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Men like sex, Women don’t

When are women going to quit trying to break men into a mold they don’t fit.

by Anonymousreply 186November 9, 2022 11:42 AM

You're an idiot, OP.

by Anonymousreply 1May 26, 2021 1:39 AM

Ben? Mr. Shapiro? Is your wife’s cooter a mysteriously arid wasteland? Do you look like a child molester in most photos?

by Anonymousreply 2May 26, 2021 1:40 AM

Women like straight men who know how to have good sex. Not that many out there.

by Anonymousreply 3May 26, 2021 1:41 AM

Its been my observation that when women have babies it must change their sex drive. If I had a nickle for every straight guy I know who said the old lady quit fucking after kids Id buy a private island.

by Anonymousreply 4May 26, 2021 1:41 AM

After a while, sex is too much trouble with anyone.

by Anonymousreply 5May 26, 2021 1:56 AM

Women like sex, they just don't like the way men want to have it - to satisfy themselves

And, NO, OP, they are not going to have sex with you anyway.

by Anonymousreply 6May 26, 2021 2:00 AM

R6 no one wants your stinkfish, Stinkfish.

by Anonymousreply 7May 26, 2021 2:05 AM

Meds, meds, meds, R7. It can't be that bad.

by Anonymousreply 8May 26, 2021 2:06 AM

OP, women don’t generally care for small dicks either. You can make up generalizations, but that pencil rolling from side to side in a hallway doesn’t usually cut it. Date tinier women.

by Anonymousreply 9May 26, 2021 2:10 AM

R4 I think you’re right. All the wives of my str8 friends lost interest in sex after having a couple kids.

by Anonymousreply 10May 26, 2021 2:12 AM

R8 it’s okay, darling, Daddy’s probably dead and can’t fuck you anymore, but feel free to come here to project your bullshit on to gay men.

by Anonymousreply 11May 26, 2021 2:12 AM

R10 is it after the first one or after 2 or 3?

by Anonymousreply 12May 26, 2021 2:12 AM

Does R9 think she’s on a straight site and anyone here wants her sloppy cunt?

by Anonymousreply 13May 26, 2021 2:14 AM

Yawn

by Anonymousreply 14May 26, 2021 2:39 AM

I like sex. That’s why I’m a lesbian.

by Anonymousreply 15May 26, 2021 2:43 AM

It’s good thing the majority of users on this site don’t have to deal with that problem!

by Anonymousreply 16May 26, 2021 3:17 AM

God bless you, r15

by Anonymousreply 17May 26, 2021 3:25 AM

[quote]I think you’re right. All the wives of my str8 friends lost interest in sex after having a couple kids.

How many of your str8 friends did 100% of the kid duty while the wife went out to work? I'd be interested to know who was interested in sex and who wasn't then.

by Anonymousreply 18May 26, 2021 3:26 AM

Many straight men don't bother to educate themselves about women's bodies. As a result, in straight sex, it can take women 20 minutes to reach orgasm. 20 minutes of work for a ten-second reward? That's not a very good return on investment.

It seems like a design flaw that a woman can take 20 minutes, but a man needs only a minute or two.

by Anonymousreply 19May 26, 2021 3:30 AM

Women certainly hate sucking cock.

by Anonymousreply 20May 26, 2021 3:38 AM

r19 Not to be crude, but I bought my wife vibrators about 3 years in. Foreplay, Warms up, then does her business on top. Sometimes finishes off with toy. Then sucks my toes until I'm done, and does other stuff after that. Don't ask. We are in late 40's. Not sure how long we can keep it up, frequency dipping and menopausal stuff. Twice a day, to once a day, to 5 times a week, to 2 times a week. Not enough, but I'm not gonna beg. Major turnoff when sex is a chore.

r20 It's foreplay, you don't have to love it. Allowing partners to skip important parts of sex seems ridiculous. She at least pretends to like it, for the preparatory part. She's not begging me to let her suck my cock. No. As a younger guy, I knew girls that did seem to like the attention that went along with performing oral, WITHOUT the serious stuff involved with penetration. It was like kissing to them.

by Anonymousreply 21May 26, 2021 3:48 AM

The One That Became About Lesbian Bed Death

by Anonymousreply 22May 26, 2021 3:54 AM

Women use sex as leverage and it always backfires. It is a cruel joke for straight men though. Married women do tend to lose interest in sex or it's more a chore after they have kids. It seems to happen to every couple I know. The husband still is very horny and the wives believe they are totally faithful.

by Anonymousreply 23May 26, 2021 3:58 AM

You are correct OP. Women pretend to like sex like they pretend to like sports. To please their men. Or to emulate them.

by Anonymousreply 24May 26, 2021 8:53 AM

Everything flows from picking the right person and everyone generally picks WRONG.

Most M2M couples aint married so they can (and do) get out of relationships easier.

Hetero or Homo, pick the right person and "liking" sex won't be a concern.

by Anonymousreply 25May 26, 2021 8:55 AM

I don't get all this but would say.... once a woman has had a baby, her world and thought processes must change surely? Men just carry on blindly...grizzling to their mates about lack of sex etc etc

by Anonymousreply 26May 26, 2021 9:46 AM

OP congrats on writing the most idiotic post I've seen so far this week.

by Anonymousreply 27May 26, 2021 9:48 AM

Women gets kids snd that's what most of them want. Why would they need men around pestering them for marital copulation anyway?

by Anonymousreply 28May 26, 2021 9:49 AM

Women have sex with men TO GET PREGNANT.

