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Ellen: I’m the victim of misogyny!

Ellen says the attacks against her were “orchestrated” and “misogynistic” in first interview post announcing she is ending her show. Interestingly she doesn’t mention terrorizing underpaid staffers during her drunken blackouts.

Is Ellen the victim?

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by Anonymousreply 134May 20, 2021 9:20 PM

I guess it's misogynistic to call a cunt out on her shit.

by Anonymousreply 1May 13, 2021 2:07 PM

[quote]I guess it's misogynistic to call a cunt out on her shit.

If she's black or poc it's also racist.

by Anonymousreply 2May 13, 2021 2:10 PM

fuck this cunt

by Anonymousreply 3May 13, 2021 2:15 PM

She’s invalidating the true and genuine concerns of her own male and female staffers. It was other men AND women denouncing her. I think she’s better off just smiling and saying nothing. Twitter will turn her words against her-and she risks losing all the goodwill and her strides as a female and gay woman she’s made with her show. If she keeps it up they may push her out quicker.

This is a jab at the higher ups which are all likely male. Expect network execs to step out a lead female executive and squash this with a terse reply, smiles full of whitened shark teeth and cold hard numbers, way down.

It’s the only way to prepare for her replacement.

by Anonymousreply 4May 13, 2021 2:20 PM

Drunk

by Anonymousreply 5May 13, 2021 2:21 PM

May the slime befall the deserving.

by Anonymousreply 6May 13, 2021 2:22 PM

Who is this Ms. Ochinny everyone keeps referring to????

by Anonymousreply 7May 13, 2021 2:23 PM

Ellen is a nasty piece of work.

by Anonymousreply 8May 13, 2021 2:24 PM
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by Anonymousreply 9May 13, 2021 2:24 PM

Everyone’s persecuted these days.

I think this has a lot to do with this non-binary horseshit as well. Part of it is purely “pay attention to me, I’m different” behavior, but another part is, you bootstrap your own persecution. I was fired because I’m non-binary!

by Anonymousreply 10May 13, 2021 2:25 PM

Don’t come crying to us gays, you’ve already thrown us under the bus 🚌

Go to Kevin Hart’s house and see if he gives a flying fuck!

by Anonymousreply 11May 13, 2021 2:26 PM

I’m feeling bullish this morning, so I estimate this statement will increase the juiciness of this story by 25-30%.

by Anonymousreply 12May 13, 2021 2:26 PM

Never forget she was taking selfie’s with George W Bush like the two were teenage Instagram sluts, the man responsible for untold death and torture

by Anonymousreply 13May 13, 2021 2:28 PM

This is incredible she is pulling the lazy ass misogynist shit when so many woman have had successful talk shows but have not done it by abusing people. Even women are calling her out on her phony baloney kindness crap. She's now coming across as sleazy like a Fox talking head saying he/she is being cancelled.

by Anonymousreply 14May 13, 2021 2:30 PM

True she was a mean cunt at times to her staff, but things get way overblown now. OMG CANCEL HER. CANCEL HIM. CANCEL THEM.

We'll end up stuck with more Tucker Carlson types.

by Anonymousreply 15May 13, 2021 2:31 PM

CUNT!

by Anonymousreply 16May 13, 2021 2:32 PM

She was and homophobia. But that’s okay, Ellen. They’ll get what’s coming to them next year and in 24.

by Anonymousreply 17May 13, 2021 2:34 PM

Considering this has been talked about for years and there are many staffers who were bitter how was it overblown when be kind to people was her thing? Except when they work for you. Treat them like they're worthless human beings and sexually harass them as well. This has been well documented.

by Anonymousreply 18May 13, 2021 2:35 PM

Hilarious. This woman has more money than God, is one of the most powerful women in the entertainment industry, yet SHE is the victim because she is a nasty boss who mistreated her underpaid and overworked staffers. A 62 year old woman crying about “misogyny” for getting called out just proves what an egotistical CUNT she is.

by Anonymousreply 19May 13, 2021 2:37 PM

No dear, you're the victim of your own nasty personality.

by Anonymousreply 20May 13, 2021 2:40 PM

I wasn't really following it but it probably was misogynistic. Just as some attacks on Jeffrey Epstein have been anti-semitic, some of the ones on Cosby were racist, some on Elon Musk are ableist und so weiter. Let's be intersectional about this and admit that it's possible to be unfairly treated AND be a diespicable douche and perpetrator yourself.

by Anonymousreply 21May 13, 2021 2:40 PM

And has been noted her good friend George is a war criminal. But what nice selfies they take.

by Anonymousreply 22May 13, 2021 2:40 PM

I hate when bullies cry victim.

by Anonymousreply 23May 13, 2021 2:44 PM

Was she shat on more than a male host facing the same allegations might have been? Probably.

