After his defense of the COVID New Year's Eve Gays, which backfired on him hideously, therapist-to-the-days, Matthew Dempsey is BACK, with his hair higher than ever!
Has all been forgiven almost three months later?
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After his defense of the COVID New Year's Eve Gays, which backfired on him hideously, therapist-to-the-days, Matthew Dempsey is BACK, with his hair higher than ever!
Has all been forgiven almost three months later?
|by Anonymous||reply 413||Last Sunday at 3:59 PM|
Anyone have his Grindr pix?
|by Anonymous||reply 1||03/10/2021|
His message on that Instagram post is nauseating.
|by Anonymous||reply 2||03/10/2021|
"Therapist-to-the-gays" - Sorry!
|by Anonymous||reply 3||03/10/2021|
Yesterday was his true return:
|by Anonymous||reply 4||03/10/2021|
Trying to backtrack after defending the COVID Gays:
|by Anonymous||reply 5||03/10/2021|
He’s very handsome and then he opens his mouth
|by Anonymous||reply 6||03/10/2021|
A "Sosche Meed Breakie"?? So this dude's basically a 14 year old girl?
|by Anonymous||reply 7||03/10/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 8||03/10/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 9||03/10/2021|
Now we know what’s affecting climate change. Matt’s pompadour bouffant is killing the ozone layer.
|by Anonymous||reply 10||03/10/2021|
He needs to go home.
|by Anonymous||reply 11||03/10/2021|
He IS very handsome.
|by Anonymous||reply 12||03/10/2021|
I don't believe that when you judge others its a projection of your own shit. (at R4) Sometimes maybe but sheesh not always. He seems like a simpleton. So I guess that means I'm worried I am a simpleton? I'm not.
|by Anonymous||reply 13||03/10/2021|
Good lord! My 14-year old niece would would die before typing "sosche meed." She's more mature than this dweeb.
|by Anonymous||reply 14||03/10/2021|
Her narcissism is very off putting. Ugh.
|by Anonymous||reply 15||03/10/2021|
He’s morphing into a laughable caricature of himself.
|by Anonymous||reply 16||03/10/2021|
What a dumb bitch.
|by Anonymous||reply 17||03/10/2021|
Why are so many in the mental health field so unjustifiably enamoured by themselves?
I've come across this time and again, and their pretty well all train-wrecks once you really get to know them. I mean, more so than most other people I meet.
|by Anonymous||reply 18||03/10/2021|
I looked up "shallow" and "insincere" in both cases this guy's picture pops up
I used to have a pick-up line I would use on a guy like this, "Hi, you're hot. Don't talk, don't spoil it."
|by Anonymous||reply 19||03/10/2021|
His defense of the COVID Party Gays, which led to his hiding out for over two months:
|by Anonymous||reply 20||03/11/2021|
For a psych therapist, Matt’s an idiot.
|by Anonymous||reply 21||03/11/2021|
"Toxic Positivity: A Ramble
“Toxic Positivity” refers to the misuse of positive thinking to avoid emotional discomfort. It’s a tendency to be aware of because we want to allow positive thinking to marry and help manage our uncomfortable emotion while we still process through it, not avoid it.
That said, I hate the name “toxic positivity” because I think it confuses people to think you can be “too” positive and you can’t. Positivity in it’s most absolute form inherently accepts everything, experience AND feeling as good. So let’s frame shitty situations as an opportunity for growth and the emotional discomfort as the necessary feeling of getting stronger.
And if you’re overusing positive thinking to avoid feeling, then that’s not positivity at all. It’s emotional avoidance. "
|by Anonymous||reply 22||03/11/2021|
Is the caption on that post even in English?!
|by Anonymous||reply 23||03/11/2021|
Who's got the nudes?
|by Anonymous||reply 24||03/11/2021|
Just how much cum does that hairstyle require?
|by Anonymous||reply 25||03/11/2021|
He’s a bulimics best friend as he makes you want to vomit!
|by Anonymous||reply 26||03/11/2021|
Love that guy. Very entertaining.
|by Anonymous||reply 27||03/11/2021|
Sosche Meed Breakie?
|by Anonymous||reply 28||03/11/2021|
Matt: Your toxic masculinity is causing irreparable harm to your psyche making you lash out at me
Me: No, it's because you're a douchenozzle
|by Anonymous||reply 29||03/11/2021|
The higher his hair gets, the more it looks like his face has fallen down towards his chin.
|by Anonymous||reply 30||03/11/2021|
He's Charlie Kirk's long lost brother
|by Anonymous||reply 31||03/11/2021|
Thus dude tries to straddle the ethical and moral implications of his professional life — and the Peter Pan Syndrome of his social life.
Doctor, heal thy self.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||03/11/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 33||03/11/2021|
His ridiculous attempt to say that when people criticize is a reflection of their own insecurities is 100% a Trumpie deflection attempt.
Bitch, you were being dragged because you were supporting your stupid faggot friends who were endangering Mexicans because they wanted to go get fucked up on meth and have maskless orgies in a foreign country with zero accountability.
That’s not how it works, cunt. There are consequences for behavior. He should know that as a “psychologist.”
|by Anonymous||reply 34||03/11/2021|
Is it a Liza quote? I don't understand what this is supposed to mean.
|by Anonymous||reply 35||03/11/2021|
Would someone who does Instagram please respond to him for me. Just say....
OH DO SHUT UP!!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 36||03/11/2021|
Goddamnit. I clicked on the dumpsey thing and now Instagram thinks I'm interested in thirsty gays of a certain age. I am suing someone for Ms. Savage soiling my search page. I hate you for this. This grizzled jerky is on you, bitch.
|by Anonymous||reply 37||03/11/2021|
r24, I downloaded them when they were available. Don't know where they are online.
|by Anonymous||reply 38||03/11/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 39||03/11/2021|
a show about Black mental health?
"So, here's my Black friend..."
|by Anonymous||reply 40||03/11/2021|
What the actual fuck would this guy know about "Black mental health" and what makes him an authority to opine on it? It's clearly a cheap way to jump on the current Meghan buzz.
R35 - I admit it took me an absurd amount of time to figure it out, but "sosche meed breakie" is "social media break" in..... I don't even know what or how to define this vernacular.
|by Anonymous||reply 41||03/11/2021|
Everyone i know has deactivated. Who the f is still living their lives on social media? It’s done. Guys like this are a thing of the past.
|by Anonymous||reply 42||03/11/2021|
No and no, just so banal.... go away!
|by Anonymous||reply 43||03/11/2021|
[quote] Everyone i know has deactivated.
And yet here you are. Last guy standing.
|by Anonymous||reply 44||03/11/2021|
I like his hair actually.
But where are the sizemeat verificatia pics? We want deets on the peen.
|by Anonymous||reply 45||03/11/2021|
Saying people who criticize you for being shitty is merely a projection is just a fancy way of calling everyone who calls you out a hater.
It also defies the role of therapy, since it means anything but positive feedback is mere projection by the therapist and therefore, meaningless to the patient.
