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Sean Cody’s JAX

He was so hot. He could have become wealthy if he’d played his cards right. What happened?!

Jeeze, what a waste.

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by Anonymousreply 81September 15, 2021 4:48 PM

He stayed in Oklahoma and didn’t get serious about exploiting the opportunities just waiting for him.

He should have stayed ripped AF, moved to LA, done high-end escorting, and landed a billionaire for a few years. If I had his looks, that’d be my plan.

All that potential... 😩

by Anonymousreply 1February 25, 2021 7:52 AM

He should have stayed blond and gotten very blue contacts. I hate seeing wasted hotness.

He didn’t manage his brand like his life depended on it. Ugh.

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by Anonymousreply 2February 25, 2021 7:54 AM

From the looks of his latest video, the Pandemic and home sheltering got to him.

He has a doughy physique now and went for many months without an update on Sean Cody. There's only so much you can do during these times, especially when you don't live near the studio.

by Anonymousreply 3February 25, 2021 7:55 AM

Anyone belong to his OnlyFans?

I heard it's just solos with jerkoff and dildos.

by Anonymousreply 4February 25, 2021 7:56 AM

Moving to LA is for guys exactly like him. That’s the whole point: leverage your fleeting hotness to make money. He lacked decent mentors.

He could still do it, but he’s got to commit. And he shouldn’t do any more videos until he gets ripped again.

by Anonymousreply 5February 25, 2021 7:59 AM

He needs to remove the tattoos as well. Become every older gay guy’s fantasy.

Willis had “it” as well but wasn’t smart enough to make the most of it. Now he’s lost his looks and teaches something like Crossfit in some small town.

My loins ache for both of them. I need to fuck my pillow now.

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by Anonymousreply 6February 25, 2021 8:07 AM

Cards, he barely has clothes, unless we’re talking the Black Amex and Chase Sapphire Reserve he has from his sugar daddies?

by Anonymousreply 7February 25, 2021 9:10 AM

Post a recent photo.

by Anonymousreply 8February 25, 2021 10:16 AM

I think he was in legal troubles and also fought for visitation rights for his kid (took his kid's name for his porn persona ... yikes!). Working in the gay porn industry didn't help him much in court, I assume. So it was difficult to fully commit which limited his options.

by Anonymousreply 9February 25, 2021 10:38 AM

He's in a new Men.com scene where he fucks Joey Mills in a subway car 🤮 In addition to looking out of shape...I saw a pic where he's sitting bare assed on a subway seat. The thought alone makes my ass shudder.

by Anonymousreply 10February 25, 2021 11:06 AM

You are mistaken r6. Willis did try the whole escorting thing. He was even on a high class escorting site. His downfall came because of the Burns/SC scandal. He was out of public face ever since.

by Anonymousreply 11February 25, 2021 1:01 PM

Btw Jax now goes by Jax Hayes which is basically the real full name of his son. Going to be awkward for him in the future.

by Anonymousreply 12February 25, 2021 1:03 PM

That's not an actual NYC subway car R10--NYC subway seats aren't perforated like that.

Just something they got from a prop house.

by Anonymousreply 13February 25, 2021 1:11 PM

Agree that Jax could have had a bigger career-- he is model handsome and had actually been a model--I suspect he is too brawny to have had major success.

He was escorting in OKC or Tulsa, according to an earlier DL thread anyway.

It seems he was indeed in a custody battle and somehow thought doing gay porn and putting up a listing on a public escort site was a good way to get money for lawyers for that suit.

He has a bunch of homemade OnlyFans where he fucks himself with dildos of varying sizes.

Curious thing about him is that there are a few videos of him (the SC one with Josh) where he sucks cock and seems to get into it. He may be faking it, but he's enthusiastic about it and technique is good versus some of the "straight" boys they have who look as if the penis might rear up and strike them.

Men just poached Jax and Archie from SC it seems, their two star performers.

Blow job scene is at around 06:45


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by Anonymousreply 14February 25, 2021 1:18 PM

R11, oh believe me I know — Planet Jockboys was the “high end” site. I saw him a couple times: first when he was in a house in the Pacific Palisades, and twice again when he was at the Viceroy in Santa Monica.

My point is he ruined things because he gained a terrible reputation as a grifter/petty thief. And yes the Burns thing was a big deal. But he should have been far more discreet —seeing very wealthy men one-on-one instead of helping Brank recruit guys (e.g., Justin G.), participating in Burns’s orgies, etc.

by Anonymousreply 15February 25, 2021 1:27 PM

A lot of people from somewhat...what's the word... backgrounds not rooted in first-tier cities on the coasts ... aren't quite aware of the angles for upward mobility through sex out there.