Did the issues go beyond those specific allegations and have more to do with her being a shitty human being in multiple ways? Also likely.

Both things can be true.

by Anonymousreply 24May 13, 2021 2:46 PM

Nasty woman!

by Anonymousreply 25May 13, 2021 2:51 PM

No one is a saint - and she has done a ton for gay/lesbian visibility, acceptance and really has done quite a bit for others in need.

That being said - this is what happens when people have too much money and power. They lose their heads.

She can't acknowledge or apologize for these behaviors because her legal teams have probably told her that would open up lawsuits and damage her more.

She really didn't have a choice - she was going to do one more year because of her contract and that was it. She's relieved to get out of it after last year's blow up.

I'm not sure how she can address these allegations without opening herself up to some serious damage.

by Anonymousreply 26May 13, 2021 2:59 PM

She needs to go away, get a hair transplant, and undergo anger management. Byeeeeeeeeeee!

by Anonymousreply 27May 13, 2021 3:03 PM

Ellen honey, don't even try to rewrite history by playing the misogyny card. That statement may work on Portia but even Hollywood types of both sexes complained about your behavior, not including your own employees. You were/are a cunt and there are receipts.

by Anonymousreply 28May 13, 2021 3:06 PM

Does Ellen have the worst PR team in the world or what?!!!

by Anonymousreply 29May 13, 2021 3:06 PM

I do think that Ellen is held to a different standard than her male peers. David Letterman had sexual relationships with female members of his staff, was often cruel to his guests and behaved like an ass, he is not cancelled, on the contrary he is making Netflix money. Jon Stewart was not always nice to his staff, Jay Leno is a backstabbing cunt. Let’s not even mention Jimmy Kimmel’s racist and sexist jokes from his Man Show with Adam Carolla.

Is Ellen a bitch? Probably but not the only one in talkshow business. Still the schadenfreude especially straight people have shown on sites like ONTD just does not sit right with me.

by Anonymousreply 30May 13, 2021 3:06 PM

None of them were shilling for kindness. Ellen's misbehavior goes beyond any criticism of the other hosts. None of them are nice people as we all know. They're comics.

by Anonymousreply 31May 13, 2021 3:11 PM

Next...

by Anonymousreply 32May 13, 2021 3:43 PM

[quote] I do think that Ellen is held to a different standard than her male peers. David Letterman had sexual relationships with female members of his staff, was often cruel to his guests and behaved like an ass, he is not cancelled

He basically retired when the tide began to turn on all of that.

by Anonymousreply 33May 13, 2021 3:50 PM

Oh bullshit! ^

by Anonymousreply 34May 13, 2021 3:51 PM

She should just go away quietly and hold onto what’s left of her dignity.

by Anonymousreply 35May 13, 2021 3:52 PM

Summary: "Sorry, not sorry."

by Anonymousreply 36May 13, 2021 4:00 PM

I was kind of surprised by her tone in the interview, she just refuses to accept any responsibility.

by Anonymousreply 37May 13, 2021 4:02 PM

The attack on her was more about the people who surrounded her. Male producers accosting male workers for sex. All the stories about ellen, her coldness, no looking in her eyes or talking to her - that is true of a lot of celebs, male and female. It was not misogynistic. For her to claim it was shows just how out of touch she is.

by Anonymousreply 38May 13, 2021 4:03 PM

Oh, of course! How long has she been on the air? Surely the misogynists would have got rid of her by now?

by Anonymousreply 39May 13, 2021 4:04 PM

DLers: What evidence do we have that she's a drunk? I don't doubt it, but want to know if there are eye-witness reports.

by Anonymousreply 40May 13, 2021 4:17 PM

“And then for me to read in the press about a toxic work environment, when all I’ve ever heard from every guest that comes on the show is what a happy atmosphere this is and what a happy place this is.”

