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"Why I Masturbate My Profoundly Disabled Son"

This was posted on "Cringetopia" on Reddit, where most of the comments are very negative. But I have friends with a son like this, who is about 22 or so, and I sincerely doubt those religious nuts ever "help him out" in this way. His balls must be so blue that they hurt, not that he would know what was going on. This doesn't bother me at all, it seems like health care to me. What does DL think?

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by Anonymousreply 154October 22, 2021 6:07 PM

Reminds me of when the nurse had to jerk the guy in Johnny Got His Gun.

by Anonymousreply 1March 28, 2021 9:20 PM

Troll post

by Anonymousreply 2March 28, 2021 9:22 PM


by Anonymousreply 3March 28, 2021 9:24 PM

He projects his own need onto his son.

But let me ask Madison Cawthorn first if he ever needs a regular wank once in a while.

by Anonymousreply 4March 28, 2021 9:27 PM

MINE R4!!!!

by Anonymousreply 5March 28, 2021 9:28 PM

Oh, MY!

Just look at the way the son is looking at his daddy. So longingly.


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by Anonymousreply 6March 28, 2021 9:31 PM

Pretty sure you can hire sex therapists for this sort of thing. But I guess this is a thrifty version of that.

by Anonymousreply 7March 28, 2021 9:38 PM

“I’m Davihde. I work as a sex therapist for the mentally disabled. While I don’t condone the use of recreational drugs, I do make use of them to provide a complete experience for my clients. ‘Tards love cocaine, but hate meth. Imagine.”

by Anonymousreply 8March 28, 2021 9:38 PM

Perhaps drugs or surgery would eliminate this problem. The current solution is really odd.

by Anonymousreply 9March 28, 2021 9:39 PM

Isn’t it considered rape if the individual doesn’t have capacity to consent?

by Anonymousreply 10March 28, 2021 9:41 PM

Drugs or surgery? Are you talking chemical or physical castration? Why? The young man has a right to enjoy whatever pleasure his body is capable of giving him. If he were able to masturbate himself, I'm sure he (like the rest of us) would. Since he can't, what's so wrong with someone else doing it for him? Who is harmed?

by Anonymousreply 11March 28, 2021 9:42 PM

Just reading what the father wrote, he actually sounds a bit turned on by it.

Especially noting how he knows his son's body "intimately."

Most people would see that sort of job of caretaker as more "clinical," rather than "intimate." Right?

by Anonymousreply 12March 28, 2021 9:42 PM

I’m getting flashbacks of the Former Guy discussing Ivanka.

by Anonymousreply 13March 28, 2021 9:46 PM

He didn't sound turned on by it to me. Instead, he sounded like a man who recognizes that his son has sexual needs just like the rest of us. He's doing what he can to make the quality of his son's life better because he loves him.

by Anonymousreply 14March 28, 2021 9:46 PM

[quote] he sounded like a man who recognizes that his son has sexual needs just like the rest of us

There's no way for him to know that.

It could easily have been a morning hard on, rather than a sexual one. There are differences.

Lots of guys wake up with "morning wood," and it doesn't mean we're horny. It's just a physical thing, not a sexual one.

Sounds to me like the dad is taking liberties with his son's body.

by Anonymousreply 15March 28, 2021 9:50 PM

How would you feel if every sexual experience you had was shared with your dad?

by Anonymousreply 16March 28, 2021 9:51 PM

Beyond sad.

by Anonymousreply 17March 28, 2021 9:52 PM

I thought this said [italic]“Why I Masturbate [bold]TO [/bold]My Profoundly Disabled Son"[/italic]


by Anonymousreply 18March 28, 2021 9:52 PM

lol R18.

What a difference two letters make!

Not that either of those sentences aren't totally gross.

by Anonymousreply 19March 28, 2021 9:55 PM

I think that the dad's intention is good, but there is something disturbing about him doing it. Sure, it's his child and he's cared for his son his entire life, but this seems like a transgression.