And why are there so many threads like this in a gay forum?

by Anonymousreply 29May 26, 2021 12:42 PM

R29 because they keep the “straight” dick from us

by Anonymousreply 30May 26, 2021 12:48 PM

It's such a stupid male supremacist idea that only men like sex and women hate it and just tolerate it.

by Anonymousreply 31May 26, 2021 12:51 PM

Even if you're right, OP, life has a way of grinding everyone down at some point. I've read tons of stories here and on other forums where gay men in relationships have differing sex drives after years in that relationship. Dead bedrooms happen. Don't think bypassing women will make you immune to the ravages of time.

by Anonymousreply 32May 26, 2021 12:54 PM

Women are only interested in sex with the alpha of the pack, not their beta boyfriends/husbands.

by Anonymousreply 33May 26, 2021 12:59 PM

blame the political lesbians like sheila jeffreys "unpacking queer politics" which the primer for how/why most young feminists and lgbt are the new puritans with this anti pride shit that's been trending

by Anonymousreply 34May 26, 2021 1:00 PM

r33

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by Anonymousreply 35May 26, 2021 1:02 PM

They pretend to like sex to please men, the same way they pretend to like sports, politics and anything else their man likes. Sometimes they use it as a weapon to get what they want, This won’t work on the younger generation of men though.

by Anonymousreply 36May 26, 2021 1:12 PM

Men think about sex in superficial ways, for women it is much more meaningful and intimate. Gay men especially have so many sex partners because it's more of an itch to scratch... it's a completely different mindset.

by Anonymousreply 37May 26, 2021 1:23 PM

I agree. I’ve never met a woman who loves sex anywhere near as much as my gay friends. I’m a gay liberal whose always been surrounded by liberal woman and nope I’ve never met a real life Samantha. But I did know lots of sex workers, anti-monogamy type, women who spoke freely and without shame about sex, independent women who weren’t dependent on men. But not a single one was as sex crazed as my male friends.

by Anonymousreply 38May 26, 2021 1:31 PM

r37 ah, yes, women are the madonnas, men are the whores. become a trans today, renounce your toxic masculinity and homo patriarchy

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by Anonymousreply 39May 26, 2021 1:33 PM

When a woman needs orgasm like an "itch to scratch," she does it herself in 30 seconds. That's why sex with men must include intimacy. Orgasms, or the way he thinks women orgasm, doesn't usually work.

by Anonymousreply 40May 26, 2021 1:41 PM

r40 apparently most women are clueless not only about men but themselves, so they eat, pray, love taking selfies of their overinflated sense of self worth, believing they are superior in every way. hence, why for decades women magazines and clinics still educate fully grown, aging fraus on what a clit is. fashion, fad dieting, oh, the horrors of the gaytriarchy

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by Anonymousreply 41May 26, 2021 1:45 PM

r41

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by Anonymousreply 42May 26, 2021 1:47 PM

Women like sex but they don’t have the overwhelming need for it that men do.

That’s why hookers for straight women are simply not a thing.

by Anonymousreply 43May 26, 2021 1:48 PM

[quote]It's such a stupid male supremacist idea that only men like sex and women hate it and just tolerate it.

But the idea probably persists for the good reason that women hate sex with male supremacists. Anyone with that mindset is by definition bad at having sex with women.

by Anonymousreply 44May 26, 2021 2:24 PM

Women like sex as much as men. The problem is a lot of straight guys are shit in bed.

by Anonymousreply 45May 26, 2021 4:01 PM

This thread confirms that Fraus and Angry Dykes have taken over the board

by Anonymousreply 46May 26, 2021 4:14 PM

Oh those humorless gay men types!

by Anonymousreply 47May 26, 2021 4:30 PM

Here's the problem as I've been told by multiple women. Women work 8 hours, come home and are expected to cook, clean, do laundry, help with homework while hubby comes home and sits on the sofa and still expects porn sex. Women are exhausted. A few lucky ones might have men who help out. As a result selfish, overgrown toddlers find themselves with angry, resentful wives.

by Anonymousreply 48May 26, 2021 4:32 PM

r46 the reason why political lesbians hate gays so much is they have no input. they're offended at anything that doesn't include them while always screaming for their own safe spaces.

by Anonymousreply 49May 26, 2021 4:33 PM

r48 what nation these women live in?

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by Anonymousreply 50May 26, 2021 4:35 PM

[quote]Married women do tend to lose interest in sex or it's more a chore after they have kids. It seems to happen to every couple I know.

I've had women tell me they regained their sex drive after menopause and the kids leaving home but by that time, hubby's lost the drive or ability.

by Anonymousreply 51May 26, 2021 4:44 PM

One lady I know said her husband greeted her at the door one night with a bow on his dick like it was a present. She'd been at work all day, he was off and the house was a mess. She said she would have been thrilled to come home to a clean house, not the same dick she saw every day.

by Anonymousreply 52May 26, 2021 4:48 PM

OP is Stephen Fry

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by Anonymousreply 53May 26, 2021 4:52 PM

My sister in her fifties said most guys her age have major problems with EDS. She said it's not worth it to get all horny then have to deal with performance issues. Women just get the 🐇 now.

by Anonymousreply 54May 26, 2021 4:54 PM

Are you really this stupid OP?

by Anonymousreply 55May 26, 2021 5:06 PM

Women lose their interest in sex much sooner than men. Insisting otherwise is willful ignorance or wishful thinking. Ask any women who's been married for 10plus years. Except Suzanne Somers, of course.

by Anonymousreply 56May 26, 2021 6:03 PM

Always fun when lots of gay man comment on what women like and don't

by Anonymousreply 57May 26, 2021 6:08 PM

OP, you're judgment is clouded because straight men are masc tops by default, so you see straight women as being ungrateful for the attention you're not getting.