What a ridiculous, cunty defence. The attacks were from her employees. And her defence is her celeb, friends who guested on the show thought everyone was happy. As if VIP guests would notice anything.

by Anonymousreply 41May 13, 2021 10:05 PM

uhh Nikki Tutorials came out right after her interview on Ellen saying it was a terrible experience and she said it on the next talk show she was on. It was all over the internet.

by Anonymousreply 42May 13, 2021 10:37 PM

Ellen needs to thought of as a victim. She’s quite the piece of work.

by Anonymousreply 43May 13, 2021 10:38 PM

Doesn't she have enough money by now?

by Anonymousreply 44May 13, 2021 10:41 PM

"You're the meany for calling me a meany!"

by Anonymousreply 45May 13, 2021 10:44 PM

At first, I respect Ellen for not bringing up misygony and homophobia in response to the allegations. But now, my last dose of respect for her is gone.

by Anonymousreply 46May 14, 2021 12:42 AM

Ellen is also a Republican....She always has been since her Louisiana days....She is so disgusting....

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by Anonymousreply 47May 14, 2021 12:53 AM

This doesn't have anything to do with the day to day workplace environment, but as far as guests go, if after18 (!!!!!) seasons all you can say is some literal nobody from The Netherlands was disappointed in how she was treated, that is extremely weak. It shouldn't be mentioned in the same breath as the employee allegations.

by Anonymousreply 48May 14, 2021 1:24 AM

I figured something like this was coming. A woman as greedy and egotistical as Ellen is incapable of self reflection and taking fault for anything. She’d throw anyone under the bus to create cover for herself. A SICK woman.

by Anonymousreply 49May 14, 2021 1:38 AM

The stories I have seen are all pretty consistent. Mostly from the "little" people. I believe them. She has more money than most people in this country. Portia can console her.

by Anonymousreply 50May 14, 2021 2:10 AM

Her biggest crime according to her is that she is sometimes impatient.

by Anonymousreply 51May 14, 2021 2:15 AM

Leave and don’t come back.

by Anonymousreply 52May 14, 2021 2:15 AM

Who's the old guy in OP's photo?

by Anonymousreply 53May 14, 2021 2:47 AM

Ellen has crazy eyes.

by Anonymousreply 54May 14, 2021 2:48 AM

[quote]Portia can console her.

Um, Portia is busy starving herself to death for Ellen...

So no...that's not going to happen

by Anonymousreply 55May 14, 2021 2:48 AM

I think she has mild autism

by Anonymousreply 56May 14, 2021 2:49 AM

I condole her...

She seemed perfectly "normal" to me

by Anonymousreply 57May 14, 2021 2:50 AM

[quote] Is Ellen the victim?

Nope, she’s a rich bitch POS that doesn’t care about anybody else but herself

by Anonymousreply 58May 14, 2021 2:51 AM

Ugh. A year is a looong time.

So what's next? Directing? Broadway?

by Anonymousreply 59May 14, 2021 2:52 AM

Wouldn't it be amazing if you made a bazillion dollars and you became one of the 1%

and you moved into this giant compound in Montecito and you only socialized with the richest people

who were also the most giant assholes on earth with the biggest egos in history

by Anonymousreply 60May 14, 2021 2:52 AM

I demand equality except when it comes to personal accountability—then I’m just a poor defenseless woman.

by Anonymousreply 61May 14, 2021 2:54 AM

Ok Savannah, here's how this is going to go...

Ellen's assistant will give you a signal as to what Ellen is trying to what emotion Ellen is trying to express...

You know, like vulnerability or remembering something painful....

So you look at her assistant and take your cues from her

BUT DON'T MAKE EYE CONTACT WITH ELLEN UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES!!!

by Anonymousreply 62May 14, 2021 2:57 AM

ORANGE PEKOE?

I ask for hot tea and you people try to give me Orange Pekoe?

Goddammit, why do you people hate successful women so fuckin' much

by Anonymousreply 63May 14, 2021 3:00 AM

At the golden globes last year at an after party Ellen was so drunk she had to be taken out in a wheelchair

by Anonymousreply 64May 14, 2021 3:00 AM

[quote]At the golden globes last year at an after party Ellen was so drunk she had to be taken out in a wheelchair

And no one could remember an evening when she had been more pleasant...

by Anonymousreply 65May 14, 2021 3:03 AM

r51 She's selfish, impatient and a little insecure. She makes mistakes, she is out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle her at her worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve her at her best.

by Anonymousreply 66May 14, 2021 3:21 AM

People who get off on practical jokes, ambushing, etc. are passive-aggressive with suppressed anger issues.

by Anonymousreply 67May 14, 2021 3:30 AM

I haven’t spoken to her since she gave Sofia Vergara top billing over Barbra!

by Anonymousreply 68May 14, 2021 3:37 AM

She's right, just as Hillary Clinton was correct about the "vast right-wing conspiracy." The misogynistic, incel alt-righters from the 'chan' boards, far-right Republicans, white supremacists, and paid Russian trolls have been busy giving energy to, and amplifying, stories about what a bitch she is, how mean she is, until it has become an online, social media-transmitted tsunami of negative opinion. The goal was to persuade her advertisers to abandon her, and the network to cancel her show, and unfortunately, they've been pretty successful in doing it.

