppers, got rimmed, watched fisting, fisted, participated in a threesome and foursome, etc,, got fucked in a sling, use a glory hole— all in bathhouses

by Anonymousreply 89Last Monday at 6:29 AM

I first tried meth at a lawyer’s apartment. It was also the first time I became a real bottom. I was getting bored with sex so decided to try meth and getting fucked was finally fun.

That was a wild year but then I stopped cold Turkey because I knew where it could have headed.

by Anonymousreply 106/06/2021

The moment the most gorgeous man I’ve ever seen with the most gorgeous body I’ve ever seen asked my to pee in his mouth.

I obliged

by Anonymousreply 206/06/2021

I'll let you know when it happens.

by Anonymousreply 306/06/2021

A sleazy hotel with a drugged out trucker

by Anonymousreply 406/06/2021

Getting double fucked for the first time but a sexy couple.

They were both so hot, and I was so turned on, that it sort of happened unexpectedly. It was amazing

by Anonymousreply 506/06/2021

I went for a hookup and he had a sex room, fitted with a sling and a shelf with dildoes.

Never having tried any of those and feeling adventurous, I thought “Let’s go for it!”

by Anonymousreply 606/06/2021

Met an older guy who wanted to fist me. I let him. Not my thing but at least I tried it

by Anonymousreply 706/06/2021

The first time I got fucked was so interesting and fun that I wanted to explore it more. That weekend I went to a bathhouse and got fucked by 10 guys— all very different—older, younger, hairy, smooth, thin, chunky, huge dicks, standard dicks,

I felt so sexy

by Anonymousreply 806/06/2021

I innocently went to a gay party and morphed into an orgy

by Anonymousreply 906/06/2021

That morphed

by Anonymousreply 1006/06/2021

I grew up in a small town, so I didn’t engage in real sexual debauchery until I was in my mid twenties. A fuck buddy took me to an orgy and it was the first time I experimented with women. There were a lot of hot bi men there with their wives and gfs. Eating some pussy was worth getting to fuck their husbands.

by Anonymousreply 1106/06/2021

I met a fun couple at a bar. They invited me over to their apartment for a party the next Sat.

I brought wine.

Turned out it was a sex party. My first.

by Anonymousreply 1206/06/2021

Discovering Berlin sex clubs. Lab.oratory. Hustlaball. I instantly felt at home and it was my kinda place. Hot action going on everywhere. Joining in. Being the centre of attention. Great times.

by Anonymousreply 1306/06/2021

I was with OP's husband. He was talking about his wife-cow and how cold and frigid she has been their entire marriage. Her right-wing religious obsessions had caused their daughter's trichotillomania. He looked out my bedroom window and saw that his wife had followed him there. She was parked waiting on him. He asked me to turn on the light and fuck him in front of the window. I did.

by Anonymousreply 1406/06/2021

Gawd, you're a nasty piece of work OP. Guess you don't give a shit about living a long (or even a short) life.

by Anonymousreply 1506/06/2021

When I gave my dad a blowjob at 16.

by Anonymousreply 1606/06/2021

R11 Fucking die and fuck off back to your bi orgies and eating females cunts. You aren't welcome here, you never will be welcome here, fucking die! Get off our gay website! You aren't gay!!! Reminisce about your bi fuckery in a bi fuckery website you fish fucking sociopath.

by Anonymousreply 1706/06/2021

R17 you’re the sociopath. Damn. You have sucked some pussy but you sound like you suck at life.

by Anonymousreply 1806/06/2021

Bath houses are pretty under-rated and awesome, and I don't understand how prudes condemn them while at the same time waiting with their ass in the air for a stranger from Grindr to walk into their own house. The tubs are safe, clean and no one has ever been murdered in one.

by Anonymousreply 1906/06/2021


by Anonymousreply 2006/06/2021

R20 calm down. Do you want Tina to bring you the ax?

by Anonymousreply 2106/06/2021

If I seen R18 in real life, I'll have my own axe ready.

by Anonymousreply 2206/06/2021

R22 axe is body wash.

by Anonymousreply 2306/06/2021

R23 it's also a weapon.

by Anonymousreply 2406/06/2021

[quote]R19 Bath houses are pretty under-rated and awesome, and I don't understand how prudes condemn them

I wouldn’t say I “condemn” them, they just sound skeevy and desperate to me. So does sex in a public washroom.

