Have you experienced cruising spots all over the world?

Yes many. And you OP? Why don't you start by sharing an experience.

My favorite was a place that no longer exists called the Barb Wire in Toronto.

I always liked older men - clean cut types. But most cruisy places would always have a really old geezer, or a Grizzly Adams type, some really scruffy guy.

But this place was just one handsome, tall, well dressed Canadian man after another. Some fine cock, cut and uncut. I had a blast and took on quite a few of them.

The bathhouse thread got deleted within 24 hours.

R3 Que?

R3 Why?

R5 it did not get deleted

Havana use to have an area called Las Lomas than ran along side the University. It started at dusk and went all night. Most of the time I would meet someone and go back to their place. One time a Dr in a lab coat picked me up and brought me back through the emergency room and we filled around near the Dr.s changing lockers. Also messed around with two military guys at the same time. At night people would mess around near the stadium in the dugouts. Crazy times , no longer exists due to police raids with dogs.

The small music practice rooms at the Metropolitan Opera. Oh, yes.

I sucked off a Pakistani guy (he was in full shalwar kameez clothing) in a bus shelter at the Pentagon. Pre 9/11 obvs.

Years ago I spent a semester studying in Moscow and the little park in front of the Bolshoi Theater was a major cruising zone,

I've never cruised anywhere I'm too shy and not into married guys, which seem to be the majority of the guys into cruising.

I’ve been to scared to try and cruise people in foreign countries. I’m just not aware enough of the customs

My friend told me stories about the grottoes in Italy - that these beautiful married men he'd see in town would be there during the quiet time in the afternoon, waiting for someone to suck them off - he described it as the most decadently rich buffet you'd ever see.

The Orangerie in Paris.

You guys must be really outgoing. lol

The Circus Maximus in Rome. In the 80’s, the former area of the seating was overgrown with massive oleander bushes, intertwines with multiple inner paths, crowded with lingering men, many wearing wedding rings. Dozens of them.

Long since cleared.

In Bruges - in the bushes just off the lebensee

The rocky point at Arpoador Beach in Rio de Janeiro late at night. During day it is a family friendly beach.

Multiple parks and gardens in London, Dublin, Amsterdam, Hamburg, Berlin, Zurich. Bushes along the fence surrounding the Wiener Rathaus, night. Austrian and Turkish cock smorgasbord. Quai d'Austerlitz underneath the station, Paris. 80s, 90s. Perle de lac, Bastions, Geneve, reedy shore of Lake Geneva in Tolochenaz (near Audrey's old villa), Denantou Lausanne, sandy beach in Villeneuve, Switzerland. Multiple rocky landings between Cannes and Juan-les-Pins, multiple same on the Liguria, and Izmir, and Beirut. Ruins near Tunis. Dunes on the shore of Portugal - such as Costa da Caparica.

R15 you seem pretty social with your lol at your own stupid comment

Gents room at Charing Cross Station, London

Russell Square, London

You seem like a rancid twat with your snarky comment R20 so I guess we both have issues we need to work on.

Girls! Girls! You're both cunts!

I still remember the JCPenney in my small suburban mall in Pennsylvania.

I was probably there maybe 20 times or so, and literally, I never had to wait longer than five minutes for someone to come in and feed me some cock.

The entire island of Mykonos. But especially, the windmills.

In high school, there was a cruising spot in a park near my hometown but the rumor was a guy got mugged by a teenager he was trying to pick up and after that, the cops shut it down.

Every public toilet in every mainline train station in London is a cruising spot.

R19 I used to live in Switzerland and Menton, so I probably met you at some of the cruising spots you mentioned.

I always remember the cruising ground near the Port de Nice. Was one of the most beautiful.

Brighton, Dukes Mound on the seafront is similar to Nice.

Madrid, the Plaza de la Lealtad outside The Ritz Hotel was fantastic.

Motorway cruising in Germany was fun, stopping at the various rest areas.

Oh happy days.

I've been to the Maspalomas dunes on Gran Canaria but did no cruising there. To be honest unless there was loads of action going on in hidden areas it didn't seem all that busy when I was there.

Also been to the 'men only' area of Hampstead ponds, lots of naked men around but it was during the day and I think the cruising on Hampstead tends to be more in the evening.

In other words, OP would like to hear from Gramps about the good old days. No one curies anymore except closet queens.

[quote]No one curies[/quote]

Oh dear.

No one curries? 😱

[quote] OP would like to hear from Gramps about the good old days

# alounge

The second floor restrooms at a certain university building was like a Busby Berkeley scale jackoff cruising spot.

30 or more open stalls (no doors) with one college student after another. If you didn't like what was behind door number 7 you just walked down to door number 12.

In there a few times where five or six or us would be shooting our loads one after the other, watching each other stroke.

Cruising goes on today.

Often see young guys on Grindr saying that they're al the local cruising ground. Simply because they're still living with mum and dad so can't accommodate and are horny.

DC’s P Street Beach was great in the 80s and early 90s. Pretty dead by 2000

[quote] I’ve been to scared to try

Oh, dear!

Thanks for your contribution, there, r11.

Fascinating input.

The bund in Shanghai.

Years ago, someone on here claimed to have spent a summer in Kazakhstan, and would go every day to a small cave where the town's menfolk would line up to be serviced. Not sure if that was an EST or not.

Nothing is more vile and gross than these public cruise spots. No idea what is on the other end... why

One time we went looking for indian arrowheads outside of Athens OH. I was visiting. And there at the bottom of the hill were these cars each with a solitary driver in it. Cruising for arrowheads no doubt.

