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Thomas Middleditch accused of sexual misconduct at now closed L.A. Goth nightclub in 2019

Silicon Valley star Thomas Middleditch has been accused of sexual misconduct towards a then-21-year-old woman while the two were on the dance floor. of the now-defunct private Goth club Cloak & Dagger in Hollywood back in 2019.

In an expose published on Sunday, the L.A. Times reported that according to club-goer Hannah Harding, Middleditch made "lewd sexual overtures" toward her and her girlfriend in front of several employees including Kate Morgan, operations manager of the members-only club where Middleditch was one of many famous faces who was a regular at the notoriously "uninhibited" parties.

Morgan told the Times she alerted co-founders Adam Bravin and Michael Patterson of the unwelcome behavior but felt like "they dismissed it." It was not until a week later, she says, that Bravin reached out to her about the incident, and even then only to tell her that she must have been mistaken.

The Times quoted an IG dm that Harding said she later received from Middleditch: "Hannah I had no idea my actions were that weird for you ... I know you probably want to just put me on blast as a monster ... I don't expect you to want to be my friend or anything ... I am so ashamed I made you uncomfortable."

EW has reached out to reps for Middleditch, who previously declined the newspaper's request for comment. EW has not spoken directly with Harding, but is out to Bravin and Patterson for comment on the allegations. No legal charges, civil or criminal, have been brought.

Harding told the Times that after she complained, she saw the actor grope another woman at the club based on the co-owner's lack of followup, she concluded, "They cared more about famous people at their club than women's safety."

The Times said it based its reporting on accounts provided by 10 women, four of them former employees of the secretive Goth club. Bravin, a musician and DJ formerly with Crazy Town and She Wants Revenge, is accused of supporting his celebrity clientele over complaints received by former staff and members, although he previously promised via social media to "handle things immediately" if he received reports of any misconduct.

Both Bravin, who has previously DJ'ed for Barack Obama and Prince, and Patterson, a Grammy-nominated composer, have been accused by members and former employees of cutting corners with safety at the club and their festivals and ignoring multiple complaints of abuse conveyed to them by staff, according to the Times report.

Patterson told the outlet in a statement, "As far as I am aware, they reported every incident to us, and to my knowledge, we dealt with every single issue brought to our attention."

Bravin has also faced allegations from multiple former staff who claim he flirted with them while in a position of power, leaving the women in fear for their jobs if they didn't put up with it. One female staffer who wished to remain anonymous told the Times she felt " vulnerable" as Bravin made advances at her, and later they began a sexual relationship after he offered professional advancement opportunities that never came to fruition.

Bravin released his own statement to the Times, "as a result of my unconscionable ignorance to an existing power dynamic between me as part-owner of Cloak & Dagger and the members, I came to understand how my flirtatious communication could have been inappropriate and unacceptable."

Bravin and Patterson announced the club's closure in January.

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by Anonymousreply 83March 23, 2021 1:10 PM

[quote]One female staffer who wished to remain anonymous told the Times she felt " vulnerable" as Bravin made advances at her, and later they began a sexual relationship after he offered professional advancement opportunities that never came to fruition.

She felt "vulnerable" but still slept with him for a promotion and now wants to cry about it? This is ridiculous.

by Anonymousreply 1March 21, 2021 9:21 PM

MIddleditch has said that he is big into swinging. Was that a swingers' club?

by Anonymousreply 2March 21, 2021 9:22 PM

[quote]The Times quoted an IG dm that Harding said she later received from Middleditch: "Hannah I had no idea my actions were that weird for you ... I know you probably want to just put me on blast as a monster ... I don't expect you to want to be my friend or anything ... I am so ashamed I made you uncomfortable."