Maybe (maybe!) no one’s been murdered in a bath house... but has anyone been proposed to in one?

by Anonymousreply 2506/06/2021

R24 the body wash is a weapon?

by Anonymousreply 2606/06/2021

Sex in a bath house legal, unlike a public toilet. Going to the tubs is a sign of horniness not desperation. To each is own. I wouldn't defile my home bringing in a potential axe-murderer from a hook up app.

by Anonymousreply 2706/06/2021

I learned the truth at seventeen

That fisting was just for bathhouse queens...

by Anonymousreply 2806/06/2021

On my knees in a bushy overgrown area of the LA River at 15.

by Anonymousreply 2906/06/2021

R26 no! I'm talking about a psychical axe that cuts wood etc. Not the body wash!

by Anonymousreply 3006/07/2021

I lost my anal virginity at age 21 to a 45 year old. He was sexy and kind so we became fuck buddies for a while. One night, we were having sex when his phone rang. I kept sucking him as he talked to his friend. He got pretty graphic describing exactly what I was doing to him as he was chatting.

Then he asks me: “My friend wants to come over and fuck you.” Horny youngster that I was, I immediately said yes! The guy came over—he had a much thicker cock than my FB, was hairy all over, and was an amazing kisser. He fucked in every position while my FB watched and jerked off in the corner.

That moment so was hot it is still etched in my mind two decades later. Plus, the new guy immediately became what I look for in my other hookups—hairy, passionate, thick cock.

by Anonymousreply 3106/07/2021

Letting a guy suck me off under the bathroom stall in a college bathroom.

Letting a male nurse suck me off in a hospital bathroom.

Letting a much younger guy suck me off in a hotel Gym bathroom when I was visiting San Diego

by Anonymousreply 3206/07/2021

As a college sophomore, I coerced my freshman roommate to blow me and then, proceeded to push head down during ejaculation. I felt awful about it after, coupled with the internalized homophobia at that time, but we persisted in the same fashion for rest of school year.

by Anonymousreply 3306/07/2021

During the summer after graduating from high school, I would go downtown and check out the porn stores with their video booths. It was there that I learned to enjoy the seedy possibilities, I got sucked off the first time by a hunky black guy, I tried to suck him but his cock was just too big. He left the booth after I was done with a “God bless you!” Isn’t that sweet?

I would buy the discounted gay magazines (3 old issues for $10, I think). That’s where I first read about bathhouses, and I got so curious. When I read there was one in my city, I made sure to check it out.

I loved that I could get naked, have sex with tons of guys, all while feeling safe. And man, did I get a sexual education there! For the rest of the summer, I would tell my parents that I was going out with friends, when I was in actuality fucking and sucking hot guys at the baths.

by Anonymousreply 3406/07/2021

The first time I tried a Viagra for fun.

I scheduled three hook ups in one afternoon. I fucked and came three times in about two hours. I could have kept going if I wanted

by Anonymousreply 3506/07/2021

When I went to a hookup’s house and he had his computer set to some zoom channels that showed about 9 different guys jerking off while watching each other online.

After some hesitation, I decided to join the fun. The camera just showed my body and not my face, while my hot hookup pounded the hell out of me on cam

by Anonymousreply 3606/07/2021

The time I walked into a gym steamroom in Chelsea in the 90s, hoping for sex, and found close to 16 guys jammed in the steamroom sucking and jerking. I eagerly joined in. Nacreous layers of permacum on the floor ensued.

by Anonymousreply 3706/07/2021

[quote] Gawd, you're a nasty piece of work OP. Guess you don't give a shit about living a long (or even a short) life.

Considering bath houses are now filled with the elderly, these bathhousers seem to be living quite a long time.

by Anonymousreply 3806/07/2021

OP - I have news for you-


by Anonymousreply 3906/07/2021


Oh, I know, and life has been fun!

by Anonymousreply 4006/07/2021

A guy came in my ass, felched it out, and then snowballed it into my mouth.

I thought “WTF is happening?!”

by Anonymousreply 4106/07/2021

When I started PrEP, I let an HIV+ man (undetectable) cum in me. It was so hot and nasty

by Anonymousreply 4206/07/2021

I remember the moment I moaned “fuck me harder!” the first time. On the roof of an apartment building at 3 in the morning with a hookup.

by Anonymousreply 4306/07/2021

When I was 13, I was with my family shopping at a JCPenney and had to poop. That’s where I saw my first glory hole and lots of graffiti. I popped a boner reading all the solicitations. I think I even forgot to poop. Somebody sat in the stall next to me and started masturbating. I practically ran out of there. But I couldn’t stop thinking about it.

by Anonymousreply 4406/07/2021

F&F Boris the Homophobe OP defaming gay sex as “deviant,” trying to paint us all as depraved perverts who do the same thing.


by Anonymousreply 4506/07/2021

Gay sex is not “deviant.”

The incel OP is deviant for constantly trying to demonize sex, a perfectly natural and inevitable thing for normal people who aren’t psychotic losers like him.

by Anonymousreply 4606/07/2021

I love bisexuals and straight people. I welcome R11 and as many straight or bi experiences anyone wants to share.