I think this would be better reserved for a professional.

by Anonymousreply 20March 28, 2021 9:56 PM

“Therapeutic Masturbation” - Is there any other kind?

by Anonymousreply 21March 28, 2021 9:57 PM

Does the dad look at his son's dick while he's jacking it off, or does he watch tv or read a book?

by Anonymousreply 22March 28, 2021 9:58 PM

R22 he looks his son straight in the eye.

by Anonymousreply 23March 28, 2021 9:59 PM

I didn't realize there was a profession where you could go around masturbating disabled men. Sounds like some gay man's dream (not mine).

by Anonymousreply 24March 28, 2021 9:59 PM

Sometimes he even kisses the tip.

by Anonymousreply 25March 28, 2021 10:00 PM

There is no such thing as "blue balls."

by Anonymousreply 26March 28, 2021 10:01 PM

Is this the time where we ask “Cut or Uncut”?

by Anonymousreply 27March 28, 2021 10:01 PM

r15 I get what you're saying. But I've jerked off my morning wood, and the orgasms feel just as good as when I'm aroused sexually. His son probably gives him some sort of thumbs up or approving response, beyond his cumming all over daddy.

by Anonymousreply 28March 28, 2021 10:02 PM

[quote] Does the dad look at his son's dick while he's jacking it off, or does he watch tv or read a book?

[quote] he looks his son straight in the eye.


[quote] Sometimes he even kisses the tip.


by Anonymousreply 29March 28, 2021 10:03 PM

That would be the best flounce off line:

“If you’ll EXCUSE me, I have to go jerk off my mentally disabled son!”

by Anonymousreply 30March 28, 2021 10:05 PM

Lmao r29

by Anonymousreply 31March 28, 2021 10:06 PM

Rofl r30.

This is why I love DL.

by Anonymousreply 32March 28, 2021 10:06 PM

This is why I masturbate Nestor...

by Anonymousreply 33March 28, 2021 10:07 PM

Odd but after thinking about it I dont see anything wrong with it. Imagine being trapped in that twisted body and feeling horny and not being able to do anything about it. Hes probably dealing with all kinds of pain,so is a little pleasure so bad ? That being said,dad should have kept it between them,the world will never understand.

by Anonymousreply 34March 28, 2021 10:09 PM


by Anonymousreply 35March 28, 2021 10:09 PM

There's gotta be some kind of blowjob machine available. It's 2021.

by Anonymousreply 36March 28, 2021 10:10 PM

R34 No the dad shouldn’t do it.

by Anonymousreply 37March 28, 2021 10:11 PM

Isn't this rape?

by Anonymousreply 38March 28, 2021 10:14 PM

You pay a professional to do it.

Call me sex negative, but there are personal boundaries that should be maintained - and honey, this is one of them.

by Anonymousreply 40March 28, 2021 10:14 PM

R36 there are blowjob/jerkoff machines available now.

by Anonymousreply 41March 28, 2021 10:14 PM

R38 Yes

by Anonymousreply 42March 28, 2021 10:15 PM

[quote]There is no such thing as "blue balls."

Doesn't your body just release the excess while you're asleep? Which is strange because I've had that happen a few times one or two days after sex...

by Anonymousreply 43March 28, 2021 10:15 PM

“Son... I am going to show you something a little different than usual. This is called edging and daddy loves it!”

by Anonymousreply 44March 28, 2021 10:15 PM

Our family knew of a mentally disabled young man who used to jump on the couch pillows and masturbate in front of everyone.

Now there was a kid who a) had sexual needs and was aware of them and b) was profoundly out of touch with social norms.

Unless he has a doctor's note, no dad should play with his son's genitals.

FWIW, OP this is a disgusting topic.

by Anonymousreply 46March 28, 2021 10:16 PM


by Anonymousreply 47March 28, 2021 10:17 PM

Yeah um...this is one thing massage parlors in strip malls are good for. Let there be a tiny bit of mystery for dad.

by Anonymousreply 48March 28, 2021 10:17 PM

This man has been taking total care of his son for decades - feeding, bathing, changing diapers - I certainly would not want to be in his situation and I’m definitely in no position to judge him. Since it probably gives his son some pleasure and happiness I think it is ultimately a good thing.

by Anonymousreply 50March 28, 2021 10:20 PM

I'm 25 lbs overweight, losing 15 would change my life; I'm alone and depressed, but I have my health, overall.

