Lolo Jones, 38 year old virgin, opens up about difficulty dating: ‘You give up hope’

Is she going to come out too?

what a dumb non-ho

She’s awful. But pretty.

r3 she is horrible, nasty on DWTS & insufferable on every season of The Challenge. This last season she started becoming a wee bit likable & vulnerable for a split second, then went back to her usual awful self, & quit when it became clear she couldn’t win.

[quote]"The dates all want me to travel to them," she wrote. "RISK global pandemic date OR be a cat woman for the rest of my life. Hard call."

???

[quote]She’s awful. But pretty.

She’s average with a great side profile. I thought she was pretty too until I saw forward facing photos of her.

Is she biracial?

Yes, I think she’s creole.

She’s MIXED.

Obviously

it's really not that hard for straight women to get laid.

That's... that's just... that's not even sexy anymore. That's past it's prime sad.

so her being mixed is related to her face being unattractive?

^ No, it’s an unrelated question.

I’m biracial and can usually tell when someone is mixed.

She’s prettier than the average woman, just not a stunner but so what.

She could get a man.

But does she want a man? Is this lady a lez?

No idea who she is, except she's obviously a world-class athlete based on OP's post.

I assume that being a world-class athlete means sacrificing some of your personal life, including dating / marriage.

She's very attractive.

I don’t think she a a Lez, she’s an evangelical puritanical fanatical nut. The only acceptable hymen buster is Jeebus H Christ

As if every rapper and basketball wasn't hitting her up during her peak in London and Rio.

Lolo Jones went on about how DIFFICULT it was to get a B.A. in Education in Louisiana. It has to be said that an "Education" degree in any state is a booby prize given to many incompetents who fail out of other degrees like Business or Psychology.

She's not the most cerebral or educated famous person who goes on & on why she's not liked by her contemporaries. She's just unaccomplished & lame were it not for her ability to run and push.

^racist

Yikes. Give her one more year and she's as insane as Sinead O'Conoor. Or Candace Owens.

Sorry, Sinead O'Connor.

[Quote]^racist

Please tell us what you're REALLY THINKING. Just get it off your chest. It's OK, babe.

So she decides to save herself because her invisible leader says so and now she can’t understand why she’s pushing 40 and doesn’t have a boyfriend? Bitch spread those legs before you can’t spread them . She is a raging bitch to people cause she needs to get railed by a long hard cock. Although she might be tricking herself , I smell closeted Lesbo.

I think it's pretty hilarious that she wasted so much time not even fellow Christians are interested in what she has to offer.

After hearing this girl speak during the Olympics & several times since I find it nothing less than utterly believable that she is a 38 year old virgin who can't find a decent date. She's immature, a full & willing participant in any drama that crosses her path, a constant whiner & will tell anyone who'll listen that no one has it worse than she does. She seems like a person who truly has issues with being able to take responsibility for her own well-being, one of these people who just doesn't have clarity enough (or intelligence) to get out of her own way. The headline should read Lolo Jones Opens Up AGAIN.

Even if some here don't like her personality, she's attractive, motivated, and in shape. There's zero reason she can't attract a halfway decent guy and she admits she gets plenty of offers. There's definitely something else going on there since straight women who want a dude will date anyway even if he's not 100% perfect.

My guess would be religious closet case since she pings my gaydar as a tomboy sometimes but I could be wrong and it's just an athlete thing. If not, then she's really weird and neurotic or it's a fucked up publicity thing that gets her talked about. I wonder if she's really a virgin or not.

Just following up on r23's comment, from another poster. I think this is key. If she had been remotely tolerable, she would have been SWOOPED UP by a number of the many rich evangelists who would have used her as his son's wife w/multiple offspring to gather even more money from potential African American sources.

Poor Lolo doesn't seem to have the self awareness to occupy her own socks. What she could have had....

[quote]I think it's pretty hilarious that she wasted so much time not even fellow Christians are interested in what she has to offer.

People ARE interested but she keeps making excuses and rebuffing them. I swear, there is something else going on here. There are all kinds of terrible cunty women who had no problem getting a husband; some men even like being henpecked (masochism).

She maybe closeted, but she’s not wrong. This is all so familiar a whole decade younger than her...

R27, but are you a virgin and someone who has never had a bf/gf - ever, that I can recall? That's where it gets odd with her. She is not an ugly incel type with no offers. Oh, and you can have a bf/gf without having sex or having to get married.

[Quote]She maybe closeted, but she’s not wrong.

Of, course you knew we'd ask you what you believe are her correct purportions, right?

R21 sounds super misogynistic

Are we sure she's a woman-born-woman?

Isn't Hope Solo a lesbo too?

I know DL is legendary for the bitchiness, but I sympathize if she is really “saving” herself until marriage. It isn’t a choice I would make (or would expect my fictional daughter to take but whatever).