It’s fun to compare and learn the variety of human sexualities.

Bravo, r11!

by Anonymousreply 4706/07/2021

OP = GGG right?

by Anonymousreply 4806/07/2021

R20 is the narcissistic, unhinged psycho who presumes to speak for all Dataloungers and this website.

Speak for yourself, Cybill.

by Anonymousreply 4906/07/2021

And you, r30 should be banned and “GET THE FUCK OFF OF THIS SITE!!!!” for issuing death threats.


by Anonymousreply 5006/07/2021

R50 death threats are justified when killing bisexual sociopaths. We need less, or none of them.

by Anonymousreply 5106/07/2021

R47 R49 if you welcome BTQ+ on a GAY WEBSITE then it's no longer a GAY WEBSITE. I'm sick and tired of BTQ+ on EVERY. FUCKING. GAY SPACE.! Those of you who claim to be gay and support and encourage all things BTQ+ with the straight and bisexual porn stories etc posted here; are the EXACT reason why we have no REAL Gay community or Gay anything when it comes to LITERALLY everything! I'm the very few actual authentic gay people left who will not go along with BTQ+ and you fucking retard BTQ+ supporters who claim to be "gay"


by Anonymousreply 5206/07/2021

(R52). Geez, settle down, Mary!

by Anonymousreply 5306/07/2021

I had a pretty vanilla sex life until I was 31,when I picked up an incredibly hot handsome guy in the Starbuck's housed two floors below my apartment. He came up to my bedroom, and took his clothes off, and literally presented hole--he had a beautiful body, but that ass was so round and perfect I rimmed him even though I had never really thought of doing it before, and it was so luscious and squeaky clean that it was like i had been transported to heaven. The sex after that was fine, but that first experience with rimming (since I had never really thought before of doing it) just blew my mind--and I wasn't even the one getting rimmed!

by Anonymousreply 5406/07/2021

Hello, I'm afraid r52 is one of our patients who somehow managed to wander beyond our grounds.

Our orderlies will have him pacified for his own safety and returned in a jiffy. Please do go about your business.

by Anonymousreply 5506/07/2021

R11, listen asshole you preach that pansexual bullshit somewhere else. You're a fucking deviant alright. Trying to convert from gay to bi?? You're fucking loser.

by Anonymousreply 5606/07/2021

R50, if you had any balls you'd FF the bisexual pollution people post on her you fucker.

by Anonymousreply 5706/07/2021

R47, no bitch this is not fucking PENTHOUSE/FORUM, take that NON-GAY shit elsewhere. Enough of BTQ hijacking every fucking thing.

by Anonymousreply 5806/07/2021

Human sex is always normal for me. End of.

by Anonymousreply 5906/07/2021

The bi-hating freak in here sure is a whining little bitch. You really don't have any clue how pathetic you sound, huh? The guy you're spazzing over isn't even bi, he ate some pussy ONE TIME purely for the opportunity to fuck some hot married guys, which is hilarious and commendable. You'd probably do the same but I doubt any woman would be interested in you. Please see a therapist.

by Anonymousreply 6006/07/2021

R60 a "gay man" who ate pussy so that he could fuck the husband's of the females he ate out, is the definition of self loathing and the exact type who should be in therapy you FUCKING BI IDIOT!

I would never need or want to eat out the vaginas of females in order to get their boyfriend's or husband's, because I'm not a fucking pathetic bisexual coward Iike him or yourself. The audacity to come here to a GAY WEBSITE and lecture me and tell me that I must be okay with bi porn and straight porn content posted here, is the EXACT definition of a narcissist.

GET THE FUCK OFF OUR GAY WEBSITE YOU NARCISSISTIC BI TRASH! Most actual gay men will always hate YOU bi fuckers because you are the most fucked up parasites to ever exist, and you leech onto gay spaces and gay identity like the sociopathic cowards you always were and always will be. I wish you badness and I wish you death, and I will never apologise or stop hating you bi scum because you don't deserve to be allowed into the gay spaces or the lives of actual gay people. Your kind have a reputation that always proceeds itself, and again, ALL OF YOU BI FUCKERS ON DATALOUNGE, FUCKING GO BACK TO YOUR FUCKED UP BI ILK.

by Anonymousreply 6106/08/2021

I was a waifish top. I had to bottom a lot as a twink. I've paid my dues, my friends

by Anonymousreply 6206/08/2021

It's hasn't gotten deviant for me yet sadly, and I've tried. I've never had more than a single load in me, it's like a curse. Even in threesomes I invariably miss a load for one reason or another.

