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DL Fave Matthew Dempsey back from "Sosche Meed Breakie!"

After his defense of the COVID New Year's Eve Gays, which backfired on him hideously, therapist-to-the-days, Matthew Dempsey is BACK, with his hair higher than ever!

Has all been forgiven almost three months later?

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by Anonymousreply 413Last Sunday at 3:59 PM

Anyone have his Grindr pix?

by Anonymousreply 103/10/2021

His message on that Instagram post is nauseating.

by Anonymousreply 203/10/2021

"Therapist-to-the-gays" - Sorry!

by Anonymousreply 303/10/2021

Yesterday was his true return:

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by Anonymousreply 403/10/2021

Trying to backtrack after defending the COVID Gays:

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by Anonymousreply 503/10/2021

He’s very handsome and then he opens his mouth

by Anonymousreply 603/10/2021

A "Sosche Meed Breakie"?? So this dude's basically a 14 year old girl?

by Anonymousreply 703/10/2021

Hairstylin' by...

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by Anonymousreply 803/10/2021

OH Matt,dear....

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by Anonymousreply 903/10/2021

Now we know what’s affecting climate change. Matt’s pompadour bouffant is killing the ozone layer.

by Anonymousreply 1003/10/2021

He needs to go home.

by Anonymousreply 1103/10/2021

He IS very handsome.

by Anonymousreply 1203/10/2021

I don't believe that when you judge others its a projection of your own shit. (at R4) Sometimes maybe but sheesh not always. He seems like a simpleton. So I guess that means I'm worried I am a simpleton? I'm not.

by Anonymousreply 1303/10/2021

Good lord! My 14-year old niece would would die before typing "sosche meed." She's more mature than this dweeb.

by Anonymousreply 1403/10/2021

Her narcissism is very off putting. Ugh.

by Anonymousreply 1503/10/2021

He’s morphing into a laughable caricature of himself.

by Anonymousreply 1603/10/2021

What a dumb bitch.

by Anonymousreply 1703/10/2021

Why are so many in the mental health field so unjustifiably enamoured by themselves?

I've come across this time and again, and their pretty well all train-wrecks once you really get to know them. I mean, more so than most other people I meet.

by Anonymousreply 1803/10/2021

I looked up "shallow" and "insincere" in both cases this guy's picture pops up

I used to have a pick-up line I would use on a guy like this, "Hi, you're hot. Don't talk, don't spoil it."

by Anonymousreply 1903/10/2021

His defense of the COVID Party Gays, which led to his hiding out for over two months:

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by Anonymousreply 2003/11/2021

For a psych therapist, Matt’s an idiot.

by Anonymousreply 2103/11/2021

"Toxic Positivity: A Ramble

“Toxic Positivity” refers to the misuse of positive thinking to avoid emotional discomfort. It’s a tendency to be aware of because we want to allow positive thinking to marry and help manage our uncomfortable emotion while we still process through it, not avoid it.

That said, I hate the name “toxic positivity” because I think it confuses people to think you can be “too” positive and you can’t. Positivity in it’s most absolute form inherently accepts everything, experience AND feeling as good. So let’s frame shitty situations as an opportunity for growth and the emotional discomfort as the necessary feeling of getting stronger.

And if you’re overusing positive thinking to avoid feeling, then that’s not positivity at all. It’s emotional avoidance. "

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by Anonymousreply 2203/11/2021

Is the caption on that post even in English?!

by Anonymousreply 2303/11/2021

Who's got the nudes?

by Anonymousreply 2403/11/2021

Just how much cum does that hairstyle require?

by Anonymousreply 2503/11/2021

He’s a bulimics best friend as he makes you want to vomit!

by Anonymousreply 2603/11/2021

Love that guy. Very entertaining.

by Anonymousreply 2703/11/2021

Sosche Meed Breakie?

Fittingly vapid.

by Anonymousreply 2803/11/2021

Matt: Your toxic masculinity is causing irreparable harm to your psyche making you lash out at me

Me: No, it's because you're a douchenozzle

by Anonymousreply 2903/11/2021

The higher his hair gets, the more it looks like his face has fallen down towards his chin.

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by Anonymousreply 3003/11/2021

^ Haha!

He's Charlie Kirk's long lost brother

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by Anonymousreply 3103/11/2021

Thus dude tries to straddle the ethical and moral implications of his professional life — and the Peter Pan Syndrome of his social life.

Doctor, heal thy self.

by Anonymousreply 3203/11/2021

No. Canceled.

by Anonymousreply 3303/11/2021



His ridiculous attempt to say that when people criticize is a reflection of their own insecurities is 100% a Trumpie deflection attempt.

Bitch, you were being dragged because you were supporting your stupid faggot friends who were endangering Mexicans because they wanted to go get fucked up on meth and have maskless orgies in a foreign country with zero accountability.

That’s not how it works, cunt. There are consequences for behavior. He should know that as a “psychologist.”

by Anonymousreply 3403/11/2021

[quote]Sosche Meed

Is it a Liza quote? I don't understand what this is supposed to mean.

by Anonymousreply 3503/11/2021

Would someone who does Instagram please respond to him for me. Just say....


by Anonymousreply 3603/11/2021

Goddamnit. I clicked on the dumpsey thing and now Instagram thinks I'm interested in thirsty gays of a certain age. I am suing someone for Ms. Savage soiling my search page. I hate you for this. This grizzled jerky is on you, bitch.

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by Anonymousreply 3703/11/2021

r24, I downloaded them when they were available. Don't know where they are online.

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by Anonymousreply 3903/11/2021

a show about Black mental health?

"So, here's my Black friend..."

by Anonymousreply 4003/11/2021

What the actual fuck would this guy know about "Black mental health" and what makes him an authority to opine on it? It's clearly a cheap way to jump on the current Meghan buzz.

R35 - I admit it took me an absurd amount of time to figure it out, but "sosche meed breakie" is "social media break" in..... I don't even know what or how to define this vernacular.

by Anonymousreply 4103/11/2021

Everyone i know has deactivated. Who the f is still living their lives on social media? It’s done. Guys like this are a thing of the past.

by Anonymousreply 4203/11/2021

No and no, just so banal.... go away!

by Anonymousreply 4303/11/2021

[quote] Everyone i know has deactivated.

And yet here you are. Last guy standing.

by Anonymousreply 4403/11/2021

I like his hair actually.

But where are the sizemeat verificatia pics? We want deets on the peen.

by Anonymousreply 4503/11/2021

Saying people who criticize you for being shitty is merely a projection is just a fancy way of calling everyone who calls you out a hater.

It also defies the role of therapy, since it means anything but positive feedback is mere projection by the therapist and therefore, meaningless to the patient.

