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Who Will Come Out in 2021? Part 3

Gay or Nay?

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by Anonymousreply 116December 13, 2021 9:34 PM

Previous Thread (Now Paywalled).

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by Anonymousreply 1May 17, 2021 4:01 PM

Circa 29 minutes, Owen Joyner claims that he sought advice from his gay friends in order to get his characterisation right on "Julie and the Phantoms." Shades of Julian Morris/"Man In An Orange Shirt"?

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by Anonymousreply 2May 17, 2021 4:03 PM

You non-paying gals are really something else. Now we have two (2!) unnecessary Pt 3 threads, when the Pt 2 thread is nowhere close to its limit.

by Anonymousreply 3May 17, 2021 4:21 PM

[Quote] the Pt 2 thread is nowhere close to its limit.

It has been paywalled.

by Anonymousreply 4May 17, 2021 4:28 PM

[Quote] Now we have two 2! unnecessary Pt 3 threads

Link to the other?

by Anonymousreply 5May 17, 2021 4:31 PM


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by Anonymousreply 6May 17, 2021 4:37 PM

I'd always assumed but has she spoken on this before?

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by Anonymousreply 7May 21, 2021 3:56 PM

Someone named Myles Hiser.

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by Anonymousreply 8May 27, 2021 5:16 PM

Happy for Miles. Debates over his sexuality kept entire thread series afloat in the past lol

by Anonymousreply 9May 27, 2021 5:20 PM

[Quote] the loves of my life were included, my two dogs, Crouton and Girl

by Anonymousreply 10May 27, 2021 5:47 PM

Alexandra Shipp had confirmed.

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by Anonymousreply 11June 3, 2021 7:11 PM


by Anonymousreply 12June 3, 2021 7:11 PM

I don't know and I don't care. He's a cutie. I'm so happy for him.

I never will understand why some gays think it is so important that everyone come out? I say just let people be. Some people haven't figured it out yet and that is ok... or it should be ok. There is a whole LGBTQ spectrum and I suspect that somewhere on the spectrum is where most humans are (there are a lot of pan and bisexual people). Forcing them to "claim" one thing or the other really isn't fair. As long as they are honest about their interests with people they are intimate with (so no one is being misled) then it really is nobody else's business.

I dream of the day when none of this matters to people other than those directly involved.

by Anonymousreply 13June 3, 2021 7:23 PM

[Quote] some gays think it is so important that everyone come out?

Strength in numbers?

by Anonymousreply 14June 3, 2021 7:31 PM

R14 You don't have to "be gay" to be an ally. The real problem is people on the LBGTQ spectrum who take actions to harm the LGBTQ community.

by Anonymousreply 15June 4, 2021 2:31 AM

I crave the catharsis of celebrities coming out because I never came out when I was hot and young. In my fucked up mind, I get to relive those years.

by Anonymousreply 16June 4, 2021 2:42 AM

[Quote] You don't have to "be gay" to be an ally.

Membership and allyship are not one and the same.

by Anonymousreply 17June 4, 2021 6:01 AM

R17, nobody said they were the same. What is your point? The more allies the better! So what if they don't want to identify publicly as gay! Everyone is dealing with their own shit - even the rich and famous. Them being healthy and happy is what matters!

by Anonymousreply 18June 4, 2021 7:11 AM

nobody should have the luxury of living incognito queer…that’s where the haters want all of us…in the closet with our mouth taped up

by Anonymousreply 19June 4, 2021 7:23 AM

R19 Who are you to judge how someone lives their life? Yeah I think you should take several seats on that. Live out and proud if you like, but nobody owes you anything.

by Anonymousreply 20June 4, 2021 8:24 AM

Very few people "come out" these days. If he/she is gay, the person in question more or less arrives already out, meaning we already know.

The latest thing is announcing you're trans...or some such nonsense like you're nonbinary, which really means you're bisexual, which really means you're gay.

It's exhausting and a very circuitous journey these days to finally coming out.

by Anonymousreply 21June 4, 2021 8:39 AM

R21, I agree. R19 I'm not sure where you are coming from. It is not a "luxury" being in the closet or coming out. People do it in their own time and that is their right. You might wanna show a little empathy. Everyone's journey is different. It is funny how gays want allies but only on their terms. It's not your call.

by Anonymousreply 22June 4, 2021 9:05 AM

R21 yeah, BUT, that "already out" doesn't apply in large parts of the world. More coming out where it's much easier gives breathing room to the folks stuck in the closet in places like, I don't know... Cameroon, Guatemala, rural China and shit.

by Anonymousreply 23June 4, 2021 9:16 AM

[Quote] Them being healthy and happy is what matters!

