How do you get over someone?

(no subject) J john adams to me 1 minute agoDetails I thought this may be the best place to post it. Recently, I was introduced to a guy via a coworker. The coworker knew his parents and his parents gave my number to him. Right off the bat, there were signs that the relationship may be doomed since he would not even text me, so I had to ask for his number and text him first. From the start, I asked him out on a date. We had exchanged photos and I was dissatisfied with his. He looked like someone’s dad in the most unattractive way possible—don’t get me wrong, the older the better for me; I especially like men in their fifties particularly ones in positions of power. At this point in my life, I’ve had enough dating experience to know that pictures do not always capture the true person. Some people look better, some look worse. However, he refused citing COVID and school as the reason. I have to say a little bit about my circumstances. I’m a professional in my mid twenties who has earned 80000 last year. My former date in question was in his late twenties but in school. Okay, legit reasons. He offered to do video or voice, but then later retracted the video offer. I was very reluctant to continue to interact with him given his hesitancy but my cousins who knew about this urged me to continue to communicate with him. So we talked via phone a number of times and texted often for a few weeks. Finally, he agreed to go out on a date. I was very excited and had at this point formed an emotional attachment to him. He was smart, articulate and had a nice voice. His ability to speak was clearly above average and marked. I was very excited to meet him, and wore my best. I even bought new clothes the day before. The date went well. He looked EXACTLY like his photo which was disappointing at first, but as the date wore on, he won me over with his vocal skills. I liked the way his teeth looked when he spoke! Though I did found him to be constantly sighing not concerning to me at the time. I enjoyed myself, and on my way home—I had come from a completely different city to visit him—I texted him about how the date went well, how I had enjoyed it. He did not respond to my remarks on that, but instead focused on me getting home. I tried one last time to get him to comment on how the date went but he didn’t and then it sank in. He didn’t like me, or was dissatisfied with me in some way. I didn’t pass with him. It is my suspicion that most likely he didn’t think I was good-looking enough. I’ve been told again and again by my coworkers that I am a good-looking guy, and many people online remark on my photogenicity. I suspect that my coworkers think I’m handsome because they like me and that I look better in photos than in real life. I was overcome with sadness and thought about all the times we had talked. I sent him one last gif of the Winchesters hugging (he had stopped responding at this point). The next day which has to be something like 12 hours after my last text, he texted that he had fallen asleep—because he wanted to be back. Like the audacity of this guy, how could you possibly sleep for 12 hours? I was like, fuck this arrogant prick and I stopped texting him, erased every trace of him on my social media and also deleted his phone number. I would never go back, because how could you possibly live like this? I resent the time I spent communicating with him, because now a bond has been formed because of the length of time we interacted and I find myself still thinking about him and wondering if he is thinking about me.