My heart breaks for parents with disabled kids; they know someday, now matter how much they take care of them in their lifetime, someday they'll be gone with unless really understanding siblings are around the disabled kid is alone.

by Anonymousreply 51March 28, 2021 10:25 PM

R50 Not letting you around my kids.

by Anonymousreply 52March 28, 2021 10:26 PM

R51 I’m way fatter than that right now and I would never blubber like a bitch about it like you just did right now.

by Anonymousreply 53March 28, 2021 10:28 PM

[quote][R40] I agree, but how would you advertise for that without attracting the attention of CPS?

Well, first thing is you don't do anything until the person is 18 years old - a legal adult who can make his wishes known, i.e., can agree that that is what he wants.

Second, in this day and age, you don't advertise, you find one of the dozens of online ads for various service providers.

by Anonymousreply 54March 28, 2021 10:28 PM

R54 Duh he can’t communicate like that.

by Anonymousreply 55March 28, 2021 10:29 PM

I can't wait to see this adapted into a play and then a movie. It's like a modern-day Miracle Worker.

by Anonymousreply 56March 28, 2021 10:30 PM

Sick ass! This is so profoundly dysfunctional in every way except getting off.

by Anonymousreply 57March 28, 2021 10:31 PM

Son looks hot.

by Anonymousreply 58March 28, 2021 10:34 PM

There ARE professionals -- sex workers -- who you can hire to provide sex to profoundly disabled persons who express a wish for some intimacy,.

by Anonymousreply 59March 28, 2021 10:38 PM

R59 Ok we get that but our boy only grunts, u didn’t pick that up yet?

by Anonymousreply 60March 28, 2021 10:39 PM

Sounds exhausting

by Anonymousreply 61March 28, 2021 10:45 PM

This is a good example of people reading some made-up bullshit on reddit and running with it.

How can people be so naive?

by Anonymousreply 62March 28, 2021 11:17 PM

In helter skelter it said Susan Atkins sucked off her infant son

by Anonymousreply 63March 28, 2021 11:18 PM

Why doesn’t mom lend a hand?

by Anonymousreply 64March 28, 2021 11:20 PM

Mom should give all 3 holes

by Anonymousreply 65March 28, 2021 11:28 PM

Castration is the answer. it's not like he will ever sire children.

by Anonymousreply 66March 28, 2021 11:28 PM

I hope LIL NAS X sees this....I have a feeling his next video storyline has been found....Once you have dabbled in Devil Dick Satanism---masterbating disabled jesus cannot be far behind....

by Anonymousreply 67March 28, 2021 11:29 PM

The son looks like Jerri Blank's father on "Strangers With Candy," the one who was always frozen in place with his mouth open.

by Anonymousreply 68March 28, 2021 11:56 PM

[italic]I have something to say!

by Anonymousreply 69March 28, 2021 11:58 PM

Hook him up once a week to an e-stim machine.

by Anonymousreply 70March 29, 2021 12:02 AM

I'll be honest I have wondered what disabled boys do once they reach puberty, I mean it's unhealthy to not shoot a load, it can cause a higher risk of prostate cancer if you don't release every so often and it can hurt during the teens if you don't get it out. If I had a brother or a son who was disabled, I'd hire a prostitute every 3 months.

by Anonymousreply 71March 29, 2021 12:03 AM

"Oh yeah, I'd take that job. ... pay me with what, meth?"

by Anonymousreply 72March 29, 2021 12:07 AM

The mother must truly love her son!

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by Anonymousreply 73March 29, 2021 12:09 AM

R72 A disabled guy is probably far from the worst customer a prostitute has dealt with, I mean have you seen Donald Trump?

by Anonymousreply 74March 29, 2021 12:27 AM

[quote][R54] Duh he can’t communicate like that.

No one is suggesting he provide a detailed summary of his kinks and safe words.

I'm simply suggesting that it if a person cannot signal in some meaningful manner that they agree, then molesting a disabled person is probably not a good idea.

by Anonymousreply 75March 29, 2021 12:38 AM

[quote]No one is suggesting he provide a detailed summary of his kinks and safe words.