This dude is twisting himself into a pretzel trying to justify his own BS and maintain professional credibility at the same time.

by Anonymousreply 4603/11/2021

Based on his IG, I don’t think he even knows anyone who is black.

by Anonymousreply 4703/11/2021

I’m Matt’s only unattractive, non-white friend. You’ll never see me in pictures with rest of the WeHo squad since I don’t meet the color scheme or BMI requirements for a group photo. I’m so glad they let me be their pity friend.

by Anonymousreply 4803/11/2021

[quote] I don't even know ... how to define this vernacular.


by Anonymousreply 4903/11/2021

With fellow DL Fave, Alec Mapa!

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by Anonymousreply 5003/11/2021

He doesn’t have professional credibility R46.

by Anonymousreply 5103/11/2021

Tick tock.

by Anonymousreply 5203/11/2021

Damn... r52 is supposed to be signed, “The Ghost of Bob Berenger.”

Tick tock. Dempsey is rapidly approaching his “oh shit, I really AM getting old, and it sucks!” date.

by Anonymousreply 5303/11/2021

Has she started 50 therapy yet?

by Anonymousreply 5403/11/2021

Interesting read.

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by Anonymousreply 5503/11/2021

“Sadly, it appears the shift may have come a little too late for Bob Bergeron. From what we have learned, he was, at least in part, a victim of the dread of aging in a culture that values youth and beauty. His fixation on physical vitality -- and the potential loss of it -- clearly played a role in his emotional turmoil. Bergeron was quite open with his friends and patients about his struggle to move into a phase of life where his looks would -- and could -- not be a primary value.“

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by Anonymousreply 5703/17/2021

I think he means well, but he comes across as very naricisstic. But who isn't nowadays.

by Anonymousreply 5803/17/2021

I would have a hard time seeing a therapist who had this kind of social media presence. Normal online activity is expected now, like pictures of their food or kids and trips to the beach or something. This almost seems bad mental healthcare, at least to me.

by Anonymousreply 5903/17/2021

He’s too old for that haircut.

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by Anonymousreply 6103/21/2021

Where's his top lip?!

by Anonymousreply 6203/21/2021

He looks really hot at R61!

by Anonymousreply 6303/21/2021

I personally think a psychologist ought to keep a lower profile on social media. I’d expect a certain professionalism from them that excludes babbling away their most personal thoughts like a teen girl writing in her journal.

by Anonymousreply 6403/21/2021

That’s why he took a Sosche Meed Breakie. Now you can feel comfortable with him as your therapist.

by Anonymousreply 6503/21/2021


🔥 🔥 🔥

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by Anonymousreply 6603/25/2021

[quote]Embrace calamity. All great changes are preceded by it.

Funny, every time I commune with dead from COVID or Hiroshima or what have you, they never say that.

by Anonymousreply 6703/25/2021

Prayer chair.

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by Anonymousreply 6803/29/2021

Trying to bareback on the COVID gays.

by Anonymousreply 6903/29/2021

Dempsey has the social media presence and style of a "popular" flight attendant.

by Anonymousreply 7003/29/2021

It's like he's trying to look as much like a bearded brunet version of Johnny Bravo as possible.

i just don;t find him attractive, even though I generally like muscleguys. He's just too fake.

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by Anonymousreply 7103/29/2021

Every time one his haters posts a comment, he lays his hair higher and higher!

by Anonymousreply 7203/29/2021

The higher the hair, the closer to God!

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by Anonymousreply 7303/29/2021

[quote]I don't even know ... how to define this vernacular.

It's not the vernacular she thinks she possesses

by Anonymousreply 7403/29/2021

Matthew needs a therapist.

by Anonymousreply 7503/29/2021

Re: stupid R68 photo:

Someone asked, “Do you ever take pictures of anything but yourself?”

by Anonymousreply 7603/29/2021

R74 she’s nothing like that!

by Anonymousreply 7703/29/2021

You're sosche meed hate just makes my hair grow more powerful, you meanies!

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by Anonymousreply 7803/29/2021

yasss r78!

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by Anonymousreply 7903/29/2021

But, but, I'm a cute media darling and people like me...

Enough about me, I'll let you talk about me now

by Anonymousreply 8003/29/2021

Sometimes, I lie awake all night, wondering whether Matthew Dempsey has hair erections instead of penile erections.

by Anonymousreply 8103/29/2021


"Oh, dear!" at myself...

Dammit, autocorrect!

by Anonymousreply 8203/29/2021

^ That's ok, YOUR picture was funny enough to get a "WW" from me

by Anonymousreply 8303/30/2021

[quote]"Sosche Meed Breakie!"

Does anything say "trust me, I'm a professional" like baby talk?

by Anonymousreply 8403/30/2021

My deceased friend Martin's comment on this one's follicle suicide would have been, 'HAIR TO JESUS!'

by Anonymousreply 8503/30/2021

Was Dolly his inspiration?

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by Anonymousreply 8603/30/2021

Is he into hair fucking?

by Anonymousreply 8703/30/2021
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by Anonymousreply 8904/15/2021

I think he’d be a lot cuter if he got rid of the bouffant hair.

by Anonymousreply 9004/16/2021

^ Are you kidding? I want to seriously rub my dick in his hair... Oops, looks like 10 guys beat me to it

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by Anonymousreply 9204/16/2021

I wonder if he’s ever taken a photo that wasn’t a selfie

by Anonymousreply 9304/16/2021

I'm certain it's never occurred to him, r93!

by Anonymousreply 9404/16/2021

Is he friends/orgy mates with famous covid vaccine wasting baby nurse Tyler Spelane?

by Anonymousreply 9504/16/2021

Who would go to a psychologist who has his dick pics all over the internet? I fired my last doctor for that.

by Anonymousreply 9604/16/2021

where are his dick picx?

by Anonymousreply 9704/16/2021

All over the internet.

by Anonymousreply 9804/16/2021

I found them. He's cut (someone said he was uncut)

by Anonymousreply 9904/16/2021

No, he’s definitely cut.

by Anonymousreply 10004/16/2021

Can you post a link?

by Anonymousreply 10104/17/2021

try this

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by Anonymousreply 10204/17/2021

or this

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by Anonymousreply 10304/17/2021

Doesn't work at R103.

by Anonymousreply 10404/17/2021

it works when i click on it. or use the link above. just google his name and nude and it takes you to a LPSG page

by Anonymousreply 10504/17/2021

Got 'em, saved 'em.

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by Anonymousreply 10604/17/2021
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by Anonymousreply 10704/17/2021

"Sosche Meed Break!"

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by Anonymousreply 10804/17/2021
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by Anonymousreply 11004/17/2021

[quote]No hang ups about race/ethnicity/masc/fem. It's a rainbow of love.