This dude is twisting himself into a pretzel trying to justify his own BS and maintain professional credibility at the same time.
|by Anonymous||reply 46||03/11/2021|
Based on his IG, I don’t think he even knows anyone who is black.
|by Anonymous||reply 47||03/11/2021|
I’m Matt’s only unattractive, non-white friend. You’ll never see me in pictures with rest of the WeHo squad since I don’t meet the color scheme or BMI requirements for a group photo. I’m so glad they let me be their pity friend.
|by Anonymous||reply 48||03/11/2021|
[quote] I don't even know ... how to define this vernacular.
|by Anonymous||reply 49||03/11/2021|
With fellow DL Fave, Alec Mapa!
|by Anonymous||reply 50||03/11/2021|
He doesn’t have professional credibility R46.
|by Anonymous||reply 51||03/11/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 52||03/11/2021|
Damn... r52 is supposed to be signed, “The Ghost of Bob Berenger.”
Tick tock. Dempsey is rapidly approaching his “oh shit, I really AM getting old, and it sucks!” date.
|by Anonymous||reply 53||03/11/2021|
Has she started 50 therapy yet?
|by Anonymous||reply 54||03/11/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 55||03/11/2021|
“Sadly, it appears the shift may have come a little too late for Bob Bergeron. From what we have learned, he was, at least in part, a victim of the dread of aging in a culture that values youth and beauty. His fixation on physical vitality -- and the potential loss of it -- clearly played a role in his emotional turmoil. Bergeron was quite open with his friends and patients about his struggle to move into a phase of life where his looks would -- and could -- not be a primary value.“
|by Anonymous||reply 56||03/11/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 57||03/17/2021|
I think he means well, but he comes across as very naricisstic. But who isn't nowadays.
|by Anonymous||reply 58||03/17/2021|
I would have a hard time seeing a therapist who had this kind of social media presence. Normal online activity is expected now, like pictures of their food or kids and trips to the beach or something. This almost seems bad mental healthcare, at least to me.
|by Anonymous||reply 59||03/17/2021|
He’s too old for that haircut.
|by Anonymous||reply 60||03/17/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 61||03/21/2021|
Where's his top lip?!
|by Anonymous||reply 62||03/21/2021|
He looks really hot at R61!
|by Anonymous||reply 63||03/21/2021|
I personally think a psychologist ought to keep a lower profile on social media. I’d expect a certain professionalism from them that excludes babbling away their most personal thoughts like a teen girl writing in her journal.
|by Anonymous||reply 64||03/21/2021|
That’s why he took a Sosche Meed Breakie. Now you can feel comfortable with him as your therapist.
|by Anonymous||reply 65||03/21/2021|
🔥 🔥 🔥
|by Anonymous||reply 66||03/25/2021|
[quote]Embrace calamity. All great changes are preceded by it.
Funny, every time I commune with dead from COVID or Hiroshima or what have you, they never say that.
|by Anonymous||reply 67||03/25/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 68||03/29/2021|
Trying to bareback on the COVID gays.
|by Anonymous||reply 69||03/29/2021|
Dempsey has the social media presence and style of a "popular" flight attendant.
|by Anonymous||reply 70||03/29/2021|
It's like he's trying to look as much like a bearded brunet version of Johnny Bravo as possible.
i just don;t find him attractive, even though I generally like muscleguys. He's just too fake.
|by Anonymous||reply 71||03/29/2021|
Every time one his haters posts a comment, he lays his hair higher and higher!
|by Anonymous||reply 72||03/29/2021|
The higher the hair, the closer to God!
|by Anonymous||reply 73||03/29/2021|
[quote]I don't even know ... how to define this vernacular.
It's not the vernacular she thinks she possesses
|by Anonymous||reply 74||03/29/2021|
Matthew needs a therapist.
|by Anonymous||reply 75||03/29/2021|
Re: stupid R68 photo:
Someone asked, “Do you ever take pictures of anything but yourself?”
|by Anonymous||reply 76||03/29/2021|
R74 she’s nothing like that!
|by Anonymous||reply 77||03/29/2021|
You're sosche meed hate just makes my hair grow more powerful, you meanies!
|by Anonymous||reply 78||03/29/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 79||03/29/2021|
But, but, I'm a cute media darling and people like me...
Enough about me, I'll let you talk about me now
|by Anonymous||reply 80||03/29/2021|
Sometimes, I lie awake all night, wondering whether Matthew Dempsey has hair erections instead of penile erections.
|by Anonymous||reply 81||03/29/2021|
"Oh, dear!" at myself...
|by Anonymous||reply 82||03/29/2021|
^ That's ok, YOUR picture was funny enough to get a "WW" from me
|by Anonymous||reply 83||03/30/2021|
[quote]"Sosche Meed Breakie!"
Does anything say "trust me, I'm a professional" like baby talk?
|by Anonymous||reply 84||03/30/2021|
My deceased friend Martin's comment on this one's follicle suicide would have been, 'HAIR TO JESUS!'
|by Anonymous||reply 85||03/30/2021|
Was Dolly his inspiration?
|by Anonymous||reply 86||03/30/2021|
Is he into hair fucking?
|by Anonymous||reply 87||03/30/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 88||04/02/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 89||04/15/2021|
I think he’d be a lot cuter if he got rid of the bouffant hair.
|by Anonymous||reply 90||04/16/2021|
^ Are you kidding? I want to seriously rub my dick in his hair... Oops, looks like 10 guys beat me to it
|by Anonymous||reply 91||04/16/2021|
He's SCENEY and QUEENY
|by Anonymous||reply 92||04/16/2021|
I wonder if he’s ever taken a photo that wasn’t a selfie
|by Anonymous||reply 93||04/16/2021|
I'm certain it's never occurred to him, r93!
|by Anonymous||reply 94||04/16/2021|
Is he friends/orgy mates with famous covid vaccine wasting baby nurse Tyler Spelane?
|by Anonymous||reply 95||04/16/2021|
Who would go to a psychologist who has his dick pics all over the internet? I fired my last doctor for that.
|by Anonymous||reply 96||04/16/2021|
where are his dick picx?
|by Anonymous||reply 97||04/16/2021|
All over the internet.
|by Anonymous||reply 98||04/16/2021|
I found them. He's cut (someone said he was uncut)
|by Anonymous||reply 99||04/16/2021|
No, he’s definitely cut.
|by Anonymous||reply 100||04/16/2021|
Can you post a link?
|by Anonymous||reply 101||04/17/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 102||04/17/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 103||04/17/2021|
Doesn't work at R103.
|by Anonymous||reply 104||04/17/2021|
it works when i click on it. or use the link above. just google his name and nude and it takes you to a LPSG page
|by Anonymous||reply 105||04/17/2021|
Got 'em, saved 'em.
|by Anonymous||reply 106||04/17/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 107||04/17/2021|
"Sosche Meed Break!"
|by Anonymous||reply 108||04/17/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 109||04/17/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 110||04/17/2021|
[quote]No hang ups about race/ethnicity/masc/fem. It's a rainbow of love.
|by Anonymous||reply 111||04/17/2021|
Those photos look as versatile as a spoon.
|by Anonymous||reply 112||04/17/2021|
I've just seen my therapist's anus. Which on some level was exactly what he wanted.
|by Anonymous||reply 113||04/17/2021|
I’m impressed with Matt’s nudes. Nice dick and I like the retro Speedo tan lines look. His hole is very clean and tidy looking. It would be a great place to play for a few minutes. Well done, doc.
|by Anonymous||reply 114||04/17/2021|
She's a jock?
|by Anonymous||reply 115||04/17/2021|
You know I'm actually just gonna block this thread. Looking at that smug cunt, spreading his damage, actually sickens me. He's not even fun to mock.
|by Anonymous||reply 116||04/17/2021|
R68, my bet is that this is the sensitive therapisr’s “prayer chair”
|by Anonymous||reply 117||04/17/2021|
I guess Matthew admits to being 39 in this Insta-story today.
