Hot straight guys with fat, dumpy women

The man has low social value. Women value different things in a man. She's the best he can get, at least for now

10/10, OP. You hit just about all the major talking points about this subject.

Juggernaut law

I find this oddly common with members of the military, and men that tend to either be or look like stereotypical rednecks.

Very similar to, or the same as, thin men coupled with large women.

tits and hips. plus they do oral without question.

This is a well-known situation in which a man is so concerned with the possibility of having his woman leave him or cheat on him that he goes with a fat ugly chick that he believes no one else would want. It provides some sense of security.

Only a real man can handle a full figured gal!

[quote] I find this oddly common with members of the military

Yes, military men would be a good example of men fearing that their wife or girlfriend would leave when they were away. They certainly wouldn’t want to have a good looking woman, who would increase the odds,

I used to work with a fat girl who had a hot husband but she dressed well, was beautifully made up and had gorgeous waist length hair and had a pretty face and skin.

Were you hanging around a military family housing base again, OP?

Maybe she was a relative.

Yeah, um, amazing.

You mean like, ugly old fat guys or middle aged uninteresting ones masturbating to young hot porn stars?

Gay gay gay! Or bi and she’s ok with it. LOL

OP, in the straight world, value works like this:

Attractive woman = high status.

Unattractive woman = low status.

Rich man = high status.

Poor man = low status.

Status attracts status, which means that poor men get ugly women while rich men get hot women. Whether the men are physically attractive is irrelevant because they're not trying to attract other men.

Straight guys have to take whatever they can get.

I see this all the time. R14 nailed it, it's all to do with social status.

No R10 I was in a restaurant. A I said, it wasn't even just her weight. It was general overall grooming and clothing. Sloppy shorts with a wedgie crawling up her ass, gross, ungroomed feet, scowling, bitchy face. Everything.

They always have that nasty, bitchy scowl R17. Makes me want to slap them silly and then show their fellas a proper good time.

You'd think if they had a guy so far above their league in looks they could look happier.

Shows how easy women have it, yet all they do is complain.

We all know of the ass crawling wedgie of which you speak OP. It's common among fat people

Idk, maybe she was having a tough day, or they have a bunch of kids at home, making it hard to doll up. Maybe she's depressed. Maybe it was just a friend or relative. Try not to assume things about people OP just from looking at them (aka mind your own fucking business and worry about yourself.) It'd be such a better world if everyone tried to do that.

Dating Beautiful women can be a lot of work. I once dated a beautiful girl (I never could accept that she really liked me) and guys were always trying to hit on her. It was tiring even though she always discouraged them.

On the flip side of the coin, I’ve known some beautiful women who were.... difficult. They were well aware of their looks and the effect they had on men, so they played the field just like str8 guys do looking for an upgrade. This one cute girl is dating my one friend and fucking the other because the latter’s body was turning her on. They were both ripped.

I’ve also known beautiful women who got no dates because dudes were too intimidated. Further complicating matters is that str8 men aren’t known to communicate very well. So it does creat a situation where some hot women are not in the game. Str8 guys seem to often choose the path of least resistance.

Finally, a lot of plain girls are just nice and feel domestic like their Mamas. I think a bigger percent of average women have a winning personality compares to the beauty queen. Plus for special occasions chances are the plain jane can pretty up enough to make Daddy proud.

Usually these fat slobs have several crotch fruit in tow, running around the store/restaurant totally unsupervised.

Tell me about it OP!

My wife was basically a friend who I lived with-I wasn’t attracted to her in the least. Not too say that I was so “hot” but I got hit on way more than her.

[quote] This is a well-known situation in which a man is so concerned with the possibility of having his woman leave him or cheat on him that he goes with a fat ugly chick that he believes no one else would want. It provides some sense of security.

This is the same answer a straight co-worker gave me years ago when I asked him the same question.

OP...The feet you describe sound like Deborah-Lee Furness (Mrs Hugh Jackman). She has the worst calloused heels and just nasty nails...and always wears the same black granny sandals

I think OP is Quentin Tarantino, turned on by dirty feet!

[quote]Try not to assume things about people OP just from looking at them (aka mind your own fucking business and worry about yourself.) It'd be such a better world if everyone tried to do that.

Very true but this is advice that will fall on deaf ears here on DL.

The fact that we've had literally hundreds of threads about this same exact thing makes this whole scenario highly unlikely to begin with. Like most threads these days, it's just bait provided to unhappy people who are addicted to saying the same things over and over. Maybe it made them feel better to say "those hot straight men have low status and aren't worth anything" back in 2003 when they first said it, but now they're nearing their second decade of repeating that old canard and it's just habit now, it does nothing for them.