Whatever one may think of Ellen (for my own part, I do not think of her at all - I've never watched her show, ever), what has happened to her is to the detriment of us all.

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by Anonymousreply 69May 14, 2021 3:49 AM

I can’t watch her at all anymore because I think she is such a liar.

by Anonymousreply 70May 14, 2021 3:56 AM

Please, this POS ain’t going nowhere. She will disappear for a year or so, dump the pixie stick she’s married to and start “finding herself”. She’ll reappear with a younger wife, some David Crosby-frozen sperm kids, and a line of essential oils/lubes. She will start to go senile by that point and the new wifey will get all the millions and some side dick from Colton Hayes

by Anonymousreply 71May 14, 2021 4:03 AM

R66 She's always a woman to me.

by Anonymousreply 72May 14, 2021 4:13 AM

Someone should have recorded her abusing staff.

by Anonymousreply 73May 14, 2021 4:15 AM

Its been said already, but damn this woman has some nerve. She has been tremendously more successful than multitudes of women and LGBT people in television. 19 years is FOREVER for a daytime talk show host, and not to mention her other achievements.

Instead of just being grateful that she can afford to remodel yet another palatial estate in California, the bitch goes on TV to complain the day after her show is cancelled. She could have at least been tasteful about it an buried it in a chapter of her memoir. What an ingrate.

by Anonymousreply 74May 14, 2021 4:21 AM

And Hollywood is wondering why most of America are growing tired of them. Ellen, Meghan, Crissy........all victims they tell us from their multi-million dollar mansions.

by Anonymousreply 75May 14, 2021 4:29 AM

She was such a victim of misogyny that she hosted her own talk show for 19 years, won several Emmys and made a fortune doing it.

by Anonymousreply 76May 14, 2021 4:30 AM

And look at how it has come to an end, R76 - through a negative wave of social media.

by Anonymousreply 77May 14, 2021 4:33 AM

Through her own negative selfish arrogant behavior.

by Anonymousreply 78May 14, 2021 4:40 AM

Savannah was a safe haven. She went easy on her.

by Anonymousreply 79May 14, 2021 4:42 AM

Genuinely kind people don't have to say "I'm a kind person." People with that kind of success are narcissists. It's not in her nature.

I think her success has made her unrelatable. Also, her line of clothes for Walmart is the ugliest shit I've ever seen.

I soured on her when her TV show imploded. "I'm just like every straight person except I'm gay."

by Anonymousreply 80May 14, 2021 4:43 AM

[quote]Through her own negative selfish arrogant behavior.

...which most of us would never have heard or given two shits about, R78, had it not been for the amplification of negative messaging, a large percentage of which probably isn't even true.

by Anonymousreply 81May 14, 2021 4:43 AM

Were I not shackled to this radiator, I might tell you the story of a true victim of misogyny.

by Anonymousreply 82May 14, 2021 4:50 AM

This is why I always say only douchebags tell others to "be kind to one another".

by Anonymousreply 83May 14, 2021 4:56 AM

Ellen looks seriously OLD and GROSS outside of her studio.....I loved her "I care TOO MUCH" line of BS on the Today Show---then she said there were "too many buildings" for her know anything negative was going on....

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by Anonymousreply 84May 14, 2021 4:59 AM

Just because more men get away with being dictatorial assholes doesn't make it right.

by Anonymousreply 85May 14, 2021 4:59 AM

[quote]David Letterman had sexual relationships with female members of his staff, was often cruel to his guests and behaved like an ass, he is not cancelled, on the contrary he is making Netflix money.

I can say, from personal experience, David Letterman was a massive asshole. If there were new accusations, he would be cancelled. The main person that came forward last time, that got traction, was one of his former writers. The person even interviewed him and talked about it with him. He is not in the same league as Ellen where scores of people who have worked with her and dealt with her all came forward at the exact same time. Some of them even cited comments from YEARS before.