What a cute guy he was 13 years ago. Still is, even hotter, except for the overdone hair.
|by Anonymous||reply 118||04/17/2021|
It's perfectly fine that not every gay is my kind of gay,
but MATTHEW DEMPSEY IS NOT MY KIND OF GAY.
|by Anonymous||reply 119||04/17/2021|
Nice girls don't present hole before the first date Matthew!
|by Anonymous||reply 120||04/17/2021|
I just can't shake the feeling he's nuttier than anybody he claims to treat.
|by Anonymous||reply 121||04/17/2021|
That doesn’t even look like him at R118. It’s like a whole different person.
Why does he write the word like? People say “like” as a verbal tick and it would be edited out when written down. Is he trying to sound vapid in print too?
Keep trusting your heart, it works like, really well.
And like, don’t forget your values you hold like dear to your heart.
Don’t get like bitter or like jaded with age.
These are the promises that I like made to myself.
|by Anonymous||reply 122||04/17/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 123||04/17/2021|
The guru types always are R121 Always.
|by Anonymous||reply 124||04/17/2021|
Anyone know how old this kaWEEN actually is? Not what he claims, but really...
|by Anonymous||reply 125||04/17/2021|
Why do I think of Sam Champion when I look at him?
|by Anonymous||reply 126||04/17/2021|
Matthew claims to be 39.
|by Anonymous||reply 127||04/17/2021|
So in gay years, he's 72.
|by Anonymous||reply 128||04/17/2021|
He's closer to 47.
|by Anonymous||reply 129||04/17/2021|
Ah yes, the old "criticism of my actions is actually a reflection of who *you* are" bullshit. Basically another way of saying "my shit doesn't stink, you must be smelling your *own* shit" 🙄
This asshole will never own up to what he said. Yeah, we get it, some of these gays actually did travel because they hit an emotional wall. They were also *wrong* to do it. Fuck, I hit plenty of emotional walls this past year, but I did not fly myself to a foreign country and risk other people's health. I stayed fucking put. This asshole doesn't want to admit the glaring flaws that were exposed during this debacle: a lot of gay men are very selfish and callous. He's just a bullshit apologist for them and speaks their language.
|by Anonymous||reply 130||04/17/2021|
^ well said
|by Anonymous||reply 131||04/17/2021|
[quote]a lot of gay men are very selfish and callous. He's just a bullshit apologist for them and speaks their language.
That’s because he IS one of them. He has pictures of himself with a bunch of friends maskless in Puerto Vallarta this past November.
|by Anonymous||reply 132||04/17/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 133||04/18/2021|
Gurls just wanna have Fun - Eldergay-adjacent version
|by Anonymous||reply 134||04/18/2021|
Jesse is SO hot!!!!!!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 135||04/18/2021|
Still trying to figure out why someone would post a clinical photo of their anus online. Who wants to see a close-up of a pooter? Or is that a coin slot?
|by Anonymous||reply 136||04/18/2021|
[quote]Who wants to see a close-up of a pooter?
New in town, r136?
|by Anonymous||reply 137||04/18/2021|
His hole needs bleaching it’s very brown. I’d say Pecan Sandie
|by Anonymous||reply 138||04/18/2021|
Excuse me? I think I started that hair pouf first
|by Anonymous||reply 139||04/18/2021|
It's a Grindr pic, R136.
|by Anonymous||reply 140||04/18/2021|
Still, seriously, to what extent is a close up of your anus - I don't even know how to describe all the kinds of bizarre and disordered the come with taking a pic of your anus and then sharing it. It's just... it's there no matter what. It's like taking a picture of the stop sign near your house. Only the stop sign pic is somehow less weird.
|by Anonymous||reply 141||04/18/2021|
Yes—it’s like sharing a close-up photo of your elbow. There’s nothing unique or erotic about a butt pucker. Why include that in a profile?
|by Anonymous||reply 142||04/18/2021|
He seems like just a terrible human being in general.
|by Anonymous||reply 143||04/18/2021|
He's fucking HOT!!!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 144||04/18/2021|
From his evident neuroses to the hours it takes to be hole presenting ready, he is a dime an ugly, vacuous dozen.
|by Anonymous||reply 145||04/18/2021|
He’s handsome and has a nice body, but personally he’s a walking cliche of toxic gay culture. It’s a pretty tree for something that only bears only rotten fruit.
|by Anonymous||reply 146||04/18/2021|
“For this demographic — of which I very much belong — it's likely true that for many of us, the only real battles we've had to fight were the ones taking place in our own minds. We were born into complicated and traumatic closets but now live extraordinarily advantaged lives with seemingly endless options. But with fulfilled dreams comes emotional responsibility, and none of us seem to be owning up to our own damage. Instead, we've become obsessed with what people think of our appearance and status (Instagram sure hasn't helped with that) at the expense of really looking at ourselves and a culture we have helped create that is rife with racism, transphobia, classism, ageism, ableism, fat-shaming and just plain meanness.“
|by Anonymous||reply 147||04/18/2021|
“Variable ratio reinforcement is one of the most effective ways to reinforce behavior, and it makes stopping that behavior extremely difficult. Slot machines are a classic example. Because gamblers never know when the next payout will come, they can’t stop pulling the handle. They hold out hope that the next pull will give them the pleasurable sound of coins clanking against a metal bin, and they end up pulling for hours.
Now imagine a slot machine that rewards you with an orgasm at unpredictable intervals. This is potentially a powerful recipe for addiction and may explain why one user I spoke with stays on Grindr for up to 10 hours at a time, hoping to find the perfect partner for casual sex.”
|by Anonymous||reply 148||04/18/2021|
He's cute too! I wouldn't swipe past him.
|by Anonymous||reply 149||04/18/2021|
Grindr and the apps that came afterward have fucked everything up.
|by Anonymous||reply 150||04/18/2021|
Did they fuck it up or did they just amplify the existing fuckedupedness?
|by Anonymous||reply 151||04/18/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 152||04/18/2021|
Grindr isn’t cock-sucking, it’s soul-sucking. I hate it.
|by Anonymous||reply 153||04/18/2021|
Grindr is like a slot machine married to a gloryhole.
|by Anonymous||reply 154||04/18/2021|
No way is this guy still in his 30s.
|by Anonymous||reply 155||04/18/2021|
He looks so old.
|by Anonymous||reply 156||04/18/2021|
Is it the gray hair? If he dyed it black would he look much younger?
|by Anonymous||reply 157||04/18/2021|
Do you really think he’s ever slept with a man with a higher body fat percentage than his own?
|by Anonymous||reply 158||04/18/2021|
DL is so mean to poor Matthew!
He's an A-Gay!
|by Anonymous||reply 159||04/18/2021|
Does a thread like this make Andy Cohen happy or jealous?
