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Should You Put Pronouns In Email Signatures And Social Media Bios?

It’s not uncommon to see pronouns in people’s email signatures and social media bios. But it’s far from widespread.

So why do people do it?

There is a simple reason for why the new decade will see more people and business doing this.

For many transgender people, it’s an easy way to show the world the pronouns they’d like you to use. But, it goes beyond trans and non-binary equality.

I’m cisgender, I identify with the sex assigned to me at birth. But I also include pronouns in my email signature for one simple reason:

It normalises discussions about gender.

Which, as a queer man, I can assure you is a conversation that benefits everyone.

Why should cisgender people put pronouns in their email signatures?

Showing your pronouns tells everyone you come across, I won’t assume your gender.

With only seconds to make the impression in your email to get a response – or a follow on your socials – showing your pronouns could be the difference between the click that you need.

“Including pronouns in your email signature and social media profiles is an important move towards inclusivity,” says LGBT+ Inclusion Consultant Gina Battye.

“It shows you care about individuals preferences and is a simple solution to accidental misgendering.”

Misgendering is getting someones gender wrong. It can be embarrassing for you, and hurtful to the person you are speaking too. If it happens, it is best to apologise, correct yourself and continue the conversation you were having.

Want to know what someone’s pronouns are?

Thankfully there is really easy way to find out. Just ask: ‘What pronouns do you use?’

Some trans and non-binary people might ask you to use the gender-neutral pronouns they/them/their.

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Everyone’s gender identity and gender expression are on a spectrum. Understanding this is a vital part of being a trans ally and should be part and parcel of including pronouns in your signature.

All of this may sound like an unnecessary level of ‘woke’ to bring to the office.

But Battye says, on a deeper level changes like this leads to powerful cultural shifts in organisations:

“It creates a safe space so everyone can bring their whole self to work, no longer needing to censor or hide parts of themselves. This leads to greater productivity, creativity and connection with colleagues and your organisational purpose.”

How can I persuade everyone at my workplace to put pronouns in their email signatures?

In offices where I have worked where pronouns in bios and email signatures have become prevalent, it happened with complete ease. And not once, have I seen it been mandatory.

In a small organisation, it might be something you can start yourself. Simply add the pronouns in.

But if you want to make more sweeping change, or work for a larger organisation, you could seek the help of your HR team.

One institution who has taken the step of informing all their staff they can add pronouns into their signatures is Southbank Centre.

Following their highly regarded Kiss My Genders exhibition, the UK’s largest cultural arts centre sent their staff a message saying:

“As part of our ongoing efforts to be inclusive of all gender identities, we are pleased to confirm that anyone wishing to do so may add pronouns to their email signature.”

Telling their staff:

“Adding these words to your email signature has the practical benefit of making clear how you would like to be referred to, while also signalling to the recipient that you will respect their gender identity and choice of pronouns. It is an effective way of normalising discussions about gender and creating an inclusive work environment for transgender and non-binary people.”

Lucy Peters, who spearheaded the change at Southbank Centre, wanted to support trans and non-binary colleagues by reducing some the burden on them to explain their identity.

At Southbank Centre, this change was not something all staff were expected to do. Peters says that is because “it’s important to be sensitive to the fact that being out at work is the choice of the individual.”

Will the new decade bring more discussions about gender?

Being aware of pronouns, and the way societies attitudes are changing to them is a valuable tool for business, advertisers and individuals going into the new decade.

Surveys in the last decade have shown a trend of growing fluidity in young peoples sexual and gender identities. In a UK survey in 2017 by anti-bullying charity Ditch the Label, over half of the young people they spoke to, did not identify as straight.

But the reason this conversation will be a big topic in the new decade is because recent UK media vitriol towards the trans community from the media will carry on into the new year.

A recent high profile example was author J.K Rowling’s intervention in December on a court decision that ruled it was acceptable to fire someone for their hateful anti-LGBT+ views, was spun into a conversation about ‘biological sex’ and women’s only spaces.

And just this month, new voter reform laws have been announced by the new Government which could damage trans people’s ability to vote.

Boris Johnson will also have to contend with an LGBT+ community desperate for reform of the Gender Recognition Act.

A change last delayed, the day he first took office as Prime Minister in July 2019.

by Anonymousreply 1April 1, 2021 4:05 PM

Zzzzzzzzzzzz

by Anonymousreply 2April 1, 2021 4:12 PM

Phillywhore here...WHY?? Has Merica becum that "weak-minded".

by Anonymousreply 3April 1, 2021 4:17 PM

Sorry. We should protect their freedom and their rights. We don’t owe them warm and fuzzy feelings.

by Anonymousreply 4April 1, 2021 4:25 PM

Pathetic.

by Anonymousreply 5April 1, 2021 4:26 PM

Don't tell me what to do!