I don't want to say Ellen was targeted. I'll say that Ellen's producer getting into trouble caused blowback on her since her name is on the show and many people believe that she knew what was happening and did nothing to stop it. Once that Pandora's Box was open, nothing was going to close it.

Also David Letterman wasn't known for being nice, kind, friendly, your buddy who you can talk to when you get into work and they'll make your day so much better. Letterman was a bitter ass and he wore that like a badge of honor. Part of what hurt Ellen so much, is the same thing that screwed up Rosie O'Donnell, you can't be known as being NICE and then have stories come out about you that say you may not be so nice. Screw the internet and its feelings, that will piss off Ma and Pa in flyover states.

[quote]Jon Stewart was not always nice to his staff

He has talked about their issues with hiring diverse writers for the show and apologized. Both he and Wyatt Cenac have talked about and owned up to their parts in their massive fight. Again, he didn't get attacked en masse like Ellen because there just aren't that many stories of him being mean to people. I met him once in my youth and he was very kind to me. That doesn't mean he wasn't mean to other people. I just know he didn't know who the hell I was and I had a whole ass long conversation with him. I woulda' sucked his dick right there if he would have asked.

[quote]Jay Leno is a backstabbing cunt.

I can say, from personal experience, he's a fucking sweetheart and a half and professionally I owe him. I can't say anything about what he did with the "Late Night Wars" because that was before my time but, his staff did NOT hate him. There also weren't scores of stories about how horrible he was.

[quote]Let’s not even mention Jimmy Kimmel’s racist and sexist jokes from his Man Show with Adam Carolla.

and he apologizes for what he did, years ago, every other year when someone writer or the internet digs it up. The problem with these stories is that people eventually get tired of hearing them because they already know them and the responses have already been distributed.

I don't particularly care for Jimmy but that's a personal issue.

Here's what it comes down to: Ellen would be fine if there were no stories there. Better yet, Ellen would be fine if there weren't YEARS AND YEARS of stories there, right down to ones that happened in the past few years.

It's like, Tina Fey. People have cancelled her yearly and she has a new series on now like none of that ever happened because while Tina may have written and put out some questionable to horrible material over the years that outrages people to this day but she wasn't mean to her own staff, writers, waitresses, people that stood next to her in line at the DMV and she never basked in the attention that being "nice" gets you.

That's all Ellen.

by Anonymousreply 86May 14, 2021 5:25 AM

Queen of Mean!

by Anonymousreply 87May 14, 2021 5:31 AM

R69 please take your meds, Carol

by Anonymousreply 88May 14, 2021 5:43 AM

Ah yes Russian trolls are running a disinformation campaign against a politically moderate lesbian millionaire comic with a history of odd behavior on and off camera because ....? Weird how they never took Jon Stewart, John Oliver, or any of the other overly Russia skeptic talk show hosts down.

by Anonymousreply 89May 14, 2021 5:47 AM

Has anyone considered the possibility of an Ellen/Meghan pairing?

That would be super fun. I suppose Ellen is a couple of billion short of the kind of dosh M would require to ditch Harry, but maybe Megs could hire her for Netflix?

by Anonymousreply 90May 14, 2021 5:49 AM

I was molested.

by Anonymousreply 91May 14, 2021 5:50 AM

Can she grow her fucking hair? Her dumbo ears are terrible

by Anonymousreply 92May 14, 2021 6:09 AM

You people are whack jobs. Why so many people in Hollywood and/or allegedly liberal is aligning themselves with and following the demands of the most unhinged members of our society is beyond my comprehension.

by Anonymousreply 93May 14, 2021 6:28 AM

In one of the earlier episodes of her show, she had just finished her dance routine, and sat back down in her chair. Right then, you could hear a loud crash from backstage. Ellen's head whipped around to off-stage, and the look on her face was of pure fury. Her mask had slipped. It was just a split-second, but when I saw that, I said to myself, "She's not what she appears to be. She's not that funny, likeable person she portrays. "

So, it doesn't surprise me one bit that her meanness has finally come to light. Misogyny has nothing do to with it, and that's a easy cop-out right now. Her reputation finally caught up to her, that's all.

by Anonymousreply 94May 14, 2021 6:39 AM

Horrible "person"

by Anonymousreply 95May 14, 2021 6:46 AM

That bitch is such a cunt.

by Anonymousreply 96May 14, 2021 6:54 AM

The TikTok generation was not around when Ellen came out and they have no idea how fierce the backlash was back then. Ellen was unemployed for quite some time before her comeback, no one wanted to hire her. Oprah got shamed for being on the coming-out episode by her own audience (she did not give a fuck which I respect to this day). Even Laura Fucking Dern had difficulties booking jobs after guest starring on Ellen. It was a big deal back then and I am sure that Ellen still deals with the psychological damage from the fallout.