In reality, if you had to put up with three minutes of what the average straight man calls sex after working a full time job and then overloaded with all the domestic and childcare responsibilities, you'd soon lose interest.

by Anonymousreply 58May 26, 2021 6:29 PM

Who fucking cares here about women and sex? This is a GAY message board.

by Anonymousreply 59May 26, 2021 6:31 PM

Men have no clue. That’s why I love being les.

by Anonymousreply 60May 26, 2021 6:40 PM

R58, only self loathing gays see straight men as masc tops. Any gay men that’s spent enough time with straight men knows that’s furthest thing from the truth.

Most Straight men are disgusting and suck at everything. As a gay man, I feel my odds of finding a great gay men within the 5% of the male population are still better than a straight woman finding a great straight man.

Still, women don’t generally like sex as much as males. Makes like the anonymity. Women don’t. Even the super sex positives ones aren’t gonna go to the unnecessary extremes men do.

by Anonymousreply 61May 26, 2021 6:45 PM

R57 if you don’t like it, get off this site cunt.

by Anonymousreply 62May 26, 2021 7:08 PM

Yeah, why are you here, Cunts?!

by Anonymousreply 63May 26, 2021 8:21 PM

"Its been my observation that when women have babies it must change their sex drive. If I had a nickle for every straight guy I know who said the old lady quit fucking after kids Id buy a private island. "

It happens, but I've seen it happen to dudes too and they can use "wife won't do it" as cover for their low libido and lame sex performance.

There's a ton of people who are no good at sex - gay, straight, male, female. I wonder if part of the rising rates of incels and sexually frustrated people is because of rising "sex inequality." The people who are attractive and sexually confident aren't limited to their local areas anymore - I know they haven't been for a while, but still - it gets easier and easier to find people and hookup. And it's easier for the "A list" sex candidates to find each other and hookup.

by Anonymousreply 64May 26, 2021 8:28 PM

I hated having sex with the only man I've ever been with...However, I loved sex with all the women I've been with.

by Anonymousreply 65May 26, 2021 8:28 PM

there's tons of feminists (albeit, of the radical variety and political lesbians) that decry heterosex is the cause of all evils from climate change to misogyny. though most police lesbian sex too, just as 3rd/4th wave fails to realize, their historical roots still hold these aspects dear, no matter how revised they've become in later editions, so, we see calls to remove gender and sexuality expression from pride.

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by Anonymousreply 66May 26, 2021 9:19 PM

r66

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by Anonymousreply 67May 26, 2021 9:20 PM

The only people who think women hate sex are:

1. hetero men who can't get laid (in that case the problem is with those men because lots of men get laid and the women they're with enjoy it) or

2. homo men who are obsessed with straight men and think women are their competition (in that case, please know that puss and ass aint interchangeable. if you're competing with pussy, you've already lost. He doesn't want you. "Straight" men don't fuck queers).

by Anonymousreply 68May 26, 2021 11:44 PM

R68, #2 = BINGO!

by Anonymousreply 69May 26, 2021 11:56 PM

[quote] It’s good thing the majority of users on this site don’t have to deal with that problem!

I wonder the same thing myself — it’s not as if gay men are the worlds leading authorities on women’s sexuality. These threads are just an opportunity for us to throw all of our anxiety about heterosexuals at straight women like a brick. It’s embarrassing.

by Anonymousreply 70May 27, 2021 12:03 AM

R68 or we just have mommy issues and have deep-seated hate for cunts like you. We’re Gay MRAs who’ve been behind the Roast Beef Curtain and know how deep is the facade.

I personally am not pining away for your Dingleberry Dudes.

by Anonymousreply 71May 27, 2021 1:23 AM

R71, I can tell you are trying to spew hate but other than that I have no idea what you are trying to say. Please work on your sentence structure and grammar. You sound like the village idiot.

by Anonymousreply 72May 27, 2021 1:40 AM

r71

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by Anonymousreply 73May 27, 2021 1:56 AM

R73 This woman is a piece of shit! Why do angry Racist White people always immediately jump to the horrific treatment of Black people to exemplify their grievances? Nothing compares to slavery for 400 years and everything that STILL continues to flow from that! NOTHING!

by Anonymousreply 74May 27, 2021 2:19 AM

R74 let’s talk about Native Americans too

by Anonymousreply 75May 27, 2021 2:50 AM

Liking is not enough. You have to be mindfogged by it. Your dick leads you. You waste time. You waste your talent. You put yourself in danger. You risk your life. You risk your family. You squander fortunes. You go to war. You do stupid things.

That's what sex is for men.

by Anonymousreply 76May 27, 2021 8:42 AM

Maybe I'm unusual that I haven't spent one millisecond of my life before this thread thinking or caring in the least about women's libidos. Doesn't mean I haven't shot a load down a bitch's throat - I have. But as a man, It's all about me.

by Anonymousreply 77May 27, 2021 8:49 AM

R75 I don't see White people clamoring to compare themselves to the plight of Native Americans (although they do like to pretend in Cowboys and Western Movies that Native Americans deserved to die for trying to defend their lend and way of life as White people not only stole from them but tried to destroy them).

