Does anal sex feel good to women?

The anal sphincter in both men and women has a lot of nerve endings.

My only really decent experience when I was getting a massage

I liked the guy and he really, really, really spent his time getting me relaxed and the s l o w l y opened me up.

I felt safe.

What I can't stand is when I"m on a dating app and some guy says 'come over now and I'll fuck you and we'll be done in 15 minutes'

Oh, OP, I imagine some women are okay with it; avoids pregnancy

I think women DO have a prostate-analogue: the Skene's gland. I think it's where pussy juice comes from (same as pre-cum), and it might be the G-spot (it apparently has the same nerve wiring as the prostate).

It can feel good to me but not with a big guy and i've never had an orgasm because of it. It's an appetizer on the menu, to be honest, much the way oral sex is, giving and receiving. Also, there's always the possibility that shit happens and since i prefer my sex to be a bit more spontaneous, i don't "prep"...but i do put down towels (which i do anal or not). Typically i like a guy to go hard toward his end because i've already cum and love how it feels to have him pound me and how his cum feels inside me afterwards. It's not off the menu and if it was something my partner really enjoyed i'd probably take more of an interest in it.

You can hit the good spots from behind as well as from the front.

I had a college (lesbonic) roommate whose go to activity between GFs was to use a vibrator for her anal cavity while looking at my geigh (male) porn. Granted, she was an odd duck, but I’ve met other lesbetarians who were also anally inclined. I haven’t met many het women like this (who would admit it anyway). It is worth noting on similar DL threads, it seems anal practices among gay men have decreased since I was a youngster, while increasing among the hets. Just a casual observation. Please be aware that I’m an elder gay who just turned 60.

[quote] Does anal sex feel good to women?

It does to God. Why only last week in Texas he sat on a priapic device 34 inches long just as his worshipers were grovelling for him. He wouldn't begrudge you one instance of sodomy.

My pussy stinks!

I prefer orgasms from being fucked than orgasms being licked...it's a completely different sensation. but i like both. i'm sure you guys can relate - it's a preference that's probably different for everyone.

It's painful for both men and women. I hate it, and I'm a gay man.

They feel good they're pleasing their men. Theres nothing for women from anal sex otherwise, except loss of sphincter control.

Bullshit, R11

Seka and Belladonna sure seemed to enjoy it.

That’s based on the person. Like everything. Some gay men don’t like the way it feels. I’m sure many women don’t either.

Who cares?

Only pleasurable if there's also a dick in the pussy

We've all seen that holes can get stretched out via anal activities, but the notion that regular anal sex with human penises is going to normally end in diaper use is pretty ridiculous.

If there’s pain you are doing it wrong. Please do me right! 😫

OK.

This thread works better the saltpeter.

Thanks for nothing and fuck you.

R17 actually anal sex is dangerous for many reasons. But we aren’t supposed to discuss that

my straight, 65 yr old AA sponsor fucks his 65 yr old girlfriend in the ass and she frequently "diarrheas' on him. They are gross, sexually, but i love them. They fuck like rabbits in all positions. This is all based on his unsolicited narration.

R12 it's the truth. Sometimes it hurts.

Most women cannot cum from penetration. Basically anything more than masturbation is a waste of time. Nothing is going to beat clitoral stimulation.

I have a female friend who really enjoys it. She said she likes being fingered at the same time and it gives quite an intense orgasm.

I credit myself for this as she asked me for a guide on how to do it without pain the first time she did it, many years ago.

If sperm gets in the general vicinity of the vagina during those fertile days, a woman can still get pregnant. Those persistent bastards can certainly migrate to the uterus from an anus dripping semen. It’s not as likely as ejaculation that happens right up against the cervix, but it is possible.

Women op? Real women or wannabe Ts? Real women, no. Trans women, yes.

Women op? Real women or wannabe Ts? Real women, no. Trans women, yes.

Apparently the clitoris is horseshoe-shaped, with the middle-section resting against the anal canal. Or something.

I worked with a girl who would talk to me about her sex problems with her boyfriend. One problem was her boyfriend was too into porn, but the reason he was into porn was because she was not as interested in sex. She has a problem cumming and experiencing full pleasure from penetration because, according to what she told me, her G spot gets hit from anal sex not vaginal.

She wouldn't try anal sex because she says she finds it humiliating and she feels it gives the guy too much power over her.