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by Anonymousreply 11104/17/2021

Those photos look as versatile as a spoon.

by Anonymousreply 11204/17/2021

I've just seen my therapist's anus. Which on some level was exactly what he wanted.

by Anonymousreply 11304/17/2021

I’m impressed with Matt’s nudes. Nice dick and I like the retro Speedo tan lines look. His hole is very clean and tidy looking. It would be a great place to play for a few minutes. Well done, doc.

by Anonymousreply 11404/17/2021

She's a jock?

by Anonymousreply 11504/17/2021

You know I'm actually just gonna block this thread. Looking at that smug cunt, spreading his damage, actually sickens me. He's not even fun to mock.

by Anonymousreply 11604/17/2021

R68, my bet is that this is the sensitive therapisr’s “prayer chair”

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by Anonymousreply 11704/17/2021

I guess Matthew admits to being 39 in this Insta-story today.

What a cute guy he was 13 years ago. Still is, even hotter, except for the overdone hair.

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by Anonymousreply 11804/17/2021

It's perfectly fine that not every gay is my kind of gay,


by Anonymousreply 11904/17/2021

Nice girls don't present hole before the first date Matthew!

by Anonymousreply 12004/17/2021

I just can't shake the feeling he's nuttier than anybody he claims to treat.

by Anonymousreply 12104/17/2021

That doesn’t even look like him at R118. It’s like a whole different person.

Why does he write the word like? People say “like” as a verbal tick and it would be edited out when written down. Is he trying to sound vapid in print too?

Keep trusting your heart, it works like, really well.

And like, don’t forget your values you hold like dear to your heart.

Don’t get like bitter or like jaded with age.

These are the promises that I like made to myself.

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by Anonymousreply 12304/17/2021

The guru types always are R121 Always.

by Anonymousreply 12404/17/2021

Anyone know how old this kaWEEN actually is? Not what he claims, but really...

by Anonymousreply 12504/17/2021

Why do I think of Sam Champion when I look at him?

by Anonymousreply 12604/17/2021

Matthew claims to be 39.

by Anonymousreply 12704/17/2021

So in gay years, he's 72.

by Anonymousreply 12804/17/2021

He's closer to 47.

by Anonymousreply 12904/17/2021

Ah yes, the old "criticism of my actions is actually a reflection of who *you* are" bullshit. Basically another way of saying "my shit doesn't stink, you must be smelling your *own* shit" 🙄

This asshole will never own up to what he said. Yeah, we get it, some of these gays actually did travel because they hit an emotional wall. They were also *wrong* to do it. Fuck, I hit plenty of emotional walls this past year, but I did not fly myself to a foreign country and risk other people's health. I stayed fucking put. This asshole doesn't want to admit the glaring flaws that were exposed during this debacle: a lot of gay men are very selfish and callous. He's just a bullshit apologist for them and speaks their language.

by Anonymousreply 13004/17/2021

^ well said

by Anonymousreply 13104/17/2021

[quote]a lot of gay men are very selfish and callous. He's just a bullshit apologist for them and speaks their language.

That’s because he IS one of them. He has pictures of himself with a bunch of friends maskless in Puerto Vallarta this past November.

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by Anonymousreply 13304/18/2021

Gurls just wanna have Fun - Eldergay-adjacent version

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by Anonymousreply 13404/18/2021

Jesse is SO hot!!!!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 13504/18/2021

Still trying to figure out why someone would post a clinical photo of their anus online. Who wants to see a close-up of a pooter? Or is that a coin slot?

by Anonymousreply 13604/18/2021

[quote]Who wants to see a close-up of a pooter?

New in town, r136?

by Anonymousreply 13704/18/2021

His hole needs bleaching it’s very brown. I’d say Pecan Sandie

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by Anonymousreply 13804/18/2021

Excuse me? I think I started that hair pouf first

by Anonymousreply 13904/18/2021

It's a Grindr pic, R136.

by Anonymousreply 14004/18/2021

Still, seriously, to what extent is a close up of your anus - I don't even know how to describe all the kinds of bizarre and disordered the come with taking a pic of your anus and then sharing it. It's just... it's there no matter what. It's like taking a picture of the stop sign near your house. Only the stop sign pic is somehow less weird.

by Anonymousreply 14104/18/2021

Yes—it’s like sharing a close-up photo of your elbow. There’s nothing unique or erotic about a butt pucker. Why include that in a profile?

by Anonymousreply 14204/18/2021

He seems like just a terrible human being in general.

by Anonymousreply 14304/18/2021

He's fucking HOT!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 14404/18/2021

From his evident neuroses to the hours it takes to be hole presenting ready, he is a dime an ugly, vacuous dozen.

by Anonymousreply 14504/18/2021

He’s handsome and has a nice body, but personally he’s a walking cliche of toxic gay culture. It’s a pretty tree for something that only bears only rotten fruit.

by Anonymousreply 14604/18/2021

“For this demographic — of which I very much belong — it's likely true that for many of us, the only real battles we've had to fight were the ones taking place in our own minds. We were born into complicated and traumatic closets but now live extraordinarily advantaged lives with seemingly endless options. But with fulfilled dreams comes emotional responsibility, and none of us seem to be owning up to our own damage. Instead, we've become obsessed with what people think of our appearance and status (Instagram sure hasn't helped with that) at the expense of really looking at ourselves and a culture we have helped create that is rife with racism, transphobia, classism, ageism, ableism, fat-shaming and just plain meanness.“

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by Anonymousreply 14704/18/2021

“Variable ratio reinforcement is one of the most effective ways to reinforce behavior, and it makes stopping that behavior extremely difficult. Slot machines are a classic example. Because gamblers never know when the next payout will come, they can’t stop pulling the handle. They hold out hope that the next pull will give them the pleasurable sound of coins clanking against a metal bin, and they end up pulling for hours.

Now imagine a slot machine that rewards you with an orgasm at unpredictable intervals. This is potentially a powerful recipe for addiction and may explain why one user I spoke with stays on Grindr for up to 10 hours at a time, hoping to find the perfect partner for casual sex.”

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by Anonymousreply 14804/18/2021

He's cute too! I wouldn't swipe past him.

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by Anonymousreply 14904/18/2021

Grindr and the apps that came afterward have fucked everything up.

by Anonymousreply 15004/18/2021

Did they fuck it up or did they just amplify the existing fuckedupedness?

by Anonymousreply 15104/18/2021

Both probably.

by Anonymousreply 15204/18/2021

Grindr isn’t cock-sucking, it’s soul-sucking. I hate it.

by Anonymousreply 15304/18/2021

Grindr is like a slot machine married to a gloryhole.

by Anonymousreply 15404/18/2021

No way is this guy still in his 30s.

by Anonymousreply 15504/18/2021

He looks so old.

by Anonymousreply 15604/18/2021

Is it the gray hair? If he dyed it black would he look much younger?

by Anonymousreply 15704/18/2021

Do you really think he’s ever slept with a man with a higher body fat percentage than his own?

by Anonymousreply 15804/18/2021

DL is so mean to poor Matthew!