But my point is that every time I turn around I hear some "White Victim" trying to pump up whatever their cause of the day is by saying: "This is worse than slavery" or "this deprives me of my civil rights and is worse than what happened to Black people" or "calling me this name or that name is worse than the N word!"

Just stop already! There is no comparison! And that woman at R73 really is a piece of shit to exercise her White Privilege by formulating her lips to downplay the oppression of Black people in order to compare it to her bullshit cause of the day... Men in drag? Really bitch? That offends you? It looks like she could benefit from a make up or style tip from a drag queen! What a dumbass she is!

by Anonymousreply 78May 27, 2021 9:27 AM
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by Anonymousreply 79May 27, 2021 10:01 AM
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by Anonymousreply 80May 27, 2021 10:04 AM

r79

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by Anonymousreply 81May 27, 2021 10:10 AM

It's probably how the sexes are wired by nature. If women were as horny as men they would constantly be pregnant.

That said women know very well how to orgasm by masturbation. What gets a women off just isn't the same as what men like sexually. Maybe that's deliberate too by nature.

by Anonymousreply 82May 27, 2021 10:35 AM

Everyone needs to be held accountable PERIOD. White people need to stop using Black people as scapegoats for their White victimhood (especially as they continue to deny that there is systemic racism).

White folks need to jus keep the words "Black people" outta their mouths unless they are SPECIFICALLY talking about Black people and even then they need to tread carefully because historically, more often than not, they follow those words up by saying something stupid. We can speak for ourselves.

If you're an ally that's great but we don't need you to speak for or about us. You need to be speaking to and about those who (in 2021) are still seeking to oppress us. Tell them about themselves.

Back to the OP, why do gay men care how women feel about sex? That's none of your business. It doesn't concern you. Just be happy that men like having sex. Now find one who wants to have it with YOU!

by Anonymousreply 83May 27, 2021 12:13 PM

[quote]In reality, if you had to put up with three minutes of what the average straight man calls sex after working a full time job and then overloaded with all the domestic and childcare responsibilities, you'd soon lose interest.

Ding ding ding. This is it. Once children enter the picture, the woman's workload increases like crazy and the straight men only make token gestures to help, if that. She's exhausted, weighed down with a shit ton of responsibilities including keeping the new human alive and clean, feeding it from her body every time she turns around, doing most of the household chores as well as keeping track of everything from when Aunt Mary's birthday is to the kids' doctor appointments in addition to her fulltime job. And now her partner is bugging her for unsatisfying sex on top of her hormonal rollercoaster? Yeah right. The straight dudes don't seem to realize that if they'd actually pitch in and help their wives would be much more receptive to sex. Instead they act like an additional child for her to take care of, and wonder why her vagina goes dry at the sight of them.

by Anonymousreply 84May 27, 2021 12:35 PM

[quote]Still, women don’t generally like sex as much as males. Makes like the anonymity. Women don’t. Even the super sex positives ones aren’t gonna go to the unnecessary extremes men do.

From harder-to-detect STIs to violence, sex for women is a much bigger risk than it is for men. Just going on a date is a dangerous proposition - do you know how many women text a friend when they've left for a date, then check in throughout the evening to let them know he didn't kill her and she got home okay? Or look up the effects of recurrent UTIs from some guy's unwashed dick on a woman sometime - we're talking years of agony. It's not about not liking sex. Women can't afford to take the risks men do, no matter how "sex positive" they are. It's just reality. Then when they do have sex, way too often it's lousy and even painful. That understandably affects motivation.

by Anonymousreply 85May 27, 2021 12:51 PM

r83 why do women feel the need to comment on gay men at all?

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by Anonymousreply 86May 27, 2021 1:15 PM

R86, have you read this thread? Gay men feel the need to comment on straight women.

by Anonymousreply 87May 27, 2021 1:23 PM

R65 You know that men are as much at risk of STIs from women as women are from men, right?

But with regards to the risk of violence - that’s true. Margaret Atwood said that (paraphrasing) a man’s biggest fear is that a woman will laugh at him, a woman’s is that he’ll kill her.

by Anonymousreply 88May 27, 2021 1:28 PM

What I don't understand is the mismatch in sex drives. A man would probably like sex 1 or two times per day. At some point does she feel like a prostitute, letting him use her vadge to 'masturbate' with? And why would he want to look down at someone who's just waiting for him to finish and get off- the same old tired broad? Yuck.

Forget marriage. Forget kids. Have sex when you feel like it. And don't have sex when you don't feel like it.

by Anonymousreply 89May 27, 2021 1:31 PM

[quote] You know that men are as much at risk of STIs from women as women are from men, right?

What I'm talking about is at the link. Educate yourself.

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by Anonymousreply 90May 27, 2021 1:41 PM

R24? Where are you getting your information?

Well, I’m a female who likes sports (especially soccer and snooker) and sex (well, good egalitarian sex and/or masturbation). I just don’t fancy being the cumdump for a lot of blokes, which seems to be the sticking point of misunderstanding between women and gay men. Don’t know why that is, maybe to do with social politics and status; most of us just find being used for sex is degrading rather than a turn-on.

R85’s comment is spot-on. Dating and sex is a highly-stressful and dangerous endeavour for women—a minefield, really. We play with our lives every time we go out, even if it’s with the same guy or someone we think we know well.

by Anonymousreply 91May 27, 2021 1:47 PM

Ok, so I'm not gonna give the answer that some are thinking but afraid to say because it aint PC or sensitive but it is the truth. From the time females are born they are told how men are and what their "role" is if they marry one. They have a choice to accept that, reject it, or change it. If as a woman you accept it then you have no legitimate complaint.

