The big ass trend for (gay) men sucks, men aren’t supposed to have big asses

I like small cute assess on Twinks.

I agree, but DL has a think for great big fat asses on guys. Anything not approaching Kardashian proportions will be dismissed as “flat”.

The word *buttocks* just connotes fullness, OP.

Are you a top, OP? if not, you have no say in the matter.

I like full not big asses.

Big asses are low breeding.

I was pretty sexually active in my 20's and the best asses weren't usually the huge Kardashian ones (which appeared to be pretty rare then) but the muscle asses that got that way from playing soccer or running/jogging/walking all the time. Those are the hottest asses to me. Just plump enough. You could call them ballet asses. Male dancers all seem to have these.

It's the new normal, everyone is so fat now no one knows what normal is.

You elderbitches and your obsession with slimness...the world now wants THICC, and is moving on without you.

OP just admit you have a flat ass and you’re jealous.

Whatever American fattards touch always turn into perverse shit, even shapes and forms have been turned into perverse shit in Americans' hands. Fat fat fat with no class or good taste.

This thread is useless without pics.

There's enough dick and ass to go around for everyone to have their pick. Haters.

I'm guessin' Jari Jones ain't your type OP?

Most male ass aren’t big and would be called “flat” on this forum. So what we have is more unrealistic expectations. This isn’t what gay men need. Shit like this is causing problems for gay men.

I disagree bro

It isn't a "trend" OP. Just a few tired fetishists who are desperate to fuck womanly asses like R16 et al.

OP lost me at green peppers.

Red peppers, maybe.

What about the yellow ones R18?

Is OP under the impression that one's ass is an item of couture that one can just take on and off?

Do you take your ass off, OP? Seems like you're a whole ass......

Give me the thicc ass of a power athlete like powerlifters, football players or rugby players any day.

There's a difference between a fat ass and a muscled one.

I think OP is talking about gross surgically enhanced asses R21.

Big asses are usually smelly.

Imagine the STENCH from those fetid Kardashian asses?! 🤢 🤮 🤧 😷🤢 🤮 🤧 😷

R22, if that's so, then that's just gross.

Big asses are da bomb!

looks enhanced to me

I usually skip threads about asses because those big bubble asses (and big bubble bodies) just look silly and grotesque to me, honestly. I don't know whether people are trying to resemble superhero cartoon bodies but that is not sexy to me or human-looking.

OP = flatter than a pancake 🥞

I agree OP! I love a small, round, tight buttisimo on a well built man. Big asses on men are unsightly and offend mine eyes.

Apple bottom

The only ones complaining are old stodgy white pepper

White people

I don’t like big asses. The Kardashian’s asses look deformed.

I love them

Op, so only the European form of beauty should be considered? The statue of David is not the end all be all of the human physical form.

I can throw this back at you and say men aren't meant to have flat, pancake asses with nasty skin sag after they reach 35. But I won't say that because there are a variety of body shapes and forms. Many gays like abs in the front and at least some butt in the back. Though out of the two, abs win every time.

As America browns, there is more appreciation for fuller shaped physiques

[quote]I don't know whether people are trying to resemble superhero cartoon bodies

This is it. It’s awful.

[quote]As America brown

?

So you want [italic]less[italic] cushion for the pushin’?

[quote]I don't know whether people are trying to resemble superhero cartoon bodies

Like good little Nazis.

If a man's ass cheeks are too big for me to get my hands around, they are just too damn big. And don't get me started about jiggly asses on a man. That's just nasty.

I like ‘em big and I like ‘em small. There’s hardly an ass that I don’t like at all.

Except for horrible butt cheek implants. Those are terrible.

R41 is not a hot black or Latin dude, so men who like them don’t care what he thinks

Lean bodies are best. I find fat, overly muscled, curvy, etc. all unappealing.

And that’s you. I love ‘‘em big and buff like the TikTok superstars

Unfortunately the guy at R26 is facially unattractive.

r46 he's not bad looking IMO. Im sure he gets tons of dick

It’s the facial hair, R47.

small waist, wide booty 😛

Hasn't it been claimed that Rafael Alencar's buttisimo is artificially enhanced?

The best!