BTW, hey, Andy!
|by Anonymous||reply 160||04/18/2021|
What does Andy Cohen have anything to do with this?
|by Anonymous||reply 161||04/18/2021|
I do think he means well. Some of the comments are very harsh and personal. I have a bit of a distaste for sceney gays though and he is very much a product of that, which is...kinda sad.
|by Anonymous||reply 162||04/18/2021|
His leaked profile is from Scruff, which, for what it's worth, professes to be less mean than Grindr. That said, I think his "I wuv all kinds of guys!" statement is probably just him covering his ass (so to speak).
|by Anonymous||reply 163||04/18/2021|
He seems exhausting but since he has minimal body fat, a thick dick and a tight hole the gays will continue to welcome his vapidness with open legs and mouths.
That said, I'd let him fuck me.
|by Anonymous||reply 164||04/18/2021|
So are hole pictures on gay dating apps proof one doesn’t have a hot dog in a hallway hole? 🌭
|by Anonymous||reply 165||04/18/2021|
[quote]What does Andy Cohen have anything to do with this?
Only that (fairly) dude is getting Andy Cohen level scorn heaped on him. Though he does seem sort of an Andy Cohen kind of gay.
|by Anonymous||reply 166||04/18/2021|
Not even Andy Cohen is douchey enough to type something like "Sosche Meed Breakie" for public consumption.
|by Anonymous||reply 167||04/18/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 168||04/18/2021|
I'm still chuckling... that asshole wouldn't give me the time if day if we met and yet I've still seen his asshole. I lived and loathed from both sides now.
|by Anonymous||reply 169||04/18/2021|
It seems a bit surreal that someone in a professional capacity would post something like a booty hole shot anywhere online. .I’d say the same of celebrities but we know many are dumb as dirt. Has the pandemic changed “norms” about posting nude photos online or is this just bad judgment?
|by Anonymous||reply 170||04/18/2021|
[quote]It seems a bit surreal that someone in a professional capacity would post something like a booty hole shot anywhere online.
Much less someone in one of the so-called helping professions. Iyanla, fix my life, but please don't show me your asshole.
|by Anonymous||reply 171||04/18/2021|
He’s barely a professional.
|by Anonymous||reply 172||04/18/2021|
Honestly this is so bizarre. I think the whole world needs a break from the internet. Taking a close up picture of your own anus uploading it to the internet is abnormal behavior. It makes me wonder what people will be sharing online in twenty years. Photos from colonoscopies?
|by Anonymous||reply 173||04/18/2021|
I seriously doubt that his online presence would fulfill the criteria set by my country's/state's Psychotherapist Association's professional code of conduct.
Part of a psychotherapist's work is keeping a professional distance to patients/clients. Sharing personal information on social media this much doesn't seem conductive to building the necessary professional distance. And I honestly ask myself what the hell he is thinking... does he think that his clients don't perceive his social media activities? All those videos and instagram posts where he presents himself in a manner more befitting a friend than a professional therapist?
|by Anonymous||reply 174||04/18/2021|
r174 I have no idea what the professional norms are now in 2021, but clearly he don't give a fuck. He is probably trying to transition into some sort of therapist career that is based in social media. Or landing himself the occasional spot on TV as a mental health contributor for a talk show or something lightweight like that.
|by Anonymous||reply 175||04/18/2021|
So, I guess I'm the only one who likes looking at a man's taint and asshole. Maybe it's because I enjoy rimming.
|by Anonymous||reply 176||04/18/2021|
Do you think he perceives criticism of this behavior as homophobia?
|by Anonymous||reply 177||04/18/2021|
It just seems questionable for someone who markets themselves professionally as a gay therapist to do so. I don’t know, I may be biased, but it detracts from someone’s credibility if I can find an identifiable photo of their chocolate starfish online.
|by Anonymous||reply 178||04/18/2021|
I'm embarrassed to admit I thought, the way it was capitalized, that Sosche Meed was an Orthodox Jewish holiday.
"Sorry, won't be checking e-mail after Friday sundown, it's Sosche Meed this weekend. Join us Monday morning for Breakie?"
|by Anonymous||reply 179||04/18/2021|
[quote]it detracts from someone’s credibility if I can find an identifiable photo of their chocolate starfish online.
That's the thing though, most people don't go searching for nudes of their doctors, most of us recoil at the thought. Its only because he is attractive that a gay man would go looking for such things. And we really only discuss him here because of how he looks, otherwise we wouldn't even know him or care.
|by Anonymous||reply 180||04/18/2021|
I doubt he’s even professionally licensed. He’s some sort of internet pseudo-“therapist”.
|by Anonymous||reply 181||04/19/2021|
His website says he is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor.
It is dominated by a picture of himself. A really big picture of himself. Which is just what you're looking for in a counsellor, obviously. Because nothing says all about you like a picture of the counsellor.
|by Anonymous||reply 182||04/19/2021|
Everyone in weho knows he's a big ol' bottom kween
|by Anonymous||reply 183||04/19/2021|
I don’t know why anyone would go to him for counseling. Everything would be about him.
|by Anonymous||reply 184||04/19/2021|
I wonder if he would know how to provide counsel to a great big fat gay person. I don't think that's in his wheelhouse.
|by Anonymous||reply 185||04/19/2021|
Did he get a certificate in counseling like Dr. Laura did? They both certainly showing off their pussies.
|by Anonymous||reply 186||04/19/2021|
R186 - his degree is a Masters of Education in Psychological Counseling at Teachers College, Columbia University.
He's not even a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I don't know if that master's degree from a college of education actually allows him to practice any type of real therapy counseling. Sounds to me like something your school guidance counselor would have.
Teachers College at Columbia has some great programs - but other programs are not impressive and not difficult to get accepted into.
|by Anonymous||reply 187||04/19/2021|
Me, me, everyone on DL is talking about ME
|by Anonymous||reply 188||04/19/2021|
How much of his hair is a wig, and how much real?
|by Anonymous||reply 189||04/19/2021|
It's always the ones that try so hard to sound deep and insightful that turn out to be neither.
|by Anonymous||reply 190||04/19/2021|
R189, no wig but a LOT on hair product to get that volume and lift. My mother always favored AquaNet and a ratting comb to get hers that high. I’m Keeping my fingers crossed that he experiences male pattern baldness in the not so distant future.
|by Anonymous||reply 191||04/19/2021|
^ I found one of his baby pictures online...
|by Anonymous||reply 192||04/19/2021|
Isn’t it technically a pompadour?
|by Anonymous||reply 193||04/19/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 194||04/19/2021|
Read this bilge! Or WATCH it!!!
[quote]A Literal Good Bye
[quote]“Your home should be your sanctuary,” was something an old therapist told me once. No matter what space I’ve lived in and called home, I made sure it was just that. But I first learned what “home” meant because of my family house in Clark, NJ that we’ve had since I was born. The forts, slumber parties, home movies, sister doing my makeup and Lee Press On Nails™️, brother kicking me off dial up AOL one moment but teaching me about sex the next, mom waving her fist at me when I interrupted her *long distance calls*, all of us sleeping in her room in the summer because she had the only AC, my coming out and surprising literally no one, our growing family, all the holidays, birthdays, and the every day, small moments of loving, growing, and doing it all together. We told our family’s story here for 4 decades and now it’s time for a new family to tell theirs. It’s through some tears and a lot of love that I say thank you, childhood home, for being my literal foundation and home base. I’m gonna miss you. ♥️🏡✨
|by Anonymous||reply 195||04/20/2021|
^ only read it, didn’t watch the video...but Isn’t that quite heartfelt and sweet though?
|by Anonymous||reply 196||04/21/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 197||04/21/2021|
So no social distancing or masks. At least he’s friends with ugly people, and a woman.
|by Anonymous||reply 198||04/21/2021|
LOL... the only one he's actually touching is the hottest of the lot.
|by Anonymous||reply 199||04/22/2021|
Potential ‘Tasteful Friends’ fodder
|by Anonymous||reply 200||04/23/2021|
Those plant things around the mirror!