Is she a mean drunk? Probably but I kinda understand why she is like that.

by Anonymousreply 97May 14, 2021 8:56 AM

"Part of what hurt Ellen so much, is the same thing that screwed up Rosie O'Donnell, you can't be known as being NICE and then have stories come out about you that say you may not be so nice."

That’s exactly the point, r 86. The other people you mentioned are all straight, so apparently, they can be mean and assholes. The lesbians, nope. They needed to be marketed as nice and non-threatening to America: Yes, they are gay but look how nice and harmless they are! Super, super nice!

I am amazed that posters on a gay board cannot see how fucked up that is.

by Anonymousreply 98May 14, 2021 8:59 AM

R98, If your point is: women on daytime television can't be seen as anything other than nice by their audience then yes. That's true. You have a point. It's unfair.

Throw Kelly Ripa in there as well. That's the culture of Daytime TV. A male host could get away with being cold or biting but a woman couldn't. Ann Curry is a great example. They just didn't want a serious journalist who was a woman there and it's terrible because she was GOOD. Meanwhile Matt Lauer was a terror behind the scenes but those days of getting away with that are gone.

I don't know how other people feel about Ellen here but ...

The very first CD set I bought was a recording of Ellen: The Funny Thing Is ... I also remember convincing my family to let me watch "adult" TV and see a show called, "Open House" that Ellen was on many, many years ago. For my birthday I asked my dad if he'd take me to see, "Mr. Wrong." I was the weird kid at school reading, "My Point: And I Do Have One ..." I watched, "These Friends of Mine"/"Ellen's" coming out episode with my whole family as a little kid. They were pretty progressive. You know how we kinda always "know" one another even before one of us openly comes out. I had that with her. She helped me be more me. I felt the same way about Rosie when I'd watch her host Caroline's Comedy Hour on VH1 as a little kid. I learned my first joke from watching one of her performances.

[quote]The other people you mentioned are all straight, so apparently, they can be mean and assholes. The lesbians, nope.

Nobody, straight or gay man or woman, can be caught being an asshole in 2021. That is not the way culture is headed. It hasn't been like that for a few years now.

Everyone is gunning for someone to go after but they can't go after you if you don't give them anything.

Nobody mentioned above was as nice as Conan O'Brien was and continues to be but Jay Leno, Jimmy Kimmel, Jon Stewart were generally not assholes to people or their own staff. David Letterman would NOT get away with any of the stuff he did on his show now. Yes, he has a Netflix show but so does everyone. I didn't even remember he had one until someone mentioned it. Seth Meyer and Stephen Colbert are a little after my time but I don't think we've heard much about them.

The behind the scenes chaos on her daytime show is exactly the kind of stuff that shook up NBC with Matt Lauer and CBS with Charlie Rose later on. The difference is that Ellen wasn't the one doing any of it. The question was did she know? It didn't matter because that opened the flood gates for people to complain about her in general.

Is the fall a little harder for her because she's supposed to be a "nice" "hetero acceptable" lesbian and that's unfair? Yeah.

Would this have happened if she were a straight man? Yes, yes it would have in 2019, 2020 & 2021.

But there's a difference between being tough and trying to get a woman (who is also a comedian) fired from her server job because she had chipped nails or hiring back an assistant just to fire them again to punish them for leaving in the first place because she wanted health insurance or treating your staff horribly during the coronavirus pandemic which other hosts didn't do.

I will always love Ellen for what she did for all of us but I'd never work with her. I had enough of working in toxic environments.

by Anonymousreply 99May 14, 2021 9:39 AM

Can we agree that whining and finger-pointing after you end your 19-year-long show, which earned you half a billion dollars, is not a good look? This woman is incapable of happiness.

by Anonymousreply 100May 14, 2021 9:45 AM

Given that most people mistake Ellen for being a male I don't know how she could accuse people of misogyny.

by Anonymousreply 101May 14, 2021 9:46 AM

Stop making excuses for this horrible she-devil.

by Anonymousreply 102May 14, 2021 10:42 AM
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by Anonymousreply 103May 14, 2021 3:40 PM