So this wasn't enough? He apologized and recognized he had made her feel uncomfortable. So does she want him to go to prison or kill himself or pay her?

by Anonymousreply 3March 21, 2021 9:22 PM

He’s got big dick face, why is she complaining?

by Anonymousreply 4March 21, 2021 9:23 PM

[quote] he offered professional advancement opportunities [bold]that never came to fruition.[/bold]

Well there’s her problem.

by Anonymousreply 5March 21, 2021 9:26 PM

Fuck, there’s no groping on the dance floor allowed anymore, I’m glad I did my dancing in the ‘80s and ‘90s, that was the best part of dancing.

by Anonymousreply 6March 21, 2021 9:27 PM

R5 Ah, his fruition was broken! That explains everything!

by Anonymousreply 7March 21, 2021 9:28 PM

[quote]He’s got big dick face

Someone posted a nude pic of him the other day and, at least soft, he doesn't have big dick [bold]dick[/bold].

by Anonymousreply 8March 21, 2021 9:32 PM

She’s got the goods on him and the owners.

by Anonymousreply 9March 21, 2021 9:34 PM

If he wasn't an actor with connections, no one would give this fug guy the time of day. Ugly men will do anything for sex.

He's lucky to have a big wallet otherwise he'd be fucking his physical equals.

by Anonymousreply 10March 21, 2021 9:35 PM

Did they mistake an LA Goth nightclub for a business dinner? Is this a straight thing? Can you imagine gays complaining to a manager that someone groped them on the dancefloor and they didn't feel safe?

by Anonymousreply 11March 21, 2021 9:35 PM

I find him quite attractive, r10. You must share UK Guy's taste in men.

by Anonymousreply 12March 21, 2021 9:36 PM

I guess he needs to be added to the biggest douchebag thread.

by Anonymousreply 13March 21, 2021 9:37 PM

OPs pic is very flattering. Gross, I saw him at another angle and nude. He’s ugly and has straight Dingleberry dude body. No thanks! The rape allegation whores can keep him.

by Anonymousreply 14March 21, 2021 9:39 PM

He's gross and I hate that Mike Judge made him famous.

by Anonymousreply 15March 21, 2021 9:39 PM

r15 = Peggy Hill

by Anonymousreply 16March 21, 2021 9:41 PM

I'm from the same area as him originally and know someone who went to school with him in Nelson, honestly I feel like I know him, he's the archetypal insecure Canadian boy freed by money/fame to pursue all those lonely high school fantasies, although apparently he was popular in high school because he was funny (girls still shunned him then, though).

by Anonymousreply 17March 21, 2021 9:42 PM

[quote] In an expose published on Sunday, the L.A. Times reported that according to club-goer Hannah Harding, Middleditch made "lewd sexual overtures" toward her and her girlfriend in front of several employees including Kate Morgan, operations manager of the members-only club where Middleditch was one of many famous faces who was a regular at the notoriously "uninhibited" parties.

He made lewd overtures to her at a sex-party club? The monster! Doesn't he understand that sex-parties at private clubs are places for proper behavior?

by Anonymousreply 18March 21, 2021 9:43 PM

Nice to know standard newspapers are still doing expose!

by Anonymousreply 19March 21, 2021 9:46 PM

[quote] So does she want him to go to prison or kill himself or pay her?

All that would be a start!!

by Anonymousreply 20March 21, 2021 9:46 PM

Sexual harassment! Sexual assault! Inappropriate touching!

by Anonymousreply 21March 21, 2021 9:52 PM

[quote]I find him quite attractive, [R10]. You must share UK Guy's taste in men.

There's nothing attractive about this man. Even his acting is mediocre. He looks like a fucking bird. Canada can have him. The best thing about his new series is the actress Annaleigh Ashford, she's amazing.

This douchebag blabbed about swinging and then stated that his wife, at the time, was "more private" about their swinging. He then went on to talk about their "lifestyle". WTF?

How sad that straight women continue to put up with straight mens bullshit. It's pretty fucked up, that in this day and age, that independent self-sufficient straight women still feel the need to get married because they'll be deemed an 'old maid' or a loser.

