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Ex-Con Beats Trans Woman Chyna Carrillo to Death

Gee, who didn't see that coming. Not victim blaming but who in their right mind would date an Ex-Con who went to jail for murdering his ex-partner? Why do Trans people always date the most sketchy dangerous men? At what point do you stop playing the WOK game of "your victim shaming" and take responsibility for the safety of your own life?

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by Anonymousreply 45February 24, 2021 12:10 AM

^^You're^

by Anonymousreply 1February 23, 2021 9:04 PM

Sad. But anyone who dates a guy whose been arrested for a violent crime has a self-destructive streak. They went to jail because they are terrible people.

RIP to her, though. She deserved better. I wish she had seen that before it was too late.

by Anonymousreply 2February 23, 2021 9:12 PM

[quote]Why do Trans people always date the most sketchy dangerous men?

I doubt it's true that ALL trans women date sketchy men, but for the ones who do, I suspect it's the same reason why they transitioned in the first place -- self loathing brought about my mental illness.

by Anonymousreply 3February 23, 2021 9:13 PM

[QUOTE] Police had been called to a home in New Wilmington, where the perpetrator was beating Carillo in the yard with what the police report said was a "blunt object."

[QUOTE]Police ordered Hernández to stop. When he did not, an officer fired a single round, killing him. Carillo was taken to a hospital, where she later died.

What a grisly scene. He was probably tearing chunks of the poor girl’s face off before the cop shot him. And cops are exposed to this stuff on a daily basis. I don’t know how they live with it.

by Anonymousreply 4February 23, 2021 9:17 PM

Bio women also date killer ex-cons, and get killed by them. It's not like it's unheard of.

by Anonymousreply 5February 23, 2021 9:18 PM

Not victim blaming, but let me go ahead and blame the victim!

by Anonymousreply 6February 23, 2021 9:18 PM

[quote] At what point do you stop playing the WOK game of "your victim shaming" and take responsibility for the safety of your own life?

If only you HAD a life, instead of spending 18 hours a day shitposting about trans people

by Anonymousreply 7February 23, 2021 9:20 PM

Don't push too far your dreams are Chyna in your hand.

by Anonymousreply 8February 23, 2021 9:24 PM

Men killing men.

by Anonymousreply 9February 23, 2021 9:29 PM

[quote] At what point do you stop playing the WOK game of "your victim shaming" and take responsibility for the safety of your own life?

What's a WOK? that big pan used for Chinese cooking?

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by Anonymousreply 10February 23, 2021 9:30 PM

^^woke^^

by Anonymousreply 11February 23, 2021 9:32 PM

[quote]If only you HAD a life, instead of spending 18 hours a day shitposting about trans people

If only you had a life and would stop assuming things that you disagree with are some kind of conspiracy.

by Anonymousreply 12February 23, 2021 9:34 PM

How the fuck did this guy only get an 8-10 year sentence for murdering his wife?

by Anonymousreply 13February 23, 2021 9:35 PM

[quote]Why do Trans people always date the most sketchy dangerous men?

They don’t want gay men, they believe themselves to be heterosexual women.

by Anonymousreply 14February 23, 2021 9:40 PM

DL regularly peruses the prison penpal listings.

by Anonymousreply 15February 23, 2021 9:41 PM

There's something wrong with you if you are dating someone who was a murder, straight or gay or trans. I don't get these people who marry someone in prison either.

It's like getting a pet tiger that grows up full size and then one day bites your head off. But oh, don't victim shame.

by Anonymousreply 16February 23, 2021 9:41 PM

Wow, she was beautiful. It isn’t only trans women that date sketchy men. I have a good friend that intends on having a baby with a man that will be released from prison next year (after 14 years in prison for accessory to murder). She dated the guy in high school and he got arrested with a friend in an armed robbery gone wrong, soon after graduation. She has been hurt by every guy that she has ever been with, and really wants a baby. This is a woman with a masters degree and good job...she just has no self esteem and is naive. She has been sending him money for years. She visits me 2-3 times a year. There is no way in HELL that I’m allowing him in my house after he is released. It will probably end our friendship.

by Anonymousreply 17February 23, 2021 9:42 PM

[quote] Not victim blaming

Eh, yeah, you are.

by Anonymousreply 18February 23, 2021 9:42 PM

Yes R15, but through the safety and anonymity of a computer. Not actual hook ups.

by Anonymousreply 19February 23, 2021 9:43 PM

Some time blame is well deserved. Especially when you put yourself in harms way.

by Anonymousreply 20February 23, 2021 9:44 PM

She shouldn't have sent him that birthday cake with the file in it.

by Anonymousreply 21February 23, 2021 9:47 PM

RIP

by Anonymousreply 22February 23, 2021 9:51 PM

I don't want you think I'm generalising so I'll modify my words—

95% of transvestites are either empty-headed, uneducated or foolish.

by Anonymousreply 23February 23, 2021 9:56 PM

[quote]Bio women

This world is too much.

by Anonymousreply 24February 23, 2021 9:57 PM

[quote]Eh, yeah, you are.