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by Anonymousreply 6April 1, 2021 4:34 PM

A sign of our incredibly narcissistic society.

by Anonymousreply 7April 1, 2021 4:37 PM

Nothing gets people to support you like endlessly lecturing and hectoring them.

by Anonymousreply 8April 1, 2021 4:41 PM

My pronoun is "Patrice."

by Anonymousreply 9April 1, 2021 4:52 PM

This is a terrible idea because it creates potential conflicts that could have otherwise been prevented. The workplace is for work and not promoting ones agenda or ideals.

For the non-binary who change pronouns more than their underwear it will become tedious to keep up with changing pronouns. It’s also distracting in a work environment.

If a person really needs to have pronouns addressed they can do so without making everyone else do the same just to make themselves feel better.

by Anonymousreply 10April 1, 2021 5:21 PM

I'm cisgendered and I don't think anyone cares that I work with. It's not a surprise. So no.

by Anonymousreply 11April 1, 2021 5:23 PM

No. If name is Chris, Kelly, or something like that, fine.

If your name is John, you do not need to specify your pronouns. If your name is XZXXz, you may want to specify.

If your name is Mary, you do not need to specify your pronouns. If your name is Scout, you may want to specify.

If you want to stand with Trans people, then do so. But don’t guilt others into appearing not supportive just because you think letting everyone should follow this practice.

by Anonymousreply 12April 1, 2021 5:28 PM

[quote] It normalises discussions about gender. Which, as a queer man, I can assure you is a conversation that benefits everyone.

Oh my god. This writer needs to FUCK. OFF.

by Anonymousreply 13April 1, 2021 5:34 PM

Exactly, since when is discussing sexuality or gender part of day to day work?

by Anonymousreply 14April 1, 2021 5:44 PM

Should you put your political ideology in your email sig too?

by Anonymousreply 15April 1, 2021 5:47 PM

I call ‘em like I see ‘em, pronouns be damned.

by Anonymousreply 16April 1, 2021 5:48 PM

If someone feels they need to specify their pronouns in their email, I have no issue with it. I'll go along with what they want to be called. If it's so important to them that they need to state it, I'm happy to respect that.

I'm not going to state my pronouns because if anyone is unable to work out that I'm a man then they're not suited to a work environment.

by Anonymousreply 17April 1, 2021 5:49 PM

Absolutely not. This is insane. It's like using skin-color-specific emojis. It's just dumb.

by Anonymousreply 18April 1, 2021 5:50 PM

If pronouns don't matter to you, then you don't make a big issue out of them.

However, you don't want to be "that guy" or "that Karen" in the liberal-minded office who disrespects someone who prefers non-traditional pronouns.

It's not the end of the world to humor someone and address him pr her as they. Why make pronouns the hill you intend to die on?

by Anonymousreply 19April 1, 2021 6:16 PM

Sorry, ... and address him or her as they.

by Anonymousreply 20April 1, 2021 6:16 PM

Don’t be ridiculous.

by Anonymousreply 21April 1, 2021 6:17 PM

No one cares.

by Anonymousreply 22April 1, 2021 6:23 PM

R19 If the pronouns don’t matter so much why do you need to force everyone to use them?

A liberal work environment does not mean you need to agree with everyone and forcing others through name calling or intimidation, that is the definition of harassment in the work place.

by Anonymousreply 23April 1, 2021 6:23 PM

I have, “MBA, CSM, and verse” in my email sig.

by Anonymousreply 24April 1, 2021 6:26 PM

No, you should not.

by Anonymousreply 25April 1, 2021 6:27 PM

I will go to my grave without ever doing this. And I'm not that old.

by Anonymousreply 26April 1, 2021 6:29 PM

Can't I just call you bitch?

by Anonymousreply 27April 1, 2021 6:29 PM

My pronouns are Master, and Sir.

I DARE you to disrespect my preferred pronouns!

by Anonymousreply 28April 1, 2021 6:31 PM

R19 if I'm only doing it to "humor" them that seems worse than not doing it. The fact you frame it that way proves it's stupid.

by Anonymousreply 29April 1, 2021 6:38 PM

Miss Jackson if you're nasty!

by Anonymousreply 30April 1, 2021 6:50 PM

No, because putting pronouns in your signature implies that you expect other people to memorize your pronouns.

I barely remember the names of people whose paths cross mine occasionally at work! Stuffed if I can memorize all the damn pronoun preferences of people I see occasionally or rarely, when even recognizing them them when they're all wearing masks and nearly identical work clothes.

by Anonymousreply 31April 1, 2021 8:34 PM

They have started doing this in my company. Everytime I see it I lose a little respect for these band-wagon jumpers.

by Anonymousreply 32April 1, 2021 8:37 PM
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