OP, your coworker is a scat troll.

R29 how does she know her g spot is in her turd cutter if she doesn’t have anal sex?

A hole's a hole.

Heck, anal sex doesn't even feel good to most men. It seems that most like the closeness it provides than the actual feeling in their anuses

You talked about this with a co-workee? Eeewwww.

Is co-workee the way they say it in west virginny?

R21: In my decades on the planet, a first for me. "Diarrhea" as a verb.

I diarrhea, you diarrhea, he/she diarrheas...

I guest if "shit" can be a verb, why not "diarrhea"?

No, it hurts.

Why would we care?

Women! Don't do it.

But they don't have a mussy.

My straight brother told me something about women's vaginas and rectums, that they only have a very thin wall (or tissue) between them. He said if two guys do a girl at once, not only do their balls bang together, but they can feel each others' dicks inside.

TMI

I'm outta here.

R42 = Marcus Bachmann

It is true that most women can only come from clitoral stimulation, but that is because because they haven’t “de-armoured” all the other muscles in the area. Once this happens, orgasm during penetration becomes much, much easier. Basically, their partners need to get familiar with what amounts to tantric sex, not just taking them to pound town. Lesbians probably have an easier time of it. Straight men have NO idea what to do. This is why a one night stand is pointless for a female (less than 10% will orgasm during a ONS)

So yes, anal can be pleasurable for the ladies, but it takes effort.

I've tried it, and I enjoyed it once with a guy with a nice dick, but not pornstar size. His dick in my ass and his fingers in my vagina felt delicious. My partners have mostly been very well endowed and it can be really painful. I prefer a variety of positions but vaginal sex over anal. Oh, and 69 is wonderful.

Ask Caitlyn Jenner.

it doesn't feel good to them when they find out that their husbands are doing it.

It feels like you're shitting out a dick. And it usually hurts and can cause a prolapsed anus to happen.

google it. It's really horrifying.

This thread is hilarious

In particular the gay men who are afraid of anal sex

As for women…who cares?

I have to admit that I have enjoyed it. It is necessary to happen after vaginal penetration and I have orgasmed. For some reason afterwards it relaxes me back there and makes penetration easier. I can't say that I have ever come from being fucked in the ass but I like the feeling of being dominated. Of being flipped over and taken from behind. That is how I like it, not being looked at or with my legs in the air but on my stomach with him pounding my ass.

Don't even try it before I have orgasmed or first, the area doesn't relax and dick ain't getting in.

And Yo, r23 up thread, you actually know MOST women? Doubtful. I can come through vaginal penetration. The clit needs stimulation but have multiple 0s, through penetration.

r49, someone does. Since they ask the question. You entered the thread so maybe you do too. I never go into threads I don't care about.

As a woman I have never heard such a thing. I have never met or known any female who is into anal sex. Pornstars don't count. It is not common or talked about among women even while we discuss sexual activities.

This shit would be better on a woman's forum. NOT FUCKING DATALOUNGE. Can't you take this shit to L Word or wherever Oprah is these days? F&F!!!

r53, why come in the thread? I not in the Derek Hough thread because I hate his yellow ass. Ignore the OP, he did it. He started it.

r52, I honestly cannot recall ever discussing anal sex with other women. But I can say that I have enjoyed it. It doesn't come up in conversation and I have many conversations of the sexual nature with women friends. Maybe once or twice someone said their partner was trying for it and there was a wrong hole or some kind of brief mention.

The secret we don't say out loud. Pretend solidarity amongst the clan.

Yes it does! I love it but am scared to do it too much. It just doesn't feel good when he takes it out- whoosh, so sad and empty then. I swear I'm a gay man in a woman's body. But I know that isn't a real thing. Although nowadays someone could try to say that it is.

R54, why is the thread here in the first place? I'm coming in to voice that it does not belong here and it's offensive to me. Why the fuck would you think I want to hear from women about anal sex? This thread needs to begone. This isn't fucking Bustle or Refinery29. Should I go there to a women's board and make threads on gays having tearoom sex and cruisiest rest areas? We need to speak up and say that these threads are not welcome. Who is the fucking target audience for this shit?

Anal sex doesn't feel good for men; why would it feel good for women?

Olivia Munn can't get enough of it.

Only when shopping.

I've noticed in Italian porn that you see anal more often than vaginal sex. I wonder if there's still a thought that women save their vaginas for marriage.