R12 is everything to me. I’m with you, OP. I like a tight little ass

I’ve never liked flat asses. Or small ones. For some reason, a lot of people with flat asses have great legs…so unfair.

More

real fat cheeks?

Beautiful male bubble butt

OP, then don't fuck them.

Sorry, gross, r55

But do they look real or not r58

Fuck no they don’t look real

More!

I would pay r55 to sit on my face for hours.

P Boss

Really varies with the individual and the type of workouts they do. I’m all for enhancing what you’ve got, everyone is unique. I would be sad if everyone was a clone.

Buh buh buh Bump Bitchs R64 R65

The first time I have heard that men with big ass are desired was here on DL. Because the ideal for a white male is small firm ass.

I am from Europe and I only know that straight guys are into big asses.

R67 sounds so old and white

On DL, when you disagree with something another poster shares, it’s OK to point out that they are white or older than you think is relevant or acceptable.

Love a big ass on a man! But I would hardly call the David statue’s ass small, like some on here are implying. That’s a big, juicy bubblebutt! It’s more about roundness than mass. Jut appeal. A shelf. Muscular is great but so is jiggly. I love an ass that surprises me. You see a hot guy from the front and you think he’s going to have a certain kind of bum, and he turns around and WOW! Juicy booty for days! It depends on the guy actually, but the only ass I DON’T like is a skinny/flat one.

I like big beefy asses on masculine men. Not these queeny GenZs channeling their inner Kardashian. Some of these pcs above are barf worthy.

And no to the big asses are stinky troll, they are not. Not anymore than any other ass. Grow up.

I’ll never look at green peppers the same way again! But identically shaped red and yellow peppers are safe.

I love big butts but these are feminized butts from surgery pr filtering. Men are feminine today, which is fine, but they want to become “women”. They’re not naturally feminine men, they’re “women”.

Dudes are working glutes in gyms like never before

There are a lot of Irish guys with big butts. Also, my husband and I call baseball the big butt sport because apparently either guys with big butts are being recruited or they are getting big butts from baseball, across all ancestries. If you want to c some big butts, equestrians have them 2

I like flat asses. More is unnecessary and ridiculous, but a flat ass gives easier access to the hole.

phat asses are my weakness

I love big round asses

I like little, but tight and pert! (Flat = boner killer) I'm not hung, so with small booty cheeks, it's easier to reach that hole! Big ol' meaty asses are great for eatin' though. Woof! I'll root around in a hairy muscle ass all night like a pig searching for truffles!

Too much information, dudes. Too friggin much! ⬆️

At my favorite grocery store I sometimes see a youngish guy with a nice big round ass. One time I was right behind him, he was leaning over on his cart, and that ass was mouth watering! Wish I knew him!! Every time I see him I take a discreet look.

Some of us like plump butts. Flat butts aren't attractive.

What's not to like???????

I like men with big beefy buts and thick muscle thighs. Why would you like some skinny, chicken-legged, pancake ass dude?

I'd rather have a big gut than a big ass on a guy

Not me. Not most

Porked his bubble butt!!!

If the butt is wider than the hips it’s girly and ugly.

Big thighs make a good butt on a man.

This is a good example at 13:00 of very meaty but not too big.

There are some threads where DL really shows its age. This is one of those threads. Everyone can like what they like and that's cool, but it always seems that the body image many DLers go for is a throwback to 1985. That is just in no way the current aesthetic.

Agreed it's all about waist to hips ratio and proportioned. Kardashian diaper assed are gross.

I'm predominantly a bottom, but I am not attracted to voluptuous asses either. I like smaller, square-ish butts on a man. A rotund ass registers as feminine.

Gorgeous!

Yep not only generational gap, but also generational plus ethnic divide seen on this thread. Old white gay men don’t get it

thick thighs

bubble butt

Why can’t people like what they like?

I had a job where I watched a lot of people leave for the day. Two guys could be wearing the exact-sized Dockers. One would have nothing but material flapping in the wind while another's buttocks would be straining at the cotton.

Pr filtering.