Everyone knows men are horny assholes and that women are expected to be superwomen and still fuck their husbands. Of course women's responsibilities increase after they have kids. But she wanted to be able to brag to her friends about that man with the big dick and the big paycheck. And she chose to have his kids, all the while knowing that part of him putting a ring on her finger meant that despite anything else, she still has to find time and energy to fuck him.

It is hard to feel sorry for these women trying to move the goalpost after the game is in motion.

As men who have sex with men, we all know what will happen if you are in a relationship with a man and you stop having sex with him. Sex is part of the unspoken agreement. If she doesn't want the same relationship that her mother, grandmother and every woman before her had then she needs to pick the kind of man who thinks the way she does about marriage or not get married. AFTER you're married and have the kids it's VERY HARD to change the construct you as a woman bought into.

To be clear, I believe men should help her out without having to be asked. Part of being "the man" and head of the household (yada yada yada) is providing for AND making sure everyone and everything in the house is taken care of. Those are his kids too. But of course we all know many men do not feel that way so if she doesn't set him straight BEFORE giving away all her goodies (ie leverage) then she screwed herself over.

The bottom line is it doesn't matter whether she likes it or not. She agreed to fuck him unconditionally. She has to do it. If she doesn't realize this then she probably shouldn't be married.

by Anonymousreply 92May 27, 2021 1:52 PM

If you've ever lie next to a man after sex you realize you were just a hole(s), and he wants you to evaporate now, please.

They're too dumb to know how to put a porno on, tuck a pocket pussy under a pillow and fuck that. They have to use a human for friction.

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by Anonymousreply 93May 27, 2021 2:07 PM

R92, your post is so many kinds of wrong it boggles the mind. You have too many issues for this time of morning.

[quote] most of us just find being used for sex is degrading rather than a turn-on.

Thanks to porn, sex with straight men has often become degrading in general, since they think acting out the same scenarios they see in porn without asking is somehow okay now. Ask the women you know how often a guy has choked them in bed without asking, or kept going with something even when she begs him to stop. They don't understand porn isn't real life.

by Anonymousreply 94May 27, 2021 2:55 PM

R92, are you dialing in from 1955?

by Anonymousreply 95May 27, 2021 2:58 PM

Why do all conversations end up about race or trannies? Some of y'all are obsessed or just like to stir up shit. Not everything is about those.

by Anonymousreply 96May 27, 2021 3:08 PM

R96 those topics get brought up deliberately, because some men just can’t stand that women have rights, and feel compelled to derail the discussion and make it all about them—yes, even certain men of colour and gay men.

by Anonymousreply 97May 27, 2021 3:11 PM

Psychotic Brit Cunt is back!

by Anonymousreply 98May 27, 2021 3:12 PM

Men are programmed to spread their seed as much as and in as many females as possible.

Women are programmed to select their mates carefully as they have more in stake as they can get pregnant.

That’s why they have different approaches to sex.

by Anonymousreply 99May 27, 2021 4:30 PM

Men like to jackhammer, women like to cuddle!

by Anonymousreply 100May 27, 2021 4:32 PM

R84, I think that was the entire plot line of every episode of "Everybody Loves Raymond". The character acted annoyed about having to spend any amount of his free time with his wife and kids...except when he wanted sex from his wife.

by Anonymousreply 101May 27, 2021 4:50 PM

I don't believe that men and women should pair up for life. That lovey-dovey limerence feeling lasts about two years...enough for a woman to get knocked up and for the man to provide and protect until the offspring is able to walk. But society pressures a male-female couple to stay together until they die, even after they've fallen out of love with each other, developed crushes on other people, and developed very divergent sex drives. Look at most other mammals.

by Anonymousreply 102May 27, 2021 5:01 PM

R102 monogamy is ridiculous

by Anonymousreply 103May 27, 2021 5:08 PM

Women and men are sexually incompatible.

by Anonymousreply 104May 27, 2021 5:10 PM

The sex straight men want is quite performative. Omg your dick is just amazing, I need to suck it and fuck it and grind and have porn sex every night...unless they learn a different "giving" type sex focused on making her feel good or her having an orgasm, most women give up on performing and it's just another thing on her list to do.

Straight men can fix this by having better sex, but they typically don't, so they outsource to prostitutes or pickmes or gay men who will pretend to love their penis for money or daddy issues, etc.

In the late 40s, everyone's sex drive goes down, but straight men seem preoccupied with teen girls and porn sex. Many never grow up.

by Anonymousreply 105May 27, 2021 5:23 PM

Men also don't like sex as much as you say, you use sex to not feel things and often you feel disgusted by the things you did under the influence of horny. Most of you all crave love but subsist on the crumbs of someone else's man and think that makes you anything but a fleshlight. Those men hate you the second they cum. And you know it.

But keep thinking using your body in such a way that you wind up with multiple stds is about "liberation" or anything outside of self hatred.

by Anonymousreply 106May 27, 2021 5:29 PM

Why are there so many puritanical women on this site?

by Anonymousreply 107May 27, 2021 5:35 PM

R84 what year are you posting from 1950? I don’t know a single straight couple, where the man doesn’t pitch in.