He's an A-Gay!

by Anonymousreply 15904/18/2021

Does a thread like this make Andy Cohen happy or jealous?

BTW, hey, Andy!

by Anonymousreply 16004/18/2021

What does Andy Cohen have anything to do with this?

by Anonymousreply 16104/18/2021

I do think he means well. Some of the comments are very harsh and personal. I have a bit of a distaste for sceney gays though and he is very much a product of that, which is...kinda sad.

by Anonymousreply 16204/18/2021

His leaked profile is from Scruff, which, for what it's worth, professes to be less mean than Grindr. That said, I think his "I wuv all kinds of guys!" statement is probably just him covering his ass (so to speak).

by Anonymousreply 16304/18/2021

He seems exhausting but since he has minimal body fat, a thick dick and a tight hole the gays will continue to welcome his vapidness with open legs and mouths.

That said, I'd let him fuck me.

by Anonymousreply 16404/18/2021

So are hole pictures on gay dating apps proof one doesn’t have a hot dog in a hallway hole? 🌭

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[quote]What does Andy Cohen have anything to do with this?

Only that (fairly) dude is getting Andy Cohen level scorn heaped on him. Though he does seem sort of an Andy Cohen kind of gay.

by Anonymousreply 16604/18/2021

Not even Andy Cohen is douchey enough to type something like "Sosche Meed Breakie" for public consumption.

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by Anonymousreply 16804/18/2021

I'm still chuckling... that asshole wouldn't give me the time if day if we met and yet I've still seen his asshole. I lived and loathed from both sides now.

by Anonymousreply 16904/18/2021

It seems a bit surreal that someone in a professional capacity would post something like a booty hole shot anywhere online. .I’d say the same of celebrities but we know many are dumb as dirt. Has the pandemic changed “norms” about posting nude photos online or is this just bad judgment?

by Anonymousreply 17004/18/2021

[quote]It seems a bit surreal that someone in a professional capacity would post something like a booty hole shot anywhere online.

Much less someone in one of the so-called helping professions. Iyanla, fix my life, but please don't show me your asshole.

by Anonymousreply 17104/18/2021

He’s barely a professional.

by Anonymousreply 17204/18/2021

Honestly this is so bizarre. I think the whole world needs a break from the internet. Taking a close up picture of your own anus uploading it to the internet is abnormal behavior. It makes me wonder what people will be sharing online in twenty years. Photos from colonoscopies?

by Anonymousreply 17304/18/2021

I seriously doubt that his online presence would fulfill the criteria set by my country's/state's Psychotherapist Association's professional code of conduct.

Part of a psychotherapist's work is keeping a professional distance to patients/clients. Sharing personal information on social media this much doesn't seem conductive to building the necessary professional distance. And I honestly ask myself what the hell he is thinking... does he think that his clients don't perceive his social media activities? All those videos and instagram posts where he presents himself in a manner more befitting a friend than a professional therapist?

by Anonymousreply 17404/18/2021

r174 I have no idea what the professional norms are now in 2021, but clearly he don't give a fuck. He is probably trying to transition into some sort of therapist career that is based in social media. Or landing himself the occasional spot on TV as a mental health contributor for a talk show or something lightweight like that.

by Anonymousreply 17504/18/2021

So, I guess I'm the only one who likes looking at a man's taint and asshole. Maybe it's because I enjoy rimming.

by Anonymousreply 17604/18/2021

Do you think he perceives criticism of this behavior as homophobia?

by Anonymousreply 17704/18/2021

It just seems questionable for someone who markets themselves professionally as a gay therapist to do so. I don’t know, I may be biased, but it detracts from someone’s credibility if I can find an identifiable photo of their chocolate starfish online.

by Anonymousreply 17804/18/2021

I'm embarrassed to admit I thought, the way it was capitalized, that Sosche Meed was an Orthodox Jewish holiday.

"Sorry, won't be checking e-mail after Friday sundown, it's Sosche Meed this weekend. Join us Monday morning for Breakie?"

by Anonymousreply 17904/18/2021

[quote]it detracts from someone’s credibility if I can find an identifiable photo of their chocolate starfish online.

That's the thing though, most people don't go searching for nudes of their doctors, most of us recoil at the thought. Its only because he is attractive that a gay man would go looking for such things. And we really only discuss him here because of how he looks, otherwise we wouldn't even know him or care.

by Anonymousreply 18004/18/2021

I doubt he’s even professionally licensed. He’s some sort of internet pseudo-“therapist”.

by Anonymousreply 18104/19/2021

His website says he is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor.

It is dominated by a picture of himself. A really big picture of himself. Which is just what you're looking for in a counsellor, obviously. Because nothing says all about you like a picture of the counsellor.

by Anonymousreply 18204/19/2021

Everyone in weho knows he's a big ol' bottom kween

by Anonymousreply 18304/19/2021

I don’t know why anyone would go to him for counseling. Everything would be about him.

by Anonymousreply 18404/19/2021

I wonder if he would know how to provide counsel to a great big fat gay person. I don't think that's in his wheelhouse.

by Anonymousreply 18504/19/2021

Did he get a certificate in counseling like Dr. Laura did? They both certainly showing off their pussies.

by Anonymousreply 18604/19/2021

R186 - his degree is a Masters of Education in Psychological Counseling at Teachers College, Columbia University.

He's not even a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I don't know if that master's degree from a college of education actually allows him to practice any type of real therapy counseling. Sounds to me like something your school guidance counselor would have.

Teachers College at Columbia has some great programs - but other programs are not impressive and not difficult to get accepted into.

by Anonymousreply 18704/19/2021

Me, me, everyone on DL is talking about ME

by Anonymousreply 18804/19/2021

How much of his hair is a wig, and how much real?

by Anonymousreply 18904/19/2021

It's always the ones that try so hard to sound deep and insightful that turn out to be neither.

by Anonymousreply 19004/19/2021

R189, no wig but a LOT on hair product to get that volume and lift. My mother always favored AquaNet and a ratting comb to get hers that high. I’m Keeping my fingers crossed that he experiences male pattern baldness in the not so distant future.

by Anonymousreply 19104/19/2021

^ I found one of his baby pictures online...

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Isn’t it technically a pompadour?

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Read this bilge! Or WATCH it!!!

