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When does middle-age start?

Some people say 40, 45, and 50 so which is it?!?

by Anonymousreply 67July 19, 2022 3:16 AM

Late 30s

by Anonymousreply 1February 13, 2021 8:35 PM

27 is eldergay, so...22?

by Anonymousreply 2February 13, 2021 8:35 PM

Mid 40's

by Anonymousreply 3February 13, 2021 8:37 PM

25ish.

by Anonymousreply 4February 13, 2021 8:37 PM

16

by Anonymousreply 5February 13, 2021 8:38 PM

40.

by Anonymousreply 6February 13, 2021 8:38 PM

40 to retirement or 60 is middle aged.

by Anonymousreply 7February 13, 2021 8:41 PM

23.

by Anonymousreply 8February 13, 2021 8:44 PM

50?

How many people do you know make it to 100?

by Anonymousreply 9February 13, 2021 8:47 PM

Five years older than you are right now.

by Anonymousreply 10February 13, 2021 8:53 PM

Definitely by 40, probably about 38.

by Anonymousreply 11February 13, 2021 9:17 PM

36, DAMMIT!

by Anonymousreply 12February 13, 2021 9:22 PM

40 of course

by Anonymousreply 13February 13, 2021 9:57 PM

My doctor first referred to me as middle-aged when I was 35.

by Anonymousreply 14February 13, 2021 10:13 PM

45 to 65 and then old

by Anonymousreply 15February 13, 2021 10:19 PM

500ish.

by Anonymousreply 16February 13, 2021 10:19 PM

Are the middle age people elder gays then?

by Anonymousreply 17February 13, 2021 10:19 PM

OP, take your age and divide by 2.

by Anonymousreply 18February 13, 2021 10:20 PM

I was informed recently that eldergaydom starts at 30.

by Anonymousreply 19February 13, 2021 10:23 PM

R12, yeah, I threw a fit when I turned 36. I'm such a drama queen!

by Anonymousreply 20February 13, 2021 10:25 PM

I vote 50 is when it just starts.

by Anonymousreply 21February 13, 2021 10:25 PM

40 to 60 Middle age 60 to 80 Old age 80 to 100 Lucky mother fucker.

by Anonymousreply 22February 13, 2021 10:26 PM

The average life expectancy in the US is roughly 78 years. Divide that by 2 and you have your answer.

by Anonymousreply 23February 13, 2021 10:26 PM

60, or whatever age Alexis is.

by Anonymousreply 24February 13, 2021 10:28 PM

Take your age and double it and if it's not a tragedy you are dead its middle aged.

by Anonymousreply 25February 13, 2021 10:29 PM

You don't know until it's over.

by Anonymousreply 26February 13, 2021 10:32 PM

We can all agree that by 40, you have hit middle age. Some say it starts at 35, but that is the earliest. 30-35 is youth's last hurrah.

by Anonymousreply 27February 13, 2021 10:36 PM

I've read 35 and old age starts at 65. I guess your opinion will depend on what age you're at. I was born at forty and felt old at 16.

by Anonymousreply 28February 13, 2021 10:43 PM

95! But of course!

by Anonymousreply 29February 13, 2021 10:46 PM

35-44 is the “not young anymore” category.

After that (up until mid/late 50s) is de facto Middle aged.

by Anonymousreply 30February 13, 2021 10:48 PM

Average age of death in the US is 80 so 40 is the start of middle age.

by Anonymousreply 31February 13, 2021 10:49 PM

[quote] The average life expectancy in the US is roughly 78 years. Divide that by 2 and you have your answer.

And the answer is??

by Anonymousreply 32February 13, 2021 11:07 PM

If you are a good top, eldergaydom is an illusion.

by Anonymousreply 33February 13, 2021 11:13 PM

55 is considered elderly by doctors. go from there.

by Anonymousreply 34February 13, 2021 11:16 PM

12 and a half.

by Anonymousreply 35February 13, 2021 11:19 PM

16, or 18 if it's dark outside (like in a London park)

by Anonymousreply 36February 13, 2021 11:26 PM

30.

by Anonymousreply 37February 13, 2021 11:56 PM

40.

by Anonymousreply 38February 16, 2021 11:31 PM

Whenever it is, you’ll feel it.

by Anonymousreply 39February 16, 2021 11:33 PM

Who's Middle Aged? Never heard of her.

by Anonymousreply 40February 16, 2021 11:36 PM

19, once that hole has been used more than 3 times you're over the hill.

by Anonymousreply 41February 16, 2021 11:39 PM

The life expectancy is about 81 now for humans so divide that by three to even things out...

0-27 = young.

28- 54 middle aged.

55 & over = you're almost toast.

by Anonymousreply 42February 16, 2021 11:40 PM

I'm 31 for bias context.