The corner LAMP!!!!!
The cheap window and BLINDS!!!!!!!!
The 1987 carpet is from when Rose moved in with those stewardesses in THE GOLDEN GIRLS!
|by Anonymous||reply 201||04/23/2021|
His lips are pursed like that picture of his asshole the world has seen.
|by Anonymous||reply 202||04/23/2021|
Unsurprisingly he’s decorated his living room with a huge mirror
|by Anonymous||reply 203||04/23/2021|
Why does he keep popping up here?
He should be DIAGF.
|by Anonymous||reply 204||04/23/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 205||04/23/2021|
Real life struggles!!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 206||04/23/2021|
Why is he using the funhouse warp effect on his face at R200?
And he is doing telehealth virtual therapy on cam. Has anyone booked a Zoom appointment yet?
|by Anonymous||reply 207||04/23/2021|
[quote]The 1987 carpet is from when Rose moved in with those stewardesses in THE GOLDEN GIRLS!
I wasn't a stewardess; that was the other gal who lived here (I forgot her name!). I only lived near the beach because it was close to work. I actually hate the beach.
|by Anonymous||reply 208||04/23/2021|
Well, it certainly takes courage to come out and be him.
Or maybe it just takes shallow and stupid.
|by Anonymous||reply 209||04/23/2021|
Steph, nobody wanted to be your Beach Friend anyway.
|by Anonymous||reply 210||04/23/2021|
I told you Rose, we are just ROOMMATES, not friends!!!
Go sexually harass the doorman and leave me alone, bitch.
|by Anonymous||reply 211||04/23/2021|
Such a odd coincidence how all his friends are white and equally or more attractive? How does that always happen? Is there a force field around him that makes him invisible to people of color, the unattractive, the overweight, old people, etc ?
|by Anonymous||reply 212||04/23/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 213||04/23/2021|
Some ‘color’, as in ‘tanned’
|by Anonymous||reply 214||04/23/2021|
Posting pics from Puerto Vallarta from 2020 at the height of the pandemic? Does he want to get canceled?
|by Anonymous||reply 215||04/24/2021|
Didn't he earn a shit storm for exactly that, R215, and had to post a big "mea culpa (but I didn't do anything wrong)?"
I seem to remember something like that. Maybe I mix up my social media whores, however...
|by Anonymous||reply 216||04/24/2021|
I love hanging out with my beautiful friends, looking hot, paying attention to it and doing everything we can not to get laid.
|by Anonymous||reply 217||04/24/2021|
He is living best life ever!
|by Anonymous||reply 218||04/24/2021|
R197 of course he's holding on to the hot guy - the hot guy has got a thick dick
|by Anonymous||reply 219||04/24/2021|
I don't get the snark.
It's almost as if DL has a jealousy thing for attractive, successful people (which for DL would be most of the rest of the world).
|by Anonymous||reply 220||04/24/2021|
R215: well, the pic is labeled
namely, Throwback Thursday, so presumably it happened sometime pre-Covid. Jesse seems like a pretty level-headed guy, so I don’t think he’s that stupid not to know the ramifications.
|by Anonymous||reply 221||04/25/2021|
Jesse was identified as one of the New Year's Eve COVID-Gays.
That's why Matthew was defending the COVID-Gays, for which he was shredded, and finally had to backtrack and apologize.
|by Anonymous||reply 222||04/25/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 223||04/25/2021|
R222: oops I didn’t know that; I honestly thought he’d have known better
|by Anonymous||reply 224||04/25/2021|
Those permatan gays look frightfully vapid.
|by Anonymous||reply 225||04/25/2021|
The Caucasity of it all
|by Anonymous||reply 226||04/25/2021|
How is he anyone's fave but his own?
|by Anonymous||reply 227||04/25/2021|
TBT —code for traveled to Mexico during the COVID quarantine/pandemic. No masks in sight. If they post exactly when they went to Mexico last year they get excoriated.
Too bad for you, Mexicans, we’re A gays!
|by Anonymous||reply 228||04/25/2021|
If he just hosts the mayo orgy at home in front of the mirror instead of schlepping the bacchanal to Mexico it would be much more efficient use of time and money
|by Anonymous||reply 229||04/25/2021|
That’s his work space—having an orgy at home would compromise his ethics as a professional.
|by Anonymous||reply 230||04/25/2021|
[quote] namely, Throwback Thursday, so presumably it happened sometime pre-Covid. Jesse seems like a pretty level-headed guy, so I don’t think he’s that stupid not to know the ramifications.
He was throwing back to November 2020 when he and Matthew and their whole crew flew to Mexico during the height of the pandemic to flaunt no masks and no social distancing. They are not level-headed.
|by Anonymous||reply 231||04/25/2021|
I cannot fathom paying this guy money as a therapist.
|by Anonymous||reply 232||04/25/2021|
What do you think his monthly chest waxing budget is?
|by Anonymous||reply 233||04/25/2021|
HOT new pic!!!
Matthew looks gorgeous here!
Look at that tight BODY!
|by Anonymous||reply 234||04/27/2021|
Sorry, but she’s too old for that hairstyle.
|by Anonymous||reply 235||04/27/2021|
We should crowd source the money for a course of therapy and send somebody in.
|by Anonymous||reply 236||04/27/2021|
You bitches would CRUCIFY Mother Teresa!
|by Anonymous||reply 237||04/27/2021|
He's a therapist. He seems very vapid and self involved, and not very bright.
|by Anonymous||reply 238||04/27/2021|
^ He's a therapist?
|by Anonymous||reply 239||04/27/2021|
R234 is definitely not Matthew
|by Anonymous||reply 240||04/27/2021|
he honestly does look like a less inbred charlie kirk who used one tub of pomade wax at a time.
she's certainly not as intelligent or deep as she pretends to be.
|by Anonymous||reply 241||04/27/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 242||04/29/2021|
He's got that same "nose job" nose that everyone else has. It's very boring to look at.
|by Anonymous||reply 243||04/29/2021|
Anyone who would take mental health advice from such an obviously fucked-up creature (and also an obvious grifter) probably needs involuntary commitment rather than therapy.
|by Anonymous||reply 244||04/29/2021|
Throwback: Kiss Kiss
|by Anonymous||reply 245||04/29/2021|
Another throwback to 2020 at the height of the pandemic? Why is he doing this?
|by Anonymous||reply 246||04/29/2021|
Is he an actual psychiatrist or a "life coach"?
|by Anonymous||reply 247||04/29/2021|
He markets his services primarily to the gays. But probably only the hot ones :p
|by Anonymous||reply 248||04/29/2021|
[quote]Is he an actual psychiatrist
No. He’s a glorified guidance counselor.
|by Anonymous||reply 249||04/29/2021|
R249 that's generous. I would have said he's a glorified social media whore.
|by Anonymous||reply 250||04/29/2021|
There but for the grace of God goes Bob Bergeron.
