Is Scruff the best gay dating app/site for a man with a hairy ass to get a boyfriend/dick?

Forgot to mention I’m 28

R1: AND BORING, WALTER!!!! Absolutely BORING!!!!!!!

Purr, purr Francine.

And most of us would say that you probably have Extraordinary Sensitivity to Talcum.

You sound wonderful.

Sure, use Scruff.

I predict you'll be in love and married by Friday.

The social anxiety and the erectile dysfunction is a bigger issue than the hairy ass, no matter what app you intent to use.

You kind of buried the lede there with your thread title, OP.

You don't mention the state your body is in but considering you are a recluse I suspect you're not in great shape, so that would be the first thing I'd try and address - I realise that's easier said than done if you have depression and therefore don't have the motivation to exercise, but the exercise itself and improving your body could actually really help with the depression and self-esteem issues.

Start slow, you can do some at-home workouts - there's loads of YouTube videos for this, especially over the past year when a lot of people were without gyms. I recommend Conor Sloan ('Train like a warrior') but as a complete beginner you will find the workouts REALLY hard so just do what you can and keep at it. Has the added motivation that he's quite hot to look at.

As far as the social anxiety goes, I don't have much advice on that - I'm not the most social person, but if you can interact with people online and then build up enough of a rapport with them to start chatting on the phone and then potentially meeting, you will hopefully start to improve in this - again, baby steps - start small and build up gradually.

For your dick - not quite sure what the injury you gave yourself was but if it needs surgery, get surgery! If it's more of a psychological thing with the erectile dysfunction, order some Viagra or equivalent online and give yourself a low dose (a small piece of a tablet) until you build your confidence back.

With Scruff or any app really I wouldn't recommend them if your current self esteem isn't great because guys can be brutal and if you aren't pretty secure in yourself it could actually set you back. You have to be prepared for guys to ignore you, to insult you, to ask for a pic and then say that you aren't their type (or phrase it even less politely) so unless you're ready for that, I'd concentrate on some self-improvement first. Of course, it could have the opposite effect as you'll see that there are guys out there who want to fuck/date you and it can be a big boost to your self-esteem, only you can gauge whether you're ready.

Good luck!

Take it slow OP. Also follow what R6 said

Yes, definitely.

I'm starting to think the old bitches are dying off and the nice bros are ageing out of reddit.

I'm a bodybuilder who refuses to modify my big bush. I am looking for same. Can I find him on this app?

Yeah, OP - I have (fairly) healthy self-esteem and I still get beat down and left completely dispirited if I use them too much for too long. Those apps are fucking BRUTAL. Guys are super, super mean. ******Sooooo...I'd actually do a search on Reddit or someplace for advice on staying sane whilst using Scruff/Grindr before actually going on.******** I take breaks and delete the apps fairly regularly...or else I'd probably wind up hanging myself from all those douchebags.

This is another thread by the same guy with the broken cock?

Hairy assholes mean you can't fuck as long.