Think about your best sex partners, what do they have in common?

Some guys know how to fuck and some guys....don't.

Good sexual chemistry helps of course. But damn there are some pretty boys out there who are dead fish in bed.

Slight dad bod, slightly above average penis, do not believe in nail polish.

I don’t have as many as you guys. The best for me was slow, sultry, seductive, sensual, and fully in control.

They are cut. It's not that common here in South America.

Older, hung, affectionate with the right dollop of intensity.

They were family members.

I never learned their names.

They had fake IDs and absentee parents...

--Matt Gaetz

They were great in the sack.

And horrible people.

They wouldn’t get in bed for less than 10G.

$$$$$$$

They were versatile, enjoyed frot and kissing, and looked like Dick Fisk.

They have ME in common.

Meth

I was fucking them.

They fought back.

There's really only one, and we were together for around twenty years. I've had good sex with other people, but not like that.

Oh I've had some fun over my lifespan. I've gotten to fuck a small number of cute guys. Been fucked by a couple guys that were nicely hung. And the funny part no specific type though a cute black ass and I might just tap that.

He would let me call him daddy while he made love to his baby boy

They all knew how to suck a mean cock.

They were all trashy. The dirty heavily tattooed type with big cocks and personality disorders.

Good question OP. I’m thinking.

The best have been wild in bed: sexually ambitious, attentive, curious, relentless, and insatiable.

They didn’t mind rolling me in flour to find a wet spot while I finished off a 20 piece KFC bucket as part of four play.

I like guys who are slightly playful in bed and don’t take every second so seriously.

Agree with r25. I love guys who are playful. Also: spontaneous and willing to try new things.

[quote]four play

Oh, DEAR!

Latinos with hairy cracks

There are three who come to mind immediately. All were highly oral. They loved sucking my cock as much as I loved sucking theirs. They also liked licking and sucking every inch of the rest of my body as well. I liked doing the same to them. My top two also fucked me. I came "no hands" for the first time with one of them. The other was a guy I'd gone to high school with. I ran into him at the Club Baths one freezing night in NY and brought him home with me.

The third was objectively the best looking of the three, and had the biggest cock. I wouldn't let him fuck me, though he wanted to. AIDS anxiety in the '90s.

Frank, Scott, and Jason were their names.

Others come to mind: Dino, Andrew, Randall, Craig—all in the top ten. I'm sure I'll think of others as soon as I click "Post."

It’s less about body type or age and more about the determination that sex is fun.

When I was closeted, I remember walking home thinking, “Yay, I got laid! It wasn’t very good, but I at least I got laid....” These were “Hungry Like The Wolf” overly-serious people. After I came out, I was less desperate and I avoided “Blue Steel” encounters.

Funny, we all obsess over getting hot looking guys but none of my top experiences were with stunning men.

Pulse.

They have no last names!

Spontaneity, kissing and ....nipples. Heaven.

Masculine, low standards.

very uninhibited, adventurous, very experienced, very horny, turned on by me, and in relationships with other people, not me. fuckbuddiies who clicked and we got really good at pleasing each other over a few years and the sex gets better and better but otherwise we don't know each other, just physically.

I had good lovers as boyfriends but nothing like the exhilarating hot sex with a long term fuck buddy.

Wit, liked the arts and intact.

Huge penis. Huge. I mean, like really large.

They were good kissers and kissed a lot or they had no problems taking it or no problem putting it in. 1 2 3

Long term fuck buddy sex is great. You’re obviously turned on by each other and you know the buttons that make them even hotter.

I love guys that love to get into it any don’t have weird hang ups like “no kissing”

R41, some of us smoke like chimneys and guys don’t want a mouth of marlboro.

A poster upthread made a comment about they werent the prettiest,and that really made me think. I realized that out of the 5 best ,and I mean by that truly memorable ones,they all werent terribly attractive. One I talked about on here before was a short middle aged schlep that turned out to have a baby arm dick and an animal like ability to fuck for hours . He was thick,hairy and half bald with not so great teeth and coke bottle glasses but I chased that dick around like it was the last one . I was at the peak of my beauty then,and quite full of myself,but I just could not get enough.

One of my fav FBs has a thick dick but is a bit chunky and bald, but my god is he one of the sexiest men I’ve ever been with. He kisses me so deeply that I feel what love must be like

I feeling I get when I know my sex partner is as much into me as I’m into him is amazing. The best sex is when you’re both on the same page

I was addicted to an Irish ass for more than a decade. He was hooked on to my dick too. Otherwise we were a terrible match in every other way. Go figure.

They were all sexual compulsives.

Lol at posters claiming beautiful people just lay there. No, if they were laying there, it’s cause your bit attractive enough for them. Give them someone they want as much as threat person wants them and they will come alive. If they just lay there, that says more about you and not them.

So I’d say equally passionate lust is a main ingredient. When you know someone wants you ridiculously bad and you want them back just as much, fuck that’s when magic happens.

Eye contact and slow kissing I’d say is another. I had a beautiful man last weekend and the sex was great. They eye contact between was off the hook too.

A mix of a sweet and naughty attitude is also great. Slap their face with your dick and make them suffocate on your balls, but then hug their whole body and tell them you think they’re beautiful. Spit on them and then gently kiss them right before you shove your sick back in their mouth. Fuck them hard but place your hands between the top of their head and the bed frame so they don’t bump into it.

Flipping is another great one especially if you want to have sex for hours. As a top or bottom only, I can only have sex for like 30 mins. But when I’ve met truly Vers guys with beautiful cocks and ass, I go crazy cause that scenario always results in so much sex. Due to the constant flipping, our asses and dicks get enough rest in between to come back to full power.

And of course drugs. Now most drugs are horrible (meth) but some do work for sex. A little whisky, some pot and a bottle of poppers can do wonders. For the most out there, try microdosing LSD. In small amounts it doesn’t cause visuals to change but it gives you lots of energy and self positivity which results in you feeling so fucking confident if you have sex.

Is it getting hot in here?

[quote] Spit on them and then gently kiss them.

That's really beautiful, R48.

Intelligence is a big turn on; I love witty guys, especially if they’re fit but a little plump with natural body hair.

One guy had a mirror on the wall next to his bed and told me to look into it as he rubbed his hard dick against my ass. “See how good that looks?” he asked. “Our kids will be beautiful.”

Gorgeous guys aren’t usually good in bed because they’ve never had to be...

a sense of fun and adventure

They have to be good when they’re fucking with someone on their level of attractiveness but when they fuck with someone below their level they become lifeless.

I’ve had my share of gorgeous men. Some are good at sex but many have a blankness behind their eyes. You’re just another fuck in line. They hold on to their emotions tighter because so many people have used them for their looks

Irish.