They don't know about the opportunities out there related to sex, managing their looks, relocating, etc. They understand (or come to understand) "escorting" for like $400/hour max, but they don't know about the higher-level opportunities out there, never mind how to pursue them (e.g., dipping a toe in the "modeling" waters, carefully managing one's look and overall brand, discretion (no ads), etc.

That said, IG has made some of them quite aware of what's out there, and the smarter ones are consciously developing careers that could lead to long-term companionship gigs and serious money.

Jax is 6'3" and his cock is 9". Jesus. Imagine what he'd be like cleaned-up (blond, no ink, bright fake blue eyes as above), with his mouth largely shut (no goofy Oklahoma accent coming out in loud bursts all the time), and dressed in Ralph Lauren.

You know of at least one superyacht-loving billionaire who would have been on him, giving him at least a few years of crazy luxury and at least a high-end real estate gig after.

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by Anonymousreply 16February 25, 2021 2:09 PM

His old ad. Contact doesn't work.

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by Anonymousreply 17February 25, 2021 2:18 PM

What's wrong with you r10? He looks fine, he never had an amazing body in the first place.

by Anonymousreply 18February 25, 2021 2:39 PM

OTOH, R16, if his goal was to raise enough money to keep visitation rights with his kid, then he probably didn't want to leave Oklahoma.

Not even for Dallas.

by Anonymousreply 19February 25, 2021 2:42 PM

Such a beautiful jock dick.

by Anonymousreply 20February 25, 2021 2:45 PM

[quote] he probably didn't want to leave Oklahoma.

That was his first mistake. Let the mother take care of the kid, get visitation after you make a lot of money and/or get a veneer of privilege by hooking up with a billionaire.

by Anonymousreply 21February 25, 2021 2:48 PM

Who’s in contact with him? Someone here surely.

by Anonymousreply 22February 25, 2021 7:24 PM

[quote] Let the mother take care of the kid, get visitation after you make a lot of money and/or get a veneer of privilege by hooking up with a billionaire.

He could've pulled a "Karl Lagerfeld" and weasel his way into some rich old gay man's graces and then convince his kid's mom that it would be beneficial for them to use the kid to emotionally manipulate the old rich fool to leave everything he has, or at least part of it, to the kid.

by Anonymousreply 23February 25, 2021 7:32 PM

I really wish he’d get it together and get a good mentor.

by Anonymousreply 24February 26, 2021 6:49 PM

The Men.com video with Joey Mills was comically bad.

Jax must not have been hard for several of the scenes because the camera was above the waist the whole time

Too bad because he did actually seem to get hard for his last two SeanCody scenes.

by Anonymousreply 25February 27, 2021 12:45 PM

Re: Willis

He seemed to come from a family of grifters. Also, he had a weird (incestuous?) relationship with his sister, whose name is tattooed on his side (combined with his).

by Anonymousreply 26February 27, 2021 12:55 PM


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by Anonymousreply 27March 11, 2021 9:07 AM


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by Anonymousreply 28March 11, 2021 9:12 AM

Why would these guys be smart when they're likely using?

by Anonymousreply 29March 11, 2021 9:22 AM

They have done a part 2 of the Subway sex series this time featuring Asher from Sean Cody and Adrian Hart and a part 3 with Kyle Connors, Michael Boston and Chris Damned r25.

by Anonymousreply 30March 11, 2021 9:25 AM

They probably need to get money back on that prop. It must of cost them a lot to hire it.

by Anonymousreply 31March 11, 2021 9:29 AM

Yikes the nipples are way too small for me. It’s a shame because he’s cute otherwise.

by Anonymousreply 32March 11, 2021 11:39 AM

He looks damn good to me. Not perfect but there is a pandemic and he's a breeder. Fathers almost always give up. He could still pick up a benefactor. SC Ryan was jealous of Jarek for ruining a damn good deal with burns. Ryan suffers from mental health issues, I swear he has cut marks on his arm, and had to quit his serving job because guys kept hitting on him. He would have been more than happy to be a kept "straight" man. I believe his father had heath issues which added to his desperation for money.

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by Anonymousreply 33March 11, 2021 2:41 PM

He has an OF's account which easily can pull in 2-6k per month. I'm sure he is just fine and that Men.com scene could be old. OF is going to cripple the porn industry since so many guys turned to that making a hell of a lot more money with no travel, sucking, or fucking.

by Anonymousreply 34March 11, 2021 2:43 PM

r26 Willis is a crossfit instructor now. Wonder if he messes around locally on the DL?

by Anonymousreply 35March 11, 2021 5:13 PM

The big paydays for OF are leveling all now that the market is overly-saturated. I follow a few guys who once bragged about making thousands of dollars a week, and now they're literally begging for tips and referrals. Also, subscription rates that were high are coming down, and formerly free accounts are becoming paid.