I know DL is obsessed with straight men. Still don't know why. How pathetic.

by Anonymousreply 22March 21, 2021 9:58 PM

That's a bit harsh, he was often very good in Silicon Valley. But yeah -- totally unattractive.

by Anonymousreply 23March 21, 2021 10:01 PM

I blame Canada!

by Anonymousreply 24March 21, 2021 10:06 PM

Holy fucking run on, r17!

by Anonymousreply 25March 21, 2021 10:07 PM

I have always found him a little sexy and he could totes grind on me at a sex club.

by Anonymousreply 26March 21, 2021 10:18 PM

You know you love it, because run on sentences, despite technically being bad grammar, evoke friendly chattiness better than other bad grammar, like you're listening to that frau you pretend to hate at work who goes on and on and on and on and on about, you know, whatever, just whatever, whatever silly thing enters her mind at any given moment, but yeah, you love it, run on sentences, they're your favourite thing, just admit it.

by Anonymousreply 27March 21, 2021 10:20 PM

There was talk that his wife wasn't into swinging but that he bullied her into it.

by Anonymousreply 28March 21, 2021 10:22 PM

He does look like some mythological creature. His dick is probably webbed with fins.

by Anonymousreply 29March 21, 2021 10:23 PM

[quote] He's gross and I hate that Mike Judge made him famous.

I hate that he put Jennifer homewrecker Aniston in a movie. As if it isn’t bad enough when Jason Bateman does it.

by Anonymousreply 30March 21, 2021 10:25 PM

This is Aniz Ansari all over again. Just don’t talk to women. They’re trouble.

by Anonymousreply 31March 21, 2021 10:30 PM

That’s why I became a man.

by Anonymousreply 32March 21, 2021 10:41 PM

Thomas Middleditch IS the new Armie Hammer!

by Anonymousreply 33March 21, 2021 10:50 PM

No R33 Thomas aspires to reach Armie levels of perversion.

by Anonymousreply 34March 21, 2021 10:55 PM

[quote]You know you love it, because run on sentences, despite technically being bad grammar, evoke friendly chattiness better than other bad grammar, like you're listening to that frau you pretend to hate at work who goes on and on and on and on and on about, you know, whatever, just whatever, whatever silly thing enters her mind at any given moment, but yeah, you love it, run on sentences, they're your favourite thing, just admit it.

Listen to the Rhodes Scholar rambling on. loooool. Besides the ReThug and Q trolls now permeating DL, we now also have a bunch of archly superior assholes shitting all over these forums. Go back to 4Chan and Reddit.

by Anonymousreply 35March 21, 2021 11:04 PM

[quote]I hate that he put Jennifer homewrecker Aniston in a movie. As if it isn’t bad enough when Jason Bateman does it.

Jenn Aniston is a homewrecker? Think you got that more than a bit mixed-up. Didn't Brad Pitt leave Jenn for home wrecker Angelina Jolie? WTF are you smoking?

by Anonymousreply 36March 21, 2021 11:06 PM

R18 I was going to say the same thing if you willingly attend notoriously "uninhibited" parties, how can you then complain of "lewd sexual overtures." That would be like going to a casino and complaining you were exposed to gambling.

by Anonymousreply 37March 21, 2021 11:07 PM

Why does being at a sex club make you fair game for a scrawny creep?

by Anonymousreply 38March 21, 2021 11:08 PM

I just came to say that he does NOT have a big dick face. He has a nerd bird face.

by Anonymousreply 39March 21, 2021 11:10 PM

It feels oddly Victorian.

by Anonymousreply 40March 21, 2021 11:36 PM

R38, are you serious? Can no one below your league flirt with you?

by Anonymousreply 41March 21, 2021 11:36 PM

These girls don't want sex. The Armie girls don't want sex.

They want attention. They think sex is attention.

by Anonymousreply 42March 21, 2021 11:38 PM

[quote]Why does being at a sex club make you fair game for a scrawny creep?

Exactly, "no" means no, even at a sex party. Just because people go to these swinger clubs and sex events, it doesn't mean you want to be mauled by some scrawny creep. People have the right to decide who they want to fuck at these events. If person smells like piss and shit at a swing club, you have the right to say "No". If your fetish is piss and shit, by all means, indulge.