Being a woman is so 2020, so the victim card won't work with the people she appeals to. She's right however. I dislike her but of course her being a woman played a role. The outrage seems so manufactured.

by Anonymousreply 104May 14, 2021 4:17 PM

I liked Ellen when she worked in the bookstore then she ruined things making everything zbout her and her sexuality. Suffered through the Annne Heche days, when they were over, so was I. Ellen's 15 minutes were over many years ago but the studio and media kept pimping her. She won't be missed, yet it's scary to think just who these geniuses have lined up to take her place.

by Anonymousreply 105May 14, 2021 4:24 PM

Being a woman played a role? How about about being a shit to people who work for you and protecting men you can get something out of who destroy peoples lives? We seem to have Ellen on this thread defending herself and doing a rotten job of it.

by Anonymousreply 106May 14, 2021 5:47 PM

She is just a big old drunk who has a mean streak. She gets a perverse joy out of scaring people and making them uncomfortable. Just say goodnight, Ellen!

by Anonymousreply 107May 14, 2021 5:54 PM

That interview with Savannah Guthrie was so infuriating. Has Drew Barrymore, Kelly Clarkson, or even Oprah had a parade of former staffers talk about how cruel they were? And if they did, wouldn't their famous friends come to their defense? It speaks volumes that Ellen staffers were able to establish a pattern of behavior, and very few of Ellen's famous friends were willing to come to her defense.

Genuinely nice people could never ever ever have a caricature of them being mean endure for decades. It doesn't happen. Even Goop, who many assume is a cunt, has never had anyone go on the record saying anything bad about her or the environment at her company.

by Anonymousreply 108May 14, 2021 6:26 PM

R47 the Obamas are friends with the Bushes. Why isn’t Michelle getting this kind of hate?

by Anonymousreply 109May 14, 2021 6:35 PM

[quote]Because you can’t be critical of black people anymore

Incorrect, R109. I see you trying to sneak race into an otherwise stable discussion.

It's expected that former Presidents and First Ladies spend time together at events. They're even expected to act friendly no matter what side of the aisle they were on previously since essentially they're retired from public service.

She wasn't being friendly at a dinner or a funeral that she was expected to attend.

Ellen chose to hang out with him on her own.

by Anonymousreply 110May 14, 2021 8:55 PM

100% correct.

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by Anonymousreply 111May 15, 2021 2:20 AM

R109 the obamas have political reasons for being friends with the Bushes. And Michelle Obama has gotten plenty of shit for some of the stuff she has said about bush.

Ellen is a woman with no morals. She will suck up to anyone with power. Her fawning over Bush goes way back to when he was president and she had a fluff interview with him when one of his daughters was on her show. She’s a sick, insecure woman who will befriend anyone who feeds into her ego.

by Anonymousreply 112May 15, 2021 3:07 AM

My tiny violin plays for her….. 🎻

by Anonymousreply 113May 15, 2021 3:25 AM

Remember when she supported homophobe Kevin Hart and even said she called the Academy to help get him his job back after he was asked to step down when people found homophobic things on his Twitter?

The more I think back to the incidents with her in the past the more I see that it was a slow and steady spiral down for her that began long before the Dakota interview.

Remember the whole adopting and giving away multiple dogs thing even before this?

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by Anonymousreply 114May 15, 2021 5:57 PM

In 2020, a year when she, by her own doing, was hated by more people than ever — and not because she's a lesbian, and not because she's a woman — she made $84M. But she's a victim! For defending her very dear friends Geo. W. Bush and Kevin Hart, for belittling her guests, for treating her employees like shit, and for generally being imperious and having the sourest face on TV or any media. She doesn't have a friend on the face of the earth. All she's got is financial success and the clout to make her moodiness and fundamental unpleasantness always someone else's problem, never her own.

Who the fuck were the brain dead who watched her show anyway?

by Anonymousreply 115May 15, 2021 6:51 PM

I never thought she would become such a mean cunt. Can’t wait for the karma to catch up to her. Maybe it has, she’s such a miserable person.

by Anonymousreply 116May 15, 2021 11:19 PM

Oh, for heaven's sake.

She's been hiding for years behind a façade of "Be kind," and it came to light she's a mean, cold asshole who is abudsive to her staff. her ratings are in the toilet as a result, and so she's quitting, but wants to publicly blame it on "misogyny" to save face.

