I'm fairly cute 5'4" 130 pounds 30 waist, most guys do not feel threatened by me and my size, they're mostly amused, and even when not interested, they'd say thanks for the interest, etc. Just be discreet, civilized, gradual, im not the pushy type,, I've never had a problem with violence or raging outbursts, not ever. I always look in their face, I like a nice face, not a jerk face with issues, its all in the eyes, sensitive eyes speak volumes, it's the window to the soul, a pleasant demeanor and expression, a friendly cordial smile, I like guys with no attitude, attitude means trauma, I don't want that, be polite no matter what happens, I find most guys respond positively to basic human decency and good manners. Pleasant > Hey buddy, can I talk to you a minute? When they're musclebound > You got a body on you, buddy. Refer to them by their attractive feature > Hey, what's going on with you, Blue Eyes? lol they generally smile and engage in conversation, let them do all the talking, guys like talking about themselves, they'll tell you all their exploits, let em talk while you look at them up and down, they know the routine. Again be pleasant and comfortable, if you are uncomfortable, they will be too, know your own comfort zone, do not go where angels fear to tread, don't be vulgar or pornograghic unless they bring it up first and you like that sorta thing, harmless dirty jokes and laughter can be an ice breaker. The moment they ask > You live around here? They're interested, just signaling they need a private place, and go from there. If they express noninterest, just casually move on, make it all very civilized, no problems. I'm in New Orleans Uptown Audubon Park Tulane University area, too many cute guys to look at and watch go by, so many festivals all over the city, so many Options, be discrete, discretion is the finer part of valor. Happy hunting... :-)