Just because this man is a rich actor, doesn't give him the right to force himself on anyone. The entitlement of celebrities, and rich people in general, is off the charts.

by Anonymousreply 43March 21, 2021 11:40 PM

Attention IS the new sex.

by Anonymousreply 44March 21, 2021 11:44 PM

I don’t like run ons because I don’t like “run” anything, but I do love you, r27.

by Anonymousreply 45March 21, 2021 11:47 PM

No, to being fucked? Absolutely. Being able to refuse a grope? Absolutely. No, to being felt "vulnerable" or "lewd sexual overtures" while at a sex club? Please.

by Anonymousreply 46March 21, 2021 11:47 PM

Women, straight or gay, tell lies

by Anonymousreply 47March 21, 2021 11:53 PM

Nah fuck that- if you don't want to get a little bit groped, a little felt up, a little slobbered on- stay the fuck home with your cat. Get a beta bitch boyfriend who finds your sweatpants and whining delightful.

I really hate this joyless generation behind me. Does anyone remember laughter?

by Anonymousreply 48March 21, 2021 11:55 PM

[quote] Just because this man is a rich actor, doesn't give him the right to force himself on anyone.

Who said anything about forcing himself on someone? This isn’t a story about rape. It’s a story about making someone feel uncomfortable. Every time I go to a bar, I feel uncomfortable with old dudes making passes at me and trying to flirt with me. Do I go to bar management about it? Hell no. I would be laughed out of the bar.

by Anonymousreply 49March 21, 2021 11:57 PM

I WENT TO A PRIVATE GOTHY SWINGERS CLUB AND SOMEONE TOUCHED MY NO NO!

by Anonymousreply 50March 22, 2021 12:00 AM

[quote] Every time I go to a bar, I feel uncomfortable with old dudes making passes at me and trying to flirt with me.

Oh, my!! Someone violated her delicate sensibilities by *gasp* deigning to talk with her, in spite of being well below her station!

Have these oldsters and fellow bar-goers no shame?!

by Anonymousreply 51March 22, 2021 12:03 AM

He's ugly.

by Anonymousreply 52March 22, 2021 12:09 AM

r50 BILL TAYLOR?

by Anonymousreply 53March 22, 2021 12:14 AM

Stories like these remind me that, although it has been stressful and difficult and hell at times to be a gay man, I feel like a dodged a bullet.

When I read these stories and hear from so many of my straight male friends, relatives and colleagues, I wonder why more of them haven't tried putting a dick in their mouth and giving it a chance.

by Anonymousreply 54March 22, 2021 2:03 AM

This has me thinking. In 1999, when I was 29, I was at the Swim Club in Denver. This hot guy kept following me around, and in the video room he pulled off my towel, and started sucking my cock. He got me on my back on one of the levels, and proceeded to ride my cock until we both came. I did stroke his big cock while he was riding me.

Thinking about this now, he didn't ask for my consent. He just assumed that because I was in a sex club that I wanted to fuck. He assumed that just because I fucked him, that I wanted to.

I did want to fuck him, but he should have asked. Shouldn't he?

Was I violated DLers? I never got his name, but he was blond, about 6 foot 2, long lean muscle, and a long, fat cock with a prince albert. Should I go to the press, or should I just think about it and jack off?

by Anonymousreply 55March 22, 2021 2:16 AM

did you raw fuck him

by Anonymousreply 56March 22, 2021 2:22 AM

R35 Thank-You. So sick of these fucking Right wing trolls.

by Anonymousreply 57March 22, 2021 2:51 AM

Goth clubs typically don’t have the most sexual vibe in the first place. So it’s kind of an odd context.

by Anonymousreply 58March 22, 2021 2:52 AM

[quote]Stories like these remind me that, although it has been stressful and difficult and hell at times to be a gay man, I feel like a dodged a bullet.