[quote]A Literal Good Bye

[quote]“Your home should be your sanctuary,” was something an old therapist told me once. No matter what space I’ve lived in and called home, I made sure it was just that. But I first learned what “home” meant because of my family house in Clark, NJ that we’ve had since I was born. The forts, slumber parties, home movies, sister doing my makeup and Lee Press On Nails™️, brother kicking me off dial up AOL one moment but teaching me about sex the next, mom waving her fist at me when I interrupted her *long distance calls*, all of us sleeping in her room in the summer because she had the only AC, my coming out and surprising literally no one, our growing family, all the holidays, birthdays, and the every day, small moments of loving, growing, and doing it all together. We told our family’s story here for 4 decades and now it’s time for a new family to tell theirs. It’s through some tears and a lot of love that I say thank you, childhood home, for being my literal foundation and home base. I’m gonna miss you. ♥️🏡✨

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^ only read it, didn’t watch the video...but Isn’t that quite heartfelt and sweet though?

by Anonymousreply 19604/21/2021

Friendship 4evah!

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by Anonymousreply 19704/21/2021

So no social distancing or masks. At least he’s friends with ugly people, and a woman.

by Anonymousreply 19804/21/2021

LOL... the only one he's actually touching is the hottest of the lot.

by Anonymousreply 19904/22/2021

Potential ‘Tasteful Friends’ fodder

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by Anonymousreply 20004/23/2021

Those plant things around the mirror!

The corner LAMP!!!!!

The cheap window and BLINDS!!!!!!!!

The 1987 carpet is from when Rose moved in with those stewardesses in THE GOLDEN GIRLS!

YIKES, Matt!

by Anonymousreply 20104/23/2021

His lips are pursed like that picture of his asshole the world has seen.

by Anonymousreply 20204/23/2021

Unsurprisingly he’s decorated his living room with a huge mirror

by Anonymousreply 20304/23/2021

Why does he keep popping up here?

He should be DIAGF.

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Real life struggles!!!!

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by Anonymousreply 20604/23/2021

Why is he using the funhouse warp effect on his face at R200?

And he is doing telehealth virtual therapy on cam. Has anyone booked a Zoom appointment yet?

by Anonymousreply 20704/23/2021

[quote]The 1987 carpet is from when Rose moved in with those stewardesses in THE GOLDEN GIRLS!

I wasn't a stewardess; that was the other gal who lived here (I forgot her name!). I only lived near the beach because it was close to work. I actually hate the beach.

by Anonymousreply 20804/23/2021

Well, it certainly takes courage to come out and be him.

Or maybe it just takes shallow and stupid.

by Anonymousreply 20904/23/2021

Steph, nobody wanted to be your Beach Friend anyway.

by Anonymousreply 21004/23/2021

I told you Rose, we are just ROOMMATES, not friends!!!

Go sexually harass the doorman and leave me alone, bitch.

by Anonymousreply 21104/23/2021

Such a odd coincidence how all his friends are white and equally or more attractive? How does that always happen? Is there a force field around him that makes him invisible to people of color, the unattractive, the overweight, old people, etc ?

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Some ‘color’, as in ‘tanned’

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by Anonymousreply 21404/23/2021

Posting pics from Puerto Vallarta from 2020 at the height of the pandemic? Does he want to get canceled?

by Anonymousreply 21504/24/2021

Didn't he earn a shit storm for exactly that, R215, and had to post a big "mea culpa (but I didn't do anything wrong)?"

I seem to remember something like that. Maybe I mix up my social media whores, however...

by Anonymousreply 21604/24/2021

I love hanging out with my beautiful friends, looking hot, paying attention to it and doing everything we can not to get laid.

by Anonymousreply 21704/24/2021

He is living best life ever!

by Anonymousreply 21804/24/2021

R197 of course he's holding on to the hot guy - the hot guy has got a thick dick

by Anonymousreply 21904/24/2021

I don't get the snark.

It's almost as if DL has a jealousy thing for attractive, successful people (which for DL would be most of the rest of the world).

by Anonymousreply 22004/24/2021

R215: well, the pic is labeled


namely, Throwback Thursday, so presumably it happened sometime pre-Covid. Jesse seems like a pretty level-headed guy, so I don’t think he’s that stupid not to know the ramifications.

by Anonymousreply 22104/25/2021

Jesse was identified as one of the New Year's Eve COVID-Gays.

That's why Matthew was defending the COVID-Gays, for which he was shredded, and finally had to backtrack and apologize.

by Anonymousreply 22204/25/2021

Another #TBT

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R222: oops I didn’t know that; I honestly thought he’d have known better

by Anonymousreply 22404/25/2021

Those permatan gays look frightfully vapid.

by Anonymousreply 22504/25/2021

The Caucasity of it all

by Anonymousreply 22604/25/2021

How is he anyone's fave but his own?

by Anonymousreply 22704/25/2021

TBT —code for traveled to Mexico during the COVID quarantine/pandemic. No masks in sight. If they post exactly when they went to Mexico last year they get excoriated.

Too bad for you, Mexicans, we’re A gays!

by Anonymousreply 22804/25/2021

If he just hosts the mayo orgy at home in front of the mirror instead of schlepping the bacchanal to Mexico it would be much more efficient use of time and money

by Anonymousreply 22904/25/2021

That’s his work space—having an orgy at home would compromise his ethics as a professional.

by Anonymousreply 23004/25/2021

[quote] namely, Throwback Thursday, so presumably it happened sometime pre-Covid. Jesse seems like a pretty level-headed guy, so I don’t think he’s that stupid not to know the ramifications.

He was throwing back to November 2020 when he and Matthew and their whole crew flew to Mexico during the height of the pandemic to flaunt no masks and no social distancing. They are not level-headed.

by Anonymousreply 23104/25/2021

I cannot fathom paying this guy money as a therapist.

by Anonymousreply 23204/25/2021

What do you think his monthly chest waxing budget is?

by Anonymousreply 23304/25/2021

HOT new pic!!!

Matthew looks gorgeous here!

Look at that tight BODY!

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Sorry, but she’s too old for that hairstyle.

by Anonymousreply 23504/27/2021

We should crowd source the money for a course of therapy and send somebody in.

by Anonymousreply 23604/27/2021

You bitches would CRUCIFY Mother Teresa!

by Anonymousreply 23704/27/2021

He's a therapist. He seems very vapid and self involved, and not very bright.

by Anonymousreply 23804/27/2021

^ He's a therapist?

by Anonymousreply 23904/27/2021

R234 is definitely not Matthew

by Anonymousreply 24004/27/2021

he honestly does look like a less inbred charlie kirk who used one tub of pomade wax at a time.

she's certainly not as intelligent or deep as she pretends to be.