COVID restrictions aren't helping matters for people who used to rely on producing OF content exclusively.

by Anonymousreply 36March 11, 2021 5:47 PM

R33, is that twink in the photos Ryan?

by Anonymousreply 37March 11, 2021 5:52 PM

Is Ryan the shorter bottom with the very long ass crack?

by Anonymousreply 38March 11, 2021 7:11 PM

Yes, R38.

He had won a directing competition as a student, and I thought he had gone back to behind-the-camera work after leaving porn. Surprised to hear he was bitter about losing out on a side-gig working Don Burns parties.

by Anonymousreply 39March 11, 2021 7:15 PM

Ryan and Jarek. This is Jarek's best look ever. This one and the one with Troy.

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by Anonymousreply 40March 11, 2021 7:32 PM

He screwed up in a passive way, whereas Jarek had a good thing going and actively screwed it up, right?

by Anonymousreply 41March 11, 2021 7:35 PM

[quote] He would have been more than happy to be a kept "straight" man. I believe his father had heath issues which added to his desperation for money.

R33, which one are you talking about here? TIA.

by Anonymousreply 42March 11, 2021 7:36 PM

The best part of Jarek with Troy: right when Troy is cumming, they show Jarek keep fucking him, and I swear it looks like Jarek gets a "pump" and his chest and arms swell up. It's very, very hot.

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by Anonymousreply 43March 11, 2021 7:41 PM

[quote] SC Ryan was jealous of Jarek for ruining a damn good deal with burns.

Sorry, but I don't understand. Ryan insisted he was never hired by Burns, because Burns was into gay4pay guys and Ryan was openly gay from the start. What sort of deal would Ryan and Burns have had that Jared ruined? Or how did he benefit from a deal Burns and Jarek had?

by Anonymousreply 44March 11, 2021 8:01 PM

r42 the first statement was about Jax, the second statement (which you quoted) is actually about SC's Randy. Got my R-names all mixed up and said Ryan. Randy was the one jealous of Jarek's crazy good deal with Burns, that Jarek foolishly ruined. Randy is also the one with the sick dad, bouts of homelessness between SC shoots (live out of his car for a bit), mental health issues, and a former server that had to leave his job due to the attention from porn. He says that bottoming is really painful for him, despite the lube and dildo stretching. He maintains that he's straight but would have jumped at the chance to be Burn's kept boy.

Th fact that he hates bottoming makes his bottoming scenes so so so much hotter.

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by Anonymousreply 45March 11, 2021 10:58 PM

Does he shave to make it look bigger?

by Anonymousreply 46March 11, 2021 11:35 PM

His porn name is his son's full first & last name. Going to be awkward for Jax Jr once he hits adolesence.

by Anonymousreply 47March 12, 2021 2:02 AM

r39 I think he was pimping out Twinks. Despite what SC shows him as he's actually a top. I remember he post clips on him smashing twinks on twitter.

by Anonymousreply 48March 12, 2021 2:04 AM

New scene. He's looking rough.

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by Anonymousreply 49April 13, 2021 12:39 AM

Ginger-adjacent, no?

by Anonymousreply 50April 13, 2021 2:17 AM

Why was he relegated to working for Men.com? He hasn’t done that many SC scenes.

by Anonymousreply 51April 13, 2021 9:02 AM

His nutsack looks weird.

by Anonymousreply 52April 13, 2021 9:18 AM

R51, he lost his youthful clean-cut look. He now looks rough, his abs are flab, and he kinda looks like he was put away wet (but not yet rode hard). He's no longer in the Sean Cody wheelhouse.

by Anonymousreply 53April 13, 2021 2:48 PM

Such a quick decline. He was the hottest on the site and now ... Sean is similar: he got chunky.

by Anonymousreply 54April 13, 2021 2:50 PM

Meh. Big dick and nice body for sure, but in what godforsaken part of flyoverstan would that face be considered 'model handsome'?

by Anonymousreply 55April 13, 2021 3:22 PM

I have to give Sean Cody (even after they got bought by MindGeek) credit for making these models look hot and high end. Without the Sean Cody porn shoot treatment some of these guys look, well, rough and very unpolished.

by Anonymousreply 56April 13, 2021 3:57 PM

Jax’s decline reminds me of the time Kris Monroe pretended to be a model in decline in order to nab a pervy serial killer. Maybe he is secretly one of Toni’s Boys!