Wish I could say that!

by Anonymousreply 59March 22, 2021 3:10 AM

So does this mean he's canceled? Who should replace him on that new sitcom on CBS?

by Anonymousreply 60March 22, 2021 3:13 AM

[quote] Bravin, a musician and DJ formerly with Crazy Town and She Wants Revenge

Indeed.

[quote]we now also have a bunch of archly superior assholes

"Now"?

[quote]Does anyone remember laughter?

MARY!

by Anonymousreply 61March 22, 2021 3:21 AM

Has anyone defined exactly what the "lewd sexual overtures" were?

by Anonymousreply 62March 22, 2021 3:28 AM

I wonder if these allegations will have any effect on his status as the lead of the new CBS show "B Positive"?

by Anonymousreply 63March 22, 2021 3:35 AM

No, R56, he put a condom on me first

by Anonymousreply 64March 22, 2021 3:37 AM

If she said no and the scrawny pervo kept coming at her anyway, that's not okay.

by Anonymousreply 65March 22, 2021 5:48 AM

He's gross. The straights can keep him

by Anonymousreply 66March 22, 2021 6:15 AM

Who cares?

by Anonymousreply 67March 22, 2021 6:38 AM

They take the cash, they cash the check, they show him what he wants to see.

by Anonymousreply 68March 22, 2021 7:08 AM

R4 there’s a pic floating around of his junk and it’s small and his balls look like a garlic bulb.

by Anonymousreply 69March 22, 2021 7:52 AM

[quote] How sad that straight women continue to put up with straight mens bullshit.

How sad that straight men continue to put up with straight women's bullshit.

by Anonymousreply 70March 22, 2021 8:02 AM

Was Upperditch already taken?

by Anonymousreply 71March 22, 2021 8:11 AM

A completely unfunny guy as a sitcom lead. That seems like the problem here.

by Anonymousreply 72March 22, 2021 10:29 AM

[quote] that's not okay.

Massive fucking eyeroll.

by Anonymousreply 73March 22, 2021 12:25 PM

I know some men treat women heinously and deserve whatever they get, but so many of these reports are pure BS. If some woman willingly sleeps with a man because he promised her advancement opportunities and gets mad when they don't come about, too bad. You were selling your vagina for that advancement, and we all know what that makes you. So keep your trap shut and live with your stupid decisions.

by Anonymousreply 74March 22, 2021 12:36 PM

Bullshit. This guy doesn’t look like he’s sexual at all. He probably doesn’t even have a penis.

by Anonymousreply 75March 22, 2021 12:38 PM

It’s hard to make a judgment on this without knowing exactly what happened. Did he touch her without her consent? That’s wrong, but some of these women need to put on their big girl pants and toughen up in the face of slimy comments from a random person in a nightclub. What happened to just throwing your drink in his face and moving on?

by Anonymousreply 76March 22, 2021 1:26 PM

What music was playing during the alleged groping, it could make a big difference.

by Anonymousreply 77March 22, 2021 3:22 PM

[quote]and later they began a sexual relationship after he offered professional advancement opportunities that never came to fruition.

So this is a contract dispute, not an allegation of sexual misconduct. He failed to deliver the terms of the agreement.

by Anonymousreply 78March 22, 2021 3:31 PM

If he can swing perhaps there is hope for little ole me.

If I picked his car keys from the bowl, I would be in deep distress.

by Anonymousreply 79March 22, 2021 3:42 PM

If I paid money to go to a sex club, I'd be pissed off if I DIDN'T get groped.

For real.

by Anonymousreply 80March 22, 2021 4:25 PM

I think he's hot. He's got a tight body and a hairy chest. His penis is average size.

by Anonymousreply 81March 22, 2021 11:41 PM

Get the fuck over it you thin skinned bitches.

At least the guy owned up and apologized, though it was naive of him to put anything in writing.

Of course you cunts just see possible dollar signs. Useless twats. Please don't ever breed.

by Anonymousreply 82March 22, 2021 11:48 PM

Had to laugh at one of his costar's accusations.

"Tried to warn you all about Middleditch but noooooo not everyone’s favorite tinyman who looks like he lives in a clock!"

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