My safe word was MNUHNUHHAMNUH

by Anonymousreply 76March 29, 2021 12:48 AM

It's creepy and gross. Any self-respecting father would just pay a street whore.

by Anonymousreply 77March 29, 2021 1:50 AM

[quote] That would be the best flounce off line:

[quote] “If you’ll EXCUSE me, I have to go jerk off my mentally disabled son!”

It would have made even more of an impact if he flounced off while saying, "Now if you'll EXCUSE me, I have to go jerk off my R***** son!"

That line would be John Waters worthy.

by Anonymousreply 78March 29, 2021 1:51 AM

Dat's da hand job! Fank-you Dad!

by Anonymousreply 79March 29, 2021 2:14 AM

[quote]Isn’t it considered rape if the individual doesn’t have capacity to consent?

It's not rape-rape.

by Anonymousreply 80March 29, 2021 2:25 AM

R46 is describing the Duke of Sussex. You know it. I know it.

by Anonymousreply 81March 29, 2021 2:25 AM

What if he were fully functional, but had no hands? Would dad help him out then, too?

by Anonymousreply 82March 29, 2021 2:25 AM

I wouldn't have thought of it before, but I think what the father is doing is a nice form of care for his son.

by Anonymousreply 83March 29, 2021 3:11 AM

At first I thought this was going to be written by Melania.

by Anonymousreply 84March 29, 2021 3:17 AM

I found further info for the intellectually curious

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by Anonymousreply 85March 29, 2021 3:34 AM

An academic account has been published.

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by Anonymousreply 86March 29, 2021 3:34 AM

This is incest and vile. He could have got the kid a fleshlite and demonstated what to without touching his son's dick.

by Anonymousreply 87March 29, 2021 3:40 AM

R87 read the research paper in r86. It would be impossible for the kid to do this himself.

IMO, this is really one of those moral gray areas. I can see both sides. There is no easy answer here.

by Anonymousreply 88March 29, 2021 3:46 AM

It's cool being at ground zero when a new porn category is born!

by Anonymousreply 89March 29, 2021 3:59 AM

Didn’t Helen Hunt win an Oscar for this? It’s the one where she showed her bald pussy lips.

by Anonymousreply 90March 29, 2021 4:06 AM

Trainers at SeaWorld do this for dolphins so it’s not unprecedented.

by Anonymousreply 91March 29, 2021 4:07 AM

Would he do this for his disabled daughter?

by Anonymousreply 92March 29, 2021 4:08 AM


That’s just for research!

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by Anonymousreply 93March 29, 2021 4:09 AM


I agree! Any Dad who thinks about touching sonny's dick is weird.

by Anonymousreply 94March 29, 2021 4:46 AM


You got me.

by Anonymousreply 95March 29, 2021 4:47 AM

R85 - Do you think the dad jerks off the kid’s dog, too?

by Anonymousreply 96March 29, 2021 5:00 AM

R16 I don’t have to imagine, I loved, I mean lived it.

Daddy’s dick sure did the trick!

by Anonymousreply 97March 29, 2021 5:03 AM

There was once a DL post where someone said their mother used to jerk off the family dog before guests arrived to keep him from humping them.

by Anonymousreply 98March 29, 2021 5:05 AM

I thought this was going to be another Deidre Hall red ribbon parody thread.

by Anonymousreply 99March 29, 2021 5:15 AM

I was molested. 100!

by Anonymousreply 100March 29, 2021 5:17 AM

Why my son isn't even profoundly disabled. What's the big deal?

by Anonymousreply 101March 29, 2021 5:18 AM

R99 that would be a really good one!

by Anonymousreply 102March 29, 2021 5:48 AM

[quote] Isn’t it considered rape if the individual doesn’t have capacity to consent?

The father is the legal guardian, and so has the authority to provide consent to sexual relations that are otherwise legal.

by Anonymousreply 103March 29, 2021 6:09 AM


by Anonymousreply 104March 29, 2021 6:24 AM

Back in the day this would have been a ripped from the headlines SVU episode.