Some women squirt from anal, so there’s that.

The Bible says lying doesn’t feel good to God, either.

But that doesn’t stop R7 from impersonating dozens of different people n DL every week, spreading Fake News and propaganda to empower child rapists like Donald Trump and Matt Gaetz, whom r7’s God must have commanded against by mistake.

Jesus wants our First Lady to be a porn star and sex worker named Melania!

"Some women squirt from anal, so there’s that."

Some women pee from anal, so there's that.

Fixed it for you.

I can’t have an orgasm from anal or vagina intercourse. I guess I will be one of those women who have all of the parts, but the wiring is screwed up. Anyone got a dildo?

R54, please explain this:

[quote] I not in the Derek Hough thread because I hate his yellow ass.

I remember Pamela Anderson saying she loved it.

[quote]Olivia Munn can't get enough of it.

She talks about anal in this interview and on those leaked pictures to Chris Pine she said she couldn’t wait for him to put it in her ass.

Damn, R68.

Maybe John Mulaney is having a gay awakening after all.

I suppose it depends on the woman. Not all gay men like anal, either. I am not always in the mood for it. Then again, I don’t consider myself a total bottom.

R55 the reason why women don't talk about it among each other is because most don't engage in anal sex.

Anal sex is perceived as degrading to women, which is why most wouldn’t admit they enjoy it, or wouldn’t consent to it the first place. It’s gross when a guy wants to do something not because it’s pleasurable to him, but because he wants to humiliate you. Also, most men are too selfish, inept and porn-addled to do anal properly. The other problem is that, of course switching from anal-to-vag sex is a guaranteed painful urinary tract infection in the making (something I wish I’d known as a youngling, during the longest Easter weekend of my life). So with two other perfectly good holes available to women, you can see why anal doesn’t often feature on the sexual menu…which is a shame, imo

[quote]As a woman I have never heard such a thing. I have never met or known any female who is into anal sex.

I'm sure there are some who truly enjoy it, but the majority of those who pipe up to swear they looooove it are trying to prove they're Cool Girls and get affirmation from men. And a lot of the straight guys who pester their gfs non-stop for it want it precisely because the gf doesn't. They enjoy making her do painful, degrading things as a way to display their power over her - that's the real appeal. Will she let me choke her till she cries during a blowjob? Do anal without anything approaching the proper prep (since these guys get all their anal ideas from porn and have no clue)? If so - bazinga! Women's tissues are more delicate than men's and their anuses are smaller than men's. It's not the same experience as it would be for two men at all.

Let me just allow this movie to answer for me.

Not sure OP. Try asking your mom?

You’re “not sure,” triggered frau at r75? Need to have a few more dicks up your throbbing turd cutter before you can firm up your answer?

[quote] Women's tissues are more delicate than men's and their anuses are smaller than men's

Really r73?

FF this piece of shit thread. I DONT WANNA KNOW ABT WOMEN'S ASSES PERIOD!!! GTFOH!!! YOU SUCCUBUS BITCH DEMONS FROM HELL!

One of the grossest things I've seen in all my years of editing porn was a guy fucking a girl in the ass while another girl sort of participated. The girl getting it in the ass had shit falling out while he was fucking her and it was dripping all over the bedsheets. He then pulled out of the girls' ass and the other girl promptly started sucking on his dick.

That and all the prolapsed assholes including one where a woman used a douche to squirt milk up her ass, then pushed it out from her ass into a glass and drank it.

Oh wow R79 wins. I dunno - I 'm male and love having my sphincter opened up. But men have the prostate and getting a good bang and it rubs the prostate - heaven.

[quote]It can feel good to me ... i've never had an orgasm because of it

That what most women say about vaginal sex. In reality.

STOP THIS SHITTY THREAD.

For you guys who are bottoms and over 60 - is your hole still tight? Answer truthfully.

r72, it's vag then anal never the opposite. The butt next to be relaxed. And hopefully you would put on a condom or a new one going from one to the other.

r73, I think it's a tighter fit initially. Once you get through it's not really tight or painful.

OK, who is the demographic for this post? And why the hell do you expect me to be concerned about it?

R44 A woman needs to have their muscles "de armoured"? WTF explain please.

R44) Don't explain

Orgasm during intercourse NEVER becomes easier, R44.