I think it starts around 30 if you're crazy youth obsessed and can't believe a young adult can't have a wrinkle or gray hair or two. Otherwise its around 35 unless you legitimately keep up a lot of more youthful markers in your appearance and lifestyle. But you're there by 40, unless you're one of those young looking mutants that keep everything as (or more!) youthfully active as in your twenties. So 45 latest. So 35-45 start. I'm 31, I'm not middle aged but I'm starting to feel age, and approaching changes (even if its really quite a while from now). My partner is 34, and while he keeps himself well, I'd probably comfortably start considering him starting mid age within the next few years.

It lasts until a similar range of 55-65. If you're a rapid ager that wrecked yourself and can't do shit about shit in your life anymore, it may as well be seniordom as soon as 55. But if you're a healthy ager that always looks much younger than your age (looking at you Ming Na Wen) and the worst about you is that your injuries take longer to heal and you need a few pills, its up to 65 or so.

So middle age's biggest range is 35-65, with more experiencing is closer to 40-60.

by Anonymousreply 43February 16, 2021 11:49 PM

On Datalounge, at 25

by Anonymousreply 44February 16, 2021 11:50 PM

starting around 39 and ending no later than 45...because 39 x 2 = 78, and 45 x 2= 90. After 45 it's no longer the middle because the extreme likelihood is that you've got more life behind you than ahead of you.

by Anonymousreply 45February 17, 2021 12:00 AM

If you have to ask, you've already hit the wall.

by Anonymousreply 46February 17, 2021 12:07 AM

A week from Friday, OP

by Anonymousreply 47February 17, 2021 12:12 AM

R45 'middle' doesn't mean literal middle. You can have a mid life crisis in your thirties. You can reach a level of senior living and health in your fifties. Its almost as vague as generational differences.

by Anonymousreply 48February 17, 2021 5:19 PM

40...

by Anonymousreply 49February 25, 2022 1:10 AM

I like to think of it as: young 0-30; middle aged 30-60; old 60-90

by Anonymousreply 50February 25, 2022 1:17 AM

Which coincides with your saturn returns exactly

your first saturn return is at 29 - that's when you really become an adult - you're no longer YOUNG and then there's your second saturn return at 59 and that's when old age begins

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by Anonymousreply 51February 25, 2022 1:23 AM

When you declare your major in your freshman year.

by Anonymousreply 52February 25, 2022 2:54 AM

Medically, a woman who is 35 and pregnant will have a “geriatric pregnancy”

by Anonymousreply 53February 25, 2022 3:06 AM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 54April 16, 2022 3:12 AM

I don't know when it starts, but when you start getting the senior's discount without asking it's over 🙄

by Anonymousreply 55April 16, 2022 3:22 AM

Whenever you realize that you are going to die, and most likely whatever you have gotten up to in life will prove to be utterly meaningless after you're gone.

by Anonymousreply 56April 16, 2022 3:53 AM

30.

by Anonymousreply 57April 16, 2022 3:21 PM

60...

by Anonymousreply 58April 17, 2022 8:39 PM

From the Encyclopedia Britannica

middle age, period of human adulthood that immediately precedes the onset of old age. Though the age period that defines middle age is somewhat arbitrary, differing greatly from person to person, it is generally defined as being between the ages of 40 and 60. The physiological and psychological changes experienced by a middle-aged person centre on the gradual decline of physical abilities and the awareness of mortality. In middle age, the relative potencies of past, present, and future are altered as the individual increasingly directs effort to the process of reminiscence and recollection of the past, rather than anticipation of the future. If approached constructively, middle age can prepare an individual for a satisfying and productive old age.

by Anonymousreply 59April 17, 2022 8:45 PM

Childhood ends at puberty. Youth ends at 21. Middle age starts at 30. Old age starts at 60. By all means take care of yourself so you can look and feel young, , but don’t kid yourself, the clock is running as long as you live.

by Anonymousreply 60April 17, 2022 8:48 PM

72...

by Anonymousreply 61July 18, 2022 1:39 AM

Young - 0-30

Middle aged - 30-60

Old - 60+

by Anonymousreply 62July 18, 2022 2:02 AM

The people who insist that middle-age must be exactly half of life expectancy are absurd. By that metric you're young until you're 39 and old as soon as you turn 40.

Middle age is the middle third of your expected life span, not a single year.

by Anonymousreply 63July 18, 2022 8:06 AM

In gay terms:

18-25: Young

26-29: Middle age.

30 until death: Old

by Anonymousreply 64July 18, 2022 11:10 AM

32...

by Anonymousreply 65July 19, 2022 2:51 AM

It starts with a burning desire for a sports car and a hottie half your age and ends when he blows through all your money, steals your sports car and the arrival of your first Social Security check

by Anonymousreply 66July 19, 2022 3:16 AM

“Not a kid anymore” starts at 40

I didn’t feel middle aged until I turned 50.

by Anonymousreply 67July 19, 2022 3:16 AM
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