by Anonymousreply 6306/08/2021

Lots of people on this thread (or is it just 2) need psych meds. More hot stories please

by Anonymousreply 6406/08/2021

AT home

by Anonymousreply 6506/09/2021

My first orgy--I got fucked by 5 guys. There's no going back after that

by Anonymousreply 6606/09/2021


by Anonymousreply 6706/09/2021

This thread brought up some hot memories. I was 14 and staying at my aunt and uncle’s home in the city for a week during summer break. I was bunked up with my older cousin (19) in his room. He was out on a date one night and I happened to look under his bed and saw a huge pile of Penthouse (and other much nastier) magazines. I thought I had died and gone to Heaven! I had never seen a huge cock penetrating the anus of a woman before! Well after the obvious jacking off for the next hour, Greg came home and saw me looking at his mags: he laughed and said “little dude you can look as much as you want.” He then proceeded to get in the twin bed with me and took out his huge (to me anyway) cock and started jacking. He even showed me some techniques for holding off shooting my load when too excited. Looking back I wish he woulda let me suck it!

by Anonymousreply 6806/09/2021

One day my wife french kissed me with a load of my cum in her mouth and I've never looked back

by Anonymousreply 69Last Saturday at 12:18 AM

Agree with the others about the pros of saunas, bath houses, sex clubs. It’s a safe place to hook up, and it’s a shame so many are closing down . They have many advantages. You can go with the flow and move on whenever you want if things aren’t clicking. If something were to go wrong, there are people and staff in proximity. It’s so subjective to view clubs are slutty while hook up apps aren’t? Apps come with risks clubs don’t present. Travelling for sex presents vulnerabilities like you can end up on someone’s hidden cam. Conversely when hosting sex, you lose privacy and can have your place cased for theft. I know a guy who was robbed by a trick who knew he was out of the country by his GPS location on Grindr. If the vibe isn’t right, you literally have to tell the stranger to get out of your house…and now they know where you live. It’s crazy and dangerous when you think about it.

by Anonymousreply 70Last Saturday at 12:40 AM

These experiences make me worth living for!

by Anonymousreply 71Last Saturday at 1:04 AM

Wasn’t it Freud who said that the only deviant sexuality was the total absence of sexual behaviour?

Which would make me the only deviant on this hellsite.

by Anonymousreply 72Last Saturday at 1:16 AM

Uh, not the only one, R72.

by Anonymousreply 73Last Saturday at 1:41 AM

At a bath in Paris I fucked a transman, hot hairy chest and a pussy, great fuck.

by Anonymousreply 74Last Saturday at 1:42 AM

R74, well done - if you thought the bisexual-hater was crazy before now, just wait till he reads your post!

by Anonymousreply 75Last Saturday at 1:50 AM

R29 needs to cradle a coffee mug.

by Anonymousreply 76Last Saturday at 4:07 AM

R70 I do think that sex clubs will come back again, but Covid secure ones, with better ventilation or possibly outdoors.

I think insurance will be an issue for some, given that patrons may sue if they believe they contracted Covid on site.

by Anonymousreply 77Last Saturday at 4:13 AM

I remember I was at a cocktail party at my parent's house in Palm Springs...

Oh, they're very open minded and all the furniture was Scotch-guarded

by Anonymousreply 78Last Saturday at 4:43 AM

I was a young pool boy at a hotel in Miami

when a middle-aged woman told me she'd pay me to go to her room and fuck her big hairy pussy...

but I had to let her husband watch and join in...

I was kinda freaked out as you can imagine

by Anonymousreply 79Last Saturday at 5:00 AM

Folsom Street Fair in San Francisco……..i knew I had found Gay Mecca

by Anonymousreply 80Last Saturday at 5:08 AM

In college, I went to a friend’s pool party. I saw a guy across the pool and he saw me. We both, without saying a word, walked into the (huge) house, found a room, and started sucking each other.

It was amazing!

by Anonymousreply 81Last Saturday at 5:31 AM

Serious question—-HOW have you all survived this long? The Gods must really love and protect the gay community.

by Anonymousreply 82Last Saturday at 8:08 AM

My sex became deviant when I discovered the pleasures of my asshole….around 13 yrs old…..masturbation become intensely pleasurable from that point forward..never looked back

by Anonymousreply 83Last Saturday at 9:13 AM

R82, your paranoia is showing. Sex is not a deadly pastime.

by Anonymousreply 84Last Saturday at 9:25 AM

A tent. With cousins.

by Anonymousreply 85Last Saturday at 9:27 AM

More hot bi stories, please!

by Anonymousreply 86Last Sunday at 6:01 PM

When I returned to Arkansas and realized Hil…, I mean a law school classmate, followed me home.

by Anonymousreply 87Last Sunday at 6:44 PM

When I discovered my first ‘glory hole’

by Anonymousreply 88Last Monday at 6:24 AM


well…a cocaine addict might come to that conclusion

by Anonymousreply 89Last Monday at 6:29 AM
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