Men no longer have the upper hand in straight relationships.

by Anonymousreply 108May 27, 2021 5:38 PM

Women like sex with each other very much, in my experience.

by Anonymousreply 109May 27, 2021 5:49 PM

R108 it’s something the gals on here tell themselves, I’ve witnessed my sister in law and friends wife’s making digs at them and their masculinity when they try to help out at home.

So many straight relationships are endless mind games. Gay relationships aren’t perfect, much less bullshit though.

by Anonymousreply 110May 27, 2021 5:53 PM

The people saying girls and women aren’t very horny and don’t do really dumb shit to get off are cracking me up.

Try several years in a girls-only school, then come back to us on that. The tales I could tell. The one about the pingpong ball, the webcam, and the middle-aged male CompSci teacher springs to mind...

by Anonymousreply 111May 27, 2021 5:58 PM

R102 what you described is what evolution designed for almost all animals including us.

by Anonymousreply 112May 27, 2021 6:13 PM

R111, I've worked in two all-female work environments and sometimes it was wild. Once we all went to a strip club (a regular one), one girl brought her girlfriend into the work area and had sex with her. Lots and lots of sex talk.

by Anonymousreply 113May 27, 2021 6:17 PM

I remember this study decades ago where they hooked up electrodes to men’s and women’s genitalia to gauge sexual stimulation in relation to pornographic stimuli. They showed EVERY type of Porn to them. The men tend to only be stimulated by their identified preference, straight, gay or bi with a few outliers reacting to the taboo material, the women though, they were stimulated by EVERYTHING, from Rottweilers to Snuff. Sick bitches the lot of them and they use that persecution vibe they have to hide their own nastiness.

by Anonymousreply 114May 27, 2021 7:38 PM

R114 The dogpill is well known.

by Anonymousreply 115May 27, 2021 7:41 PM

Actually R114, you are incorrect.

by Anonymousreply 116May 27, 2021 7:51 PM

Notice most of the extreme perverts in the world come from oppressive mothers.

by Anonymousreply 117May 27, 2021 7:51 PM

R114 is disturbed.

by Anonymousreply 118May 27, 2021 7:54 PM

R188 no he’s telling the truth, multiple studies prove him right.

Google the dogpill

by Anonymousreply 119May 27, 2021 7:55 PM

^^ R118 not 188

by Anonymousreply 120May 27, 2021 7:56 PM

Well born in 1999 you're an incel and from your posts on another thread a racist to boot. Googling "dogpill" brings up links to incel links not a study.

by Anonymousreply 121May 27, 2021 7:59 PM

LOL this Pedo Frau on here who thinks we care about being called “Incels”, this isn’t Reddit, Cunt.

by Anonymousreply 122May 27, 2021 8:02 PM

R121 Think for yourself sweetheart, don’t decry everyone you disagree with as Incels. I’m young gay and get plenty of sex.

I’m awoken to the truth though.

by Anonymousreply 123May 27, 2021 8:02 PM

You are known by the company you keep, incel. Linking to incel shit supports the claim you're an incel

by Anonymousreply 124May 27, 2021 8:05 PM

You’re a PEDOPHILE FRAU

by Anonymousreply 125May 27, 2021 8:06 PM

R124 Gurl tell yourself whatever you want, I’ve heard this being mentioned even by straight men of my generation who are most definitely not incels, It’s well known. Goodbye.

by Anonymousreply 126May 27, 2021 8:06 PM

R92 complains about women behaving according to the rules a male dominated society created. 🤮

by Anonymousreply 127May 27, 2021 8:08 PM

R127 it’s always someone else’s fault

by Anonymousreply 128May 27, 2021 8:08 PM

Oh no

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by Anonymousreply 129May 27, 2021 8:09 PM

Sure R124.🙄🤣

by Anonymousreply 130May 27, 2021 8:10 PM

I've seen guys doing that too R 129. While not my thing many people love their doggies and kiss them

by Anonymousreply 131May 27, 2021 8:12 PM

Women lack accountability completely. They can’t be satisfied either. Even the upper class ones, 1950s: take care of them, bring home the money, hire them a maid and nanny, vacations, clothes, cars... not happy, 2020s: all those things, plus CEO jobs and preferential treatment... still not happy. Women are black hole abysses, there’s no point in attempting to suffice them. Ignore them and walk away is the best you can do.

by Anonymousreply 132May 27, 2021 8:13 PM

Does anyone believe theres actually a straight married men here? 😂

Monogamy and heterosexuality are anomalies, they're fabricated. Most intelligent species procreate and spend the rest of their existence in pairs of the same sex, that's what's biologically sounding.

Most straight couples live sexless lives after 40 and lying to their peers and themselves, playing this idiotic game of pretend.

Both men and women love sex and the sex will only be the best when you have someone with the same body as you giving you the pleasure you deserve.

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by Anonymousreply 133May 27, 2021 8:15 PM

In the past 100 years women have begun to destroy men. They’re miserable creatures now and no more creativity.

by Anonymousreply 134May 27, 2021 8:27 PM

Log back onto this site just to find out women.... fuck dogs and they pretend to be the moral gender.

by Anonymousreply 135May 27, 2021 8:30 PM

R94 and R95 you obviously did not read my post or didn't understand it.