I bet they meet the same fate.
|by Anonymous||reply 251||04/29/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 252||04/29/2021|
R245 can we get that guy to comment? I'd like a verified in person opinion
|by Anonymous||reply 253||04/29/2021|
How do we know he had a nose job?
|by Anonymous||reply 254||04/29/2021|
If he took a soche meedie break for being dragged for defending (and later identified as) a Gay Over COVID last year, is he just trolling, or are no fucks given at this point?
|by Anonymous||reply 255||04/29/2021|
He's back on the grift and desperate for attention to validate himself R255.
|by Anonymous||reply 256||04/29/2021|
He’s my teacher and my friend.
|by Anonymous||reply 257||04/29/2021|
Sounds like you're brain dead R257.
|by Anonymous||reply 258||04/29/2021|
I wish he would sit for an interview for DL.
|by Anonymous||reply 259||04/29/2021|
I wonder if he got that badly needed anal bleaching yet?
|by Anonymous||reply 260||04/29/2021|
Fresh and clean
|by Anonymous||reply 261||04/29/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 262||04/29/2021|
WtF? Why would he need to get anal beaching? He’s the rapist, for God’s sake!
|by Anonymous||reply 263||04/29/2021|
Let's go to the tape!
|by Anonymous||reply 264||04/30/2021|
I would lie on his couch
|by Anonymous||reply 265||04/30/2021|
But would he allow you the honour?
|by Anonymous||reply 266||04/30/2021|
r265 must have pretty privilege.
|by Anonymous||reply 267||04/30/2021|
[quote]I would lie on his couch
Telling Matt lies isn't going to help your therapy. Then again it probably doesn't matter what you tell him, he's probably not listening.
|by Anonymous||reply 268||04/30/2021|
Quite likely, R268. I'm sure he has his rooms set up with that in mind (i.e. patient looking away so he can scroll Grindr to his heart's content).
|by Anonymous||reply 269||04/30/2021|
I wonder if he demands a clear recent face photo, body pic and current measurements before taking you on as a patient.
|by Anonymous||reply 270||04/30/2021|
Who's going to post this thread on his IG?
|by Anonymous||reply 271||04/30/2021|
He'd probably counsel a female... for the right price.
|by Anonymous||reply 272||04/30/2021|
[quote]He’s the rapist, for God’s sake!
Lock him up!
|by Anonymous||reply 273||04/30/2021|
I feel bad for HIS therapist. God you couldn't pay me to listen to him talk about his struggles with high self esteem due to being pretty
|by Anonymous||reply 274||04/30/2021|
It’s weird though, because according to his videos, he struggle(d) with low self esteem. Is that true?
|by Anonymous||reply 275||04/30/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 276||05/14/2021|
And the reality...
|by Anonymous||reply 277||05/14/2021|
I have had a garbage day, but I feel better now after laughing AT him. Thank you r276 & r277.
|by Anonymous||reply 278||05/14/2021|
In the photo he is sad because the workman he hired to cut that gloryhole to the right of him cut it way to low. I wonder why it was left out of the sketch?
|by Anonymous||reply 279||05/15/2021|
It looks like he’s waiting dejectedly for a penis to appear through that hole.
|by Anonymous||reply 280||05/15/2021|
^ which is the story of all our lives.
|by Anonymous||reply 281||05/15/2021|
I'm so glad he came back from his "soche meed breakie" to post about his "feelies" about his pride anklet and this fan art he was sent.
For someone who tries to telegraph introspection and intelligence he has the vocabulary of a 13 year old girl.
|by Anonymous||reply 282||05/15/2021|
Where has Matthew been? NOT on social media!
Another "Sosche Meed Breakie" already?
Here he is one year ago, to commemorate his current absence from Pride celebrations.
|by Anonymous||reply 283||06/05/2021|
Onlyfans next once he has bleached his hole?
|by Anonymous||reply 284||06/05/2021|
Mayo gays need pride representation, too!
|by Anonymous||reply 285||06/05/2021|
That haggard, saggy art at R276 will be a high def jpeg in about five years.
|by Anonymous||reply 286||06/05/2021|
Does Lizcha do hisch sosche meed account?
|by Anonymous||reply 287||06/05/2021|
Say what you want, he's cute. And you bitches are SO jealous! :)
|by Anonymous||reply 288||06/05/2021|
I've ALWAYS said Matthew is hot.
I just think he's kinda crazy, too.
|by Anonymous||reply 289||06/05/2021|
He's cute and needs to be gangbanged, but acts like a teenage girl. Who gave him his license to be a counselor? Did his degree come from University of Phoenix?
|by Anonymous||reply 290||06/05/2021|
Matthew is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) who graduated with both a Masters of Arts and a Masters of Education in Psychological Counseling from Teachers College, Columbia University.
|by Anonymous||reply 291||06/05/2021|
r289 crazy how?
|by Anonymous||reply 292||06/05/2021|
I'm sorry, Matthew Dempsey at R291 / R292 .
I meant needy, not crazy.
|by Anonymous||reply 293||06/05/2021|
R293 that seems to track better to me
|by Anonymous||reply 294||06/05/2021|
Maybe he’s in Mexico again like last fall.
|by Anonymous||reply 295||06/05/2021|
If he really did get it from Columbia, and I doubt it, they need to rescind it immediately. I would ashamed of it.
Was that you Matthew, I mean r291?
|by Anonymous||reply 296||06/05/2021|
If I had to describe him in one word, it would be SQUEE!
|by Anonymous||reply 297||06/05/2021|
Is he Top/bottom?
|by Anonymous||reply 298||06/05/2021|
I dunno didn’t he have a brown eye photo on his profile? I’d say he’s versatile if I had to guess.
|by Anonymous||reply 299||06/05/2021|
Was it bleached? Or is he still starring in How Brown Is My Valley?
|by Anonymous||reply 300||06/05/2021|
I found his Scruff pics. He says "versatle"
|by Anonymous||reply 301||06/05/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 302||06/05/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 303||06/05/2021|
Versatile! Condoms! PrEP!
|by Anonymous||reply 304||06/05/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 305||06/05/2021|
WHY doesn't Matthew have a boyfriend?
|by Anonymous||reply 306||06/05/2021|
Cock 'n' Balls!
|by Anonymous||reply 307||06/05/2021|
[quote] For someone who tries to telegraph introspection and intelligence he has the vocabulary of a 13 year old girl.
I must object. I teach 13-17 year old girls, and almost none of them sound that vapid.
|by Anonymous||reply 308||06/05/2021|
Well well Miss Mathew is all out there on the web.
|by Anonymous||reply 309||06/05/2021|
R237, have a read up on what the real Mother Teresa was like and you'll soon see that crucifixion was too good for her.
|by Anonymous||reply 310||06/05/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 311||06/05/2021|
I have no ideal who this person is, but after reading about three replies I know enough to fucking hate him.
|by Anonymous||reply 312||06/05/2021|
If I could, I would go take a big dump on Mother Teresa's grave. That bitch wasn't playing.
|by Anonymous||reply 313||06/05/2021|
Albanians are are all sociopaths.
|by Anonymous||reply 314||06/05/2021|
That level of coiffed suggests to me someone who values the wrong things too much or is, at heart, massively insecure.