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He's got that same "nose job" nose that everyone else has. It's very boring to look at.

by Anonymousreply 24304/29/2021

Anyone who would take mental health advice from such an obviously fucked-up creature (and also an obvious grifter) probably needs involuntary commitment rather than therapy.

by Anonymousreply 24404/29/2021

Throwback: Kiss Kiss

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Another throwback to 2020 at the height of the pandemic? Why is he doing this?

by Anonymousreply 24604/29/2021

Is he an actual psychiatrist or a "life coach"?

by Anonymousreply 24704/29/2021

He markets his services primarily to the gays. But probably only the hot ones :p

by Anonymousreply 24804/29/2021

[quote]Is he an actual psychiatrist

No. He’s a glorified guidance counselor.

by Anonymousreply 24904/29/2021

R249 that's generous. I would have said he's a glorified social media whore.

by Anonymousreply 25004/29/2021

There but for the grace of God goes Bob Bergeron.

I bet they meet the same fate.

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R245 can we get that guy to comment? I'd like a verified in person opinion

by Anonymousreply 25304/29/2021

How do we know he had a nose job?

by Anonymousreply 25404/29/2021

If he took a soche meedie break for being dragged for defending (and later identified as) a Gay Over COVID last year, is he just trolling, or are no fucks given at this point?

by Anonymousreply 25504/29/2021

He's back on the grift and desperate for attention to validate himself R255.

by Anonymousreply 25604/29/2021

He’s my teacher and my friend.

by Anonymousreply 25704/29/2021

Sounds like you're brain dead R257.

by Anonymousreply 25804/29/2021

I wish he would sit for an interview for DL.

by Anonymousreply 25904/29/2021

I wonder if he got that badly needed anal bleaching yet?

by Anonymousreply 26004/29/2021

Fresh and clean

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WtF? Why would he need to get anal beaching? He’s the rapist, for God’s sake!

by Anonymousreply 26304/29/2021

Let's go to the tape!

by Anonymousreply 26404/30/2021

I would lie on his couch

by Anonymousreply 26504/30/2021

But would he allow you the honour?

by Anonymousreply 26604/30/2021

r265 must have pretty privilege.

by Anonymousreply 26704/30/2021

[quote]I would lie on his couch

Telling Matt lies isn't going to help your therapy. Then again it probably doesn't matter what you tell him, he's probably not listening.

by Anonymousreply 26804/30/2021

Quite likely, R268. I'm sure he has his rooms set up with that in mind (i.e. patient looking away so he can scroll Grindr to his heart's content).

by Anonymousreply 26904/30/2021

I wonder if he demands a clear recent face photo, body pic and current measurements before taking you on as a patient.

by Anonymousreply 27004/30/2021

Who's going to post this thread on his IG?

by Anonymousreply 27104/30/2021

He'd probably counsel a female... for the right price.

by Anonymousreply 27204/30/2021

[quote]He’s the rapist, for God’s sake!

Lock him up!

by Anonymousreply 27304/30/2021

I feel bad for HIS therapist. God you couldn't pay me to listen to him talk about his struggles with high self esteem due to being pretty

by Anonymousreply 27404/30/2021

It’s weird though, because according to his videos, he struggle(d) with low self esteem. Is that true?

by Anonymousreply 27504/30/2021

The "art"...

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And the reality...

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by Anonymousreply 27705/14/2021

I have had a garbage day, but I feel better now after laughing AT him. Thank you r276 & r277.

by Anonymousreply 27805/14/2021

In the photo he is sad because the workman he hired to cut that gloryhole to the right of him cut it way to low. I wonder why it was left out of the sketch?

by Anonymousreply 27905/15/2021

It looks like he’s waiting dejectedly for a penis to appear through that hole.

by Anonymousreply 28005/15/2021

^ which is the story of all our lives.

by Anonymousreply 28105/15/2021

I'm so glad he came back from his "soche meed breakie" to post about his "feelies" about his pride anklet and this fan art he was sent.

For someone who tries to telegraph introspection and intelligence he has the vocabulary of a 13 year old girl.

by Anonymousreply 28205/15/2021

Where has Matthew been? NOT on social media!

Another "Sosche Meed Breakie" already?

Here he is one year ago, to commemorate his current absence from Pride celebrations.


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Onlyfans next once he has bleached his hole?

by Anonymousreply 28406/05/2021

Mayo gays need pride representation, too!

by Anonymousreply 28506/05/2021

That haggard, saggy art at R276 will be a high def jpeg in about five years.

by Anonymousreply 28606/05/2021

Does Lizcha do hisch sosche meed account?

by Anonymousreply 28706/05/2021

Say what you want, he's cute. And you bitches are SO jealous! :)

by Anonymousreply 28806/05/2021

I've ALWAYS said Matthew is hot.

I just think he's kinda crazy, too.

by Anonymousreply 28906/05/2021

He's cute and needs to be gangbanged, but acts like a teenage girl. Who gave him his license to be a counselor? Did his degree come from University of Phoenix?

by Anonymousreply 29006/05/2021

Matthew is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) who graduated with both a Masters of Arts and a Masters of Education in Psychological Counseling from Teachers College, Columbia University.

by Anonymousreply 29106/05/2021

r289 crazy how?

by Anonymousreply 29206/05/2021

I'm sorry, Matthew Dempsey at R291 / R292 .

I meant needy, not crazy.

by Anonymousreply 29306/05/2021

R293 that seems to track better to me

by Anonymousreply 29406/05/2021

Maybe he’s in Mexico again like last fall.

by Anonymousreply 29506/05/2021

If he really did get it from Columbia, and I doubt it, they need to rescind it immediately. I would ashamed of it.

Was that you Matthew, I mean r291?

by Anonymousreply 29606/05/2021

If I had to describe him in one word, it would be SQUEE!

by Anonymousreply 29706/05/2021

Is he Top/bottom?

by Anonymousreply 29806/05/2021

I dunno didn’t he have a brown eye photo on his profile? I’d say he’s versatile if I had to guess.

by Anonymousreply 29906/05/2021

Was it bleached? Or is he still starring in How Brown Is My Valley?

by Anonymousreply 30006/05/2021

I found his Scruff pics. He says "versatle"

by Anonymousreply 30106/05/2021

Niiiice cock!

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Matthew's 6'2"!

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Versatile! Condoms! PrEP!

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Coin Slot!

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Amazing ass!

WHY doesn't Matthew have a boyfriend?

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Cock 'n' Balls!

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[quote] For someone who tries to telegraph introspection and intelligence he has the vocabulary of a 13 year old girl.

I must object. I teach 13-17 year old girls, and almost none of them sound that vapid.

by Anonymousreply 30806/05/2021

Well well Miss Mathew is all out there on the web.

by Anonymousreply 30906/05/2021

R237, have a read up on what the real Mother Teresa was like and you'll soon see that crucifixion was too good for her.