All I am saying is that everyone needs to be accountable. If you don't want traditional roles in your marriage then you need to say it up front. Otherwise forever hold your peace. Why do you think so many marriages end in divorce? Manage expectations!

by Anonymousreply 136May 27, 2021 8:32 PM

And men fuck animals too R135. There are some creepy fucked up would be serial killers hanging around here today. Hypocrites too. It's not ok for women bit okay for men?

by Anonymousreply 137May 27, 2021 8:34 PM

This site is filled with trolls, what is this thread?

by Anonymousreply 138May 27, 2021 8:34 PM

R138 the incels and mras are out today.

by Anonymousreply 139May 27, 2021 8:36 PM

r133 You are peddling those lies in the hopes of being fucked by a masculine straight man, you poor thing. Without heterosexuallity, you wouldn't have fantasies. You don't desire gay men.

by Anonymousreply 140May 27, 2021 8:37 PM

R140 Very few gay men are interested in straight men, we are aware of their hygiene. Please leave this site if you’re going to be the typical homophobic straight bitch.

by Anonymousreply 141May 27, 2021 8:39 PM

Poor OP is so envious of women having all those masculine straight men between their thigts for ourselves ... and we enjoy it a lot. Jealous much?

r141 Say the idiot in a misogynistic post. And don't come up with the "this is a gay site", because every other post is about women.

by Anonymousreply 142May 27, 2021 8:42 PM

[quote]Very few gay men are interested in straight men

Not so for Dataloungers.

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by Anonymousreply 143May 27, 2021 8:42 PM

R142 is a perfect example of when the Fraus here turn schizophrenic. What an ego on this cunt, acting like we didn’t just spend 4+ years here trashing Trump, Guiliani, Gaetz, Lindzee and Co. not to mention all the other threads about men - gay or straight. I can just see the self-sufficed look on her pudgy face as she hits post on some weak insult. You’re a lower creature and always will be, yeah you can shit out kids, but big deal we can synthesize eggs soon and do a full pregnancy in a lab. Your mind is unstable and will never be sufficed or capable of higher thought. We think you’re a joke.

by Anonymousreply 144May 27, 2021 9:58 PM

r144 You are the one unstable and you showed your true colours when you said "pregnancy in a lab". In the end, all of you want to be us and you are frustrated because you can't. I suppose you are the bottom wanting the top to "impregnate" you, LOL. Too funny.

And even funnier is to think gays are able to engineer something other than "hairdressing" haha.

by Anonymousreply 145May 28, 2021 5:25 AM

R145 What is a rude stupid cow like you even doing on DL? You sure seem threatened by gay mens' penises! Is this threat hitting a little too close to home for you sweetie? Is your husband out there getting fucked by a gay man or a trans woman? Which is it? I guess it doesn't matter since he left your fat as sitting at home tonight! LOL Well he's never coming back to your bed Sis! Here's a tip: If you are lucky enough to trick someone else into marrying you, next time don't try to manipulate him by withholding the sex. Quit being a selfish frigid bitch!

by Anonymousreply 146May 28, 2021 7:38 AM

Fuck off, Racist R83. Black people. Came right outta my mouth.

by Anonymousreply 147May 28, 2021 7:58 AM

R147 what are you even talking about? You sound like a raving lunatic!

by Anonymousreply 148May 28, 2021 8:48 AM

So do trans FTM behave sexually like men or women?

by Anonymousreply 149May 28, 2021 10:26 AM

R149 that depends. Sexual preference and sexual identity can be consistent, but that is not always the case. For example I have seen FTM trans do porn with male actors. I suppose that is why they call it queer. They have sex with whoever they want even if it may seem "unusual" or make others uncomfortable.

by Anonymousreply 150May 28, 2021 10:35 AM

R150 Keep it simple. Do they fuck mindlessly and as often as many as men do? Or are they more discriminating like women are?

by Anonymousreply 151May 28, 2021 12:22 PM

r146 You sound deranged, ahahaha. You wish I was a cow, dumbass, you are the one obsessed with women, you resent and envy us because we attract the straight guys and we can get pregnant. Deal with that, stupid effeminate boy.

by Anonymousreply 152May 28, 2021 1:17 PM

R152 we all hope you die from cunt cancer

by Anonymousreply 153May 28, 2021 1:44 PM

R152 You must be a troll, I can assure you no men gay or straight envy women.

Labelling us misogynists and incels.... your pussy holds no power over us, How many of you have come here from Reddit/FDS?

by Anonymousreply 154May 28, 2021 1:45 PM

Don't feed the troll - R146 and all its other posts here and in threads started like "why do we think women all so innocent." You know the theme.

by Anonymousreply 155May 28, 2021 1:55 PM

r153 Evil energy turning around and hitting you.

by Anonymousreply 156May 28, 2021 1:58 PM

[quote] we all hope you die from cunt cancer

Love the "we" part. You are alone in your lunacy, pal.

by Anonymousreply 157May 28, 2021 2:01 PM

r154 The other idiot showed his true colors when he mentioned breeding babies. Not every gay man is misogynistic, but most of DL is, and this post is too. Admit that there's resentment toward women and you like to depict us as unattractive, fat, deranged, and now frigid. You obviously have no experience with women, so shut up. If you are so disinterested in women, what do you make a post about sexual habits of women? Sounds pathetic, maniac, stupid and denotes jealousy.

by Anonymousreply 158May 28, 2021 2:05 PM

r154 The first part was adressed to you and the second to the idiot. Not every gay man hates women and there's a lot of solidarity between us when there's good people.

by Anonymousreply 159May 28, 2021 2:07 PM

R158, it's a way that some, not all of course, men (straight and gay) use to prop themselves up by putting females down. I will also add that these individuals have the maturity of a twelve year old.

by Anonymousreply 160May 28, 2021 2:10 PM

R151 you are assuming all women are discriminating. They're not. I know plenty of sluts. LOL I don't agree with the OP. I don't think enthusiasm about sex is gender based. Each "person" is different. So trans or not is irrelevant.

by Anonymousreply 161May 28, 2021 2:12 PM

[quote] Each "person" is different.