[quote] Nothing is more vile and gross than these public cruise spots. No idea what is on the other end... why

Yet you came into the thread. Why?

And what makes you think you have no idea what’s on the other end? Have you ever walked in a park? Do you wear blinders?

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The basement men's room at Rutgers library.

We discussed some porn director a while ago who used to film cruising spots - one was supposedly the restroom in a bank in London.

It seemed ridiculous to others but I remember working in a building we shared with the HQ of a regional bank as well as offices of a trading firm. There would always be a half dozen or so men in the men's room at any time of the day, so that porn didn't seem so unrealistic to me. Those guys were definitely like catnip for us suit and tie lovers.

Sex is dirty!

I know the guy you're talking about R46 and all his videos are fake.

R48 they were disappointing, I bought one and never bought another. He clearly had hired some if not all of them.

BUT, the real thing was even better. Rare to find but better!

btw rumor had it that there was somewhere in the Chicago Loop that had some sort of secret code near the Board of Trade, and guys would go there to service the traders, but I never personally experienced it and it seems like maybe it was more in the 70s/80s or so.

Used to cruise near Birmingham Airport, England at Stonebridge years ago. It's long gone and is now a spillover car park for the National Exhibition Centre.

You used to park in the layby, then walk into what was woods. Was always busy with some excellent trade.

South Mountain Reservation in Essex County NJ in the 1980s was divoooooon! All that blue-collar and jock cock and ass.

R34; I wonder if I know which campus building you’re talking about. Though I could’ve sworn it was on the third floor. Might that university be in the state of PA?

R52 It was a religious experience - in the Cathedral of Learning!

And you might be right, the really busy one may have been on 3, but there was also one on 2.

A few afternoons there were truly beautiful, bacchanalian events.

Yep. That’s the one, R53. Nothing else like it.

Every college and university has at least one cruising spot. Often it's in an out-of-the-way bathroom in a library, student union or other public space that has a lot of foot traffic.

R55 My little state school had a few. The busiest one was in the basement of the computer lab. I blew the technology department head. Still the biggest cock I've ever seen on a white man.

Every dune behind every beach in Spain.

I’ve only been to one sex club, and it was an underwhelming experience overall. It was back in 2013...I was around 30 and had recently gone though a breakup. I figured I’d go to Europe for Christmas and the New Year, and one night I worked up the courage to go to a sex club.

It was surreal. I walked in and there were people having drinks in the front, but once I started to descend the stairs there were guys hanging out, waiting to get fucked. My #1 fear was going home empty handed, but after 30 seconds a hot Austrian guy grabbed my hand and we went in a room to have sex. The sex was not even remotely hot...I was too drunk and he was quick to finish. I later found out he was from a small town and would come up to Vienna because the area he lived in was conservative.

Oh, and I ended up getting genital warts!

Summer of '94, I was between sophomore/junior years of college and working part-time at the Suncoast Motion Pictures store (remember those?) at Southdale Mall in Edina, Minn., and getting my cock sucked on the regular in a men's room in a different part of the mall.

People might remember that a lot of those old shopping malls would hide their bathrooms in weird, out-of-the-way places. This one was at the end of a long hallway, in a little-used lower level that was near a J.C. Penney entrance, a big bank of coin-operated storage lockers and not much else around. Plus it had those long stall doors and walls that reached all the way to the floor.

I was young and inexperienced and didn't even really know what cruising was until I got hit on at the urinal one night after I'd closed up the store, by a suburban dad type who swallowed my load. By the end of that summer I was a regular, mostly getting sucked off by older guys but also branching out to more adventurous stuff ;)

Yes I started like that. I genuinely went to pee in a toilet at the park one day. I'd be a naive 18 something and a guy walked in and looked at my dick.

That's when I realised what cottaging was.

That's how I started too. In the same JCP restroom I mentioned at R24.

I had no idea what was happening - had just gone in to pee, and was standing at the urinal with two stalls behind me. But I could hear unmistakable jacking off noises

Then the guy knelt down and showed me his cock under the stall. Big thick ginger dick. I touched it.

That time I ended up leaving, didn't know anything about how to hide or "regroup" if someone came in, but went back another time and that was that.

Cruising is for those far more outgoing than myself.

1. Basement men's room of Swift Hall (Divinity School), University of Chicago

2. Park behind Notre Dame cathedral, Paris

[quote] far more outgoing than myself.

Oh, dear!

Oh, Dear fits here in many ways R64.

Is cruising and cruising spots still things now that en entire gay generation has relied on apps to hookup?

R66 They still exist but yes, the number is certainly diminished.

But some guys, especially ones in the closet and in smaller rural areas, still rely on cruising sites. Being caught is risky, but may be thrilling to some in a way ordering cock for delivery like DoorDash isn't.

I've tried it all in my life---and I've never like the "risky" part of hooking up in cruising spots.

LBJ Memorial grove near DC, anyone remember that? was great at night, had some great fucks, once on a guys boat. All sorts there.

A friend used to cruise the bathrooms near the Wailing Wall in Jerusalem he said there were lots of Hasids there looking for action.

No...

I used to love the dunes at Jones Beach on Long Island in the 90s. Many sexy guys just in their swimsuits cursing for dick in the sand dunes. Lots of amazing oral.

[quote] cursing for dick

FUCK!! I need some goddamn dick!

Never tried that.

R72, you’ll know exactly what I mean:

52 and 49 were better.