Neither seem to me helpful qualities in a therapist.
|by Anonymous||reply 315||06/06/2021|
Do y'all think the was really Matthew posting here?
Have our comments been what's stopped him from Instagramming every day like he used to?
|by Anonymous||reply 316||06/06/2021|
If it was him, why should it deter him? He's surely self confident enough to arm chair flame throwing like this.
|by Anonymous||reply 317||06/06/2021|
That's the point: he's very insecure.
He worships OPRAH, of all people. He's a Frau.
|by Anonymous||reply 318||06/06/2021|
He worships Oprah? OK, that explains perfectly why he did that show on 'black mental health', just days after Meghan's interview with her.
Does he even have black friends in his friends' or social circle?
|by Anonymous||reply 319||06/06/2021|
R319 I’m sure he has a pride post waiting in the wings featuring some darker skinned non white acquaintance for just that purpose
|by Anonymous||reply 320||06/06/2021|
Matthew's website for all of your gay therapy needs.
|by Anonymous||reply 321||06/06/2021|
The question is - has he topped Kyle Krieger or Tyler Oakley?
I feel like while Matthew talks about "no hangups about race/masc/fem" and "it's a rainbow of love" he only plays with muscly white influencers who's IG has the verified blue check mark.
|by Anonymous||reply 322||06/06/2021|
He hasn't done a new video for his YouTube channel in a year.
QUEER CANCEL CULTURE!
|by Anonymous||reply 323||06/06/2021|
No new Tweets since November 26, 2020.
|by Anonymous||reply 324||06/06/2021|
If he's not being validated from his social media postings, then what is he really doing with his life?
I can't imagine his "practice" is full of patients....
|by Anonymous||reply 325||06/06/2021|
I would really like for someone who's had him to weigh in on this thread.
|by Anonymous||reply 326||06/06/2021|
As a trans Asian and former Caucasian, I mourn the loss of being able to be his friend or in a selfie with him.
|by Anonymous||reply 327||06/06/2021|
I wonder if he ever tops. He does have a nice cock even though I usually prefer foreskin
|by Anonymous||reply 328||06/06/2021|
I rarely eat ass because I don't generally like the aesthetics, but I would munch that.
|by Anonymous||reply 329||06/06/2021|
It’s a very expressive hole!
|by Anonymous||reply 330||06/06/2021|
It should be, R330 --- it has a masters in psych and can articulate it's feelings.
|by Anonymous||reply 331||06/06/2021|
R331 - yes, that hole has been to therapy
|by Anonymous||reply 332||06/06/2021|
"...us queer people..."
|by Anonymous||reply 333||06/06/2021|
Can we sign a petition for his permie sosche meadie breakie? Then burn that shirt at #323?
|by Anonymous||reply 334||06/06/2021|
The racist at R334 posted this today:
[quote]Despite All The Focus On and Adoration of Black People... When they're not denigrating whiteness they're canonizing thugs (Jawj Flawd).
|by Anonymous||reply 335||06/07/2021|
I want more episodes of his YouTube series, "Me, A Sandwich and Some Mediocre Gay Person I'd Never Talk To In Front of My Friends".
|by Anonymous||reply 336||06/07/2021|
This is it--I just gave it a more accurate name
|by Anonymous||reply 337||06/07/2021|
[quote]For the cost of two sandwiches, I sit down picnic style and offer up my brand of queer psychotherapeutic guidance to those struggling within the LGBTQ community and beyond. Coming out, religion, dating, jealousy, sex, and body image are just some of the issues we tackle with raw vulnerability and a glimmer of hope for anyone who can relate.
Yes, "queer psychotherapeutic guidance."
|by Anonymous||reply 338||06/07/2021|
#335 has posted on this particular thread over 60 times. He's either Matthew, or deeply disturbed (or both).
|by Anonymous||reply 339||06/07/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 340||06/07/2021|
Do any of the Los Angeles DLers know who he's actually dated? I'm interested to know what his type is.
|by Anonymous||reply 341||06/07/2021|
I’m a fat gay guy with intimacy issues and a tendency towards depression. Is Dr Dempsey the correct doc for me?
|by Anonymous||reply 342||06/07/2021|
No, you get a referral no a non-pretty privilege therapist.
|by Anonymous||reply 343||06/07/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 344||06/07/2021|
Matthew used to date Kyle Krieger. Why is that not surprising in the least?
|by Anonymous||reply 345||06/07/2021|
Columbia University (Teachers College, mind) ought to rescind MJD’s graduate degrees for offenses against good diction.
|by Anonymous||reply 346||06/07/2021|
This gay bus driver could use Matthew's ministrations.
|by Anonymous||reply 347||06/08/2021|
Or should he visit "Dr." Jake?
|by Anonymous||reply 348||06/08/2021|
There's a lot of needy there.
|by Anonymous||reply 349||06/08/2021|
R349 there's a video for that!
|by Anonymous||reply 350||06/08/2021|
Kyle Krieger looks Asian —or is that Botox?
|by Anonymous||reply 351||06/08/2021|
Whatever it is, it’s unfortunate.
|by Anonymous||reply 352||06/08/2021|
Now I see why they broke up--only one queen to a castle
How do you listen to someone with this kind of speech pattern for longer than 5 min without wanting to off yourself?
|by Anonymous||reply 353||06/08/2021|
Matthew's too good-looking to ever be dumped.
|by Anonymous||reply 354||06/09/2021|
<- resting bitch face
|by Anonymous||reply 355||06/09/2021|
R345 Miss Dempsey makes a joke in that video about sticking in "just three fingers" and Kyle laughs a little TOO hard at that joke.
I guess that explains why Matthew has a tight coin slot, huh?
|by Anonymous||reply 356||06/09/2021|
His gaze and smile scream PAY ATTENTION TO ME!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 357||06/09/2021|
His brown eye winked at me!
|by Anonymous||reply 358||06/09/2021|
R354, I’m sure he’s been cum dumped before.
|by Anonymous||reply 359||06/09/2021|
R359 haven’t we all, sweetie.
|by Anonymous||reply 360||06/09/2021|
From six years ago: Gay Men and Bottom Shaming.
Wow, Matthew was SO hot!!!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 361||06/12/2021|
[quote] Took a lil sosche meed breakie and happy to see you’s. Heart’s recharged ...
|by Anonymous||reply 362||06/12/2021|
Is his hair “store bought”... looks like my hair dresser’s wig.
|by Anonymous||reply 363||06/12/2021|
I can't stand this guy, but I have an intense desire to fuck him. What is wrong with me?
|by Anonymous||reply 364||06/13/2021|
[quote]"I’m starting to feel it. Grateful for all the warriors of love out there."
Warriors of love? (snort). Who said it?
Matthew Dempsey, or Tommy DiDario?
|by Anonymous||reply 365||06/13/2021|
Feels like he has committed every issue of O Magazine to memory
|by Anonymous||reply 366||06/13/2021|
Kyle Krieger is actually a sweet, harmless guy. I used to know him a bit and he was not a perp, or self-impressed and was super friendly to all. Still, that voice. I would send him to a vocal coach and pay for it myself!
|by Anonymous||reply 367||06/13/2021|
That’s cool—his scene queen dialect is awful, though. I wouldn’t be able to listen to him speak unless I had to. How/why do some gay guys start talking like that?
|by Anonymous||reply 368||06/13/2021|
[quote]How/why do some gay guys start talking like that?