But they don’t really do the “ethical dilemma” type episodes anymore 🙁

by Anonymousreply 105March 29, 2021 6:25 AM

Does dad know about anal beads?

by Anonymousreply 106March 29, 2021 6:27 AM

[quote]Back in the day this would have been a ripped from the headlines SVU episode.

This would be a great "Ice-T Explainer."

ICE-T: "People actually do this? Mastuhbate their children?"

BENSON: "It's a controversial practice among parents of the disabled."

ICE-T: "Every time I think I've heard everything in this world ... "


by Anonymousreply 107March 29, 2021 6:40 AM

Put him on paroxetine, he'll never have another sexual feeling in his life.

by Anonymousreply 108March 29, 2021 6:47 AM

Did someone mention rape?!

by Anonymousreply 109March 29, 2021 6:48 AM

I want this seedy thread shut down. Now!

[italic]MURIEL ! !

by Anonymousreply 110March 29, 2021 7:58 AM

This is a complicated and delicate subject, and I can completely understand that someone who is severely disabled and cannot express themselves sexually has a right to a sexual life, but the father doing it to me is just wrong. He should be hiring a sex worker for this in my opinion.

by Anonymousreply 111March 29, 2021 10:12 AM

[quote] He should be hiring a sex worker for this in my opinion.

If the father were to become a licensed sex therapist, would that satisfy the puritans and prudes?

by Anonymousreply 112March 29, 2021 10:28 AM

There used to be a disabled guy with an account on xtube (before they purged the amateur accounts). It wasnt clear what his condition was but he was in a motorized wheel chair and his arms were contorted in a way that made them appear not very useful. He would ride up to the alcove where his pc/cam were set up and groan a bit and his home health nurse would then take his penis from his pants and masturbate him until he came, onto a hand towel. Zipped him back up and that was it.

It seemed pretty real and not like some phony staged fetish vid. She appeared to be fine with it.

by Anonymousreply 113March 29, 2021 10:44 AM

He's being molested!

by Anonymousreply 114March 29, 2021 11:06 AM

I think this story is great! It will make the day of so many bitter old hens by giving them something to get their panties in wad all over.

by Anonymousreply 115March 29, 2021 12:18 PM

Calling bullshit on this trolling, don’t fall for it

by Anonymousreply 116March 29, 2021 12:21 PM

Why on earth should he hire a sex worker. Are you going to pay for it prudes.

by Anonymousreply 117March 29, 2021 12:24 PM

R62, there are a lot of people who are practically addicted to these Reddit ESTs, I've had to block accounts and keywords all over the place just to not get spammed with them every time I go on social media.

by Anonymousreply 118March 29, 2021 12:31 PM


by Anonymousreply 119March 29, 2021 1:26 PM

That is profoundly disturbing.

by Anonymousreply 120March 29, 2021 1:37 PM

In Japan, they have volunteer for that. It called "Hand Angel" I am not joking.

by Anonymousreply 121March 29, 2021 1:39 PM

Next thing you know, he'll be riding his son's cock.

He'll justify it by saying, "I want my son to feel the real thing!"

by Anonymousreply 122March 29, 2021 7:02 PM

Funny, no mention of the mom.

She probably stormed out in disgust.

by Anonymousreply 123March 29, 2021 7:44 PM

If you read the articles, you'd know:

1. mom left the family when the son was a boy 2. they live in a third world country 3. dad doesn't have sufficient income to hire sex workers

Everyone's entitled to their opinions about this situation, but we don't have all the facts about the boy's medical condition or the father's situation. And unless you're a lawyer in South Africa, you don't really have a basis for a legal opinion. If the thread disgusts you, don't read it.

If the threat turns you on, please seek help.

by Anonymousreply 124March 29, 2021 9:57 PM

Does the father do outcalls?

by Anonymousreply 125March 30, 2021 12:04 AM

[quote]In Japan, they have volunteer for that. It called "Hand Angel" I am not joking.

Handy Angel!

You're an angel to me!

by Anonymousreply 126March 30, 2021 2:03 AM

[quote] If the threat turns you on, please seek help.