Leaving the closet behind contributes to that.

by Anonymousreply 24June 4, 2021 3:24 PM

R21 I'm pretty sure Cameroon and Guatemala are not taking their moral cues from queers in the US. And yes they view it as a matter of morality.

R24 Not the case for everyone.

by Anonymousreply 25June 4, 2021 3:31 PM

[Quote] Not the case for everyone.

The closet is an indignity.

by Anonymousreply 26June 4, 2021 4:16 PM

R25 - just like many of the crazies of the world have all found each other on Twatter and other social media so, too, have the gay kids, crafters, small-town wine enthusiasts, etc.

Every bit helps, even if it also comes with the Jameela Jamils of the world.

by Anonymousreply 27June 4, 2021 4:16 PM

R26, it is an indignity TO YOU. But you cannot choose for other people. That is wrong.

R27, I'm not against people coming out. All I'm saying is that it is their decision and I don't believe in forcing people out.

by Anonymousreply 28June 4, 2021 4:42 PM

Who said I was choosing? The closet adds stress to people's life. The degree varies. The amount of damage to the psyche varies as well.

All that said, you're on a gossip site. Don't act like you're above shit.

by Anonymousreply 29June 4, 2021 10:26 PM

R29 You're right about one thing: Forcing people out of the closet is some SHIT! I would never want anything to do with that.

I'm glad you had a loving and accepting environment where you felt comfortable coming out. That is not the case for everybody. People have different circumstances. To some it could be the difference between having a warm place to sleep at night and coming home to find your belongings on the street.

Of course being in the closet is stressful but so is coming out for a lot of people. Are you aware that many people commit suicide because they are outed or threatened with being outed? Many of them are just teenagers.

It may feel good to you personally to see another person out, but you don't know everyone's situation. This is real life and death shit to people. It's none of your fucking business. Let people come out in their own time.

by Anonymousreply 30June 5, 2021 12:38 AM

Is discussing who might be gay = forcing someone out of the closet?

by Anonymousreply 31June 5, 2021 12:41 AM

[Quote] It's none of your fucking business. Let people come out in their own time.

You seem to be missing the point of this thread. It's about people on the verge of coming out. We're taking the decision from anyone here. As for teenagers, I don't discuss minors' sexuality here or anywhere.

by Anonymousreply 32June 5, 2021 12:44 AM

R31 please scroll up and see the conversation. Inform yourself before jumping in.

by Anonymousreply 33June 5, 2021 12:45 AM

R32 I wasn't the one who took the conversation left. I was responding to what some asshole said to me. I invite you to scroll up and read the entire conversation.. since you chose to quote me.. when you are clearly ignorant of what transpired.

by Anonymousreply 34June 5, 2021 12:46 AM

Ignorant of what transpired? Someone made an off topic comment and it ballooned. This thread is not about homeless teenagers.

by Anonymousreply 35June 5, 2021 12:48 AM

Johnny Orlando and Noah Urrea will come out as a couple!

by Anonymousreply 36June 5, 2021 1:47 AM

R35 You need to direct that at the person who took it off topic!

by Anonymousreply 37June 5, 2021 2:14 AM

Andrew Cuomo's daughter has come out.

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by Anonymousreply 38June 5, 2021 3:26 AM

Michaela Kennedy Cuomo is gorgeous!

by Anonymousreply 39June 5, 2021 3:37 AM

wish we could get a big celebrity to come out

by Anonymousreply 40June 5, 2021 4:49 AM

I wish Harry would come out…you know….Princess Diana’s son who lives in California….

by Anonymousreply 41June 6, 2021 3:28 PM

R41? Harry is married with two children. I know all the Brits seem a bit effeminate in their carriage and demeanor ( I would never date one), but what gives you the impression he's gay?

by Anonymousreply 42June 6, 2021 5:06 PM

Tom Holland?

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by Anonymousreply 43June 13, 2021 4:55 AM

[Quote] Johnny Orlando and Noah Urrea will come out

with a collab!

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by Anonymousreply 44June 27, 2021 8:37 PM

[quote] Urrea

What an unfortunate last name.

by Anonymousreply 45June 27, 2021 8:49 PM

Some people were just meant to have wet, kinky fun, R45.

by Anonymousreply 46June 27, 2021 9:08 PM

R43, nah, the guy he's with is obese. If he were actually hot, then perhaps that would be evidence.

by Anonymousreply 47June 27, 2021 9:47 PM

I must be really out of touch. I don't know any of these people. 😒

by Anonymousreply 48June 29, 2021 1:45 AM

R48 is still waiting for Liberace to find the right woman

by Anonymousreply 49June 29, 2021 6:10 AM

Tangential post of potentially gay actors Owen Patrick Joyner & Charles Gillespie wrestling.