Duh.

by Anonymousreply 162May 28, 2021 2:18 PM

Is that one of those things straight men say about women, "they're all different," like they have different body parts? HA!

by Anonymousreply 163May 28, 2021 2:19 PM

R152 you are a crazy "wanna be whore" except you can't be one because no man wants you. HAHAHA! Don't blame the gays that men don't want your fat flabby disgusting stretched out HOLE! I know you're fat and disgusting because you seem VERY ANGRY and because "fat" is the thing you jumped on immediately. HAHAHAHA!

I suspect you are in your mid-forties, a worn out baggy eyed housewife (or in a dead end job), two kids who hate you and don't talk to you anymore, a husband who has stopped fucking you and leaves you home alone every night. Too bad so sad.

Honey that man is gone. You're never gonna get him back. He's enjoying dick in his ass too much. LOL You may as well go ahead and call the divorce attorney. In the meantime you need to prepare for the next man (if you are so lucky) before that pussy completely dries up! You might be able to trick one more dumb guy. This time, hit the gym, get a stylist, brush those rotten ass teeth and try not to behave like a nasty cunt! And Pray Bitch! Pray! Hahaha! Good Luck!

by Anonymousreply 164May 28, 2021 2:24 PM

R162, save the "Duh" for R149 for asking the question.

by Anonymousreply 165May 28, 2021 2:27 PM

R146/R164, you don't have to respond to every post with this insanity. Just let it go and go away before you get tagged.

by Anonymousreply 166May 28, 2021 2:27 PM

R166 Warn your mother... I think that German Shepherd who just pulled outta her pussy may be cheating on her!

by Anonymousreply 167May 28, 2021 2:32 PM

^ Again, just can't stop. What an asshole.

by Anonymousreply 168May 28, 2021 2:35 PM

r166 You are a lovely man. I am sure you are a delicious person to be around. Take care and thank you,

The woman

by Anonymousreply 169May 28, 2021 2:37 PM

R168 Why don't you stop bullying people who's opinion you don't like? DL is an opinion board. Why are you the thought police? Fuck off you stupid bitch!

by Anonymousreply 170May 28, 2021 2:40 PM

[quote]DL is an opinion board

WTF?

by Anonymousreply 171May 28, 2021 2:42 PM

Women are disgusting, evil pigs. Don’t care if you think I’m an Incel or nuts.

by Anonymousreply 172May 28, 2021 2:49 PM

You forgot to W/W yourself, R172.

by Anonymousreply 173May 28, 2021 3:08 PM

R173 is obviously a Daddyfucker who worships the patriarchy and uses her pussy as an ATM. She takes out her alpha male traumas on gay men because she preys on the weak.

by Anonymousreply 174May 28, 2021 3:23 PM

R173 what time did Daddy usually sneak in your room? 2AM? Did it start with butt stuff?

by Anonymousreply 175May 28, 2021 3:24 PM

I see our little incel MRA troll is back. Yesterday he was going by "born in 1999" which explains his maturity level.

Either FF or block, which I did. I don't think he's gay either FWIW.

by Anonymousreply 176May 28, 2021 6:39 PM

I honestly just read 176 posts of this thread. Sexually, this country/world is easily as divided and fucked up as we are politically. Hating an entire GENDER? I get it, misogyny, or man hating. It's more insane than racism really, because it's like hating 4 billion fucking people YOU'VE NEVER EVEN MET.

by Anonymousreply 177May 29, 2021 7:08 AM

R152 Can’t you take your performance feminism to Mumsnet or something - you are far too boring and unoriginal for DL.

by Anonymousreply 178May 29, 2021 9:13 AM

This thread is so wild

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by Anonymousreply 179May 29, 2021 9:28 AM

Women are evil too, they’re just riding the woke train to stop themselves from being criticized.

by Anonymousreply 180May 29, 2021 2:57 PM

[quote]who's opinion you don't like?

Oh dear

by Anonymousreply 181May 29, 2021 5:46 PM

[quote] We are in late 40's. Not sure how long we can keep it up, frequency dipping and menopausal stuff. Twice a day, to once a day, to 5 times a week, to 2 times a week. Not enough, but I'm not gonna beg. Major turnoff when sex is a chore.

A few times a week isn’t enough for some straight men? That’s as much or more than 99% of Hetero guys get, if they aren’t some kind of rich famous prettyboy celebrity.

This “fuck me everday or else” expectation is off the scale nuts to me. Who has the energy? Doesn’t that get boring? Isn’t there other life to live and things to think about?

Then, perhaps I have a very low libido.

by Anonymousreply 182November 9, 2022 10:24 AM

This is like the third thread I've seen started over a year ago by troll 5876 which was bumped this morning, that's an odd coincidence.

by Anonymousreply 183November 9, 2022 10:53 AM

Why do gay men think they're qualified on the subject of female sex drives?

by Anonymousreply 184November 9, 2022 11:36 AM

^^100% this.

by Anonymousreply 185November 9, 2022 11:39 AM

You all sound like highschool boys from an 80s movie. I doubt any of you have even had sex. Ever.

by Anonymousreply 186November 9, 2022 11:42 AM
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