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by Anonymousreply 31106/05/2021

I have no ideal who this person is, but after reading about three replies I know enough to fucking hate him.

by Anonymousreply 31206/05/2021

If I could, I would go take a big dump on Mother Teresa's grave. That bitch wasn't playing.

by Anonymousreply 31306/05/2021

Albanians are are all sociopaths.

by Anonymousreply 31406/05/2021

That level of coiffed suggests to me someone who values the wrong things too much or is, at heart, massively insecure.

Neither seem to me helpful qualities in a therapist.

by Anonymousreply 31506/06/2021

Do y'all think the was really Matthew posting here?

Have our comments been what's stopped him from Instagramming every day like he used to?

by Anonymousreply 31606/06/2021

If it was him, why should it deter him? He's surely self confident enough to arm chair flame throwing like this.

by Anonymousreply 31706/06/2021

That's the point: he's very insecure.

He worships OPRAH, of all people. He's a Frau.

by Anonymousreply 31806/06/2021

He worships Oprah? OK, that explains perfectly why he did that show on 'black mental health', just days after Meghan's interview with her.

Does he even have black friends in his friends' or social circle?

by Anonymousreply 31906/06/2021

R319 I’m sure he has a pride post waiting in the wings featuring some darker skinned non white acquaintance for just that purpose

by Anonymousreply 32006/06/2021

Matthew's website for all of your gay therapy needs.

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The question is - has he topped Kyle Krieger or Tyler Oakley?

I feel like while Matthew talks about "no hangups about race/masc/fem" and "it's a rainbow of love" he only plays with muscly white influencers who's IG has the verified blue check mark.

by Anonymousreply 32206/06/2021

He hasn't done a new video for his YouTube channel in a year.


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No new Tweets since November 26, 2020.

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If he's not being validated from his social media postings, then what is he really doing with his life?

I can't imagine his "practice" is full of patients....

by Anonymousreply 32506/06/2021

I would really like for someone who's had him to weigh in on this thread.

by Anonymousreply 32606/06/2021

As a trans Asian and former Caucasian, I mourn the loss of being able to be his friend or in a selfie with him.

by Anonymousreply 32706/06/2021

I wonder if he ever tops. He does have a nice cock even though I usually prefer foreskin

by Anonymousreply 32806/06/2021

I rarely eat ass because I don't generally like the aesthetics, but I would munch that.

by Anonymousreply 32906/06/2021

It’s a very expressive hole!

by Anonymousreply 33006/06/2021

It should be, R330 --- it has a masters in psych and can articulate it's feelings.

by Anonymousreply 33106/06/2021

R331 - yes, that hole has been to therapy

by Anonymousreply 33206/06/2021

" queer people..."


by Anonymousreply 33306/06/2021

Can we sign a petition for his permie sosche meadie breakie? Then burn that shirt at #323?

by Anonymousreply 33406/06/2021

The racist at R334 posted this today:

[quote]Despite All The Focus On and Adoration of Black People... When they're not denigrating whiteness they're canonizing thugs (Jawj Flawd).

by Anonymousreply 33506/07/2021

I want more episodes of his YouTube series, "Me, A Sandwich and Some Mediocre Gay Person I'd Never Talk To In Front of My Friends".

by Anonymousreply 33606/07/2021

This is it--I just gave it a more accurate name

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[quote]For the cost of two sandwiches, I sit down picnic style and offer up my brand of queer psychotherapeutic guidance to those struggling within the LGBTQ community and beyond. Coming out, religion, dating, jealousy, sex, and body image are just some of the issues we tackle with raw vulnerability and a glimmer of hope for anyone who can relate.

Yes, "queer psychotherapeutic guidance."

by Anonymousreply 33806/07/2021

#335 has posted on this particular thread over 60 times. He's either Matthew, or deeply disturbed (or both).

by Anonymousreply 33906/07/2021

R339 Troll.

by Anonymousreply 34006/07/2021

Do any of the Los Angeles DLers know who he's actually dated? I'm interested to know what his type is.

by Anonymousreply 34106/07/2021

I’m a fat gay guy with intimacy issues and a tendency towards depression. Is Dr Dempsey the correct doc for me?

by Anonymousreply 34206/07/2021

No, you get a referral no a non-pretty privilege therapist.

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by Anonymousreply 34406/07/2021

Matthew used to date Kyle Krieger. Why is that not surprising in the least?

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Columbia University (Teachers College, mind) ought to rescind MJD’s graduate degrees for offenses against good diction.

by Anonymousreply 34606/07/2021

This gay bus driver could use Matthew's ministrations.

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Or should he visit "Dr." Jake?

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There's a lot of needy there.

by Anonymousreply 34906/08/2021

R349 there's a video for that!

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Kyle Krieger looks Asian —or is that Botox?

by Anonymousreply 35106/08/2021

Whatever it is, it’s unfortunate.

by Anonymousreply 35206/08/2021

Now I see why they broke up--only one queen to a castle

How do you listen to someone with this kind of speech pattern for longer than 5 min without wanting to off yourself?

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Matthew's too good-looking to ever be dumped.

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<- resting bitch face

by Anonymousreply 35506/09/2021

R345 Miss Dempsey makes a joke in that video about sticking in "just three fingers" and Kyle laughs a little TOO hard at that joke.

I guess that explains why Matthew has a tight coin slot, huh?

by Anonymousreply 35606/09/2021

His gaze and smile scream PAY ATTENTION TO ME!!!

by Anonymousreply 35706/09/2021

His brown eye winked at me!

by Anonymousreply 35806/09/2021

R354, I’m sure he’s been cum dumped before.

by Anonymousreply 35906/09/2021

R359 haven’t we all, sweetie.

by Anonymousreply 36006/09/2021

From six years ago: Gay Men and Bottom Shaming.

Wow, Matthew was SO hot!!!!!

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[quote] Took a lil sosche meed breakie and happy to see you’s. Heart’s recharged ...

Sounds illiterate.

by Anonymousreply 36206/12/2021

Is his hair “store bought”... looks like my hair dresser’s wig.

by Anonymousreply 36306/12/2021

I can't stand this guy, but I have an intense desire to fuck him. What is wrong with me?

by Anonymousreply 36406/13/2021

[quote]"I’m starting to feel it. Grateful for all the warriors of love out there."

Warriors of love? (snort). Who said it?

Matthew Dempsey, or Tommy DiDario?

by Anonymousreply 36506/13/2021

Feels like he has committed every issue of O Magazine to memory

by Anonymousreply 36606/13/2021

Kyle Krieger is actually a sweet, harmless guy. I used to know him a bit and he was not a perp, or self-impressed and was super friendly to all. Still, that voice. I would send him to a vocal coach and pay for it myself!

by Anonymousreply 36706/13/2021

That’s cool—his scene queen dialect is awful, though. I wouldn’t be able to listen to him speak unless I had to. How/why do some gay guys start talking like that?

by Anonymousreply 36806/13/2021

[quote]How/why do some gay guys start talking like that?