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by Anonymousreply 57April 13, 2021 4:15 PM

Marry me R57

by Anonymousreply 58April 13, 2021 8:07 PM

R55, his face was handsome in his first video or two, back when he was blond. Not so much now.

by Anonymousreply 59April 13, 2021 11:34 PM

He used to be hot, even after he dropped the blond. I mean, compare and contrast this photo with what he looks like now:

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by Anonymousreply 60April 14, 2021 1:39 PM

That photo is a wee bit shopped, r60.

by Anonymousreply 61April 14, 2021 3:01 PM

Is Jax the Armie Hammer of gay porn?

by Anonymousreply 62April 14, 2021 4:59 PM

He's getting out of shape, and looking like he's suffering the ravages of drug-use.

by Anonymousreply 63April 25, 2021 10:45 PM

He used to look like this:

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by Anonymousreply 64May 8, 2021 4:51 PM

I'm surprised that Men.com didn't try doing a CMBYN parody with Jax and one of their recently acquired twinks r62.

by Anonymousreply 65June 8, 2021 7:44 AM

[quote] He's getting out of shape, and looking like he's suffering the ravages of drug-use.

I imagine not all porn stars live in a fancy mansion with their own private gym that comes with a personal trainer and a chef cooking them healthy dinners during the pandemic.

by Anonymousreply 66June 8, 2021 9:10 AM

David is so much hotter than Jax.

by Anonymousreply 67June 8, 2021 9:43 AM

Didn't SC just put a new scene with Jax up a couple of weeks ago? Jax and Bentley

by Anonymousreply 68June 8, 2021 10:13 AM

I recently discovered Jax, and since I liked his look now (not being aware of how he looked years ago) I watched a few of his videos. I have to say, they did nothing for me and I gave up out of boredom. Still think he's handsome, but there's no spark.

by Anonymousreply 69June 8, 2021 11:50 AM

Many guys in porn nowadays are handsome with a big dick. So what? That is kinda expected. That is no guarantee of success. You gotta have charisma. I've not seen his movies nor would I because he looks boring as fuck.

by Anonymousreply 70June 8, 2021 6:38 PM

44 scenes. Wow.

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by Anonymousreply 71September 10, 2021 6:37 PM

I think I reached the age where I just find porn stars depressing and wish them the best, no matter how hot/handsome they are.

by Anonymousreply 72September 13, 2021 1:47 PM

He started off hot and handsome, but he went downhill faster than most. I'm guessing drugs.

by Anonymousreply 73September 13, 2021 3:05 PM

Two things:

1) Lots of people I know gained weight or became less in shape during the shutdown--it's not necessarily a sign of drug use (although God knows porn performers are prone to that). He could just have been depressed and ate his feelings, or had trouble getting access to a gym, or all kinds of things. I've not counted anyone out (in porn or the real world) for gaining weight these last 18 years or falling out of shape.

2) Only on Datalounge would people worry that a gay porn star was not being opportunistic enough in his whoring career.

Sean Cody has produced some of the most talked-about and sought-after porn stars of the last ten years, including Stu and Brandon and Deacon and Shaw, and yet none of them (that I know of) was able to parlay his porn fame into a high-end escorting / kept boy career for billionaires.

by Anonymousreply 74September 13, 2021 3:18 PM

Which gay porn stars HAVE been able to parlay their porn careers into escorting for billionaires and then into high-end real estate jobs, as suggested above?

Joey Stefano was an escort and kept boy for a year for David Geffen, but he certainly didn't get much money out of that since he went right back to porn. Nor did Nick Gruber seem to get much money for being Calvin Klein's kept boy, since after leaving Klein he kept escorting for other, less famous wealthy clients. I never figured out how much money Harry Louis got out of Marc Jacobs, but since he left porn (and escorting, for all i know) it must have been enough to keep him on his feet.

Who else?

by Anonymousreply 75September 13, 2021 3:35 PM

R74 The majority of guys were “DL” with it. Only Brandon could have really propelled himself into something more but he didn’t have the brains. Ashton I believe was the only one who got close with networking capabilities with the rich and being a reality star/influencer but it seems he squandered that too.

by Anonymousreply 76September 14, 2021 1:31 PM

R76, he squandered it? What happened?

by Anonymousreply 77September 14, 2021 2:27 PM

He ain't popular.

by Anonymousreply 78September 14, 2021 3:40 PM

If you had brains, why would you be a porn star to begin with?

by Anonymousreply 79September 14, 2021 3:46 PM

You delusional queens who think there's a billionaire for every porn star are pathetic.

Declaring a hot person a failure just because he didn't become "Geffen's toy boy" or climb some social ladder can also go fuck yourselves. Hot people are a quarter a dozen and there's no shame in retiring and taking a normal job.

Plenty of Sean Cody models and other porn stars do get hired and used by rich homosexuals. The Don Burns scandal exposed that plenty of guys were successful where Brandon wasn't because Brandon "IS NOT A PROSTATUTE."

But most of these men would be pump-and-dumps or transitory employees, not keepers.

I would much rather be middle class and not famous at all than be "Geffen's toy boy." YECCHH, give me a break!

by Anonymousreply 80September 14, 2021 4:44 PM

Why so angry, R80?

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