She just has to realize that this is going to cut her dating pool by 90%, and of those 10% ... I’m sure there will be some nice guys, but there will also be a lot of guys who wan’t a wife along the lines of “speak only when spoken to”.

R32, I'm fairly sure Hope Solo is straight - I can't imagine a true lesbian having a screwed up attached relationship with a NFL-player husband like she did.

She looks like she frequents tanning beds and chooses "extra crispy" mode.

She's half black and half white. Does melanin disturb you?

And we've got LSA trolls on here again...

[Quote], I'm fairly sure Hope Solo is straight - I can't imagine a true lesbian having a screwed up attached relationship with a NFL-player husband like she did.

Solo's cavernous vagina pics sent to said NFL hubby were featured during the "fappening." Nah. She's just a straight drunk gal.

[quote]it's really not that hard for straight women to get laid.

Key word is “straight.”

Who apparently has had two kids with NFL husband. Maybe she got her act together?

She has a nasty personality on every show I’ve seen her on and constantly whines. And she wonders why she has a hard time getting dates?

Only a fetishist would want to deflower a 38-year-old virgin.

Ain’t nobody got time for that.

R4

She didn’t actually quit. That segment was fake. The producers made her drop out because they were concerned for her mental health. She allegedly made a comment to Josh and Kaycee about killing herself (or something like that) because they wouldn’t let her go in and get her skull.

R36, I have no idea who the hell she is in the first place - don't try to play the race card with me. You're purposefully looking to start a fight on here and I'm ending it. That's not a natural skin color tone, that's someone who tans, uses bronzers, and what not. We've observed this with tRump for years now.

She’s above average in attractiveness (in OP’s photo she’s downright hot), apparently crazy and seems bitchy and entitled. 100% guarantee there are men who’d love to fuck her and even date her.

She just hasn’t met the right one yet. *snickers nastily*

At OP's photo, she looks like a very tanned Caucasian woman. I'm not familiar with her. From OP's photo, I would not have guessed that she's half black.

Do single, straight guys even go to church? They're sleeping it off from Saturday night.

It's not a great testament that she can't meet a Christian man from her church.

Anecdotal, but I knew a born-again-type Christian woman who complained about being single. I said what about meeting someone at church? She said she wasn't interested in any of the men who attended her church.

There are a lot of biracial people who look more white like her.

R44, it is her natural skin tone. Her father is Black and her mom is white.

[Quote]I said what about meeting someone at church? She said she wasn't interested in any of the men who attended her church.

What were the men's unattractive moral failings? I'm assuming "they're not good enough" was the excuse.

Here, a photo of Lolo as a kid with her dad, James. She had a bit of a tough upbringing:

" She attended eight schools in eight years while her single mother, Lori, often held down two jobs to support her family of six. Jones' father spent most of her childhood in the Air Force and later in state prison. When Jones was in third grade, her family settled in the basement of a Des Moines Salvation Army church."

R50, I think she was a bit of a status-seeker, i.e., wanted to marry a doctor, etc. Hate to be mean, but she also wasn't super attractive. Needed to lose a few pounds and had a high-maintenance personality.

That's a MAN, baby!

She wants a Christian man but doesn't understand that Christian men want to get married to younger women who can have plenty of children. Also, 100% want a "speak when spoken to" wife

r8, she is religious and announced like 10 years ago she wanted to be married before she had sex. No one call her up because that was just stupid. She is hot. I hope she froze her eggs cuz no Christian will marry her now. Unless its a widower with kids already.

This is when she could have dated anyone.

So close yet so far.

Damn she could have been fucking the hottest guys. She just wasted it.

God understands. Get laid already

Maybe she can “date” Aaron Rodgers once the “engagement” to Shailene ends.

I was a virgin longer than I planned to be (I’m female) when I was a teen ager my boyfriend was in the closet - I would have known that now, but I didn’t then - I loved him like crazy so I was blind to it. We were physical enough but no sex - he wasn’t into me physically at all - I didn’t have anything to compare things to - I thought something was wrong with me. We broke up when I was 22 - I had missed the learning curve - I was terrified with guys - afraid of being a tease but not comfortable with just anybody. I realized I had better get it over with and have sex before it became a hang up or I got afraid of it. I had sex for the first time at 23 - I can see if I had waited for the perfect somebody the longer you wait the bigger a deal it gets. At some point I’d you get too old nice guys don’t want that big of an emotional responsibility and crummy guys want to nail you for sport. I would not find a grown man virgin attractive - I think LoLo waited too long ....

Tim Tebow would be a good spot too, R59

Maybe Robin Roberts might have a bit of advice for the girl Lolo Jones.