They were "assigned gay at birth"!

by Anonymousreply 36906/13/2021

Hold me, Jiffy Pop

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In 5 years, he'll become a caricature of himself. He's heading there already.

by Anonymousreply 37106/13/2021

Lmao, this guy looks like a cheap Wish parody of a masc man. Like, if you close your eyes and don't look at his head and you put cotton in your ears, you might just achieve the illusion that you're with a man and not a screaming, inbred queen.

by Anonymousreply 37206/13/2021

I live in LA and ALMOST want to sign up for a therapy session with him just to see what he's like in person.


by Anonymousreply 37306/14/2021

Fuck him and report back, r373! Enquiring minds need to know!

by Anonymousreply 37406/14/2021

Did he get his Covid vaccinachie?

by Anonymousreply 37506/14/2021

I'm sure he was upset he didn't think up the term "Fauchi ouchie" first, R375.

by Anonymousreply 37606/14/2021

BACK from his latest Soshe Meed Breakie!

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"What do you want to be when you grow up?"

"Kind," said the boy.

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R378 I'll bet $10 that shirt turns into a titty slip, deep side scoop gym tank by the end of the week.

by Anonymousreply 37906/15/2021

He’s a cute guy—too sceney for my taste, but I think he genuinely means well.

by Anonymousreply 38006/15/2021

R380–I think you are right. I think he just triggers a lot of BS monitors and wounds amongst those familiar with the gay demographic he is in—and DL has burned him in effigy for it. I think it’s time to give him a break. He has a right to be who he is.

by Anonymousreply 38106/15/2021

R380 and R381 - he brought a lot of this on himself. Remember this disaster?

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I don't have time for conventionally attractive, cis-gender white men to faux lament about their privilege as an attempt to be woke.

I'd rather he be a straight up, unapologetic narcissist. At least he would own his bullshit that way.

by Anonymousreply 38306/16/2021

I’ve caught myself in primarily gay male environments (and not necessarily bars) internalizing that my social value is determined by how attractive I am or am not considered. You can see how other gay men “rank” you by the way you are engaged, if they engage you at all.

That is why a lot of men find it galling for someone who is obviously very attractive discussing pretty privilege, especially when he probably haven’t ever had to deal with how truly corrosive it can be. Sure, he’s probably been rejected, but that’s like a person whose credit card got declined at a restaurant comparing themselves to someone who has gone hungry. And when you look at his social media, it comes across as hypocritical and tone deaf.

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I don't give a fuck about his appearance.

My problem with him is that he seems unprofessional, unconvincing, and generally a bad representation of the psychotherapeutic profession. Frankly, he comes across as a charlatan. Going the 'influencer' route is not conductive for keeping the correct professional distance from your clients/patients at all.

Also--and I admit that I'm not too familiar with the American licensing process--he doesn't even seem to be a real psychotherapist from where I stand. In my country, that would require a B.Sc. AND M.Sc. in Psych as well as a 3+ year post-grad education which includes a 1 year residency in a psychiatric clinic as well as a 0.5 year residency in a psychosomatic clinic.

He seems more like a school counselor, which is not the same thing as a professionally trained psychotherapist...

by Anonymousreply 38706/16/2021

R387 you are right—the real problem is he and his pop therapy (not unlike that of Oprah and Dr Phil) have been given credibility it doesn’t deserve. That explains the glaring incongruity.

by Anonymousreply 38806/16/2021

^ they don’t

by Anonymousreply 38906/16/2021

As a professional, I'm still struggling to square his anus getting its close up.

by Anonymousreply 39006/17/2021

You called, Dr. Wilbur?

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Dr., you've this pursed lips expression. I'm just trying to share my feelings!

by Anonymousreply 39206/17/2021

You seem tense, like you’re holding something back….lol

Can you get Botox for a booty hole?

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You'd think someone smart of enough to guide other people in solving their life problems, a fairly sensitive task, would also figure if they are a social media marketer that their nudes might draw particular attention, that there is less of a dividing line between the public and the private. And then avoid that. Or not. It may be what you wanted. Who can say?

by Anonymousreply 39406/17/2021

I don’t know what you are talking about.

J Toobin

by Anonymousreply 39506/17/2021

Jeffrey Youtoobin

by Anonymousreply 39606/17/2021

OMG... Matthew Dempsey is being confused with Jeffrey Toobin. Call a qualified therapist!!!!

by Anonymousreply 39706/17/2021

He's very pretty, but he seems like an idiot, and the Johnny Bravo hairstyle is ridiculous.

by Anonymousreply 39806/17/2021

Matthew Dempsey is the gay male version of Gretchen Wieners from Mean Girls:

"I'm sorry people are so jealous of me, but I can't help that I'm popular."

by Anonymousreply 39906/17/2021

It bums me out that he's tall and muscular and yet he's just another anxious-to-please bottom wanting to fling his legs up in the air.

by Anonymousreply 40006/17/2021

Fuck! Defacto is back at R400!

Alerting Muriel!

by Anonymousreply 40106/17/2021

His latest hair appears to have been fitted by Lego.

by Anonymousreply 40206/17/2021

I'm not Defacto, r401.

by Anonymousreply 40306/17/2021

r403 r400 is definitely not Defuncto. Ignore-dar revealed that he shrieked "SOAP THREAD!" somewhere, and Defuncto is a huge fan of the Procter & Gamble shows. HUGE!

by Anonymousreply 40406/17/2021

He's whining about Matthew Dempsey being a bottom, which is exactly what Defacto did.


by Anonymousreply 40506/17/2021

Just what we all need...bumper sticker therapy:

[quote] "We've all got our shit, we've all got stuff going on..."

What words of wisdom!

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by Anonymousreply 40606/17/2021

He's a living human that manages to induce the "Uncanny Valley" effect where something is creepy because it looks almost human but you know it's not real.

by Anonymousreply 40706/17/2021

Someone needs to tell him that praying at the altar of Oprah does not qualify him to be a therapist. And yes, I know he has a "degree".

by Anonymousreply 40806/17/2021

Coinslot Dempsey

by Anonymousreply 40906/17/2021

Is that technically a coin slot?

by Anonymousreply 41006/18/2021

I would like to know where he gets his sack and crack wax. They seem to do good work.

by Anonymousreply 411Last Sunday at 12:09 PM

I don't know what his license means or where he got it.

by Anonymousreply 412Last Sunday at 2:48 PM

R411, He gives his housekeeper, Ermalinda, an extra $20 to do it for him.

by Anonymousreply 413Last Sunday at 3:59 PM
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