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When gays ridicule bottoms, aren’t we just mimicking straight men?

Bottoms are often referred to as “less than” tops.

Straight men refer the same way to women or gay men whom they top.

It should stop

by Anonymousreply 11May 16, 2021 7:09 PM

[quote]When gays ridicule bottoms, aren’t we just mimicking straight men?

It's a joke.

Without bottoms there would be no tops.

by Anonymousreply 1May 16, 2021 6:18 PM

R1- We tops could always FUCK a blow up doll.

by Anonymousreply 2May 16, 2021 6:19 PM

When we overly feminize and infantilize the gay community aren’t we telling gay men they’re not good enough or allowed to come to Big Boys Adult table?

It’s called toxic femininity.

by Anonymousreply 3May 16, 2021 6:22 PM

How tedious. OP. "Gays" don't "ridicule "bottoms"j. "Gays" top, bottom and sideways, have our private sex lives which clearly don't include you.

by Anonymousreply 4May 16, 2021 6:37 PM

Agree, OP.

In hetero relationships, usually, the man will penetrate the woman, i.e., top a woman.

Ridiculing bottoms is like comparing the bottom to a woman (the bottom has lost his status of having a dick and being a real man).

by Anonymousreply 5May 16, 2021 6:43 PM

Where is all this imaginary “bottom-shaming” happening... in Alabama? If anything we’re venerating bottoms and shaming masc tops now. This is some narrative started by Yassss Kween Scene Queens who want to take everyone down to the lowest common denominator.

by Anonymousreply 6May 16, 2021 6:48 PM

OP = bottom

by Anonymousreply 7May 16, 2021 7:04 PM

R7- a BOSSY bottom

by Anonymousreply 8May 16, 2021 7:05 PM

Which one goes up into the man?

by Anonymousreply 9May 16, 2021 7:06 PM

Bottoms enjoy a little light ridicule.

by Anonymousreply 10May 16, 2021 7:06 PM

E.g., "shop bottom." It's not a compliment, let's face it.

by Anonymousreply 11May 16, 2021 7:09 PM
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