We’ve discussed these “Julie and the Phantoms” actors in these threads a few times over the past year or so. I also don’t think hey have dedicated threads, so that’s why I am posting this here. Owen apparently posted the video to his old spam IG account, and I’m linking to someone else’s copy of it. Also, I’m pretty sure they’re traveling with Kenny Ortega right now, so he likely filmed them in all their glory.

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by Anonymousreply 50September 16, 2021 5:37 PM

My friend Kenny Ortega!

by Anonymousreply 51September 16, 2021 5:38 PM

R44 is just unbelievably cringe. Terrible.

by Anonymousreply 52September 16, 2021 5:49 PM

It is weird hearing them used the word "titties."

by Anonymousreply 53September 16, 2021 5:54 PM

Sebastian Croft and Joe Locke. They both star in the upcoming Netflix series Heartstopper and seem to be dating.

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by Anonymousreply 54September 16, 2021 5:56 PM
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by Anonymousreply 55September 16, 2021 5:56 PM

Is Heartstopper gay themed?

by Anonymousreply 56September 16, 2021 5:59 PM

The guy “singing” at OP sounds like the male version of the breathy whispercoo that has become all the rage.

Can’t stand it. Like nails on a chalkboard.

What else can these people do to get followers. They are terrible singers. They should find another path.

by Anonymousreply 57September 16, 2021 6:00 PM

Bitch, fuck you! Not everyone needs to be Shirley Bassey!

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by Anonymousreply 58September 16, 2021 6:03 PM

R56 Yes, it's based on a webcomic and graphic novel by Alice Oseman.

[quote] Heartstopper tells the story of two British teens at an all-boys grammar school — Charlie, a high-strung, openly gay overthinker, and Nick Nelson, a cheerful, soft-hearted rugby player — who are one day are made to sit together. The pair quickly become friends, and soon Charlie’s falling for Nick, even though he doesn’t think he has a chance. But over the series romance blossoms and Nick and Charlie discover there’s a strong community of allies and friends around them, while also learning that there’s no "right way" to come out.

Joe Locke plays Charlie and Kit Connor plays Nick. Sebastian Croft plays Ben - who Charlie hooks up with in secret prior to falling in love with Nick.

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by Anonymousreply 59September 16, 2021 6:06 PM

Thanks for the info. Nice to see young gay actors play gay roles.

by Anonymousreply 60September 16, 2021 6:21 PM

Julian Morris will come out as "queer".

by Anonymousreply 61September 21, 2021 1:19 PM

Bi king?

[Quote] "Public service announcement: I’m 6’1 inches tall and 208 lbs. I’m in tremendous shape and I’m strong as ****. I’m a 24 hour juice cleanse away from blowing the season 1 poster for Arrow out of the water. We did the photography for that poster a little over 9 years ago. Next time I post a photo in my hot pink skivvies, I’ll try and remember to flex! And if that isn’t good enough, send me your address. I will show up to steal your boyfriend or your girlfriend."

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by Anonymousreply 62September 28, 2021 7:05 PM

Sebastian Croft and Joe Locke

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by Anonymousreply 63September 29, 2021 2:17 AM

R62 Stephen isn't the king of anything.

by Anonymousreply 64September 29, 2021 7:32 AM

R64 is Sara Bareilles

by Anonymousreply 65September 29, 2021 8:44 AM

Because they're nobodies, r48.

by Anonymousreply 66September 29, 2021 9:53 AM

Inching out

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by Anonymousreply 67September 30, 2021 6:31 PM

Stephen Amell is the king of unearned egomania and that's about it.

by Anonymousreply 68September 30, 2021 6:43 PM

R68 i don't understand how that happens when you're on a CW show.

by Anonymousreply 69October 1, 2021 11:42 AM

anyone going to come out for National Coming Out Day?

by Anonymousreply 70October 11, 2021 7:46 PM

Shocked that Keahu Kahuanui (played gay on Teen Wolf and The Originals) hasn't come out of the closet yet.

by Anonymousreply 71October 16, 2021 10:29 PM

I'm not.

by Anonymousreply 72October 16, 2021 10:58 PM

wish we could have a big come celebrity come out

by Anonymousreply 73October 17, 2021 1:54 AM

There'll be a coming out for the ETERNALS promo, won't there?

by Anonymousreply 74October 17, 2021 1:55 AM

R71 I am too.

by Anonymousreply 75October 17, 2021 9:16 AM

Australian pro football player Joshua Cavallo has come out as gay.