I knew a couple like this growing up. (Good friends of my parents that we often socialized with ). While the husband was moderately good-looking, the wife was not only morbidly obese, she was frequently run-down, bitter, and nastily sarcastic because of problems with the couple's children which only added to her un-attractiveness. Supposedly in college, I had heard my mother comment once they were once madly in love, and both were driven by their Keen intellects and passion for Social Justice Causes ( yes they were Boomers). But those days were long gone. Of course everyone asked, "WHY did he stay with HER?" , but at least from the outside ( or my childish perception) they had a rock-solid relationship.

Only later as an adult when visiting my parents one-time, did the subject come up about this couple/enigma did I learn the truth: my father and the husband, who travelled frequently for the same company, had this to say in rememberance, "Why that old Son-of-a Bitch- he never wasted ANY opportunity on trips to bed as many women as he could."

I have no idea whether the wife knew or not, but certainly the arrangement suited him very well.

Having thick foot crust seems to be genetic. Poor Debra Lee...

Exhibit A

Ever heard of a chubby chaser? Some straight guys like fat chicks.

I dated a guy who used a sander on his hoofs. He also used super glue on hus finger skin cracks. I think it is something genetic to grow lizard skin.

They secretly want to be with you, OP...

An insecure hefty middles aged straight married woman worried that her DH has been fucking other women all along, stumbles on to DL...Paranoia ensues

R34 hits what at least has to be part of the answer. My cousin, a straight male, is tall, fit, hung and good looking. He and I have talked before and he has a type. He likes big women with big tits and big hips. They are always darker, too, like Italian or Latina. His first wife was like this, but SHE cheated on HIM, so he got divorced. His second wife's looks resemble the first wife's, but she's nicer and more loyal and they've been together for years now. His first wife was prettier with better skin, but definitely the second wife, who is no looker, is a better match overall and they seem happier.

As a gay man, I like guys with extra weight, so I get his attraction to heavier women. Lid for every pot as they say.

R38 how do you know your cousin is hung?

Not really R30.

To defend myself, my female friend I was with posited the same question. It's the lack of caring about their appearance that was most curious to us. Most women try to look halfway decent when with they go out with attractive men.

R39, it's been talked about since he was a kid. His mother, my aunt, would joke about it when he was a boy saying how popular he was going to be when he got older. His first wife, who usually dated hung African-American guys, would tell anyone that my cousin was the only white guy she ever met who could measure up. Knowing how perverted DL is, no, I've never seen it. But everyone in the family has always known.

I had it spelled out to me in jail:

“Ugly girl won’t cheat on you” “Ugly girl will have dinner waiting on you” “Ugly girl will do whatever you want her to in bed”

But that is not the only explanation. If she is your baby’s mama and you have accumulated some time together, then kind hearts will overlook a lot of stuff. It works in reverse as well. Sometimes, people in love will let a lot of stuff slide. Especially if there is a happy history in their mind.

But when you are wanting the latest, hottest model, like most of us, all that BS is useless.

It’s callus ffs. And love is blind.

I'm assuming OP never been attacked to someone for anything outside how they look. But I agree on some cases, like on the "My 600 lbs life". Those blobs can't even work or fuck or move, but they always have Boyfriends. I don't get it. Why not just rescue an elephant.

Chubby chasers, yep. But in Alabama they call it " going Hoggin' ".

Fat and dumpy but knows how to make a snack purse work on the red carpet.

Maybe the woman has had a few kids, and with each pregnancy has put on a few more pounds. The guy doesn't care or doesn't want to fight over what would only be a losing battle for him.

The reason is because the women were once hot, but after having kids (or due to health problems) have let themselves go.

I worked with a lot of Tejanos down here. One guy said Mexican women were hot when young then go fat after marriage and babies but the machismo factor of them likes that. Keeps them undesirable to other men and at home cooking and having babies. Hubbies are out fucking everything else. Lots are on the downlow too

Josh Hawley & his wife!

R7 You betcha!

Fat women are jolly, Not mean skinny bitches.

R50 thanks I’m moving to Texas now.

R42 Hot. I think you need to see to it and report back.

Men go bald, women get fat.

R56 Yeah, but you can still be bald and hot. Look at Christopher Meloni.

I worked with a middle age woman who was overweight, disheveled, looked like she cut her own hair and wore yesterday’s makeup. She was nice but a slob and that did shape my opinion of her.

I had to go to her house and was pleasantly surprised that her house was immaculate and tastefully decorated. She did her own gardening and the landscaping was just beautiful. I met her husband of 30+ years who was her high school sweetheart, they married a year out of college. He looked at least 10 years older than her, was dressed like a complete dork, thin and bald. Not the hot kind.