You would have zero sympathy for an ex-gay man who was murdered by his wife after she learned he used to be gay. You’d probably be laughing or making fun. Definitely making fun.

by Anonymousreply 25February 23, 2021 9:59 PM

The ex-con's problem was that he had the bad luck to pick bitches who triggered his violent temper. There's still hope for a prison romance.

by Anonymousreply 26February 23, 2021 10:04 PM

The killer probably felt he had ownership of the victim's body if he paid for their silicon breasts.

by Anonymousreply 27February 23, 2021 10:06 PM

The first male friend I ever had who later started to trans took horrible risks dating guys. Had he had a good job, rich family, etc. But he still would pretend he was a street walking trying to pick up straight guys. He had several relationships, all physically abusive, one after another. And the one guy who was actually in love, treated her like gold an wanted to marry her she turned him down. She later got married to another verbally abusive fuck. Although at least it wasn't physical. One thing in common, she lied to all of them about her true gender until long after they got involved.

by Anonymousreply 28February 23, 2021 10:07 PM

The victim was an adherent of Nietzsche's "live dangerously" philosophy and paid the price - at least it was an exciting end that landed in the press. Although she's not around to enjoy the attention....

by Anonymousreply 29February 23, 2021 10:07 PM

[quote]The ex-con's problem was that he had the bad luck to pick bitches who triggered his violent temper. There's still hope for a prison romance.

He's dead so I think it's too late.

by Anonymousreply 30February 23, 2021 10:13 PM

I wonder if r20 would blame a gay man who was killed by a grindr trick

Blaming the victim gives the murderer a free pass. Where is your condemnation for murderers?

by Anonymousreply 31February 23, 2021 10:16 PM

It's not clear that Carrillo knew that this guy was a wife-killer. They had only been seeing each other for a few weeks.

by Anonymousreply 32February 23, 2021 10:17 PM

R14, many gay men don't want gay men, so they date "rough trade"

by Anonymousreply 33February 23, 2021 10:18 PM

R16, instead of victim blaming you should be murderer blaming

When people think the victim "deserved it" they give light sentences to murderers.

by Anonymousreply 34February 23, 2021 10:19 PM

[R30] Dang! Now that is sad!

by Anonymousreply 35February 23, 2021 10:28 PM

My problem with the story is that it's only news to these people if the victim is "trans." Otherwise, fuck them. Seven deaths among a population approaching 330 million doesn't constitute an "epidemic" of trans murders. Carrillo's tragic end gives these activists grist for information war - they don't truly care about this person. Or any of the others.

by Anonymousreply 36February 23, 2021 10:31 PM

Can we switch the victim to Jessica Yaniv? Even though she's Canadian?

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by Anonymousreply 37February 23, 2021 10:33 PM

I wonder if it's the reverse; that sketchy military guys go for transgender women in particular.

Not that porn is the real world, and it's a self selecting group, but many of the amateur vids of transgender women are with military guys.

I always wonder about the chances they are taking. Or worry, really.

by Anonymousreply 38February 23, 2021 10:36 PM

[quote] The victim was an adherent of Nietzsche's "live dangerously" philosophy

Or perhaps, R29, the killer had a large penis?

by Anonymousreply 39February 23, 2021 10:36 PM

The transvestite victim has two unfortunate spots on their face.

by Anonymousreply 40February 23, 2021 10:38 PM

[quote]I wonder if [R20] would blame a gay man who was killed by a grindr trick

Yes, I would. IF HE KNEW HE WAS A MURDER. Stupid people are stupid people. If you run and stand in front of a busy freeway and get hit by a car, you deserve the blame. Inviting a known murder into your home to have sex sound like a bright idea to you?

by Anonymousreply 41February 23, 2021 10:49 PM

[R39] Was it the murder weapon?

by Anonymousreply 42February 23, 2021 10:54 PM

[quote]many gay men don't want gay men, so they date "rough trade"

And these men believe they’re women.

by Anonymousreply 43February 23, 2021 11:46 PM

It’s the “you get what you paid for” syndrome. Date a person who has a history of violence don’t think you’re so special you won’t get your ass beaten a la Chris Brown to Rihanna or worse...

by Anonymousreply 44February 23, 2021 11:50 PM

One word.

Repeat as necessary, ladies.

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by Anonymousreply 45February 24, 2021 12:10 AM
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