They were "assigned gay at birth"!
|by Anonymous||reply 369||06/13/2021|
Hold me, Jiffy Pop
|by Anonymous||reply 370||06/13/2021|
In 5 years, he'll become a caricature of himself. He's heading there already.
|by Anonymous||reply 371||06/13/2021|
Lmao, this guy looks like a cheap Wish parody of a masc man. Like, if you close your eyes and don't look at his head and you put cotton in your ears, you might just achieve the illusion that you're with a man and not a screaming, inbred queen.
|by Anonymous||reply 372||06/13/2021|
I live in LA and ALMOST want to sign up for a therapy session with him just to see what he's like in person.
|by Anonymous||reply 373||06/14/2021|
Fuck him and report back, r373! Enquiring minds need to know!
|by Anonymous||reply 374||06/14/2021|
Did he get his Covid vaccinachie?
|by Anonymous||reply 375||06/14/2021|
I'm sure he was upset he didn't think up the term "Fauchi ouchie" first, R375.
|by Anonymous||reply 376||06/14/2021|
BACK from his latest Soshe Meed Breakie!
|by Anonymous||reply 377||06/15/2021|
"What do you want to be when you grow up?"
"Kind," said the boy.
|by Anonymous||reply 378||06/15/2021|
R378 I'll bet $10 that shirt turns into a titty slip, deep side scoop gym tank by the end of the week.
|by Anonymous||reply 379||06/15/2021|
He’s a cute guy—too sceney for my taste, but I think he genuinely means well.
|by Anonymous||reply 380||06/15/2021|
R380–I think you are right. I think he just triggers a lot of BS monitors and wounds amongst those familiar with the gay demographic he is in—and DL has burned him in effigy for it. I think it’s time to give him a break. He has a right to be who he is.
|by Anonymous||reply 381||06/15/2021|
R380 and R381 - he brought a lot of this on himself. Remember this disaster?
|by Anonymous||reply 382||06/16/2021|
I don't have time for conventionally attractive, cis-gender white men to faux lament about their privilege as an attempt to be woke.
I'd rather he be a straight up, unapologetic narcissist. At least he would own his bullshit that way.
|by Anonymous||reply 383||06/16/2021|
I’ve caught myself in primarily gay male environments (and not necessarily bars) internalizing that my social value is determined by how attractive I am or am not considered. You can see how other gay men “rank” you by the way you are engaged, if they engage you at all.
That is why a lot of men find it galling for someone who is obviously very attractive discussing pretty privilege, especially when he probably haven’t ever had to deal with how truly corrosive it can be. Sure, he’s probably been rejected, but that’s like a person whose credit card got declined at a restaurant comparing themselves to someone who has gone hungry. And when you look at his social media, it comes across as hypocritical and tone deaf.
|by Anonymous||reply 384||06/16/2021|
R384 EXACTLY CORRECT
|by Anonymous||reply 385||06/16/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 386||06/16/2021|
I don't give a fuck about his appearance.
My problem with him is that he seems unprofessional, unconvincing, and generally a bad representation of the psychotherapeutic profession. Frankly, he comes across as a charlatan. Going the 'influencer' route is not conductive for keeping the correct professional distance from your clients/patients at all.
Also--and I admit that I'm not too familiar with the American licensing process--he doesn't even seem to be a real psychotherapist from where I stand. In my country, that would require a B.Sc. AND M.Sc. in Psych as well as a 3+ year post-grad education which includes a 1 year residency in a psychiatric clinic as well as a 0.5 year residency in a psychosomatic clinic.
He seems more like a school counselor, which is not the same thing as a professionally trained psychotherapist...
|by Anonymous||reply 387||06/16/2021|
R387 you are right—the real problem is he and his pop therapy (not unlike that of Oprah and Dr Phil) have been given credibility it doesn’t deserve. That explains the glaring incongruity.
|by Anonymous||reply 388||06/16/2021|
^ they don’t
|by Anonymous||reply 389||06/16/2021|
As a professional, I'm still struggling to square his anus getting its close up.
|by Anonymous||reply 390||06/17/2021|
You called, Dr. Wilbur?
|by Anonymous||reply 391||06/17/2021|
Dr., you've this pursed lips expression. I'm just trying to share my feelings!
|by Anonymous||reply 392||06/17/2021|
You seem tense, like you’re holding something back….lol
Can you get Botox for a booty hole?
|by Anonymous||reply 393||06/17/2021|
You'd think someone smart of enough to guide other people in solving their life problems, a fairly sensitive task, would also figure if they are a social media marketer that their nudes might draw particular attention, that there is less of a dividing line between the public and the private. And then avoid that. Or not. It may be what you wanted. Who can say?
|by Anonymous||reply 394||06/17/2021|
I don’t know what you are talking about.
|by Anonymous||reply 395||06/17/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 396||06/17/2021|
OMG... Matthew Dempsey is being confused with Jeffrey Toobin. Call a qualified therapist!!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 397||06/17/2021|
He's very pretty, but he seems like an idiot, and the Johnny Bravo hairstyle is ridiculous.
|by Anonymous||reply 398||06/17/2021|
Matthew Dempsey is the gay male version of Gretchen Wieners from Mean Girls:
"I'm sorry people are so jealous of me, but I can't help that I'm popular."
|by Anonymous||reply 399||06/17/2021|
It bums me out that he's tall and muscular and yet he's just another anxious-to-please bottom wanting to fling his legs up in the air.
|by Anonymous||reply 400||06/17/2021|
Fuck! Defacto is back at R400!
|by Anonymous||reply 401||06/17/2021|
His latest hair appears to have been fitted by Lego.
|by Anonymous||reply 402||06/17/2021|
I'm not Defacto, r401.
|by Anonymous||reply 403||06/17/2021|
r403 r400 is definitely not Defuncto. Ignore-dar revealed that he shrieked "SOAP THREAD!" somewhere, and Defuncto is a huge fan of the Procter & Gamble shows. HUGE!
|by Anonymous||reply 404||06/17/2021|
He's whining about Matthew Dempsey being a bottom, which is exactly what Defacto did.
|by Anonymous||reply 405||06/17/2021|
Just what we all need...bumper sticker therapy:
[quote] "We've all got our shit, we've all got stuff going on..."
What words of wisdom!
|by Anonymous||reply 406||06/17/2021|
He's a living human that manages to induce the "Uncanny Valley" effect where something is creepy because it looks almost human but you know it's not real.
|by Anonymous||reply 407||06/17/2021|
Someone needs to tell him that praying at the altar of Oprah does not qualify him to be a therapist. And yes, I know he has a "degree".
|by Anonymous||reply 408||06/17/2021|
|by Anonymous||reply 409||06/17/2021|
Is that technically a coin slot?
|by Anonymous||reply 410||06/18/2021|
I would like to know where he gets his sack and crack wax. They seem to do good work.
|by Anonymous||reply 411||Last Sunday at 12:09 PM|
I don't know what his license means or where he got it.
|by Anonymous||reply 412||Last Sunday at 2:48 PM|
R411, He gives his housekeeper, Ermalinda, an extra $20 to do it for him.
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