I find her a bit of a tough nut to crack. So pleading, yet so unfathomably stupid & without any scintilla of self-awareness vis a vis her constant "me, me, me" that turns men off worse than "I have seven kids. How 'bout meeting them at Old Country Time Buffet. Your treat, cuz they're super-nice kids?"

Asexual? Lesbian? fucked up by religion? Or just insufferable and too much hard work. She should become a nun.

R42 99% of straight/bi men would want that.

Why would you married someone you haven't fucked before? I bet she'd be the most boring person in bed ever. The 'virgin til marriage' thing past 25yrs just screams "CRAZY"!!! STAY AWAY"

Stop complaining that you’re a virgin when it’s pretty easy to not be a virgin

R47, I have a feeling you don't realize what type of site you're posting on. You sound stupid and dense.

[quote]Yes, I think she’s creole.

Then she's a VICTIM, and needs to be treated as such! DISCRIMINATION & CANCELLATION is the cause of this.

Discrimination and cancellation by her own then, r68?

Is she a virgin virgin?

On one of the Challenge shows a couple yrs back, an all star edition where everyone was raising $ for charity, Bozo Jones belittled all the other contestants’ charities (ie cancer research type stuff) & said her charity was more important than theirs because her name was attached to it. and the charity involved helping either convicts or the families of convicted criminals. Lol!

I think the reason she lost all her Olympic races was because the weight of her hymen slowed her down.

R42, you're obviously gay.

I don't know if I want to marry you r72, but I do 💘 you!

Weren't her rivals really jealous of the attention Lolo used to get from the male reporters and athletes at one of the Olympics?

Is she a mouth and butt virgin too?

She's so talented. I don't know why she can't attract a mate.

Wasn’t Colt a virgin who just couldn’t seem to find the one?

R77 Cause straight men care about shit like dancing or can even tell if those were good or bad dancing skills, right?

Very few sexually experienced men would want a virgin. And if they did, it certainly wouldn't be a near-40 year old virgin.

Lolo has major issues.

Imagine waking up to this

R79 doesn't understand the concept of sarcasm.

The ultra religious guys that want a virgin also want a mother for their many children. A 38 year old is too old for that purpose. That’s probably why she can’t find anyone.

About her being obnoxious or whatever, what kind of guy do you think wants a virgin bride to begin with? An ultra conservative misogynist. She’s earned a living and has some accomplishments, guys like that want a woman who can’t support herself so she can’t escape. They don’t want an opinionated woman or someone who has standards. And she’s worked too hard to end up with someone with no education who refuses to work or who works for daddy’s construction company, because he was homeschooled and is unemployable by an actual business.

It sounds like she bought her ultra conservative daddy’s “no man will have you unless you’re a virgin” bullshit, and now she’s past her sell date. Men that want virgins also want to marry at eighteen, or they’re child molesters. They’re men that don’t want a woman old enough to know what a loser they are. Virgin or not, she is that old.

I feel sorry for her in a way. At least she admits she has a problem. Most of these people are totally unaware there’s anything wrong with their lifestyle, or that it’s going to end up in four failed marriages by thirty-five. The obnoxiousness is just a byproduct of the evangelistic lifestyle. Behind every obnoxious evangelist woman is an even more obnoxious evangelist father.

[quote] Jones went on to explain that she feels as though she's picking between two extremes when it comes to the type of men she dates. "One guy is a Christian one guy is not."

Those aren't opposite extremes.

R84, she means, “one is a conservative Republican evangelist, one is a liberal that belongs to a moderate religion or none at all.” Those are opposites.

r77, omg. I remember watching and being hopeful for her. Then after this cha cha I wanted the hook to come and take her away. She could not even move, zero rhythm, lack of sensuality and musicality. What in the horrible fuck was that.

r79, they do. I've known men that go out dancing and gravitate towards the women who can move. How someone moves on the dance floor is an indication of how they are in bed. That dancing is a major turn off. I say that as one who dips in both pools. Love the face but just nope, not at 40. It would be cute at 25, now just nope.

r83, her daddy went to jail and she was raised by a single mother.

She looks like Meghan Markle with light hair

Big ol’ lesbian.

R90, I canNOT believe the mental gymnastics happening here, to explain why she’s not actually a lesbian.

And all these people assuming that there aren’t wimpy Christian men who are married to ballbusters. They’re not all alphas.

I’d guess that her faith is keeping her from admitting it to herself.

So she's a devout Christian and athlete. Sounds like she may bring in too much bullshit spirituality into everything and not willing to compromise.

Or, she's a lesbian and may not even know it.

Either way, she doesn't sound like someone I'd want to be around and she's got some major issues to work through.

If she's being truthful, at this point, she is over invested in being a virgin and it's become a part of her personality. You're not supposed to wait until FUCKING MENOPAUSE.

