How playful are you and your spouse?
I have been with my spouse about 4 years now, and one thing that really defines our relationship is how playful we are together. A good part of our interactions with each other are singing singing made up songs together, play wrestling, or fun little rituals.
For example, a typical morning would be me asking for my coffee in a play voice, and him then doing this elaborate rubbing on me to ask what kind of coffee I want: for example rubbing my nipples and asking if I want milk, then my dick to ask if I want to hot, ect. Or, whenever he hears me coming down the stairs he will hide to scare me, or pretend to be sleeping and I have to “wake” him.
Is this abnormal? Are gay relationships more playful than straight ones? Whenever I see heterosexual relationships ok TV they don’t see this way.
|by Anonymous||reply 43||Last Friday at 10:56 AM|
I could have written your post, OP. Being playful makes life more fun. People take themselves too seriously, life is too short!
|by Anonymous||reply 1||04/07/2021|
Envy us our playful lives, you fat whores.
|by Anonymous||reply 2||04/07/2021|
If you're not laughing you're not doing it right.
|by Anonymous||reply 3||04/07/2021|
you sound like insufferable schoolgirls
|by Anonymous||reply 4||04/07/2021|
This isn't for me. I'm mid-30s not mid-teens; I'd feel silly!
|by Anonymous||reply 5||04/07/2021|
You do you OP. But good god don’t tell your friends you do this stuff!
|by Anonymous||reply 6||04/07/2021|
Do you watch Disney movies wearing onesies too?
|by Anonymous||reply 7||04/07/2021|
Do you leave in a group home? Fucking freaks.
|by Anonymous||reply 8||04/07/2021|
if you were 18 and in the early stages of your first relationship, i'd forgive you.
|by Anonymous||reply 9||04/07/2021|
This post reminds me of The Other Sister (1999).
|by Anonymous||reply 10||04/07/2021|
r10 “And we love each other so much that last Thanksgiving, we did it!”
|by Anonymous||reply 11||04/07/2021|
"for example rubbing my nipples and asking if I want milk, then my dick to ask if I want to hot, ect."
Yes, I am jelly OP. I want to hot, ect and my male spouse is never down for it. How often do you hot, ect. ? A few times a day, like Suzanne Somers? You are two wild and crazy hot spouses hotting, aren't you?
|by Anonymous||reply 14||04/07/2021|
Enjoy it while you can, in 5 years it'll be like this.
|by Anonymous||reply 17||04/07/2021|
OP do you 2 ever cold, ect. just to switch it up?
|by Anonymous||reply 18||04/07/2021|
How old are you OP?
Are you actually married?
|by Anonymous||reply 19||04/07/2021|
OP here. I am dying at some of these responses. I love you bitches 😂
Expect for the dumb jokes about the typo. Big deal. I meant to say “do you want it hot”.
R7 NO! Onesies gross me out.
R19 We are married and both 30.
R20 Not trying to brag. Just wanted to know if all couples were this silly behind doors. I do love our dynamic but I suppose sometimes I do wish we had some more intellectual conversations.
Some other things we do: instead of him telling me dinner is done, he will just come over and stick his tongue out at me. Whenever it is time to sleep, he will steal my pillow. Sometimes he will come up and lick my face for no reason.
|by Anonymous||reply 21||04/07/2021|
Play wrestling? Licking faces? Sure you’re not a teenager? Cause this is what I did with guys I had crushes on back when I was a teen.
My partner and I are kinda silly in the sense we’re always making fun of each other, and we also have pets, so we’re silly as a result of that too. If he came up and randomly licked my face like a dog I’d find that a turn off.
|by Anonymous||reply 22||04/07/2021|
R22 To be fair I do hate when he licks my face. He also bites me a lot for fun which I dislike.
Luckily we do not have any pets, there is nothing I hate more than people who do baby talk and stuff with their pets.
|by Anonymous||reply 23||04/07/2021|
Much more playful in real life than on DL.
|by Anonymous||reply 24||04/07/2021|
We have a similar sense of humor and appreciation of the absurd. We fall into characters and play act- I would die of the cringe if anyone witnessed this.
No licking or nipple twisting.
|by Anonymous||reply 25||04/07/2021|
Do you have a toy corner and wear diapers and watch cartoons?
|by Anonymous||reply 26||04/07/2021|
R26 No diapers but we have a room dedicated to our plushies. It isn’t creepy in a Candy Spelling doll room kinda way. He happens to have way to many spare bedrooms and my husband is a wiz at the claw machine. We figured regulating them to one room was the best move to make as opposed to having them in the living room.
|by Anonymous||reply 27||04/07/2021|
I feel in love with my wife when I saw her acting playful. We've been together 33 years.
|by Anonymous||reply 28||04/07/2021|
52, couple for five years and yes, we joke around, we’re best friends too.
|by Anonymous||reply 30||04/07/2021|
When my bf and I visit the men’s room to piss we ask each other how the champagne is while we’re pissng.
|by Anonymous||reply 31||04/07/2021|
Couples who can joke together stay together.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||04/07/2021|
We're pretty silly, a little like OP story. A decade now. Sometimes we hang out together playing video games like we're teenagers, sometimes we're enjoying a quiet evening like we're twentysomethings, and sometimes we present somewhat as a mature couple like we're thirtysomethings (I just turned, but he's a few years older). Working from home, moments can transition from him having a serious work video call detailing some advanced web development, to trying to pull my pants down in the kitchen and fake whining.
We both have people we 'like' (as in get a rise from) more than each other, but we're best friends out of familiarity and such access to comfort with each other. And of course we're lovers for other reasons.
And yes, we'll lick each others' faces. Or rather he'd get intentionally physically stupid leading to licking me, or I'd try to eat his nose and licking would be part of that.
We're not legal spouses, with enough separated that we're not even common law. But we're in a long relationship that can turn to something else as soon as we decide to take that action.
I'm honestly much goofier than when I was an actual teenager. Then, I was more uptight and concerned about judgement.
|by Anonymous||reply 33||04/07/2021|
You people make me happy. All that affection going on behind closed doors. Keep at it!
|by Anonymous||reply 34||04/07/2021|
R29 No it isn’t. How fucking boring are you that even a topic like this has to be an EST.
R33 Thank you for sharing. I was a bit worried that maybe me and my husband were too silly. Glad that isn’t that case!
|by Anonymous||reply 35||04/07/2021|
We fart around each other a lot and laugh about it. Does that count?
|by Anonymous||reply 36||04/07/2021|
This is clearly about Peter and Chasten! Or was it about Matt and Nestor?
|by Anonymous||reply 37||Last Friday at 10:36 AM|
Yes. My mate and I are playful.
In the way a cat plays with its lunch.
|by Anonymous||reply 38||Last Friday at 10:50 AM|
Well, we often say to each other, "You playin' me?"
|by Anonymous||reply 39||Last Friday at 10:50 AM|
OP types fat.
More accurate to be posting about platefuls than "playful."
|by Anonymous||reply 41||Last Friday at 10:53 AM|
We constantly come up with stupid nicknames for each other based on what we're doing at the moment. Like he'll be reading and I'll say, I'm gonna call you Bookie McBookers. I also like to act silly, horse around and demand attention and see if I can get him really laughing early in the morning when we're still in bed. Sometimes it leads to sex, or sometimes he'll be annoyed and go make coffee. Also a win! Together almost 15 years, married for seven.
|by Anonymous||reply 42||Last Friday at 10:53 AM|
I play dead when he comes anywhere near me.
|by Anonymous||reply 43||Last Friday at 10:56 AM|