I am SO turned on right now!

by Anonymousreply 127March 30, 2021 7:33 PM

Gee, Dad, you're the coolest — and I know what's on YOUR iPod!

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by Anonymousreply 128March 30, 2021 7:36 PM

[quote]R126 In Japan, they have volunteers for that. It’s called "Hand Angel" I am not joking.

[italic]Just call me handy in the morning, angel...

by Anonymousreply 129March 31, 2021 1:15 AM

Florida has the right idea.

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by Anonymousreply 130March 31, 2021 1:23 AM

My parents divorced when I was very young and my father was estranged, so I never had the opportunity to be masturbated.

by Anonymousreply 131March 31, 2021 2:08 AM

what good dads do

by Anonymousreply 132March 31, 2021 6:58 AM

Fucking sick GQP pedos.

by Anonymousreply 133March 31, 2021 12:40 PM

I've never voted Republican in my life!

by Anonymousreply 134March 31, 2021 1:06 PM

Matt, that's a terrible thing to say about Nestor!

by Anonymousreply 135April 1, 2021 2:12 AM

I'm going to write a book.

"My dad never jerked me off!"

by Anonymousreply 136April 1, 2021 2:14 AM

I couldn't do it but them I am not the father of this profoundly disables son and don't fully comprehend the situation.

by Anonymousreply 137April 1, 2021 2:43 AM

And this is in the son’s, r128

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by Anonymousreply 138April 1, 2021 6:48 AM

One of my relatives masturbated the family's purebred dog.

The dog was pretty rare, and they wanted to put it up for stud.

Had to get a jizz sample first, so there you go....

by Anonymousreply 139April 2, 2021 5:19 AM

Difficult... but I might pick Daddy’s hands over:

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by Anonymousreply 140April 2, 2021 5:29 AM

Every family needs an Uncle Ernie to leave a disabled son with. That literally handles the problem.

by Anonymousreply 141April 3, 2021 2:56 AM

R112 this isn’t an EST. The dad has published articles about it.

by Anonymousreply 142May 13, 2021 11:43 PM

Can't he find a really cheap prostitute? I doubt they'd charge that much for a hand job.

by Anonymousreply 143May 14, 2021 1:35 AM

R143 I think there would be consent issues with that, plus it’s not fair to the prostitute.

by Anonymousreply 144October 8, 2021 4:13 AM

It would be way more appropriate to hire a sex surrogate I think Now he is sexualizing his father which is disturbing

by Anonymousreply 145October 8, 2021 4:46 AM

Actually I find it to be an incredible violation of his son's privacy to be discussing this publicly.

by Anonymousreply 146October 8, 2021 5:05 AM

R146 it definitely is, but I imagine the father is doing so because there was absolutely nothing on this topic when he was trying to decide what to do and he wants other parents to be able to learn from his experience.

There is a lot of lose/lose in this case.

by Anonymousreply 147October 8, 2021 5:13 AM

No parent should be handling a child sexually. Period.

There are sex therapists who handle this kind of thing.

by Anonymousreply 148October 8, 2021 2:27 PM

I am surprised NO ONE mentioned that this exact topic and possibly the same scenario were discussed 10-15 years ago on here. Anyone? I remember it was a LONG thread with a ton of replies and debates.

by Anonymousreply 149October 8, 2021 2:46 PM

Also, I think in the original post 15+ years ago, the author was a woman, so this looks like the same text, but with some random picture that isn't the original author.

by Anonymousreply 150October 8, 2021 2:50 PM

R150 the picture is of the dad and son in question. You must be misremembering in your old age.

by Anonymousreply 151October 21, 2021 4:06 AM

R151, you can paste any picture above a quoted text.

by Anonymousreply 152October 22, 2021 4:53 PM

This…is…appalling. Some boundaries should not be crossed. Hire a prostitute for something like this.

by Anonymousreply 153October 22, 2021 5:01 PM

It was posted on here before r149 and I believe it was in response to a book that had been written by a woman who said she helped her son in this way. I remember there were comparisons to a Jill Clayburgh movie and it became a kind of in-joke for a while.

by Anonymousreply 154October 22, 2021 6:07 PM
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