The wimpy Christian men get locked down early to young ballbusters

If on her dates, she used a tiny % of the aggression she used out on the field all those years, she'd be getting dick every night of the week. Instead, she's still thinking that she needs to be daddy's good little girl

R87 Don't know how else to tell you this, but...those dudes aren't straight.

Is her name pronounced LOW-LOW or LOLL_OH.

Thanks!

[quote]it is her natural skin tone

The photo at r5 looks like she's wearing darker makeup, you can even see some in her hair where she didn't apply it well. I know she's mixed but I also 100% understand everyone who says she looks like a white girl in bronzer.

R97, Sure but her neck is the exact same tone and I don't actually see makeup in her hair either. Her skin is naturally that tone.

She probably just got a lot of sun in the OP’s picture. Because she looks darker there to me. Or it’s the lighting.

[quote] The dates all want me to travel to them”

Solely to be the one who deflowers her. If they were interested in her as a person, they would come to her.

She a lezbin

BPD?

Any woman can get laid (and she can even moreso since she is not fat or ugly). Show some cleavage, curves, legs in a club or bar and bam/done. On a dating app, meetup and bam/done. She is either lesbian or ULTRA picky about what she wants in a guy with marriage at the top of list. That will send men running for much easier, younger ass.

US track athletes are complete loons.

Deeply closeted. Fooling no one.

Is her personal sexual history something we need to know?

She doesn’t seem very Christian in that Big Brother clip

She’s using her religion card to stay deeply closeted. She’s either deathly afraid of the backlash from being gay or she’s disgusted with herself since she was raised with such horribly judgmental religious parents. Either way, she’s a nasty bitch who needs a huge cock (real or vinyl) shoved into her tightly wound pussy to calm her the fuck down.

Maybe its the glowing white devil horns emerging from her skull that give her fellow fundies pause.

Get those sanded off and which their peckers twitch, Lolo!

You can only do the married before sex thing in your early twenties. No one wants some 40 year old virgin. She has to get on it like yesterday.

If she makes it onto the US bobsled team for the 2022 Olympics, we'll have to hear her virgin crap in the media again.

Isn't she a lesbo? Or was that another runner?

I hope she finds a lesbian partner soon.

R112 The lesbian is Sha'Carri Richardson.

Only black people are obsessed with a person's shade of skin color and fixation with it's lightness relative to other black people. It's irrelevant to this thread. By the way, Lolo has said in the past she identifies as black, which is ridiculous because I doubt strangers on the street wiould describe her that way. Race is what you manifest on the outside.

I didn't even know she's biracial.

No R115 - Race is what you are. If one parent parent is black and the other is white, you are biracial - both races - regardless of what the fuck you look like. You sound dumb and clueless.

If this is because of some silly religious belief, then she only has herself to blame.

No one in America, not recently immigrated from Africa, is "pure" black r117. Your logic is trash.

If you have a pussy and you can't get laid, you've got real problems.

Get thee to a nunnery.

She is either a closeted lesbian or an asexual. Colton Underwood couldn’t find the right woman either. Probably because he is gay.

I mean Lolo is gorgeous, has an amazing body - her personality is shit but even people with shitty personalites find mates. She is a lesbian, cannot admit it. Much like Whitney Houston.

"opening up" about anything beyond your plans for the weekend is a horrible mistake. What seems precious and personal to you will sound asinine to everyone one else.

R123 Except Whitney Houston wasn't a lesbian.

R123

Wasn’t Whitney getting dicked down by Ray J around the time she passed away?

WH was a giant les. Everyone knows that.

Closet lesbian in denial

R126 Yeah, she was. But someone on DL has a weird obsession with calling her a lesbian. Even gals on LChat know she was bi. As does her former partner Robyn

You marry someone not because of what you or they are at time x, it's about seeing a future together. I cannot imagine treating dates like job interviews to be a successful approach.

R119, what the fuck does that have to do with anything? By your logic, no black-americans are black because they are not "pure" black? STFU

I always thought her and Tim Tebow were made for each other

The thing is Lolo will soon be too old to procreate so saving herself for marriage for religious reasons goes out the window. Girl must freeze eggs. But also I think G-d would give her a pass and put out a little if that will help you get a ring. As the catholic girls use to say in the mouth and in the butt is okay since you're technically still a virgin.

She was a lesbian who's mother fucked her head up so she could never accept being with a woman because that is not what god wants. If she woud have just lexed out she would be alive today. She was a drug user to suppress her lezbionics.

"[R119], what the fuck does that have to do with anything? By your logic, no black-americans are black because they are not "pure" black? STFU."

Right. Are white Americans ready to give up their status as non-white because they're not "pure" - which certainly many of them are not. Plus, aren't white people with their historical 1/16 rule the ones who made "Black" a broad, non-pure race category to begin with?

What the hell do millennials expect out of life, anyway? For fuck’s sake, the entitlement is nauseating.