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by Anonymousreply 76October 27, 2021 11:44 AM

Did they really need the "outtakes" at the beginning?

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by Anonymousreply 77October 27, 2021 12:03 PM

Good for him!

by Anonymousreply 78October 27, 2021 6:43 PM

Corey Fogelmanis?

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by Anonymousreply 79October 28, 2021 5:17 AM

Corey came out months ago. Is that a song lyric as his caption?

by Anonymousreply 80October 28, 2021 5:19 AM

A sort of coming out from Arthur Nory in this post? Saying he loves Joao and #boyfriend

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by Anonymousreply 81October 28, 2021 11:01 PM

Sebastian Croft and Joe Locke with DL fave Connor Jessup.

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by Anonymousreply 82October 28, 2021 11:22 PM

Awww that’s cute R81. We’ve been talking about Arthur Nory for years, so it’s cool to see him openly acknowledge his boyfriend. TBH, I thought they broke up after the Olymipic trials, but it’s nice to see they’re still kicking. Although, I can’t believe João fucks as good as that tall drink of water Andre Loddi that he was dating a couple years back.

by Anonymousreply 83October 29, 2021 3:33 AM

Kal Penn.

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by Anonymousreply 84October 31, 2021 6:26 PM

^^ you mean you've never heard of Kal Penn's pal in the Cal Pen?

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by Anonymousreply 85October 31, 2021 6:31 PM

Well, congrats to Kal Penn and his pal.

by Anonymousreply 86October 31, 2021 6:41 PM

R38 WTF cares if anyone is bisexual. That's between them and their sexual partners.

by Anonymousreply 87October 31, 2021 7:01 PM

Lewis Hamilton pings to me.

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by Anonymousreply 88November 3, 2021 7:40 PM

^ Cookieface

by Anonymousreply 89November 3, 2021 7:53 PM

R88 I see it.

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by Anonymousreply 90November 3, 2021 7:56 PM

R88 Lando Norris from F1 pings more than Lewis. Lando is the swishiest of the swishy.

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by Anonymousreply 91November 3, 2021 9:19 PM

Lando Norris is a mother fucking cutie pie.

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by Anonymousreply 92November 4, 2021 1:35 AM

Lando is adorable

by Anonymousreply 93November 4, 2021 1:42 AM

Closeted types don't tend to joke about "date night."

by Anonymousreply 94November 4, 2021 9:26 AM

German actor Vladimir Burlakov just came out. Here he is with his boyfriend at the GQ Men of the year awards.

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by Anonymousreply 95November 5, 2021 12:38 PM

Those two are practically boyfriend twins.

by Anonymousreply 96November 5, 2021 12:40 PM

Lol r96.

by Anonymousreply 97November 5, 2021 1:05 PM

The bf is super hot.

by Anonymousreply 98November 5, 2021 2:43 PM

R98 which one?

by Anonymousreply 99November 5, 2021 3:18 PM

Well, the actor was named. The bf was not.

by Anonymousreply 100November 5, 2021 3:23 PM
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by Anonymousreply 101November 20, 2021 12:19 PM

Noah jupe.

by Anonymousreply 102November 20, 2021 2:01 PM

Only people of age, please.

by Anonymousreply 103November 20, 2021 2:49 PM

Jacob Tremblay then.

by Anonymousreply 104November 20, 2021 4:23 PM

Who made you hall monitor, r103?

by Anonymousreply 105November 20, 2021 4:26 PM

R95, they're both hot!

by Anonymousreply 106November 20, 2021 8:01 PM

The next power couple?

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by Anonymousreply 107November 21, 2021 3:13 AM

^^^ who's that?

by Anonymousreply 108November 21, 2021 3:16 AM

I believe Zac Efron will be forced out of the closet as well as John Mulaney

by Anonymousreply 109November 21, 2021 3:25 AM

Jared Leto

by Anonymousreply 110November 21, 2021 3:33 AM

We need another juicy political gay scandal. Are there any politicians who seem like they might get outed in an embarrassing scandal?

by Anonymousreply 111November 21, 2021 3:34 AM

Julian just publicly declared his love for Landon in a touching IG post. Maybe Arthur Nory inspired him.

What the hell are we going to gossip about now!? 😩

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by Anonymousreply 112December 2, 2021 1:25 PM

Tyler the Creator came out as straight in 2021.

by Anonymousreply 113December 2, 2021 1:40 PM

Julian and Landon are a handsome couple

by Anonymousreply 114December 2, 2021 7:50 PM

Has anyone started a who will come out in 2022 thread yet?

by Anonymousreply 115December 13, 2021 8:41 PM

R115, go ahead and start one

by Anonymousreply 116December 13, 2021 9:34 PM
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