OP, if the opportunity presents itself walk through a college campus this spring. Almost all of the men of that generation have well-developed glutes of remarkable size. It’s beautiful. Part of the reason is that squats and deadlifts are no longer considered as dangerous as they were in the 1970s and 1980s. There was a fair bit of fear mongering about them back then. You, too, can achieve glute growth even at your age. A strong posterior chain help reduce or eliminate lower back pain as well as accenting your assets. YouTube has hundreds of good videos with samples of exercises you can do right on the floor of your home. Start with a search for glute bridges.

Enjoy!

Yep, it’s wonderful! Leg Day is huge among Gen Z. Dudes spend hours working on their legs and glutes in the gym. They know glutes get followers and patreons on TikTok.

I live muscled butts

OP never met an Italian. lol

[quote] lol

LoL! :)

Aesthetics change. No biggie. What was considered hot eons ago is not nowadays.

Yep the browning of America has changed aesthetics

And that’s okay r106. Beauty standards should be more inclusive.

[quote]Yep the browning of America has changed aesthetics

Have you not seen white guys under 30? Those asses, thighs and legs are popping.

R108 Yup! Sexy!!

R109 HOT, shapely buns!!

If you do like big asses, check out this 6'6" guy on Twitter - he has an amazing ass!

The guy at R111 looks like a nice guy.

There is no “trend” in “big asses” among gay men. Where do these idiotic posts come from?

[quote]There is no “trend” in “big asses” among gay men.

Nope, no trend at all!

R108 I have not seen many young white guys whose asses are popping. At least not here on Balkans. There are more estrogenic types with wide hips and moobs, thanks to modern day habits and there certainly are more fatties, but cute guys are the same built as ever. Narrow hips and small asses. On my way from home to work I pass by the university area and I see many students around and wonder how these young guys are so much prettier than they were in my days.

US is definitely different cause here the standard of male beauty is triangle, big shoulders and narrow hips and thighs and small firm ass.

The Balkans is very different than the United States

R115, do you have social media in the Balkans? Male Big asses are very popular on TikTok and Instagram in most of the world

No, R117, we don’t have social media. We only have Datalounge.

Men are not “supposed” to have butts shaped like anything except how they’re shaped for that specific person. Men’s butts have been big and round, medium sized and flat forever. As an ass man myself, I love the trend, although it can get a bit ridiculous at times seeing a bevy of thirsty Insta-hos up and down my timeline parading their tuchuses at the gym, or walking around the house, etc.

Someone should start a thread "Let's be a country where your only connection with the outside world is Datalounge."

Some of those Kardashian like asses you see from thirst traps on Instagram are a little over the top, but I live in a college town and it seems to me that no one is skipping legs or ass day any more.

Fuck you, faggot OP!

I don’t see much of this in real life, just on screens.

Some dudes naturally are built feminine

Bump

Beautiful

An incentive to play football.

Stroke.......

Bump

superthick

So these are Kardashianites?

R129, who is he?

Just follow the cookie aroma

Most of the replies here saying they don’t like big buys come from jealous people with flat ugly asses. They all act like you can either have an ugly flat ass or a Kardashian ass. Very few of the pics posted in butt threads here ever get to Kardashian freak level.

My rule is: the ass needs to be big and bubbly but not bigger than the males hips. Also not into guys who try to feminize their big butts. But a solid big butt on a masculine man? Nothing better on this earth.

r131

@Rrxivi

Thanks, R134.

The Silent Real

This is the 1987 J Crew Spring Catalogue. This is why DL is stuck. White kids start playing soccer and lacrosse from the time they're 3. Years of soccer and lacrosse develop legs, thighs and asses.

I agree. A muscular ass is attractive. A big bubble but that looks like it should be on a woman or that you could put a book on the shelf is ridiculous.

Just right in more ways than one.

Pool

Who's that at R140?

Speak for yourself OP!

Nothing I like more on a man than a big fat ass!

Beautiful big ass - I like the part best at around 1:58.

So hot

Men's asses are round. They look nothing like green peppers. If anything they look like apples.

You can have a round ass that isn't big. Small asses aren't all flat.

R143 is he gay?

The one at R143 isn’t that big, but it is muscular.

[quote]There's a difference between a fat ass and a muscled one.

And I like BOTH!

R94 has a problem with older white gay men and seems to have wandered into the wrong forum.

Incredible