Well, sister, no one's buying. Take your mean cold butt back to Montecito and whine about it to Oprah and Gayle. No one will ever think of you as anything again other than as a total hypocrite.

by Anonymousreply 117May 15, 2021 11:43 PM

Ellen: I'm the victim of michigas!

by Anonymousreply 118May 16, 2021 1:09 AM

Animal abuser

by Anonymousreply 119May 16, 2021 1:24 AM

I think she's channeling the late Arthur Godfrey whose show was saccharine and family-oriented but he treated his staff like shit and fired a singer, Julius La Rosa, on air. I found her talk show similarly unwatchable. The dancing, precocious tykes and crusty old ladies were annoying and pure middle American corn pone.

by Anonymousreply 120May 16, 2021 6:46 AM

[quote] I liked Ellen when she worked in the bookstore then she ruined things making everything zbout her and her sexuality.

Honey, Will and Grace was a rip-off of the last season if her show. She did it first. Go back and watch it.

by Anonymousreply 121May 16, 2021 6:50 AM

R120, I'm only vaguely aware of Godfrey; he had a foot or two in the grave already when I was young, and even then he seemed an unfunny relic of some other time. But even to a young kid his insincerity was repulsive - just as deGeneres' act is to reasonable adults. Corn pone, indeed.

by Anonymousreply 122May 16, 2021 8:18 AM

Misogyny. But then again I repeat myself - whether talking to gay men or straight men....and Stepford women

by Anonymousreply 123May 16, 2021 8:24 AM

Godfrey was a dyed in the wool bigot Big Jew-hater.

by Anonymousreply 124May 16, 2021 5:00 PM

She got away with most of her shit BECAUSE she was a woman, and especially because she was a gay woman.

by Anonymousreply 125May 16, 2021 5:04 PM

Oh Anscher off his meds at r124: shut up.

by Anonymousreply 126May 16, 2021 5:08 PM

Up until the point of LaRosa's firing Godfrey was a hugely popular television personality. He had an avuncular warm beloved uncle demeanor about him which attracted audiences in droves. Then the audience found it was a phony persona and realized he was just underneath it all a nasty unpleasant person. They were no longer entertained by him and though he continued to make appearances his enormously successful career never recovered.

And it had nothing to do with misogyny or homophobia.

by Anonymousreply 127May 16, 2021 5:17 PM

Black people do the same thing. “Racism!” It’s human nature to use every crutch at your disposal. People have a hard time believing that they’re assholes — it’s got to be misogyny or homophobia or racism at play!

by Anonymousreply 128May 16, 2021 5:25 PM

Wasn't she herself accused of misogyny when the clip resurfaced where she wanted Mariah Carey to drink alcohol in order to find out if she was pregnant or not?

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by Anonymousreply 129May 20, 2021 9:15 AM

[R99]

I've always loved Jon Stewart, but I've been giving him a side-eye since learning that his brother is/was the COO of the NY Stock Exchange. It just doesn't sit well with me. Hmmm.

"His real name is Jonathan Stuart Leibowitz. His brother is Larry Leibowitz, the Chief Operating Officer (COO) of the New York Stock Exchange(NYSE) !! "

by Anonymousreply 130May 20, 2021 5:48 PM

There was a certain momentum she’d been enjoying for awhile so I think people like her can’t imagine that their good fortune would be reversed so quickly. Rosie O’Donnell’s show succumbed to the same issue. I think it’s like a White Tower Syndrome that happens over time, so they don’t acknowledge it happened. Having lots of money not only insulates you and smooths over the bumps, it blinds you.

You can’t keep playing the “Queen of Nice” when people finally find out your blood pumps veins full of ice.

by Anonymousreply 131May 20, 2021 6:25 PM

Quite the opposite in Godfrey's case, which explains why he was never universally beloved.

"Godfrey began to broadcast his show from the Kenilworth Hotel in Bal Harbour in 1953, with 54 million people tuning in for the first show. He eventually owned a minority stake in the hotel, which, like other hotels on the Beach at the time, had policies against blacks and Jews."

And yet it took his public humiliation of Julius LaRosa for white Christian America to fall out of love with him.

by Anonymousreply 132May 20, 2021 6:41 PM

R132 here. The claim about Godfrey being antisemitic is disputed so no need to derail the thread. The larger point is true--people fall out of love with talk show hosts because they can.

by Anonymousreply 133May 20, 2021 7:09 PM

Ellen had a sadistic streak that was full on display

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by Anonymousreply 134May 20, 2021 9:20 PM
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