I saw their wedding photo and HOLEEEEE SHIT!!!! They were both SO HOT! Maybe the husband was always an awkward dork and maybe she always wore ripped and stained clothes and cut her own chair. I bet when they look at each other they see the former hotness.

I live in LA and it's all about tourists and show business out here.

Years ago, I went down to Manhattan Beach or Huntington Beach...can't recall.

I saw all these beautiful men, who didn't want to be actors, with these women were fat and not attractive.

I didn't get it AT ALL.

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life

Never make a pretty woman your wife

So from my personal point of view

Get an ugly girl to marry you

Some straight men are attracted primarily to fat or chubby women. It is what it is.

People comment this about my parents but a) they are best friends, talk all the time, seem to have the same values b) she'll never cheat on him or make things complicated/totally loyal c) she did all the childcare, housework, brought in more money AND did crappy jobs for his work

I always assumed that the guy is into fat chicks or his gf got pregnant and now there's an obligation.

When it's gay guys either the guy is into fat guys or the fat guy has money and/or a giant dick.

Fat girls are usually aggressive whores who pursued those guys and they just went with it.

Maybe he enjoys the smell of yeast and body odor that fat women reek of, OP, who knows. Straights are weird.

R 23 "Str8 guys seem to often choose the path of least resistance" The Truth. -Frau

Being with someone who is totally into their looks is exhausting and a total bore. I would go for a fat whore too!

I see this a lot and more than I ever wanted to believe. It is usually military guys but tons and tons of hot black and Latino guys with nasty, fat women.

I've never gone for men who have great looks...'cos you're always competing for the mirror, and they take toooooo long to get ready. High maintenance not my thing.

Based on the law of averages, I find it hard to believe there are SO many hot guys in the world, let alone hot guys paired with ugly women. Who are the beautiful women paired with?

You see it more than ever R68 because you are getting old and lusting after younger men.

R70 the guys with the cash.

R70 With Kevin James in his sitcoms and movies

I find the best guys are the “nerdy cute” guys.

This is thread 5,251 on this topic.

THES GUYS WILL NOT TURN GAY FOR YOU.

THREAD CLOSED

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So for my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you If you want to be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So for my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you A pretty woman makes her husband look small And very often causes his downfall As soon as he married her and then she starts To do the things that will break his heart But if you make an ugly woman your wife A-you'll be happy for the rest of your life An ug-a-ly woman cooks meals on time And she'll always give you peace of mind If you want to be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So for my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you Don't let your friends say you have no taste Go ahead and marry anyway Though her face is ugly, her eyes don't match Take it from me, she's a better catch

know of a great looking guy, who has a great muscular body, a good career and yet has been married and divorced 3 times and each woman is very average compared to him, also each successive marriage (and divorce) the woman was younger then him, the 2nd marriage, divorced wife was 10 years younger, last marriage and divorce wife was 15 years younger....

supposedly the rumor was he was big ole male whore so why get married at all then? and one would think for sure after 2 failures, why go for a 3rd marriage (which then failed too!)....

I live next to a Marine Corps base, so I am more than a little familiar with this phenomenon. In most cases, the now-hot guy wasn't so hot before he went through boot camp. He dropped pounds and gained muscle. The girlfriend/wife was with him back home on the farm. He sees her as a helpmate and the mother of his children. And while he steps out on her pretty much every chance he gets, he won't leave her. And she knows it.

R78 that is the most I will I ever aspire to in life .

R79 Cuz that is all you’ll ever get-settling

Some military hot guys end up with homely wives sometimes because of the location of some of the bases are shit areas where the women are shall we say not the pick of the of best litters. But they are what's available to them and they maybe see a woman less than once a week and just settle for what's around them.

Ever see Officer and a Gentleman? Tramp whores make boxes all week then look for base cock all weekend.

ew op, ew

because she has a fat ass and lets him fuck it

the end

If I had to fuck a nerdy guy I would probably be violently ill. Maybe if he was a wizard or something...

Free maid.

Would Sarah Sanders and her husband be a part of this phenomenon?

Oftentimes the woman was attractive when he first met her, OP

Or he was out of shape and ugly

Or both

How about- Hot GAY guys with FAT dumpy guys

These types are typically cheating in some shape or form. Most of the married guys I’ve hook up with used the gym as a get out of jail card with the wife. Typically they went religiously but could use the gym as a means to slip away.

They liked having their body admired and or feeling like a young man again on a chase for sex. There is nothing better than that sweet spot of 25-30 when the guys metabolism is still running at a nice clip and their time at the gym keeps things tight. Those boys are the best! Chef’s kiss! Then skip over to the 40-45 range for the guys that know what they want but still have a hot matinee body.

R89 is there an app for that?