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Is the Gay Twink the new Married Man's side piece?

There has been a very slow transition and slow acceptance of sex between men who don't identify as gay, when it's just about sex and not a romantic affair. A lot has to do with the wide range of gay porn that has been beaming right into boys bedrooms for over a decade now - whether they just stumble across it or seek it out, out of curiosity. They see boys, men, just like them who happen to be gay, normalizing gay sex for them. It becomes another option as opposed to a subversive act. There are after school Chaturbaters whose content moves seamlessly between boys having sex with girls and then with each other without any definition of what's happening other than a really hot time enjoyed by all. Gay still exists. The definition is now narrower and something different than what it has been for a good century now. Sex for men is like a sport or a hobby. And it's becoming less of a stigma who they have it with.

So on top of this, I have noticed a very interesting dynamic between married men and younger gay bottoms, twinks. Sex is about energy between two people. Some men offer a very feminine submissive energy, and a willingness to serve that turns on men who are drawn and attracted to that - a good number of these men being straight and a good number of those, married. The twink side piece is not looking to take the the place of the wife. The gay twink has a man's sex drive and is satisfied with the singular sexual nature of the relationship. The younger man is not going to get pregnant or try and trap the married man with a baby, or insist he leave his wife for him. The gay twink is less likely to catch feelings for a man by confusing sex for love, or become possessive and compromise the relationship with the married man and his wife. And the twink is assumed to have a life of his own, boyfriends, other sexual partners and not waiting by the phone for the married man to call.

In my opinion the smart wife that wants a long marriage would seek out a sexy fem boy to satisfy her husband over him finding a younger, single woman on his own. Most of these types of younger women eventually end up living their lives waiting for the husband to leave his wife. The married man/twink relationship is allowed, sanctioned and posses no threat to her family unit. That's just my opinion. And over time I think we will see more and more of these relationships blossom. A married couple with a young gay friend of the family.

by Anonymousreply 10May 14, 2021 3:06 AM

I'm not seeing the acceptance from anyone who didn't accept men fucking previously.

by Anonymousreply 1May 13, 2021 3:55 AM

What an absolute load of crap.

by Anonymousreply 2May 13, 2021 4:03 AM

Darn, r2. I thought you'd make it to R1. But I guess you being a #2 is apropos.

by Anonymousreply 3May 13, 2021 4:44 AM

What's OP banging on about? Tldr and no paras, so I'm not bothering to read.

by Anonymousreply 4May 13, 2021 6:38 AM

And yet for some reason, wives are not enthusiastic about this. Go figure.

by Anonymousreply 5May 13, 2021 6:48 AM

R5 I'm surprised they're not.

It's not as if twinks will squeeze out their own begats and threaten her brood. They should take toyboys on of their own to teach them the finer arts of lurve. But I suspect most will be happy just getting fat on bonbons and relieved their fatter sweatier husband are getting their rocks off in some other hole.

by Anonymousreply 6May 13, 2021 8:55 AM

Nonsense. If you like men and having sex with men, you are gay. Freddie Mercury's ex was right even though it took him almost a decade to admit it. A man who desires other men is gay and the one and only thing that man's female spouse can do is admit it and find her own way and be a supportive friend (assuming he's also a good friend). A normal woman will see the truth no matter how much a repressed man may deny it and if she is self-respecting, will honor her feelings and his. Sadly, not many people are this clear-minded or strong.

by Anonymousreply 7May 13, 2021 9:03 AM

R7 2003 is calling. What someone gets off on sexually does not define them as a person. If that was the case everyone who gets off being choked out during sex would be in abusive relationships. Men had sex with men for centuries and it was never defined as gay. There was no such thing as GAY. It was just sex with men and sex with woman. The way things are up until recently are hardly the way they have always been. Even in the Bible Sodom and Gomorrah the men circled the house asking that Lot hand over those beautiful angels for them to bang. Men have been banging men for millennia with no stigma attached to it before modern times.

by Anonymousreply 8May 14, 2021 1:25 AM

Did OP write a fuckin essay over the "brand new discovery" that some men have sex with women and men? If only there was a word to describe these men...

by Anonymousreply 9May 14, 2021 1:29 AM

Did r9 even read what I wrote? There are several words to describe someone like him. Obtuse being one of them.

by Anonymousreply 10May 14, 2021 3:06 AM
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